@@Ladychongqing but of course its hard to know when life comes to the test (aka life threatening situation)...its of course what love should have always been but with modern day factors most people are more about themselves or $ to survive/insurance/good ending/etc - back to your straight point that most Asian females don't want to date 'losers'/what the old white gent is saying...I don't want to date/receive a gold digger either or at least one that don't even Hollywood the entree because surely if you have approved of him through conversation..he definitely can get some diggers if he wants and they definitely won't have the time to laugh at his 'cold jokes'...and would have already moved on for a 'long term rice ticket'.
but if he can manage to do these things he also don't want to date loser/gold digger right...if he is getting it and free that's definitely not loser for male's case just like female just want one who has it and would willingly spend it (and by that is a LOT it)