2nd marriage? | Mardon Ko Dusri Shadi Kiu Karni Chahye? | Dr Tahira Rubab

[@malikfakharabbas4239]

آپس میں جب نکاح کرو اللہ کو گواہ بنا لیا کرو اللہ میاں بیوی کے دل میں محبت ڈال دیتا ہے میاں بیوی اللہ کی پناہ میں آ جاتے ہیں

[@sophiaofficialuk6118]

اللہ تعالی ہم سب مسلمانوں کو صراط مستقیم قرآن اور حدیث پر چلنے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے آمین

[@fawwadshah4858]

آمین آمین آمین بہت پیاری دعا لکھی آپ نے اللہ ہم سبلو عمل کرنے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے آمین آمین آمین ۔

[@saqibwhy604]

Quran aur sunnat per amal kerny ki tofeq ata farmy ameen

[@Adnankhantravelogues]

Aameen

[@1technicalMH]

I and my wife totally different almost 180° out of phase, but Alhamdulil'lah 20 years, we are happy because always we keeps each other face to face 😉.

[@adeel.designer]

When Men & women have different thinking, the marriage life is very good. but when both have same profession and same thinking.. 'Charm' and attraction goes 'die' and endup with divorce...

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Accha?

[@hpspectre5184]

Salute to your English.

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@@adeel.designer hi

[@muhammadsiddique3975]

Excellent. Compliments to Mr. Yasir Janjua and Dr. Tahira Rubab for discussing an important issue in a graceful manner. Stay blessed.

[@syedaliayub1232]

Purity as well as positive approach make the relationship strongest.

[@sophiaofficialuk6118]

دنیا کے واحد عظیم لیڈر جنہوں نے 63 سال عمر پائی اور کبھی جھوٹ نہیں بولا وہ اللہ کے آخری رسول حضرت محمدﷺ ہیں.❤

[@mr.chiefloafer3662]

Kulta

[@hafizubaid7728]

بالکل سچ کہا آپ نے

[@mulananaeemahmadmadni7603]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

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Beshak

[@kaleemfayaz8971]

Agr apne itnay pyaray msg krnay hen to mehrbani kr k apni dp change kren!

[@muhammadali-jy6pn]

Agree with her that mostly men are not evolved in raising up their kids but noticeable is that mostly men are not going with second marriage. Another point is, when mothers are compromising their health and emotions with kids at home meanwhile father are doing the same efforts at work place to protect and maintain his family life standards. Both deserve equal respect and care. Exceptional case studies will be different and not generalize to the entire gender.

[@TheGondal86]

What a brilliant lady she really is

[@ThePaaaraaa]

What a beautiful question by him that 1 cheez jo honi chahiye aur q cheez jo nahi honi chahiye. Aur utna hi beautiful reply from Dr.Sahiba. Thanks a lot.

[@aalishajanat1830]

Assalam-o-alaikum Dr Rubab, It'a an honor to listen to you. I want to do a research and internship in relationship management. Please let me know how to proceed. I want to do with you specifically because I claim that you are the best in this niche.

[@MrAshraf1949]

My marriage was arranged and we had 3 kids but my martial interests were not great as we had nothing in common but I love my daughter and didn't want to grow with divorce family but it was a great mistake.

[@awwwwan]

This is the main reason of our society we suffer and live a miserable life with our partner and don't get any peace in marriage. I don't know how your daughter is growing in this environment?

[@malikfakharabbas4239]

حضور نے فرمایا ماں باپ کو چاہیے اپنے بچوں کی شادی جلد کر دیں تاکہ وہ گناہ گار ہونے سے بچ جائیں

[@MajeedUllah-ng7on]

شادی پر بہت خرچہ ہوتا ہے بھائی جان اسلیئے تو لوگ شادی پسند نہیں کرتے ہیں

[@junaidahmed4679]

@@MajeedUllah-ng7on sadgi se ki jaye to Kam kharche me ho skti hai

[@MajeedUllah-ng7on]

@@junaidahmed4679 yar es dawar ma konse log ha jo apne behen ya baty ka rishtha sadagi sa de ga

[@fawwadshah4858]

کیا خوب کہا آپ نے اس بات کے بہت سے فوائد ہیں

[@adeel.designer]

بچوں کی شادیاں نہی صرف بچی کی شادی ماں باپ کے ذمہ ھوتی ھے۔ مرد جب تک خود مختیار نہی ھوجاتا اور حق مہر دینے کی استطاعت نہی رکھتا اس پر نکاح فرض نہی ھوتا۔۔ اپنی انفارمشن کو سہی کریں پلیز۔۔

[@abdul-azizusmani149]

Dr Rubab is a courageous lady.

[@mmmubeen3878]

She is very Matured, Educated and support Islamic life.

[@yacme]

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[@bhadwamodi8294]

Old married women should also go out and find a young lover like old men to satisfy their sexual needs.

[@mustafawaleed4855]

یاللہ ہمیں فایدے والے علم اور رزق حلال عطاء فرمادے جسسے ہماری زندگی اور آخرت سنور جائے

[@thecopycraft]

PERMISSION FROM 1ST WIFE IS ONLY A LEGAL REQUIREMENT OF THE STATE AND NOT REQUIRED BY SHARIAH - THE ISLAMIC LAW😍

[@faisalshabbir408]

Dr Tahira Rubab the way you explain your views is very realistic, inspiring and motivational.

[@تونشانعزمعالیشانانواراعوان]

جب بندہ انسان کا بچہ ہو تو وہ چار شادیاں بھی کر سکتا ہے جب وہ بندے کا پتر ہی نہیں ہے تو پھر ایک ساتھ ہی نباہ کر لے شادیاں صرف چسکے کے لیے نہیں ساتھ نباہے کے لیے ہوتی ہیں صرف جنسی تعلقات شادیوں کا ایک پہلو ہے اس کے علاوہ بھی اولاد کی پرورش بیوی کے ساتھ اچھا تعلق یہ سب بھی لازمی ہے اور ہاں اجازت لینا شرعی نہیں بلکہ قانونی مسئلہ ہے

[@nadeempasha1350]

very good information to those who r in depression.

[@haqnawaz7752]

Great arguments and answers by Doctor

[@SaifUllah-sh2gk]

ماشاءاللہ جی بہت ہی زبردست باتیں کی ہیں

[@zaramariam7410]

Great .. listen plz . Males ki b kids ki responsibilities dalain Gher main kam wali rakhain biwi ko kam wali bana k bahir charm daikhna hi actual mistake hy. Biwi ko gym parler outing dikhain to extra merital ki zarorat hi na pary .

[@mohdsaqib482]

Biwi se kam se kam kaam karwana chahiye aur biwi ko banne aur sanwarne ka waqt dena chahiye taki biwi khoobsurat dikhe aur biwi ko dekh kar fauran land khada ho jaye

[@ijazawan7865]

Apka comment boht valid hai aur practical b hai. But Dr. Sahiba apk wali baat ko kyun nhi samajhtin

[@muhammadali-jy6pn]

Her answers not contained the complete psychological and factual sense while she's relationship consultant where human psychology is more important than personal opinion.

[@pathfinderpk]

how and from where can we get marriage/divorce/second marriage-related data ?

[@pastime607]

If your partner is not interested in the "marital relationship" and even resist it in a mean way, it proves disastrous for married life.

[@hajiraawan8937]

I think matching of minds is important while choosing a spouse. This leads to a happy marriage.

[@redfordrn]

Good discussion. I live in US and noticed people Pakistani Indian backgrounds are monogamous, and prefer only one wife in 99% of marriages, cultural backage and Hindu cultural assimilations over the centuries. In Arab Muslim countries, having 2 wives is not a big problem, again cultural norms dictate that. Nothing wrong with polygamy, if it reduces negative cultural phenomenon like out of marriage relationships. Men have stronger urges and sometimes it takes multiple wives. If second wife is a widow or not able to get married but wants to be married due to whatever reason, 2nd marriage should be encouraged and preferably with 1st wife's consent.

[@azizsalam8932]

Mardon me extra marital ka zyada rujhaan hota he, chalen maan lete hein lekin jin se wo affairs rakhte hein wo khotiyan nahi aurten hi hoti hein aur unki bhi utni hi ta'daad hoti he jitni mardon ki..tabhi taluq banta he warna mard akela kiya kar sakta he??!!!

[@adildaniyal7917]

"Permission"??, there is no concept or legal binding of "Permission" for taking a second marriage. Its just that you need to inform her

[@yeshonestly4268]

and she can inform you that she is divorcing you, and you pay for kids as it is your responsibility. Then she can get married again, stay alone or with parents or brother. This is her God given right and children are a MAN'S responsibility, remember ?

[@QabilAGhor]

@@yeshonestly4268 lol.

[@gulhassna7908]

So beautiful guidance

[@Jamshaidzubairee]

اجازت والی بات ایسی ہی ہے کہ آپ ایک پرچون کی دوکان کھولنے سے پہلے گلی کے پرانے سارے دوکانداروں سے اجازت لیں.

[@yousufmd5165]

😜😜🤣🤣

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😂😂😂

[@MuahhidAbdulquadeer3807]

Logic hai bhai

[@bilaltahir8614]

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[@khuram5695]

Girl ( is the ultimate sufferer)who is involved in extramarital affairs with a married man Society criticizes that girl but maximally society is getting benefits from that second girl because married men use them & families of married men also want them out of their homes In the end if girls stop extramarital affairs with married men then they will protect themselves or phir alternatively property ka portion pehlay name karwain phir chalay affair

[@umerhayat1590]

What a brilliant lady she is

[@zahidlatif874]

Doctor Sahiba.. with great respect I want to differ from your opinion that there are not all negative reasons, there could be some positive reasons for the polygamy.

[@gdhsed893]

The power of description associated with intelligence. She is way higher in standards.

[@naqashmehra4174]

Madam u doing good work Both kam ki info dayti hai ap logo ko

[@Jamshedac-gf4bh]

Good infromation thank you Doctor Sahiba

[@sadaqathussainvlogs]

V good information 👍👍

[@zahidabbasi5174]

Mashallah, it's a very nice analysis, thanks.

[@Equinox1]

Problem comes with the marriage of people with disabilities they have to suffer a lot in pursuit of their right to get married. All experts on social media and electronic media platforms are talking about normal people they never shed light on this issue of grave concern where huge percentage of population is inflicted with psychological, physical and societal issues when they have any disability.

[@hafizubaid7728]

عدل ضروری ہے دوسری شادی کےلئے لیکن پاکستان میں خوش قسمتی ہے دوسری شادی کی اجازت۔ خوراک آ مدن جسمانی صحت پاکستانی ایک بیوی سنبھال لے یہ بھی بہت ہے۔

[@ishaqshahani8045]

Dr ney sahe samjaya 2 4 aur dr key thara kay insan mil jay to koi b kawara nai jay ga.aur talak wala masla kam ho jay ga.i like dr

[@hamidsayed2112]

Dr sahiba aap pak ki heroine se zyada beauty ho and figure features are wonderful... Keep fit and enthusiastic Love from India ❤

[@samarabbas1304]

Dr tahira Rubab God bless u🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@darmannayyer]

You are an inspiration and model for my daughter. Respect, Love and Regards for you more than words can say!

[@achag9273]

Zabardast video, advice

[@aghasofia]

i realy like the way dr sahiba speaks

[@GagandeepDeep-so5cr]

Ok very thankful 🙏🙏🙏

[@ahmedzahid8163]

Good Talks THANKS

[@imranzakki7849]

Bohat achi btean ki hain❤

[@themotiveeducation4495]

Actually male apni wife ki boht si bad habits bear ker sakta hy but Zuban ni I mean jo wife apny husband k aagy zuban chalati hy without any reasons wo mard kuch na bhi kahy apni zuban se but wo apny ander decide ker leta hy k ya to 2nd marriage of extra marital relation. Ye just 1 reason hy but its also a big reason.

[@nailariaz9689]

Zuban to dusri wife ke b ho ge zuban to phr sath he lgi hti hai na

[@maryumjahan9938]

100%true and I am facing all this

[@trend7756]

مزاج میں سب سےاہم عادت کو اول ترجیح دیتا ضروری ھے جو شادی کے بعد جھگڑے کی بنیاد بنتی ھے وگرنہ ایک دوسرے کو برداشت کرنا مشکل ہوتا ہے

[@shahidkhawaja9950]

دوسری شادی کے لئیے انسان کو جسمانی ذہنی اور معاشی فٹ ھونا چاہیے(سب سے پہلے جسمانی طور پر فٹ ھونا با قی اس کے بعد)

[@Kamran.Khan.i.Love.Travel.]

Belkol

[@noorkhan7866]

HONOURABLE Dr Tahira Rubab sahiba. Thanks for delivering best lecture. I am also searching a lady as life partner as ist marriage has finished

[@kulsoomahmed9131]

You are a lady and you are searching a lady... Oh that's pathetic

[@drweb3]

Multiple wives is one of best living experiences,, for man and women that creates real intimations for all … true experience

[@afzalmuhammad3630]

I concur

[@Aysh_khan_i]

For man only

[@digitalpakistan4183]

GOOD GUIDENCE FOR SECOND MARRIAGE

[@natiquemarne3395]

Assalamualaikum AAP ki baat bilkul sahi hai itni choti Umar me itna tajurba 🫳keep it up ❤

[@FarooqAhmad-vc5hc]

Nice and informative, 💐❤️

[@Seasideboy1]

According to The Shar’ah Muqaddasah, a second, third and fourth Nikah is Absolutely Permissible. The husband does NOT require permission from his first or second or third wife AT ALL! Plurality of wives is THE NORM, and the responsilities are also EXTREMELY IMPORTANT!

[@MDASIF-hx2do]

Ji aap ne questions to pucha aur jawab bhi deya par es jawab se koi bhi Banda kisi nateje par nhi pahunch sakta kyon k es me koi hal hi nhi dee aap ne(north east india )

[@YousafAliRox]

Best doctor ❤

[@darmannayyer]

You're the Daughter of Nation and your knowledge is a National Asset.

[@aslamnadeem52]

مطلب دوسری شادی نہیں؟ ناجائز تعلق بے شک بنائے رکھے کیا ایسا؟

[@taasmr4203]

*Extramarital sexual relationships ki 4th wajah apni biwi aur shohar se dil bhar jana hota hai aur ak jawan mard aur aurat ki shehvat dil mei paitha hoti hai.*

[@Sushil1974]

Murtado ko Jine Do Exmuslim Sahil, Sameer, Adam Seeker Urdu and Zafar Heretic....

[@KnowledgeWalaTheWarner193]

@@Sushil1974 why r you copy pasting this nonsence !!

[@ayan-yt5od]

Absolutely beautiful my favourite only doctor tahira rubab

[@muhammadobaidullahhashmi4334]

Dr hafiz muhammad zubair kehtae hain k agar aap apni pehli bivi sae pareshaan hain tu dusri karkae pareshani m izafa karnae ka koi faida nhi.... Agar aapko is baat ka yaqeen hu k pehli ki moujoudgi m dusri karnae par pehli chourkar chali jaegi tub bhi dusri ka faida nhi q k phir aik wuqt m aapkae paas aik hi rehegi... Dusri wo karae jiska 1st wala experience acha hu

[@chainline8934]

Agree 💯%

[@drsmirshad1234]

Very realistic comments ❤ doctor

[@asadiqbal468]

Mam very well described. Gr8.....

[@aminsofi9928]

Dr Sahiba, what would you describe as sort of universal reasons that ought to weigh in as an important factor for opting for second marriage. On my part, I would pin it down to lack of communication and bedroom incompatibility. In case you may perhaps have other such things in mind, kindly do share. Thanks.

[@anisurrehman-li9zw]

I have two wife very happy all family

[@aricashahid589]

hi are your wife happy and how did u manage to agree first one

[@mmmubeen3878]

Unfortunately, We are not strong Muslim, we are scared to do second marriage. Either we can’t afford or scarred.

[@bhadwamodi8294]

Old married women should also go out and find a young lover like old men to satisfy their sexual needs.

[@MM-lt7zg]

One marriage is more than enough to have a normal life unless you have strong reason to go for a second. I believe it’s your greed for a second one . A women will never accept another women on her . Think b4 jump.

[@ijazawan7865]

If it is so then why this Dr is promoting it inspite of being a lady

[@ubaidrehman2175]

قدرتی طور پر مرد ایک سے زیادہ خواتین کیلئے بنا ھے۔جب خاتون حالت حیض میں ھو تو مرد کیا کرے۔۔۔پھر مرد زیادہ اولاد کا بھی شوقین ھوتا ھے جو ایک خاتون کے بس کی بات نہیں۔۔۔۔

[@AHR671]

There is one more thing that is important and that is religious and political compatibility. When these are poles apart this too create problems in relationship.

[@salmanmoazzam6032]

I agree second marriage lazmi karni Chahiye na k zinah

[@malikfakharabbas4239]

حضور نے فرمایا مرد عورت کا لباس ہے عورت مرد کا لباس ہے ایک دوسرے کا پردہ ہے اور دونوں ایک دوسرے کے بغیر نا مکمل ہے

[@asadsulehri624]

زبردست گفتگو

[@kousaralam7785]

Bohat.accha..in ka. Tazarba..hi...good..job

[@amirfarooq9614]

آج کل عورتیں کیوں باہر تعلقات قائم کر رہی ہیں۔ لڑکیاں اور شادی شدہ دونوں ہی۔ عورتوں میں کب سے فطری طور پر ایک سے زیادہ مردوں کی خواہش پیدا ہو گئی۔ اس کا مجھے جواب چاہیئے اگر تو ہے۔

[@salamathali9437]

The word used by the doctor before " asdavaji zindagi ka disatsifaction hona" is not clear? It appears to be forced life? Please correct me if I am wrong?

[@SanaSaqib-be2lm]

Thank you beautiful doctor ❤️

[@ammarakhtar2319]

مجھے تو ڈاکٹر صاحبہ بہت اچھی لگی ہیں ماشااللّہ

[@abdullahmani5123]

پسندیدگی جانبین سے ہونی چاہئے ورنہ تڑپتے رہو ۔۔یا نسیان کا انجیکشن لگوالو

[@farzanagul6738]

ُہمارے معاشرے میں دوسری شادی از خود وبال بن جاتی ہے جہاں سوال مرد کے دو خاندانوں میں توازن کا آ جاتا ہے ایک گھر میں دو گاڑیاں ہیں تو دوسرے میں بھی دو ہی ہونی چاہیے اور ایک رات ادھر سونا تو دوسری رات اُدھر سونا مرد کی قبولیت نہ ادھر ہوتی ہے نہ اُدھر مرد کا سکون الٹا برباد بہتر یہی ہے کہ سب اپنی اپنی جگہ برداشت کا مظاہرہ کریں اور ایک دوسرے کو تھوڑا ٹائم دے سمجیھں اور خوشگوار زندگی کے مواقع تلاش کریں

[@amirfarooq9614]

آج کل عورتیں کیوں باہر تعلقات قائم کر رہی ہیں۔ لڑکیاں اور شادی شدہ دونوں ہی۔ عورتوں میں کب سے فطری طور پر ایک سے زیادہ مردوں کی خواہش پیدا ہو گئی۔ اس کا مجھے جواب چاہیئے اگر تو ہے۔

[@istikharahmed6229]

Masahallah 💐💐💐💐😍😍😍😍

[@hamzaiqbal4137]

Audio kharab ho gai hy orignal add kr ty to zeada behtar hoti.

[@27061910]

Marvellous 😊

[@malikfakharabbas4239]

جنات حضور کے پاس آئے ہمیں بھی شادی کی اجازت دے

[@91099Babar]

Tell me the name of your Med. College from where you have got Degree ?

[@TariqJoiyavlogs]

Q Karni chahiye??

[@Moonlightcrystalcreations]

What about the women? Jab apas me companionship nahi to Mard ko to 3 aur mil jayengi, Aurat kahan jaye for companionship? Woh sirf Maa to nahi hai, she also needs a friend and companion.

[@ajnabi..8511]

love you Dr Tahira Rubab

[@abkh5780]

جو مسائل یہاں بیان کیۓ گۓ ہیں ان کا حل اسلام نے بھی بتا دیا ہؤا ہے۔ مرد اور عورت کیلیۓ انکی حدود متعین کر دی گئ ہیں۔ یہاں غیر ازدواجی تعلقات کو ایک عام رجحان کے طور پر بیان کیا گیا ہے مگر یہ لوگوں کی خواہش تو ہو سکتی ہے مگر یہ درست پھر بھی نہیں۔ مرد دوسری شاید اسلام کی بتائ گئ شرائط کے بغیر نہیں کرسکتا۔ اسلام میں تو یہ تک ہے کہ اگر ایک مرد ایک شادی کی بھی کسی وجہ سے استطاعت نہیں رکھتا تو وہ شادی نہ کرے اور روزے رکھے۔ اسلام کو زندگی میں عملاً لائیں تو سعی۔

[@MuhammadKashif-dz7oe]

Agreed 👍

[@aftabkhan7591]

Musht Zani agar Sarson Oil ya Zaitoun Oil se ki jye, tou Hatyaar straight aur Taqtwar rehta ha, mota aur sakht hota ha 👍👍👍

[@kidsshortclips]

مرد دوسری شادی اس لئے کرتا ہے کہ کہا جاتا ہے دولت عورت کے نصیب سے ملتی ہے مہنگائی آج کل بہت زیادہ ہو گئی ہے ایک نصیب سے گزارا مشکل ہو گیا ہے

[@Sohail-r9q]

So Cute Doctor Shba 😍💊

[@naseemahmed7941]

Ur Executive Excellency Please Grant Me Ur Approval

[@amairahasif9762]

In other words, women should compromise their mental and physical health while raising children and taking care of their husbands, while husband should not even compromise his wife's divided attention and get himself a second wife to please and entertain him when he is feeling "lonely". Pathetic mindset

[@TahiraRubab]

No they should not suffering rather this point should not come when u one has to go for 2nd marriage but if u r not emotional connected just living in a house no spouses relationship then both can think for themselves.

[@silentwatcher67543]

روز دال نہی کھائی جاتی, یہ مرد کی خاصیت ہے اب اس پر آپکو اعتراض کیوں. 😊 باقی, زیادہ شادیاں کرنے میں مرد کا بھی فائدہ ہے . اسلام اجتماعی فائدہ کو دیکھتی ہے, انفرادی نقصان کو نہی. 😊

[@imtiazhussain7855]

Why is she not in Modelling and Films?

[@sobiaannan8357]

Very nice❤

[@amirfarooq9614]

آج کل عورتیں کیوں باہر تعلقات قائم کر رہی ہیں۔ لڑکیاں اور شادی شدہ دونوں ہی۔ عورتوں میں کب سے فطری طور پر ایک سے زیادہ مردوں کی خواہش پیدا ہو گئی۔ اس کا مجھے جواب چاہیئے اگر تو ہے۔

[@simplycookwithnazia]

Dr g second marriage ki waja SE mard pehli ko Chor deta hei or orat insecure ho jati hei wo taluq Nahi rakhta pehli se