There's nothing enjoyable about watching this family EXCEPT BEING THANKFUL THAT THIS ISN'T MY CHILD 🙌🏼 I'm done hoping things will change here. They won't. They never will.
@patwarner67577 ай бұрын
Throwing the fork like its a game l would say finished eating
All he wants to do is eat. That is the only thing that brings him comfort. U can tell he eats all the time. No communication skills what so ever. There is a real problem within this family.
@rochellemurray76228 ай бұрын
Take his food from him if he wants to play he needs to learn to stop throwing his spoon 😮
Oh I feel foolish ! I've left my comment on the video from 3 days ago as I found that this comment section wasn't yet open... Oops... I hope that you won't find offense in my comments as I'm a medical professional and am in no way judging You. First I want to tell You that today's meal is a better.. silly but okay. Rikun had Fathers support throughout his entire meal and even when Rikun became "mischievous", he was JOYFUL and childlike. Rikun is so responsive to Fathers attention and care that it's easy to see that with a bit more discipline he could do fine. I do remain very concerned about Rikuns inner ears as well as his airway. Inner ear problems are frequently the culprit when otherwise engaged young children are slow to speak. As far as his airway, like his eustachian tubes (inner ears) Rikuns airway is obviously not yet fully developed which in itself makes choking and aspiration a more likely hazard... With a child who puts far too much food into his mouth at once, a child who often coughs with food in his mouth, a child who eats this way with his little nose stuffed up... The possibility of aspiration becomes a probability. I've actually seen Rikun stuff his mouth full, then take a drink of fluid in order to be able to swallow the overload of food in his mouth..... dangerous. In any case, aspiration can be miniscule, can be somewhat chronic and can cause the wet, intermittent cough that often comes without fever or other common symptoms of infection. Please take Rikun to the hospital. It's always better to be wrong about these things 😊. I appreciate the hard work that is always involved in taking care of small children. Please know that I am only a concerned Mother and fellow human being.
I am really confused. For a long time, in my knowledge, Japanese has a long-standing culture of high discipline, with a deep-rooted belief that you should do your best trying not to cause troubles to others. I understand that kids are occasionally naughty, and as long as parents or teachers make necessary corrections when kids make serious naughty behaviors, then it's OK. But this kid? He has been doing this throwing fork/spoon for quite a long time. And in this video, he did this again and again and again, anyone could see he did it completely on purpose. In between, he showed countless times of threatening his parents that he was going to throw... (may I say that he showed evil smile? ) However, papa still picked up spoon for him, thus let him did it again and again. You told him "no", but you laughed and he laughed, and so he did it again and again. He knew very well, he did it purposely, and he was testing you. He is not afraid at all. He is not learning anything except that his bad behaviors are all right, no problem! I would say, in any culture, any responsible parents would and should take the kid out of chair when they see kids do this on purpose. Many patents would slap the kid's hands, or make him facing the wall to reflect, or giving even more harsh punishment. Let's make it clear, it's not the first time he did this, it existed for a long time. No harsh enough displine and punishment, so he keeps doing it and now it gets to the extent of being so outrageous. Kindness without principles is not true love, proper education and discipling is. He likes to throw stuffs, such as he threw toy cars in the last video. How would teachers in the kindergarten deal with this? If he throws fork/spoon, toys, or even stones and hit others kids, how are you going to deal with the matter? Yes, he is you kid, and probably many would say we as viewers have no rights or obligations to give opinions of how to do parenting job. But then, when the kid growing up, when he causes troubles to others or even hurt others, or his bad behaviors caused himself being disdained and excluded by other kids, it becomes a social problem. Then, it would be too late to say that we all the viewers who had been watching these videos and effectively watching this kid growing up did not give any suggestions in time. I don't blame anyone for using YT as a means of making money. But here is my thought: You probably can make this channel even more popular and earn more if you start to discipline your kid, make him change from an unruly one to a more disciplined one. In the videos, show how you do this transformation. It's a hard and huge feat that many would like to learn your methods to accomplish this. Best of all, while you are earning more, you get a kid turning better. Good to you, good to the kid, and good to the society.
@おちゃっぴ108 ай бұрын
That's right. However, I don't know if this Kimura family is Japanese or not. It is unknown what country they are from. I don't think they are people who have received Japanese education. All I can say for sure is that their live in Japan.
@user-wx2jf6lm5m8 ай бұрын
I am sorry. By no means that I am criticizing. I actually have high respect on how Japanese educate their kids for self-discipline. Here, I use a bit ironic way to express that I don't understand why parents did not take necessary actions in responding to such outrageous behaviors. Maybe, I said too much. So, unless they make changes, I will not give comments anymore. Thank you for giving me this information.😊 @@おちゃっぴ10
@おちゃっぴ108 ай бұрын
@@user-wx2jf6lm5m さま I'm sorry for not being able to express my feelings well. I was impressed that your opinion was correct. I was hoping to use Google Translate to share your comment with more people. Your comment was great. I hope that the father of this channel will appreciate your comments.