3 Shocking "Things" Men Want From Women

[@cristalmccauley9751]

I love the comment "There's a flavor for everyone." I'm a bigger woman and this comment was refreshing to hear

[@gratitude5740]

My then husband didn’t want me go to to school . He was insecure and jealous. He thought that once I get more education I will be better than him. He was emotionally abusive . I stayed with him because I believed I can make him happy and fix his insecurities. 3 decades later I had enough of fixing . Boys can’t be fixed . He is gone and I’m in school again .

[@wesnunes8654]

Omg. U waited for that long 😲

[@friendchen]

30 decades is 300 years?

[@gratitude5740]

friend chen, it felt that long ....

[@yceldamansila9342]

friend chen 3 decades is 30 years..300 yrs is 3 century.

[@MarnanPlus]

Awwwww....

[@HumanityRisingNow]

I love how you distilled this advice. Especially the stuff about ‘intimidating men’ ~ if any man is ‘intimidated’, they are not the man for you! Love it!

[@jasonsilveryt]

Yes! Thanks for commenting Letitia!

[@bubblegum-iz8zu]

Thank you. This strengthened my faith in Islam. The veil doesn’t oppress women, it preserves their value and protects them from harm.

[@Mrs.T305]

His last point is my issue. Men make subtle sarcastic remarks about my education, career or achievements then tell me that I'm insecure when I call them out on it. I knew somthing was awkward. Thank you so much for this.

[@margaritamuka9471]

I wish we had more men that think like you. You're a truly sane man in the spiritual aspect.

[@Thundermaned]

A high quality man doesn't just make you comfortable. Being comfortable is still a bit superficial. A real high quality man is willing to get through and beyond the uncomfortable parts and still stick around, willing to be hurt for you, willing to see your pain and still able to stick around. Whom you can be sure of that he's there to truly stay and care even when things get hard. And a high quality man will call you out on your bullshit and will take your callouts if he's giving bullshit. At least that's my view of high value as a man.

[@LynnLight]

Yes, I think that what you are saying is true. I think people have to show each other that they like each other enough to fight things out and stay together. You have to be able to fight with your partner and love them even when they are "not nice." No one is nice all of the time. If you are, something is not right.

[@silviasofiasiliprandi8691]

It's not my job to regulate men's instincts. A high quality man regulates his instincts to show respect.

[@cookeish]

Silvia Siliprandi here here!

[@LoveDayandAge]

A high value person understands he/she cannot control anyone but themselves. So yes, a high quality man regulates his behavior *but so does a high quality woman*. It's your job as much as it is his job.

[@ΓΙΑΝΝΑΛΙΓΚΑ]

I agree!!!

[@dorisshaw2279]

الجهل قوة the

[@christinesaviez8834]

@@LoveDayandAge So a woman who likes man and has feelings for a man and sleeps with him that means she's worthless? Why bother with these assholes? If they are judging then they're already worthless.

[@LynJegher]

We Love feeling in Love, with men who are seriously determined to be in a committed relationship!

[@jasonsilveryt]

Love this!

[@felicecasale4383]

I don't care about being someone girl I'm in my 60's want good friend and someone who is a honest person. Open ,smart, caring.

[@cynthiaarons9373]

felice Casale : They are rare! They like women who are bitches and game players!

[@newlifemovingon374]

felice Casale I’m having the same feeling ...

[@zacharyp10]

Many men in the same position, plenty out there!

[@zacharyp10]

Many men fear that there will not be women around since many times its more than one woman to a man throughout history, to illustrate both sides think that ironically.

[@yhtoverra7020]

My opinion : 1. slow down : life is already a stressing race professionally; in our personal lives, we want to slow down together with a partner. It builds comfort, trust and closeness, eg. allows you to get to know someone how they really are outside of the spotlights. 2. dressing : there's 2 kinds of attraction : primal and mental. The first is based on the reproduction instincts in our primal brain, and only cares about the continuation of the species. The second is based on the mental and logical capacity of our reasoning brain (eg cortex), and focused on what's good for us on the long term. When a women dresses too revealing, her appearance stimulates the first kind of attraction, the primal one. Primal instincts overrule reasoning, hence why this choice "seems to work better" to get male attention. But if it's not a primal relationship you are after, this is the wrong way to go about it. On the other hand, intelligence, experience, character and principles stimulate the mental attraction. Add some mystery in there, and you have a good combination to attract a successful man looking for a long term partner. 3. be smart : confirms the previous point.

[@mischamartinstudios]

I am a retired high school teacher, and I dearly wish every young girl could hear this video. It would save so much pain.

[@td3139]

Thank you, Jason! This Theresa we talked on the phone back in April I believe and you wanted to keep you updated. Well, thanks for your advice and changing the type of man I usually would be attracted to made a huge difference! I believe I found a man I never believe existed. I am truly at peace when I am with him, which is huge, especially with my brain injury from my accident. My brain never stops moving, except when I am with him. It has been 3 months now and will keep you informed. Thank you so much! Theresa

[@jasonsilveryt]

So happy to hear Theresa!

[@SaraX2024]

Unfortunately, the guy who did not pressure me in the beginning and respected me still turned out to be a (covert) abusive narcissist.

[@christinesaviez8834]

You can never tell.

[@deborahxavier9415]

Look for the😄signs early.

[@gummibear1735]

I had the same experience. But my mistake was that I wanted to fix him, I thought his lifestyle would change once he saw how I did things. Nope, waste of time.

[@findingdori442]

Thank u do much for making me realize this. I spent 13 years with an abusive Narc. You think I would see the red flags moving forward with dating again...your comment opened my eyes 🙏💜 “Always know your value and add tax!” Walk away if u see red flags

[@vhayashi7369]

@Sarah X I got tricked too, last boyfriend didn't pressure me and turned out to be a covert Narcissist.

[@LifeFlamesReunion]

There is people married since ages and they have had sex the first night. It is not about slowing down. And there is people having sex after 3 months of dating and never had a long term relationship. Is about feeling the energy between you, if is only physical attraction or if is something more

[@evamaria644]

that's a lie

[@mbtisocialclub]

Anna Pizzi i agreee with you, I broke up with my girlfriend cause she wanted to take it slow and I have high libido... people like to think only one way works but there’s so many variables

[@lightdweller1]

I love how you cover the fundamentals with the deeper subtleties, which might seem counter intuitive... things we could easily miss. Thank you so so much. I left a guy (who was a bit of a ladies player as it turns out) desiring to be intimate, by just declining his advances with a compliment “You’re really hot but I’m not as fast as other women” (kind of thing!). I did it for myself and my self-value, no games, no agenda. He was beside himself lol, became infatuated even after we did become intimate, was a lovely relationship.

[@jasonsilveryt]

Love it Light. Holding boundaries without resentment. Beautiful.

[@kellyng2266]

Leave a imagination is so important! Reveal too much lose the mystery! So strongly agree with you! Reveal too much not a good idea!

[@theravyshow2570]

That works until marriage. ..and then what?

[@ashauntekey92]

I'm a hippie from California and I approve of this message.

[@carolinelala9818]

His comment made me laugh and then I thought about all of the people who aren't from there and bring some weird rendition of "hippie' to the hippie culture.

[@calgal5752]

Naomi Key Me too!

[@MWolfe-rd4jb]

Some people say "hippie" like it's a bad thing. 😂😂

[@ho-lycrappy316]

hahaha

[@akapinkclowds4955]

Haha

[@sharifahdurrahbt.syedmoham7382]

OMG this is so true, Don't sleep with him on the first date and always show and demonstrate your intellectual worth. A real man who is able to see your smarts will stick with you through and through and will not be afraid to lie down and hurt for you.

[@GeoffreyGraham2]

*A guys point of view* 0:20 I love your definition of what a high quality man is , key part 0:29 He gives you what you give. (Love goes both ways) 1:10 No I don't want to get intimate with a women quickly. 2:45 Great advice a women should NEVER jump to the lower voice other wise she would be exploited. Not loved 3:10 If a girl is easy. Then personally I don't want to know her. 3:35 You hit a home run. Yep I want a women who matches my values, who I can respect and look up to 4:30 Yuk no way, I don't want a girl who wants to sleep with me on the first date. Your so right about this 4:45 Yep she should have values and stick with those values. If she doesn't she would only be disrepecting her self 6:46 I love that phrase you used "who is willing to invest in you" * actions speak louder than words 8:10 Am glad that you respected yourself and your values and you didn't sleep with that women. Thats a huge challenge for us guys to turn the other way. But like you said you wanted something better of higher quality and that drove you to say no 10:10 When a women dresses too sexy, its a total turn off. To me it reveals her insecurities and that she doesn't know what she wants 12:10 I love it ... Many guys love the curves... 13:05 I totally love intelligent women. Actually for me the more intelligent she is the more of a turn on it is!

[@GeoffreyGraham2]

If I wanted sex I could get sex. But its not a prority here is why kzbin.info/www/bejne/gnvLamlopb6pd7c

[@sallyhallum7680]

Thank you for the link, I found it very enlightening and I am a 56 Brit, having been married in the past.

[@eneocheche1167]

Geoffrey Graham perfect...

[@selfoclock4625]

Great response. It's about time women wake up to real men and stop settling for crumbs! Seriously, your response is refreshing.

[@jenniferlorence185]

I like the way You think. But is a 'woman' (Singular), Women (Plural) a Lot of Us make that mistake.

[@moonstone4475]

I, as a healthy thinking woman, would never want to be with a man who wants me to play games to get him to marry him...

[@DT-fg4kw]

Thank you!

[@craftychick48]

I love your straight forward, concise way of explaining topics. I especially like that you explain why. Seduce the mind before we seduce the body. Thank you again for another great video.

[@jasonsilveryt]

Thanks Debbie. Glad the episodes are helping you!

[@A358M]

Debbie Garrett seducing the mind to me is manipulating. Someone I know has been seducing his mind going on 6 years. Pure wickedness.

[@helenmaurovic2041]

Debbie Garrett oi

[@meearmalhtra3795]

Debbie Garrett

[@strang1124]

A man's mind is his body. If you keep his belly full, scrotum empty & don't abuse his money. His mind will never leave you.

[@alphafemale8849]

That is true i met my husband when i was 19 and we first did it after two years ... he waited for me two years before we have sex but we used to have lot of fun and we got married when i was 23 and he’s my man my soulmate my everything

[@CarolleRawCovers]

100% with everything you're saying in this video, great quality content, powerful insights. Thanks for sharing it!

[@jehhan9306]

Jason, I love your videos.. It helps me a lot more to improve myself in dealing with men. Keep up your good works.., God bless You! Jeh jeh Han from the Philppines!

[@jeanettekniebusch9532]

I cant believe you didnt go up BECAUSE you didnt want to act in a way you didnt want your future Wife to act. I LOVE IT!☺your a high quality man. Not too many men that think like that.

[@jasonsilveryt]

Thanks Jeanette!

[@64fairlane305]

I`m a man and I do not agree. I`m not just driven by instinkts over or below my belt. "Good men" are a lot deeper than he describes

[@caribaez5711]

He didn’t valued me. He didn’t show he wanted me. He expected me to show him I wanted him and when I did, he seemed uninterested. He calls me bad & nasty names and never came back to me. Even though he got another woman pregnant, he still trying to put me down.

[@hersheeizell]

when a person knows what he/she really wants, it won't be hard to recognize it. but if that person is not even sure if he/she likes that someone, then he/she would always find something not to appreciate. the thing here is, know yourself first and what you want in a relationship for it to be successful. if you want to play games then it won't work either...

[@yesenia0123]

I see a lot of negative comments. But I agree with you 💯 I love your channel you give me hope that there is a good quality men out there just for me! 💕

[@Sandra-wj4on]

Jason, right on target as usual! Boys are buoys that keep you adrift. Real men are ships that are going to exotic places. Love your videos!

[@ThePsychicStylist]

My favorite video of yours so far! You delicately addressed the neaderthal man issue and how we women have to adjust ourselves to their double standards.

[@jasonsilveryt]

Thanks for the kind comment!

[@charlenemaeder8027]

I just wanted to say that I really respect the decision you made in the story you shared. Also, all your videos have been super helpful and insightful. Thanks for a breath of fresh air amidst the other channels on here! Yours is my favorite. :) Keep up the great work! You are encouraging a lot of people. 👍🏻

[@jasonsilveryt]

Thanks so much Charlene!

[@emanaturalsaus]

This is the most comforting talk I have ever heard Jason! Thank you! It makes sense trying to figure out my man and our progression to date. Merry Christmas to you!🎊🎁

[@emc6800]

Love the video... my eyes kept going to your dry cleaners tag on the cuff of your sleeve though.. 🙈😝😁

[@jasonsilveryt]

Is that a dry cleaners tag or is it a stylish button? 😉

[@lindybright1938]

it’s a dry cleaners tag, lol. Great video though!

[@gratitude5740]

OOMS Nunya Wow! You are very observant, lol! 👍🏼😁

[@msvalgo]

Eunmi C 😂😂😂😂😂😝😝😜

[@cynthiaarons9373]

Eunmi C : LOL

[@keligsp8962]

Nailed it! I got my high quality man!

[@analiapreciado2968]

Happy for you I hope I got one

[@미미월드-q5b]

This can be a real dating academy course! This video is right on point and I really do hope he gets a lot more views and likes soon! Thank you for naming it the red velvet rope theory. I simply abhor those who sleep around and just don't care, or even worse, think they're popular that way.

[@zigewang7438]

Think and invest for long term relationship wisely, not just sexual short sighted attraction; take care of her body and appearance in an elegant way, not a desperate for Love way; firm self identity and aspiration, have personal goals and principles, so that she is secure enough to change for anyone and is confident enough to support/cheer her partner’s success too.

[@yellowstonekv959]

You are a gem! I wish there were more men like you. Thank you for the inside tips!

[@jasonsilveryt]

Awww...thanks Rose. Happy you found the channel!

[@dianasimms1810]

Am I wrong...I think you are gay. Gay men are sympathetic and understanding of women.

[@anitaphillip8772]

I find that in relationships the women is the one who always have to meet the requirements of the man. Why should it be so? Why can't we meet each other half way? Why can't we both agree to compromise? Why can't the men be honest with us and say what they like or dislike? We women try our best to please our men by doing what we think it's best. We give 100% only to find out later on our own (he is not saying anything negative during the relationship) that our best was not good enough. They tell us they want sex and we do to please them to make them happy, then they turn around and say we are easy to get. If we don't they make us feel we do not love them. I think the bottom line is, they love playing with our emotions and our minds. We always think that They are truthful to us (very convincing, almost impossible to detect). They have us where they want us (like a puppet on a string).

[@annharrison4774]

Hear, hear. I agree

[@1LaOriental]

anita phillip Completely disagree. Why are you being so accommodating?

[@marshabriggs3101]

Sometimes what you have to understand being in a relationship with the same sex or the opposite sex as they call it a girl and a boy everybody get hurt in a relationship that's why people are in a relationship you want to know each other you find yourself doing things you shouldn't do cuz you maybe be intoxicated I don't know cuz I'm not there but anyway just go to school and Free Your Mind for a little bit and Learn To Love Yourself this is to every culture sometimes we think we have found love because we are very excited and it's a different experiment relationship try getting a job if you don't have one sometimes you need something different to do occupied mind get your Bible book read roman and proverbs so you can gather up your hurt and broken feelings.

[@erikaerika7788]

If a guy wants neflix n chill. .say: "fucking no !!!!"

[@deborah1russell.russell745]

anita phillip I agree. We meet half way.

[@aisahsorianocarpio9571]

This is one of the great video I watched about relationship, it's so inspiring... Thanks for the knowledge/advice you've shared..

[@jasonsilveryt]

Awww...I appreciate the kind words!

[@shellyswt]

Excellent video! This is one of the very best dating channels on KZbin.

[@jasonsilveryt]

Thanks so much Shelly! Happy you found it.

[@gratitude5740]

Shelly D. Agree! Have been surfing between several, yes they are good but this is the best

[@christinesaviez8834]

No college for you, right?

[@olivejohnson2915]

This is the best video I ever landed on.you really such a high quality man with high quality brain.I got to work on my dress cord anyway

[@paulaflowing6124]

Spot ON video! How ironic... i would be so grateful to align with high quality men, we would walk side by side, adding value to each other’s lives! Otherwise, I’ll keep walking on my own!

[@kareenakapoor1981]

Great advice. So the bigger question--where do women find these high-quality men who are single, and interested in a monogamous relationship?

[@annettejohnson7307]

Awesome video.....answered so many unanswered questions for me. Thanks!

[@cristelahernandez7488]

Thank you for your valuable advice, I greatly appreciate men like you.

[@vladimirmussorgsky8023]

What if you made a mistake and slept the first date? The high quality man expressed regret that we slept too soon before we established a emotional connection, and that he didn’t expect us to end up sleeping on the first night. Now the guy has declared to you his jump to “conclusion” that we do not have a connection when we are still in the process of connecting emotionally. Despite we previously had very intellectual conversation and shared deep personal topics about life. He has now pulled away and stopped communication. How do you undo the damage and help him see the real you? And that you aren’t the woman he had misunderstood you to be?

[@griffinina]

I’m afraid that I am too boring, too ordinary. My ex used to teased me by comparing me with other women in his circle who is prettier and better career than me. I was just smiling in respond back then. I didn’t think much of it then. But then we broke up, I start wondering...why did he do that? Does he really comparing me to those women? What does it mean when a man did that?

[@jcisking8664]

griffinina nina It means he was abusive, insecure, and probably narcissistic.

[@chotasingh7939]

He didn't love you.

[@shalmamadhukerchodanker4247]

Thanks jason. Greetings from goa. I m just single from very hurtful relationship. The thoughts u mentioned really helping me what to find out in men to finalize for a long relatiinship. Thanks.

[@jasonsilveryt]

Thanks for commenting Shalma. I'm happy you found this helpful!

[@luisaallman4711]

Great!!! I want a quality man!! I deserve it because I am a decent person!!

[@jasonsilveryt]

Yes!

[@christinesaviez8834]

Yeah, cater to restraining men because they can't do it themselves. Genius. Love how this video compares women to food, a velvet rope, etc.... No objectification there, right?

[@zacharyp10]

@@christinesaviez8834 what else easier is it to compare to? I think the same phrase would have been said about men, i think its coincidence.

[@SAJJAD8B]

Then you should contact me.

[@claudiacarley4050]

Great...I have met someone 2 1/2 years ago and we did had a falling out due to my weight as he claimed I was obese...so I had broken off and moved on...3 weeks ago he appears at the Target Starbucks as I attended Inventory that Day ..I didn't look as ravished with hardly makeup, but had lost nearly 50lb.. were he started having interest in sharing his phone number and we had gone on 2 Dates and his attitude changed to a better Way...sure it was an insult back then ,however I am giving him a second chance,so let's see where the 3rd Date goes and hopefully to something serious, since we have good conversations and mutual interests.

[@jessicascorpio1]

My dad told me when I was a teenager, "It's a young man's job to TRY. It's YOUR job to say NO."

[@donnalangley117]

Wow, he really did not respect women. My dad said it is up to the man to respect you.

[@carolinebaker1156]

I

[@carolinebaker1156]

Sorry LIKE you!

[@findingdori442]

Love that saying! “Don’t throw your pearls to swine.”

[@ikr2377]

Clever man

[@CryptoProphet]

It's nice that you talk about High Quality men because that is a yardstick I apply since there are definitely low quality men out there. I know how to hold back. The problem is that then I end up with guys I don't really like or am bored with who won't really go away. I know when something is right, and apparently that guy is hiding somewhere, lol.

[@sabah4123]

Easy come, easy go. Girls value yourselves. Good things are never hurried! 👍🇦🇺 Waited for marriage!

[@martilyn1925]

I am just recently back dating after a long marriage. I am surprised at how much I am learning. Thank you for good information.

[@margaretcampbell2681]

Great advice Jason, finding out about someone and knowing someone more deeply is so important, revealing clothing is not helpful for women’s relationships with men as well. You really can’t be anyone but yourself

[@lindabailey1119]

This was great wisdom, thanks for sharing. God bless you !

[@TheCosmicYum]

Thanks for talking about #3. I like your approach.

[@janmcmichael1715]

What about a man that has back problems..and is in pain..most of the time..he says. He says we are in a relationship/ 7 yrs..but says he doesn't want to be engaged because he can't do anything.. wants to o wait till after surgery and he feels better.( This will be the 3rd back surgery,) we were engaged..2yrs ago. He took the ring back because he was working 2 jobs and wasn't able to be around. When I asked then you want to break up..he said no..I want to date you,get engaged,get married.... So every thing he says now is possible..but I see no reason we are not moving forward even under the circumstances of the bad back .so what is he doing?

[@tashacobbs4589]

So grateful for this wonderful video.. I've been in a bad relationship before but you keep opening my eyes every time I listen to you. God bless

[@yoda3988]

Jason you don’t have to make woman feel good about what they know they are doing to men. You are 100% right

[@julieloring8655]

I love your honesty!! And I agree with all your points! Love this channel so much ❤️

[@vtooky81]

Not for nothing but that hippie commune sounds awfully fun! Where do I sign up??? 😂😂😂😋😁

[@genallen769]

I do agree with not sleeping together on the first date, but if you hold off for too long and then finally end up sleeping with someone who is terrible in bed, that sucks. You gotta find out sooner rather than later.

[@mollymamolly6473]

It's really awesome Jas...you cleared my mind through this video

[@NDiaz-et6hc]

Hi Jason this is so helpful and concise! Incredibly useful revelations. Thank You!

[@annabarbara5019]

I really like this video and it's so true what you talk about .. still the relationship is a life-long challenge!

[@RoopaDudleyPaintings]

OMG! Stop apologizing for speaking the truth. Taking it slow. Wearing something modest. Being confident and comfortable in your skin are the three qualities. The End.

[@sexyladyakb]

Roopa Dudley you have to nowadays damn snowflake culture

[@Sophisticatedstyle]

Sadly, he has to do this. We LOVE jumping at men who say these kind of things. I get him. Nit like he wants to, but he has to clarify if he doesn't want to be eaten alive. I'm a woman and want to think I don't do this, but I see it time and again.

[@anishaamalia]

I like your videos, its not only about dating, its also about being a better person in the way you think, do and attract.

[@charleenhopkins3590]

thats why i dont chat to drunk men

[@paulineschmitt4504]

Great content, Jason. I enjoyed your emphasis on "below the waist" thinking and inspiration. I'm dating a guy who is smitten (his words) with me. We snuggle and kiss a little. Mostly it's was conversation and group events for the summer while he recovered from an AFIB heart event. Several times he told me he was grateful I am not a pushover, that he needed my friendship and emotional intimacy more than sex. Yep, I could see that.

[@thriveafter554]

Hey like this. Is that a dry cleaning ticket on your jacket sleeve? Right wrist?

[@palania.subramaniam4271]

Boys are Bitter of your Success...perfectly said.

[@jasonsilveryt]

Thanks Palani!

[@diana-cy4kj]

Palani A.Subramaniam Yeah , absolutely true.

[@donnalangley117]

Well said. My ex husband was like that.

[@SuperHeroEmiTV]

you are so cool!

[@wyethhan7434]

Also I love the way, you talk with clarity. thank you very much. jeh han.

[@jasonsilveryt]

Thanks for the comment Rhegine!

[@lavayuki]

I'm a doctor and use to keep it a secret as I thought it put guys off unless they were also a doctor. I do find that when I reveal my job, people seem to go all wow thats amazing, which makes me feel awkward.

[@paulamejia-martinez7196]

Great video! I agree 💯 with you. When I went on my first date with my boyfriend he tried to get me to sleep with him too. But I didn’t give in... I made him wait for almost 2 months before I went to his place. We kissed on our third date!! And I’m sure the reason we’re doing so great is because we didn’t jump into bed right away. He asked me to be his girlfriend (in a very formal way) a couple of days short of our third month together!! Btw I’m 56 and he’s going to 41 in October... I had no idea Sicilian men were sooo romantic... Thank you so much for all of your advice!! ❤️🙏🏽

[@feefees9796]

Thanks for the video. What kind of dessert is that?It looked delicious yummy

[@fatmaibrahimaboelelaibrahi6840]

Ur 1st point: u really surprised me, I didn't expect 2 hear a very good hint like that, I opened video 📹 for being curious what r these 3 points

[@anitaphillip8772]

I would like to see a video to men "treating a lady in the same way you would like to be treated". Also a video on 'truthful communication" or "men stop the lies".

[@smc1774]

👍👍👍👍I absolutely love this video, I had to subscribe. Thank you for sharing such helpful tips.

[@stellaeugenio775]

Its so nice advice I really love it

[@merhi1111]

Great advice! I love your channel! I feel it's sad that so many people not just women don't have to have the self confidence to be authentic and self esteem to act this way naturally!

[@JoyMBaker-dg3pn]

This video was absolutely perfect! Thank you!

[@membering]

Very good insights...a man can be very attracted, but not fall in love, those are two very different things.

[@samanthawest2162]

Thank you for sharing this information, I really loved it 😊

[@edytadelfel249]

I REALLY LOVE YOUR ATTITUDE JASON AND I RALLY ABSORB AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE FROM YOUR POSTS!!! THANK YOU.

[@uj2233]

Great advice. Really helpful. My so- called fiance always puts me down. If I try to tell him about something different I had done he reacts to ignore it and puts me down later. If I try to tell him that he could have done differently he doesn't like it. I am beginning to hate him after 8 years of relationship with him.

[@Yay_be]

He hated me.. 4yrs nightmare 2yrs me crying after him. I couldn't give up. He is everything to me

[@flowerchild2409]

Everything is perfect about this post except one thing, I can't stop looking at the pink tag on his right sport jacket cuff, I just keep wondering if that is the dry cleaning tag or something, other than that constant distraction the content is really good and I am subscribing to hear more

[@BerthyNora]

I'm a woman and I appreciate very much your candor and advice.

[@df4013]

Thanks for always keeping it real. You're AMAZING!

[@ericafarley2850]

Just to add some of my thoughts: When a couple combines their skills & talents or work alongside each other with their gifts & talents good things happen. I think the more mature married couples have figured out the art of doing this within their relationship. I also think that as a culture we don't really understand that when people are dating to find the right person for marriage they need to make sure their lives our parallel and going in the same direction. Great videos! They are of good substance!

[@jasonsilveryt]

Well said Erica! And thanks for the kind words. :)

[@beth5951]

In a long distance relationship, why a man ask to see what dress i am wearing and wants to see body parts, and i do not want. I do not want and go for this kind and i do not know if he does this thing to other woman online because i am seeing him always online but he said he is watching comedy videos only for fun and is not talking to girls online, only to guys friend. And he got a problem on his plane fare going back to his country for a job and asked me if i have money, i told him i am in budget and don't have money for it, then i had noticed he seldom call and message me and says that he call people to ask for money but no one have yet he is not calling me. Up to the.point that he doesn't anymore call and message me. I do not want anymore to message him, even i missed sweet messages from him, will i just have to wait for him to message me? What will i do, can you please give me advise. Thank you so much.

[@dianebalch5369]

Is that a dry cleaning tag on your sleeve? And, I love the wise owls in the background. Perfect for this talk!

[@jasonsilveryt]

It may be a dry cleaning tag...or it may be a style symbol. ;)

[@sczdnb5507]

Well, one of my best friends is a woman who sleeps with every single man she wants, sometimes after they just met, sometimes without knowing his name at all... But most of them fall in love with her if they repeat. For her they are just a one night stand sometimes, sometimes she appreciate them for a while after she finds them boring so she just jump to another one, sometimes she dates more than one man... They don't really care, and they know all these, but they continue falling in love with her, sometimes they get obsessed for even years...

[@jasonsilveryt]

The high-quality men my cliensts want to attract would most likely NOT become obsessed with a woman who uses them and judges them as boring people.

[@783342]

You handle the subject really well, but don't forget women also have these same primal needs which quality women put on the backburner because they are RESPONSIBLE.

[@luzmmontero1237]

Great advised !! Women must respect their bodies and dressing well attract a men big time!! Thank you !

[@jasonsilveryt]

You're so welcome!

[@christinesaviez8834]

So basicly bow to the slut shamers. Got it.

[@raindrops4086]

I've been emotionally unavailable for a year but pretty social. what I can say is fellow women, don't br so desperate! Live, Love, be Safe and do you bo! when you start playing there game, all of a sudden they want you...

[@simplymarilyn5295]

Wow! This man is incredible! He is so right on w everything he says!