3 Truths About Healing (You Won't Want To Hear).

Discover the 3 spiritual truths about healing and whether we ever get to a point of being completely healed.
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[@ChristinaLopes]

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[@wonderfulrainyday]

Your topics are always on point to what I need to hear. 🎉 thanks for being here Christina!

[@death_to_tyranny]

Meh, I get the message ur trying to send but you're wrong. We're all feeling way too tired of purging these dead things and having to live with these zombies around for all these years and we're kind of running out of patience here. I personally would prefer to leave the body than to go through another year of this and I'm very well ahead on this whole ascension process. This is just something that needs to be acknowledged and accepted by the community. And yes, there is a finish lineto the process, there is just no finish line afterwards.

[@utubestalker.dotcom]

I never had a carrot. I thought of it like I was a former angel living life again to relearn experiences I didn't learn previously. Each time I healed something, I thought of it as one level higher than I was before, even if that level was a centimeter higher.. Like a ladder getting closer to the divine. When I die I'd then be that much higher than I was in the past and then I could go on from there learning more when I got to heaven

[@markflierl1624]

I want to get rid of my emotional pain so I quit reacting to people. If I can accept myself, then I won't give a damn if other people accept me. I'm slowly getting there but I'm not where I want to be yet.

[@PenelopePitstop888]

Darn evil donkey carrots!🤣

[@sweariefaerie9621]

That... Put an entirely different image in my head. 😂

[@christinecardoza7253]

😂😂😂

[@girlcalledmango]

Bad carrots!

[@JaimeRodriguez-wf1vr]

🤣🤣🤣

[@izlimakareem]

😂

[@PenelopePitstop888]

Evolving is learning and as long as you're 6 ft above ground, learning never stops. I feel this is a good thing.

[@lansingday1453]

If the donkey stops, and with ease...sits and leans way back to embrace the sky with its expanded consciousness, the carrot swings gently to it mouth. Yum!

[@justagirljean1111]

It’s so freeing actually to know there is no end. I used to hate this concept but now I feel like I can accept this journey ‘as is’. God bless Christina!

[@PoorMaryLane]

Christina, the reward I want is functional relationships & community, an end to spending most of my time isolated. I feel like that is a tangible goal that one day I will be able to check off (although I know I'll need to keep doing my work to keep having those things). So is that still a carrot? I feel like it's valid for me to feel frustrated that I've done so much healing work and am still alone.

[@ChristinaLopes]

A good to test that is to ask: "Why am I healing this?" If the answer is only "to get functional relationships" then there's a carrot you're chasing.

[@jjm8224]

@ Alissa, are you my twin? It's like I wrote this comment! Much love to you.

[@angimacedo3615]

Thank you christina , one thing i have learned to do is to do and heal with out expectations i just flow with the energy i feel at the time .. i am so grateful ❤

[@hartleybatchelder4109]

Hi Cristina - Thanks for this clip. I was hoping that you might address how this same thing can be connecting with issues of unworthiness in people with trauma history. For myself I am able to conceptualize the idea of shifting from "I'll be happy when...." to finding happiness in the moments as they come. The stuckness is that the ideas stay in my head and I have a hard time putting them into action. It feels like it is attaching to issues of unworthiness, in me. I guess I'm wondering if you've had similar hurdles, and if you have any *ding ding* tips on how one can bring the conceptualization from our brain to our lived experience?

[@andrewanderson6618]

Expectations bring me down so often. For me, I know I shouldn't expect anything, but I still do. Thanks for the message

[@celticfairyofeiru]

The ending 🤣 priceless. I love how your videos are so much lighter and fun since you came back to us ❤

[@buyiphilip]

no shortcuts or spiritual bypassing just surrendering and feeling all day all night.

[@kellyscritters6482]

I used this exact analogy explaining to my husband how I've been feeling :/ I left my job over a month ago and not receiving any inspiration for my path forward even though I've healed so much. All this spiritual stuff is new to me. These videos are so helpful!

[@jillzeretj.rodriguez5609]

This question was actually inside my head yesterday. Since I read “The surrender Experiment” from Michael Singer, I was wondering if that was actually a lifestyle… and it is! Thank you for bringing this up ❤

[@olive1355]

This sounds like enlightenment is suffering. When normal people have to go through this endless healing enlightened people seem to face endless trauma surfacing and hence healing.

[@ContraryMary]

I wish every spiritual person could hear this. After about 4-5 years of learning, I came to the conclusion of just being my best self. The magic will come as a gift along the way.

[@bingewatchforever1587]

Thank you for the video. I feel like this is a very important lession for me. I still try to fully grasp it. That might need some time ... Edit (addition one day later): Yes, that really was exactly what I needed. (And my spirit guides knew, because I found that video shortly after begging for help because I was completely stuck). I had been falling into this trap all the time. I had been disappointed, frustrated, angry so many times, because I didn't feel any better after meditating or doing some healing work. Or let's better say trying - because it often happened not to be very succesful. Now I get why. I wanted to feel better so desperately ... I think my expectations kept getting in my way all along. Now I keep that in mind. And it is already easier to engange in meditation - without this resistance ... Of course I still wish to get better (less anxious, less depressed ...). That's human. But I try to seperate one thing from the other and not to see an immediate relief of symptoms as my motivation for medition and healing work, but instead aim for connecting deeper with my soul.

[@amethystthescientist7716]

I love the humor in your videos. It’s relatable. This was the best spiritual message I could have seen today!! ❤

[@Inmensamentefatimaonate]

Christina, I love your work, I totally love your videos and I've been following your content for a couple years now. I am a native spanish speaker and I would love to translate your KZbin videos and create the spanish version of your channel. I live in a developing country, so I can do it for less money and it still it would be a good opportunity for me. But it is not only about the money to me, like I said I love your content, I'm deeply invest in personal development and there's not a lot of female youtubers with your energy and knowledge out there. So, please, if there's a change for me working with you let me know.

[@kathyprior4281]

I keep hearing from many spiritual teachers and KZbinrs that 1. Life is predetermined - that every trauma we face in life is "part of our soul's plan to learn lessons." That everything is part of our soul contracts. 2. We all have to ascend to the higher densities (7D) to merge into God forever as the end goal. Christina, are these facts or spiritual myths? They keep stressing me out.

[@giabawa3968]

Healing is done when you realise you need to heal without having an end in mind .. you realise you hold the power instead of people and their triggers!

[@markflierl1624]

That's what I want. Self acceptance and not reacting to other people (triggers). They go together.

[@globaytuna535]

So glad to be back here.❤️ I missed your channel 😭❤️ I've been gone for long.

[@YoungJawad]

What if the donkey find a wall to help him eat the carrot 🗿

[@sebastianornowski1317]

Love your new style of videos, and great content as always 🥰🇸🇪🤍💕✨🤍✨🤍✨🙏

[@missyschwaigert685]

Donkey night! Lolololo. I almost killed my boss! Thank goodness I have my angels and guides! I am still uncomfortable saying God so for now goodness. I love my A team. Thank you. Will you please guide me too? So I can be a good captain for my A team. And a part of.

[@elsychinwe5938]

Does going after what you are passionate about also part of chasing. I am very passionate about sewing it makes me happy right now am doing everything I can to make the best of it. Does that mean am chasing the carrot.

[@magnestarseed1094]

So, 5D as a new consciousness- level, with better health, more joy, telepatic skills etc. , is a myth/unreal "carrot" ????? 🙏

[@robinpeterson8333]

In other words we already are everything We just have to lose what we're not. Thank you Christina ❤

[@manardagher9769]

Thank you Christina, heaviness was linked to complaining and recurrent wound and anxiety...❤❤❤

[@bluessax5089]

A very necessary video indeed. I am moving through some shadow work, meanwhile, my heart is opening and radiating tons of energy. Crown and third eye are also vibing out pretty strong. Also hearing guidance from angels and guides. For quite a while I’ve been feeling this need to RUSH and get evolved immediately! This video reminded me of the joy of the present moment. ❤

[@Mesu1111]

I needed to hear this so much today. I feel so much lighter watching this. Thank you ❤🤗

[@gojiberry7201]

I should be happy, peaceful, blissful, worry-free, full of abundance, radiating with unconditional love. Should, should, should, should, should. Stupid carrot

[@ChristinaLopes]

😅

[@gbowman9429]

As always, this came to me right on time. Namaste. I am forever grateful for you, Christina Lopes. And the ever growing community of connecting soul's.

[@blessedsoul14]

I have a question. In the dolores cannon book 3 waves of volunteers and new earth, during one hypnosis session a client's higher self said, "D: What do you mean, in the next three years? S: She has a window of time left. She will and must accomplish bringing those aspects home. It’s part of her contract. Part of what she came to do in this lifetime is to return to one, to the whole soul. D: And she has three years to accomplish that? S: That is true. That is her truth. This session was conducted in December 2009. D: What if she lets the fear win out? S: She will return back home to us. There will be no reason for her existence here." What did her higher self mean by that? Is there a fixed timeline for everything?

[@edwardzhou8590]

Hi Christina, if everything is learning, and learning never stops... and suffering never stops... and we basically are always increasing energy, and we should stop chasing bliss/carrots, what do we do? We will continue to increase our vibration, but how do we live? Especially after awakening, and healing much quantum energy? Do we go back to the places we once suffered?

[@karenkulyk4470]

You absolutely rock! Spot on for me. Thanks for the clarity. I have a wonderful new mantra to assist me. Perhaps even maybe my last mantra!! 🤪

[@Ma93nta174]

This vid was very timely for me Chritina. Over 18 years I was on pharma drugs due to PTSD which I got from a clinical NDE. Was born with ADHD. 2 months ago I healed from those things but after running around for over 40 years (hyper vigilance in PTSD mimics ADHD) I don't rush to do anything anymore, unless I'm late or it's a matter of life and death. However my energy has gone totally the other way and today especially I'm feeling much more tired. I've been sleeping better than I ever have in my whole life the last couple of months but today feels like I'm almost sleep walking with brain fog. Head trauma aged 15 I've also recovered from but still prone to brain fog as neurologically I got rewired and coz the mastoid is a pressure point, sudden changes in weather/air pressure make can make my head blocked easily. I can do breathwork and play my singing bowls. Singing bowls were the final thing that healed me from PTSD etc but my energy has really dipped today. Just gotta be patient and ride it out like you say... and sometimes just taking an extended rest is the best way of healing, until you need healing again the next day and the next ad infinitum.

[@mysticcatlady3786]

Thanks for this wonderful Video. Thank you very much for sharing your knowledge 💐🌹

[@adamswierczynski]

This video hurts my soul. It is toxic information. It says "black and white thinking is bad" but then says the world is black and white so stop thinking. There is no state of "healed" we can achieve, this much is true. But there is a state we can achieve called healthy. The reward, or carrot, is in knowing that what we are doing is healthy. I.e. we can set boundaries, we choose foods that truly nourish us, we choose ideas that see us on a path from where we are to where we desire to be, our emotional responses are appropriate for the situation. The carrot is looking back at the healthy choices we have made and saying "I DID IT!" and using these past successes as the carrot tied to our back to be able to believe we can keep doing it.

[@Rayowag]

This!

[@MeganS1995]

So I watched the video and read the transcript and have a bit of a disconnect between the point you're making here and what the video conveys... Where does she mention black-and-white thinking as bad or how the world is black-and-white? But regarding your point, the idea that the world itself is black-and-white is false--however, humanity does polarize a lot of things. But just because there is polarization doesn't mean *we* have to take that on... We have boundaries, personal power, and choice. Finding a balance between ourselves and those around us is important, as well as finding inner balance. Black-and-white thinking tends to be distorted and unbalanced but is something that is within human nature as a means of survival... We evolved to make quick choices for survival but we're at a time now when our lives aren't at risk most of the time, so we have a choice to transcend it. Also, side note: how does labeling something as a whole relate to black-and-white thinking?

[@eleonorsalvador9078]

I disagree that we continuously have to heal. We keep ascending its a non stop evolution but self work or self healing is a goal. When you invest in yourself and since intention is so powerful, you will be healed. As I did my self work consistently starting year 2020, a start of my spiritual awakening journey. Naturally it activated my light codes inside my body and finally this year 2023 January, my guides sent me message through feather telling me that I am already healed and my Karmic debts are already completed.😊

[@MSP2104]

Healing is not about karmic debt. It is about being able to live in 3D, having healed attachments and false beliefs, and wounds by inner child work, and being able to integrate the 5D perspective of life (soul perspective, unconditional love, living in the present moment, trust divine timing et cetera) in this 3D life journey. Ego death, not karmic debt.

[@eleonorsalvador9078]

I am not saying is all about karmic debts all i mean from limiting beliefs and I i could say I am living my best life ever and live abundantly. Thats the true meaning of 5D which is Heaven on Earth cz the feeling is bliss, peace and i can only see beauty,positivity and abundance. Once you activate the Divine Energy inside of you, you will understand what I mean.😊

[@PaulaWilson444]

Ive been on the Spiritual path now for yrs & feel like ive gone so far down the rabbit hole ive got lost, im starting again from day dot today but older & wiser this time, no more chasing & asking for nothing instead How can i serve others & the universe today?? I know its me & only me who has created all these wounds that need healing. ThankQ Christina👸🙏💗💗💗

[@sannajohanna5579]

All happenings are lessons for growth. Yes, I‘ve been chasing the carrot and got really bad setbacks: I wanted something better but I got worse. My life was good but I wanted „something bigger and better“ and finally, complete loss.

[@Anthonyk747]

The complaining aspect - I like to think of this as Cleaning a Filter. Sometimes you create a filter to block the wounds, cover them up, or slowly heal them, but when you go to clean the filter, to allow something better to passthrough, then you have to go through a LOT of complaining. Similar to how you need a Filter to drink Clean Water - you also need a Filter to feel Clean Energy. But that Filter, over time, gets mucked up and needs to be cleaned. It's a never-ending cycle, but required if you want to feel Clean Energy. I'm going to attempt to stop chasing the carrot. I, personally, hate carrots for more than one reason, but I loathe the thought of myself keeping something away from me that I could've had this entire time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@ethanbpaisley]

You’re like the Bill Nye of spiritual healing!!! I love you! When are we seeing a Heart Alchemist TV series? ❤

[@shamielahbaba9907]

Lolol, thank u so much for sharing, i release the carrot and the donkey, 🤣🤣🤣🙏🙏🙏💖💖💖

[@wynwyn164]

Christina, I love your work! You are a very clear and dynamic communicator and you have the amazing ability to take complex, abstract Spiritual concepts and break them down to be understood by humanity. Thank you so much!

[@sherrxoxoz]

I love your personality & energy 💫 You’ve been so helpful TY🙏BTW I laughed so hard at the end😂😂😂🤣

[@MR-pg6ru]

Christina ❤ would you please make a video on the difference between soul and spirit?! Thank you for your amazing work!!

[@loriclarke1142]

I get it, it is a never ending healing process, because we are constantly experiencing life, and it could be something someone said or the way they treat you that could bring up the trauma, and the mind (Ego) starts the mental chatter, of you are unworthy of Love, you deserve the way someone treats you, it’s every negative thought, etc etc. It’s all about perception, I once heard a saying that stuck with me “Have a good day, unless you have other plans”. So it is as simple as a choice. 😊

[@harmantumber]

Carrot wylin

[@sharmilaali6954]

Ah os palavrões 😮 obrigada pelos teus vídeos que são mesmo bué fixes. Um beijinho aqui da França para ti e para essa equipa de malcriados. 😜

[@WendeeG]

Why do I feel such immense resistance to the last statement, of accepting and knowing there is no end. I feel like I cannot say that to myself bc I would be lying. It does not feel freeing for this to be true. I know there is something I need to learn, and I know I am using the mind more possibly. But what is it? It's been my whole 20s I've been trying to figure this out. I can't accept my job, career path and ultimately life path. But I find myself in the same patterns, the same jobs, similar relationships. My carrot is I just want to know what I don't know. Why can't I figure it out?

[@carmagurl317]

I'm sorry but this is the dumbest thing I have ever heard...if you take it at face value. Unfortunately KZbin doesn't allow for much nuance. If anyone is feeling discouraged by this video, you are not alone. You absolutely can heal from certain stuff. Take these videos with a grain of salt.

[@girlcalledmango]

Where are my REWARDS 😅😅. I mean it, i think ive earned a bushell of carrots NOW!

[@tattoo5801]

I - Want - Peace. I is ego, Want is desire; Remove ego and desire and you have peace. - sathya sai baba

[@highlightme1205]

I'm healed and ready to go..seems like the universe is just blocking me from life..i'm bored

[@MisterFuturtastic]

Christina.. do you have any idea why someone would have a spontaneous Kundalini awakening on Christmas morning?

[@lartdevivre835]

This was exactly what I needed to hear right now. Thank you Christina. You are an amazing teacher.❤

[@denizgurcan1928]

hello ,im so terrified cause my stepdad( who is spriutal) keeps saying even after i die , i will follow youanywehere , ı will watch you , your husband , when you shower i will be there etc. I am so scared is he really can do that ? Is it possible that he may watch me and see me even after he dies ? what can I do to protect myself if he can does that ? please reply.. I am kinda having panic attack.

[@S.Moon1111]

The synchronities are amazing, I literally told someone that I'm trying to hold a carrot in front of me 😂 and give my self a reason to keep going on.. Like a donkey.

[@eilyl]

Christina you are amazing. You make everything so clear and explain with such charisma and simplicity. I love you ❤

[@Loveandkindness33]

Piece of advice- don’t watch this if you have the flu. Watch it when you’re feeling better. Lol

[@purposelyinmypowerinc.1098]

Does that also include complaining about the mess that your children make?

[@mngaq7951]

A funny story happened to me; my ex when he broke up with me and get back to his ex! I told him how painful was this and I was all by myself trying to get pass the break up..he said that he thought I’m done with the healing then he put a lame smile.. I told him healing will never end

[@pauladodd7396]

What if you get that light you slide back down the spiral of healing and relapse back into addictions?

[@nicolebrewer4959]

An 8 minute video isn't enough to hold me until next week 😢 Love your teachings

[@evanwatkins5804]

there is permanence in impermanence, that's the unchanging awareness , there are no individual souls, really.

[@ybwang7124]

Logic would suggest if you forgot about it and never have subconscious effects you are healed.

[@fixmylifepodcast]

LOL Get out of my head 😂 I was just crying to my therapist about this topic.

[@ninisilver]

As a portuguese person I loved the swearing at the end, this is how Portuguese people release energy - and it's beautiful - BEIJOS CRISTINA, obrigada por mais um vídeo

[@A_T__]

Thank you for sharing this. Your inner mental chatter is exactly how I sound in my head. I was shocked to hear you say it😅

[@RaphaelaPareto]

8:08 "p*****rra!"hahahahahha, oh my. morri! thank you for the video! i always learn a lot with you! ♥

[@Christy.huffmanstarseed]

Lol yes but I’m ready to go forward with my spiritual journey

[@Lonewolfalchemist]

Okay well how do i get rid of “the chasing of” then? Lol if i know im already whole and complete already then how do i get rid of the carrot on a stick😂

[@SpiritualReconciliator]

I'm still waiting for your Marry Magdalen video.

[@raymondkouwen9259]

this brings so much clarity. I'm so grateful

[@alongway99]

The more that we resit, the more it will persist. This was something I heard many years ago and I have never forgotten it.

[@rosemaryibarra1657]

Hello Christina, I was wondering if there be a time that we don't have to incarcerated into this earth plane, that we reach a level of consciousness that we break the chains or karmic wheels wheels

[@priyashajaiswal2590]

Christina ❤ I think this is one of the most life changing video i have ever watched. In my recent past I have been seeking answers to why this inner resistance has been always there. I got my answer today. Thanks a lot for this wonderful video. 🥰

[@1nilu1]

Why did u throw the beautiful carrot away? u should have just ate it. That is its only purpose 🥕

[@lionderoeko]

For me it is the other way around: I want to heal to give something to the world … not to take … Healing is the way to get to your true potential and that is the true pleasure and joy … so no carrot needed that the dopamine not the serotonin or oxitocin ❤

[@Kat-TraversingTheUnknown]

Thank you Christina! Loved this had to watch it again 😂. 💯💜

[@williamrogers1151]

Youre such a dork i love it!!! 😉 i speak from experience. 😆

[@LukeSilverstar1000]

I needed to hear this today. Thank you.

[@dkarrim7988]

This awakening stuff is too hard on me I just don’t want to be here anymore

[@wendymammy6882]

This all makes sense to me,ihave been chasing that carrot,so thank you for this

[@JoyVortex1144]

You need eat them instead here and now 😂 I here it over and over again , look with in . I am that I am .

[@Rob_TheOne]

Non-duality... Makes way more sense

[@cocopersiflage4705]

Brilliant video. Thank you! ❤

[@davidmeetze5015]

Yeah, but I don't look at the carrot, only my mission that I'm on

[@Nubia11]

I needed this reminder! Thank you Christina ❤

[@darrelllang5211]

Carrot looks like a woman's effort for pleasure ))

[@stephensonkrista]

@askchristina Can you please pretty please do a video on the Occult and how you view it/whether or not it's practices are beneficial or not, just everything about it? A very religious Catholic friend asked me if now that I'm not religious anymore if I am practicing anything from the Occult and I had no idea what to tell her 😂

[@NinaDreams81]

Spiritual practices are part of the occult by definition. There is nothing wrong with it. Only religion teaches that it is wrong. It is none of her business, to be honest.

[@coreymurphy8393]

I guess I'm running into paradox. Because I still have to do the work even though the work brings me to nowhere and nothing? The work doesn't give me the carrot, and when I let go of expectations, then I'll move forward in the direction of expansion which I desire, but like that's sort of still a carrot? If I can totally be in a state of acceptance and letting go while still doing the work and not expecting a carrot, I will get to experience my natural states of being, but to the ego it feels like yum more carrots,.but in the truer sense it's just my natural state. Very trippy lol I'm struggling to be in a true state of acceptance and letting go. I'm accepting of that struggling and however long it's taking and I feel like I'm just watching somebody else trying to solve an unsolvable puzzle.

[@carmagurl317]

There's no such thing as no carrot !! Why would anyone do something hard if not for a reward... Materialistic, emotional, that's just how we are wired. No shame in that at all. In fact I think it's wonderful, if we are here on this planet so long, gotta find a way to pass the time beyond survival. I say go for the carrot as long as it works for you. And if it doesn't find a new one. 😉🥕

[@lauraschwartz3944]

This makes so much sense! Thank you!🙏🏻

[@soadellesol]

Probably the best message of the century !!! You are bloody awesome !!! 🩷✨️🌿🕯🫧

[@rickaster]

I don’t really expect the healing work to ever be done, but sometimes I worry that it is going too slow - that I am putting off the big issues by getting wrapped up in the smaller ones.

[@eagleeye2163]

Never been a complainer. One of my problems. I keep everything in. Don't have anyone to really talk to. Nobody that understands this type of lifestyle atleast. Talking about certain things is way over people's understanding and just makes me look crazy.🤷🏻‍♂️

[@monikamoisanen8264]

Finally, a video channel that explains it all. Finally I’m starting to heal blocks, heal old life patterns and things from this lifetime. I’ve never used affirmation because they never worked but now they do. ❤️

[@frohcia]

I’ve watched the blooper like 15 times to see you laugh with the guys in the background. And hear them drop f bombs. So funny and not stuck up!