30'S AND THE [NY] CITY: ups and downs of living in New York City (few days in my life living alone)

[@Ems_716]

Please do not feel bad for not reacting. You don't know how he would react if you pushed him. Victims often blame themselves, but you did nothing wrong ❤

[@TishaShrestha]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@carolynskelly4763]

I am so sorry that happened. You are handling it well. I took self defence as a young woman. I am 74 yo now. It is awful that most women I know have had experiences like this. Take care. All the best.

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@christinegreen287]

Hi Tisha! I’m sorry you had to go through this. My husband was a police officer and he has made me so much more aware. First…get the pepper spray and carry it in your hand. Don’t put it in your purse because you won’t be able to get it when you need it. Second…please don’t vlog when walking on the street. You can’t be aware of what’s going on around you and that’s what criminals are counting on. My husband always says to make sure you are aware within 360 degrees around you. Stay safe! 💕

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you 💗

[@adriennehilll]

Tisha 😭😭😭❤️‍🩹 I think we can all agree that it is so UNFAIR that as women we have to live with fear caused by the actions of others. I’m so glad you’re ok. Your vlogs are always a breath of fresh air to me and I really appreciate you always sharing both the good and the bad. Sending love and hope you have a great week ahead 💛💛💛

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you so much 🙏🏽. It is unfair that we have to worry about all these things when we are just trying to live our life. Sending you love and I hope you have a great weekend. ❤

[@TravelerSanna]

_Tisha, you were a victim of a crime. No matter how cautious you are no one can second guess themselves. It hurts my heart when I hear of accounts of such. No one woman no matter where she resides should have to tolerate such vile behavior. Your sister is right. I assumed you had pepper spray or mace with your frequent vlogging and using public transportation. Don't be paranoid. Talk to your therapist, your sister and close friends. It is healthy. Do whatever you must to protect yourself._ 🥹💞

[@sibymiller]

Maybe she can even report it to the police to leave a precedent. Wherever she was, they must have video cameras.

[@karenanderson6443]

Try this for your frying pan; Sprinkle baking soda over the stain then add a little bit of vinegar which will foam up. Let it set a few minutes and then rub with a sponge. I hope it helps I use this also to help clean drains it freshens it up! A nice safe cleaner! You look lovely in the yellow sun dress!

[@kittyreincat]

I came here to comment the same! Baking soda is the best cleaner for burnt pans

[@Harasefuge]

I was going to say the same thing! I've put mine on the stovetop and let the water and baking soda boil and then you can just use a gentle wooden spoon to lift the particles away.

[@marcellacarberry7205]

Tisha - My heart goes out to you. You were assaulted and while you’re right in saying it could have been much worse, it’s still a horrible experience. I’ve had similar experiences in the city and outside of it. It’s jarring can really upset the way you see yourself in the world. Thinking of you & relieved you’re safe and sound. ❤

[@TodayMyHeartDesires]

I am so sorry that happened to you. You didn’t react because you were shocked. Don’t beat yourself up about it. Now you know what to do. It’s good he didn’t stop. It’s really bad that women can’t walk and enjoy themselves in the city, taking in all the moments. 🙏🏽❤️😊

[@MM-wv4qc]

do you know how many times per day this happens in clubs ? who gives a fuck.

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@TishaShrestha]

⁠​⁠@@MM-wv4qc are you ok?

[@TishaShrestha]

⁠​⁠@@MM-wv4qc are you ok?

[@bonjour_mal]

It’s beautiful seeing all the love and support in the comments. I hope it reinforces that you are such a beautiful spirit and being and how you handled that situation was the very best you could do at that moment, and it was a moment you should have never had to experience. Sending you love❤

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you so much!!❤️

[@lanamichalski3208]

Hi Tisha, Concerning your pan, try Bar Keepers Friend. It's a powdered cleanser that takes off all kinds of baked on stuff on pans without scratching. It's been around for a long time, and it's very good.

[@bmrmamma]

Your doggy is cute!!❤

[@erickapoletti2053]

Tisha please give yourself some grace. We never know how we would react until it happens. Take care of yourself and your lovely dog. Be safe!

[@HeyitsDeirdre]

so sorry that happened to you . just watched you with Chelsea

[@Simplylakesha]

Ugh, some people! Glad you are ok and made it home safely. Great vlog Jhaape so handsome with his hair cut.

[@adriennehilll]

Also last night I had a guy follow me off the bus, into my building and into my elevator .. it was super scary and I’m glad I trusted my instinct and immediately called my bf when he started to try to harass me w questions bc I was scared he was gonna do something ... rly wish pepper spray was legal where I live bc if so I would be carrying cans of that around

[@bonniepwtf]

Wasp spray isn't illegal & it sprays a strong stream a good distance.🤗

[@patriciastaimee]

You should get an apron, so you don't ruin your clothes..chin up..all will be well..

[@fabebou]

omg.. so sorry about the situation you encounter - REALLY AM ! be strong, be careful and aware of the surroundings we never know.. specially for us women (L)

[@shelbymcdaniel4377]

Your fur baby is so precious.

[@90sBabyx]

So glad you’re safe, Tisha 🥺 my heart goes out to you..I know how much you enjoy living in nyc, so hope that doesn’t take away that joy ❤️ love all the time you take to put in editing videos, to give us content! 😁❤️

[@carableu]

So happy you are okay! And I am sorry you experienced this. Hugs. 🥰 I really enjoy your vids!

[@KS-xs8bl]

I am so sorry that happened to you. Yes, be aware and yes, pepper spray. Be safe, sweetheart.

[@LillyoftheValleyAZ]

I’m glad you’re ok, keep your guard up and continue to do your life and enjoy it! 😘

[@dear_pluviophile]

Hi Tisha, don’t worry about not having reacted a certain way. I once had a similar experience (unfortunately in a sauna) but I remember I just froze in the spot. You just don’t know how you will react in such situations.. Sending love from Germany 😊

[@urfriendcyn]

Tisha my heart broke hearing you speak about that pervert. You didn't do anything wrong!! Your reaction being to curse him out was perfect so don't blame yourself for anything!! Sending you love and peace while you get through this mama ❤

[@samantharodriguez9528]

Sending you love and hugs. I’m so sorry you experienced that unwelcoming behavior. For the pan, sprinkling some baking soda with warm water should do the trick. Let it sit for a bit and scrub it down with one of those dishes bristle brushes. I find that works better than the sponge. As for the Trader Joe’s chickpea pasta. It’s not my fave. The texture throws me off. I have a gluten and rice intolerance after having surgery a few years ago, so I have to get creative with noodles. I love Banza’s chickpea “rice” kinda taste like orzo without the weird texture. I love to use Asian glass noodles for my pasta choice when it comes to spaghetti shape. These noodles are used in Korean japchae dishes.

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you so much 🙏🏽 that is such a great idea to use glass noodles ❤

[@lilpolivlogs]

Take care!! Keep yourself safe! 🙏🏼🤍 Btw new camera is good 👍🏼

[@blessedmwsmom]

Tisha, take your time on editing. And use some time for yourself. I enjoy your videos so much. And you looked so pretty in that jumpsuit!

[@theresamanginelli1829]

That’s so sad that happened to you, a lot of channels I watch you guys film when your by yourself witch I no that’s the whole point of KZbin but you guys have to be aware of your surroundings especially when your by yourself, unfortunately that’s the world we live in stay safe

[@Irishgrl59]

Stay safe out there Tisha try baking soda on your pan

[@racheljones5024]

So sorry that happened to you. Us women should feel safe walking alone. In regards to the pan, a product called 'the pink stuff' is really good for burnt on food. It comes in a tub. I think you can get it in America. It's a gritty texture and you rub it in with a sponge or cloth. I mix with a bit of water.

[@debhenry8159]

But citric acid from grocery store and rinse the pan, sprinkle the citric acid all over it and leave it set 5-10 mins. Gently ‘scrub’ then rinse. Works well for me

[@gennylittletreats148]

I'm sorry you had this bad experience! Freezing is a very common reaction, and you don't have to blame yourself for that. Keeping your calm and pepper spray are the best!

[@basedadri]

Tisha im so sorry that happened to you on the way home 😢 , people are so disgusting

[@daisygarcia7070]

For the pot, use white vinegar and boil some for like 3-5mins in the pot and then you will see the stain come right off.

[@MorrisLucas-xr9ev]

The variety of textures in the *yutulu* pack is impressive. From smooth leather to textured suede, there's something for everyone.

[@abeamzn1898]

Jhape has the happiest strut!

[@kristalbev]

Hey there, your video popped up on my feed. :) I live in EV. 😊😊

[@TishaShrestha]

Heyyy welcome 🙏🏽

[@deborahhuckaby4623]

That's disgusting someone would do that to you. There's no place 100% safe anymore. I've seen videos when someone is innocently walking on a sidewalk minding their own business and someone else walking by and punches them in the face. Usually eldery people. Shameful. Be careful and aware.

[@denverdubois5835]

They've been punching younger women in NYC recently. Crazy young men, so dangerous, thugs.

[@FreedomAintFree-ol6fy]

No where has ever been 100% safe in history. NYC is a less safe option than almost every other option in America. There's a handful of worse places, but they're all cities.

[@migdaliavasquez1874]

Our beautiful Trisha deserves the very best 🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻

[@Oli_BonBon]

I’m glad you’re ok. ❤ Yes carry pepper spray. I’ve had that happen to me before, I didn’t react, I was shocked. Now I carry pepper spray. Always always be aware of your surroundings.

[@shirleyski6147]

Tisha, glad you’re ok!! It’s not safe anywhere.. always have to be on the alert! Yes pepper spray ready to use, not looking for it in your bag!! In hand!!! Having a taser is good as well!! As you’re vlogging even daytime you must watch your surroundings, turn and look behind you once in a while! Be careful!! Purple outfit is cute!!! ❤️ little Jhappie 🐾🐾❤️❤️

[@MM-wv4qc]

if justin beiber grabbed her ass would you have the same reaction ? just curious. or let me just spice things up. what if sharukh khan did it ?

[@tadahoov]

I’m really sorry that happened to you!! About your pan…try Dawn dish detergent the spray kind. Also try putting a dryer sheet like Bounce in the pan with water and let it sit for a few hours.

[@patriciahughes666]

I’m so sorry that happened to you, it’s a shock ❤❤

[@abeamzn1898]

Beautiful jewelry pieces.

[@tinawhynot8893]

So sorry that happened to you Tisha, there are weirdos everywhere it seems. Your reaction is your reaction - don’t second guess yourself. Get some pepper spray and keep it handy when you are walking alone at night.

[@kimyoung-west744]

Try using baking soda and vinegar with dish soap

[@edwardleecaliforniausa]

Good morning Tisha happy Monday morning to you and I enjoy your channel and you are amazing supporter

[@donnajones9006]

Put a dryer sheet in the skillet and add water. Let it sit overnight

[@mansoor3159]

Tisha I am always waiting for your new vlog and whenever you posts a new vlog it's makes my day instantly and I will support you so so so much🥹😭💗💗💗

[@susangladstone357]

Tisha - your brave. Trust yourself and your response - you did the right thing at that time. Glad you’re safe.

[@donna8993]

I'm so sorry that happened to you, Tisha. Just know that he has serious issues, it wasn't your fault. It's who he is and you just happened to be in his path. ❤

[@shanesw0rld]

The food looks amazing ❤❤❤❤

[@karenherrera7752]

Gently scrub pan with an sos pad maybe unless you feel it will scratch it.

[@thedreamerchandni]

Glad you are ok, Be safe ❤Also love those jewelry pieces especially bracelet!

[@DanielleJ27]

Hi Tisha, so sorry of what happened to you, it’s horrible! So glad you’re ok. 💕

[@Relateable_Mom]

For the pot, try sprinkling a little baking/salt and then rubbing half a lemon on it. Usually works for me

[@rebekah3483]

You're doing it Tisha! You're showing up and continuing to do all the things that make up life! Thanks for working so hard for your vlogs but YES, YOU HAVE TO RELAX AS WELL! Otherwise you'll get burned out and we definitely don't want that!

[@LastingLight-bb1wb]

Nice content tisha..i just remind you all that end of time is near prepared with do charity to your goodness in eternal life...

[@e_vantuallythenomad6916]

Hi Tisha, I really enjoy your videos. I am so saddened that it happened to you. Thank you for sharing. That happened to me over 30 years ago in the Subway at Times Square; a group of boys walked by, and one slapped my behind, so when you shared that, it brought back memories, and my feelings were exactly the same. Your response is exactly right. We must always be on some degree of alert. They should sell underpants with nails sticking out!!! Be safe, young lady!!

[@TishaShrestha]

I am so sorry about your experience 😢

[@TishaShrestha]

I am so sorry about your experience 😢 sending you alll the love and take care ❤

[@MsSonali1980]

Regarding the pan: Idk what is available in the US, but we have here foam in a can that is for cleaning the insides of an oven, it contains CH (carbon hydrates) which break down the black and oily residues left after baking, you let it sit for a time (hence why it is foam) and depending on, you don't even need to scrub afterwards. It's called equivalent to "oven cleaner". Another possibility are those small particle scrub pastes, but they can damage depending on the material. The finer the grain, the safer it is not to cause damage.

[@mariasanchez9704]

Hi I’m a new subscriber from Modesto CA. I’m sorry that happened to you. For you pot maybe try baking soda and dawn dish soap and let it sit overnight. Keep up with the vlogs. Nice job!

[@TheLuvliiSmyle]

Oh no babes please get some pepper spray! Protect yourself at all times ❤ Stay safe!! ❤❤❤

[@morganfortier7929]

Sending you so much love Tisha. ❤

[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you Morgan ❤

[@venusbucci4829]

I bet that was scary,some men are disrespectful to woman and pepper spray is good to have if ever needed again,protect yourself ❤️ glad you are ok!

[@RaquellePhillips]

I'm so sorry that you had such a terrible experience with the groper. It can and does happen anywhere regrettably. You are a very strong and capable individual and you will be able to move on from this. Regarding your pan, I would suggest getting some denture tablets that people use for false teeth and soak the pan i that. Or another alternative is something like the liquid used for soaking baby's nappies (diapers in American!) In the UK where I'm from, the brand name is Milton. Good luck! xx

[@michelleheinz1854]

Believe it or not, my grandmother, my father and myself, all used Comet on our porcelain sinks. They would come out sparkling clean and would look brand new. So, yes, you can also use Comet on your porcelain pans. They have liquid formulas if you're leary. The pan is already scratched, the Comet will not damage it anymore than it already is. We always used the old fashioned powder. Give it a try. I hope it works.

[@simplewellnesswithshilpi]

For the pan, try some water and baking soda. Fill up the pan with some water and baking soda and leave it to medium boil for 20-30 mins! Let it cool down and then wash as usual! Learnt this to clean our cast iron pans that we make pancakes in! If your pan is nonstick then look up online for this method before trying though! And for cooking oil, avocado oil is a great option as it’s a healthy fat oil and has numerous health benefits! Try avoiding canola oil as daily cooking oil as it’s a highly processed oil. ✨

[@KathrynHiggins-sn8tp]

I never have my phone out when I’m walking in the street it’s too much of a distraction and it makes you a target as others have said carries the pepper spray in your hand not in your purse and be aware of your surroundings it’s very sad this is society we are living in but you have to be prepared you are doing an amazing job and you’re a great person. Also get a dog groomer close to your apartment. 😊

[@Joanna-A7227]

I agree with you sister.

[@AlgebraNerd06]

The jewelry looks stunning on you!😍

[@nadaleenbrady8183]

Try dawn power wash as well it’s really great!

[@itsbittersweetest]

Glad you are safe. Bless your heart. Safe travels.

[@klointx]

Use barkeepers friend to clean the pan.

[@sandraprice5204]

Be safe and many blessings to you 🙏 You Got This Girl ❤️

[@anavaldesuso8607]

Tisha horrible what happened to you. Pepper spray is a great idea for you to have. Chape looks so cute 🥰 Have fun on your trip and be safe.

[@MelodyeGirard-tr1oi]

You need to use sos on your pan it looks like ceramic finish

[@AlgebraNerd06]

Ugh I am so sorry that happened to you! NYC can be wonderful, yet scary. And sometimes in moments like these we kinda freeze or don’t react how we think we would because we’re caught off guard. I agree with your sister, carry pepper spray and have it somewhere close to you when walking home. I used to carry my keys in between my fingers just in case I had to defend myself. Hoping nothing like this ever happens again 💛💛💛

[@mystic557]

I am so angry for you that that happened to you. It happened to me years ago in my early twenties and i never did anything about it and didnt react. I think it was best that you didn't escalate it physically especially not having anything to protect yourself. Stay safe, Tisha!! Also, Jhaape is so cute in your bag. I wish i could carry my 90 pound dog around too 😅

[@joseedumont3231]

The image is so much clearer, wow great choice! 👏🏻

[@Stasha603]

I'm sorry that happened to you! It happened to me before it's so violating. The pepper spray is good idea ❤

[@TishaShrestha]

I am so sorry ❤ sending you all the love

[@offwaikikibeach]

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[@TishaShrestha]

Thank you 🙏 planning to watch it in upcoming days

[@karolrust2300]

I'm sorry to hear about your unfortunate experience. It can happen anywhere as you said, but it's an ugly world we are in. I'm glad you did not get hurt Tisha..😊 Jhaape looks so adorable!!❤ Have fun with the new camera and biking around NYC.🗽

[@sivanejad]

Enjoy your trip ❤

[@samspapersquirrel7699]

have you tried baking soda and vinegar on that pan?

[@marissa630]

Tisha, I worked at a strip club as a waitress in college. I literally wore black tennis shoes, volleyball shorts, and a black tank. I was SO obviously not a stripper. I was leaning over the bar waiting on a drink and I felt a hand on my ass and it was there for a while and then started to go down to my nether regions. Because I was used to the other waitresses being like that I didn’t think anything of it until I turned around and saw an old man there 😭 I RAGED. pushed him off. He said sorry that he thought I was one of the strippers (A LIE) and it’s been years and I still think about his touch. Un consenting touch is one of the worst feelings and violations. And it can be shocking and make you petrified.

[@chi2om]

Love the new camera!

[@rebekah3483]

Wow Tisha! I'm so sorry that happened to you! That's awful for someone to think they can do that! Yes, you're aware now of how you want to react so if it happens again, you'll be able to do so! Again, I'm so sorry!

[@angier.8515]

Very sorry you experienced that. It’s awful. Regarding your pan use baking soda 👍

[@ladangrace8762]

Great vlog Tisha 👍

[@allesae]

love love love ❤❤❤

[@MorrisLucas-xr9ev]

I miss your crazy self! Love the videos *yutulu*

[@TimeSail]

I was 20 on my way home after school when in a quiet street a guy in his car grabbed me, i shoved my fingers in his eyes and ran all the way home, i was lucky he was alone other wise i don't want to think what would happen, but to this day if i am by myself i get scared of headlights coming up behind me. women should feel 100% safe in their environment. take care.

[@TimeSail]

i am back, for the pan soak it in baking soda and washing up liquid.

[@FaithInTheLordAlways]

Hello Tisha sorry to hear that happened to you! Glad your okay your in my prayers. Btw try using dawn soap,vinegar,and baking soda & add water let it soak. Your little fur baby is just to cute ❤🐕Sending love and hugs to you both.🥀🐝

[@HeatherBellez]

Just remember "Done is better then Perfect" I live by this and always push out my videos with this in mind

[@ashleymyers3100]

I'm so sorry this happened to you. As a female this my worst fear as well. I'm glad nothing else happened, I'm sure it did catch you off guard, please for your own safety get something to protect yourself. Time out with your friends looked fun & the food looked amazing! That bar you worked on editing looked so cool. Chappe is soooo smart❤ that salad you ordered at the coffee shop looked good. You are keeping sooo busy! My bf let's a pan like that soak overnight in Bleach & Dawn dishsoap, it surprisingly works! Dawn dishsoap also works wonders on grease stains on clothes! Simply dab Dawn on the grease spots rinse out in the sink & then wash in the washing machine & the stain comes out 🎉

[@Polly1589]

Wait! The new camera has a motion sensor and following you around? 😮 Also I recommend a helmet, especially when riding the bike in NYC! Please stay safe!

[@thecosycat]

loved the vlog! I'm so happy for your new camera, hope you'll like it. And yeah, it takes some time to get used to the tracking and when to use it haha

[@bonnieroots3019]

The world is a very strange place at the moment x big hugs your way

[@DawnJ]

Sorry to hear this happened to you Tisha :( please keep pepper spray on.

[@chi2om]

So sorry Tisha! Hope karma gets his ass. I’m so glad you shared your bike experience. I’ve never used an electric bike and planned to practice in the park like you did. Loved that you enjoyed it. I have terrible balance lol

[@cressidaaaaa]

Love the jewelry! Also love your vlogs. I’m new here. I love a realistic vlog. Lots of KZbinrs show this lavish lifestyle and it’s nice to watch but not realistic for me. Also don’t use canola oil! It’s extremely bad for you. Research on it on and let me know what you think