4 PRACTICAL WAYS TO STAY PURE BEFORE MARRIAGE

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Hannah Williamson

Hannah Williamson

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@HannahJanelWilliamson
@HannahJanelWilliamson 4 жыл бұрын
Hey guys!! Drop a comment down below letting me know your thoughts! Agree/ disagree? Any testimonies or personal experiences? Love y’all ❤️
@Jessie20032
@Jessie20032 4 жыл бұрын
Been there done that a loooonnngg time ago but God is good, Thankful for everything that God has done and continues to do in my life and thankful for God using me while I’m single for His glory, if God chooses for me to get married again then so be it! I know I’ll be pure in Gods eyes.
@jasonandprincesstravel
@jasonandprincesstravel 4 жыл бұрын
I agree
@heyysus
@heyysus 4 жыл бұрын
What would you say to someone who has done it all with many girls and guys to all the drugs in the world who r single. .. .
@AndrewLopez_ManforGod
@AndrewLopez_ManforGod 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video. For a long time, I have been someone who has struggled with staying pure. But I thank God for deliverance. God Bless you
@RollnWithJesus
@RollnWithJesus 4 жыл бұрын
Literally Jesus is all that matters when it's all said and done! ❤✝️🔥
@HannahJanelWilliamson
@HannahJanelWilliamson 4 жыл бұрын
Daniel Couch Amen 🙏🏼🙌🏼
@nancyrooney9777
@nancyrooney9777 4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@maryrobertson4638
@maryrobertson4638 4 жыл бұрын
So good!👏 I definitely needed this! I've had a lot of influence from non-believers with what their dating is like. They talk about the physical side of it so much and sometimes it feels like I'm the only one striving to save myself and honor God with my relationships. Your channel is so encouraging to me because you don't water things down. You speak truth and you speak it boldly.
@HannahJanelWilliamson
@HannahJanelWilliamson 4 жыл бұрын
Mary Robertson Aw thanks girl!! So glad to hear!! You keep chasing after Jesus and what He thinks- not what any man thinks! God bless you 😊🙏🏼❤️
@technoloverish
@technoloverish 4 жыл бұрын
@@HannahJanelWilliamson Just to be clear, are you saying that the government should make it illegal for unmarried men and women to be alone together? Also, wouldn't this technically imply that because gay men, for example, are tempted by other men, they can only be alone with women but not other men? It ultimately fails to take into account that men are capable of also harassing other men and women other women. Furthermore, having a rule about never being alone with the opposite gender can be illegal in certain situations and ultimate be discrimination, particularly in the workplace. Not to mention, the rule falsely implies that men and women can't control their actions and don't have free will. This highly legalistic guideline is not explicitly mentioned in The Bible at it ultimately shows an unwillingness to teach men and women how to properly coexist with one another. What this basically perpetuates is that the only way to prevent men and women from being inappropriate with each other is to have witnesses, which isn't true. The rule basically paint men as inherently being slaves to their sexual urges and women as objects of lust. I think the reality is that because movies and tv shows so often unrealistically show what is supposed to happen when a man and woman are alone as a means of being more dramatic and entertaining, we often assume that that's how things actually are suppose to be. In addition, a lot of these cases of men "falling into temptation" with women are not motivated by sexual desire but rather abuses of power. It's not a whole lot different from a thief insisting that he must have a parole officer with him every time he goes to the bank to prevent him from robbing it. For a thief that is truly tempted to rob people and doesn't feel they can control themself, maybe that's a good rule for them, but it doesn't make it a good rule for everyone else, most of whom manage to go places alone and successfully fight the urge to rob people. The rule essentially presumes that either the man can't be completely trusted, or the woman can't be trusted, which probably means that either you or your partner need counseling so that you guys can trust each other. Also worth noting is that if a Muslim were to impose this sort of rule, many people, even likely you, would be highly critical of them for it. Finally, it should be noted that Jesus himself was alone with women on certain occasions, even though he wasn't married to them.
@mgmodp8966
@mgmodp8966 3 жыл бұрын
So encouraging to see that there are still some pure souls left out there! God bless you
@chrisgonzalez91
@chrisgonzalez91 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing Hannah! Something I learned from being with my ex is being equally yoked in our love for Jesus. She expressed her love to be a woman who God uses but she was still a freshly new believer and I’d known the Lord for 5 years. I was her distraction she was mine. I had big dreams for the Lord but we didn’t meet eyes on it. Sin came in and our relationship had to end. Now that I’m 23 I’ve never been so on fire and full of joy! Being used for His Glory and I hope the same for those who had to deal with that similar situation. God is good! Their is Grace for your Race. Finish well the race!
@HannahJanelWilliamson
@HannahJanelWilliamson 4 жыл бұрын
Great to hear!! Thanks for your comment and testimony 🙏🏼 God bless you!
@camoOC
@camoOC 4 жыл бұрын
I love how strong you are Hannah, and so appreciative of how you don’t compromise on God’s word despite all the pressure by today’s unhealthy society. God bless you and please keep it up(I’m sure you will!).
@victoraugusto3417
@victoraugusto3417 4 жыл бұрын
Hey, Wow!! I'm brazilian and I'm so happy I can see God speaking and teaching his word to everyone no matter where are you from!! Keep going in this way!! God bless y'all
@HannahJanelWilliamson
@HannahJanelWilliamson 4 жыл бұрын
V.A.M Vlogs That’s so awesome!! God bless you!!
@gracie-ud3wf
@gracie-ud3wf 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a young teen but I still decided to watch this because this is good info for the future
@DanielGibbsMusic
@DanielGibbsMusic 4 жыл бұрын
This young woman Hannah Williamson is making me reflect on the oOHHH Soo many bad choices ive made, i feel like nit a whole person now... i need God in my life agai n
@natalia-yg8gh
@natalia-yg8gh 4 жыл бұрын
God bless you
@carlosemendes
@carlosemendes 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing tips Hannah. I believe as you said we have to do everything to be pure and if that means sacrificing some things, that's fine, because a few years ago God sacrificed his only son for us.
@HannahJanelWilliamson
@HannahJanelWilliamson 4 жыл бұрын
Carlos Mendes Amen!! Thanks for your comment!! 🙌🏼😊 agree!
@trevincollins6998
@trevincollins6998 4 жыл бұрын
Self control is the most important thing.
@lissettelopez866
@lissettelopez866 4 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@zeal4god402
@zeal4god402 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for challenging us to go higher in our walk with God. You have definitely challenged me. What you have said is poignant and those kind of purity boundaries are rarely spoken of even in many Christian circles. Those boundaries need to be enforced.
@alegarcia2012
@alegarcia2012 4 жыл бұрын
I agree with you, I dated my ex fiance for 7 years!! For sure I thought he was the one...but the Lord showed me I depended too much on him instead of Jesus. Had to break up to grow and depend on God alone. Today I am free from that and 100 percent fully dependant on Jesus!! ❤❤❤
@ronfowlermusic
@ronfowlermusic 2 жыл бұрын
yeah, we don't need relationships with men or women, we need a relationship with Jesus.
@rainecoblentz5094
@rainecoblentz5094 4 жыл бұрын
A tip for some of the situations. If you are in a car with someone ( mainly if you are a teen) tell your parents about the time you should be there . They will expect you to be there by a certain time . If you have to be alone with them sit on different chairs. Like I have to be in my bfs room bc his parents so just sit in the chair you can be close but not too close :) but remember we all make mistakes and your not any less is a person keep working hard I know I need to. Have a good day :)
@henrikntrl
@henrikntrl 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing video! Having said that, it's so much easier just being single and walk the journey with Jesus :)
@ronfowlermusic
@ronfowlermusic 3 жыл бұрын
Stay pure during and after marriage too.
@qwertz666
@qwertz666 3 жыл бұрын
How can you stay pure after marriage? It's obvious that you'll have sex and everything after marriage.
@ronfowlermusic
@ronfowlermusic 3 жыл бұрын
@@qwertz666 so you get married and turn your back on God?
@marisantiago6287
@marisantiago6287 2 жыл бұрын
I was thinking that even I’d like to stay pure after marriage and surround my relationship around God and when the times comes and God calls me to make a family that’s when it would be a good time but making love between a husband and wife is renewing your vows you made with God ❤️❤️
@ronfowlermusic
@ronfowlermusic 2 жыл бұрын
@@marisantiago6287 the way you just said it makes it sound good - kissing and cuddling with your spouse; but I assume you mean "the act", where the man takes his (censored) and sticks it in the woman's (censored). That's not "renewing your vows you made with God", that's being carnal, giving in to temptation.
@katzly777
@katzly777 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, what a wow message!! Todah rabah/thanks much young sister in Yeshua/Jesus, for encouraging people to stay pure and undefiled. You are called for such a time as this, just like Esther, to be G-d's mouthpiece! I am sooo proud of you!! Yes, our bodies are temples of sweet Ruach Hakodesh/Holy Spirit! The majority of men have great respect for women who are pure and undefiled. Wishing you many blessings in Yeshua! Shalom shalom!
@1dionysos606
@1dionysos606 4 жыл бұрын
How you can make just a big commitment without sharing that level intimacy?
@alittletadpole1310
@alittletadpole1310 4 жыл бұрын
Because what you commit to is the soul
@faithbradley4224
@faithbradley4224 4 жыл бұрын
To be fair, I’d be happy with whatever boundaries my future husband wants to set. I don’t want to have sex before marriage but I’m just waiting until I meet my future husband to set boundaries. GOD BLESS YOU ALL, HE LOVES YOU ALL❤️💜💖💓💞💛🧡❤️💚💙💕💘💚💖💗✝️☮️💟
@lanceeilers5061
@lanceeilers5061 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Hannah just something to bare in mind - Gomer (go'-mer) was the wife of the prophet Hosea (8th century BC), mentioned in the Hebrew Bible's Book of Hosea (1:3). Hosea 1:2 refers to her alternatively as a "promiscuous woman" (NIV), a "harlot" (NASB), and a "whore" (KJV) but Hosea is told to marry her according to Divine appointment. We never know what God has install for us , but we need to be obedient , His plan's are not out plan's , He is the beginning and the end , the alpha and the omega , He sees past your transgressions to find the diamond within , because He values you and the choices you will make to bring you closer to Him , He takes a negative and makes it a positive , You will be tested and refined like gold until you are pure , I do not profess to understand God , But understand that sometimes one needs to endure alot of pain to burn up the pride and self preservation , as with the prodigal son that came back to his father , We are sinful and destructive creates by our very core , only God knows how to mold our hearts , we need to know that by choice we can come home , and fix our brokenness , Paul speaks of suffering is good because it produces endurance and character , someone whom has experienced those things can add so much insight and perspective , because he or she came threw with a deeper understand of God and who He is. xxx Lance great channel.
@davidgalano8976
@davidgalano8976 4 жыл бұрын
Your awesome Hannah what a blessing you are God bless you
@Rob9mm
@Rob9mm 3 жыл бұрын
Great work Hannah!
@bioarmor79
@bioarmor79 4 жыл бұрын
I wish I would have watied for the right one to be honest. GOD bless.
@marisantiago6287
@marisantiago6287 2 жыл бұрын
Same here
@LennonBaksh
@LennonBaksh 2 жыл бұрын
All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works.
@LennonBaksh
@LennonBaksh 2 жыл бұрын
2Ti3:16-17
@aureliadunu3595
@aureliadunu3595 4 жыл бұрын
I love u Hannah
@sambailie4773
@sambailie4773 4 жыл бұрын
I like you Hannah and I stayed a virgin for marriage but I went out in a car and was alone with my future husband. We are not animals you know!!!! I love and respect you tho sister x
@qwertz666
@qwertz666 3 жыл бұрын
I think people should have a time alone together before marriage to get to know each other.
@lio345
@lio345 4 жыл бұрын
Disclaimer: if you choose to save yourself for religious reasons, that is very admirable and good for you--these are life choices that are well within your rights. But a lot of the messages promoted in videos like these aren't great and can cause damage, especially on a young, impressionable audience. You act like the second someone is alone with their significant other they can't resist jumping on top of each other. This is just...not the case and promotes such a warped viewpoint of sex. So many Christians get married young largely (but not entirely of course) for sexual reasons, which is not smart nor is it a good foundation for marriage. And then overnight in a magical ceremony, sex is suddenly okay? How can you go from repressing sexual thoughts and actions for your whole life to telling yourself everything is fair game in one day? This is how people end up needing therapy.
@ianbetts4435
@ianbetts4435 4 жыл бұрын
Your first time is your first time. Better with your life partner then someone who you will never see again.
@patrickjankowski3476
@patrickjankowski3476 4 жыл бұрын
Im 20 and 100% agree with Hannah.
@lukelokesh8681
@lukelokesh8681 4 жыл бұрын
You're free to make choices but are not free from the consequences of those choices
@ronfowlermusic
@ronfowlermusic 2 жыл бұрын
@@lukelokesh8681 better to remain abstinent and alone. People just see marriage as an excuse to surrender their values and get carnal.
@zeal4god402
@zeal4god402 4 жыл бұрын
For those having intense boundaries with their bf/gf, I imagine not giving into infidelity would be way easier since the habits of boundaries are already there
@heyysus
@heyysus 4 жыл бұрын
Love you god bless 🙏💯😇💓
@LennonBaksh
@LennonBaksh 2 жыл бұрын
Howbeit we speak wisdom among them that are perfect: yet not the wisdom of this world, nor of the princes of this world, that come to nought:But we speak the wisdom of God in a mystery, even the hidden wisdom, which God ordained before the world unto our glory:Which none of the princes of this world knew: for had they known it, they would not have crucified the Lord of glory. 1Co2
@lapastelapaste1511
@lapastelapaste1511 4 жыл бұрын
Hello, thank you for your post. I am an young christian man. Do you think that a christian father should choose for his daughter wheter or not she should mary like in the Bible ? Can the father choose his son in law for his daughter ?
@oliverjohnson6649
@oliverjohnson6649 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks girl! Needed this
@HannahJanelWilliamson
@HannahJanelWilliamson 4 жыл бұрын
Oli, 😊🙏🏼💙🙌🏼
@palatoraffinato7552
@palatoraffinato7552 4 жыл бұрын
so you're saying that you should stay away even from kissing?
@bogdan6457
@bogdan6457 4 жыл бұрын
I'll better stay single than have a chaperone. Honestly, it's the first te I heard this word, I didn't knoe the meaning so I looked on internet. It is just ridiculous, sorry, I don't want to be a hater, but if you are a strong christian why should you always fear of sinning? You should overcome temptation.
@si_a_to2086
@si_a_to2086 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing 👍
@robe5307
@robe5307 4 жыл бұрын
You will mess up if your alone.
@ashoknayak7753
@ashoknayak7753 4 жыл бұрын
too good.
@ranip7644
@ranip7644 4 жыл бұрын
I mean I live with my bf but I'm a virgin. Being alone with him is unavoidable but I plan on saving myself for marriage.
@douglausbeedles4717
@douglausbeedles4717 4 жыл бұрын
Divine
@livingunashamed4869
@livingunashamed4869 4 жыл бұрын
Good video what happened with your ex? Not sure if you ever mentioned it.
@heyysus
@heyysus 4 жыл бұрын
What would you say to someone who has done it all with many girls and guys to all the drugs in the world who r single. .. .
@hotf1ght3r93
@hotf1ght3r93 4 жыл бұрын
And what about chastity belt? A christian chastity belt of course.
@freyaaayaaaayaaaa
@freyaaayaaaayaaaa 4 жыл бұрын
Don't be alone with opposite gender sounds sexist to me. It's 100% alright to be alone with anybody because even if you're alone with the same gender, the devil can still tempt you to sin sexually with them.
@triplea6174
@triplea6174 3 жыл бұрын
Don't take it that way it's just most of the world and especially Christians are heterosexual. But you're right that even with the same gender it can happen. But isn't the norm and people who have same sex attractions should be careful with the same gender and choose who to be alone with wisely.
@Cringeygirl806
@Cringeygirl806 4 жыл бұрын
If your true to yourself you don't really need this.
@103PAstatechampdv
@103PAstatechampdv 4 жыл бұрын
cant slip up if theres no options hah
@kar3n35
@kar3n35 4 жыл бұрын
If u girls feel like u cant be in a car alone with the guys better avoid it. As long as im not spending the night im ok. I do have the desire to date super classy when i really like a guy so i can make special memories. Am ok with kisses hugs and making out.
@kingbeef396
@kingbeef396 4 жыл бұрын
So are you single
@hirtzlifechristianblogs9285
@hirtzlifechristianblogs9285 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂 This might be too forward, but I'd say the guy and girl shouldn't prepare/groom downstairs, so they would not feel comfortable naked in front of eachother. Just one more hurdle to jump. 👍🏼
@hirtzlifechristianblogs9285
@hirtzlifechristianblogs9285 4 жыл бұрын
Javelin Melody good point...it depends on the couple
@kar3n35
@kar3n35 4 жыл бұрын
I was thinking about that. So im ok to be alone, to go out, to be in car. No problem. But!!!!! I coulnt stand it if i saw him shirtless. I just couldnt. I become arouse visualy and if i see him shirtless i will be aroused. I would have to look away or put on him ashirt. Like going to beach or pool would be like torture. I would have to tell him to cover for me cus is making me sin. Also drinking. If im drinking im not gonna stop i know.
@qwertz666
@qwertz666 3 жыл бұрын
How can you go to a swimming pool if they are many shirtless men? If shirtless men are making you sin easily you have a problem then.
@g3dr0cht
@g3dr0cht 4 жыл бұрын
I always used to watch a lot of these videos and really liked the advice. I thought the idea of keeping myself pure for my husband was an amazing idea and I actually thought it would be kinda easy, not to mess with boys. turns out im just a lesbian.
@ranip7644
@ranip7644 4 жыл бұрын
God loves you. It's the sin he doesn't like. Just because you have attraction to women doesn't mean you need to act on it. I know that will be insanely difficult, but with God all things are possible. If you're serious about God just ask him to help you with it. There's always hope. Please do not give into what the world tries to tell you.
@featheredskeptic1301
@featheredskeptic1301 4 жыл бұрын
About number 2: Can you be alone with the same gender? ;) Seriously though, this "keeping pure before marriage" is just silly. Have at it, you will have a better relationship, also you are going to do a better job at selecting the correct person. There's a reason why divorce rates are highest in the most religious communities you know.
@hatedapostlecooper5169
@hatedapostlecooper5169 4 жыл бұрын
No you won't. Divorce rates are high because they think like you and want to do what you are saying. They think Marriage is about their own selves. Marriage is about love and serving your spouse through the thick and thin, good and bad times. That's real love.
@featheredskeptic1301
@featheredskeptic1301 4 жыл бұрын
@@hatedapostlecooper5169 They do what I'm saying AFTER they are married? Well that's kinda expected from people that never got around to gather some sexual experience before they got married. I'm saying you should do that before marriage, also do it with the person you are about to marry. This way you will not be curious about this stuff after you got married. So no, you flipped my words 180 degrees.
@featheredskeptic1301
@featheredskeptic1301 4 жыл бұрын
@dev0n james Well according to all statistics they are better than in the most religious areas. Also I'm not a feminist nor lgbtq nor are atheists, feminists and homosexuals the same thing. One can be either or both or it may not be. Just because these are people you don't like, you don't get to pretend they are.
@featheredskeptic1301
@featheredskeptic1301 4 жыл бұрын
@Javelin Melody We can excuse it all day, the fact remains. If you have the chance of living with the person as if married before the actual marriage, aren't you going to be able to do a more informed choice? And of course there's lots of cheating, especially in the "pure before marriage communities". Once you actually have sex, you get curious and next thing you know you are both cheating.
@featheredskeptic1301
@featheredskeptic1301 4 жыл бұрын
@dev0n james There we go, we finally revealed the tinfoil hat. So there's a global conspiracy to "fix" some obscure statistics, and the whole reason behind that is... to make fundamentalist christians act like normal, sane people? Otherwise - yes. I am fully aware you don't accept any of the data. In the 21-st century you have to do that in order to convince yourself that magic is real, dead people come back to life and snakes can talk. About the last thing: I'm happy to see you don't like me, this means I'm doing something right.
@mscottster444
@mscottster444 4 жыл бұрын
Agree completely. PREACH! I read the book “Dateable” by Justin Lookado and Haley Dimarco. And there was a chapter about it. Ask yourself do you want to spend full price for a car that doesn’t look brand new. It compared how far you go before marriage the more stuff, wear and tear, that goes into a car then try to sell it to someone. It was eye-opening. Your channel is amazing 😇
@HannahJanelWilliamson
@HannahJanelWilliamson 4 жыл бұрын
mscottster444 interesting! Thanks for your comment and input! 😄
@brickinterviewertv
@brickinterviewertv 4 жыл бұрын
that slowmo
@hmjolley
@hmjolley 4 жыл бұрын
You give me the serious lesbian vibes. In the best way.
@Amazing_Mark
@Amazing_Mark 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, this was pretty terrible. 🤮 It sounded like Morgan had written the script for this video for you. I'd have been interested to get Kiersten's input.
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