4 Public Speaking Tips for More Confidence

[@alexanderlyon]

Here are the links I mentioned to Brenden's free workshop and channel: - Brenden's Free Live Workshop: www.rockstarcommunicator.com/ - Brenden's Channel: kzbin.info

[@MasterTalks]

I started watching your videos Alex a month before I started my channel when you had 10,000 subscribers. You were a big inspiration for me to start mine and share my own ideas on public speaking & communication. Never thought when I pressed record in January 2019 that we would ever end up being friends and collaborating together. It's a true honor to get your support on what we're building. You rock brother. Glad to know you.

[@alexanderlyon]

Hey, Brenden. Thanks for the awesome tips. I love working together on projects like these. Thank you for your consistent encouragement.

[@0_1_2]

Dear Brendan, thank you for teaching me how to more effectively flail my hands!

[@catzeegr8885]

Trying to get my KZbin going! U can tell I’m a bit uncomfortable/ not as confident as I am in the real world. So glad to find this

[@alexanderlyon]

It takes time to "find your voice" and feel comfortable but you just keep doing it consistently and you'll get a little better every time.

[@lorae7]

Excellent - I have been in radio broadcasting for 30 years and yet public speaking has terrified me. I find myself being asked more and more to speak publically and my negative thoughts want to stop me and cause me to doubt myself. It's one thing to speak in a "padded room" as opposed to speaking with everyone looking at you. I'm getting less nervous - but still have a long way to go. Thanks for these videos. They help so much.

[@alexanderlyon]

You can do it!

[@evachan3261]

Like the jigsaw example. Like your collaboration with others and make the topics more diversify. I don’t need to go any other channels as yours already have the best combined. Thanks for the effort!

[@alexanderlyon]

Awesome, thank you, Eva. I'm doing my best to bring in others to add variety.

[@alyjacobsen]

I appreciate the collaborations you've been doing recently Dr. Lyon! It's been insightful to see where you and other content creators align when it comes to communication.

[@alexanderlyon]

Thanks, Aly.

[@djr3501]

I was immediately inspired by that Tie story! Felt like a door opening in my brain…thanks for that! I’m subbing 👍🏽👍🏽

[@andrianalytvyn6245]

Thank you for sharing. These tips are so much helpful!

[@alexanderlyon]

Glad it was helpful, Andriana.

[@johndenver5015]

Great video. I've been struggling very much with myself. Coach I I've been learning a lot about relationships and I have been married more than once. And I certainly don't feel qualified for this but I truly want to share what I learned and what works but I don't want to sound like a know it all because I'm still learning and I don't think I will ever master all of it but I don't want to sit on the sidelines either when people struggle with marriage and other types of relationships. Example s like work And other family members And church members. I do feel like I have something to offer.

[@處女座大叔]

i paid a special thanks, thanks a lot for all of you

[@revzone3544]

This guest is really, bourgeoisie.. His delivery on confidence is like cold fish. When a person comes off as if he has confidence, pouring on so thick as he does, with his voice inflections rising like a teenager being pinched on the rear-end, he sounds impersonal and unsure.. Hes young, hopefully he grows out of it. "Confidence" is like taking a shower, just relax and hit the important areas. Then dry off and kick back.. Confidence doesn't need to be riddled with a bunch of hokum.. Respectfully..In any case, I gave your video a like..

[@yikana7535]

Thanks for articulating what i felt

[@0_1_2]

I enjoy they way that you respectfully raked him over the coals

[@miuthub7954]

Please direct us to your KZbin channel and content?

[@dafluffernut]

Thank you for this. The part about anxiety resonated. I’ll add those tips to one I also learned: turn the anxiety into positive animation.

[@posmasinurat637]

Alex, I started watching your video when you were on Lisa's YT channel. This is marvelous. Thanks a lot.

[@alexanderlyon]

Wow, thank you, Posma. Lisa is great.

[@katies8043]

Hi Coach! I think my biggest obstacle is a rapid heartbeat right before reading or speaking. It seems to weaken my voice. Any tips on how to slow this?

[@avanz2885]

Been there, for me I noticed exposure helps meaning I no longer shy away for public speaking ( and its a job requirement so that helps). A wonderful woman Terry said she tells herself that the butterflies in her stomach are from excitement not fear. I take deep breaths and look at the audience before its my turn to speak to humanize them. They want to hear from you, hope that helps 👍👍

[@cleverchitsara3079]

the jigsaw puzzle is awesome but how can you make a good introduction and conclusion for tge subject that you haven't understood yet. i agree you have to practice these separately but understand the subject 1st..

[@theschoolofbodylanguage]

Amazing Coaches 👏 Congratulations to both of you ❤ 💖

[@alexanderlyon]

Thanks, Roxani.

[@prof.dr.evonebotros3485]

Thanks 😍

[@rezzob]

someone need to teach this public speaking “couch” how to speak like a person

[@YogisSelfRealizationSutra]

Awesome public speaking advice.

[@處女座大叔]

多謝！

[@alexanderlyon]

Thank you for your gift. I appreciate your support!

[@centpushups]

If you have repetitive thoughts problem the 50 seems small.

[@gloriaokafor569]

please can i get the pdf materials

[@alexanderlyon]

The link is in the description below the video but here's a direct link to the free resources page: www.alexanderlyon.com/free-resources

[@johndenver5015]

This May help help you for clarifying what I want to do. I too want to start a KZbin channel I've been wanting to do this for a few years. Any thoughts you might have would be greatly appreciated.

[@alexanderlyon]

I follow various channels who give great advice on how to run a good channel. I recommend Sean Cannell's Think Media channel, Justin Brown's Primal Video, and Roberto Blake's channel for starters. I've essentially just taken their advice and put it into practice.

[@johndenver5015]

Thanks coach

[@kskprive]

Oh God. Its very difficult to listen to him. Too much acting 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@Cro-Magnon99]

This guy sounds like Elizabeth Holmes.

[@mj459]

I don't understand the guest. I absorb nothing all he says and too much exaggeration giving emphasis to the word. He's like practicing public speaking in your content.

[@darwinponcecano4662]

👍

[@kyawzayarwin8027]

Why no subtitle

[@alexanderlyon]

Click on the CC icon. There are subtitles in over 15 languages.

[@kyawzayarwin8027]

@@alexanderlyon thx I didn’t know clicking cc can change subtitle or turn on subtitle it worked now

[@altinmares8363]

Please analyze >> Barack Obama Speech at 2004 DNC Convention

[@alexanderlyon]

It's not a bad idea but I don't do reactions to active politicians. Obama is still in the mix of things too much. My channel does not have a political focus. That would be a distraction from what I'm hoping to teach.

[@altinmares8363]

@@alexanderlyon Ok Alex post videos about - Aristotle rhetoric - Cicero (On the Ideal Orator) Thank You for all!!

[@alexanderlyon]

Hi, Altin. Yes, I have videos already that touch on those topics. If you go to the Videos tap on the channel page, you'll see plenty of stuff (over 200 videos). However, I don't typically put names like Cicero in the title because very few people would care to watch that. I have a video titled, for instance, the _5 Canon's of Rhetoric_ . Even that one is a pretty hard sell for viewers. And I touch on Aristotle's ideas all of the time. I mention those names in the videos themselves but rarely the titles.

[@altinmares8363]

@@alexanderlyon i know Alex,thank you for all!

[@RG-gd5tc]

Sorry. I can't listen to this guest. His delivery is way too contrived and feels inauthentic.

[@alexanderlyon]

He's a prepared communicator, I'll give you that, R G. But I've known him for a while now and he's the same on camera as he is off-camera and he practices what he preaches.

[@RG-gd5tc]

@@alexanderlyon This would make an interesting video. Your narrative is also "prepared", but the timbre and pace are fluid/natural - his was not. It is similar to what I pick up with people in sales or political/religious leaders who are trying to be persuasive. It is an instant shut down for me. I didn't get past 15 words once he started. The content may be great, but obfuscated by the delivery. For me alone?

[@alexanderlyon]

Ah, interesting. Well, we all do have preferences in terms of style. It's a little like the way we enjoy certain styles of music, acting, or the way we "click" with some people's personalities but not others.

[@RG-gd5tc]

@@alexanderlyon An interesting analogy. For me, effective communication does not feel like a performance. I value your insights and appreciate your channel!

[@milacole4135]

No hate but this other guy sounds like kanye making fun of kim for saying they dont have a jaccusi(ihni how to write that word😂)

[@MaxHarden]

Be prepared, then throw away your notes and wing it.

[@chandrakant1479]

My God. The "expert" is unbearable

[@nickw22689]

I want a sip of whatever he's sippin' on...

[@yixingj4713]

Why did he say: “even for me”! That’s a bit arrogant 😒🤮

[@filippxx]

The ivite has the most fake accent I ever heard. He skips it one every few words.

[@MrHyper-rv5wt]

Bro sounds so emo.

[@alexliu801]

that mans face is like has been sheered in the direction of the vector (2,-1)