What i feel is good parenting. .. this definition can change from person to person.. but my take on what is great parenting is not about what the parent does but about what the environment in the home feels like...
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@nivedithapulikkal58203 жыл бұрын
It's high time that parents should give great importance for individuality nd also give respect to their children as they r giving for any others in the house or elders..it's so bad that there was no such parenting tools or no classes or workshops..for our parents..let the coming generation has wonderful parents who can grow along with the child...lots of love nd respect for u swathy mam for sharing such contents nd ideas that really make us think...❤️
@mayasamma-malayalam46663 жыл бұрын
thanks da
@ardhratk18843 жыл бұрын
കുറച്ച് ദിവസങ്ങൾ മുൻപ് എന്റെ ഒരു relative auntyയും 8thഇൽ മകനും വീട്ടിൽ വന്നു. വിശേഷങ്ങൾ പറയുന്ന കൂട്ടത്തിൽ online class ഉം school ഉം ഒക്കെ കഴിഞ്ഞ് കുട്ടിയുടെ height ഇൽ വന്നെത്തി. Aunty പറഞ്ഞു "എന്തു പറഞ്ഞാലും കരച്ചിൽ മാത്രം ഒള്ളൂ. ആൺകുട്ടികൾ ആയാൽ ഇങ്ങനെ ആണോ വേണ്ടത്? Height ഉം ഇല്യാ. ഇവന്റെ class ലെ കുട്ടികൾ ഒക്കെ നല്ല ഉയരം ഒക്കെ ഉണ്ട്. ഇവൻ മാത്രം ആണ് ഇങ്ങനെ.. വീട്ടിൽ എല്ലാവരും അത്യാവശ്യം ഉയരം ഉള്ളവരാണ്. ഇവൻ മാത്രം എന്താണാവോ ഇങ്ങനെ ആയി പോയത്" Aunty ഇങ്ങനെ പറഞ്ഞപ്പോൾ കുട്ടിയുടെ മുഖം മാറിയത് ഞാൻ ശ്രദ്ധിച്ചു. "Height ഇൽ ഒക്കെ എന്തിരിക്കുന്നു aunty" എന്ന് ഞാൻ മറുപടിയായി പറയുകയും ചെയ്തു. ഒരു parent എങ്ങനെ ആയിരിക്കരുത് എന്ന് ആ aunty എനിക്ക് കാണിച്ചുതന്നു. ഇങ്ങനെയുള്ള കാര്യങ്ങൾ especially parents പറയുമ്പോൾ അത് കുട്ടികളുടെ confidence നെയും parents നോട് ഉള്ള അവരുടെ വിശ്വാസത്തേയും വളരെ അധികം ബാധിക്കും.
@mayasamma-malayalam46663 жыл бұрын
It's so sad when parents body shame children. Thank you for sharing that. We all get to learn from others experiences.
@mymobile10543 жыл бұрын
കുട്ടി ഓട് തുങ്ങആന് പറയുക growing stageil തങ്ങിയആല് hight കൂട്. പിന്നെ കൂട് ഇല്ല. പിന്നെ നല്ല food കഴിക്കുക. എന്നോട് അ ageil ആരും തുങ്ങആന് പറഞ്ഞു തന്നു ഇല്ല.
@sajinkurian46993 жыл бұрын
I'm just 23,but i'm always look up to your videos for these kinda topics. These are great lessons.
@breezypaul3 жыл бұрын
Can't agree with you more. Every night when we put our children to bed, we say to them 'you are beautiful, you are important, you are precious and we love you'. Unconditional love is important, in this very conditional world.
@kavyanair39503 жыл бұрын
I am an undergraduate student from Kerala ... actually the information in this video is very familiar to me but not familiar to my parents and I truly wish that this video shd be caught by their eyes. Bcz such friendly parents are really essential in this century, as it would really affect their children's future be it a boy or girl.
@easyart22313 жыл бұрын
When ever I say something about bringing up my child my mother used to say," Ethonnum areyathe njngalum makkale nokkettund".. Now we have enough resources so let us explore
@athiraathi63073 жыл бұрын
Become the parent you wanted ❤
@indulekhagauri15083 жыл бұрын
♥️it’s really good to hear new new enlighting things from you ma’am. Waiting for more videos .
@godzgreat8538 Жыл бұрын
I just noticed your channel and watching ur videos, especially parenting videos. Really good. Subscribed your channel now. Thank you for the videos.
@sivakamilakshmanan2392 жыл бұрын
hi sister actually unga video tamil la paathean romba helpful romba stress la irundhean enoda paiyan romba trandrum pannumbodhu romba kovapattu satham potean he is 2 years old avan alumbodhu kovam varudhu bcoz thaniya dhan enoda household wrks ellam pannanum so wrk time la avan yedhachum trandrum panna kovam varudhu romba depressed ah feel pannean naa oru nalla mother illayanu yaarkita poi enoda prblm ah sollanu but unga video do motivating enakulla oru pudhu feel enoda baby boy side la irundhu yosika arambichean kovam kammi aagiruchu ipo avan kita shout pannuradha kammi pannitean still breast feeding my 2 yr baby
@Sn-gy7wf3 жыл бұрын
Mam.. Work cheyuna parents ngane kuttikale care cheyum.. I am 5 months pregnant and working.. I really wanted to be a good parent. Parents koode illate namukk ngane kuttikale influence cheyan patum. Please do a video about it mam.. Plzz
@gayathrivarrier6226 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful video... Thankyou so much for your valuable information
@sivakamilakshmanan2392 жыл бұрын
your videos are so helpful inum idheh madhiri neraya parenting related videos podunga sister actually unga interview va aval glitz channel la paathean adhuku aparam dhan unga channel pathi therinchadhu enoda prblm ku solution kedachadhu thank you
@artinhands3 жыл бұрын
Parenting should be subject to learn...💕💕
@princeofdew70473 жыл бұрын
Great Informations... Hope it reaches more people. Stay blessed and happy as always 🥰
@Amal_Cochin2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this kind of topics.We will implement to our life this valuable comments when we become family
@shobanapremkumar27093 жыл бұрын
I have learnt and understood a lot of things from you... I have also referred ur page to a lot of my friends who are new parents... Thank u so much for enlightening us.. Keep up the good work☺👏
@storyteller65422 жыл бұрын
Just waw! Love you for the valuable content 😍
@wrenielaabraham6473 жыл бұрын
You are such an amazing mother! Your knowledge sharing on this subject is immensely amazing and impressive!🙏🏻😊
@swathivenugopal83253 жыл бұрын
I happened to read the book unconditional parenting... It was really awsome... I would like to know more about unconditional parenting... Expecting more videos on that...
@radhiyaify3 жыл бұрын
I really loved your concepts and have read a lot about it but when it comes in practicality I incline to the traditional way!! For example in unconditional love: How can I not show my disappointment if siblings are being rude How can I not show my bad mood for the rest of the day when they donot get ready on time or donot follow their time table? How I light up when they are neat n tidy, do their work and make healthy choices. Or probably I have not understood enough on unconditional love Please help me understand!! Please don't be rude when commenting✌peace!!
@mayasamma-malayalam46663 жыл бұрын
more videos coming up... stay tuned..
@sayanaanandan49003 жыл бұрын
Such an amazing talk….. thank you so much ☺️
@prajithavijith71882 жыл бұрын
Great information mam.. it's really helping me and my child.... thank you so much.. waiting for more informations
@preesapeter92643 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot for ur great information Ma'am 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥.
@aryamurali99223 жыл бұрын
Your content is gold!
@kavyakamal35423 жыл бұрын
Always a delight to watch ❤
@alsafy59152 жыл бұрын
It looks great..could you please put English translation ?
@growwithbabykiatia54373 жыл бұрын
Loved this. Excellent tips even I love to follow. :) I have seen some people asking for flying kiss from my daughter and when she wasn't giving they said "ayae cheeta kutti. Id kando ee kunj enik tanu flying kiss". Pointing to another kid of the same age.
@rekharnair3 жыл бұрын
Hi.. Thanks for this video. I would like to know how to make a win-win situation with kids on watching videos. Can you please share your thoughts?
@goutham3153 жыл бұрын
I can be a good dad .. and my baby will be a great human. ❤️
@jayasudhakj67683 жыл бұрын
First view 😍 waiting for dis video thanks dear... 🙏🏻
@taal.haal.24343 жыл бұрын
chechi..oru suggestion anu.sredhich ingane varumpo English il sentences marumpo aa sredha maaripokum English aryathavarkk...prethyekich chila terms okke..kureeekoodi aalukalil ethanam inganathe videos ennullathukondanu..athra needed content anu..♥️thank you for existing🙏
@Sarath01003 жыл бұрын
Always making good contents, Thank you mam 💖✨
@ardhratk18843 жыл бұрын
Chechi.. Keep making videos.. We love your content ❤️
@mayasamma-malayalam46663 жыл бұрын
thank you
@praseeda70703 жыл бұрын
Mam very great and useful content ..thankyou🙏
@restore__life17053 жыл бұрын
I really hope if all parents watch this!!!🥰🙏🙏👍
@devisuresh813 жыл бұрын
Maya is so lucky to have you ❤️
@minsymathai69543 жыл бұрын
I'm a regular viewer of ur channel.... could you do a video on" is it okay to have a single child"....... will it affect the child's character and things like that...
@mylifemyrules70373 жыл бұрын
Ente opinion it's all about you... Chilark orupaad kuttikal undakumbo pressure handle cheyyan pattila single child aanenkil koodi mattulla kuttikalumayi interact cheyyan anuvadhikuka
@hideandseek76062 жыл бұрын
Kollam ...ishttai chachi
@jumailamabi66513 жыл бұрын
Wow... Its superbbb
@shifaismail31212 жыл бұрын
I have a doubt!! I am not a parent, but I would like to know, how should a parent approach their children when they do something really naughty, like hurting others, lying or flicking something from somewhere. And what if the child keep on doing naughty things and in no way it is possible to make them understand what is good or what is bad?
@Rose-lz4kf3 жыл бұрын
Good message. Can you share an age wise detailed one.
@snehavanced45942 жыл бұрын
Encourage cheyanam, but if we can't say good girl or boy when they do something well. So what's to say then? Well done?
@elinmaryroy247 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful message❤️❤️
@afnananwar47963 жыл бұрын
The last info was just ❤️
@anukrishnav92703 жыл бұрын
Ente molk 3 yr kazhnju. Ellam paranjal anusarikum bt bhayankara upadravamanu ellarem apo enik valland deshyapedendi vararund chila times thalliyitum und athrak upadravamanu. Deshyapedand engne ath mati edkam . Paranj koduthoke noki aa time upadravikoola again same. What should I do?
@abhilash.k11623 жыл бұрын
Thank u so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
@vinsyaswin10423 жыл бұрын
Informational..keep pisting..🥰👌
@shravanbh99973 жыл бұрын
It's so nice to hear it ♥️
@helenandroos13703 жыл бұрын
Nice content.Thanks a lot!
@aiswaryasureshbabu65503 жыл бұрын
Useful content😊 Thank you
@vishnupriyar31452 жыл бұрын
Mam ente molk 2.5yrs aayi..pettenn deshyam varukayum pinakkavum okke aan..how can this be rectified..enthelum naughtiness kanikumpo angane cheythal mol veezhille allenkil angane cheythal vedanikille ennoke chodichal polum deshyam varum pinangum..
@darkwarrior27122 жыл бұрын
Every parent should remember that you child isn't yours, they have the complete right to live there life as they wish no matter good or bad
@sudhicheppu19233 жыл бұрын
Ma'am, is there any specific course which help us to become a good parent
Single parents nte parenting il sradiknda karyngal explain chyamo
@ajeesh80973 жыл бұрын
Good information mam... 👏👏👏
@akhilabalachandran34712 жыл бұрын
Good tips mam😊 Oru doubt. Geneder equalitye kurich paranju kodukkunna oru boy child Avante sis nthukonda verepolathe dress ntha Nik ingathe dress allenkil ornaments kurichu chodikkumbol anganathe questions enganeyanu deal cheyyendathu? Plz reply
@fathimahanna29612 жыл бұрын
Could you please suggest some books in malayalam or english about parenting. ?
@sherinkuruvilla99473 жыл бұрын
Hello.., Mayas amma..my 5.5 year old son has extreme anger issues.. can u suggest some solutions for this? Any suggestions are welcome pls
@sajanabhaskaran91063 жыл бұрын
Hi Maya's Amma, very useful content. Thank you :)
@newlife76802 жыл бұрын
Chechii I’m 20 yrs old bt my parents they are so so strict lyk the won’t allove me to go out with frnds and they restrict me from each and everything and this age i can handle this restriction love tourture Hw can I understand them this that i need freedom and i need independent in my life
@66668173 жыл бұрын
Suggest some books relating to parenting skills.
@sooryapournami48732 жыл бұрын
Kuttikal thettaya oru karyam cheyyukayo parayukayo cheythal nammalengananu thiruthendath
@lavinatek5123 жыл бұрын
Where we can listen your talk in English ?
@spmohan1233 жыл бұрын
Please give me some idea to stop addiction on mobile using, first point myself has to stop using, kindly tell me how to reduce using mobile my papa
@fathimathfarsana87593 жыл бұрын
hii...nte molk 2yrs and 8mnths anu age..10hrs mathre urangullu..ithu normalano..breast feeding nirthiyathinu shesham urangan vilichal varunnilla..nthenkilum tips paranju tharumo
@atscraps77163 жыл бұрын
Content👏👏❤❤🔥
@peterv.p23182 жыл бұрын
മകൾ വലുതായതിനു ശേഷവും വീഡിയോ ചെയ്യണേ....
@shasreepree3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful ❤️
@johnvarghese98323 жыл бұрын
Good video ❤️❤️❤️
@anushadeepak29353 жыл бұрын
Is it possible to have an online consultation with you?
@mayasamma-malayalam46663 жыл бұрын
I only do consultancy for lactation issues. Rest are all workshops.. My website will be up in some time. You can check that for workshop details.
@anushadeepak29353 жыл бұрын
@@mayasamma-malayalam4666 Thank you...will wait for your website 😊
@sonasreedhar.16692 жыл бұрын
👍🏻👍🏻
@neena31993 жыл бұрын
I want to become a better parent.
@beenan96563 жыл бұрын
Good parenting work shop attend cheyyan enthu cheyyanam can u help me
@mayasamma-malayalam46663 жыл бұрын
worksop updates on www.mayasamma.com
@ishu4423 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@radhiyaify3 жыл бұрын
@Mayas Amma
@Chinnu123923 жыл бұрын
🥰❤❤
@arathybt87263 жыл бұрын
Ente monu bhayankara vasi ane. Ath egane maattum...
@sheejak4152 жыл бұрын
🙂❤️
@ishani.28823 жыл бұрын
maam pls start making videos in english :)
@vijisamy9082 Жыл бұрын
My child is not listening to me. I don't know to take care of her. Hitting out of anger.
@arjuns53843 жыл бұрын
Oru hai tharamo plzzz.
@mayasamma-malayalam46663 жыл бұрын
Hi
@shovachaudhary52312 жыл бұрын
Plz make a video in English or Hindi.. can't understand 😵
@nithinsamuel85033 жыл бұрын
നല്ല കണ്ടന്റ് ആണ്. ഒരുപാട് നല്ല അറിവുകൾ. പക്ഷെ, എല്ലാ വാചകങ്ങളിലും അറിഞ്ഞോ അറിയാതെയോ കയറി വരുന്ന ഇംഗ്ലീഷ് വാക്കുകൾ സംസാരത്തിന്റെ ഭംഗി കളയുന്നു. പൂർണ്ണമായി ഇംഗ്ലീഷ് അല്ലെങ്കിൽ പൂർണമായി മലയാളം എന്നതാണ് കേൾക്കാനും ശ്രദ്ധിക്കാനും നല്ലത്.
@mayasamma-malayalam46663 жыл бұрын
unfortunately, i know only that much malayalam. my tamil is better.