4 Ways HOW Kindness Will RUIN Your Life - Dr Myles Munroe Motivational Speech

[@bodyrescu7994]

I realised people's definition of a good person is being able to take advantage of you

[@sandrawilliams5647]

Yep, I’ve realized that. So I only be kind when it’s needed because it seems people don’t appreciate when your kind

[@Dana_inc]

Ain’t that the truth!

[@cecedetermined3854]

This is me .I help a lot but nobody is ever there to help me .What baffles me the most is your closest ones ( families , good friends , spouses ) who are aware of this good quality you have , and eventually take advantage of you .Sad😢

[@sharlenalove3357]

I can relate

[@yasminmoledina37]

Me too ...too late to change? Maybe ​@@sharlenalove3357

[@yasminmoledina37]

This risonantes to who I am and have always being but unfortunately can't learn to change!! I wish I had learnt when I was young now unfortunately this is what people expect and know me ...A fool! It's really so sad and painful to be someone you are not but unfortunately kindness coming nautrally has a high price to pay .

[@motivated2010]

Gosh this brings tears to my eyes because I am truly a kind hearted person but now at the age of 58 I feel used by many including family and friends. But I need to face this and make small changes. I already have and let me tell you be prepared for the backlash...users hate it when you say no or speak up for yourself. I'm trusting God to guide me and give me courage.

[@AngelPhumzile-st5yi]

This is me too💔😩

[@idorenyinjohnson9432]

I was once there... I faced depression twice but God saved me. This is not Myles' voice but AI. However, the message is so true

[@cherillsamuel2072]

It's his voice . But we know he is not alive. Some say it's AI. But it's his teaching.

[@cherillsamuel2072]

I went in to a depression, and I cut of everyone, till next yrs until I set boundaries .

[@Jesus_is_the_Lord_AMEN]

No its a lie. Jesus is kind. So we must not be according to this wicked teaching.....

[@ojay9742]

Whether it's AI or Dr Myles, the important thing is the message. The title might sound harsh, but if you listen to the end, he's talking about striking a balance and setting the right boundaries. These are apt for every situation.

[@premillahmwanigha1735]

I support you❤

[@sanyujanet5447]

Oh God, this is me. I really thank God for this message

[@oliviatopisterhasahya4454]

Me too

[@enockkiplangat5852]

I am here as well​@@oliviatopisterhasahya4454

[@cherillsamuel2072]

Me, too.

[@cherillsamuel2072]

We have to set boundaries ​@@oliviatopisterhasahya4454

[@alexmatsonjrk4105]

This is not myles Munroe

[@AprilBartelt-p5j]

I agree 💯, people can use you.

[@Jesussaveslifes1]

I am sick and tired of putting everybody 's well-being above my own needs and wants! This message fits my personality as a glove. The worst thing is that it is very difficult to break this cycle of abuse. Because abusers of kindness will sense it. And they will quickly give you your daily dose of guilt treatment. I am handling all of those abusers to Jesus Christ. Let Him manage them. Because I just can't!

[@Afrobest99]

The secret to remaining a kind person is to show kindness mostly to people who lives furthest away from you, people who you won't be seeing or talking to often while being a little bit selfish to those closest to you. That way they won't take your kindness for granted

[@Lexis2020]

Ai talking, Dr Myles is deeper than this

[@SBrobbeyJr]

I too suspect this is AI generated and not the late Dr. Munroe. I hope someone can authenticate this.

[@IkeAmadiTV]

Lol. I agree. AI is fooling us

[@yasminharuna2260]

Exactly what I realised. How can someone who could buy cars for people say kindness will ruin you when the bible teaches us to be kind to one another?! We should be careful in these times, wicked people are at play here and they're very dangerous.

[@ams-yaa]

My friend just send me this message oh GOD, I really needed this. Over kindness is very dangerous, you loose yourself and those who love you. Because those who truly love you will not exploit you.

[@tonnadimples4039]

The moment I started being kind to others,God always find away of making others be kind to me.Most givers are receivers in life.

[@rennyworld1242]

Same to me

[@sarahmwasyoge1830]

Yes if only you are doing it as for the Lord. Not for yourself or a human been there is always a reward

[@LazarousSimukonda-mu3ec]

I really feel sorry for someone after learning this. People can really weigh down your life. There I come!!

[@LazarousSimukonda-mu3ec]

So I am this kind!!!

[@thelmafagyei7897]

Thank you for waking ⏰️ me up

[@lubangakeneaugustine3666]

I agree with the message, I wish I knew this before

[@oladayoagbolade3676]

This isn’t Myles Monroe. it’s AI generated

[@asaremusic4855]

I was wondering this on other pages. I’ve grown accustomed to his speech patterns so I thought this was strange.

[@suresh2260]

It's true we must balance... Thanks for this message

[@kelvinforson4436]

So true. This is true. Too much sorrowful heart leads to unfulfilled life. Too much burdens.!

[@Trece-g8z]

Wow!!! This is me. Thank you for sharing this message

[@ElizabethOtu-hz1by]

This is me too. Honestly, I have decided to change. I'll help out within my limits. Won't go over board, when I don't have it. After all, people don't show up for me, the way I do for them.

[@thandilongwood2808]

So true...I'm always in a position trying to help others.

[@MmoniMokomane]

This kind of motivations help me a lot. I'm changing for the better

[@CarolMonlouis]

I think I was born to be kind..and for people to use and take advantage of me ..am Always there for people and when am in need I can never get it. now even false allegation and accusations are being told against me for my kindness..but I thank God cause my KINDNESS is genuine ❤❤❤❤ I have learned myself

[@shebbysavvas4200]

I came to this conclusion too.

[@ONEOFAKINDSISTAH]

I don’t like the idea of AI using a deceased Dr Myles Munroe voice manipulation to say anything. Dr Munroe left a wealth of sermons and books that I prefer to refer to.

[@Andre.Dirrell]

I agree! I thought I was listening to him, until I realized the date.

[@JamesKofiDzidope]

Examine what is said. Not who is saying it.

[@ONEOFAKINDSISTAH]

@@JamesKofiDzidope pity the creator of this video doesn’t feel the same as you - that the message could stand on its own merit. Instead they chose to use AI to manipulate Dr Munroes voice and used his image in the thumbnail. Clearly they felt the ‘messenger’ of the message was very important. So no, I’d rather use my wisdom here to look at the message and the messenger. You on the other hand are entitled (as I have been) to choose what you want to do.

[@mableluswanga6860]

One of my best friends is a TERRIBLE re-payer of borrowed money, not exactly because she doesn't afford to but she simply has a bad attitude towards credit. I recently mastered the art of saying NO to her requests, unless I would just afford to give to her without expecting it back. It was extremely hard the first few times especially that I understand how much she needed the money but the relief I felt afterwards was fulfiling.

[@josephogutu1000]

What a powerful statement. Truly I have been too kind to the extent of sacrificing for others in meeting their needs before me. For that matter, it has drawn me extremely backwards. Thanks to God almighty for this timely moment of receiving this kind of information from my beloved mentor the late Dr. Myles Munroe. His words are alive to me and are practically beneficial and encouraging. Thank you, Jesus, for the life of this man on the planet Earth.

[@snehithas9720]

Thank you This is for me

[@AbafumThomas]

You've spoken to my soul. I have suffered so much already

[@marymungai4429]

My life hard lesson Lord have mercy..glory to God for wisdom fro.m Dr Myles Munroe

[@thandilongwood2808]

Time for me to stop living up to people's expectations and set boundaries in my life...self care is important.

[@KevinOga]

I never understand about being kindness so now as I could hear how I will act on it, I'll change the way I behave .....

[@YoungbBature]

I was trained to be kind and nice ! But now I'm learning the hard way to stop it.😢

[@Essayprowriters]

Very True, I am very sad, of late when I realised that, People really like getting sacrifices from me, and latter I have been struggling and when I ask for help nobody is there even for me.

[@BlessMeWithWisdom]

This is the absolute truth.

[@KatyMunsamy]

I seen people take advantage of my kindness.I like helping those are in need, what I see is they crossing boundaries , when be to nice to people this is what happens 😮I'm in that situation 🙏

[@carlenemccutchen4570]

Enjoyed Commentary! So true! Thanks for sharing much needed. God Bless you all!

[@maryonyegasioyem]

Beautiful. Thank you sir

[@legallyndidi]

This is so good.

[@joshuacherian6718]

Proverbs 11:17 - A man who is kind benefits himself, but a cruel man hurts himself.

[@muokiken]

Deep in the ground.

[@okyeredarko466]

Powerful teachings

[@thandilongwood2808]

Being authentic to myself...let my words stand.

[@EaglesTM-b3j]

God help us to discern Your kindness and acceptance. In a certain occasion my kindness was regarded as a drama, a very sorry kind of gratitude and displeasure to issues and those that lost the same opportunity and attention.

[@samuelaguzeyjunior4212]

Thank you

[@AndrewChishala-s2y]

THAT IS TRUE TO LIFE

[@zoemabuza3236]

For some reason this doesn’t sound like Dr Myles, could it be Ai? If you really know his voice, and listen intently, something sounds a bit off😏

[@SBrobbeyJr]

I agree. This is suspicious!! Ai maybe?!

[@deshajames2224]

After I few minutes I thought the same thing.

[@millidw8070]

Same thing I thought 🤔

[@deogratiuseliachim4350]

I agree as well

[@SheAmyShe]

Also the message lacks depth.

[@charlesvries6101]

Thank you miles, thanks once more. Charlie from Namibia in Africa.

[@lawreneali5019]

Thank you so much this is for me 👌

[@m.o.s.h.1836]

kindness is good but there's should have limitations. Anything that is TOO MUCH is not good. In this life everything must be balanced.

[@FarazierNakaundi-pp6sx]

This is me I help a lot to a point even myself I will be left with nothing. And no one helps me

[@thandilongwood2808]

It's time for me to put myself first to fulfill my destiny .

[@lilianmagwagwa7626]

Powerful thank you

[@KayongoHudsons12-zr7cd]

Truly 🎉

[@whalley723]

This is Ai talking. I know Dr Myles voice.

[@ReubenStephen-im3eg]

Too much kindness is poisonous 😢

[@richman9116]

100% CORRECT

[@deanj8870]

ECCLESIASTICUS CHAPTER 12:1-5 KJVA When thou wilt do good know to whom thou doest it; so shalt thou be thanked for thy benefits. 2 Do good to the godly man, and thou shalt find a recompence; and if not from him, yet from the most High. 3 There can no good come to him that is always occupied in evil, nor to him that giveth no alms. 4 Give to the godly man, and help not a sinner. 5 Do well unto him that is lowly, but give not to the ungodly: hold back thy bread, and give it not unto him, lest he overmaster thee thereby: for else thou shalt receive twice as much evil for all the good thou shalt have done unto him.

[@nathananotidaishekututwa299]

God help me to fight and work on myself

[@johannephanord5432]

So true

[@davidbaker577]

This is really for me

[@Dana_inc]

Say NO 99.9 percent of the time!

[@markkwedson4896]

This is quite true

[@giftedhandssewingvarietyst9137]

This sounds too real...feeling the effects.

[@CC-pu6qn]

Whenever I stood up for myself immediately received harsh narc abuse

[@Gloria-n4v4v]

Good day to all. You're so right about being kind Now I am in need everyone is complaining more than me.its sad they. realise I am just surviving , if God was not for me it would have been sad. God will lift me up again in the name of Jesus.

[@Dana_inc]

Say NOOOOOO! Say it! Say it! Say it! Don’t waste your time with people! Just say no!

[@s.akanteyagamu3773]

is there a link between anxiety disorder and what you said about being too kind and losing yourself?

[@JohnEgbedzi-xw5ly]

Great insigh😢

[@mafunasekaisi2290]

You are talking to me😭

[@enaborpatrick5770]

Kindness almost ruined me totally.Any way show kindness but take caution not to be a fool.

[@samuelghebremariam1023]

Waw incredible insight,whether he is myles or not the message is impactful but for the one posting it be authentic by being said the teaching of Dr.Myles not skewing people using AI.

[@Mafa__B]

People always take advantage and treating me bad.

[@emyoji1316]

Nobody actually cares about you. Learn to say no, not this very moment. Say no to those short term invitations to attend events, stop involving them during your activities…once in a while test this same folks. Ask them to do stuff you actually can do if they fail to do. That way you will understand that people don’t give a shii about you. I am nice , very nice, but you know pretty quickly that I don’t take BS from ANYONE!

[@ntefopule9886]

This one just struck a nerve in me,

[@michaelmorris498]

Click the more tab... and read the disclaimer

[@clintonziizigah996]

This is Soo true but does AI has voice ?

[@KelvinNgugi-j4c]

It's true

[@oliviatopisterhasahya4454]

Very true

[@Brian-rs4ug]

What part of NO didn’t you understand? No is a complete sentence. Certainly we should seek to serve and help others. But not at the expense of being someone else’s door mat. Seeking the approval of others is a trap and opens you up to manipulation.

[@tommcandrew8205]

So true, as it says in Ecclesiastes 7:17

[@Jesus_is_the_Lord_AMEN]

Liar. Ecc 7:17 Do not be overwicked, do not be a fool. Why die before your time

[@Ernesto-y1z]

❤️🙏

[@boytube991]

True facts

[@lyvyngogrenism7221]

Got it,i need to be cruel😅

[@KARRIEMABDUL]

That's not kindness. Such borders on stupidity.

[@Gloria-n4v4v]

Much persons won't comment. I have seen so much of bad begging in my life they never have but they're always buying. Companions know your habit to make them feel happyalways complaing. How sickening. Persons open your eyes woves in sheep clothing.

[@EvelynJenkins-uo4zi]

Well said but at some point you have to draw the line people know when you are nice to them andl they will try to take advantage of you if you let them prayers amen

[@gentlemarkyunusa4453]

God, help me to be kind by wisdom, knowlege and understandind and help to put my own as a priority in Jesus Name...Amen

[@sarahmwasyoge1830]

Yes if only you are doing it as for the Lord. Not for yourself or a human been there is always a reward

[@joycarrington5822]

i heard this exact speech from C.S Lewis... WORD FOR WORD. Who is the originator?

[@thandekabobelo2833]

Help me God to learn this.A. suffering the consequences of kindness

[@nadiatolokonnikova8855]

You’re sure this is Dr Myles

[@lisab.3919]

Ppl abandon ppl they were using.

[@jermainelamar3093]

I’m leaving this comment because Dr. Munroe was a pastor and that matters as context for this video. Even though most of this video is true there are small misconceptions within it from a Christian perspective. What is shown as kindness in the beginning of this video is not kindness. It is cowardice and the lack of a backbone. Since kindness is a biblical virtue it would have been interesting to see what Dr Munroe would have really said about it other than this AI generated speech. It is not biblically congruent to be ruthless. God is not as concerned about your personal dreams and aspirations, because they are usually selfish, but in you playing your part in fulfilling his will. Doing that will fulfill your needs and desires as long as they are righteous “and all these other things will be added unto you”. Sorry (not sorry) to burst bubbles but financial success is not God’s main goal for your life. If fulfilling your own personal goals are your main focus you are not in the will of God. If you are in your purpose as dictated by God then being kind will be a virtue, not a detriment. You will determine when to be kind and when to be firm. Despite common misconceptions Christianity is not supposed to be this toilet tissue soft religion it has been represented to be.

[@immaakello9748]

All they said is about me

[@michaelkegode4875]

This is true. However, it could be AI talking.

[@davidbethuelmphela4471]

He is right and this is also biblical according to ecclesiastes 7: 16 to 26 gnt translation.he simply means do not be too nice and allow people to manipulate u.you can be nice and set boundaries.whether is miles munroe who said it or not but this is true and real.otherwise God could not put it in the bible

[@alexasibuo5342]

This is not scriptural. The Bible says love is kind. It also says we shouldn't seek only our interest, but the interest of others. This can't be from Dr Munroe!

[@AbafumThomas]

You clearly didn't listen to the message. He never advocated for selfishness. He is only saying that you have to be reasonable in showing kindness. If this is not biblical then I don't know what else is. Christ said we should love our neighbors as ourselves. He didn't say: love your neighbor and hate yourself😊

[@alexasibuo5342]

@@AbafumThomas Maybe you listened to a different message. All that I heard was him bashing kindness. Can you show me a single scripture that says we have to be reasonable in showing kindness? I respect and admire Dr Munroe a lot and have listened to his messages, which are always scriptural. Hence, my conclusion the message wasn't from him. Being taken advantage of has nothing to do with one's kindness but his or her personality. Tnx

[@chikeziechukwuazi816]

Great message. But this is obviously not Dr. Munroe (No Bible verse mentioned)

[@bridgettkariuki9056]

This sounds like me

[@HenRaf]

These aren't Pastor Munroe's words, This is all AI.

[@Blackalbino0177]

What AI cannot do does not exist

[@angeln341]

❤

[@AntonyM-zz1zt]

Doesn't have to be Monroe..message first