40 weeks Pregnancy Update | Baby and birth Q and A | HOME BIRTH MOM

[@skhrider7418]

It makes me so sad when people talk about how much they hate the newborn stage or how awful it is. It's such a special and sweet time and goes too fast I think 😭❤️ and it definitely is easier when they're so sleepy all the time! It's harder when they start to want to be awake and exploring the world! 😂 I totally agree with you, I chose to not do any scheduling with my daughter I let her nurse on demand and sleep when she wanted and she is 3 months old and sleeping through the night and a happy girl. I've had people tell me it'll spoil her if I hold her too much or wear her too much.... but I don't believe in that. We spent nine months sharing a body, why wouldn't I want to keep her close and give her the comfort she needs during this time? That's what us Mommas are there for!

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

yes yes & yes!

[@incaray69]

I loved the newborn stage. Definitely the easiest. I found the first 3 years easy. After that, it got much harder. 😊

[@margiecook6379]

I had my babies from 1965 to 1972, and then adopted 2 boys. Yes I had my babies in the hospital. It was unheard of to have them at home. I had one naturally and got lots of uncalled for opinions . The thing that upset me the most and hurt me the most were my mother and mother in law fussed at me and tried to convince me not to breastfeed. They also tried to convince me that holding my baby would spoil them. I still breastfed and held them . No schedules ! It was so much easier to let things go the way that felt right. My children grew up strong healthy and became adults that I am proud of. The only thing that I know would happen was that o wasn't going to get much sleep the first few months. It was toldly worth it. Love your channel and your common sense . Thank you for reminding me of my baby days! Enjoy the time you have with them now and remember that sometimes they grow up leave home and come back with more.😀😀.

[@robynnedorion8059]

Best wishes for a smooth delivery. I’m a grandmother now, but I wish there had been someone like you sharing all of this information with us in my youth. You do a great job!

[@HatandTie]

I got terrible unsolicited advice from family members when I was pregnant and a new mom. I feel much more relaxed with my second because I know to trust myself

[@carolehastings1902]

I never fail to marvel at cooking babies and giving birth, it’s an amazing experience and each little miracle brings its own love and character, I’ve had 4 babies, all grown up now, every birth was different. And they each had their own individuality 😍🥰

[@gratituderanch9406]

Bradley method really helped us- and not just for labor- has helped me deal with extreme illnesses, migraines and pain in other areas too. I tore with all three of mine. 2 water births, one hospital birth. The worst was my first- water birth. You do what you do and your body will recover. I always felt the end of pregnancy was designed to be horrible at the end so you’re willing to go through labor just to be done! I had PPD, it was rough but I got through it with my ND/Midwife. You look amazing! So beautiful. I’m glad there’s women out there who love being pregnant.

[@JodieC26]

Amen to breastfeeding to fall asleep!!! I also fought it with my first but embraced it with my second. We are all happier this time. Best of luck with this delivery

[@julabob]

I totally love your take. I had the exact same experience, once I let the “rules” go I was able to enjoy it more. Some people love their structure but it never felt natural to us.

[@22blueiis]

I parented the same way, every child is their own person! Have a wonderful baby birth!

[@whatzupLizzy]

I love your point about life experience creating different point of view. You are so positive and emotionally stable. I find you calming to listen too.

[@naomi7969]

That study sounds fascinating. I've had my babies at 11 days late and 14 days late but am pretty sure the reason is that I ovulate later and have a longer cycle!

[@TodaysJoys]

Try After Pain from Mountain Meadow Herbs! I took it with my 6th and it nearly took ALL the pain away! Used it every half hour or so the first day, then every time I nursed for the next three days or so. Helped SO much! Will not go without again!

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

OK I definitely will try! I will order it now!

[@meganrae6575]

I also 'seemed' to have good results from using the After Pain...& hey, it wont hurt that's for sure ;)

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Just ordered! Hopefully it gets here in time.

[@keylalipo7778]

Oh how I wished I knew about this! I also had horrible after pains!

[@TodaysJoys]

Great! Praying you have as much success with it as I did! If I remember right they have pretty fast shipping so hopefully it comes quickly! You’ll have to let me know how if it helps

[@ryanashleystoller3184]

Yes genetics and due dates are a real thing when it comes to my family! Between my maternal grandmother, my mom, and me....and still going, 11 of 12 babies have not only came on their own before their due date but have averaged at least a week or two early!

[@victoriahughes5041]

My first labor was so scary until I asked the nurse if I'm dying or is this normal... She said its normal so I relaxed and was comforted by that... I laugh about it now 44yrs later.

[@lalvarez6592]

🤣 smart of you to ask. I didn’t ask so I literally thought i was dying. I can laugh about it now three kids later.

[@desireeromero2384]

My mom told me that she thought she was dying too

[@justinesnyder5023]

40 weeks and your ring still fits!? So impressed! You look so great and beautiful!

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

I never really experience any swelling. Thank you so much!

[@OurLargeFamilyLife]

Love this video 🥰 we just had TRIPLETS in June. 💙💙💙 We made it to 31.4wks. My older 8 kiddos were on or after their due dates.

[@sharonc1326]

The Church Tribe wow! That is incredible! I kept thinking my contacts were playing tricks on me as I was reading-....you have 11 kids? So amazing! ! Blessings 🌸

[@OurLargeFamilyLife]

Sharon Powidzki yes 11 🥰 thank you so much

[@pjengland286]

Yes! ♥️ A baby going to sleep while nursing is completely natural! Warm milk has a natural way of making babies sleeping (adults too). Enjoy it!

[@courtneywilkinson1938]

The waiting is the hardest...I went to 42 weeks with my last two which was hard only because everyone was pushing for me to have handling all them sooner. Praying you have a smooth delivery!

[@ninasimon1255]

I absolutely relate to you on the fact, that with my first baby I was so much trying to have her run on a schedule, because listening to other mums might make you feel that something might be wrong. I also started introducing a little sleep schedule at 6 months. With my second, I just decided to go with the flow and it was so much easier ... I recommend to every new mom to be to listen to their gut feeling. That is all that matters. Wishing you a wonderful and peaceful birth, Lisa! And thank you so much for sharing your story!

[@asianangel5400]

Praying for a safe labor and delivery. Can't wait to see the little one.

[@stillyourb]

Girl, you're still glowing!! What an encouragement you are :) oh weights&dates, mine are never predictable, so far I've been 41wks (7.25lbs), 36wks (6.5lbs), 40wks(9lb), 37wks(8.5lbs)

[@tallyakuzmin6390]

Wow! Super interesting to see it laid out like that

[@lindsayashton1385]

I was group B positive for one of my 6 babies. I didn’t want antibiotics & luckily there wasn’t even time to get them. They said they have to administer them like 4 hours before baby is born & my labor was

[@Bobbie-G]

That baby belly is just precious!!! I pray blessings over the birth of your baby...

[@jillanthony5191]

You are 💯 right on not forcing a schedule on a newborn, I tried it with my first and it was a disaster but did it because " that's what you do " then did it with my second child 9 years later because that's what you do. My third and fourth child I let them call the shots and life was so much smoother.

[@missjesstherest]

Thanks for sharing! I just had my first baby at the end if July and she was 15 days past her due date. i chose to have a natural birth in the hospital with a midwife and doula. She showed several signs of being truly overdue. There was a LOT of meconium, her vernix was barely there, and she had eyelashes. I pray you enjoy the birth!

[@justinesnyder5023]

Thanks so much for taking the time to add all those links! Your efforts don't go unnoticed ❤

[@laurenkelly7628]

Loved the comments on due dates! Mommas that go over, hats off to you. I chose to naturally induce at 42+1 and the hardest part of my whole pregnancy was the comments I got between 40 and 42 weeks. You can do it!

[@ForestKiddo]

Same! I went into labor at 42+3 and the waiting game was really the hardest part

[@rytaguenther8143]

I delivered my Frank Breech baby vaginally with no meds at all. I never felt any pain with her either, it was honestly just uncomfortable. My midwife wasn’t authorized to deliver breech so she accompanied us to the hospital and helped immensely while I was transferred to a hospital doctor’s care. My daughter is 2 now!

[@alphaandomega1332]

I don’t know if it’s something in the food or water she’s drinking and eating(but I want some), but ladies how many of you agree with me she wears pregnancy so well it blows my mind . She seems not show any swelling if face, arms,legs etc. I’m sure she MAY have slowed down a bit but I’m willing to bet she’s still doing most of her daily activities.

[@tallyakuzmin6390]

I have 5 children and also had no swelling with any pregnancy. I think diet may play a role but not entirely sure

[@DuvAngel1]

Great working heart and kidneys 💝and 🙏🏻💦✨🕊

[@nikkigravley7954]

One baby was induced and born 40+5, my second was a homebirth 41+5. 3rd was 40+1. 4th was 40+4. I felt the absolute best with my second, no swelling ever, homebirth. My favorite birth.

[@jenniferandra4016]

Thanks for the info on due dates. My first 6 babies came early but both baby 7 & 8 were 2 weeks over.

[@mackenziepappas1734]

Garlic is truly a good idea for group b strep... Worked for me!

[@thechattyhomemaker]

I always push on my back and have only torn with one of my 5 kids and he was next to the smallest. My kids are 8lbs plus The newborn stage is my favorite!!

[@ashleymckee1140]

I just had my first baby in March. He weighed 8 lbs 12 oz and had a head size in the 99th percentile. I loved hearing your experiences from previous videos before I had him and am eagerly anticipating the next chapter. Thanks for sharing!

[@pattidavis8043]

Oh how I just love your attitude about everything....u r a very wise momma! Can't wait to see new baby!

[@cindyneel328]

Praying for a safe and easy delivery, can't wait to meet you little one!

[@bostelmanfamily]

I had my first at 38+4 and second at 39+4 so when my third took until 40+6 I was shocked. Lol. I physically felt fine but it was definitely a mental game. I do have my babies follow a loose routine, but I need that and have found I’m a better mom. I always wish I could be less structured like someone like you, but it’s not who I am. Every baby has gotten easier because I’ve implemented more routine. I felt my first was by far the hardest recovery, but my second was easier than my third. Hoping this time around to have an easier recovery like my second. Good luck with the birth. I hope it goes as smoothly as it can. ♥️

[@denisefields6970]

Looking beautiful as always Lisa at 40 weeks. God bless you and your family at your delivery time. xxx

[@OreoVXI]

Omg 😱 your belly!!!! Can’t wait to see your baby. Many blessings to you and family.

[@kristinotto102]

It’s crazy how different the length of pregnancies can be between women! My due date was Oct 25 but I just had my little girl on the 11th! I didn’t think I would have my baby before you! Hope your labor and birth goes well!

[@bethanydohrman3475]

I totally cracked up at the decreased pain with each baby question! I wish! We are due with baby #6 on Thanksgivingish (our third homebirth). If you figure out how to cope with transition and pushing pain, let me know! Many prayers for a great and safe birth and baby!

[@BubbleGlitter98]

I gave birth on hands and knees and it felt so natural and comfortable for me and zero tears! No epidural helped for sure

[@VictoriaWilson]

BEST ADVICE on avoiding tears :) Follow your body. Congrats and I'm so happy for you!!

[@ltb8488]

I completely agree with the newborn phase being rough because of trying to worry about “spoiling” the baby. I didn’t enjoy the newborn phase as much as I could have because I immediately started worrying about baby being put on a schedule.

[@livingauthenticallyonmyownterm]

Lisa, you're baby bump is soooo ADORABLE !!! Awww !!! I wish you blessings, peace and a wonderful birth ♥️♥️♥️

[@jackienation7694]

Baby wise is very structured. I used this with my first and honestly it was awful. With my second I ditched it and just did what my baby wanted and it was 100000 percent better. More sleep, happier baby and much happier momma.

[@EliseRoseCrochet]

Love your laid back infant parenting. Also you look beautiful pregnant, love that baby bump!

[@carolynnance7176]

Good luck and may God bless you with a beautiful healthy baby.

[@carrie5693]

I really wish I would’ve been tested for GBS sooner. I’m typically a no-antibiotics type of person, but I didn’t find out I was positive until after 38 weeks and this is my first so I just really cannot imagine taking the risk of them getting an infection. Now I know for next time, but I will be hitting the probiotics and ferments postpartum for sure. Thanks for sharing. ❤️

[@denisebillings952]

You are the greatest! I am a first time mom so I’m thankful for your videos. Congrats on your newest little one, may he/she be happy and healthy when they are born ❤️

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

thank you!

[@desireeromero2384]

You are so calming to listen to is there anything you recommend for morning sickness I am 10 weeks pregnant and I am going though it and good luck on your soon labor and delivery

[@sheilariannon]

What made a HUGE difference for me was using magnesium spray (I got mine off of Amazon). If you google “magnesium spray for morning sickness,” there are several articles/posts about it working for people! I could notice a difference if I even skipped one day.

[@kdarby08]

I'm 21 weeks pregnant with my 2nd baby and I hope he arrives in the same time frame as my 1st. My first baby arrived at 39 weeks 5 days, only 2 days "early"

[@GypsieAsh]

You look fantastic! ♥️Super interesting video! I agreed with almost every thing you said. That’s rare for me. Lol The due date topic is fascinating to me, as well. I’m 6 weeks away from baby #7 due date but all my babies come around 37 weeks. My babies are 6 to 8lbs with no medical intervention needed. My mom isn’t helpful here, as she had one at 35 weeks, 42 weeks & 39 weeks 🤷‍♀️I need to do some more research on this. Good luck with your delivery!! 🙏

[@bronwenomalley]

My mother had 6 before her due date, out of the 5 girls she had the 5 of us had all our babies (12) before due date. We live in Ireland where they don't interfere with internals or inductions, unless medically indicated, before 40 weeks.

[@JoKelly90]

It's so funny how different bodies can be! I have had four natural births, and literally cannot get babies to come out without standing or squatting. 😂 With my first the (not very patient or respectful) doctor on call made me deliver on my back, and it was the hardest, most gut-wrenching thing I've ever done. I tore horribly and took months to fully heal. I delivered my next three squatting or standing and barely tore at all. I believe it is truly so important for women to do what works best for their own bodies, not someone else's!

[@sarahcmutch]

You are 10 weeks ahead of me! Can’t believe you’re at this point 💛 so exciting

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Congrats to you!

[@crystaldyson3169]

You look AMAZING! Can’t wait to meet this little one. I have a feeling you’ll get another little girl 💕

[@lotsoflove6533]

Great video momma! I can’t believe you are already 40 weeks. Your pregnancy flew by. You are glowing momma. You are a beautiful pregnant goddess and legit could be a pregnant model. Pregnancy so suits you and you got the cutest bump. If you don’t get the chance to answer my questions from your 39 week would you answer them in the comments. You should do the baby momma dance video and pre pregnancy clothes tru on challenge video.

[@jeannet9592]

Wishing you a healthy and safe delivery. I share much of your birthing and parenting philosophies. I am also the mother of six, nursed on demand, co-slept, carried them In a sling etc. I wouldn’t change that sweet time for anything. God’s continued blessings to you and your family.

[@sheilalovesgreg3489]

Prayers for your upcoming delivery!

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

thank you!

[@maryannerick7617]

I think one of the major reasons that first births are move difficult is that the mother is experiencing something new and doesn't know exactly what to expect. Yes, she is aware of how she'll experience labor pains; she knows full well how the baby gets here. It's the other things going on around her - the hospital routine (if that applies) can be most puzzling the first time.

[@varinaxoxo4213]

Thanks for taking us along with you on this fascinating journey! Looking forward to meeting your 6th bundle of joy!.....xo

[@armandollewellyn1521]

Thank you for the regular updates and taking the time to make these wonderful videos. Can you do a real bump shot on your final pregnancy update. Good luck and look forward to future videos

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

What is a real bump shot? Is this not it?

[@armandollewellyn1521]

Like a bare bump shot like in other pregnancy updates. Thank you again for sharing these videos. They have been a great resource!

[@EvidenceBasedBirth]

Congratulations!! And I am so glad our Due Dates Signature Article was of use to you! We're wishing you a jubilant, beautiful, peaceful birth. Thank you for sharing your experience!

[@julesiou12]

You look so well and blooming Lisa. Sending you love and best wishes for the birth of number 6. Can't wait to meet him or her x

[@tammygallup4021]

Way to go! I had all of my children at home, my first baby at 42 and a half weeks 9lb 6oz my other two were late as well but I took castor oil to get them out.

[@tallyakuzmin6390]

For anyone interested in alternatives to antibiotics for GBS (group b strep) there is a protocol you can do with a product called Hibiclens which you can buy at any pharmacy when you go into labor. Basically you mix it with water and use a squirt bottle to wash down there and it's supposed to kill the bacteria. I did this in the past and was planning to do it 2 months ago when I birthed my last baby but labor went to quick and I ended up not being able to do it. I suggest also doing some research on how they ended up giving antibiotics to every woman that tests positive

[@chilllzoneee]

Can you make a video on your approach to the newborn phase? It seems like there’s a lot of “rules” but which are important to follow and which are ok to be more relaxed about. Thanks.

[@lauramcclain-biba8629]

I’m due 3 days after you. :-) Loved all the interesting research on due dates! Good luck and praying you have a beautiful, easy birth!

[@mariyoreo]

There is a tincture for after birth pains called "After Ease" lots of natural mama's reccomend it

[@ashleyheg7581]

Yes! Agree!

[@starlakelsey2782]

Heart pounding!! Can't wait for your bundle of joy!!!

[@TheKirraneFamilyDiaries]

I have such horrible pregnancies that I find the newborn stage super easy 🙌❤️

[@hannahshomecreated]

Hi Ms. Lisa, what book were you referring to when you mentioned ovulation and charting? I love learning about babies and mother/womanhood so I thoroughly enjoyed this video! Thank you!

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

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[@annezehring9006]

A totally believe that trying to incorporate too much structure to your life once the baby is born can actually cause some women to experience depression. I think that some feel that depression if they don’t structure. Every woman is different. I never structured and kind of just went with the flow of things. I had my first three babies (all boys) at 43 + weeks. My fourth and latest was a girl born at 42 + weeks. I always calculated my weeks from my first day of my last period. They were not induced and were born naturally at home. I had no complications, thank the Lord, and they were all healthy.

[@ilanabuttle7835]

You look lovely 😊 I got comments on my bump too. I have nowhere to hide them. My last 2 were over 9 pound and I was huge! I came to the same conclusion you shared last update, people just don't see someone that pregnant very often! Especially when you add in that I have friends who just felt so miserable they stayed in hiding late in pregnancy!

[@MaertjeStar]

So reassuring what you said about nursing to sleep & newborn schedules - it's been pretty disheartening to read guidance which feels like fighting exactly what is natural and suits both me & my new baby!

[@daisycouchfarm2464]

I gave birth to my son on the day I turned 39 weeks. My Midwife casually mentioned that sometimes women give birth around the time of a storm with the change of geometric pressure. The night that my labor started we had a horrible wind storm. Since he was my first I mentally prepared not to go into labor until at least 41 weeks and she said because I was so relaxed with the due date it could have also made it easier for my body to start labor. No one will ever really know but it’s kind of fun

[@saintamerican6105]

lovely my 1st birth was - unassisted free birth at home AND i squat birthed my baby.... gonna try the bradley method for my 2nd! thanks GOD bess youuu

[@jodygoodwin77]

I've torn with all 4 births. I have home birthed the last 3 so I was very able to listen to my body and do what felt best. I still tore. I really just think it's a genetics issue and depends a lot on your skins elasticity. Tearing does suck though. It sucks to sit there after you've given birth and have to get stitched up! But it's not the end of the world so try not to sweat it!

[@missmartpants2269]

Oh ive been waiting for this, I'm so excited for yall! God bless!

[@aliaallawi7556]

congratulations... been following you for a while now and happy for you... hope everything goes well with the birth and the harder few days following that... my biggest challenge with the fourth trimester is the postpartum depression and the lack of milk supply! Those two keep me scared, anxious, sad, and much more, added to that the guilt of not giving the other kids attention. who takes care of your other children while you are taking care of your newborn? and who takes care of you? Do you have a good support group? how do you build that? Thank you

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Luke just mostly does it! We don't have a ton of help, but he can handle all the older kids.

[@camilledammasch3648]

To add an anecdote to labour positions: My first: posterior, long labour on back. Episiotomy. My second: posterior but turned while crowning, medium length labour on my knees. Water birth, 2nd degree tearing. So positioning of mothers body doesn’t have as much to do with tearing or not tearing, more so depends on the baby’s position. But it is better to labour not on your back scientifically

[@tallyakuzmin6390]

I think there is s lot that plays into it, probably more so the intuitive position of the mother during labor and birth. I had one induced with episiotomy, 2 natural water birth skid marks no tearing, 2 natural vaginal Frank breech on hands and knees and on knees leaning against bed, one with small tear and stitches and one with just tiny tear and no stitches

[@nohely3141]

Omg that's crazy statistics!! I had my daughter, who is my first child, at exactly 40w1d!! :O I thought she was a little late, but it's so interesting to know that it's the average! Side note: I'm so impatient/excited waiting for your new little to get her already! I'm looking forward to being pregnant again

[@nmcclanahan969]

You are a good mommy and your babies love to stay inside your womb. Have a good, uneventful birth and a big virtual hug! Can’t wait to see what you’ve got!🎁🤗

[@ilanabuttle7835]

To help reduce tearing apply pressure to the perineum to support it. Over here we have 2 midwives present for the delivery, one guides the baby and one is supposed to keep an eye on mum. Thats part of their job. (My besty is a midwife, she taught me alot!) I had a student doing that bit for my 4th or 5th I think and was able to reach when I felt stinging like I was going to tear. I was non verbal by then! (I had an emergency Caesar first time and 5 natural deliveries in different positions. All hospital but midwife assisted with minimal dr involvement if any. Standard for public care here if there are no actual medical issues.)

[@FHG2088]

I really wish my post partum journey was as peasant as yours. We had horrible trouble breast feeding, baby lost weight, doctors freaked out, so much pain, 3a tear, 80 stitches,, hadnt slept in a week before hand, and my entire labour and delivery was 3.5 hours. I had such a hard time for the first 3 months. Really hoping my next one goes differently! Hope you have an uneventful labour and delivery. Snuggle that little gem of a human 🤗

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

awe I'm so sorry! that sounds miserable

[@marrerofamilyfarm]

BTW you look amazing and wishing you an amazing delivery. God Bless!

[@donna8212]

Good luck Lisa!!! I’m going with “girl”...😉👍🏻🤰🏼

[@alee5106]

I was counting on first pregnancy going passed the 40 week mark, still had lots of plans until the baby arrives, didn’t even packed for the hospital. Then my water broke on 37 weeks and 6 days... 🤣 was so mad I didn’t get to enjoy 38, 39 and 40th week! 😝 will definitely have the bag packed before 36th week next time around.

[@cassischreiner2247]

I think a lot of tearing has to do worth each woman's skin elasticity as well. My first was a 95th% head, was facing up, and a vacuum assisted delivery, no tears. The subsequent three babies all had big heads as well, but were correctly positioned, except the last. She wasn't face up, but her head was crooked and wedged on my bones.

[@chelseamorgan2896]

Raspberry leaf makes ALL the difference for afterbirth pains! Keep drinking it like you would have drunk it before labour, until bleeding subsides.

[@Cylindercar]

Hearing that other moms are terrible with the baby book updates. Thank you, I feel slightly less like a failure. 😂🤦‍♀️❤

[@II-jp2fl]

Lisa you look so beautiful! God bless your l&d and baby. Thank you for sharing the Bible verse that helps you during labor, I really needed that! “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.” ‭‭II Timothy‬ ‭1:7‬ ‭NKJV‬‬ I’m due in March.

[@MissNatashaMarie]

The after birth pains after my 2nd were unbelievably painful. I was not expecting that. I didn’t cry while in labor, but I absolutely did from the after pains. They lasted a few days. Not looking forward to that again😅

[@user-wy5jv1ho2k]

More magnesium for the afterbirth pains, upwards of 1000mg???? You might need to take potassium with that dose. If that's okay while breastfeeding. A long soak is a magnesium/epsom salt bath might help too. - All the best!

[@MomLifeVlog]

I always have my babies at 41+...I can't wait to see your beautiful baby! I bet it's a girl! I'm looking forward to sewing tutorials for baby girl clothes!

[@amarshall5407]

Definitely think position of baby dictates most tearing. Had a 6lb 10oz baby & tore (not badly but in my labia... it stung) I do wonder if I hadn't had an epidural would I have been able to sorta feel the "right" way to push to not tear. Unfortunately it was medically necessary.

[@lacbenmar]

Best of luck praying for you xx

[@ludmillawierzbinski8847]

Do you do anything special after delivery to get your pelvic floor muscles back in shape?

[@samanthagraveswalters8443]

I see that you use mason jars. I know you dont do bottles. But if you do theres a cute mason jar baby bottle diy kit on Amazon :)