I think most of them were bullied at school when they were teenagers, I also suffered but when they saw that I was worse than them they became my friends😂, it's part of life my angel, even in the army there is this, the rookies suffer until they learn, a kind of stimulus for growth. You for example Ayumi became a great cook and an excellent artist. Sorry for the late comment. Stay in peace and good health my dear.😊❤