42: r/ChoosingBeggars | The BCC Club Podcast

[@jayroc62]

That laundry repair guy was fully negging Kendal with a smile on his face 🙃🥲

[@maggiedk]

BRUH Sarah's ex trying to compare their immense grief to him finding out his dog has arthritis reminds me of when I was drugged at a bar (thankfully friends who happened to be there that night made sure I got home safe, but it still messed me up physically & emotionally) and talked to my ex about it the day after and he tried to say he knew how I felt because once he drank enough to black out with a group of his friends which was also scary 💀💀💀 like 1. He chose to drink that much that night, I had no choice about blacking out and being sick for 12+ hours straight 2. He was in a safe environment with people he trusted and 3. I'm a woman with a history of SA and abuse and he's a cis man with no such history.

[@sapphirejaxxgh8639]

That sounds terrible.. I'm glad to hear they're an ex. I've had a similar thing happen to me and it really does mess with you. I already had trust issues. That experience made it worse. I wasn't in a safe environment. I'm currently in therapy 😅

[@ashleyduckworthyt3224]

It astounds me when men say they “get it” and proceed to use an example like your ex used….😅 LIKE WHAT?!

[@Colonoscopy_Night_at_Macys]

Oof, I’ve been drugged as well, and I felt so alone afterwards. People treat you like you’re crazy for being physically and emotionally injured after something like that. It’s like how people treat mental illness - there’s no visible evidence, so the person must be exaggerating their suffering. I fully recognize your pain following that experience. You deserve love and care and understanding. I’m sending you all the healing radio waves! 📻 🌊

[@DiMagnolia]

Lmao me telling a guy about how I escaped an ab*sive marriage and he’s like “yeah I get that… I had a fling with a girl visiting here from college last summer and then she never hit me up this summer” SIR WHAT

[@trash.frogg.]

Yall need to do r/entitledparents !!!!!!!

[@bellahawthorn4575]

Yaass, Sarah would go *off*!

[@dklee.01]

i would LOVEEE to see them do r/EntitledParents !!

[@AdeliaCreates]

Not paying a nanny is actual human trafficking. The biggest work done in human trafficking is not sexual, it is domestic and farm labor. It is Hella illegal and there are resources to help those in need.

[@marilynsane4310]

The hard cut after “I remember something really dark” was hilarious 😘👌

[@desireekidd6764]

As a parent I completely agree with Kendall and Sarah. I have 2 kids in scouts we went camping, I basically had to help keep like 5 other kids alive while the kids mom and dad just fully ignored them. These are like small children btw that haven't grasp the concept of death. I had to take acorns out of a child's mouth. All I heard was "well kids are wild and having fun what are u gonna do." I literally heard the phrase boys will be boys. NO! You still have to watch your kids and teach them and keep them alive. One parent lost her child because she took a nap (didn't let anyone know) so I watched him until we found her and the parents got mad at me. Entitled people make me scream.

[@dklee.01]

out of their MOUTH ???? 😭😭😭

[@desireekidd6764]

@@dklee.01 yeah kids will try to eat anything they find on the ground.

[@itslubia]

1:07:42 "he shot a gun on the moon The bullet went real slow" 😭😭💀💀

[@momac1871]

When carol screamed “THEY ACTIVELY DUTY” I cackled like a damn witch in my kitchen. I absolutely adore these gays

[@Velvetvixen22]

I knew a dude in college that displayed socio/psychopathic behavior and he was studying to be a therapist. He would study people’s triggers and use them to taunt and provoke, and become violent at times. Also would manipulate people to turn against others with lies and starting/spreading rumors. He would say the most nasty things about random stranger’s appearances. He fucked with everyone’s head and was insanely good at appearing normal and gaslighting. Just a genuinely fucked up person, studying to be a therapist. My only comfort is that I’ve heard there is a test that therapists in training must pass before getting certified that accurately determines if they are mentally sound enough to do the job.

[@hkqtt]

I think the problem people have with influencers getting paid by corporations like 15k for a post is because those corporations should be paying their base line employees more. Why is Walmart paying someone 15k for an ad but paying their front line workers 15 an hour? It’s a byproduct of a very fucked system, and no that’s not the influencers fault but it’s very unfair and upsetting to witness

[@HopefulHopelessly]

Yeah I had to stop watching at this point because it was feeling tone deaf. No hate to them at all, it’s the influencer illness

[@hkqtt]

@@HopefulHopelessly yea I was feeling a touch of that unfortunately, like 15k at once would change my life rn

[@Kvbain1967]

for me its also like a lot of these influencers seem to be people who arent doing much good with their money which is why it annoys me. like yesthe goal is for everyone to live beyond just dcomfortable but when i see pretty white KIDS get 15k for a post they did nothing with and then just spend it by buying products from unethical corporations and promoting the uber rich goal

[@dklee.01]

i was going to say this.

[@omgspicegirls]

"I have a mirror!" lmfao

[@softkitty2553]

There needs to be a part 2 on this one just for Sarah's ex alone. !

[@Johnny_The_Jester]

one of my favorite of Sarah's characters of like all time

[@kaycjeff]

i need y’all to do a reddit podcast together 😭 these are always too good & y’all’s takes/anecdotes are my fav on the internet

[@meowcatgirlie]

LITERALLY!! There’s so many topics I would love to listen to them cover

[@beccaschull]

THEY ACTIVELY DUTY!!

[@abigailjolene]

I love how they retell stories and the other is surprised lol I love them. That’s literally my friends and I all the time

[@ashleynicolemercier6784]

“He shot a gun on the moon!”💀

[@trash.frogg.]

26:38 "thats just bad for the environment" killed me ☠️ so good!!!!!!!!

[@Cam0105]

The first one about the vet makes me fucking fume. I am a tech at a 4 doctor pracetice. I work 9 hour days sometimes without breaks or even peeing, juggling 2-3 appts at a time while entitled old people yell at me for making them wait too long. I only do this cuz I love animals, no one handles all the shit we do without loving animals. We get paid shit, most of us working full time having a side gig or two. Sorry we cant not charge you, but we have bills to pay that we are already late on. Not to mention, the emotional toll of it all, some days we literally cry from stress. I wish people could be understanding. I get that it can be expensive but that is beyond our control. We dont set prices and when we can, we try to charge as little as possible.

[@jadebarman237]

If this means anything, THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICES! I would pay whatever the price to keep my babies alive and well AND compensate the individuals providing that service! The time, passion and dedication you’ve offered the world isn’t going unrecognized. I would have lost two of my sweet cats if it weren’t for the attentive nature and knowledgeable service of local vets/techs. I have four felines and 3 of which require special care. It wouldn’t be possible without vets and techs. I’m forever grateful for the sacrifices you’ve made and I wish you nothing but the best going forward. ❤️

[@8infinite8possiblities8]

The Carol character is brilliant 🤣

[@matsmouth272]

I love the debates they get into with the other's characters

[@2silverkoi]

I was waiting for the infamous church bus post !!! Please make a part 2!! NEXT !!

[@nicolemcmahon3556]

This guest was my favorite. Good job, Sarah, truly hilarious. 😂 and scary accurate hahaha

[@RealToWonder]

i literally did not believe Rihanna is a billionaire. She is. Rihanna is worth $1.4 billion which is more than even Beyonce. Staggering. When it comes to entertainers and money, i personally believe they should be donating enough money to AT THE VERY LEAST stay under a billion in net worth. I feel like that's the bare minimum.

[@brittneyriley2648]

This whole episode is just Kendahl ranting lmao

[@champagnemami4044]

I listened to this driving home through an hour of traffic after working overtime on my birthday to go over lab results with a patient to make $7 in OT, and the segment about how influencers are paid tens of thousands of dollars by big corporations sent me actually spiraling

[@randomman1412]

All these stories remind me of this woman I saw at a store yesterday trying to pass off her tiny yorkie wrapped in a pink blanket in her shopping cart as a service dog. When someone I was with asked whos dog it was (to our group and she was super far away talking to an employee) she came over and got super defensive and was like please don’t touch her she’s a service dog. Like ma’am you aren’t fooling anyone and also we aren’t five year olds going up to peoples dogs trying to pet them. We were just walking by a dog in a cart by itself. It was so off-putting that she felt the need to do all that and the fact she’s just so boldly telling anyone and everyone that lie just to get what she wants. Also not to mention how that behavior ends up harming people with real service dogs.

[@kittyreincat]

Unrelated to actual pod episode- I thought Kendahl was getting extensions? I love the short hair but kendahl seemed so excited about getting them.

[@bellznstuff4860]

omg pls do an episode on parenting😭😭😭 there’s so much going around on tik tok rn and on twitter and i just wanna hear what you guys think

[@knewlon]

pls do a second episode w the military wife im begging

[@GGG-eu2lo]

had to come back to this episode because that skit is one of my absolute favourites lmao

[@lynlix1086]

god i love this podcast

[@ashleynicolemercier6784]

Please do a r/JustDependaThings episode! I’m sure Sarah has tales to tell, and wonderful insight (per usual)

[@eileenblowes4078]

For the catering one $28 per person is amazing nibodybis that low. I Just got married it was $120 per person

[@wonderwallxbabe]

For real!! What a steal lol

[@ryleedee]

The maintenance person coming in and just saying the most jolly passive agressive shit youve ever heard happened to me too. Freshmen year of college my dorm lights broke and a maintenance guy came to fix them. He was super nice but kept like passively agressively talking to me asking me "so whats your major?" And i said "theater arts!" And then he asked "oh! What kind of car do you have?" And i was like "uhhh a chevy" and he said "is that a big car? Bc youll be living there soon with that career" WTF

[@ichieru]

This podcast is currently getting me thru a breakup

[@alyssamango4978]

I now identify as a big chunk bisexuality

[@bi_yall]

Sarah going off about her ex is so me. Crazy ass stories just start flowing lol.

[@lennonbrooks1083]

"well they actively duty" hahahaha

[@courtneyh7842]

49:11 God bless, my mom, I know, for a fact she won’t be that way. Her and my dad got married in Vegas, and she wore a black dress 🤷🏼‍♀️ They’re divorced now but even my dad and his new wife got married at a pavilion in a park and it wasn’t super fancy

[@boephus]

Best character segment we’ve heard in a while !

[@GigiGravesXX]

You should make an episode about entitled parents and their badly behaved chi,dren because not enough ppl are talking about it lol I am always so happy to hear from like minds

[@Jac0bRyan]

The couple that made the nanny post made it that way because they wanted to rent out a room and get extra with it... They just worded it less lame

[@itslubia]

I hope you do another episode with this topic

[@ryanpooley]

I look forward to this podcast every week!!

[@christianspeck]

I NEED an episode about Ipad kids

[@bbycas]

As a socal native, i was triggered when i heard camp pendletonnn 😂

[@jjdancerrr]

I love carol’s crocs

[@petescoffee]

another great day !!! bcc day!!!!

[@Kvbain1967]

i really think that having kids being part of not just the "american dream" but like most of the worlds srandard for what you do in life makes even people who obviously despise kids "want" kids because thats just what you do and our generation is the first (mostly because of the impending doom that is our current climate disaster) thats like wait i want to live for myself why would i have kids

[@umber8904]

I have always had an issue with the beggers cant be choosers phrase because to me, if you have to beg for basic necessities, you should be able to choose TOO. granted, i do get it, always be grateful for what you do get, but i just...i want better for other people than to just be stuck in a shitty situation and be stuck with stuff that is sub par at best or actively detrimental at worse. Sometimes people who are begging for anything have valid reasons to need to also choose things; a single mother who has a kid allergic to peanuts or maybe even many allergies should be able to choose what they get so she doesnt end up with food FOR her kid that her kid cant actually eat. It feels like....idk maybe it's just trauma cause i grew up very poor, not enough food poor, and also autistic so sometimes id be forced to eat food we were given that i hated for an autism like texture reason and was always told that beggars cant be choosers so i think thats really colored my perspective on that idiom lol

[@umber8904]

I hope it's obvious I wrote this comment before watching most of the video cause I had thoughts unfortunately, but let me follow up and say THESE PEOPLE (ESPECIALLY THE CATERING LADY OFFERING TO PAY 2K FOR AN ORDER WHERE 5K IS A STEAL OF AN ASKING PRICE (SWORDFISH!?!)) ARE DELUSIONAL OHMYGOD

[@anissag.2084]

love you both !!

[@DiMagnolia]

I loved carol 😂

[@sapphirejaxxgh8639]

Definitely unhinged

[@berryquiet6497]

and God smiled

[@xoALSox]

1:02:48 😂

[@lelagrace99]

where did alex go

[@lelagrace99]

my chat disappeared

[@creatorssleepiestguy2490]

Kendall nooooooo Tara molests her bird noooooooooo

[@meelane]

I wouldn’t mind if the ‘skit’ at the end wasn’t there and yall just talked about the topic or your lives for longer

[@bentaff7176]

"I hate complaining" has an entire podcast focused on complaining

[@alexahowmanyhamsters1312]

She hates complaining to service workers not us lol

[@mackenziegomez2159]

Socialism does not destroy societies. Greedy capitalists do. Every socialism failure is absolutely due to greedy capitalists usirping the socialist process.

[@90spawg23]

Sarah has a lot of trauma. And her fam sounds nuts. A lot of trauma dumping and anger. I can relate. Mama I think you got cptsd

[@nickid7117]

I LOVED this guest