The second story is the same as my story I had two kids was bored in 2006,2008,but I never spent time with them because I am busy of 12/24/7 because need to pay the bills and work very hard to buy anything my kids need even a tablet since they are 4 years older and kept bought anything they are want and I got a bad relationship with a guy so I put them an a sides so I stopped relationship since 2009 and allowed his dad to watch his kids because I needed and he very lazy not working since 2009,until 2023 he broke the law so he got arrest and he asked me to bail him out ,but I’m not and I found out all kinds not love me and hate me because I’m not spending time with them and got angry at me not bailed his dad out of jail and he called me names,but I dropping of work and working only three days a week to spend time with them,he dropped school ,but didn’t any drugs.