5 Comments That Easily Trigger the Narcissist’s Rage

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[@KBArchery]

1) I disagree. (How dare you disagree w me) 2) you hurt me. (Your needs trigger them) Gaslighting. Defensiveness. Denying. Lying. 3) I need space (fear of abandonment. They see it as rejection) 4) You are being selfish. (They don’t see themselves this way. Sensitive to criticism) 5) I’m done/walking away. (Huge trigger. Toxic meltdown or guilt trip

[@jmjpowerjoule]

I love how you discribed it. That completely discribes my older brother!

[@ericfroshnider3524]

Heres my favorite " You sound frustrated" or any type of emotional labeling

[@jmjpowerjoule]

LOL. We all need to blog more about this in order for me to find healing.

[@kittypurcell]

Yes! A simple "you sound upset" triggers them so bad 😂

[@jackilynpyzocha662]

Dad caused me a lot of trauma, and when I complained, he invalidated my complaint "You misinterpreted what I said". Not true. His blaming me for the abuse he caused(still does) me. Jerkwad! I am not in contact with him, he is toxic to me. His problematic attitude, his fault, all of it!

[@ks0969]

" I m not convinced. I m going to believe what I see and hear" ooo, you came here to attack and insult me, but, don t like when it s done to you", " don t let the doorknob hit you on the way out"

[@user-up7ip4br3d]

Never tell a Narcissist to stop been negative!!! Or you will pay dearly!

[@taraarrington2285]

I can let people go and wish them the best. I can love people from a distance. Some people are just not healthy for my mental health.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@danielalee7387]

❤

[@jackilynpyzocha662]

Dad expected to cheat on Mom, but would not have tolerated if she had cheated on him; double standard!

[@craigschuel7587]

I have been listening to ur videos dealing with my wife that is a extreme narcissist and every thing u teach is exactly what is happening to the t. U are amazing and have helped me so much. Thank you u have helped me more than u will ever know

[@PoyTroy]

You literally just described my ex lol. I remember I said agree to disagree about a tv show we were watching. She gave me the silent treatment for 3days straight. At the time it messed me up. Being more knowledgeable about narcissism I put it together. She acted like a child cause I disagreed to something so simple that wasn’t even reality lol

[@sidneydavies4358]

Every attempt to raise a legitimate issue is perceived as an a attack

[@meizinnia]

Indeed, then the next thing is they will attack your character. So exhausting. Phoniest folks I have ever encountered.

[@qsfoxx]

When I disagree, I say, "That's crazy!" That really sets them off. I also like, "Don't go away mad...just go away!"

[@CarenCohen]

Wow. I had to move 1300 miles away. He’s still stalking and will never stop trying to hurt me. It’s crazy. I’ve been out for 3 years . Moved away. Said stay away and stop harassing me! Wow!

[@ralphkelly1]

For sure. Worst behaviour is when she is anxious about something - for example upcoming hospital appointment.

[@patriciafry8634]

Hard to do in the work world. But going no or low contact with family or friends-fantastic! Such a relief!

[@gypsy698]

The trick is don't ever tell the narcissist: "I'm done. It's over," in person. You can write them a note, a text or an email. Just walk away and then block them from being able to communicate with you. Who needs the drama? I know I don't.

[@kirkclarke7396]

It will always be just one thing that they said that they think caused you to leave, not their selfishness, lying, cheating, drug involvement and other stuff that bothers you. In their mind they are perfect, and so if you leave them then you are a bad friend.

[@j.bellington9733]

For sure husband and 32 yr old son!

[@sallydr]

My ex-husband was.a narcissist and I am co-dependent. My 32 and 33 year old sons are both narcissists which I certainly helped to create. I started getting better about 3 years ago and told them they had to talk to me with respect and they haven't talked to me since. Actually, it was a really good thing for me! I understand what you mean about your son. There are no perfect parents and they had a much better childhood than I did. They belong to the Universe, not me.

[@jesssmith2064]

For sure. I had this happen to me on the weekend. I swear as time goes by, your video content speaks directly to me and thank god for it! Thank you for keeping me sane. Just when I think I have a handle on toxic people they come out of the woodwork when you’re not expecting them to be awful

[@kimhennessee7465]

Another trigger to say to a narc is “I don’t believe you!”

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@user-kf3yz7so6q]

Yes💯% correct.

[@PulseCodeModulate]

I can think of a few other circumstances... Holding them accountable. Telling the truth. Remaining calm and NOT getting upset when they try to bait and gaslight you into a fight. I spent 34 with my covert wife and now my body, soul and spirit are drained. My body hurts all over from the decades of stress and trying to work out "simple" problems. Most of my life savings were depleted going to doctors which proved mostly useless. Thank you! Rebecca Zung for the valuable information you provide. I'm almost 58 years old and I don't know how or where to start in pursuing romance but, I'm grateful to be alive after this ordeal. I have known others in these horrible and abusive relationships who did not make it out intact. Take care and God bless you. Jeffrey Z. in SC

[@Whisper2069]

i think simply just saying "No" to them would be enough to send them into a rage, even though its probably best to just walk away if that is option.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@thebiscuitrose]

Hi Rebecca and thank you. One primary fact and I did learn from your videos is that "these people" are toddlers in adult clothing. And this helps a lot.

[@ashleyfinke9317]

For sure!!!!

[@kittypurcell]

FOR SURE! Thank you for these videos!!! "I disagree" can even be simply explaining something they say about YOU and you correct them, it will set them off.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@j.bellington9733]

Love, love Iam DONE!!! ❤😂 All of the above!!!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@mikegump3766]

For sure...

[@MrsTrucker]

I love this, very informative and helpful - you obviously know what you're talking about and I learned a lot! Thank you for making this video and sharing your knowledge, as a person who is married to a narcissist, I need all the help I can get 😢 P.S. Best thumbnail ever!! ❤

[@Sam-pl3yd]

Yes Rebecca 💕I can see right through them these days 🙏❤️

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[@lgardner6867]

Thank you!

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[@arianasha]

Top Notch Rebecca, thank you!

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[@mariaelenaslatter1270]

For sure!

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[@susanhay4982]

For Sure!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@andrejvidovic1]

For shore!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@kaalba5529]

Excellent!!! ❤

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[@de1410]

FOR SURE!

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[@adrianafrancke3919]

Ignore him totally and just say to him I dont take anything your say personal it's all on you. That stop him to devalue me 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🚫🚫🚫

[@jmjpowerjoule]

Okay. I understand that the 5-phrases to pizz-off a narcissist are: 1.) "I disagree with you." 2.) "You hurt me." 3.) "I need space." 4.) "You're being selfish." 5.) "I'm done." LOL. My older brother is a pathological liar and narcissist. I am going to put him in his place in front of the whole extended family when I see him again. I will use these phrases to make him hate life! --Thank you for sharing your empowering information!

[@pe2914]

FOR SURE!!

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[@wazzup3270]

For Sure😊

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[@emustaro]

Love that look and blouse!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@bakerwannabe4435]

For Sure

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[@gloriaurda4911]

Daughter very difficult relationship I'm totally to blame and I'm left in her dust

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@thebiscuitrose]

For sure

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[@cedrickmarie-jeanne4676]

for sure

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[@freefreepalestine360]

My wife gets so triggered when we talk about the nature of our beautiful non rotating flat earth in the center of the whole universe ♥️

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[@AmourofgodShinelight]

Thank you so much for this Rebecca, This was absolutely tremendous, You're absolutely beautiful and an inspiration to me, I listen to everything and I take your advice, You're a magnificent lawyer, Peace, love and respect to you and everyone, Thank you universe, All glory to the most high, God is great 😃💗💙💚❤💛💜🌌🌈👽✌🦁🦄🕊🌹😃

[@Horizon25]

Your amazing Rebecca

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@Horizon25]

AHH thank you so much for your reply I appreciate it, hopefully I will check it out thank very very much Rebecca

[@earlineblack8276]

He tries every day to control me and the more he tries the more I DO what I want, I go on vacations without him knowing I just pack my bags and leave him when he’s asleep, last year I left for a month and a half, and he took revenge on my things and my room so I left the room just as he destroyed it, it was a year in March so each time he walks past the room its a reminder of what he has done, I can’t leave him because of money 💵 but I’m planning to leave, I have lived with this kind of situation since I was a child so what he say or do doesn’t matter and he can’t understand how I’m taking all of his bull crap 💩, I believe in God and I know that I’m protected in more ways than one, God is the answer Amen 🙏🏼

[@lovejoy71422]

Is there a women's shelters all over the place you don't need money to get started you just need to get out! Call domestic violence hotline and get the help that you need. God also gave us common sense we need to use it!

[@Tate-nj5jo]

Rebecca, First I have to Thank You for your work. I am a Disabled Senior male who was deceived for many years. Married for 44 years 10 months. Not knowing what was being done to me through the years. My Love was 18 years when I married her. It was not until now that we (my sister who was hated by my wife all those years) discovered documents going back to 1979 that my Bride started to hide her income. Also she was stealing money, my jewelry, my inherited family valuables. I don't know if she was thinking our marriage was just a temporary situation. Our Divorce proceedings are passing the one year mark. My wife is still refusing to disclose her assets. This is of course causing me to spend all the savings I have. Her technique is too make me get to the the end of my savings, and that would cause me to settle leaving her the stolen assets she had accumulated. ( My unsuspected Ace in the whole is my Sister, My wife never dreamed I had an ally in my Sister, and my Sister offered to pay for the Forensic Audit)

[@narcissism-masterclass]

We could come up with 8 million 🙂

[@jackilynpyzocha662]

Dad acts entitled to treat me like shit and I am supposed to be grateful to him? NO!

[@Levon_James5150]

Ping pong, im done…! 🔥❤️🔥

[@SmittyInVegas]

Amen.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@gypsy698]

This sounds eerily familiar. My mom (narcissist) kept telling me that I was being too sensitive, when I wasn't, which was REALLY annoying. Of course, the constant gaslighting. I'm SO glad that I "cut" her loose, blocked her from being able to communicate with me and I've been able to move on. Because everything happened so suddenly, I wasn't completely prepared, so it's been challenging, but anything is better than being in a situation where I was constantly "walking on egg shells" & never knowing when she would go from being nice to the super bitch from Hell. Those days are over and I'm never going back.

[@erinscruggs5838]

Why would you want to trigger their rage? Sounds like taking part in your own misery!!! NAH ILL PASS

[@qsfoxx]

Another fav to respond to a narc, "It's important to know what to say, when to say it, and when to stop." Looks like you failed on all three.

[@AnaSilva-to1sy]

I want to be on record as being against the idea of Narcissists' being described as a monster. I understand that you think Narcissists won't change, but everybody needs to experience unconditional love, because if the only good memory they can remember is how they felt loved, that's a good thing. I try to see people as Jesus sees, not who they are now, because l believe that Jesus accepts us just as we are, some people think they have to clean up their life first, not so.

[@kimr9960]

How to deal with a Narc when you are trying to deal with an estate. They have found out I have an attorney and, won’t cooperate with lawyer.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@leannrobinsonjohnson3487]

I'm in trouble. I don't know what to do. 23 yes if marriage. It's reared it's ugly head when I found him textingvwith a co worker. Tgat was over a tr ago. However when I look back I knew he was a liar this n that I just thought he'd grow put of it. Unfortunately I was soooooo wrong.

[@leannrobinsonjohnson3487]

I've tried all these. I'm at a loss. I'm ready to file for a divorce. He will never change. I know this but why at the end of our journey I chose to wake up? Wth

[@myopinion8551]

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[@mikegump3766]

Independent day...

[@MYKEYCARD]

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[@mattbarnes3467]

" you're abusive and cruel" really? Pointing out your behaviors and choices that have affected our marriage in a calm manner, without raising my voice, name calling, or laying on hands is abusive and cruel? Sure.

[@truthspeaker888]

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[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@mariaelenaslatter1270]

I tell him. Do you need attention?

[@patriciafry8634]

For Sure!!

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[@benniecampbell3973]

For Sure!!!

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[@unknownentrappment_ed3522]

For Sure

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[@user-ix6vc4kk6l]

For sure

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