5 conversations that kill attraction in new relationships

[@Its_superdave09]

The basic & most important point here is TIMING Not letting the excitement & the tingling butterflies in our tummies to ruin things in the long run Thanks Jess

[@mnickiel09]

_AFTER ALL FELLAS, SHE'S NOT YOURS, IT'S JUST YOUR TURN_

[@Son_of_Daniel]

@@mnickiel09 scanning completed Result: NO LIES DETECTED 👏 👌

[@alonzoneloms5651]

The Rotation of Partners and Supplies! They are real for the unfaithful. The Cheaters/ Liars! Narcissistic behaviors.

[@sibusisoprince7804]

Number 1. Commenter on the number one channel🎉

[@cyruskimani139]

Jessica you really arrange these topics exactly according to what I want to hear and according to events that is happening in my life and am greatful I know you 💪💯💯💯💯

[@Baylorbetterthanbrown]

Man I'm so glad I don't chase women and if they don't like my conversation they can go on real quick😅

[@ssegyjo6689]

I don't waste my time on ladies too though inner me is really nice.

[@kofiaturu3363]

@@Baylorbetterthanbrown that’s all 😂😂

[@SweetStormzy]

@@Baylorbetterthanbrown 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Baylorbetterthanbrown]

@@SweetStormzy it's what they do right ? They don't Chase if they don't like your conversation they scat leaving the weak man wondering well I'm a king 👑 I wait and time always brings to me what belongs to me when u chase you may always end up with the wrong one

[@doncody8465]

If in doubt - leave it out

[@chineduogbonnaya465]

Jessica... You're so good at this. Thanks 👍

[@jehusaunders8482]

Jessica I love your use of analogies

[@xxxyyy-iy4hf]

Blessings Auntie Jess, you are the best.

[@rpgtrident3364]

Now this is some great and valuable advice right here. Listen up guys!

[@Boss_caleb69]

Timing is really important

[@eminom2h516]

only one week in the relationship already after seeing this i know I'll be single again for sure.

[@ajlino489]

Nice one Jessica 😈😈✊🏾✊🏾😊😊😂😂😎😎❤️❤️👏🏾👏🏾💪🏾💪🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🫡🫡😈😈🔥🔥😉😉😀😀😊😊

[@ayokeeng]

All I’ll say is all these don’t matter if she is keenly interested in you. When people perceive they have options and they can do better, they get easily offended because it’s not that deep for them.

[@daviepiank8110]

Exactly.if she's into you.all those video message is useless.. She will accept anything mentioned in the video if she's into you💯. This video message can only help to make relationship go smoothly bit not to help A Girl accept you. See the difference

[@kenstewart5291]

I couldn't help but get serious with you, Jessica

[@matyilagoodwish]

Haven't been here for a while. Keep up the great work 🎉

[@JessicaOS]

Welcome back!

[@sundaymuchika763]

You're the best,Jessica.... thanks for the video... educative as usual

[@emmanuelk.dennis5585]

Jessica, you're a real MVP on this😊

[@businessboom6143]

Awesome video with great tips Jessica 🎯💯

[@Baggio10520]

You’re so good at this 💯

[@macaddy5148]

It’s always about what women need,when we need,bam…we too needie

[@FZERO20]

I agree

[@KJThePublicist]

In regards to #1... timing is everything...

[@nelsongoncalves5379]

That’s good to starting a conversation love it ✌️

[@KevOtieno]

This is really good,,it works thanks 😮😅😅

[@amosbanpil5956]

Excellent! Thank you very much.

[@patkwara5281]

Point blank, period!

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Conversations that seem harmless can really have a big impact if they come off as insecure or needy. Knowing what to avoid and focusing on building that natural connection instead makes a huge difference in how attraction develops!*

[@asdfxcvbn746]

to women, literally anything men do is wrong or creepy. this is why men don't approach anymore. the rich, tall, famous guy, he can say whatever he wants without her thinking its needy or thirsty. coming from him its "charming" so men should just avoid women. if she's interested shell chase. if not, oh well. she just wants your money & resources anyway.

[@jeremiaholadayo1362]

The man in this story you just said would be watching this as well 😂😂😂

[@JessicaOS]

yep! and he'll finally know

[@achurichard9713]

😂 the guy that went on a date with you didn’t know what he’s out with 😅 you’re way too smart and intelligent for the dude

[@ShubHam-tp1mo]

Thnk God.. I was about to ask this

[@declan_franklin]

Yeah, I express the "over sharing" aspect, though it was a good way to let her know me, but it was a total mistake.

[@ForeverChip03]

Now i realise how I did everything wrong. 🤦

[@michaelnotes8707]

Life changing stuff!

[@mukundelorland6620]

l got this at a right time ❤❤

[@maungedzorasevhendele]

✍️. taking notes ..

[@santoreknight]

Hi Jessica, thanks for your videos and good contents. in regards to this same topic, when it is a woman or women who pop that question to a man, while you are simply enjoying the intellectual topic with the lady, like literally asking a man " what are we?" "are we an item"? Are you attracted to me? is that also the same results as it came from a man? and why would women be upset when a man just answers NO to those questions?

[@emmanuelmega4551]

OMG Jess I wish I had watched this video last week to save myself of the mess I've created right now. Everything you just talked about is exactly what I did to kill the attraction. The girl who was over me and texting me last had pulled back so fast 😢

[@nelsonnelly1767]

What if a guy has already made this mistake. Can it be corrected on the same girl?

[@senamalexander2313]

Just relax and be calm 😂

[@nelsonnelly1767]

@@senamalexander2313you mean do nothing or talk to her that she should forget all what you said before now ?

[@senamalexander2313]

@@nelsonnelly1767 Do nothing, what do you want her to forget? That will even worsen the matter kraa

[@gospelo.saloka9325]

Guy, don't unsay anything you said or tell her to forget. You've said what you said. Let her take them in. Give her more and more space each passing day. If she really likes like you said she will come back. Otherwise, let her go. Don't sacrifice your respect by being too forward. You feed on respect and ability to be consistent than any perceived beauty you think you see. Good luck man ❤❤

[@CYMRUKID69]

I love jessica she's gorgeous.❤

[@Jayjayoluwa]

Thank you

[@nelsonnelly1767]

What if a guy has already made this mistake. Can it be corrected on the same girl?

[@twiceonsundays]

It cannot e fixed. Your best bet is to move on and not make the same mistake with the new girl. Women have 3 to 5 times more options than we have at all times. She will entertain a guy who doesn't make mistakes like that.

[@SureshR-c5x]

I’m guilty of sign 2 and mainly 5.

[@rutendochabururuka4405]

Jessica OS..that big sis n wing girl 🫶

[@dynamic9016]

Understandable.

[@kwadwodapaa5761]

Perfect 🎉

[@cfkillers]

overshare is definitely a mood killler

[@obibinibakin-george9928]

Right! But what about those who ask too much questions at the beginning 😅

[@Steveaky]

I sent a treble txt one of them mentioning I didn’t sleep all night and probably won’t go into work and hate letting people down…but also it it just happened to be my birthday and I told her that too! Guess what no happy birthday txt or any txt and I haven’t heard from her since.

[@kingiibluelyrics]

I am here once again. Thanks Jess

[@Baggio10520]

I wish I saw this last year 💔

[@deepsix1827]

"My chances with her?" I'm sorry, it's 2024, she's competing for me. Neeeeeeeext.......

[@AdesolaAnifowose]

First here 😁

[@JessicaOS]

Second!

[@calex7991]

It's almost hard to avoid...all the above topics when ...you start dating....

[@KJThePublicist]

When a woman is truly interested. None of this shit matters tbh.... or if its overwhelming...the woman who wants to stick around will communicate these things...

[@nanapoku5259]

​@@KJThePublicist Exactly. Why waste time on these "tricks" when you can keep it moving!

[@bennoble8789]

That's where emotional maturity comes in

[@KJThePublicist]

@@nanapoku5259 I agree.... I don't even give them energy

[@asdfxcvbn746]

​@@bennoble8789 most women aren't emotionally mature.

[@seunazeez3838]

I think a woman can love those who have earned her respect.

[@christophed4579]

Where are the timestamps ?

[@drehill1276]

You know what would work? Just stop caring. Always works for me. 😂

[@kwamenyantakyi8398]

Guys basicslly dont initiate anything, let the Woman initiate First always

[@thelegendary-arts]

@@kwamenyantakyi8398 it works easy that way

[@thelegendary-arts]

@@kwamenyantakyi8398 it works easy that way

[@thelegendary-arts]

@@kwamenyantakyi8398 it works easy that way

[@thelegendary-arts]

@@kwamenyantakyi8398 it works easy that way

[@LukeShowBiz]

Jess 👍👍

[@tonykay07]

Am a victim ooo 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@akandejoseph01]

@jessica OS. God bless you 🙏👏

[@Baggio10520]

I made huge mistakes…, things that could have been avoided if knew all these Now hurting for monthssss I wish to get a second chance

[@kyeremehbenjamin2368]

First here🎉❤

[@JessicaOS]

whoop whoop!

[@Capibara_Junior]

4:45 but what if its something like ''oh, ur so much better then my ex'' ?

[@williamwoyeamulbah3748]

I wish I watched this video 😢 early

[@curtisdeerovar]

Why does it sound like rocket science though 😂😂hayibo

[@JashawnCollins-ge9yl]

Jashawn

[@Mike-shotts]

I guess the inverse was my case

[@RKHBLD]

Dating and getting somewhere with women is like cooking on a low flame! And a man is cooking with the flame on high

[@henryifeanyi1829]

Future talks kills

[@Steveaky]

The sooner you say what you want the sooner you see the real them

[@living2profit]

Simple... Direct and true.

[@anastasiomario9287]

Good points. But I think these change based on geographical context.

[@brunibani1313]

ABSOLUTELY CONFIDEBCE IS A PLUS WITH A STAMP. AS QUALITY IS FOREVER.

[@emmanuelagbafor2027]

Please how can this be corrected?

[@GACWORLD]

Talk to GOD about your mistake and try again... GOD can help...

[@shawndettaway9453]

What if she ask the man what are we what’s the answer ?

[@Art_Travel_and_Hobbys]

Little boys chase... Women who think thats exciting should evolve already and communicate with the man she can stand still for and talk to.

[@roybrown3391]

@@Art_Travel_and_Hobbys but women of easy virtue is no-no

[@AfamiAgwai]

About insecurities, do you think it's wise to ask a woman if height is her thing? Just to know so we don't waste eachothe's time going on a date !

[@razvandumitru6193]

Just ask her how much she weights

[@Steveaky]

No don’t ask her anything about physical requirements just talk and let her go for your inner self and personality

[@AfamiAgwai]

@Steveaky most of these women don't go for personality again bro ,conversation might go well online but when you go on the actual date, some get disappointed and don't tell you, the energy level drops, you don't hear from them again. Before you know it ,you're wasting time and money.

[@Steveaky]

@@AfamiAgwai Forget online dating it’s scraping the bottom of the barrel. Join a club or do a course where you meet girls naturally.

[@AfamiAgwai]

@Steveaky time and location matters man,work work and especially leaving in the states where everybody's busy.

[@CodeWithClinton]

The girl I loved left me because she knows I won't be getting married soon. She is 21 while I am 22.

[@mumtajansari1510]

Coloured people don't love twice they only love once for life time my personal experience

[@SamIshaku]

🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@counsela9240]

Romance is a lie. When it wears off you’ll see things differently eventually.

[@MrAkoloutheó]

Yeeeeeeyyyy!!!😢

[@MrFreeze29]

Women can be confusing. They get upset because you can't read their minds. They get upset because you didn't make some small gesture toward them. They get upset because you're being polite. They get upset for you being annoyed or upset over something they did. You never know which way to move or how to breathe. I'm over it.

[@patrickbennett439]

I had a woman ask me the 4th conversation, the whole thing. She wanted to know the whole relationship before we even had it so she would know if she wanted to have it. lol. I answered her questions for a few days, then just didnt text her for a week to see what she would do, she blocked me LOL. I aint ever telling a woman 900 answers again. If she wants to know how everything will be if we are together, she has to actually be with me and find out. Rediculous...

[@stanleythermitus905]

Well that’s what women ask all the time from the start.

[@JashawnCollins-ge9yl]

4:28 4:33

[@stanleypapifrimps4313]

Why so many rules for a single person? 🤦🏾‍♂️ Polygamy should be difficult but the Wisemen held it down nicely and Monogamy seems like a battlefield OmG

[@JashawnCollins-ge9yl]

4:41

[@tynotinder1473]

Please before l finish this video don’t tell me not to talk about religion because l need to know it’s important than the chemistry

[@HikaruID]

Looks like the one feeling insecure is woman, but not man. Therefore, woman should be more secured. It is not all men’s problem. I would rather date a secured woman, tbh.

[@pharaohmufuka1266]

Just make money and all this will never count women value man of value period

[@keynotetube2018]

Women and drama. I'm outta the cinema.

[@RicardoLaidley]

Dat not completely true

[@asdfxcvbn746]

guys, especially black men... instead of avoiding certain topics so you don't turn her off, just avoid black women altogether. that way you can actually be yourself & you don't have to walk on eggshells in conversation to appease some high maintenance woman thats almost certain to be a low return on investment. keep your money, energy, attention, time & resources to yourself, date interracial & date foreign... problem solved.

[@KJThePublicist]

ON GOD! I notice black women the only ones who ask dumb ass questions and get mad at the responses... they claim to want to truth but can't handle it.

[@celesteredding1550]

Wow 😢, that's a sad response

[@asdfxcvbn746]

@@celesteredding1550 sad but true... it is what it is.

[@nanapoku5259]

​@@celesteredding1550 Don't let your "feelings" drive your conclusion. Take time to read the comment DEEPLY!

[@celesteredding1550]

@nanapoku5259 I did, thus my response. To each their own thoughts, feelings, perspective & opinions.

[@jkdub904]

1️⃣

[@geethamadhuri4.033]

😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️😶‍🌫️

[@isaackwaw1092]

Why go on a date in your own car?

[@davidmaddox490]

How about we just avoid you entirely 🤦‍♂️

[@Steveaky]

Do what what women think it’s what I think and want that matters first! The right woman will fall into line

[@chimaeke2321]

It’s not easy to be a man 😞

[@Freethinker_94]

Nope

[@Ates5man]

Too much of complain from your side. I have to remind you that men are doing something that you woman don’t have the courage to do which is taking initiative and making the first move. so why not? Just help him little bit? Ask him and step up little bit you too.? man showing love is him trying to be useful for something for you, so why do you ruin it by judging him of what he’s asking and what he wants to do?

[@michaeljewell53]

Thanks Jessie,you are my strong 🧲 magnet for personal improvement advice, your experiences were very interesting to hear also,shame the 'stalking' type behaviour ruined things when that guy followed you but maybe he just wanted to make sure you got 🏠 home safe? But I can understand it could feel a bit unsettling if it was a first date,I'll take heed of tips and look forward to seeing next vid,keep up good work💯

[@k.r.truthseeker7156]

Her sleeve tat was the first visible red flag. He never should have matched with her.