5 Mindsets That Make Women Chase You

[@dantanedo1229]

1. Act as if she likes you 2. Enjoy her 3. Never diffuse the moments

[@BobbyRio]

yep

[@kacatley9258]

Exactly.. be in the mindset of “have” rather than “desire” or “want” .. ✨

[@marchytam873]

@@BobbyRio Are you still in touch with Sinn ?

[@blainea385]

I have fallen for a this beautiful woman i have been seeing for two or three months now, an i hadn't realized that I was putting in all of my available time to her, then is when I noticed she had the upper hand an i could tell she new it. Thankfully i happened to see one of your videos and it was like a good slap in the face, so before I started to back off i used some of your advice, an had her laughing an wondering about me as i walked away and didn't look back or call her for a week . Now i feel the respect coming. Thanks, guys

[@EriPages]

​@@kacatley92583 years ago, you signed this comment off with sparkling stars....why? Why would you do that as a heterosexual male?

[@seanmichael9625]

Never be afraid to walk away!

[@BobbyRio]

very true

[@cruisecompass8998]

I already walk away ....

[@nitesh192]

​@@BobbyRiobobb please make a video what to do after a fight with girl ..how to please her fown

[@caveman357]

@@cruisecompass8998how did it turn out?

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*When you’re not desperate for attention and focus on self-improvement, it naturally makes others curious and drawn to you. Being secure in your own value definitely changes the dynamic!*

[@thomasgardener6016]

It is very true that women I don't find attractive end up chasing me because I act cool and calm and uninterested but around the girls I do like I can just freeze up and feel nervous which they can see from a mile away

[@bradenadsett9040]

Hello Bobby. You have changed my game so much with these videos and I have literally succeeded so much with your input, keep it up man.

[@BobbyRio]

Great to hear!

[@tkdblkbelt5483]

Bobbys game works trust me

[@garyjohnson3751]

Abundance mindset is the key to everything in life especially in the game of attractions ❤

[@servantjen]

I'm here, not because I'm a man but I liked a man recently. He has this confident aura, almost all of the good things about life but what's not nice? Me feeling too much because I needed to make efforts to talk to the person. I questioned myself, feeling anxious, nervous, awkward, etc -and that's what I hate. So I stopped liking the person, moved on and studied the situation I had. Next time, I'll came across a guy like this, or almost having all of these mindsets, I'll make sure He's genuine and someone who loves my soul.

[@hamletstrange8314]

I love your comment

[@marcofemto9417]

Im gonna unsubscribe from so many dating advice channels. Bobby has such good content and makes so much sense I don't get frustrated and confused anymore

[@BobbyRio]

glad you finding the videos helpful

[@mrbasshole301]

​​@@BobbyRio I friggin need help.. been divorced and not dating for 3yrs.. chick wo cuts my hair all that time is alot younger.. but she kept going over me stats and resume.. getting down and personal.. and telling me some pretty personal things and so I asked her out.. she didn't say no.. she said I might have to take you up on that.. I never asked for her # .. she said she has mine and will call when she's ready.. as she has suddenly been dumped on from a long term relationship.. It crushed me because she was in my practically telling me to ask her out.. next time I went for a cut.. she made a big deal about being worried she was never gonna see me again.. she literally told me she liked me the same way but needed a bit of time first.. so I proceeded to open up like a cheap suitcase.. and Made every mistake..... she had given me the power.. all I had to do is wait.. instead I spilled my nice guy guts.. and then asked her out again..then sent flowers.. with my #..next time I went in she was kinda dry.. then called her at work... 😅😅😂.. At that point I waited a month before going back.. she was kool then and conversation rolled along playfully.. ( I was quitting smoking during all of the previous crap.. and anxious) .. so I told her that I was always listening but that I had a hard time with the smoking and all.. she assured me that she knew that and could see what was happening ND that it didn't bother her at all...she sent me off with a happy Easter and see you in about 4wks.. then I discovered your videos.. I've been making the same needy mistakes my entire life !! Trouble is I like her.. I've dialed it back but need help... I will go for a haircut.. but it will be about 6wks or more... I need help with this....

[@lokeshwaran007xlr]

Most underrated channel

[@BobbyRio]

glad you are enjoying

[@clevelandwilliams5922]

A woman is mine: Be careful and not let arrogance take it to the point where she reads you as self entitled. It’s about being natural, talk and communicate in a way where she is keen. When she enjoys time with another man, then don’t become jealous.

[@JoBrill07]

This is JUST fabulous stuff. SO valuable, this one 22 min video.

[@dieseljagwar6673]

Enjoyed this video, mainly because it was very transparent and real!

[@TristanPR77]

Getting a woman should be an education that should start from kindergarten right til a bachelor degree at the university.

[@blizzbee]

😂

[@OffGridInvestor]

Nobody got that much time

[@RustyX2010]

Making money to take care of yourself first should be a requirement in school.

[@davidlam3763]

I don't believe its possible or at least not easily predictable in advance due to the fact that professionals have been studying womens phychology for centuries due to the significant changes in womens complex psychology due to the more socially evolved adaptation of the past centuries especially the last few generations of change unlike mens psychology which is virtually consistent and simpler. SURPRISE! LOL GOOD LUCK GENTLEMEN - MY ADVICE, CHASE YOUR GOALS AND HAVE POSITIVE PURPOSE FOR LIFE'S SUFFERING SO AT LEAST THERE IS MEANING TO THE SUFFERING. I PROMISE YOU ITS HARDER TO GET WOMEN DUE TO WOMEN HAVING TO BE STRONGER AND MEN GETTING WEAKER WITHIN LAST 3 GENERATIONS DUE TO COMFORT/GOODTIMES AFTER WW2. BOTH GENDERS SPECIFIC GENES EXPRESSED/ CHANGED IN OPPOSITE DIRECTIONS (STRONGER/WEAKER) WITHIN GENDERS. - FAIR WARNING! WOMEN MARRY UP NOT DOWN LIKE MEN. -HYPERGAMY! 😍 PEOPLE GET PAID FOR VALUE SO MAKE YOURSELF MORE VALUABLE THROUGH SELF- DEVELOPMENT THATS THE ONLY WAY TO STAND OUT SINCE WOMEN FIND 80% MEN UNATTRACTIVE. THE MORE UNIQUE YOU ARE THE MORE VALUABLE AND ATTRACIVE YOU ARE. LUCK IS WHEN PREPRATION MEETS OPPORTUNITY.

[@balrajgosain2262]

Ha ha 😂

[@ETvoice]

Thank you so much for this positive and teaching video!!!

[@BobbyRio]

Glad it was helpful!

[@billyfoster3223]

Great rules and coaching, boys!😁👍

[@StephenSLR]

Great vid. @14:40 What do you mean by 'lean into it'? Since you asked for some suggestions on content, create a vid with some examples of leaning into it; how to manoeuvre through this test.

[@rockydaffodil4770]

Real good helpful information, so I need to build good friend zone and from that build a tower

[@chrisdimis91]

First Set your goals. Work on improving yourself. Show her that your confident of your decisions. Be busy. Give her space and don't be all over her all the time.. If she's really beautiful and a lot of guys chasing her be the guy that is not reassuring her. She'll trigger her subconscious because your different

[@garyjohnson3751]

Authenticity is a key factor

[@TheShospitali]

I went to meet women before I told them before I left to come see them I didn't like to fall fast. Boy they did everything to try to win me over. I say I might not like you when we meet. It turned on everything. She's gonna prove to me that she was the one. Now when I activate nervous and afraid of being rejected. They detected that & it turned her away. They start pulling away.

[@davidhealy4534]

1 he's got money 2 he's got money 3 he's got money 4 he's got money 5 he's got money

[@OffGridInvestor]

I know a few millionaires and it's not even a factor. I'm likely to hit that level myself later this year. Been single for years.

[@chrismcevoy2503]

I’m an introvert too Bobby Rio.

[@shambogewan8835]

Well said bro

[@BobbyRio]

thanks

[@chrismcevoy2503]

I’m a Chris too Chris.

[@iomtilt]

Great advice, thanks 👍

[@BobbyRio]

Glad it was helpful!

[@kytaylor5080]

I've been listening to Bobby Rio for about two years now! And look up to him as a mentor and dating coach! However this last woman I was interested in I did the exact opposite of everything Bobby Rio teaches I couldn't have been worse! And there I was as Bobby teaches in "Emotional quick sand!" Until I snapped out of it and drew a line in the sand! I had some vacation time I told her I was going out of town 3 weeks and I did! The minute I told her it was like the whole momentum shifted! She was acting all sad when will you be back! And was like I'll tell you later! Then she was like I hope you come back! So Bobby and Chris are right! I was making myself two available! However by leaving town for 3 weeks and not contacting her hardly any it shifted the whole momentum!

[@BobbyRio]

yea sometimes a blackout is all you need to reset things a bit.

[@kytaylor5080]

@@BobbyRio Thanks Bobby and for all the helpful information on you're you-tube channel.

[@TheSongofSaya]

I'm a shy, introverted guy. What's the best mindset for that? See, I don't really see myself as that energetic, fun guy. Like, the fun words and body language just don't come to mind on the fly.

[@markco4911]

These guys are the real Pro.

[@donaldclifford5763]

Mindset over technique!

[@stanislavnikolov3581]

So good content Baby and Chris, guys make more videos together !

[@jamesmarchetti3286]

Rejection is just a totally normal thing for Me numerous times and and I am used to so it's no problem for Me !!! It just is what it is and a total woman thing just doing what comes natural for them !!! 🤗 !!!

[@10MinutestoRouletteFortune]

Ok, time for some humility. I admit I had the game going on so well with a wonderful gal. Totally unexpected encounter without an aim to get with her at that moment. It just flowed without any nervousness, I was just like "whatever". She was fidgeting with things on the table, playing with her necklace the whole 9 yards. Confidence was there on a high level. She was a 9, and I hardly rate girls to that level. I'm 53 and she was just 20. The sexual tension was off the charts, we were having fun bantering/ teasing and we connected. The perfect trifecta. Now for the embarrassing part........we get down to it and I pulled away. Was most likely that "nice guy" poked me with his finger thinking "I'm 53 and she's 20." I was just practicing gaming her like I was 25 as my focus wasn't on nailing her in that moment but it was right there in front of me! Damn I kick myself!! I was kissing on her neck and whispering in her ear. I thought she was going to faint as I don't think any guy had done that to her before. Everything was there and Yeah, I blew it and got ghosted. I texted her back a week later some fun banter with a tease and didn't hear back from her and left it at that. I probably hurt her ego hard as I'm probably the only guy that shut her down.....which might have been good because this gal could get any guy with a snap of a finger. Most likely a challenge to her too. Maybe I should have tried again but didn't. I want to kill that nice guy. Oh well. it was real fun but probably the last time I have an experience like that again. My advice, don't focus so much on the game and forget to see what is happening as it's unfolding. If you are going to game, be ready to deliver in that moment. To be blunt, it was more exciting in that moment knowing I still had the skills watching her reaction.........oh, pass the Viagra. Yeah, could have played a part in all honesty.

[@antonkn3]

Sorry to say i never learn! I did this almost same mistake 3 times ! And i don't know how to get past it!? 2 times with the same girl . Lol i hade to fight for 2 years to get her back to that point. And i still failed ! The age difference wasn't that big though but still. Now iam 43 alit more confident. Now i have met a 23 year old and i feel like a fucking inexperienced teenage boy again the fuck is going on i have hade over 50 women so far ! I keep making mistakes with her. I want to be protective and educating and don't give here egnof space and losing and missing shit. I am afraid i well blow it again ! With her to.

[@10MinutestoRouletteFortune]

@@antonkn3 I hear ya man. I my thing was I looked at her as a beautiful gal, a 9 in my book, and I thought about all of the older woman that have been used and abused and are now total bitches thinking they are all that. In reflection the fact that I was going to play a role in destroying her soul with just another guy is what really shut my body down. I came from the heaed space of a "father figure" when young woman look for a leader. Age really doesn't matter unless they have a kink of which she did. They wouldn't be with you if they didn't think you had something to teach them. So many ladies don't like guys their own age because of the games. Had I have been mentally prepared for what was going to happen I'm sure everything was going to go smooth. She wouldn't have come to my house dressed like she did and took her shoes off as if to stay if she didn't want some play and she made it clear. Younger woman are with you for a reason. Call them a good girl and see how she responds. I guarantee it will be positive as so many young woman have Daddy issues. They are with you for the experience. Act like you don't give a fuck about any outcome just not a jerk and you are in. I know the game, play it well. In my case I just wasn't expecting what was happening at all and mentally I think it just shut me down as I didn't even know her. I know the frustration. I was RIGHT THERE. She was the one that put my hands on her boobs. Think of it this way. You aren't going to be marrying the girl as it would never work so there is no real reason to impress her..........she wouldn't be with you if she didn't want it or wasn't curious. Knowing that, everything else is easy. Treat her like you would treat any other woman. Good luck man.

[@antonkn3]

@@10MinutestoRouletteFortune Hi M8. thx again for the support. It helps. I did treat her like i do other women. I put demands on her m and using push pull. And trying to åkt like i don't give a shit. Now it's please take it easy with me ! You are a wisse man why do you think it won't work to merry her ? I want to give her baby's ...

[@zgus7798]

first i watch the comment. ok positive comment.. i am gonna see the whole video

[@BobbyRio]

hope you find helpful

[@NewLeaf88]

We need more content about Male Orbiters and how to stand out, something along those lines will suffice.

[@BobbyRio]

yea could be a good topic

[@djnee572]

Im trying to get my ex back and she is dating someone to allow herself to not give me a chance again.. I just need her to move on from this guy to see me

[@Lonstermash]

I've gone into and left most first dates having thought "I can get her. I deserve her. A lot of other women like me," and still usually gotten friend zoned. WTF??

[@BobbyRio]

but did you actually make a move? build the tension and attraction? go for the kiss?

[@Lonstermash]

@@BobbyRio in many cases, yes. And, to add to my frustration, the women always say the same thing, "You're so hot, so nice, and you really have your shit together, but there just wasn't any romantic connection!" One such woman even had a 5 minute makeout session with me on a second date in her elevator and then told me (without prompting), "I'd invite you up to my place for a drink, but my kids are awake."

[@David-xf2uh]

@@BobbyRio Thanks for that reply Bobby. I keep watching your videos. Nothing changes if nothing changes. Change from our comfort zone is scary as hell but that is what I have to do...at 63!

[@Wolf_2024]

Thanks A Lot For Your Awesome Videos Man, We Love You!♥️

[@BobbyRio]

Glad you like them!

[@JohnDoe-yr1xc]

How does a person that's always a loner with no friends pull these tactics looking like a weirdo at the bar or even restaurants alone?

[@adunknowng]

Be comfortable being by yourself and going up to girls, and join the groups of girls. You are rated in status by how you can talk to women not what you have, sure take care of your looks but conversation and humour is no 1 for women.

[@OffGridInvestor]

I think you FIRST need the boom Making Friends by Andrew Mathews. I was in a similar situation in the early 2000s and that book was HUGE in my turnaround from near hermit to great conversationalist in 6 momths.

[@RustyX2010]

Friends are overrated!

[@Khans0120]

If you are introverted, the first step is to forget all the dating advice most KZbin "dating experts" put out. That stuff they put out focuses on the extroverted personality type, it will not work for introverts. As an introvert just be yourself and learn to use the qualities that you as an introvert possess because if you leverage them just right you could wind up with a life long partner sooner than you think

[@lukasdreyer7592]

This dude sounds like Joe Pesci! haha awesome!

[@stefanross8129]

.... Superb video. Brilliant dissertations!

[@rmrockandcountry]

Great stuff!! What’s your guy friend’s full name so I can watch and subscribe to him too?

[@BobbyRio]

you can subscribe to him here: kzbin.info/door/8qjcp85PpEniennlu6Soew

[@someoneanonymous2740]

Thank youu very much

[@elunclesamprz5801]

A Guys you are hitting the nail right on the head you guys are fucking good thank you for this information, it makes lots of sense

[@durgapur_97]

14:34 16:55

[@thesword-sapdog322]

Don't forget the whole "Assume she is a Succubus" strategy thing, it'll save you plenty.

[@EL-yi6df]

For some reason Bobby reminds me Tony Roberts when young.

[@garylewis4955]

This is all kind of common sense. If you feel good, most of this should just come natural

[@rasgurumusik1315]

Love your videos

[@joplinboy]

Hey. Where are the other 2 mindsets. All good info but the title says 5 but there were only 3 mindsets?

[@BobbyRio]

sorry, the video was getting long so we cut it short, the second part of the video will be released with the additional mindsets soon

[@isiahstaley5300]

So how do you pull up a woman you want to get with

[@jamesmarchetti3286]

I'll watch but women have never chased me !!! We can become deep friends and the last three were definitely attractive to me and hugging each other allowed !!! But never dating or just one date!!! So basically with those 3 women friends it is just a no-woman thing !!! 😮😢 !!! Just separation, distance, and rejection which is apparently just a normal continued thing that they do !!! So definitely don't need or want them or any drama !!!

[@Mmyers1177]

How many people rewatched the clip @ ❤ 6:33 mark 😂

[@Therealone07]

This is a fucking great content!

[@adamjobs]

The Dynamic Duo but out of focus as always... can't you fix that? It is soooo easy

[@asarodriguez2899]

It's not out of focus. It's a green screen.

[@adamjobs]

@@asarodriguez2899 😮

[@davidosalsero2519]

Mate, maybe position the screen a bit nearer?

[@jamiewhitehead2064]

Hi sorry where is the link to register please ?

[@BobbyRio]

here you go: friendshefallsfor.com/friendsheloves/

[@wesdunbar4246]

Hey Bobby it Chirstmass should I get a friend something or not?

[@OffGridInvestor]

Nah screw them

[@assibagaipo3413]

Sir BOBBY' Can I share my problem to you, privately... thanx.

[@chuyen3743]

Why chase?

[@OffGridInvestor]

You don't understand the meaning

[@paulypipes1]

Is your real name Frankie Cola or Bobby? Lmao I read an article on Google by you and it was great. . It sounded just like everything from Corey Waynes book over 12 yrs ago.... Then I realized it was by frankie Cola. Then I youtubed him and its you?! 😂

[@BobbyRio]

no, Frankie Cola is someone who has studied my material in the past, and now has a website teaching it and referring people to my programs (and other people's programs too)

[@paulypipes1]

@@BobbyRio awesome

[@saintlauraintexplores]

How do you retract her back if you do broke that tension ???

[@OffGridInvestor]

Keep looking in her eyes. And put your hands on her shoulders or something that basically close touching

[@aceflix7895]

I’m from Nigeria and can’t get access to scrambler

[@jamainedingle5198]

How do you get out the friend zone

[@geralkay3012]

Stop being her friend😂

[@jamiegraham6525]

They already covered this.

[@kacatley9258]

Tough when you are already there.. if she says, “thanks buddy..!” When replying to a text, it’s all but over. 😔… nah, there’s always time to reverse it.. build sexual tension again by dating other women. Oh and what Bobby says here.. 🍀

[@OffGridInvestor]

I've been told it takes getting drunk around each other and looking at her too much and creating a few of those silent moments and you'll start kissing. The real trick is how you handle the next day. Probably just play it cool or disappear for a few days.

[@HdHd-hp6qz]

Disappear for a week at least

[@eliteactions]

Wow!!

[@AnthonyCarrier]

Oh me...I cry and blurt out shit like, "I love you!"...

[@tommyellisonjr6849]

Why "assign" them a number?..or yourself one either...treat them ALL the same...talk to all women the same and you won't put them on a pedestal...but don't be ashamed to look her up and down if she has put in the work and deserving of it...

[@OffGridInvestor]

You must be unlike every other guy who automatically gives a girl a looks rating out of 10 without even thinking about it.

[@duaneyoutbe]

Two guys who are invisible to women. This is where STRATEGY comes in.

[@Sexytaco71]

These guys literally have videos laughing at the guys in the comment section like you.

[@OffGridInvestor]

You get a girls attention best when you kidnap her. There's your strategy.

[@tchoclate1]

​@@OffGridInvestor 🤣🤣🤣

[@johntitorii6676]

Money

[@BobbyRio]

how much money do you think you need?

[@Sexytaco71]

Good luck. Go make tons of money and come back let me know how it goes.

[@OffGridInvestor]

@@Sexytaco71 yeah Ikr!!! Doesn't make a damn difference if you're loaded. Also when I dress like I'm worth millions, only the teenage girls look 🤣🤣

[@JOHNTOPG]

I was rated lvl 9 nice guy lol and I am not a nice guy at all

[@michaelanderson5975]

Why would you want a woman to chase you isn't that considered stalking plus if you're a busy man like myself who have a lot of important things to do including taking care of my body why would I want a woman chasing me I see this a lot on KZbin it's called stalking

[@plasmopix]

Then it's not for you

[@Sexytaco71]

This is what we call being gay.

[@alenorkayeolpenda2843]

will a Michael Jordan mindset turn her on or off?

[@BobbyRio]

confidence will turn her on

[@OffGridInvestor]

Michael Jackson mindset will make her think you're a pedo...

[@craigbuckley7603]

Mgtow movement for life I mean why would I take advice form a guy that been single or juat hookup with woman

[@jonasis22]

💯👌

[@davidosalsero2519]

MINDSET.... GET OUT OF THE FRIENDZONE.... VERBAL GAME.... videos. These are dynamite! I just quickly scribble this short remark now to remind me to greatly enhance it later. I'll just say now ACTUALLY S-T-U-D-Y THESE. STUDY! Not just un-thinkingly watch. David

[@codmobilemodmenu]

i don't think this Guys Have up to 5 girls in their Rotation. i laughed when i see Boby nuts his Head to every word the other dude says. y'all Go watch some Red pill advice.

[@tayebzied9868]

👍

[@TheShospitali]

Y'all full of some shit! At one time I thought I was goodlooking. They shot me down in a hurry. Everyone on here got a different take on women. I think every woman is a different book.

[@eyalgolan251]

Great reverse psycology

[@jpjp9111]

A really hot girl I liked, I assumed that she liked me. I had her call me her creepy uncle. Then I ridiculously acted creepy at times...without being bad creepy. We've kissed a few times.

[@BobbyRio]

nice!

[@Sexytaco71]

The reason a woman would feel creeped out is only because your body language is off. You weren't communicating raw desire through subcommunication and your intent wasn't genuine.

[@Plainsimple67]

😂😂😂🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️ poor guy you, putting up with that shiieehit!!

[@OffGridInvestor]

I would honestly make a joke of it. Start referring to yourself as Uncle Buck or something.

[@innovationgrill3989]

The content is ok. Your personal experiences, Bobby, sounds fake, like you are trying to hard to be the center of attraction in every single video. Fake alpha, for sure

[@richarddsouza4903]

two 🤡

[@TheWillvis]

Do you stutter that much on dates ba ba Bobby

[@BobbyRio]

does that make you feel superior? hope it boosted your self esteem for the day buddy.

[@plasmopix]

Buddy? Did you just put him in the friendzone?

[@TheWillvis]

Sry Bobby I don't even remember this comment. I must have been really drunk pist and broken enough to even have been watching your videos. I apologize.

[@Plainsimple67]

@@TheWillvis IT'S OK, DRUNK OR NOT, THERE'S ALWAYS ROOM FOR LEARNING ABD SOME WORDS OR COMMENTS SPARK THUNGS IN YOUR HEAD AND HELPS YOU WAKE THE HECK UP FROM WHATEVER FROZEN STAGE YOU ARE IN!😂😉👉