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@BernedictBokaba-qj9sh5 ай бұрын
Come on man she blocked me on social media. how's this SCRAMBLER gon WORK.?? Just saw her gettin inside someone's car My brains tells me it's another man's car It's over (hope it's not) coz I NEVER saw the driver's face) an THERE are 2 people who owns the same car model with the same color at work It's a man and famele But which woman who would beg another waman to take ride WITH her...?? coz it looked like that driver hooted on her convincing her to come get inside the car (or it was planned via phone calls or social media) an was letting her know which car waiting for her an off they go an been 2 days never saw her at work Obvious its a man Now it's been 4 months she blocked me on social ( don't know she blocked my phone number coz I never called her after I realized that she blocked me on social media) After all the things I've done for her she ended pulling away an ran This situation broke me deeply I've lost interest in getting other girls in my LIFE. Even WORSE I've lost interest in even having SEX haven't for long time No hooker or any other girl would seduce me coz I'm reeling from the pain of loosing her Even though I've chose to ignore ALSO giving her the coldness she gives me NOW Match her coldness with MORE arctic coldness But everytime I saw her at work it's gettin WORSE Gettin MORE depressed an secretly clinging on HER hoping she will change her mind My friend keeps on hooking me up with other girls but I immediately lost interest Now all I do is drinking beer an hoping I will find a purpose to improve my LIFE But now STILL stagnant Here this side EDUCATION system s*cks Hard to find a way to improve yourself as a man... An from the beginning she was the one doin all the chasing after she accused me of pushing her AWAY then the table turned an I was the one doin all the chasing ( with all the "nice guy syndrome" like u said) till she pulled the plug an ran AWAY I've been taken Ls after Ls my whole life since young age From school , sports , careerwise even betting or wanna call it gambling ( know this she doesn't know all of these things coz she doesn't really know me personally She all know my nice guy syndrome acts ONLY.. If she did I would have understood why her pulled AWAY) But after loosing her just proved me that I'm a"LOOSER" Can't be a LOOSER in all sector of life Must be somewhere I'm being celebrated that's why I'm taking another shot to improve my LIFE which is FX trading if it's all ends up FAILING like always I'm done . To HELL with this world To HELL with her To HELL with the man she thinks he BETTER than me See ya later Excuse my English grammar , English not my first language . I'm from south Africa
@OfficialSpiritualSuccess4 ай бұрын
The she's got you and you're not willing to walk away....If she's seen you already walk away from another woman in the same circumstance....she knows you mean business but are patient.
@zestydude874 жыл бұрын
When a girl wants you to give her space...give her so much space she'll think she's Neil Armstrong.
@silversurfer44414 жыл бұрын
That's pretty damn hilarious!
@manikakhatkar3244 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@lorenzoguice18354 жыл бұрын
You a funny guy 😂
@ArmedNDangerous4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@Real2k254 жыл бұрын
Facts
@davidthompson49342 жыл бұрын
I'm now 62 and have used 41 years of my time in 3 long term relationships. the first lasted 3 years. the second was an 18 year marriage. the third was a 20 year relationship. with all that experience the thing I have learned is this: NEVER make a woman so important in your life that your world gravitates around them. NEVER, EVER surrender your personal power to them.
@lirudachi70872 жыл бұрын
Hey , are you trying to attract or win back your ex , specific person ( SP ) , restore a broken relationship / marriage or banish a third party from your relationship💕💕💕💕
@davidthompson49342 жыл бұрын
@Eunice Erim Hi Eunice I hope all's well and good with you. I hope you don't mind my intrusion into your life, but I would like to give you some advice. With regards to your husband coming back to his marriage, be very cautious. Do not give him all your power but instead keep some back for yourself. He did not leave you for another woman, he left you because he was (and may be again) unhappy. If this were not the case, he would not have noticed another woman. You MUST learn to love and value yourself first above all others because in the final analysis, self is all self really has.
@LifeOfRiley1002 жыл бұрын
@@davidthompson4934 hi David, you should make some videos. I'd watch them.
@davidthompson49342 жыл бұрын
@@LifeOfRiley100 hi Rahil I hope all's well and good with you. With regards to my making video's, I've never thought about it and would not know where / how to start. On my journey I have experienced many things and amongst them, the wisdom that we are all here to have our own experiences not someone else's. The art of living which can only be learned through time, is not to become attached to those experiences but rather, to view them whilst having them as though you are just an observer of an event that is happening. And remember; NOTHING, NOTHING, NO - THING is what YOU think it is. Life is just an experience, nothing more - nothing less. Be well. Be happy. Kind regards DT
@johnkamau96852 жыл бұрын
Thanks man. As a young guy 27 yrs i feel this advice is the best to take
@fredseymour12245 жыл бұрын
When she "pulls away"....................... Buy a motorcycle and never look back.
@craigthomas34185 жыл бұрын
Lmao this is my plan too
@ark23805 жыл бұрын
Wtf 🤣♥️
@jonahvasquez62105 жыл бұрын
You won't have to look back. Cause some hot ass thick booty mama will be right behind that cruiser, holding on to you. Giving her the finger.....Bye bitch!
@florenciopablojarquinvasqu50365 жыл бұрын
Ya
@creex71185 жыл бұрын
😂 right! Time to celebrate for sure.
@thisissparta778210 ай бұрын
She did a 180 and walked away 3 years ago, haven’t heard from her since. These are blessings in disguise
@paulroustan36438 ай бұрын
Same happen to me, I didn’t chase and I’ve been with many younger better looking woman since, loving life, okay financially I took a hit, but finance can be rebuilt, time can’t be regained
@triquepersonalwork63694 жыл бұрын
Don’t chase women, be friends with them, flirt with the ones you like and then let them chase you. If they like you they will show obvious interest, and if they won’t then they won’t. This has ALWAYS worked for me
@czhilo39824 жыл бұрын
Blake Trickey good advice bro
@leeexploreeatenjoy47303 жыл бұрын
it works to me too👏👏😆
@UnseenSpirit3 жыл бұрын
Yep basically it's a filter. Why waste time on a person who doesn't care to that point?
@colbath0123 жыл бұрын
Yes if they like you. They will make it obvious
@afriserrrr28983 жыл бұрын
this never works, as real men we're supposed to make the first move and lead
@felix64able5 жыл бұрын
"Women are like shadows, when you persue they flee, when you walk away they follow"
@dfree14425 жыл бұрын
I never had that happen.
@damienholland81035 жыл бұрын
True except the following part lol.
@idcboutsubsjusthereforvids31725 жыл бұрын
Deep
@kurtbrigandi5 жыл бұрын
Uhhhh Have you ever walked with the sun to your back?
@Yawar19865 жыл бұрын
I did that and...well nothing has happened yet lol
@garryfike60294 жыл бұрын
Games games games. Life is such a game. Nothing hurts a man like a woman can.
@DannyBoy4434 жыл бұрын
It is, but I like to look at it like Dr Peterson. A game of games.
@pancakeplaz15634 жыл бұрын
So true. Love is a game you just can’t win
@AdrienneStarr4 жыл бұрын
Women respect alpha men with their priorities in place. Not broke cry babies.
@garryfike60294 жыл бұрын
@@AdrienneStarr 💖💖💖
@nyakwarObat4 жыл бұрын
@@cherish.o.m4453 and vice versa, you really ain't saying anything anyone doesn't know
@SJYT243 жыл бұрын
All these rules and games. This is why it's best to be single, though it may suck at times. Men, don't let a woman change you for the worst. If it's healthy, keep being you. Embrace yourselves no matter what she says. Take this. 👑
@ItsCamaro32 жыл бұрын
Fuck that. Lonely ass life
@naija_cruise7262 Жыл бұрын
LOVE IS WAR BRO!!
@bigneiltoo Жыл бұрын
No, it's best to know the rules and games and not be single.
@marguskiis7711 Жыл бұрын
Lonely man without a purpose living with mom. Nice
@Thebestfillms Жыл бұрын
I don't agree with this statement
@editwell95325 жыл бұрын
When a woman is pulling away it means she doesn't like you. Leave her alone. There I just saved you 18 minutes of your life
@GalacticStringCheese5 жыл бұрын
Excellent comment. What scares me about these videos are the people who watch and then latch on to these...."tips" I guess we could try calling them.
@stevenmalibu255 жыл бұрын
The problem is sure it could cause the person to become needy and trying to figure out but ultimately this isn’t love it just causes attachment and in time if it’s not right it’s all wasted and kinda gross if you keep playing with peoples heart
@robstrickenfeary5 жыл бұрын
Or kidnap her?... Why do people miss this out? It's fucking normal, it's man vs woman, man wins when he really wants to. (Just incase, omg chill people)
@patevans61545 жыл бұрын
Exactly! Does this guy not know woman at all?
@Agnes1355 жыл бұрын
The guy in the video doesn't even get girls who is he kidding lmao, he's a 5/10 at best acting as if he knows girls so well. OP is right, if I girl stops texting or loses interest it's because she doesn't like you enough. Or vice versa, I've stop texting girls for favourable girls. It's not rocket science folks
@novocat13584 жыл бұрын
If she's pulling away, be a gentleman and open the door for her, but don't forget to slam it behind her, she'll get the message.
@kostasplafountzis66023 жыл бұрын
WHEN SHE IS PULLING AWAY SHE IS FUCKING ANOTHER GUY,FORGET HER,YOU DO NOT WANT HER ANYMORE,SHE IS A LOSER NOT YOU...NEEDING SPACE TO THINK IS A MYTH,THEY JUST WANT VARIETY,THE'RE NEVER SATISFIED,ALWAYS LOOKING FOR A ''BETTER'' ONE TO FILL THE VOID SHE ALWAYS FEELS INSIDE
@shabushabu14533 жыл бұрын
@@kostasplafountzis6602 women feel empowered to do it because there are plenty of other simps waiting.
@kostasplafountzis66023 жыл бұрын
@@shabushabu1453 absolutely,women today they have the advantage of having toooo many options so they ''need'' noone to attach to.instagram and facebook have eliminated human relationships for good...
@hatsunememekuoisaneet3 жыл бұрын
if she’s pulling away you open the door for her and close the door and never open it again, unless she knocks. You do not control her dumbass. You don’t need to teach her a “lesson”. She left for a reason.
@confortjohn65523 жыл бұрын
I recommend you to Dr Joe his manifestations and spells are the best💞💞💞💞💕💕💕❤❤❤
@generalbarry4 жыл бұрын
When a girl pulls away, let her go and count your lucky stars she's gone.
@gukonni4 жыл бұрын
maybe this is hte attitude you have to have. it's too complicated otherwise
@SUCHY1983ify4 жыл бұрын
This is so true
@raghugrinus47793 жыл бұрын
True
@generalbarry3 жыл бұрын
@@gukonni When they start "pulling away", they're done with you. At that point, you have two choices; get rid of them, or spend the rest of your life living under their heel. There is no third option.
@lablunt61903 жыл бұрын
@@generalbarry Facts
@lavbusarac25473 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna be honest. You are describing immature people whose relationship is not gonna last more than a year. Let's be real here, if problems like this occur and she's constantly testing you, she's just never gonna be sure in your relationship
@TrusePkay8 ай бұрын
If I need to play games and not be sure or sincere of myself just because of a relationship, then it seems that it is just a waste of time. Move on with your life
@iamflashin5 ай бұрын
MAKES FKN SINCE BRUH
@Aggress1vegg4 ай бұрын
Sometimes they pull away because of childhood trauma - fearful avoidant for example. But you are right never sure of the relationship wears you down in the long run.
@shaikhjasem88465 жыл бұрын
Lol I walked away when she was pulling away, she came running harder but I ignored it I hate this drama of mind games, live is to short. Move on.
@thisisslim11473 жыл бұрын
real talk!!
@nykterion711 ай бұрын
Too*
@MichaelBabaoKuyaPotato10 ай бұрын
Sigma men be like 😎
@joeweider69394 ай бұрын
True as a man u have to be on point 100% handle shit test pull away test masculine test fuckin test wtf move on man that's freaking pointless
@morganlogman39485 жыл бұрын
When she pulls away let her go not a problem.
@morganlogman39485 жыл бұрын
Ranger totally correct
@sarvolfe64355 жыл бұрын
If she's into you she'll stay, if not, fuck it who cares, don't get invested in them it's not worth the angst.
@ikerjhonson96955 жыл бұрын
M organ Logman
@morganlogman39485 жыл бұрын
@@sarvolfe6435 agreed 100%
@Morph-on1vl5 жыл бұрын
Exactly right. When you let them go they come running back anyway.
@arealious255 жыл бұрын
The end of the movie is when we all Die. No one has time to play these mind games. This is the very reason why dating sucks today.
@jonahvasquez62105 жыл бұрын
Underated comment. Life is too fuckn short.
@lukata775 жыл бұрын
Not only does dating suck it also eats
@ezequielplascencia75735 жыл бұрын
I think this is one of the best comments man, I'm agreed with u
@jonahvasquez62105 жыл бұрын
@@lukata77 Your wallet
@kurtbrigandi5 жыл бұрын
it's me G You are literally a walking joke. Guys like you are what makes girls run to guys like me. Thank you.
@jay-se5zs Жыл бұрын
If she’s acting distant it’s probably because she’s become too comfortable in the relationship. Best thing to do is raise it and make it look like you’re not just going to stick around. That makes her feel less dominant and she will come back to you. If she doesn’t then she probs didn’t actually love you in the first place.
@vincevirtua5 жыл бұрын
If women pull away, then literally don’t bother. They found someone else or not interested in you. Facts, unfortunately.
@FigmentHF5 жыл бұрын
It’s not true at all in my experience. It depends what kind of “pull away”. You might have just been a bit too heavy handed and so becoming more aloof can make you desirable again. It works great if you just want to hit it a few more times before moving on
@karkeyzor5 жыл бұрын
Legit. I think this dude misread getting ghosted (apparently a lot). If a girl is actually into someone she's gonna like confessing feelings.
@nickbeggsaxl5 жыл бұрын
Not true
@フアン-f6e5 жыл бұрын
Vincecouk not true at all
@Trpmanne5 жыл бұрын
That’s fickle pussy! Don’t deal with that shit...
@DrDee015 жыл бұрын
When she pulls away, that is nature's way of reminding you where a man's priorities, focus and energy should be. Go ahead and build an empire, make more investments,... in short live your life...and then thank me later!
@ikemmanuel-audu3635 жыл бұрын
This is a red pill brother
@ushin10725 жыл бұрын
Forget what they are talking about brother you are 1000% right. They will either see you bossing up and come back, for the rest of the world will see you bossing up and you will have more options. Either way you're in a better position and you feel good. Great advice dou mur
@trw4war5 жыл бұрын
dou mur Facts!
@shainemaine12685 жыл бұрын
I dont wanna though. Id just be even more frustrated
5 жыл бұрын
Make more investments? LOL
@marloninquirer5 жыл бұрын
just walk away. if she really loves you she wont even think of pull away
@colubridlady5 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@traf94645 жыл бұрын
Right-O
@fallenfreak8285 жыл бұрын
They change like the wind
@misemusemusic5 жыл бұрын
True
@jeant103 жыл бұрын
Man of his words. Didn't apologize for misspelling apologies in a marketing video.
@OsahonUgiagbe-df4ex7 ай бұрын
😂
@ManifestInstantly5 ай бұрын
😂😂
@barrywilliams72025 жыл бұрын
I’ve never had any of these issues up until recently. Got involved with a girl and I have have just realised I’ve literally done everything on your list. Thanks for opening my eyes. Lesson learnt
@hrajabi72613 жыл бұрын
Same here bro
@characterandconviction92253 жыл бұрын
So how did it turn out?
@hrajabi72613 жыл бұрын
@@characterandconviction9225 I lost her :)
@skale7738 Жыл бұрын
@@hrajabi7261 I'm now scared that i can lost mine... idk what to do. But ok, I know that I can't do anything, I've done everything that I could. Including all the mistakes and all the right decisions, so now I can only wait, and this waiting kills me😢
@urielbp2756 Жыл бұрын
Same here hahaha
@herrklamm14544 жыл бұрын
Never apologise, especially if you can’t even spell the word.
@alltheworldsastage47853 жыл бұрын
😂👍🏾
@unmutedmusings64503 жыл бұрын
too funny! haha
@for-house-stark3 жыл бұрын
Bruh I just noticed 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@EPYes3 жыл бұрын
MVC (most valuable comment)!
@Devlins103 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@stephendiggines91225 жыл бұрын
So basically a woman will only go for a guy who isn't interested in her, and then start moaning further down the line when she is treated as unimportant. No wonder the failed relationship rate is so high.
@ryanandrews6005 жыл бұрын
No. That's not how all women are...
@trevorthornley88355 жыл бұрын
They like alpha males who have better things to do then be obsessed about some girl.
@robinyount74425 жыл бұрын
Ya this is not my girl at all... she loves when I tell her how I feel about her. I make songs for her all the time and she loves it
@trevorthornley88355 жыл бұрын
@@robinyount7442 is she pretty?
@stephendiggines91225 жыл бұрын
@@trevorthornley8835 same thing, different words 👍
@lucideification3 жыл бұрын
The powerful position in a negotiation is being able to walk away and mean it..i live by this..and you'll never make a mistake
@Bs-cl3qz7 ай бұрын
Corey wayne
@2mYgR15 күн бұрын
You must have read it ten to fifteen times 😇
@augustacorns4 жыл бұрын
Man or woman, the feelings of rejection are the same when someone you like (or love) pulls away. The bottom line is, if someone doesn't want you, they don't want you. There is NOTHING you can do.
@jonnygrossman78532 жыл бұрын
When women pull away, just run for the hills. Chase your own dreams and goals. Focus on improving yourself
@rodzillarox48822 жыл бұрын
So true . Reminds me of the Bonnie Raitt song “ i cant make you love me if you don’t “ that song is a reality check
@lloydkline15182 жыл бұрын
Other female fish in the water
@davidthompson49342 жыл бұрын
Well, there is something you can do and should do: Lick your wounds quickly and draw your emotional energy back to yourself.
@bonson9156 Жыл бұрын
I think we forget that there's almost 8 billion people in the world.
@DargorV5 жыл бұрын
If your girlfriend is pulling away then shes not girlfriend material, move on and find someone thats not just right for you but also mature enough to settle down
@leom88595 жыл бұрын
oh my god
@JACKOJACKO1215 жыл бұрын
Yeah bro
@scritoph33685 жыл бұрын
'not girlfriend material' aka unwilling to put up with your negging and pickup artist shit
@trulsrakvag4 жыл бұрын
Have any of you thought of the possibility that YOU are the issue and not her?
@scritoph33684 жыл бұрын
@@trulsrakvag impossible!
@bitcoin-now-and-beyond4 жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only one experiencing this until I came across this piece. I'll never do any of these again. Life is abundant; there's always someone for everyone.
@russellakm3993 жыл бұрын
😂Lesson learned the hard way ✌️
@devintaylor87023 жыл бұрын
Words of wisdom well said 😇👍
@chibuzonachi3022 жыл бұрын
@@russellakm399 yeah😀😀
@johnkamau96852 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭am currently going through a very toxic moment but i thanks God am overcoming. I have learned simple lesson,,,, never beg a woman. Never explain too much and never let a womn that you cant do your life things without her. 😭
@bitcoin-now-and-beyond2 жыл бұрын
@@johnkamau9685 This too shall pass and you'll find The One meant for you❤
@Anthony-fe4oj Жыл бұрын
Dude this is so crazy. Haven’t heard from her in over a week. I have NOT sent a desperate text or a check up text. My last text was responding to her, and she never responded to that. But I’ve been banging my head against the wall pre writing texts in my notes of allllllllll the things you’re saying not to do
@Anonymous-69z5 ай бұрын
Dude you gotta let her go , don't get attached to these modern day women .
@marc1speed5 жыл бұрын
Put yourself first. When a "girl pulls away", open the door and help her out!
@markd13964 жыл бұрын
Awesome comment 👍👍👍
@ambrosejews36544 жыл бұрын
Wow! That was good thinking,bro! I keep it in my mind.
@marc1speed4 жыл бұрын
@Rahimzai No mate. I mean if she's pulling away, I don't want her. Even if she changes her mind, I'm not...she's history.
@tonyg29164 жыл бұрын
@@marc1speed Been there, done that and they get sh#tty about it later. Both decisions are wrong. The only thing that counts is what gets you laid. The rest is BS.
@marc1speed4 жыл бұрын
@@tonyg2916 It's not wrong for me mate, each to their own. In truth, these days I avoid women entirely and just look after myself. I'm done with their shit. I don't need their drama and their entitlement mentality.
@outlaw27475 жыл бұрын
I found out that when I got more emotional with a woman, that's when she cared less, and that's when she had the power, and I lost. Ye who cares the most, loses.
@blablamoekd66265 жыл бұрын
Nostradante same
@patrickstewart99375 жыл бұрын
Only time u are allowed to be emotional with a woman is in the bedroom when she giving head
@kelvinkajuna66895 жыл бұрын
@@patrickstewart9937 I think you are right
@craiver005 жыл бұрын
That's right women wants someone who have his shit together while she can't even handle her own emotions and ego. Imagine buying a brand new iPhone X on apple store with 50 dollars, that's the mentality of women and it's simply hypergamy. It's just hard to take women seriously.
@leonotarianni77335 жыл бұрын
Yes
@TubeDeviant5 жыл бұрын
Ok, before seeing the list, I would say: 1. Being too nice 2. Being needy/desperate 3. Buying her things/"buying her love".. 4. No initiative/assertiveness 5. Being too arrogant in assuming her attraction for you
@JonJonJonJonJonJonJonJon5 жыл бұрын
5s better than 1 tho chaps.
@ZamWeazle5 жыл бұрын
Well some women love stuff being bought for them, being wooed, being pampered. So with regard to no 3 i'm not so sure!
@Mkhl4Sure5 ай бұрын
@@ZamWeazle My woman loves roses, even in the talking stages, she dropped hint rhat she loves it so i got it for her and our love for each other grew stronger, cause i remembered and i care and bought her favourite flower. In relationship you going to end up paying somehow, either dates, flowers and her losing interest
@ZamWeazle5 ай бұрын
@@Mkhl4Sure I agree. I think that list isn't 100% accurate. Having spent time looking into behavioural psychology and meeting and interacting with thousands of women around the world. You can't necessarily put out any definitive list that works.
@Andrew666323 жыл бұрын
The moment you start thinking about her while staring at the sunset, drinking a beer, driving, listening to an Elvis song and laying in bed E.T.C. Your fucked. Bobby has hit the nail on the head.
Let her go. There are other women who will be more appreciative of you.
@richbrake99105 жыл бұрын
True.
@BobbyRio5 жыл бұрын
there must always be a willingness to walk away on your part
@johngray29245 жыл бұрын
Don't chase her, replace her.
@jimm68105 жыл бұрын
@@johngray2924 long since done.
@alcaholik64355 жыл бұрын
All women are the same
@lesliefiadoyor48234 жыл бұрын
I've learnt that a man should only fight for something when that thing allows him to fight for it; anything that does not allow you to fight for it is not worth fighting over....period!
@liquidgold81203 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Thank you
@magicdinho1073 жыл бұрын
Perfectly said
@jimnicricket3693 жыл бұрын
Lost my truck and this concept applies
@tatianaalexandrova98683 жыл бұрын
You right, but what does “to fight” mean? Fight whom? The problem is that modern man ends up fighting with woman while not noticing the real enemy of relationships called Ego. Following these advices people choose their Ego that keeps them in their well-known cage of their own miss-conceptions about themselves.
@emmiejonck37763 жыл бұрын
You're a wise guy!
@timthompson41583 жыл бұрын
I stumbled across this video and since I am always trying to learn something new I thought I would watch. After listening to this I have one thought that really stands out. If a man is having to put this much effort into a relationship then it would serve him better to step away and have some serious self reflection. Work on yourself first. Just like you would practice before you played a game or competition etc. Once you have done that the confidence in yourself will come. You can only control how you act and behave and feel not how she does. So if you fix yourself first, build confidence in yourself first. Then put yourself out there. If you have done that and know what you are worth then the games and mind tricks aren't needed. They will either like the way you act and the things you do, like flowers or whatever or they won't. If you being confident and being yourself pushes them away then they weren't for you. Wish them well and move on. The right person will not require any tricks. Once you know your own worth and are willing to let them walk or willing to walk away yourself you won't need these types of videos.
@mazharrazvi414310 ай бұрын
Wow - I totally agree with you bro - do the best to get back your ex if you think she is worth - then after soo much efforts still she is in that mode - then wish her for future and take care of your future - but don't leave things in between without even thinking deeply
@emack43715 жыл бұрын
Nobody got time for games.....if she pulls away she is playing with her options....
@CashMasterStackzzS5 жыл бұрын
Tar heels 215 not really bro, you understand when you have no competition. You are dating her it wasn’t oficial. To be official could be a few months from now. You was knowing her. Most woman pull away at early stage. You go and do your things they come back when you do not expect it. Patients is the key, if you really wanna love that woman you don’t assume you let her go and sometimes they come back and you start again from zero. Most woman do that.
@stevebhikh15405 жыл бұрын
@Superman J bruh right on the money! They want you to ask em out or chill even when they have a boyfriend. When you meet a women she'll put out the same energy you put out towards her. Fuck these games bs
@nasdaqua4 жыл бұрын
If she's playing with options, she's surely a loser!
@alankakuru98215 жыл бұрын
5 Mistakes 1.Confessing your feelings (she’s suffocated) 2.Apologising/Explaining (never apologise or explain yourself, her attraction plummets) 3.Winning her over with a gift (the more pressure she feels from u the less attractive she’s gunna feel) 4.Matching her coldness (once a women knows she has you it’s over and you’ll never haver her) 5.The ultimatum (giving her a big box of pressure, similar to coldness. Display to a woman that you are willing to walk away)
@polpol10052 жыл бұрын
lmao silly logic
@joyli2632 Жыл бұрын
**"appologizing" I got stuck way back there 😂😂😂
@omellemmor4732 Жыл бұрын
@@joyli2632I was about to commit this epic blunder, after I confessed she became aloof, I tried to give her a gift but she insistently refuse to accept it, I was having second thoughts of approaching and apologizing to her over the incident but I decided not to because I discern I have nothing to apologize over a rather kind gesture
@kpec35 жыл бұрын
In the 90s, dating was about meeting someone in order to fall in love. Now it's a mindgame maze. So, is it worth my time and effort?
@traf94645 жыл бұрын
Ans: Nope.
@duggie885 жыл бұрын
Right! I’m listening to this like why we got to do all these games just to get someone to like you!
@JasMcKenzie5 жыл бұрын
Nope. This stuff is universal. It's always been this way. I only wish I knew this stuff back on the 80s and 90s.
@TonyMoze5 жыл бұрын
KPEC3arrival thank you!!! 👏🏽
@enriquesantos83985 жыл бұрын
KPEC3arrival we’re evolving ig
@bernardoaguilargt376311 ай бұрын
Thanks, man. I had the finger right on the "send" button. This is life saving.
@jaredmello3 жыл бұрын
When she pulls away, be so focused on your own life and purpose you hardly even notice.
@johnathanmiller43525 жыл бұрын
You will lose money chasing women, but never lose women chasing money
@2kimports5 жыл бұрын
Yeah you dont gain either..... unless you jeffrey epstein -_-
@johnathanmiller43525 жыл бұрын
No but i invented walking and breathing
@fabiocaetanofigueiredo13535 жыл бұрын
Brilliant
@HandsOfSweed5 жыл бұрын
That second part isn't even close to being true! Plenty of men have lost women by chasing money. However...I argue that the money they gained was of more value than the women they lost in 100% of cases, so your overall point remains true.
@martincreton5015 жыл бұрын
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@dannylorenze61885 жыл бұрын
We've all been there. When a woman pulls away, you've lost all control of the situation. If you want her back the only thing you can do is to let her go.
@brunocbart24215 жыл бұрын
So I have this girl who came to my place on a first date we talked had great chemistry ended up having sex. The she stops texting me my last text was "hey what's up is everything alright?" Because I sensed she was being further away. She didn't text me back after that, should I text her back or ignore her aswell, my text would be something like > okay I'll take this as "ur better off without me" < I appreciate it if u can help
@lah_red32575 жыл бұрын
Bruno CBart noooooo don’t text her bro ignore the living shit out her and she gonna come back
@CashMasterStackzzS5 жыл бұрын
Why you text after you sex? You should of waited to contact her. And should of been on a phone call after like 3 or 4 days. And only to hang out again. So you should say something funny that happened to you during those days or something interesting during the day you were with her. Then jump into meeting again. She said no you hang up, she gives any answer other than yes or ok you hang up never looks back at her.
@CashMasterStackzzS5 жыл бұрын
Bruno CBart stop assuming things on your head. You don’t know what she is upto. You score on the first night. You lasted 30 or more minutes. She will contact you again enjoy your life and go around to talk to other females. Don’t put your mind into her she will feel it. Remember everyone comes back at least once could be tomorrow or 20 years later. She is not your girlfriend it’s not official yet.
@vice2versa5 жыл бұрын
@@CashMasterStackzzS all these social rules, games and bullshit manipulation tactics we have to pull in order to attract and keep women attracted really make me dislike females and the female psychology.
@bbeeez2 жыл бұрын
When she pulls away she isn’t always testing you. Sometimes she’s just not sure about her feelings yet and that’s ok it’s not a red flag or means she’s playing hard to get!!! It means she’s taking time and space to assess how she’s feeling. There’s a multitude of things you can do or not do in order to inform her feelings. If you start declaring gushy feelings, apologizing about being awkward, text and call too many time etc it’s going to make he feel more unsure and possibly go for someone else. If you play it cool, do your own thing, mirror her, get back to friendly exchanges, make yourself extra busy and just be cool and sweet if she reaches out but just sorta mirror her and put it all on ice a bit. I’m a high value woman who takes her time. This guy knows what he’s taking about…
@Bs-cl3qz7 ай бұрын
But he said that matching her coldness is wrong
@thomasedwin14 жыл бұрын
I'm 56 years old, I have had many, many women and married two of them. I would like to think they were my girlfriend's and my wives but in reality, it was just my turn.
@5_nightfury4 жыл бұрын
I think maybe "I have had many women" is really not a decent way to phrase what was meant.
@thomasedwin14 жыл бұрын
@@5_nightfury How do you know exactly what I meant?
@thomasedwin14 жыл бұрын
@@5_nightfury Should I have said, I have been with many women,
@hededcdn4 жыл бұрын
Red Pill!!!
@hededcdn4 жыл бұрын
@@5_nightfury we don't care, feminist. What do you know??
@ImpaleHer5 жыл бұрын
Women are not attracted to a needy man. Let the women get emotional, not yourself is the biggest life lesson.
@travis66945 жыл бұрын
Yeah don’t beg and don’t chase. Simply say okay and go forward.
@lucidcactus40425 жыл бұрын
Men have emotions too, just don't wear it on your sleave.
@shainemaine12685 жыл бұрын
BUT I GET EMOTIONAL. Plus, without emotions, why even bother? I want emotions!!! Otherwise i can just go jack off and smoke a bowl. But i miss the physical contact and affection. But, if all of this is how a girls brain actually works, just start killing. Because thats fucking evil. Its twisted and shouldnt be accepted in society. I hate this stupid game, it makes me wanna fucking puke. I hate the fact that I never get what I want EVER!!!! But im supposed to spend my life pleasing females?? Fuck that. I just really wanna stop... everything. I do not consent to being a part of the power struggle.
@davidbuckley32785 жыл бұрын
Vlad G I do get that , but it’s weird
@CoCre8ors5 жыл бұрын
Vlad G 👌👌👌
@sultandaud73255 жыл бұрын
I think the main theme of this video is that when she starts to pull away, just remain normal and show your routine behavior. Show her as if nothing has happened due to her pulling away.
@beatsmithx10903 жыл бұрын
Damn. If only I knew this 6 years ago. I did all of these mistakes on this girl I was madly in love with and everything I did seemed to be pushing her away. I felt like I was going crazy. She got married to another man 4 years ago and it still hurts like hell
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@jacobguerrero52462 жыл бұрын
It’s crazy how much stress we put on ourselves for a female 😖
@beatsmithx10902 жыл бұрын
@@jacobguerrero5246 that was the last time though. I don't stress myself anymore. If she likes me, cool, if she doesn't, whatever. That's how I am now
@SKBottom5 жыл бұрын
Let me save you some time. When she starts this, just move on.
@peterchou51615 жыл бұрын
That's what I did. I moved on and she started to come back, lol. Did this to 2 bitches. Basically I told those bitches to take their shit somewhere else.
@temitopeerinkitola31195 жыл бұрын
Amen to that
@CCCC-tq8yo5 жыл бұрын
@@peterchou5161 whow
@juanvlog20225 жыл бұрын
Best advice ever
@CCCC-tq8yo5 жыл бұрын
@@juanvlog2022 ever 😂
@sawssenfid13985 жыл бұрын
Let me tell u this guys , find a woman who wouldn't walk away from u just because u're showing her ' too much ' attention .. but rather find one that would appreciat it and even give it to u in return ^^
@misemusemusic5 жыл бұрын
Thanks. Is this real by the way? 😭❤️
@ChibbyChangaPlayz5 жыл бұрын
@@misemusemusic Ofc it is, if ur playing this "ignore game" it wasnt even ment for u and her
@pablonoriega79235 жыл бұрын
Yeh good luck
@Helen-08515 жыл бұрын
You are so right! So was with my husband :)
@andrewphoto47505 жыл бұрын
Loulou Lachance like thats all we want from females
@timgreaves28425 жыл бұрын
ITS MY SISTERS, COUSINS BIRTHDAY So her cousin
@cypher_225 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@lisalap59755 жыл бұрын
Thought the same!
@damienjoseph75405 жыл бұрын
@@mrnickwan510 😂🙉
@7Lace775 жыл бұрын
@@mrnickwan510 He almost had us fooled, almost!
@jamesmackinnon77275 жыл бұрын
Tim Greaves Another good one is my refrigerator is being delivered that day 😄
@Bloggingpro13 жыл бұрын
I started chasing classmate for about month, we never had a good talk, after months of separation (winter break), i started ignoring her complete, now she is chasing me from last 2 years. 😄😄😄😆😆. This video is masterpiece
@christopherguity77124 жыл бұрын
Funny fact: I committed all of these mistakes
@CoolVishu4u4ever4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@wolfrus18094 жыл бұрын
And did you get her back
@nirbhaykumarsingh82164 жыл бұрын
@@CoolVishu4u4ever 1q8
@Iamfayezz4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Boniwix4 жыл бұрын
damn you fucked up but i did the first thing
@elvissong53715 жыл бұрын
Someone who truly cares wouldn’t even put you in that situation in the first place.
@roonbare27695 жыл бұрын
Exactly, she's weighing her "other options", that kinda chick ain't worth your time.
@tcchip5 жыл бұрын
A woman has options. Never make the mistake of thinking you're her only choice. If you want to be her first choice, you have to give her good reasons to feel that way, because someone else will do it if you won't. No woman owes you her feelings just because you like her and you think you're great to her. She has to make the decision to like you back, and pushing her to make that decision instead of letting her come to it herself will never end well for you.
@roonbare27695 жыл бұрын
@@tcchip , a girl (or anyone) that truly wants to be with you, will make it clear. Anyone who plays these kinds games and isn't "sure" about you is just shining you on. If you have to play games to get attention from someone, you don't want attention from that person... Trust me, they'll turn out to be a neurotic mess. The fish are always biting somewhere.
@tcchip5 жыл бұрын
@@roonbare2769 unless you have known this woman for months, if not years, nobody whom you just got to know wants to be with you right away, regardless of whether you're looking for a relationship or casual sex. Why? Because she doesn't know you, period. Just because you had fun chatting with her for a couple of hours doesn't mean she knows you. And it doesn't matter how great a guy you are, women live in fear of getting assaulted, harassed, raped and murdered every day, so it takes time to be able to convince a woman you're safe to be around. I used to think it was playing games too, and believe me, I hate this stuff too. When we meet a woman we like, and think 'I want to be with her', subconsciously we want to own her, and that's where all the problems start. If you're not willing to show a woman you're willing to spend time to get to know her, while respecting her as an individual with her own life and give her personal space, you won't get anywhere with her, because being pushy only convinces her you're dangerous, insecure and possessive. She already has her life routine, she's not going to change it just for you just because you had a couple of great dates together. The instant you start pushing her to start making space in her life for you before she's ready, you just shot yourself in the foot. The reality is, any attractive woman you meet online or off, is getting hit on by a ton of men, whether at work or outside. She's got her own life and isn't waiting for you to come into her life and sweep her off her feet. You have to be the exception if you want her to pay attention, unless you want to go for socially awkward women who don't have much or any experience with people, much less men. Trust me, these women will be worse. They'd be insecure, distrustful and will always have a chip on their shoulders. Again, unless you really know this woman for some time, you can NEVER assume that you're the first priority in her life. She has a job, her friends and family, and you are a stranger. Anyone who's intelligent and attractive will naturally attract other guys. If you're not willing to put yourself out there and instead just pray she's going to pick you because you're a great guy, you're just handing over your chances for another guy who's willing to do it.
@eugenemurray29405 жыл бұрын
Nothing wrong with been tested... She has to know that you can take it, so when your child is diagnosed with a horrible disease you won"t fall to bits. Likewise men can test women in a similar way 'You don't love causelessly' Ayn Rand...
@michaelblue61505 жыл бұрын
When she pulls away it means another man is on his way in..... Truth be told majority of women that pull away end up old alone, miserable and unhappy. A real women would communicate with respect
@iattacku27735 жыл бұрын
I agree . I respect a woman more for properly rejecting me than playing games
@daudimwidimakihanda53864 жыл бұрын
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@user-hf3uj1xd9p4 жыл бұрын
@@daudimwidimakihanda5386 your rich uncle died and you need a bank account to access the money? gtfoh
@j3480114 жыл бұрын
No it doesn’t!!! It means she’s not interested. It doesn’t mean there’s always another man. It means she doesn’t like you and she would rather be alone than with you. The truth hurts sometimes.
@michaelblue61504 жыл бұрын
Smh I speak from experience. I've slept with many women who have pulled away. Some come back. End of the day girls play games real women can communicate clearly without insecurity games like pulling away. Some women act like 23 yr old children n others keep it real. Sorry if u cant tell the difference
@IBMboy2 жыл бұрын
I kinda know what to do but it takes practice to be chill and not making those mistakes, but also i don't like just any girl, after one relationship i feel like I deserve someone special. Thanks for the advices, i wish all of you guys stay chill when meeting that special person
@anthonydrakoylarakos64274 жыл бұрын
wow im 46 years old and i learned more about relationships in one day then i did my entire life thank u I'm feeling much better
@nasdaqua4 жыл бұрын
Maybe in another 46 years, when you're 92 years, you'll finally master the science of CAGCU or UCGAC !!
@JuicyJam5 жыл бұрын
The first mistake... Staying with a girl who tests you.
@sunmal15995 жыл бұрын
Lmao he said it was unconscious, just like a lot of bad things in the human nature.
@woodyd44694 жыл бұрын
I take it you lead a very dull and boring life then, along with a dull, unfun sap of a partner. You want a partner to test you, and test eachother, it's the best way to motivate eachother, stay on top of things. Find out eachothers likes and dislikes, there for having more exsperince dealing with eachother.. all that's itself brings in fun and happiness. If the first thing to do after being tested Is to give up and walk, then there's no hope left is there.
@mray93054 жыл бұрын
WoodyD Bro take it from me when a women tests you usually she wants to see how strong you are. If you are smart you will know the difference between a test if she likes you or a test if she is disrespecting you. 8/10 it’s usually disrespecting you
@Munecoshh14 жыл бұрын
Jonathan Thom All women tests men. That’s a Fact.
@brendanbogotto89764 жыл бұрын
I learnt that the hard way
@chewyiscute10525 жыл бұрын
If a woman is pulling away then stop caring. trust me, she will come back to you and will be more attracted to you. based on experience brothers 😉
@bloneajax20145 жыл бұрын
Ya...
@reygarcia46345 жыл бұрын
Dam hopefully xnxx for the meanwhile
@denimlether58125 жыл бұрын
You have to keep not caring and watch yourself from the slightest slip up of showing you care. That's a headache. If she is more attracted to you because of this. So what? Who cares how this nut reacts? Just wait for her to end up on the news for jumping off a bridge.
@Lukasz.Kaa095 жыл бұрын
Yeah but what if both ways use the same mind games? Because this works on us the same way ...
@peterchou51615 жыл бұрын
This is sooo true from personal experience.
@AfricaTwin199811 ай бұрын
So sad we need relationship coaching in this crazy world we live in . All what you said was true , but if I get coaching wouldn't that make me a bit fake ?
@MrPrat7775 жыл бұрын
Bobby helping men to become better at the toughest things in life, you are making the men better versions. Great to follow
@BobbyRio5 жыл бұрын
thanks
@GabrielEddy4 жыл бұрын
When she pulls away, block her. Stop getting attached too easily.
@pussydestroyer692854 жыл бұрын
I rlly hope to God you're joking.
@legalfictionnaturalfact39694 жыл бұрын
if she's pulled away, she's likely already blocked you. you got rejected. there's really no way to poutily reject her at this point. :)
@pussydestroyer692854 жыл бұрын
Legal Fiction Natural Fact exactly. Thank u
@deec76874 жыл бұрын
Your statement have me 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
@茶日4 жыл бұрын
I can't help am a bit needy in a relationship and the worst thing is I fall in love way too easily but I can get over a girl very very quick the whole thing I find weird to be honest how my emotions vary from been needy and have attachment issues to dropping them in a drop of a hut just like that if she does not conform to my standard
@fishcanon81415 жыл бұрын
As a girl, you’re completely right. A guy shouldn’t do these things. But usually if I start pulling away, the root cause is I find the other person isn’t someone I can see a future with. So no matter what the guy does, the result won’t change. I think guys should realize that and just move on and find someone who is attracted to them without any doubt.
@lucidcactus40425 жыл бұрын
What if they don't want a future and just want to be friends w benefits
@SniffingOutPharisees-DanielP5 жыл бұрын
Fish Canon well what if you do move on but she contacts you a few days later saying she misses you
@martinsloan81705 жыл бұрын
You just put Bobby out of a job.
@stevewalther22935 жыл бұрын
When a girl pulls away, there is another dude. Always another dude...its uncanny how many spares women have...
@stevewalther22935 жыл бұрын
Move on..move on...lol...That's easy for wmonen to do when men are EVERYWHERE!!!
@kudah2heartless3892 жыл бұрын
I’m glad i ran into this video because I made all of these mistakes with the last female I messed with & it’s literally went downhill from those mistakes. I thank you
@TheKatalie5 жыл бұрын
"testing you" what am I? game to you? if woman gonna play mind game with you. just kick her out of your life and move on. you want real mature woman. not some ego mind gamer. relationship is serious. not some sort of game. men have life and they are not gonna waste their time with their bullshit. another reason why I am single and happy. I still feel sorry for good men who had to deal with this. I really hope you all have happy life.
@EthioThew5 жыл бұрын
Whatever.....
@aaronmehari41945 жыл бұрын
@@EthioThew I swear like nigga the vid title sold u put
@c.i.wrotethis2315 жыл бұрын
If she has to test, then she doesn't trust and what the HELL is she doing in the relationship? Carrying her insecurity and constantly jumping through hoops is not my idea of a happy union.
@hassanlawal55795 жыл бұрын
Gon, you are my kinda dude.👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
@TheKatalie5 жыл бұрын
Thank you brother ^^
@christopherguity77124 жыл бұрын
Conclusion: never be a good guy and don't try to win her. You're welcome and good afternoon
@blackjack10374 жыл бұрын
Ma hero
@EagleTV74 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@Zainygreenstone4 жыл бұрын
Wrong. Missed the whole point. Lol
@CryStealHeart4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Because its a fake game
@hatsunememekuoisaneet4 жыл бұрын
Are you perhaps have the dumb? Also r/niceguys and r/justneckbeardthings
@cloakofanonymity5 жыл бұрын
When a woman "pulls away" you should be HAPPY!!!!! You just saved a 💩💩💩💩load in divorce proceedings.
@calebbrooks24975 жыл бұрын
Tropic-Al and a shitload of money
@nardinit5 жыл бұрын
...becauss every relationship ends in marriage?
@jjjani5 жыл бұрын
Omg this comment is more helpful then the video
@devilisbackk5 жыл бұрын
Yes its time to party hard..... :)
@hernstv5 жыл бұрын
Lol
@copiusmaximus96962 жыл бұрын
is there any way to recover from making one of those mistakes?
@Plainsimple675 жыл бұрын
YOU KNOW WHAT, IF SHE GOES AWAY THEN THAT'S WHAT WAS MEANT TO BE. WOMEN ARE LIKE YOUR SHADOW, YOU CAN NEVER CATCH YOUR SHADOW, BUT WHEN YOU WALK AWAY THE SHADOW FOLLOWS YOU. 😉👉 TRUST ME ON THIS.
@BobbyRio5 жыл бұрын
yes when a woman pulls away its largely more about what not to do then what to do. Displaying a willingness to walk away is crucial
@Plainsimple675 жыл бұрын
@@BobbyRio THAT SHADOW CONCEPT WAS THOUGHT TO ME BY DAD WHEN I FIRST STARTED DATING, IT'S INSANE HOW WELL IT WORKS, BUT AS YOU ALSO MENTIONED, I NEVER TREATED THEM LIKE SHIT AND LEFT A VERY SPECIAL MEMORY OF ME WITH THEM. THAT IS EXACTLY WHY THEY ALWAYS COME BACK, THE OTHER SECRET IS WOMEN ALWAYS REMEMBER A FUN AND FUNNY GUY THAT MAKES THEM LAUGH AND TAKES THEM AWAY FROM EVERYTHING, IT TOUCHES THEM IN A SPECIAL WAY, A SENSE OF HUMOR GOES A LONG WAY AS WELL.
@vnguyen100x5 жыл бұрын
This is awesome! Thanks for sharing!
@choawoa61195 жыл бұрын
Sam G. 😹😂🤣🤷🏽♂️block they make a new numba hahap
@Plainsimple675 жыл бұрын
@@choawoa6119 YOUR MESSAGE IS IN NOT CLEAR, I THINK YOU NEED TO FIGURE OUT HOW TO SEND OR TYPE MESSAGES. 😉
@HamzaKhan-zo5vg4 жыл бұрын
If she pulls away Leave her on her own And move on you are more worthful then her
@dandythevandal73204 жыл бұрын
Worthful then her
@HamzaKhan-zo5vg4 жыл бұрын
@@dandythevandal7320 yap
@paulbrande25884 жыл бұрын
I'm with Hamza Khan and a few other men. The exception being if you know you came on too strong. Stay busy in your life and purpose. She might call after awhile and don't chase her, slow it down. Most women will find us more attractive.
@augustinekola94024 жыл бұрын
Exactly true
@Fran_B.3 жыл бұрын
*Worthwhile
@brahbeh84835 жыл бұрын
When a girl pulls away find a women that chases you....their the ones that actually want to be with you.
@miovicdina77063 жыл бұрын
As a girl who's been popular most of my life, I can tell you all these are not "mistakes". These are clearly signs someone actually cares for you. And it's how well behaved people behave. They apologize, they own their mistake, they own their feelings and are not afraid to show them. I'm married to the guy who did all these. Ok, the "gift" got me mad, I saw it as him trying to shortcut to obtaining forgiveness without having to question himself for his rude behavior. I still wore that scarf, it was winter and it looked nice. But he still had to go through a long difficult conversation about his mistakes.😁Seriously, please, continue being the respectful, well-intentioned, guy-in-love that you are. And if she keeps running away, THAT'S the unfortunate sign that she was never the one from the start. She only liked you halfway, and could only get aroused when she felt you were angry with her, done with her, couldn't care less, etc. Even if you did win her over by refraining from acting the way it comes natural to you because your mom brought you up well, she would have gotten colder again the moment you started caring again. Ask yourself do you seriously want to be with someone you constantly have to force yourself to be unnaturally cold for?? Your mom deserves a kinder daughter in law, your kids deserve a nicer mom.
@byroncosta55753 жыл бұрын
Love this Sister… Very well spoken… Thank you for the reassurance that what I feel is right, is right, in a REAL woman’s eyes and heart. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@miovicdina77063 жыл бұрын
@@byroncosta5575 ❤️
@darkforcekiller2 жыл бұрын
Amen. While i do think that some "red-pill" advice is very useful (like focusing on your own life, going to the gym, being more out-going etc.), most of it can cause more harm than good. In a world already impoverished of love and affection, it is more important than ever to be authentic with your own feelings. The world desperately needs more emotionally sensitive people. I know, being emotionally vulnerable (especially as a man) is often painted as a fatal weakness, but i think in fact its one of the biggest strengths a human-being can have. It is the trait that allows you to build a genuine connection with romantic interests. Do not surpress your feelings. Whether it is being hurt, being in-love or being confused. Surpressing your feelings only leads to you building a shell out of anxiety and frustration. This shell makes it more difficult to feel good about yourself, which in turn makes it more difficult to connect with other people. Do not let the game change you, try to change the game. Stay respectful and well-intentioned, even if it means to make yourself vulnerable and to potentially get hurt. My most memorable moments were all made with women whom most of you guys would've nexted long ago.
@miovicdina77062 жыл бұрын
@@darkforcekiller Yes, yes, YES! You've got it all right. I agree with everything you said. You sound so mature, emotionally balanced, and you're well spoken. In my book, you're great husband material. You seem... cooperative. Willing to listen to the Other, with the capital O, be it your lady or your buddy, putting aside your ego, tolerant, understanding. Those are features that make every couple, work environment, family, work out in the long run. Right? These "red pill", "black pill" videos only make all human interactions worse by making everyone paranoid about the kind intentions of the Other. Just make sure that you are going for a kind, sweet, tolerant woman. A lot of great guys don't give a chance to decent girls and would rather chase unattainable, emotionally unavailable, Narcissistic Personality, selfish, cold persons. And when it turns out it's Amber Heard, then you end up watching videos of men equally angry and disappointed in women, and the vicious circle is perpetuated. Men, train yourselves to go after girls like Camille Vasquez, who understand you and defend your honor, not after those who will destroy it.
@darkforcekiller2 жыл бұрын
@@miovicdina7706 Your husband must be a really lucky man =)
@TomDeVito4 жыл бұрын
This is so true! Listen up gentlemen when a woman pulls away YOU NEED TO GIVE HER THE SPACE! I promise you when you do that she will come back
@FrankJGZ4 жыл бұрын
Why would any man of value and self respect take her back?
@cahpper44744 жыл бұрын
@@FrankJGZ exactly
@JoshylovesTrance4 жыл бұрын
Or simply block her and reset your mind
@astonchip4 жыл бұрын
as a woman myself I pulled away for a reason why would I come back?
@cahpper44744 жыл бұрын
@@astonchip exactly
@gx0dbxy8175 жыл бұрын
Basically just don’t be needy. Be loyal but have your options open. Don’t allow one person to define your entire happiness when you are single. If you play it cool and calm, you’ll have less issues. I was so insecure when I was a bit younger, now I just don’t care. If she curves me I curve her. I’m not claiming anything, but girls hit me up a hell of a lot more than I hit them up for that reason. I literally have girls down south who regularly ask me when I’m coming to see them. That’s not looks, I’m an average looker and my profile pic on here is pretty old and a bit catfish. Be cool, seem like you have options and a girl will want to put her territory all over you. Trust me BrOoOooo
@ineedpowers5151 Жыл бұрын
Well I agree, if a girl knew I have other options her attraction towards me is bound to rise
@patrickj.78875 жыл бұрын
If a women gets upset because your concerned about her feelings, dump her before you get too involved, its a control thing.
@batmansuperman2905 жыл бұрын
yup girls like that have mad mental issues and they like 2 things... 1) to be treated like shit and 2) points fingers and blame others for treating her accorsingly... too much drama, fk that sht!
@uraldamasis68875 жыл бұрын
Or maybe you should stop being so obsessed with a woman's precious "feelings" because that fixation scares all women away, even the good ones.
@angusbroome6722 жыл бұрын
thanks my guy..made all these mistakes and now she ghosting i've learnt my lessons
@chrisbana58744 жыл бұрын
I'm tired of mind games I'm going to ask her for a break up I don't care anymore
@harchu-thefoodiequeen50143 жыл бұрын
😅😅😅man dats d spirit
@janeulo43883 жыл бұрын
Not a good idea. Use the principle of silence. She should never read your mind. Just go cold on her
@davidthompson4934 Жыл бұрын
Can I ask; if you are tired of the mind games and you want to end the relationship such as it is in order to heal and recover yourself then why, are you going to ask her for a break - up? Believe me Chris YOU shall find it so much more empowering as you go forward with your life experience if, YOU accept the responsibility for making the decision and then taking the action of finishing the relationship with her yourself. Live in your power to create the life YOU want.
@JordonDev4 жыл бұрын
Girl: Pulls away from guy, calls guy creepy Guy: Pulls away from girl, flagged as discrimination and rude to disrespect women Total Society Score = 1/10
@jasonsavio534 жыл бұрын
Facts
@thewewguy8t884 жыл бұрын
yeah its weird how when a girl wants to end things with a guy its like whatever. but when the guy wants to end things with a girl he is considered an asshole.
@augustinekola94024 жыл бұрын
Exactly true
@kostasplafountzis66023 жыл бұрын
SO RIGHT YOU ARE,ITS A WOMANS WORLD,EVERYTHING GOES AROUND HER P....Y
@mikeyG115564 жыл бұрын
I can't believe I started watching this video. Be yourself. Be true to your feelings. Woman who play games are a red flag. Genuine and sincere behavior is normal. And trust me, there are a ton of normal women out there who don't play immature games like becoming distant when they love you.
@TumusiimeAmon Жыл бұрын
This video changed my life, its the best video i have ever wacthed on U tube that changed my life.
@turkikhalid75555 жыл бұрын
When she pulls a way, it means there’s another guy,so don’t law ur self and let her go. End of the story
@Redjit20045 жыл бұрын
True shit
@Sujoydey-pn5nu5 жыл бұрын
Skipping Stones but that’s what makes a fuckboi & then women turn into feminist & shave there head buzzcut & turn fat & grow arm pit hair..
@gildardobarrios31155 жыл бұрын
Turki Khalid yes, let the fucking bitch go.
@Njpro5 жыл бұрын
Yep. I saw this so I deleted her number and carried on with life, months later she contacts me back and we’ve been on a date since. Have a spine and don’t put ANY woman on a pedestal.
@arishsheikh30005 жыл бұрын
No u idiot ..i will get her still .. Letting her go means u r a loser giving up ...
@Neo-su4po4 жыл бұрын
There's nothing wrong in confessing your feelings. If she's in well and good..if she pulls away cut the cord forever, delete her contact number, block her from all social media accounts and work on yourself. Don't jump into another relationship. Embrace that pain and be an upgraded version. Our life span is too small to play these stupid game's. Be in your mission, Connect with people around you who has similar vision or hobbies and please instead of hating woman understand their nature.. it will set you free. Love from India.
@christopherehiaghie53719 ай бұрын
If done at the inappropriate moment, it can worsen everything
@theunknowncopycat46344 жыл бұрын
Getting beat up we can handle but getting rejected we get depressed
@TimpBizkit8 ай бұрын
To be honest I would hate getting beaten up much more.
@stereodan71802 жыл бұрын
All of these mistakes are the things that crossed on my mind and I'm about to do it upon my crush, I'm so glad that I found your video and now I know it wouldn't work as what I think it would. Thanks man! Subcribed.
@luckyman095 жыл бұрын
when she pulls away go get another woman as there is millions out there life to short to run after someone
@leophillips15315 жыл бұрын
Maurice Hanna innit well said
@フアン-f6e5 жыл бұрын
Maurice Hanna are you saying shes lesbian?
@luckyman095 жыл бұрын
@@フアン-f6e I would never say that
@ericbourdon73775 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@jimreid63704 жыл бұрын
Does she have a sister😅
@woscolchoneros40545 жыл бұрын
Everything apart from ur handwriting is gold
@BobbyRio5 жыл бұрын
yea my handwriting is terrible
@arishsheikh30005 жыл бұрын
@@BobbyRio I have done all of these mistakes
@BobbyRio5 жыл бұрын
@@arishsheikh3000 yep so have I over the years
@johnmiller-jf3ez5 жыл бұрын
Lol
@jonathansaibot51395 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooo
@TheMostttttttttt5 жыл бұрын
Do not under any circumstances "appologzie6"
@thesweetsour22825 жыл бұрын
HAHAHAHA
@mazhui39005 жыл бұрын
Lol
@hempsey5 жыл бұрын
Spelling is not one of his strong points 😂
@petermead82295 жыл бұрын
Never ever appollligese
@nickmassy-collier26915 жыл бұрын
You win the internet today!
@davidsisson20265 ай бұрын
Bobby is absolutely right. I've made these mistakes. Listen up. However I'm glad now that she pulled away. In hindsight she was definitely not the one. But perhaps she is the one. Bobby is spot on.
@rocks51075 жыл бұрын
Great video, when I feel my girl is pulling away, I pull away too. I hangout with my friends especially the opposite sex and post it on fb. I have no time on chasing women or playing games, because I'm too busy of improving myself. Never ever chase women.
@ronron40515 жыл бұрын
... and post it on fb .... sounds like you’re playing games
@rocks51075 жыл бұрын
@@ronron4051 no bro, if you think it is playing games, then you are in the wrong mindset.
@AnnoyingMoose4 жыл бұрын
Wow, the timing of this is amazing! I made each of these 5 mistakes in this order with a woman who then officially broke up with me in Sep. 2019. I am watching this today because I have been dating another woman over the past 6 months and she has just started to pull away. Thanks to your very relevant advice I think that this time I have a much better chance of succeeding with her.
@damntae65404 жыл бұрын
I wish you good luck 😎💕
@tjcassidy26944 жыл бұрын
Or, you could just next her right away. You'll put yourself ahead of the curve for once in your life.
@characterandconviction92253 жыл бұрын
How did it turn out?
@nbafan3021 Жыл бұрын
@@characterandconviction9225 seems like she drowned him in a lake.
@darrenyoung31024 жыл бұрын
When a woman starts pulling away, you start pulling the plug.
@augustinekola94024 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@wedontgetalong2 жыл бұрын
If only I found this video sooner.. I’ve made 3 out of 5 mistakes Bobby, is it over for me? I really love this person.. This was the first time she pulled away, without any reason, I was so confused, emotions took over 😞 @Bobby Rio
@pmdal2 жыл бұрын
No..fight
@uwembessay83552 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back , after being separated for 3months All thanks to mr frank whom held me to get back my ex again I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 4days
@uwembessay83552 жыл бұрын
*✛12052499095👈♻️♻️≧﹏≦亲爱的你好
@user-wv1yt5 жыл бұрын
How about saying "She's just not that into me anymore..." and move on...
@randomvideosproductions66165 жыл бұрын
I already did that,lol.yeah I missed her alot after that but,I knew the biggest mistake I would do is to text her again and thank god I didn't.
@richardsandwell22855 жыл бұрын
Best way.
@user-wv1yt5 жыл бұрын
@UCyYlBkbnZ6JoSKJwZV84QgA Well just because they don't like someone does not make them a hoe. Also you do realize that for a woman to be a hoe a man is also needed... the one who buys the services. A hoe is at least making money. What the fuck is the idiotic male customer doing? Spending money on a hoe and then crying about it?
@Gwobus5 жыл бұрын
thx 1138 this comment section is pretty pathetic, it’s made up of 13 year olds who “know the world” already and incels
@batmansuperman2905 жыл бұрын
that means shes bangin someone else, so just walk away from her... worst mistake in my opinion is being friends with them at that point
@englishforbengalimediumstu75295 жыл бұрын
1) Confess your emotions 2) Apologize 3) Gift 4) Coldness 5) Ultimatum
@k.wright36643 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@Starshine11812 жыл бұрын
Yea what is this don’t chase bullshit. Maybe we pull away cause he’s not putting in the work and we want them to chase
@user-cx2ho9hg2r2 жыл бұрын
We pull away because YOU pulled away!! And because instead of owning your shit and start showing up again for us, u keep watching this stupid video and think that instead of chasing us u should stop chasing lol -> this video is complete bs and will make u lose us for good
@clayblob22 жыл бұрын
Whats coldness?
@elmerfudd63054 жыл бұрын
Too many mind games,, when you really like each other you know it..
@tonko44043 жыл бұрын
I noticed I had to watch this video to remember how to handle it each time it happens (With the same woman). After, she gets back... Thanks, Bobby.
@aaronmilk84393 жыл бұрын
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back
@aaronmilk84393 жыл бұрын
Wh'tsapp him
@aaronmilk84393 жыл бұрын
+2349055574944
@rockinrickyricardo424 жыл бұрын
When she pulls away, order another drink, raise your glass and say "cheers" to that.
@MrC200014 жыл бұрын
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@ArmedNDangerous4 жыл бұрын
Rockin' Ricky Ricardo amen
@soul._proprietor4 жыл бұрын
I did that😂😂
@benardkonani95304 жыл бұрын
This comment has made my day
@benardkonani95304 жыл бұрын
This comment has made my day
@rideronthestorm41735 жыл бұрын
As far as I'm concerned if she pulls away and I've tried to talk n communicate a few times, then obviously she's playing games or not worth all the hassle.
@rideronthestorm41735 жыл бұрын
@shaun king yeah yeah lol. 😉. Had ONE. How many you got? 🤔🤔😋
@leeirwin48515 жыл бұрын
Bro talk to me......
@odoggow81575 жыл бұрын
none of them are worth any hassle
@Sparrowo515 жыл бұрын
@shaun king They can't pull away when they don't talk to you in the first place :)
@Sparrowo515 жыл бұрын
@shaun king Good.
@therecklessengineer57965 жыл бұрын
Can you imagine what a conniving shyster of a partner this guy would be.
@eyesareopen17305 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@Dwightstjohn-fo8ki5 жыл бұрын
the moment he used "girl" in his title?? and the only worse word he could have used is "chick".
@rogerwilco67255 жыл бұрын
@@Dwightstjohn-fo8ki Did your wife's boyfriend make you say that?
@paulminshall87935 жыл бұрын
Mistake #1: She found out he made this video and tried to escape.