5 Mistakes Men Make When a Girl "Pulls Away" | Do NOT do THIS if She's Losing Interest

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Bobby Rio

Bobby Rio

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When a woman starts pulling away and you start chasing after her, she's gone, right? She's not going to even look back. You're just pushing her further away.
So in this video Bobby Rio explains the major mistakes to avoid when a woman starts "pulling away".
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This new video by Bobby Rio is all about why women "pull away" and how you should handle it. And also just as importantly, the 5 mistakes men make when a woman pulls away. Because let's face it, it's becoming increasingly frustrating for guys. It's happening.
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@zestydude87
@zestydude87 4 жыл бұрын
When a girl wants you to give her space...give her so much space she'll think she's Neil Armstrong.
@silversurfer4441
@silversurfer4441 4 жыл бұрын
That's pretty damn hilarious!
@manikakhatkar324
@manikakhatkar324 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@lorenzoguice1835
@lorenzoguice1835 4 жыл бұрын
You a funny guy 😂
@ArmedNDangerous
@ArmedNDangerous 4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@Real2k25
@Real2k25 4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@fredseymour1224
@fredseymour1224 4 жыл бұрын
When she "pulls away"....................... Buy a motorcycle and never look back.
@craigthomas3418
@craigthomas3418 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao this is my plan too
@ark2380
@ark2380 4 жыл бұрын
Wtf 🤣♥️
@jonahvasquez6210
@jonahvasquez6210 4 жыл бұрын
You won't have to look back. Cause some hot ass thick booty mama will be right behind that cruiser, holding on to you. Giving her the finger.....Bye bitch!
@florenciopablojarquinvasqu5036
@florenciopablojarquinvasqu5036 4 жыл бұрын
Ya
@creex7118
@creex7118 4 жыл бұрын
😂 right! Time to celebrate for sure.
@davidthompson4934
@davidthompson4934 Жыл бұрын
I'm now 62 and have used 41 years of my time in 3 long term relationships. the first lasted 3 years. the second was an 18 year marriage. the third was a 20 year relationship. with all that experience the thing I have learned is this: NEVER make a woman so important in your life that your world gravitates around them. NEVER, EVER surrender your personal power to them.
@lirudachi7087
@lirudachi7087 Жыл бұрын
Hey , are you trying to attract or win back your ex , specific person ( SP ) , restore a broken relationship / marriage or banish a third party from your relationship💕💕💕💕
@davidthompson4934
@davidthompson4934 Жыл бұрын
@Eunice Erim Hi Eunice I hope all's well and good with you. I hope you don't mind my intrusion into your life, but I would like to give you some advice. With regards to your husband coming back to his marriage, be very cautious. Do not give him all your power but instead keep some back for yourself. He did not leave you for another woman, he left you because he was (and may be again) unhappy. If this were not the case, he would not have noticed another woman. You MUST learn to love and value yourself first above all others because in the final analysis, self is all self really has.
@LifeOfRiley100
@LifeOfRiley100 Жыл бұрын
@@davidthompson4934 hi David, you should make some videos. I'd watch them.
@davidthompson4934
@davidthompson4934 Жыл бұрын
@@LifeOfRiley100 hi Rahil I hope all's well and good with you. With regards to my making video's, I've never thought about it and would not know where / how to start. On my journey I have experienced many things and amongst them, the wisdom that we are all here to have our own experiences not someone else's. The art of living which can only be learned through time, is not to become attached to those experiences but rather, to view them whilst having them as though you are just an observer of an event that is happening. And remember; NOTHING, NOTHING, NO - THING is what YOU think it is. Life is just an experience, nothing more - nothing less. Be well. Be happy. Kind regards DT
@johnkamau9685
@johnkamau9685 Жыл бұрын
Thanks man. As a young guy 27 yrs i feel this advice is the best to take
@herrklamm1454
@herrklamm1454 3 жыл бұрын
Never apologise, especially if you can’t even spell the word.
@alltheworldsastage4785
@alltheworldsastage4785 3 жыл бұрын
😂👍🏾
@unmutedmusings6450
@unmutedmusings6450 3 жыл бұрын
too funny! haha
@for-house-stark
@for-house-stark 3 жыл бұрын
Bruh I just noticed 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@EPYes
@EPYes 3 жыл бұрын
MVC (most valuable comment)!
@Devlins10
@Devlins10 3 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@editwell9532
@editwell9532 4 жыл бұрын
When a woman is pulling away it means she doesn't like you. Leave her alone. There I just saved you 18 minutes of your life
@GalacticStringCheese
@GalacticStringCheese 4 жыл бұрын
Excellent comment. What scares me about these videos are the people who watch and then latch on to these...."tips" I guess we could try calling them.
@stevenmalibu25
@stevenmalibu25 4 жыл бұрын
The problem is sure it could cause the person to become needy and trying to figure out but ultimately this isn’t love it just causes attachment and in time if it’s not right it’s all wasted and kinda gross if you keep playing with peoples heart
@robstrickenfeary
@robstrickenfeary 4 жыл бұрын
Or kidnap her?... Why do people miss this out? It's fucking normal, it's man vs woman, man wins when he really wants to. (Just incase, omg chill people)
@patevans6154
@patevans6154 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly! Does this guy not know woman at all?
@Agnes135
@Agnes135 4 жыл бұрын
The guy in the video doesn't even get girls who is he kidding lmao, he's a 5/10 at best acting as if he knows girls so well. OP is right, if I girl stops texting or loses interest it's because she doesn't like you enough. Or vice versa, I've stop texting girls for favourable girls. It's not rocket science folks
@felix64able
@felix64able 4 жыл бұрын
"Women are like shadows, when you persue they flee, when you walk away they follow"
@dfree1442
@dfree1442 4 жыл бұрын
I never had that happen.
@damienholland8103
@damienholland8103 4 жыл бұрын
True except the following part lol.
@idcboutsubsjusthereforvids3172
@idcboutsubsjusthereforvids3172 4 жыл бұрын
Deep
@kurtbrigandi
@kurtbrigandi 4 жыл бұрын
Uhhhh Have you ever walked with the sun to your back?
@Yawar1986
@Yawar1986 4 жыл бұрын
I did that and...well nothing has happened yet lol
@thisissparta7782
@thisissparta7782 2 ай бұрын
She did a 180 and walked away 3 years ago, haven’t heard from her since. These are blessings in disguise
@paulroustan3643
@paulroustan3643 25 күн бұрын
Same happen to me, I didn’t chase and I’ve been with many younger better looking woman since, loving life, okay financially I took a hit, but finance can be rebuilt, time can’t be regained
@shamarjones7576
@shamarjones7576 2 жыл бұрын
All these rules and games. This is why it's best to be single, though it may suck at times. Men, don't let a woman change you for the worst. If it's healthy, keep being you. Embrace yourselves no matter what she says. Take this. 👑
@iammainstar
@iammainstar Жыл бұрын
Fuck that. Lonely ass life
@naija_cruise7262
@naija_cruise7262 Жыл бұрын
LOVE IS WAR BRO!!
@bigneiltoo
@bigneiltoo 10 ай бұрын
No, it's best to know the rules and games and not be single.
@marguskiis7711
@marguskiis7711 8 ай бұрын
Lonely man without a purpose living with mom. Nice
@Thebestfillms
@Thebestfillms 7 ай бұрын
I don't agree with this statement
@novocat1358
@novocat1358 3 жыл бұрын
If she's pulling away, be a gentleman and open the door for her, but don't forget to slam it behind her, she'll get the message.
@kostasplafountzis6602
@kostasplafountzis6602 3 жыл бұрын
WHEN SHE IS PULLING AWAY SHE IS FUCKING ANOTHER GUY,FORGET HER,YOU DO NOT WANT HER ANYMORE,SHE IS A LOSER NOT YOU...NEEDING SPACE TO THINK IS A MYTH,THEY JUST WANT VARIETY,THE'RE NEVER SATISFIED,ALWAYS LOOKING FOR A ''BETTER'' ONE TO FILL THE VOID SHE ALWAYS FEELS INSIDE
@shabushabu1453
@shabushabu1453 3 жыл бұрын
@@kostasplafountzis6602 women feel empowered to do it because there are plenty of other simps waiting.
@kostasplafountzis6602
@kostasplafountzis6602 3 жыл бұрын
@@shabushabu1453 absolutely,women today they have the advantage of having toooo many options so they ''need'' noone to attach to.instagram and facebook have eliminated human relationships for good...
@hatsunememekuoisaneet
@hatsunememekuoisaneet 3 жыл бұрын
if she’s pulling away you open the door for her and close the door and never open it again, unless she knocks. You do not control her dumbass. You don’t need to teach her a “lesson”. She left for a reason.
@confortjohn6552
@confortjohn6552 3 жыл бұрын
I recommend you to Dr Joe his manifestations and spells are the best💞💞💞💞💕💕💕❤❤❤
@triquepersonalwork6369
@triquepersonalwork6369 4 жыл бұрын
Don’t chase women, be friends with them, flirt with the ones you like and then let them chase you. If they like you they will show obvious interest, and if they won’t then they won’t. This has ALWAYS worked for me
@czhilo3982
@czhilo3982 4 жыл бұрын
Blake Trickey good advice bro
@leeexploreeatenjoy4730
@leeexploreeatenjoy4730 3 жыл бұрын
it works to me too👏👏😆
@UnseenSpirit
@UnseenSpirit 3 жыл бұрын
Yep basically it's a filter. Why waste time on a person who doesn't care to that point?
@colbath012
@colbath012 2 жыл бұрын
Yes if they like you. They will make it obvious
@afriserrrr2898
@afriserrrr2898 2 жыл бұрын
this never works, as real men we're supposed to make the first move and lead
@bitcoin-now-and-beyond
@bitcoin-now-and-beyond 3 жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only one experiencing this until I came across this piece. I'll never do any of these again. Life is abundant; there's always someone for everyone.
@russellakm399
@russellakm399 2 жыл бұрын
😂Lesson learned the hard way ✌️
@devintaylor8702
@devintaylor8702 2 жыл бұрын
Words of wisdom well said 😇👍
@chibuzonachi302
@chibuzonachi302 2 жыл бұрын
@@russellakm399 yeah😀😀
@johnkamau9685
@johnkamau9685 Жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭am currently going through a very toxic moment but i thanks God am overcoming. I have learned simple lesson,,,, never beg a woman. Never explain too much and never let a womn that you cant do your life things without her. 😭
@bitcoin-now-and-beyond
@bitcoin-now-and-beyond Жыл бұрын
@@johnkamau9685 This too shall pass and you'll find The One meant for you❤
@jeant10
@jeant10 2 жыл бұрын
Man of his words. Didn't apologize for misspelling apologies in a marketing video.
@garryfike6029
@garryfike6029 4 жыл бұрын
Games games games. Life is such a game. Nothing hurts a man like a woman can.
@DannyBoy443
@DannyBoy443 4 жыл бұрын
It is, but I like to look at it like Dr Peterson. A game of games.
@pancakeplaz1563
@pancakeplaz1563 4 жыл бұрын
So true. Love is a game you just can’t win
@AdrienneStarr
@AdrienneStarr 4 жыл бұрын
Women respect alpha men with their priorities in place. Not broke cry babies.
@garryfike6029
@garryfike6029 4 жыл бұрын
@@AdrienneStarr 💖💖💖
@nyakwarObat
@nyakwarObat 4 жыл бұрын
@@cherish.o.m4453 and vice versa, you really ain't saying anything anyone doesn't know
@shaikhjasem8846
@shaikhjasem8846 4 жыл бұрын
Lol I walked away when she was pulling away, she came running harder but I ignored it I hate this drama of mind games, live is to short. Move on.
@thisisslim1147
@thisisslim1147 3 жыл бұрын
real talk!!
@nykterion7
@nykterion7 3 ай бұрын
Too*
@MichaelBabaoKuyaPotato
@MichaelBabaoKuyaPotato 2 ай бұрын
Sigma men be like 😎
@lavbusarac2547
@lavbusarac2547 3 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna be honest. You are describing immature people whose relationship is not gonna last more than a year. Let's be real here, if problems like this occur and she's constantly testing you, she's just never gonna be sure in your relationship
@TrusePkay
@TrusePkay 12 күн бұрын
If I need to play games and not be sure or sincere of myself just because of a relationship, then it seems that it is just a waste of time. Move on with your life
@jaredmello
@jaredmello 3 жыл бұрын
When she pulls away, be so focused on your own life and purpose you hardly even notice.
@morganlogman3948
@morganlogman3948 4 жыл бұрын
When she pulls away let her go not a problem.
@morganlogman3948
@morganlogman3948 4 жыл бұрын
Ranger totally correct
@sarvolfe6435
@sarvolfe6435 4 жыл бұрын
If she's into you she'll stay, if not, fuck it who cares, don't get invested in them it's not worth the angst.
@ikerjhonson9695
@ikerjhonson9695 4 жыл бұрын
M organ Logman
@morganlogman3948
@morganlogman3948 4 жыл бұрын
@@sarvolfe6435 agreed 100%
@Morph-on1vl
@Morph-on1vl 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly right. When you let them go they come running back anyway.
@vincevirtua
@vincevirtua 4 жыл бұрын
If women pull away, then literally don’t bother. They found someone else or not interested in you. Facts, unfortunately.
@FigmentHF
@FigmentHF 4 жыл бұрын
It’s not true at all in my experience. It depends what kind of “pull away”. You might have just been a bit too heavy handed and so becoming more aloof can make you desirable again. It works great if you just want to hit it a few more times before moving on
@karkeyzor
@karkeyzor 4 жыл бұрын
Legit. I think this dude misread getting ghosted (apparently a lot). If a girl is actually into someone she's gonna like confessing feelings.
@nickbeggsaxl
@nickbeggsaxl 4 жыл бұрын
Not true
@user-od8vx2ei9g
@user-od8vx2ei9g 4 жыл бұрын
Vincecouk not true at all
@Trpmanne
@Trpmanne 4 жыл бұрын
That’s fickle pussy! Don’t deal with that shit...
@lucideification
@lucideification 2 жыл бұрын
The powerful position in a negotiation is being able to walk away and mean it..i live by this..and you'll never make a mistake
@theunknowncopycat4634
@theunknowncopycat4634 3 жыл бұрын
Getting beat up we can handle but getting rejected we get depressed
@TimpBizkit
@TimpBizkit 9 күн бұрын
To be honest I would hate getting beaten up much more.
@marloninquirer
@marloninquirer 4 жыл бұрын
just walk away. if she really loves you she wont even think of pull away
@colubridlady
@colubridlady 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@traf9464
@traf9464 4 жыл бұрын
Right-O
@fallenfreak828
@fallenfreak828 4 жыл бұрын
They change like the wind
@misemusemusic
@misemusemusic 4 жыл бұрын
True
@generalbarry
@generalbarry 4 жыл бұрын
When a girl pulls away, let her go and count your lucky stars she's gone.
@gukonni
@gukonni 4 жыл бұрын
maybe this is hte attitude you have to have. it's too complicated otherwise
@SUCHY1983ify
@SUCHY1983ify 4 жыл бұрын
This is so true
@raghugrinus4779
@raghugrinus4779 3 жыл бұрын
True
@generalbarry
@generalbarry 3 жыл бұрын
​@@gukonni When they start "pulling away", they're done with you. At that point, you have two choices; get rid of them, or spend the rest of your life living under their heel. There is no third option.
@lablunt6190
@lablunt6190 2 жыл бұрын
@@generalbarry Facts
@Andrew66632
@Andrew66632 2 жыл бұрын
The moment you start thinking about her while staring at the sunset, drinking a beer, driving, listening to an Elvis song and laying in bed E.T.C. Your fucked. Bobby has hit the nail on the head.
@bbeeez
@bbeeez Жыл бұрын
When she pulls away she isn’t always testing you. Sometimes she’s just not sure about her feelings yet and that’s ok it’s not a red flag or means she’s playing hard to get!!! It means she’s taking time and space to assess how she’s feeling. There’s a multitude of things you can do or not do in order to inform her feelings. If you start declaring gushy feelings, apologizing about being awkward, text and call too many time etc it’s going to make he feel more unsure and possibly go for someone else. If you play it cool, do your own thing, mirror her, get back to friendly exchanges, make yourself extra busy and just be cool and sweet if she reaches out but just sorta mirror her and put it all on ice a bit. I’m a high value woman who takes her time. This guy knows what he’s taking about…
@jackburns6403
@jackburns6403 4 жыл бұрын
5 mistakes: 1) Confess 2) Appologzie6 3) bift 4) Col&μess 5) UHялtUM
@Jurassicparkatmospheres
@Jurassicparkatmospheres 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@Ahrceon
@Ahrceon 4 жыл бұрын
I'm shaking crying rn
@lisamc2716
@lisamc2716 4 жыл бұрын
Spot on
@jamesjamieson7945
@jamesjamieson7945 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@fckgooogle1000x
@fckgooogle1000x 4 жыл бұрын
друг
@augustacorns
@augustacorns 4 жыл бұрын
Man or woman, the feelings of rejection are the same when someone you like (or love) pulls away. The bottom line is, if someone doesn't want you, they don't want you. There is NOTHING you can do.
@jonnygrossman7853
@jonnygrossman7853 2 жыл бұрын
When women pull away, just run for the hills. Chase your own dreams and goals. Focus on improving yourself
@rodzillarox4882
@rodzillarox4882 Жыл бұрын
So true . Reminds me of the Bonnie Raitt song “ i cant make you love me if you don’t “ that song is a reality check
@lloydkline1518
@lloydkline1518 Жыл бұрын
Other female fish in the water
@davidthompson4934
@davidthompson4934 Жыл бұрын
Well, there is something you can do and should do: Lick your wounds quickly and draw your emotional energy back to yourself.
@bonson9156
@bonson9156 9 ай бұрын
I think we forget that there's almost 8 billion people in the world.
@Neo-su4po
@Neo-su4po 3 жыл бұрын
There's nothing wrong in confessing your feelings. If she's in well and good..if she pulls away cut the cord forever, delete her contact number, block her from all social media accounts and work on yourself. Don't jump into another relationship. Embrace that pain and be an upgraded version. Our life span is too small to play these stupid game's. Be in your mission, Connect with people around you who has similar vision or hobbies and please instead of hating woman understand their nature.. it will set you free. Love from India.
@christopherehiaghie5371
@christopherehiaghie5371 Ай бұрын
If done at the inappropriate moment, it can worsen everything
@jay-se5zs
@jay-se5zs Жыл бұрын
If she’s acting distant it’s probably because she’s become too comfortable in the relationship. Best thing to do is raise it and make it look like you’re not just going to stick around. That makes her feel less dominant and she will come back to you. If she doesn’t then she probs didn’t actually love you in the first place.
@arealious25
@arealious25 4 жыл бұрын
The end of the movie is when we all Die. No one has time to play these mind games. This is the very reason why dating sucks today.
@jonahvasquez6210
@jonahvasquez6210 4 жыл бұрын
Underated comment. Life is too fuckn short.
@lukata77
@lukata77 4 жыл бұрын
Not only does dating suck it also eats
@ezequielplascencia7573
@ezequielplascencia7573 4 жыл бұрын
I think this is one of the best comments man, I'm agreed with u
@jonahvasquez6210
@jonahvasquez6210 4 жыл бұрын
@@lukata77 Your wallet
@kurtbrigandi
@kurtbrigandi 4 жыл бұрын
it's me G You are literally a walking joke. Guys like you are what makes girls run to guys like me. Thank you.
@DrDee01
@DrDee01 4 жыл бұрын
When she pulls away, that is nature's way of reminding you where a man's priorities, focus and energy should be. Go ahead and build an empire, make more investments,... in short live your life...and then thank me later!
@ikemmanuel-audu363
@ikemmanuel-audu363 4 жыл бұрын
This is a red pill brother
@ushin1072
@ushin1072 4 жыл бұрын
Forget what they are talking about brother you are 1000% right. They will either see you bossing up and come back, for the rest of the world will see you bossing up and you will have more options. Either way you're in a better position and you feel good. Great advice dou mur
@trw4war
@trw4war 4 жыл бұрын
dou mur Facts!
@shainemaine1268
@shainemaine1268 4 жыл бұрын
I dont wanna though. Id just be even more frustrated
4 жыл бұрын
Make more investments? LOL
@miovicdina7706
@miovicdina7706 2 жыл бұрын
As a girl who's been popular most of my life, I can tell you all these are not "mistakes". These are clearly signs someone actually cares for you. And it's how well behaved people behave. They apologize, they own their mistake, they own their feelings and are not afraid to show them. I'm married to the guy who did all these. Ok, the "gift" got me mad, I saw it as him trying to shortcut to obtaining forgiveness without having to question himself for his rude behavior. I still wore that scarf, it was winter and it looked nice. But he still had to go through a long difficult conversation about his mistakes.😁Seriously, please, continue being the respectful, well-intentioned, guy-in-love that you are. And if she keeps running away, THAT'S the unfortunate sign that she was never the one from the start. She only liked you halfway, and could only get aroused when she felt you were angry with her, done with her, couldn't care less, etc. Even if you did win her over by refraining from acting the way it comes natural to you because your mom brought you up well, she would have gotten colder again the moment you started caring again. Ask yourself do you seriously want to be with someone you constantly have to force yourself to be unnaturally cold for?? Your mom deserves a kinder daughter in law, your kids deserve a nicer mom.
@byroncosta5575
@byroncosta5575 2 жыл бұрын
Love this Sister… Very well spoken… Thank you for the reassurance that what I feel is right, is right, in a REAL woman’s eyes and heart. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@miovicdina7706
@miovicdina7706 2 жыл бұрын
@@byroncosta5575 ❤️
@darkforcekiller
@darkforcekiller Жыл бұрын
Amen. While i do think that some "red-pill" advice is very useful (like focusing on your own life, going to the gym, being more out-going etc.), most of it can cause more harm than good. In a world already impoverished of love and affection, it is more important than ever to be authentic with your own feelings. The world desperately needs more emotionally sensitive people. I know, being emotionally vulnerable (especially as a man) is often painted as a fatal weakness, but i think in fact its one of the biggest strengths a human-being can have. It is the trait that allows you to build a genuine connection with romantic interests. Do not surpress your feelings. Whether it is being hurt, being in-love or being confused. Surpressing your feelings only leads to you building a shell out of anxiety and frustration. This shell makes it more difficult to feel good about yourself, which in turn makes it more difficult to connect with other people. Do not let the game change you, try to change the game. Stay respectful and well-intentioned, even if it means to make yourself vulnerable and to potentially get hurt. My most memorable moments were all made with women whom most of you guys would've nexted long ago.
@miovicdina7706
@miovicdina7706 Жыл бұрын
@@darkforcekiller Yes, yes, YES! You've got it all right. I agree with everything you said. You sound so mature, emotionally balanced, and you're well spoken. In my book, you're great husband material. You seem... cooperative. Willing to listen to the Other, with the capital O, be it your lady or your buddy, putting aside your ego, tolerant, understanding. Those are features that make every couple, work environment, family, work out in the long run. Right? These "red pill", "black pill" videos only make all human interactions worse by making everyone paranoid about the kind intentions of the Other. Just make sure that you are going for a kind, sweet, tolerant woman. A lot of great guys don't give a chance to decent girls and would rather chase unattainable, emotionally unavailable, Narcissistic Personality, selfish, cold persons. And when it turns out it's Amber Heard, then you end up watching videos of men equally angry and disappointed in women, and the vicious circle is perpetuated. Men, train yourselves to go after girls like Camille Vasquez, who understand you and defend your honor, not after those who will destroy it.
@darkforcekiller
@darkforcekiller Жыл бұрын
@@miovicdina7706 Your husband must be a really lucky man =)
@meangrizzgreen
@meangrizzgreen 3 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend did this to me. I broke up with her.
@walaalofficial8867
@walaalofficial8867 3 жыл бұрын
same applies
@stephendiggines9122
@stephendiggines9122 4 жыл бұрын
So basically a woman will only go for a guy who isn't interested in her, and then start moaning further down the line when she is treated as unimportant. No wonder the failed relationship rate is so high.
@ryanandrews600
@ryanandrews600 4 жыл бұрын
No. That's not how all women are...
@trevorthornley8835
@trevorthornley8835 4 жыл бұрын
They like alpha males who have better things to do then be obsessed about some girl.
@robinyount7442
@robinyount7442 4 жыл бұрын
Ya this is not my girl at all... she loves when I tell her how I feel about her. I make songs for her all the time and she loves it
@trevorthornley8835
@trevorthornley8835 4 жыл бұрын
@@robinyount7442 is she pretty?
@stephendiggines9122
@stephendiggines9122 4 жыл бұрын
@@trevorthornley8835 same thing, different words 👍
@alankakuru9821
@alankakuru9821 4 жыл бұрын
5 Mistakes 1.Confessing your feelings (she’s suffocated) 2.Apologising/Explaining (never apologise or explain yourself, her attraction plummets) 3.Winning her over with a gift (the more pressure she feels from u the less attractive she’s gunna feel) 4.Matching her coldness (once a women knows she has you it’s over and you’ll never haver her) 5.The ultimatum (giving her a big box of pressure, similar to coldness. Display to a woman that you are willing to walk away)
@polpol1005
@polpol1005 Жыл бұрын
lmao silly logic
@joyli2632
@joyli2632 Жыл бұрын
**"appologizing" I got stuck way back there 😂😂😂
@omellemmor4732
@omellemmor4732 8 ай бұрын
​​@@joyli2632I was about to commit this epic blunder, after I confessed she became aloof, I tried to give her a gift but she insistently refuse to accept it, I was having second thoughts of approaching and apologizing to her over the incident but I decided not to because I discern I have nothing to apologize over a rather kind gesture
@Imt8888_
@Imt8888_ 3 жыл бұрын
Girls like those boys who have 1)Self Attitude 2)Self Respect 3)Not dependent on anyone 4)Having his own goal
@markhilditch3467
@markhilditch3467 2 жыл бұрын
What does self attitude mean?
@timthompson4158
@timthompson4158 2 жыл бұрын
I stumbled across this video and since I am always trying to learn something new I thought I would watch. After listening to this I have one thought that really stands out. If a man is having to put this much effort into a relationship then it would serve him better to step away and have some serious self reflection. Work on yourself first. Just like you would practice before you played a game or competition etc. Once you have done that the confidence in yourself will come. You can only control how you act and behave and feel not how she does. So if you fix yourself first, build confidence in yourself first. Then put yourself out there. If you have done that and know what you are worth then the games and mind tricks aren't needed. They will either like the way you act and the things you do, like flowers or whatever or they won't. If you being confident and being yourself pushes them away then they weren't for you. Wish them well and move on. The right person will not require any tricks. Once you know your own worth and are willing to let them walk or willing to walk away yourself you won't need these types of videos.
@mazharrazvi4143
@mazharrazvi4143 2 ай бұрын
Wow - I totally agree with you bro - do the best to get back your ex if you think she is worth - then after soo much efforts still she is in that mode - then wish her for future and take care of your future - but don't leave things in between without even thinking deeply
@DargorV
@DargorV 4 жыл бұрын
If your girlfriend is pulling away then shes not girlfriend material, move on and find someone thats not just right for you but also mature enough to settle down
@leom8859
@leom8859 4 жыл бұрын
oh my god
@JACKOJACKO121
@JACKOJACKO121 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah bro
@scritoph3368
@scritoph3368 4 жыл бұрын
'not girlfriend material' aka unwilling to put up with your negging and pickup artist shit
@trulsrakvag
@trulsrakvag 4 жыл бұрын
Have any of you thought of the possibility that YOU are the issue and not her?
@scritoph3368
@scritoph3368 4 жыл бұрын
@@trulsrakvag impossible!
@marc1speed
@marc1speed 4 жыл бұрын
Put yourself first. When a "girl pulls away", open the door and help her out!
@markd1396
@markd1396 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome comment 👍👍👍
@ambrosejews3654
@ambrosejews3654 4 жыл бұрын
Wow! That was good thinking,bro! I keep it in my mind.
@marc1speed
@marc1speed 4 жыл бұрын
@Rahimzai No mate. I mean if she's pulling away, I don't want her. Even if she changes her mind, I'm not...she's history.
@tonyg2916
@tonyg2916 4 жыл бұрын
@@marc1speed Been there, done that and they get sh#tty about it later. Both decisions are wrong. The only thing that counts is what gets you laid. The rest is BS.
@marc1speed
@marc1speed 4 жыл бұрын
@@tonyg2916 It's not wrong for me mate, each to their own. In truth, these days I avoid women entirely and just look after myself. I'm done with their shit. I don't need their drama and their entitlement mentality.
@ryryg.3246
@ryryg.3246 3 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend of 4 years (we have a long distance relationship) has changed a bit and is really confusing only because she has really bad family issues and that’s why she’s changing..She’s been very busy lately with it, has been paying more attention to some video game for hours on end, she takes at least 3-4 hours- sometimes less or more to respond- yet she’s also responding lesser and spending time with me a little less than what she use to back then. The most logical thing I try to do is give her space if needed, listen when needed, show her love and affection (of course- I take it very slow like baby steps instead of fast because that may make her turn off/want to back off a bit more), and more- yet when I do try and give her space she would get all mad or sad because at the same time she doesn’t want me to leave..Like I deeply love and care for her, I worry so badly that this may affect our relationship yet at the same time it never stopped us before yet I understand her situation and what she is going through well enough that I try to avoid doing all of the things you said, mostly apologizing and confessing- I’m a very emotional and apologetic person, I am very deeply in love with this woman (and she knows it) it’s just sometimes- she wouldn’t want love, affection, or anything and then the next thing I know she’ll be all over me, apologizing, and being very close to me..I never understood why she does that, nor she doesn’t understand why she even acts the way she does..It hurts sometimes when she does act as if she’s not herself, then again I still give her time..
@bernardoaguilargt3763
@bernardoaguilargt3763 4 ай бұрын
Thanks, man. I had the finger right on the "send" button. This is life saving.
@TubeDeviant
@TubeDeviant 4 жыл бұрын
Ok, before seeing the list, I would say: 1. Being too nice 2. Being needy/desperate 3. Buying her things/"buying her love".. 4. No initiative/assertiveness 5. Being too arrogant in assuming her attraction for you
@JonJonJonJonJonJonJonJon
@JonJonJonJonJonJonJonJon 4 жыл бұрын
5s better than 1 tho chaps.
@ZamWeazle
@ZamWeazle 4 жыл бұрын
Well some women love stuff being bought for them, being wooed, being pampered. So with regard to no 3 i'm not so sure!
@johnathanmiller4352
@johnathanmiller4352 4 жыл бұрын
You will lose money chasing women, but never lose women chasing money
@2kimports
@2kimports 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah you dont gain either..... unless you jeffrey epstein -_-
@johnathanmiller4352
@johnathanmiller4352 4 жыл бұрын
No but i invented walking and breathing
@fabiocaetanofigueiredo1353
@fabiocaetanofigueiredo1353 4 жыл бұрын
Brilliant
@HandsOfSweed
@HandsOfSweed 4 жыл бұрын
That second part isn't even close to being true! Plenty of men have lost women by chasing money. However...I argue that the money they gained was of more value than the women they lost in 100% of cases, so your overall point remains true.
@martincreton501
@martincreton501 4 жыл бұрын
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@beatsmithx1090
@beatsmithx1090 3 жыл бұрын
Damn. If only I knew this 6 years ago. I did all of these mistakes on this girl I was madly in love with and everything I did seemed to be pushing her away. I felt like I was going crazy. She got married to another man 4 years ago and it still hurts like hell
@elenadyatlova5204
@elenadyatlova5204 3 жыл бұрын
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@elenadyatlova5204
@elenadyatlova5204 3 жыл бұрын
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@elenadyatlova5204 3 жыл бұрын
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@jacobguerrero5246
@jacobguerrero5246 2 жыл бұрын
It’s crazy how much stress we put on ourselves for a female 😖
@beatsmithx1090
@beatsmithx1090 2 жыл бұрын
@@jacobguerrero5246 that was the last time though. I don't stress myself anymore. If she likes me, cool, if she doesn't, whatever. That's how I am now
@bigern5407
@bigern5407 2 жыл бұрын
I was on the second mistake of apologizing hahah. Was almost ready to send a gift. 😂🤦‍♂️
@outlaw2747
@outlaw2747 4 жыл бұрын
I found out that when I got more emotional with a woman, that's when she cared less, and that's when she had the power, and I lost. Ye who cares the most, loses.
@blablamoekd6626
@blablamoekd6626 4 жыл бұрын
Nostradante same
@patrickstewart9937
@patrickstewart9937 4 жыл бұрын
Only time u are allowed to be emotional with a woman is in the bedroom when she giving head
@kelvinkajuna6689
@kelvinkajuna6689 4 жыл бұрын
@@patrickstewart9937 I think you are right
@craiver00
@craiver00 4 жыл бұрын
That's right women wants someone who have his shit together while she can't even handle her own emotions and ego. Imagine buying a brand new iPhone X on apple store with 50 dollars, that's the mentality of women and it's simply hypergamy. It's just hard to take women seriously.
@leonotarianni7733
@leonotarianni7733 4 жыл бұрын
Yes
@barrywilliams7202
@barrywilliams7202 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve never had any of these issues up until recently. Got involved with a girl and I have have just realised I’ve literally done everything on your list. Thanks for opening my eyes. Lesson learnt
@hrajabi7261
@hrajabi7261 2 жыл бұрын
Same here bro
@characterandconviction9225
@characterandconviction9225 2 жыл бұрын
So how did it turn out?
@hrajabi7261
@hrajabi7261 2 жыл бұрын
@@characterandconviction9225 I lost her :)
@skale7738
@skale7738 Жыл бұрын
@@hrajabi7261 I'm now scared that i can lost mine... idk what to do. But ok, I know that I can't do anything, I've done everything that I could. Including all the mistakes and all the right decisions, so now I can only wait, and this waiting kills me😢
@urielbp2756
@urielbp2756 8 ай бұрын
Same here hahaha
@cheikhdiop7223
@cheikhdiop7223 3 жыл бұрын
The game ain't easy, because it's forever
@NoWayToHell
@NoWayToHell 2 жыл бұрын
Senegalese ?
@cheikhdiop7223
@cheikhdiop7223 2 жыл бұрын
@@NoWayToHell yup
@eugeneagboroga2850
@eugeneagboroga2850 3 жыл бұрын
Indeed it's really great to know all this. I have committed all these mistakes and feel Happy to try the corrections
@dannylorenze6188
@dannylorenze6188 4 жыл бұрын
We've all been there. When a woman pulls away, you've lost all control of the situation. If you want her back the only thing you can do is to let her go.
@brunocbart2421
@brunocbart2421 4 жыл бұрын
So I have this girl who came to my place on a first date we talked had great chemistry ended up having sex. The she stops texting me my last text was "hey what's up is everything alright?" Because I sensed she was being further away. She didn't text me back after that, should I text her back or ignore her aswell, my text would be something like > okay I'll take this as "ur better off without me" < I appreciate it if u can help
@lah_red3257
@lah_red3257 4 жыл бұрын
Bruno CBart noooooo don’t text her bro ignore the living shit out her and she gonna come back
@cashmasterstackzzs7289
@cashmasterstackzzs7289 4 жыл бұрын
Why you text after you sex? You should of waited to contact her. And should of been on a phone call after like 3 or 4 days. And only to hang out again. So you should say something funny that happened to you during those days or something interesting during the day you were with her. Then jump into meeting again. She said no you hang up, she gives any answer other than yes or ok you hang up never looks back at her.
@cashmasterstackzzs7289
@cashmasterstackzzs7289 4 жыл бұрын
Bruno CBart stop assuming things on your head. You don’t know what she is upto. You score on the first night. You lasted 30 or more minutes. She will contact you again enjoy your life and go around to talk to other females. Don’t put your mind into her she will feel it. Remember everyone comes back at least once could be tomorrow or 20 years later. She is not your girlfriend it’s not official yet.
@vice2versa
@vice2versa 4 жыл бұрын
@@cashmasterstackzzs7289 all these social rules, games and bullshit manipulation tactics we have to pull in order to attract and keep women attracted really make me dislike females and the female psychology.
@lesliefiadoyor4823
@lesliefiadoyor4823 3 жыл бұрын
I've learnt that a man should only fight for something when that thing allows him to fight for it; anything that does not allow you to fight for it is not worth fighting over....period!
@liquidgold8120
@liquidgold8120 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Thank you
@magicdinho107
@magicdinho107 2 жыл бұрын
Perfectly said
@jimwizkhalifa
@jimwizkhalifa 2 жыл бұрын
Lost my truck and this concept applies
@tatianaalexandrova9868
@tatianaalexandrova9868 2 жыл бұрын
You right, but what does “to fight” mean? Fight whom? The problem is that modern man ends up fighting with woman while not noticing the real enemy of relationships called Ego. Following these advices people choose their Ego that keeps them in their well-known cage of their own miss-conceptions about themselves.
@emmiejonck3776
@emmiejonck3776 2 жыл бұрын
You're a wise guy!
@michaelcasareo8450
@michaelcasareo8450 3 жыл бұрын
Bobby....Thank you! You're my NEW Hero!!! It's very cleared in my mind now what I was doing wrong.
@vistar_kj
@vistar_kj 2 жыл бұрын
So basically, the more you show you're interested, the easier she'll just get bored
@julianob9917
@julianob9917 Жыл бұрын
This seems to be the bottom line. There must be an alternative to this crappy dinamic.
@ImpaleHer
@ImpaleHer 4 жыл бұрын
Women are not attracted to a needy man. Let the women get emotional, not yourself is the biggest life lesson.
@travis6694
@travis6694 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah don’t beg and don’t chase. Simply say okay and go forward.
@lucidcactus4042
@lucidcactus4042 4 жыл бұрын
Men have emotions too, just don't wear it on your sleave.
@shainemaine1268
@shainemaine1268 4 жыл бұрын
BUT I GET EMOTIONAL. Plus, without emotions, why even bother? I want emotions!!! Otherwise i can just go jack off and smoke a bowl. But i miss the physical contact and affection. But, if all of this is how a girls brain actually works, just start killing. Because thats fucking evil. Its twisted and shouldnt be accepted in society. I hate this stupid game, it makes me wanna fucking puke. I hate the fact that I never get what I want EVER!!!! But im supposed to spend my life pleasing females?? Fuck that. I just really wanna stop... everything. I do not consent to being a part of the power struggle.
@davidbuckley3278
@davidbuckley3278 4 жыл бұрын
Vlad G I do get that , but it’s weird
@CoCre8ors
@CoCre8ors 4 жыл бұрын
Vlad G 👌👌👌
@christopherguity7712
@christopherguity7712 4 жыл бұрын
Funny fact: I committed all of these mistakes
@CoolVishu4u4ever
@CoolVishu4u4ever 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@wolfrus1809
@wolfrus1809 3 жыл бұрын
And did you get her back
@nirbhaykumarsingh8216
@nirbhaykumarsingh8216 3 жыл бұрын
@@CoolVishu4u4ever 1q8
@Iamfayezz
@Iamfayezz 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Boniwix
@Boniwix 3 жыл бұрын
damn you fucked up but i did the first thing
@IBMboy
@IBMboy 2 жыл бұрын
I kinda know what to do but it takes practice to be chill and not making those mistakes, but also i don't like just any girl, after one relationship i feel like I deserve someone special. Thanks for the advices, i wish all of you guys stay chill when meeting that special person
@kudah2heartless389
@kudah2heartless389 Жыл бұрын
I’m glad i ran into this video because I made all of these mistakes with the last female I messed with & it’s literally went downhill from those mistakes. I thank you
@sultandaud7325
@sultandaud7325 4 жыл бұрын
I think the main theme of this video is that when she starts to pull away, just remain normal and show your routine behavior. Show her as if nothing has happened due to her pulling away.
@cloakofanonymity
@cloakofanonymity 4 жыл бұрын
When a woman "pulls away" you should be HAPPY!!!!! You just saved a 💩💩💩💩load in divorce proceedings.
@calebbrooks2497
@calebbrooks2497 4 жыл бұрын
Tropic-Al and a shitload of money
@nardinit
@nardinit 4 жыл бұрын
...becauss every relationship ends in marriage?
@jjjani
@jjjani 4 жыл бұрын
Omg this comment is more helpful then the video
@devilisbackk
@devilisbackk 4 жыл бұрын
Yes its time to party hard..... :)
@hernstv
@hernstv 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@hafeeez87
@hafeeez87 3 жыл бұрын
I once ignored a girl who I thought I liked but then I didn't like her anymore. So I ghosted her. Two weeks later, she started texting me back. She was sad that I ghosted her. And bla bla bla wanted me back, etc. I said no as I no longer had interest in her. So she started to be a real bitch and said some nasty stuff. So moral of the story is what you think you did wrong may be right. And whatever you think is doing right may be wrong. My message to all the kings out there : women are the same.
@kenroymcmurrine8372
@kenroymcmurrine8372 2 жыл бұрын
So true, they don't know what they want
@brandonk3113
@brandonk3113 2 жыл бұрын
The moment he wrote ultimatum...."Ah ffs I did that yesterday" literally used the example he gave as well 😂
@Yourdaddy_2024
@Yourdaddy_2024 2 ай бұрын
Man never ever apologize to a women! Period. I am 47 and have dated a lot of girls. If you apologize you loose attraction. You need to show indifference to keep the attraction. I am currently talking to a girl long distance. We started off good and then in the last week she started pulling away. I looked back, and analyzed and figured out where she lost attraction. I learnt my lesson and move on. One thing I tell you once a girl pulls away, it is very very difficult to get the attraction back. In 99% cases you best bet is to walk away the moment you see she pulling away.
@emack4371
@emack4371 4 жыл бұрын
Nobody got time for games.....if she pulls away she is playing with her options....
@cashmasterstackzzs7289
@cashmasterstackzzs7289 4 жыл бұрын
Tar heels 215 not really bro, you understand when you have no competition. You are dating her it wasn’t oficial. To be official could be a few months from now. You was knowing her. Most woman pull away at early stage. You go and do your things they come back when you do not expect it. Patients is the key, if you really wanna love that woman you don’t assume you let her go and sometimes they come back and you start again from zero. Most woman do that.
@stevebhikh1540
@stevebhikh1540 4 жыл бұрын
@Superman J bruh right on the money! They want you to ask em out or chill even when they have a boyfriend. When you meet a women she'll put out the same energy you put out towards her. Fuck these games bs
@nasdaqua
@nasdaqua 4 жыл бұрын
If she's playing with options, she's surely a loser!
@JuicyJam
@JuicyJam 4 жыл бұрын
The first mistake... Staying with a girl who tests you.
@sunmal1599
@sunmal1599 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao he said it was unconscious, just like a lot of bad things in the human nature.
@woodyd4469
@woodyd4469 4 жыл бұрын
I take it you lead a very dull and boring life then, along with a dull, unfun sap of a partner. You want a partner to test you, and test eachother, it's the best way to motivate eachother, stay on top of things. Find out eachothers likes and dislikes, there for having more exsperince dealing with eachother.. all that's itself brings in fun and happiness. If the first thing to do after being tested Is to give up and walk, then there's no hope left is there.
@mray9305
@mray9305 4 жыл бұрын
WoodyD Bro take it from me when a women tests you usually she wants to see how strong you are. If you are smart you will know the difference between a test if she likes you or a test if she is disrespecting you. 8/10 it’s usually disrespecting you
@Munecoshh1
@Munecoshh1 4 жыл бұрын
Jonathan Thom All women tests men. That’s a Fact.
@brendanbogotto8976
@brendanbogotto8976 4 жыл бұрын
I learnt that the hard way
@Anthony-fe4oj
@Anthony-fe4oj 10 ай бұрын
Dude this is so crazy. Haven’t heard from her in over a week. I have NOT sent a desperate text or a check up text. My last text was responding to her, and she never responded to that. But I’ve been banging my head against the wall pre writing texts in my notes of allllllllll the things you’re saying not to do
@terekaho
@terekaho 2 жыл бұрын
After watching this I m finally over my ex 😳😳😳 those first 3points wow.... How weak did I allow myself to become😔😕
@timgreaves2842
@timgreaves2842 4 жыл бұрын
ITS MY SISTERS, COUSINS BIRTHDAY So her cousin
@cypher_2259
@cypher_2259 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@lisalap5975
@lisalap5975 4 жыл бұрын
Thought the same!
@damienjoseph7540
@damienjoseph7540 4 жыл бұрын
@@mrnickwan510 😂🙉
@7Lace77
@7Lace77 4 жыл бұрын
@@mrnickwan510 He almost had us fooled, almost!
@jamesmackinnon7727
@jamesmackinnon7727 4 жыл бұрын
Tim Greaves Another good one is my refrigerator is being delivered that day 😄
@jimm6810
@jimm6810 4 жыл бұрын
Let her go. There are other women who will be more appreciative of you.
@richbrake9910
@richbrake9910 4 жыл бұрын
True.
@BobbyRio
@BobbyRio 4 жыл бұрын
there must always be a willingness to walk away on your part
@johngray2924
@johngray2924 4 жыл бұрын
Don't chase her, replace her.
@jimm6810
@jimm6810 4 жыл бұрын
@@johngray2924 long since done.
@alcaholik6435
@alcaholik6435 4 жыл бұрын
All women are the same
@gavinclaassen6440
@gavinclaassen6440 2 жыл бұрын
I been single all my life and I'm so glad I stayed that way . As Bob Marley sang " no woman or women , no cry ".
@avi_2014
@avi_2014 2 жыл бұрын
You stupid don't follow this quote. Only those saying this who is with women and break their heart.
@stereodan7180
@stereodan7180 2 жыл бұрын
All of these mistakes are the things that crossed on my mind and I'm about to do it upon my crush, I'm so glad that I found your video and now I know it wouldn't work as what I think it would. Thanks man! Subcribed.
@SKBottom
@SKBottom 4 жыл бұрын
Let me save you some time. When she starts this, just move on.
@peterchou5161
@peterchou5161 4 жыл бұрын
That's what I did. I moved on and she started to come back, lol. Did this to 2 bitches. Basically I told those bitches to take their shit somewhere else.
@temitopeerinkitola3119
@temitopeerinkitola3119 4 жыл бұрын
Amen to that
@CCCC-tq8yo
@CCCC-tq8yo 4 жыл бұрын
@@peterchou5161 whow
@juanvlog2022
@juanvlog2022 4 жыл бұрын
Best advice ever
@CCCC-tq8yo
@CCCC-tq8yo 4 жыл бұрын
@@juanvlog2022 ever 😂
@sawssenfid1398
@sawssenfid1398 4 жыл бұрын
Let me tell u this guys , find a woman who wouldn't walk away from u just because u're showing her ' too much ' attention .. but rather find one that would appreciat it and even give it to u in return ^^
@misemusemusic
@misemusemusic 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks. Is this real by the way? 😭❤️
@ChibbyChangaPlayz
@ChibbyChangaPlayz 4 жыл бұрын
@@misemusemusic Ofc it is, if ur playing this "ignore game" it wasnt even ment for u and her
@pablonoriega7923
@pablonoriega7923 4 жыл бұрын
Yeh good luck
@estelabueno100
@estelabueno100 4 жыл бұрын
You are so right! So was with my husband :)
@andrewphoto4750
@andrewphoto4750 4 жыл бұрын
Loulou Lachance like thats all we want from females
@viveksharma4480
@viveksharma4480 2 жыл бұрын
Morale of the story: just focus on your exam 😂😂
@xw.danger
@xw.danger 3 күн бұрын
yeah sir!!! But real man never think about 'get her back',you only consider about the 'next one'
@JordonDev
@JordonDev 4 жыл бұрын
Girl: Pulls away from guy, calls guy creepy Guy: Pulls away from girl, flagged as discrimination and rude to disrespect women Total Society Score = 1/10
@jasonsavio53
@jasonsavio53 3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@thewewguy8t88
@thewewguy8t88 3 жыл бұрын
yeah its weird how when a girl wants to end things with a guy its like whatever. but when the guy wants to end things with a girl he is considered an asshole.
@augustinekola9402
@augustinekola9402 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly true
@kostasplafountzis6602
@kostasplafountzis6602 3 жыл бұрын
SO RIGHT YOU ARE,ITS A WOMANS WORLD,EVERYTHING GOES AROUND HER P....Y
@thomasedwin1
@thomasedwin1 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 56 years old, I have had many, many women and married two of them. I would like to think they were my girlfriend's and my wives but in reality, it was just my turn.
@nightfury_5
@nightfury_5 4 жыл бұрын
I think maybe "I have had many women" is really not a decent way to phrase what was meant.
@thomasedwin1
@thomasedwin1 4 жыл бұрын
@@nightfury_5 How do you know exactly what I meant?
@thomasedwin1
@thomasedwin1 4 жыл бұрын
@@nightfury_5 Should I have said, I have been with many women,
@hededcdn
@hededcdn 3 жыл бұрын
Red Pill!!!
@hededcdn
@hededcdn 3 жыл бұрын
@@nightfury_5 we don't care, feminist. What do you know??
@fazbeargaming7196
@fazbeargaming7196 3 жыл бұрын
Other conclusion, The woman doesn’t like you at all and just likes solving the puzzle of if you like her.
@angusbroome672
@angusbroome672 2 жыл бұрын
thanks my guy..made all these mistakes and now she ghosting i've learnt my lessons
@GabrielEddy
@GabrielEddy 4 жыл бұрын
When she pulls away, block her. Stop getting attached too easily.
@pussydestroyer69285
@pussydestroyer69285 3 жыл бұрын
I rlly hope to God you're joking.
@legalfictionnaturalfact3969
@legalfictionnaturalfact3969 3 жыл бұрын
if she's pulled away, she's likely already blocked you. you got rejected. there's really no way to poutily reject her at this point. :)
@pussydestroyer69285
@pussydestroyer69285 3 жыл бұрын
Legal Fiction Natural Fact exactly. Thank u
@deec7687
@deec7687 3 жыл бұрын
Your statement have me 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
@user-te3rw6jr3m
@user-te3rw6jr3m 3 жыл бұрын
I can't help am a bit needy in a relationship and the worst thing is I fall in love way too easily but I can get over a girl very very quick the whole thing I find weird to be honest how my emotions vary from been needy and have attachment issues to dropping them in a drop of a hut just like that if she does not conform to my standard
@elvissong5371
@elvissong5371 4 жыл бұрын
Someone who truly cares wouldn’t even put you in that situation in the first place.
@roonbare2769
@roonbare2769 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly, she's weighing her "other options", that kinda chick ain't worth your time.
@tcchip
@tcchip 4 жыл бұрын
A woman has options. Never make the mistake of thinking you're her only choice. If you want to be her first choice, you have to give her good reasons to feel that way, because someone else will do it if you won't. No woman owes you her feelings just because you like her and you think you're great to her. She has to make the decision to like you back, and pushing her to make that decision instead of letting her come to it herself will never end well for you.
@roonbare2769
@roonbare2769 4 жыл бұрын
@@tcchip , a girl (or anyone) that truly wants to be with you, will make it clear. Anyone who plays these kinds games and isn't "sure" about you is just shining you on. If you have to play games to get attention from someone, you don't want attention from that person... Trust me, they'll turn out to be a neurotic mess. The fish are always biting somewhere.
@tcchip
@tcchip 4 жыл бұрын
@@roonbare2769 unless you have known this woman for months, if not years, nobody whom you just got to know wants to be with you right away, regardless of whether you're looking for a relationship or casual sex. Why? Because she doesn't know you, period. Just because you had fun chatting with her for a couple of hours doesn't mean she knows you. And it doesn't matter how great a guy you are, women live in fear of getting assaulted, harassed, raped and murdered every day, so it takes time to be able to convince a woman you're safe to be around. I used to think it was playing games too, and believe me, I hate this stuff too. When we meet a woman we like, and think 'I want to be with her', subconsciously we want to own her, and that's where all the problems start. If you're not willing to show a woman you're willing to spend time to get to know her, while respecting her as an individual with her own life and give her personal space, you won't get anywhere with her, because being pushy only convinces her you're dangerous, insecure and possessive. She already has her life routine, she's not going to change it just for you just because you had a couple of great dates together. The instant you start pushing her to start making space in her life for you before she's ready, you just shot yourself in the foot. The reality is, any attractive woman you meet online or off, is getting hit on by a ton of men, whether at work or outside. She's got her own life and isn't waiting for you to come into her life and sweep her off her feet. You have to be the exception if you want her to pay attention, unless you want to go for socially awkward women who don't have much or any experience with people, much less men. Trust me, these women will be worse. They'd be insecure, distrustful and will always have a chip on their shoulders. Again, unless you really know this woman for some time, you can NEVER assume that you're the first priority in her life. She has a job, her friends and family, and you are a stranger. Anyone who's intelligent and attractive will naturally attract other guys. If you're not willing to put yourself out there and instead just pray she's going to pick you because you're a great guy, you're just handing over your chances for another guy who's willing to do it.
@eugenemurray2940
@eugenemurray2940 4 жыл бұрын
Nothing wrong with been tested... She has to know that you can take it, so when your child is diagnosed with a horrible disease you won"t fall to bits. Likewise men can test women in a similar way 'You don't love causelessly' Ayn Rand...
@Tgogators
@Tgogators 2 жыл бұрын
This is spot on. It might be hard to accept if you’re struggling.
@beeboi179
@beeboi179 4 ай бұрын
I love how these guys in the video can talk so much and keep saying they're getting to the point.
@michaelblue6150
@michaelblue6150 4 жыл бұрын
When she pulls away it means another man is on his way in..... Truth be told majority of women that pull away end up old alone, miserable and unhappy. A real women would communicate with respect
@iattacku2773
@iattacku2773 4 жыл бұрын
I agree . I respect a woman more for properly rejecting me than playing games
@daudimwidimakihanda5386
@daudimwidimakihanda5386 4 жыл бұрын
This is true I have a story I need to share with you check me daudimwidima09@gmail.com
@user-hf3uj1xd9p
@user-hf3uj1xd9p 4 жыл бұрын
@@daudimwidimakihanda5386 your rich uncle died and you need a bank account to access the money? gtfoh
@j348011
@j348011 4 жыл бұрын
No it doesn’t!!! It means she’s not interested. It doesn’t mean there’s always another man. It means she doesn’t like you and she would rather be alone than with you. The truth hurts sometimes.
@michaelblue6150
@michaelblue6150 4 жыл бұрын
Smh I speak from experience. I've slept with many women who have pulled away. Some come back. End of the day girls play games real women can communicate clearly without insecurity games like pulling away. Some women act like 23 yr old children n others keep it real. Sorry if u cant tell the difference
@kpec3
@kpec3 4 жыл бұрын
In the 90s, dating was about meeting someone in order to fall in love. Now it's a mindgame maze. So, is it worth my time and effort?
@traf9464
@traf9464 4 жыл бұрын
Ans: Nope.
@duggie88
@duggie88 4 жыл бұрын
Right! I’m listening to this like why we got to do all these games just to get someone to like you!
@JasMcKenzie
@JasMcKenzie 4 жыл бұрын
Nope. This stuff is universal. It's always been this way. I only wish I knew this stuff back on the 80s and 90s.
@TonyMoze
@TonyMoze 4 жыл бұрын
KPEC3arrival thank you!!! 👏🏽
@enriquesantos8398
@enriquesantos8398 4 жыл бұрын
KPEC3arrival we’re evolving ig
@snehithtampa7106
@snehithtampa7106 2 жыл бұрын
You are the best coach I've seen so far.
@jimmorris3691
@jimmorris3691 2 жыл бұрын
This video is amazing and makes perfect sense.
@HamzaKhan-zo5vg
@HamzaKhan-zo5vg 4 жыл бұрын
If she pulls away Leave her on her own And move on you are more worthful then her
@dandythevandal7320
@dandythevandal7320 3 жыл бұрын
Worthful then her
@HamzaKhan-zo5vg
@HamzaKhan-zo5vg 3 жыл бұрын
@@dandythevandal7320 yap
@paulbrande2588
@paulbrande2588 3 жыл бұрын
I'm with Hamza Khan and a few other men. The exception being if you know you came on too strong. Stay busy in your life and purpose. She might call after awhile and don't chase her, slow it down. Most women will find us more attractive.
@augustinekola9402
@augustinekola9402 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly true
@Fran_B.
@Fran_B. 2 жыл бұрын
*Worthwhile
@christopherguity7712
@christopherguity7712 4 жыл бұрын
Conclusion: never be a good guy and don't try to win her. You're welcome and good afternoon
@blackjack1037
@blackjack1037 4 жыл бұрын
Ma hero
@EagleTV7
@EagleTV7 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@Zainygreenstone
@Zainygreenstone 4 жыл бұрын
Wrong. Missed the whole point. Lol
@CryStealHeart
@CryStealHeart 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Because its a fake game
@hatsunememekuoisaneet
@hatsunememekuoisaneet 4 жыл бұрын
Are you perhaps have the dumb? Also r/niceguys and r/justneckbeardthings
@alexandersumbati3693
@alexandersumbati3693 3 жыл бұрын
You are a MASTER and a CLAIRVOYANT because I have made each and every one of the above mentioned mistakes
@Smashachu
@Smashachu Жыл бұрын
The fucked up thing is that when i'm talking to multiple woman and i'm not interested in a relationship, that's when my phone starts buzzing out of control. It's like woman want toxic, woman want men who manipulate them into liking them by making them feel insecure and their not worth your time. The second you start replying to their texts within a reasonable amount of time, when you start making them a priority in your life They pull away. I realize it's probably an issue with me, dropping everything in my life the second that i'm interested in someone, but how would you go about fixing an issue like this in the long term on a personal level so that the bandaid that was used to hook up with them lasts over the years instead of the months.
@chewyiscute1052
@chewyiscute1052 4 жыл бұрын
If a woman is pulling away then stop caring. trust me, she will come back to you and will be more attracted to you. based on experience brothers 😉
@bloneajax2014
@bloneajax2014 4 жыл бұрын
Ya...
@reygarcia4634
@reygarcia4634 4 жыл бұрын
Dam hopefully xnxx for the meanwhile
@denimlether5812
@denimlether5812 4 жыл бұрын
You have to keep not caring and watch yourself from the slightest slip up of showing you care. That's a headache. If she is more attracted to you because of this. So what? Who cares how this nut reacts? Just wait for her to end up on the news for jumping off a bridge.
@Ronto99
@Ronto99 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah but what if both ways use the same mind games? Because this works on us the same way ...
@peterchou5161
@peterchou5161 4 жыл бұрын
This is sooo true from personal experience.
@fishcanon8141
@fishcanon8141 4 жыл бұрын
As a girl, you’re completely right. A guy shouldn’t do these things. But usually if I start pulling away, the root cause is I find the other person isn’t someone I can see a future with. So no matter what the guy does, the result won’t change. I think guys should realize that and just move on and find someone who is attracted to them without any doubt.
@lucidcactus4042
@lucidcactus4042 4 жыл бұрын
What if they don't want a future and just want to be friends w benefits
@SniffingOutPharisees-DanielP
@SniffingOutPharisees-DanielP 4 жыл бұрын
Fish Canon well what if you do move on but she contacts you a few days later saying she misses you
@martinsloan8170
@martinsloan8170 4 жыл бұрын
You just put Bobby out of a job.
@stevewalther2293
@stevewalther2293 4 жыл бұрын
When a girl pulls away, there is another dude. Always another dude...its uncanny how many spares women have...
@stevewalther2293
@stevewalther2293 4 жыл бұрын
Move on..move on...lol...That's easy for wmonen to do when men are EVERYWHERE!!!
@mdcmdc1
@mdcmdc1 2 жыл бұрын
Amazingly accurate. Recently found your channel it is really good.
@avikchatterjee1945
@avikchatterjee1945 11 ай бұрын
Extremely important video Rio. Thanks bro!
@TomDeVito
@TomDeVito 4 жыл бұрын
This is so true! Listen up gentlemen when a woman pulls away YOU NEED TO GIVE HER THE SPACE! I promise you when you do that she will come back
@FrankJGZ
@FrankJGZ 3 жыл бұрын
Why would any man of value and self respect take her back?
@cahpper4474
@cahpper4474 3 жыл бұрын
@@FrankJGZ exactly
@JoshylovesTrance
@JoshylovesTrance 3 жыл бұрын
Or simply block her and reset your mind
@astonchip
@astonchip 3 жыл бұрын
as a woman myself I pulled away for a reason why would I come back?
@cahpper4474
@cahpper4474 3 жыл бұрын
@@astonchip exactly
@MrPrat777
@MrPrat777 4 жыл бұрын
Bobby helping men to become better at the toughest things in life, you are making the men better versions. Great to follow
@BobbyRio
@BobbyRio 4 жыл бұрын
thanks
@juliestabile7255
@juliestabile7255 3 жыл бұрын
This is so wrong when it comes to the way I am!! If I'm attracted to someone, and he's coming on so much to me. And chasing me and letting me know, he would never want to lose me, I LOVE IT! I LOVE TO BE CHASED! When I used to go to clubs, one night, a guy came over to me and said his friend would like to know if I would like to dance with him. He pointed out to me where he was. I asked, why couldn't he come over and ask me this himself instead of sending you. He said he didn't want to be rude, he didn't know how I felt and he was being extra polite. I think that sucks. I don't like extra polite. I like knowing that he must find out himself because he doesn't want to waste any time in showing his feelings. His friend also told me that if it were him, he would have never sent someone over, he would have done it himself. He saw that I liked what he said, then he asked me to dance with him, and I had a great time knowing that he had the balls to not let me get away. I love it!
@Lilymoo88
@Lilymoo88 Жыл бұрын
We are told the exact same. When a man pulls away and we make the effort to get his attention, then we're labelled as clingy or too easy. In my opinion it's in a man's nature to do the pursuing, obviously if she's reciprocating his efforts.
@chrisbana5874
@chrisbana5874 3 жыл бұрын
I'm tired of mind games I'm going to ask her for a break up I don't care anymore
@harchu-thefoodiequeen5014
@harchu-thefoodiequeen5014 3 жыл бұрын
😅😅😅man dats d spirit
@janeulo4388
@janeulo4388 3 жыл бұрын
Not a good idea. Use the principle of silence. She should never read your mind. Just go cold on her
@davidthompson4934
@davidthompson4934 Жыл бұрын
Can I ask; if you are tired of the mind games and you want to end the relationship such as it is in order to heal and recover yourself then why, are you going to ask her for a break - up? Believe me Chris YOU shall find it so much more empowering as you go forward with your life experience if, YOU accept the responsibility for making the decision and then taking the action of finishing the relationship with her yourself. Live in your power to create the life YOU want.
@mikeyG11556
@mikeyG11556 3 жыл бұрын
I can't believe I started watching this video. Be yourself. Be true to your feelings. Woman who play games are a red flag. Genuine and sincere behavior is normal. And trust me, there are a ton of normal women out there who don't play immature games like becoming distant when they love you.
@User-rd5vx
@User-rd5vx 3 жыл бұрын
Bro these women are so counterintuitive. They literally put obstacles just because yes
@username-1043
@username-1043 10 ай бұрын
I'm young but learnt the lesson too soon. Made the same mistake. It might get alright but you lose all th e power in relationship.
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