5 PRACTICAL things for our HEALTHY MARRIAGE

[@lindawatson3356]

I've been married 52 years, we've had major ups and downs during those times, however, at the end of the day, we were able to work through it. The pandemic has made use closer because we only had each other. Love your openness and honesty, because life can through you a curved ball. Also loved seeing pictures of the two of you throughout the years.

[@karenkingrey6142]

😂🤣 Oh my gosh!!! The look on Solo’s face when Sarah said “Open marriage”, lol!!!! I couldn’t help but laugh out loud for real….believe me Solo, we knew where she was going with that!!! ❤️😆

[@sharonj7274]

I came to make this same comment ( but looked first). I agree the look on his face was well ummm..."priceless"

[@pastorwife]

yes, his face when she said open marriage made me chuckle. Even though i new where she was going with it. lol

[@cac2821]

🤣😂🤣 you’re absolutely correct. I had to rewatch it once I seen your comment and his facial expression was priceless 😂

[@kimschultz4057]

I cracked up to. 🤣

[@fayejones6740]

I also laughed at the look on Solo’s face. And the jerk of his head. Lol

[@angiecreech-collier7000]

My husband and I got married on 7-7-77 at 7:00pm! God’s perfect number!!! We were high school sweethearts and both came to the Lord during a big revival that was happening in our High School! The Jesus Movement! What glorious days. I new that if my husband always loved Jesus he would always love me. We’ve had struggles, but with God’s help we always worked them out. We will be celebrating our 45th anniversary this July and I praise God for this every day!

[@KatieAddington]

One time, when our oldest son was little, he was asking for something. I had told him no, so he went to ask Daddy. My husband told him, "You can't ask me for a different answer. Mommy and Daddy don't give different answers." "But why?!" "Because Mommy and Daddy are on the same team." Our son stepped back and looked at us and asked, "How do I get on that team?" 🤣

[@martharinebiseko1457]

🤣😂😅How do I get on the team?

[@Barbaracoyle]

lol

[@CharliArmstrong]

😂

[@annemariebuckley4551]

What a great way of putting that to the kids! I think all kids try that on and if you aren’t pre-prepared or keyed into it, it can easily become a point of contention in the marriage. My daughter is just starting the parenthood journey, I will definitely show her your answer. Greetings from the UK. 😁

[@andieluke1366]

This is so precious! 🤣

[@macconmara7252]

I love your wedding picture! Absolutely gorgeous couple-then and now!

[@loisthompson1582]

We just celebrated our 60th anniversary. Four children. Your advice for marriage is excellent!! I could not have said it better.

[@fayejones6740]

When we had been married about 6years my husband went to work in a mill on the midnight shift (11-7). I worked day shift 6-2:30. We saw each other just a few hours a day. But we always found time for us. Once our oldest son was about 14 and he asked me how do you and Dad ever have any time together. I replied, that’s why you kids have a scheduled bed time. It took a lot of planning. We usually didn’t even have the same day off. We celebrated our 54th anniversary in January. I’m 73 and he is 77. Love y’all.

[@martharinebiseko1457]

Wow...

[@dorothymasombwe4788]

Congratulations 👏🏿 🎊

[@andieluke1366]

My parents were the same. They actually had a journal where they would jot down little things that happen throughout the day, and swap so they can read during commute the next day. It kept their line of communication open even if they rarely had a few hours to sit down and talk during those few years. Eventually their work schedule synced, and they no longer use the journals, but kept leaving little notes in random places ❤

[@idkwtf2makemyusername104]

I read this and idk why but it gave me goosebumps and tears...I've been married 18 yrs this may and my marriage started(5yrs in) the exact same way. My family were all mill workers here in Pa and my husband is from Ohio. We moved here after we got married and he started in the mill with my dad and I was a nurse. Always opposite shifts and it was rough, but we made it work and now 18 yrs later he's been the sole provider for the last 10yrs while I've been Mom and now he's got stage 3 colon cancer and going thru chemotherapy.he had part of his large colon removed in Dec.(he's never had so much as a cold since I've known him and had NO signs or symptoms of cancer except bloody stool 2 months before i made him go for a colonoscopy. Hes 48 and I'm 46. We have treatment #5 tomorrow(2day now). And hopefully only 1 to go after that,long as all 3 C's are clear! Anyhow, got off track but we have 2 sons, they are 15 and 12 and they have been really struggling with Dad being sick and trying to find time for all of us. It feels absolutely awful to not be able to just make everything ok and everyone feel safe and secure,but when I step back and look at our little family, I'm so darn proud of the years and times we've been thru together and I hope and pray with every fiber of my being that we have 18+ more years to go. Sometimes we take off for a nite and get a room and get all our favorite foods and watch the dumbest things on TV and just laugh together. I can't explain why your post made me spill a novel,maybe the mill work, maybe I'm just an over emotional, menopausal looney at the moment(lol), but it stopped me in my tracks long enuf to breathe and look at how blessed and thankful I really am. There's nothing like being in it for the long haul and growing together and finding that balance...no matter the circumstances. Nite before chemo I sit awake all nite like I'm waiting 4 a bomb to drop...so forgive my rambling. If you read this far, hope you have an awesome day! ❤

[@idkwtf2makemyusername104]

@@andieluke1366 my husband is always saying words wrong and cracking us up, so I started a notebook years ago I have wrote all his crazy phrases and mispronounced words down for our boys. We still get good laughs at it. We got each other a book when he was diagnosed with cancer in Dec ( from Amazon), called "what I love about you"...we made one for each of our sons and each other and put them away for some time in the future. ❤

[@MrsPink64]

We commit to pray daily, never leave each other without connecting, and a kiss 💋, and laugh together every day.

[@APLACE4JOY]

Godly wisdom-necessary, needed, practical, powerful and loving! Thank y’all for allowing The Holy Spirit to use y’all to bless and encourage us! 🙏🏾🕊 - 33 years and prospering by God’s grace.

[@cac2821]

Solos explanation of each parents roles (even though they maybe different roles but still requires significant work ) hits the nail on the head.

[@DavisFamilyLife]

That wedding picture... Solo was super happy! Beautiful.

[@tammifields4142]

So Sweet!💕💕

[@paulinedevaney3028]

Praying together, my husband and I have been married for 40 yrs in July .it’s praying together that has kept us together praise God !

[@jensalc]

Love this! Praise God!🙌🙏🏻😊

[@stephielynn]

After 12 years of marriage, I support this message 100%. I couldn't have picked a better team mate and i recognized him as my soul mate 2 weeks after meeting him. God knew I needed him before I did. What a blessing

[@lindakhan6690]

I always find your videos very informative and uplifting. My husband and I have been married for 28 years this july (I'm caucasian, he's afghan) and all of your tips are spot on. We have done all of them and that's why I feel that our marriage is strong and still in the honeymoon phase. I look forward to more life coach videos to help others make their marriages fulfilling/rewarding.

[@suzannes5888]

My parents have been married 62 years next month - they still have a date night every week, and do sweet things for each other. I'm not married, but I also very much agree with your principle to "be bold" - do what is right in life and don't feel the need to follow others, or prioritize material things. I have experienced my life's most memorable, and precious, moments following this rule..thanks for such a beautiful video!

[@miriamamaina63]

Thank you again Sarah and Solo for such a needed Topic. I would like to congratulate you early to your 20 years of marriage together this year 2022. You are such an amazing couple and you have an amazing family whose God is the center. Sara and Solo, I wrote a summary of your 5 practical things for Happy Marriage: 1. Married someone with similar values (God is the center, our faith affects how we live our lives) 2. Having a big family (keeping priorities at home) - remind each other often we are on the same team 3. Equal Acess Marriage - share passwords, access to each other bank accounts, phone, media... 4. Consistent time together - consistent early bedtimes for children at 7pm and then have date nights, create time together-be intentional 5. Respected each other's calling/purpose (everyone is created for something unique, support each other's purpose and calling, there are different seasons in life, there is no competition, but communication-openly sharing dreams and vision to each other, listening, sacrifice on both sides, be flexible. Thank you again Pastors Sara and Solo for such a useful and practical topic about a healthy marriage. We love you all Xx

[@GinaRenaeRNBudgets]

Love your family! Please keep my husband in your prayers as he has been diagnosed with cancer. Thank you.

[@GinaRenaeRNBudgets]

@@lifeintheslowlane5602 thank you so much!

[@priscillarobinson7740]

Thoughts and prayers to your husband 🙏🏼 Priscilla ~ from New Jersey

[@deborahhayling979]

Will mention you and your husband in my prays God is in control keep the faith.

[@tammifields4142]

Sending Prayers!🙏

[@GinaRenaeRNBudgets]

@@priscillarobinson7740 We truly appreciate it and God bless!

[@raininghispresence4188]

I have been married almost 44 years. And I was so proud of you two saying the things you said. This is why I love this family.

[@stephaniekennedy7753]

...not an 'open marriage'... shared communication, resources & respect. A blessed marriage with healthy boundaries. 🌻

[@rdavism1]

Liked all 5 suggestions. We are about to celebrate our 53rd anniversary and all I would add is a shared sense of humor has played a vital role in keeping us happily united and committed to each other. We make each other laugh. Sounds trite but it is healing during life’s difficult passages.

[@dbklyn97]

I loved all your points and the one I find sharing most with others is equal access. It allows for an open and honest communication. I also tell my children that marriage and love is an investment you should make deposits daily and on the harder days give more. I loved the pictures you shared!

[@andieluke1366]

Love the deposit analogy!

[@dbklyn97]

@@andieluke1366 it has served us well. We do it with our children as well.

[@crystalmccolgan335]

“Your effort is multiplied when you are in true unity” Love that so much!

[@elainechavez2938]

Thank you for sharing this with all of us. One thing for sure I appreciate the point you made about the Lord being the center of your life and that you were not trying to fit him in. What a beautiful point you made! God bless have a wonderful day!💖🙏😊

[@chanyu406]

This is great.video . And very encouraging that you are not ashamed of the Gospel

[@natalielorenz7543]

Lol what a gorgeous couple you guys are! So much good advice here, I am sure it will help people along. I have been married over 14 years to my best friend, we have four gorgeous kids together. On our wedding day advice was given to us from a friend who was recently divorced. She said “Communicate, Communicate, Communicate.” and we couldn’t agree more. That is something we had done so much of on so many topics before we were engaged and married. It’s still a big part of the success of our marriage. Listening to each other and sharing our thoughts, heart and dreams. When we are on the same page on issues and topics and decisions, life goes smoother. Another bit of advice I would share is that friendship is working through problems together, and remembering that the best is yet to come. Growing together

[@cathydecarles7084]

Sarah and Solo you guys are wonderful loving to each other that is why your children are wonderful and beautiful because of the love you 2 share 🙏🏻✝️❤️☮️💗💜🌹🌷♥️

[@CharityS-Minnesota]

I am Sharing this video with my three children who are 20, 21 and 23. Thank you ♥️

[@andreesimoneau437]

What I like about your family is that everyone supports each other. You can see it in how the children reacts to each other and towards you

[@honeywell7892]

Shared values and beliefs spoke volumes to me. All good advice. You’re a good match together.

[@colleenmauler5556]

Ohhh my !!! When you announced open marriage… I almost had a heart ❤️ attack!!! I love how you put communication first !!! It’s so Very important… reaching for your goals !!! I love love ❤️ your videos !!!

[@suzannetaylor9110]

You are one of the sweetest couples. I've been married for 42 years in April. All marriages have their ups and downs. But if you are grounded in your faith and your family, you can handle anything. God Bless you and keep you and your family. 😊

[@ciaravalenzuela2467]

I feel like finding someone who truly shares the same VALUES as you is the biggest thing. From personal experience I can say that when it comes to family/kids that can end up being a huge problem.

[@wandawallace2019]

OMG I don’t use that phrase loosely. I really wish I could talk to the two of you. I am so grateful so so grateful for this episode. I have been open to hear an answer to a 30 year old question. God placed my answer in your mouths. I am so grateful to God first and I pray continued blessings over your lives lives. I wish this type of information was flowing freely 33 years ago. As of yesterday I am walking free. An elephant size burden has been lifted. I will never forget the two of you for this. It is now putting me into tears for the heightened of liberty that I am experiencing. I have been wondering what the holdup for my healing has been. Continue to bless usI know that getting this answer is going to allow me to walk in the things that God has for me. I will forever remember the two of you for this. Maybe one day I’ll be able to talk to you to really explain what this really really has done for me. Thank you

[@personperson9635]

"Seeing the person make decisions the way you would make decisions." EXCELLENT advice!! That spoke to me so clearly!

[@tammifields4142]

Thanks for sharing! Looove the pictures!💕💕 May the Lord continue to Bless your union!

[@bwt99]

What stood out to me in this video was summed up at the end in what Solo said. "There are two of us in this marriage". Both of you are IN the marriage with God in the center, marvelous! Hugs

[@estellewhite9760]

You're both such beautiful people, I love the way you communicate. Solos reaction to open marriage made me chuckle

[@regina8283]

My husband and I have been married 34 years and we had the same faith, always put God first, our marriage second and kids third. Prayer is key to a great marriage, couples that pray together are stronger.

[@Chichirivichi]

I just discovered your channel. You are all such a beautiful strong family. What a blessing to have such a good example from your family. Thanks for sharing so much. Love your advice! Blessings! ❤

[@candisraerae9866]

14 years of marriage in may. I appreciate this video so much. Super Cute pictures

[@emmajrosegibson7529]

I adore you both, your so right ,I'm Christian my husband is Muslim & we both sacrifice so much 'normal' to be together but we work ... we make it work despite cultures, barriers, families, faith 🙏 because we love one another x

[@kathleenwebster]

Excellent advice!! We have been married 37 years, and raised 3 kids. We never used babysitters, so we had date nights at home. We would make dinner together, play games, watch movies, or just talk. Even though we can go out whenever we want now, we still prefer our time together at home. I love how strong you are as a couple, and that your adorable kids see you as a team! You are not just telling them how to behave as adults, you are showing them daily, by example. Love to all of you ❤

[@katherinegriffith5546]

Such wonderful advice! I do believe having a (joint) strong faith conviction provides the opportunity to work together as a successful unit.

[@faithlikecaleb]

What a lovely topic. Much needed in today's world. As my hubby and I approach our 30th year of marriage (we are interracial too...but similar cultures (American)...I believe the main thing that has held us together is our shared Christian faith. Sadly, we've seen so many marriages fail over the years. One can overcome cultural differences, financial and health challenges, children and what they bring, etc. IF you can stand together, pray, and believe the Lord will make the way. I love you guys so much! The joy of the Lord radiates first through Solo and you, Sarah, on down to sweet baby Peace. Thank you for sharing your family with the world. People need to see how a loving family can and should be! And may every good and perfect gift continue to be yours. With much love, your sister in Christ, Bethany (in California😊)

[@priscillarobinson7740]

Beautifully said ❤️

[@dewuknowofHyMn]

Yes...yes...yes... My sweet hubby went HOME 8 yrs. ago...we had a beautiful marriage...i still miss him.....i still dont understand Gods Ways...but....HIS WAYS ARE HIGHER THAN MINE !

[@wendybarnard7672]

💜💜🙏🏼💜💜

[@martharinebiseko1457]

True... The Lord radiates thru them

[@martharinebiseko1457]

@@dewuknowofHyMn Hugs.. Be Comforted by the great memories you built together

[@jssd529]

This is the first time I write a comment on KZbin . I want you to know how deeply blessed I’ve been. I certainly agree that in marriage God desires unity NOT uniformity . I dare say HE delights in making us ONE through out our lives and not as many of us thought that it only took an hour during our marriage ceremony… I’m the first one to admit that I’ve really learned how to LOVE and I’m sure my dear husband would testify also that we have both grown to be more like Christ. I do agree on NO reservations. I often say , “ONE for All and all for ONE !” Meaning we trust enough to not keep anything hiding since we trust and respect one another . I pray we all finish the race well as we encourage one another with humble hearts as we pass the legacy to our next generation for God’s glory . Thank you for reminding us to be centered on Christ who alone can build our homes . Sending my gratitude and love in Christ to you and your precious family❣️

[@OurTribeofMany]

So beautifully said. Thanks for your comment!

[@lauraleebaird9729]

I love all of those practical things. I totally understood the "open" marriage thing too. My husband is also a pastor and we do not keep any secrets. We have access to each others phones, emails, all stuff. We also made it a point that we would never be alone with someone of the opposite sex. That helps to make sure there is nothing that looks inappropriate. He would not meet with a woman alone at church either. Happy Sunday and blessings to ya'll!!

[@cyberstudentsfly]

We have been married almost 35 years and agree with all your points. I always tell my kids to make sure that whomever they marry is also their best friend. Makes all the difference.

[@wwoods6528]

I absolutely love the 2nd point of having the same values. So very important. My husband and I celebrated 46 years in February. We were very young when we married (18 and 19), but yes having the same values do go a long way. Wonderful tips. Thank you for sharing.💜

[@sandraskalnik387]

It is just so cute when the two of you sit down together like you are now Solo is so dark and those pearly white teeth just shine and those beautiful eyes twinkle while you sit there so pale and white. What is beautiful is when those little brown babies gather around you and everyone can see what your marriage means to God. I just love watching you guys, don’t ever give up your channel because you are setting an example that is so important for people to see. I have shared your channel with so many people in hopes that they will see the true meaning of why God gave all of us life.❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@kimberlyshalaby1134]

My Mother said, "Never take your arguments to bed with you." Everything you & Solo have said is so true. Build on what brought you together. You both have done just that. A beautiful wonderful loving family. 😊👍

[@Barbaracoyle]

My dad and mom said never to go to bed angry at each other. because you don't know what tomorrow will bring. 45 yrs. we tell each other goodnight and love you.

[@lisascott4314]

Beautiful picture!! You two are perfect for each other! Great advice for upcoming young people starting out!!

[@anarhlia7605]

Love this so much. We had so many people tell us that combining our cultures would be too hard but we always believed in kingdom culture over Nigerian or Australian. Only 5 years in but kingdom culture prevails thus far.

[@loveoutloud5558]

What makes watching your family so enjoyable is truly how you two love each other. It is so simple and so wonderful that you both have created a wonderful life together. God bless have a great week.

[@tammifields4142]

Agree!💕💕

[@loveoutloud5558]

@@majoroldladyakamom6948 sometime voice to text is tricky

[@Oldebookworm]

Thank you! You are so right! Been married 50 years

[@CazSantiago]

Love your list. One thing my husband and I did when our kids were old enough to stay home alone was go on breakfast dates. We rarely went out at night but our breakfast dates gave us time together to talk and plan and dream. We are now married 21 years, kids have grown up, and we still go out on day dates all the time, one of our favorites being our weekly beach trips during the summer.

[@bellarosesmama2597]

I enjoyed and learned so much from your video! Even though we have been married going on 54 years this July. We have had some ups and downs thru the years, but we have managed to work thru them. When a couple has been raised in two different homes they can see things differently, but these things can be negotiated and worked out! A while ago my son who has been married 20 years shared with us that he and my daughter-in-law were going to separate. This made me so sad and concerned! I have prayed for them and their marriage for a long time sensing that things were not right! They have a daughter who just turned 13 who is such a smart and talented girl and who is a high honor student. I am concerned about this might do to her. Please pray for them. I believe a strong home is one of the most important things a person have! Much more important then material things. There is no one else involved. They have very demanding and time consuming jobs and they have grown apart. I have prayed that God will speak to their hearts! We only live 2 blocks away from them, but we have always tried to stay out of their affairs and business thinking that they should solve their own issues! Still praying!!! My best to you and your family on this journey called life!

[@debraandrew2871]

My husband & I have been together now for 47 years & what has helped us is putting each other first kids second. If the parents don't have a healthy relationship the family will not be healthy. My hubby is my best friend and we do everything together. Also do not let the sun set on an argument it only causes pain & unnecessary suffering. Show love & respect , it isn't hard to do.

[@marylohan2001]

You have a cleaner !,That is it ..

[@user-mf4xc1dw5y]

The fact that we all have a perspective/purpose and calling that is God given spoke to me. We have respected that to different degrees through our 32 year marriage but it was good to be reminded of it so thank you. Looking at Christian history and the lives of famous and not so famous Christians proves that statement. Thank you. Prayer together too is so important definitely !! Thank you for your testimony together. 😉

[@handmade4146]

God bless this family 👪

[@renagodfrey2138]

Three is so important. Absolutely the most important thing is no secrets.

[@marythomas6543]

Wise, funny, and precious. Y’all are the real deal. Congrats on 20 years! My husband and I are looking toward our 12th wedding anniversary and our 21st year together. Communication, adoration for each other, time together, and humor are what make us work.❤️

[@yvettelocadia6656]

Super, I really enjoyed this couple. They are a blessing especially for their children.

[@valeriamilner5185]

Great advice and encouragement!

[@coastalfarmhouse1820]

This is such a great video. Wish all the world could see. It’s what I tell my kids - find someone with your values and beliefs #1.

[@rhoadestraveled]

You both look like kids in your wedding photos!! You compliment each other well! Great advise my husband and I have almost been married as long as both of you.

[@emilyblaich4846]

We had bed times too. My parents were adamant about that. Not just for our rest, but for them to have time for conversation, date night at home, etc.

[@tinaclark5853]

Very informative and helpful Solo reminds me of myself 😃searched for better words and he carries himself as a Pastor with his mannerism 🏆 Awww

[@blissfularrogance3529]

You are both lovely people who make a lovely couple. My husband and I have always been so happy driving around and talking. Better than a Broadway show . God bless you both and your sweet family.💝

[@WandaKay4u2c]

LOVED how you approached this in such an approachable way! Praying it helps many families!

[@carinshick2849]

Out of all of the channels I am subscribed to yours if the absolute favorite that I look forward to. You both give such great advice on so many parts of life. I love watching you and your family. It's really great to see "real life" on youtube

[@australiapleasants1574]

the one thing that stuck out to me was respecting each ones calking! my husband is not as verbal as I am but he does and I do respect each others profession and calling!

[@cherylcee3050]

You guys were made for each other! God continue to bless you both with double portions!! 💖

[@cynthiafeldberg4782]

We have been married for close to 40 years and we are still in love. We have fought, extended family has been some of our biggest difficulties, but we have persevered. We too appreciate each other for our differences and the strengths that each of us brings to our marriage. We used to practice date nights and it was fun, must get back to that. My Husband says the most thoughtful things at times, he's not a chattie person, but years ago he said to me, when my sister and I were being "catie" or not nice, he said "I may not always like you but I will always love you ". That was an important awareness for me. We have helped each other to be better people.

[@ashleymcdonald9490]

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[@coastalfarmhouse1820]

You guys have a marriage and rule book to emulate for a great marriage. No one is perfect but it’s a wonderful blueprint. Thank you for this video.

[@haileyharborth1747]

The quarterback and running back analogy is great!

[@georgiapring2505]

Such a beautiful family sometimes I don’t prey but as soon as I wake up I thank god for the morning day everything I wauld love to hear yourservive

[@ermajones2519]

God ordained marriage and the family unit. Praise God.

[@stephaniegreene539]

Hello Sarah and Solo, really enjoyed listening to you guys, you are so loving to each other, you have a beautiful family. I have 2 loving daughters, both working and taking care of me, I am 63. my husband died 4 years ago. I love watching you and the kids. blessings to you and your beautiful family. love you guys. 🥰🌹🤗🙏🇬🇾

[@ladyt4062]

Y’all are a beautiful couple and y’all have shared awesome advice! This is helping me in my 32 year marriage !

[@Godismystrength1725]

You two are an inspiration, I'll be sending this to my husband! We have 4 kids and been together for 11 years!! I can't wait to see how far we've come by the 20th year!!

[@mrsc1952]

beautiful couple....beautiful marriage....beautiful children.....all because two people loved the Lord and one another. You are an inspiration

[@lindaprenger7572]

I agree that faith is so important in your marriage. You are such a beautiful couple thank you for being a shining example to us all!

[@marywells1197]

My husband and I will be married 29 years in September. He is my best friend! We can talk about anything. If we have a bad day, always talk about it which helps! I believe honesty is important in marriage.

[@brendapaul5950]

You are so equally yoked. God Bless. Your channel is a blessing.

[@hoosierladyus48]

Hi Sarah and Solo. I don't comment much, but this topic really touched my heart. I was married for over 30 years and it ended bad. I loved the man I married (of course) but at the end, I couldn't stand the sight of him or his Mother. If you don't want this posted Sarah or Solo, I understand. This is what I am trying to get at. I was in love with a black man, but I knew if I married him, my family would have nothing to do with me, so I married the white man. I cry all the time because I know I made a big mistake. I ask myself all the time, why did you let your family come between who you really wanted to be with and who they wanted you to be with. Thank you Sarah and Solo for sharing your story. Even though I am older than the two of you, you are very uplifting to me. God bless you and your family. Forgot to add, I love the photos!

[@GrowWhereYouArePlanted]

Thank you for the beautiful video. It is lovely seeing a couple united in their love for the Lord.

[@whitney2042]

Oh my word! Solo could be Judah’s twin in you wedding photo!

[@caroldedeurwaerder2660]

You both are the sweetest sharing the true raw inner workings of a beautiful loving marriage thru our heavenly father. Thank you.

[@joycedavis8772]

Thank you both, I appreciate you both. It is about UNITY, with I Am That I Am, Yashuah and Ruach and each other🙏💕🤗

[@irishlovely8867]

I’m single and I love your message and your family!❤️

[@PaullaWells]

It is so apparent that you two have learned a lot over the years. I really do admire y'all. I'm going on 51 this year so to me that is saying a lot.

[@irenekilili6969]

You two are fabulous. Thank you for sharing your lives with us.

[@robinvarnadoe7434]

Wow, Solo has changed so much since that wedding photo.

[@ladyt4062]

My husband is a pastor as well, and it’s definitely can be rewarding and trying.

[@cathyleeper1365]

I love the way you look at him.

[@KayeCarterTV]

My husband and I have been married for over 33 years and one thing about our marriage is we have always communicated. Communication is so very very important. If more couples would listen to each other, and not want to argue, but communicate it would be more marriage’s that survive. Sending hugs, love, prayers, kindness and smiles. By the way U2 have great smiles.❤️🙏🏼👍🏼🌹

[@Lifeisgoodat66]

We have been happily married 43 years ( just 3 kids , all married 🥰🥰) ( 4 grand kids🥰🥰) . Every marriage has up and downs, life is life, but communication is the key for us, faith and kindness and love 🥰🥰 I love your channel , stay blessed 🥰🥰

[@Barbaracoyle]

amen, respect

[@judykelly5358]

Thank you for sharing , you are not only blessed, but are a blessing to others xx

[@cherylwass6596]

Love the pictures ❤ Great to see the progression of the kids..Communication is the key, too .Happy 20th Anniversary ❤❤❤ ( almost) "Fight together " ...words to live by,Solo ❤❤❤