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@lika_psy8 күн бұрын
I believe these tactics are also used by psychopaths. As they say not all narcissists are psychopathic but all psychopaths are narcissistic.
@lisafredericksen16969 күн бұрын
I grew up in a family of narcissists, control freaks, pathological liars, etc. I LOVE your work, Danish! More people need to hear what you have to say, because IT'S TRUE. You bring First Hand knowledge from your experiences to light for so many. God Bless you, my friend. ❤
@helenjoyzagury9 күн бұрын
Put up with all of this for 43 years. Thank god divorced him three years ago. You’re videos are really helpful thank you for sharing
@johnevemerton8 күн бұрын
Astonishing video as always, at first i wasn't really into watching such relationship experts video, but it turned out to be a blessing in so many ways, 10 years ago i was with a narcissist and i broke things up 4 years ago, found someone who truly cared for me and i messed things up because i was trauma bonded. then i started watching a lot of you tube videos and some Christian videos about relationships and marriages, i learnt a lot, and something actually happened as well, i was able to get my ex back with the help of watching Matthew Hussey and Courtney Ryan videos and reaching out to a spiritual counselor.
@sherryanderson-y2p8 күн бұрын
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i have been battling with a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended a year ago, and till now, i am still in the crossroads on what to do, it is really sad
@johnevemerton8 күн бұрын
offcourse, it is always difficult to let go of someone you love , like i said, i watched so many helpful videos, but the key was the spiritual counselor
@sherryanderson-y2p8 күн бұрын
What spiritual counselor? how can i reach him or her?.
@johnevemerton8 күн бұрын
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex
@sherryanderson-y2p8 күн бұрын
Couldnt find her on youtube, but saw her website online, i will reach out. thank you.
@Shve18-o6x9 күн бұрын
They insult in all ways possible 😔
@mullapatisubbu82049 күн бұрын
Right
@jamesdaugherty80429 күн бұрын
absolutely get nastier
@priyakarthic14069 күн бұрын
😢 s very true.. today it happened to me...
@aloksrivastava79389 күн бұрын
Insults only work if you receive them. If you don't react, much like unaccepted parcel, insults too are returned to the sender.
@norcal10099 күн бұрын
Yes, very negative
@vikkara20439 күн бұрын
They hate when you “don’t listen” to them! Like your some little kid!
@Loveyours339 күн бұрын
Right I am a whole 34 year old..... who are you talking to? 😂
@cjoy20249 күн бұрын
That's when they flip and now they're acting like a little kid and you're the adult as you always have been 😂
@cjoy20249 күн бұрын
They are delusional and the child lol
@vikkara20439 күн бұрын
@@Loveyours33 it was crazy! I used to tell him I’m a grown 39 year old woman, you’re kidding right lol!
@AAron-gr3jk9 күн бұрын
Pretending to sleep (at any hour of the day) so they don't have to interact with you should be on this list.
@karta43457 күн бұрын
Danish pointed out in another video that they also make a lot of noise while you are sleeping disturbing your sleep then acting all innocent. Using sleep as a weapon either defensively as you suggested or aggressively seems to be in the narcissists arsenal.
@karenchandler47177 күн бұрын
This comment right here! 🔥🔥🔥
@sedwards74289 күн бұрын
People dont want to believe that someone is a narcissist: so we cannot warn or tell people
@Mo0shii8 күн бұрын
Showing with action, make them aware, def possible. The old shine a light on them
@susanrarey43079 күн бұрын
Danish, I think you are brilliant. I learn so much from you.
@azya59948 күн бұрын
I started keeping them at distance now. All of them.
@beverlybuckhorn91688 күн бұрын
When they hurt you they act like see how you are, but in reality all they've done is betray and alienate the only person that really loved them not their money
@malteserjones15029 күн бұрын
My in-laws claim my children aren’t their sons. Then they were shocked when we stopped talking to them 😂
@abowling57598 күн бұрын
So typical!….they’ll say mean things to you and treat you like crap, and then have the nerve to wonder why you don’t want anything to do with them…..
@Jane-2-n7k9 күн бұрын
I find that it roughly takes about 6 months on average to get figured out. Usually things start to change after about the 3rd month. That’s usually when the supply starts noticing that the fantasy world the narcissist built up doesn’t seem so prestine anymore. This is one of the reasons that narcissists jump from partner to partner so often. They need a constant supply because at some point they get figured out and lose that one. They need to make sure they always have people around to pet their ego and feed their cravings. The narcissist always wants to be the one doing the breaking up. They don’t like to be left by their partner. Therefore, they will often try to beat you to the punch and move on to the next person long before you even have the chance to leave. I know I did. If I even suspected any type of emotional distancing from my partner, I would begin getting ready for the next person. A narcissist is a master of manipulation mainly because they are masters of understanding human behavior. Narcissists may not be good at expressing emotion but what they are good at is understanding other people’s thoughts and emotions. They play on others’ emotions therefore, their understanding of it is profound. They may not understand why you feel a certain way (such as mad at them, hurt by them, etc). However, they do understand that you will feel a certain way because often they understand certain traits about you better than you understand yourself. For instance, they know that if they hurt you, you will forgive them like you always do They know that getting your best friend to vouch for them is a good way to win back your trust, etc. They know exactly what buttons to push and when to push them because they know what your reaction will generally be. Therefore, if you are acting differently than you normally would, they will notice. If they sense any kind of distancing, they will leave fast before you are able to hurt them. They will try to regain ground by trying to win back your loyalty only to rub in your face that their next partner is better and makes them happier. It’s all a mind game they are playing. They must win at all costs. If you ever have an advantage in that mind game, expect them to try to close that door fast. Additionally, If you need to uncover the truth about a cheating narcissist, send your request to MetaspyHub@gmail. com for discreet and effective assistance.
@MMMC-z8y6 күн бұрын
There are a lot of signs before the 6 month mark if you know what to look for. Often you can see it immediately in them.
@remhk66729 күн бұрын
Don't underestimate how insidious they can be!
@kimbee17189 күн бұрын
I'm a SURVIVOR ❤‼️, can't believe I fell for it 🤣
@aycaerakbas9808 күн бұрын
❤ makes both
@lynxuptin28929 күн бұрын
Not only overt ,covert ,vulnerable or malignant narcissists, we must also know about the lesser , mid range and greater narcissists too in order not to fall for narcissism again
@cabot1009 күн бұрын
"If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it probably is a duck"
@norcal10099 күн бұрын
Although there seems to be a colorless "spectrum" of these mentally ill people, they share many of the same negative and sadistic behaviors that can be easily recognized. Once challenged, the narcissist will start showing their illness on the outside, making it more detectable by people, even if it's the first time meeting one.
@norcal10099 күн бұрын
@cabot100 exactly 💯 😂
@Azueu58 күн бұрын
@@lynxuptin2892 It's a good point!!👌 Thanks.
@CarolKatongo55 күн бұрын
Whatsoever they r all sick
@moirakamara47196 күн бұрын
You're so accurate. They want you to leave projects unfinished. They will provoke you with words for you to react.
@beverlybuckhorn91688 күн бұрын
It backfires on them people aren't as dumb as a narcissist thinks everyone is
@geertana67799 күн бұрын
Nice explanation sir i am married to a narcissistic family and my father is also a narcissist ,narcissist love only money they have no respect for humans and ignoring them have brought me some peace of mind
@suesue95788 күн бұрын
They love money and status! Power is everything to them .
@muma65596 күн бұрын
Wow Danish! You're in the thick of it. I have respect for you. Thank you for your courage and guts to share your experiences. I always felt you knew the subject matter expertly. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Stay strong. God bless.
@manjulashukla53928 күн бұрын
Mimicking is definitely true.....
@lovelytunes4me9 күн бұрын
Experienced all of them thousands of times.
@michaeldaniels90809 күн бұрын
This is starting to happen in my relationship with a covert Christian Narcissist, who happens to be my wife. Thank you for exposing this traits of behavior.
@MsRapture108 күн бұрын
Sadly you are not alone. I grew up in church and realize I’m surrounded by them including my former pastor. These people are lurking everywhere. It’s very sad
@danielwildeboer13828 күн бұрын
If the narcissist calls himself “Christian” and is from a religious background, this is an aggravating factor. The religious environment is a breeding ground for narcissists (and all the Cluster B scum). They are the wicked that the Bible warns about.
@cindys.96888 күн бұрын
Danish, you aren't only a schooled expert, you are a LIFE expert. You are smart because life made you that way. I'm sorry you had to go through all of the narcissistic abuse you did. As a child it's so hurtful and confusing. I've been hurt a million times by narcissists. Home, work, & church. At work I had someone trying to diminish me, put me down, act better than me. Trouble is, her TITLE put her above me. Not her performance, tho, as she slacked, and I didn't. I was fed up but went about work life normally. One day she "told" me that I was going to stay after work for 15 mins to do something she was supposed to do but she was going to do something else. I told her 'no'. Legally I had the right to. I'm not expected to work even 1 minute past quitting time. I left to go home and she had to deal with it. Sure, act like I'm 'less than' her, never acknowledges anything good...and I'm going to do her a favor?! Nope.
@salvatorethomas95467 күн бұрын
I've taken for granted how much I do know about narcisism. You said something.. You said your family does watch your videos.Blew my mind. Glory To You!
@aloksrivastava79389 күн бұрын
Sometimes they make unsuspecting and innocent people their pawns. And these innocent people end up unknowingly backstabbing you. Be cautious of even the innocent people who are in contact with them. Any one who's in contact with narcissist can and often is used by the narcissist to harm you. Narcissists are quite cunning and they often come up with elaborate schemes to harm you.
@cherierhynes85149 күн бұрын
Yes. They are called flying monkeys. Think w.o.oz.🎉😮😊
@aloksrivastava79389 күн бұрын
@@cherierhynes8514 I meant the people other than the flying monkeys (or the people who don't do the bidding of a narcissist). They may still harm you unintentionally, if a narcissist keeps them occupied when you really need them.
@kve12479 күн бұрын
Oooohhh u are always so on point! Thank u Danish & God bless u!!
@abowling57598 күн бұрын
You are absolutely right. Anyone in contact with the narcissist can be very dangerous…
@makiziwe8 күн бұрын
Some of these so-called innocents are narcissists-in-waiting. My younger sister, the golden child, completely shocked me when she turned out to be my mother's handiwork. One of many incidents which stood out to me was one time I wanted to use my mother's car to go over by a friend and my mother looked at my sister for permission lol. My sister then told me that there was no reason for me wanting to go by a friend at this time of the night (it was around midnight), that to stop confusing HER mother about using the car. I was 30 at the time and my sister was 24. You would think the way she spoke to me that I was mentally challenged (not that these people deserve to be spoken to like that) but you would never believe that I was a competent person. The most intelligent in the family, the first to achieve any kind of academic accolades from valedictorian to first to go to college, etc. This is now more than a year I havent spoken to any of these "innocent" people because they allowed themselves to be manipulated by my narcissistic mother. And with my sister, who can do no wrong in the family's eyes, turning into a covert narc, these innocent people have since doubled down about the way they treated and ostracised me. No one is innocent in this dynamic.
@TamekaBuckley-h8e9 күн бұрын
This is so true, in any way, shape, or form.
@chrissybailey82698 күн бұрын
I'm going through a narcissistic abuse pick up on it 4 weeks ago I thought something was wrong with me but after I came across these videos I realized what I'm going through and taking a stand,now the narcissist started the smear campaign.
@sandrastaton196 күн бұрын
You are so encouraging! Thank you for your videos. I admire your strength and courage and your openness about your own emotional abuse. I grew up thinking that I was crazy, that something was wrong with me because my Christian mother surely wouldn't sabotage my life and cause me harm in any way. But she did. I'm still healing, but I don't think I will ever be emotionally whole. Sometimes I feel like an uncontrollable monster inside. A monster I can never tame. A monster that claws its way out when I'm overly stressed, or hurt. A monster that never dies. I hate feeling and being this way. Your videos help me a lot. Thank you!
@karta43457 күн бұрын
This video is spot on. I guess the narcissist in my life knows he can't manipulate me because he does all those things.
@RisingwaterR7 күн бұрын
7:13- is a protest of its own- deserves a whole newspaper 👏👏
@marijakinkela86109 күн бұрын
The pattern you presented I experienced from my boss before I left that place. She was after me because I didn't join to end someone else whome she couldn't manipulate. There were seven people when she become manager, five ran away, two were days away fro pension so they choose to wait and suffer. That women was already known as pure evil.
@cherylanne-zq9sr9 күн бұрын
Society is riddled with narcissism. It's been normalized and anyone not 'playing the game' gets devoured and called stupid while being impoverished. Civilization can not be based on deceit and piracy, no matter how craftily narratives are layered over the crimes of lying and stealing - exploiting. Our values value loot, and life is just a resource to use up to get it. We have created a Civilization founded on consuming and never give back defines a parasitic/predator relationship dynamic. Trust gets devoured and ridiculed as gullible; yet trust must be the foundation of freedom just as lies have proved throughout history, repeating endlessly because we refuse to learn, to be the foundation of tyranny, which always, every time, dies a miserable death, morals rotted, God/life-affirming values just another resource to loot. How many chances does humanity get before we're judged a lost cause and swept off the gameboard altogether? The other species on the planet are hard pressed just to survive - we talk and talk and monitor, but in half a century, they still don't make biodegradable fishing line. No, that stuff kills year after year for decades, entangling around Canada geese feet and wings, hobbling them until they finally die - except for the occasional one I manage to catch and untangle and cut the lethal stuff away. Humanity just doesn't care unless it returns an immediate thrill or a buck. We do not deserve dominion over Earth; we have woefully failed to shepherd life, choosing to stomp on it instead. At some point, Satan's gonna' want to cash in all His chips.
@adityabahadur30489 күн бұрын
may God bless you brother
@PatGusoff9 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this information. It's like looking into their mind and learning their game plan. Love it!
@casperinsight35248 күн бұрын
"They want to destabilize you without being obvious" Covert tactic Reverse compliments and negging to undermine your confidence
@maryruther18429 күн бұрын
Very insightful truths ~ thank goodness for your willingness to share your knowledge! Thank you ~ you’re helping more people than you know. ♥️
@ChariotDestiny9 күн бұрын
I'm at this stage.😊
@casperinsight35248 күн бұрын
Let the healing begin 🙏🏼❣️🕊️
@marem18426 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your life And story with us. It takes courage and many of us appreciate it 💛
@Aniketgorade92929 күн бұрын
everywhere i looked, people were mentioning this book in comments, and even a friend brought it up. i ignored it for a while, but curiosity got the best of me, and i finally tracked it down. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t what i expected-it was so much better. two weeks later, i’m attracting the kind of energy i’ve always wanted. my relationships, health, and even my work have all leveled up. i see now why everyone was raving about it.
@CYCO16319 күн бұрын
I've known for a long time that my boss is a Narcissist. This video suggests an explanation for a new behavior that came up yesterday, and I suppose has come up before. I left work joking to myself that my boss needs to 'pick a personality and stick with it.' Either he's Jekyll, or Hyde... I'm sure for him, trying to be both in the course of an 8 hour day for the purpose of fueling his need for supply must be exhausting... but he does it anyway! I've gotten to the point where I just ignore him most of the time. Drives him crazy :)
@Deborah-uw5ip8 күн бұрын
Experienced all of the traits pointed out by Danish. But I had a recent small victory with a backseat driver. I was finally able to have a comeback that didn't diminish myself and it shut up the mouth of the narc: I was driving, she exclaimed: "There's a bus!" I replied: "Oh, good you noticed that--I was temporarily blinded! But how did you know, must be genius!"
@vanessagovender70149 күн бұрын
Oh... the tactics..... Blackmail... Threaten to scream on top of their voice... Curse...etc...
@KK2squared8 күн бұрын
Thank goodness someone helped me see that my Dad is a “reactive abuser”. I thought it was just me or that I was crazy. Thank you Danish for making this clearer for me. It’s really hard to wrap my head around how much he hates me and Mom But he has done this all my life. Now that Mom is gone, he is worse. Working on NC so he has upped his demands for my attention.
@keirachirello91959 күн бұрын
This definitely describes my Mother 💯holidays and being around family members she excluded me and my family. She also lies ,copycat , manipulative, gaslighting, competes for all attention. Horrible behavior. I can’t do anything only avoid confrontation.
@michaelajoseph68569 күн бұрын
The last two most of the time but the other ones too. Thank you!
@ivonkwAn64439 күн бұрын
Do you have a video on how to protect children from the manipulation of a narcissistic parent who uses this tactic when the other parent has set boundaries and is no longer being manipulated? Thank you
@AbiYah3339 күн бұрын
Yes please! My narc husband has stopped interacting with me because I have set boundaries, but he still interacts with our children. He leaves the house everyday, doesn't even tell me when he will be back, BUT he tells my children. Just so that they will grow up and remember that he did actually tell someone when he was coming back. Just not his wife!!! 😤
@beverlybuckhorn91688 күн бұрын
No reason to get upset or revenge just sad they wasted what would have been a happy life and a good relationship
@Azueu58 күн бұрын
I discovered you a week ago. You're a great professional, Danish. I'm learning a lot!! Regards from Spain🤗
@MaryEne-bv2hd4 күн бұрын
She started waking up same time as me,she started loving the things and places I love things that makes me feel unique and I felt like am not special anymore
@namastesuz95549 күн бұрын
Terrific insights- experienced an attack through my spouse to undermine our relationship - they avoided/manipulated me & others precisely as you described because of the threat I posed. The mask is off & real fight has just begun.
@MsRapture108 күн бұрын
Danish.. your videos have so much insight into the depths of this disorder and your always accurate. Can you create a video on the narcissist who continuously destroys your property to cause reactive abuse? My partner continues to destroy belongings of mine when he knows I hold that item with particular regard or value, hides receipts when he knows I want to return things and flat out disappears anything that has any significance in my day to day life even if small and seemingly meaningless . How do I keep trying to ignore when he’s costing me thousand?! Trying to get out but it’s not that easy for some
@TroyM7779 күн бұрын
I’ve experienced all of them
@psychonautgrl9 күн бұрын
U look fantastic Danish!!! Love this set up as well, very clean + chic
@meabeck9 күн бұрын
Thank you, Danish Bashir. Excellent video.
@deepaligupta97538 күн бұрын
This was the best video , the most truthful one , I have ever come across. Thanks Bro
@matikramer96488 күн бұрын
I am in difficult period so my head not really on my shoulders, can't focus yet, but these were to many narcissistic people in my life... All 5 things are too much familiar They did all of that and more... Many years later people told me, and while I was just innocent about narcissism, narcissistic people told me about it themselves.... Funny thing now when I'm remembering about it...
@nialkelly75828 күн бұрын
Excellent ... and timely! Jah Bless [Peace in Jerusalem]
@yuu_miran8 күн бұрын
I have experienced all of these
@lynshively59808 күн бұрын
All and more . But never again 😊
@cherylberk4593Күн бұрын
Love you, Danish! Correct as usual❤️
@jananabanana31806 күн бұрын
You are SO RIGHT.... THANKS....😊❤
@priyakarthic14069 күн бұрын
Wen i was doing my household chores... my NARCCICISTIC NEIGHBOURS started again blah, blah....blah...thy smehw made every one in my street..to believe that character 😔 is bad..... feeling sad...still thy provoke me, doing blackmailing... joining a group against me.... by the way ...after one month of ur videos ...i understood that these peoples are expecting me to react them 😅bt am not ready to prove them....or justify their false accusations... instead...i keep on moving forward in my life...not clicking the bait.😜... .. as per ur advice @Danish Sir... My Mentor 👆
@BosToxic-j1w9 күн бұрын
Sir I am very grateful Thanks to your video I am very helped in my life I am not lying sir I swear to God Thank you for saving me Sir I want you to continue making videos that save others God bless and love you sir Amen I also love you sir Then when I watch your video I am always very happy Because you always give me a way out and what steps I should take Anyway, thank you very much sir Thank you Love you
@KK2squared8 күн бұрын
All of them.
@nandusingh48669 күн бұрын
t felt like this book was following me-every comment section, every convo with my friends, someone was bringing it up. i wasn’t even planning on reading it, but the curiosity got to me. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki was hard to track down, but now i get why so many people were talking about it. within two weeks, my confidence shot through the roof, people started noticing me in ways they never did before, and my goals feel so much more within reach. it’s wild how fast things shifted.
@cherierhynes85149 күн бұрын
I agree w/ these comments. You are a great counsel and details impeccably accurate. Love listening to your voice; its among my favorite morning ritual.🎉❤
@TheNid088 күн бұрын
Thank you. Good information.
@writer19865 күн бұрын
I used to work with a narc who used all these tactics bc I saw right through her & didn't befriend her. She even got upset when I turned down her offered support for a project. I couldn't trust her and that was her doing. I ignored until her smear campaign got out of hand. Then she fled the company after I told a supervisor about the treatment I've been enduring from her and her flying monkeys.
@amidstheroses9 күн бұрын
Slander campaign among your mutual colleagues!
@annamarietaljaard11938 күн бұрын
THEY ARE VERY MEAN!
@MaryEne-bv2hd4 күн бұрын
You said no lie Everything you said is correct I experienced everything
@cracker39249 күн бұрын
Insult your personal character
@АннаПозднякова-к1о9 күн бұрын
Дякую,Даніш! ( Odesa, Ukraine) Thank you, Danish
@m.sathwik13879 күн бұрын
i swear, every time i scrolled through youtube, someone was talking about this book. at first, i thought it was just overhyped, but then even my friend mentioned it, so i had to check it out. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t easy to find, but man, it was worth the search. in just a couple of weeks, i’ve seen huge shifts-people treat me differently, my confidence is on another level, and things in my life finally feel like they’re falling into place
@Life-dn4lc9 күн бұрын
Exactly 💯 my Husband and my MIL they follow all the five tactics but now in 2025 i won't give a damn about them
@michelleharkness75499 күн бұрын
For the record- Danish : btw: thank you 😊: again: thank you 😊
@seameology9 күн бұрын
My daughter "doesn't remember her childhood ". She completely wiped out my existence. If she remembered it, it would show what her father did. She wouldn't be able to kiss his butt for all his money. Therefore, I don't exist.
@cherierhynes85149 күн бұрын
I saw it go down exactly same w/ all my siblings putt8ng on a big act w/ $bags dad and even took my mother went down. They wanted it all. And they got it. Greed well am not impressed.❤
@ranibandhu9 күн бұрын
All of it I experienced 😂
@lauriedaly94589 күн бұрын
All 5! 😮
@taratarat58188 күн бұрын
Sound like my narcissist mother and her sister... They keep the family at odds for their agenda, they bait ruckus all the time as well as say anything out their mouths to others and play victim.
@aycaerakbas9808 күн бұрын
They are soooo phony OMG
@manoncote31319 күн бұрын
Dr. Peter Salerno talk on KZbin that brain scans of narcissists are different from those of normal people (like psychopats). Could you talk about this? Thank you!
@spdadventurer17549 күн бұрын
I think thats what my mother is been doing since my narc father died. She is also a narc but she is also a narc and now that her narc partner in crime is no more she is supporting me
@manienieuwenhuis36239 күн бұрын
I was involved with one of our projects, doing site visits throughout the year, even on weekends, but when the ''roof wetting'' happened I was not invited. I was also left to feel irrelevant.
@theendtimesarehere9 күн бұрын
Pray *Psalm 55:15 (KJV)* upon them every single day of their life!! …But I pray constantly against the wicked and their deeds. Psalm 141:5 (NLT)
@mw64349 күн бұрын
Ys experiencing all these .narcissist son is making people against me and loged a false complaint against me posing like I am a criminalbut truth is he is jealous of me because he fail to control me
@riddhidharaiya50328 күн бұрын
They create the highest version of hell as much as possible.....what else they can do??
@monicarai14978 күн бұрын
Oh they become super vindictive.. but you have to be ready for that hatred when you choose to protect yourself. They will not be happy or self reflect or even see where they went wrong.
@cjoy20249 күн бұрын
They say , YOU ARE DAMAGED lol
@gracemwangi80759 күн бұрын
Oh yes! Danish, I have gone through this.
@BuryTheLight-yp4mc9 күн бұрын
I remember my ex and her parents on xmas, in their home in Italy. They all spoke French (my native language) but would all speak in ITA around me, then they'd tell me I should judt learn ITA if I wanted to be part of their discussions, only to go crazy when I would pull my laptop to start gaming and not giving a shit anymore accusing me of ignoring/disregarding them and being impolite. These ppl lol.
@abowling57598 күн бұрын
Yeah, it’s usually because you won’t play their games….
@Mo0shii8 күн бұрын
Culture i think, france are the same..if you know what i mean no offense
@droctorwho8 күн бұрын
Help! I take any advice… my mother is a covert narcissist who thinks she an empath…recently she was upset bc I was “wasting food” (I was eating deli meat with just cheese and she said bc I didn’t make a sandwich was wasting food… ma’am I’m grown, I have my own house and pay my own grocery’s) but she told me about the way she felt by saying “for me not to come over to her house bc she was worried her husband would think I’m taking food and being wasteful (I don’t eat at their house unless I buy food)” then she said her husband always asked why I was at their house when I come over (I guess I’m not allowed to come over, but when they need me I should have been there) any way I brought it to her husbands attention she said that she had never told me anything like that and made me look like a psycho to “come to someone’s house to argue…I said bc of her I have to defend myself… but then she says you always bring up the past (no I don’t there 2 horrible things her husband did that has not been resolved but as soon as I try to resolve I’m living in the past or not forgiving or forgetting) so a few things 1) how do I explain to her I’m not living in the past, holding on to things, or I take things the wrong way…it’s her not me 2) how do I not react to this person or what is a way to react that will throw them off balance so the abuse stops 3) she has stonewalled and blocked me at present and won’t take my calls (the thing is I turned 45 this year and I’m just tried and I don’t care enough to care what she feels about me but I do care what the rest of my family think and she gossips to the whole family about how bad I abuse her going so far to say I went to school so I could label her as narcissist (I have 2 masters degree in psychology and I didn’t know about her narcissist behavior until my therapist brought it up 5 years after my degrees) Last, how can I get her where she will stop or what will make her stop….HELP PLEASE
@IFORGIVEYOU-r4d8 күн бұрын
Forgive the man who God sent you. He is a man of God, however words do have power. Seasons change, allow the change in you , become a true proverbs 31 woman and his family will love you. Become that Godly woman he fell head over heels in love with and he will do his part. After all, do you truly love this man? Then believe love never fails. 😊
@droctorwho8 күн бұрын
@@IFORGIVEYOU-r4d thank you I did forgive her and I still make contact I can’t believe God would want me to give up on my mother when God forgives me daily for my short comings it just hurts to know your mother can be so cruel
@lynshively59808 күн бұрын
Or pretend to help you when no one is around when you are so sick you are in deaths hands. While they may clean up have med stuff around but will not do anything really helpful for you , the clean up is for them and the view of the eats and your family to make it look like they have been there doing all they can for you while inside they are silently gleefully cuz they don't have to do anything but such up all the pity and mercy , and life insurance, and wait for the funeral to get over. Happened that way to me last week.
@SukhmaniSinghGill8 күн бұрын
Everywhere I go, People try to copy me and majority of them are narcissist snakes😂 I hate their existence 😂
@DavidCorbier-w8k9 күн бұрын
several ov dem, i experienced
@norcal10099 күн бұрын
They're everwhere 😂 I can see one a mile away ❤
@susanwarford42219 күн бұрын
My mother in law ripped me out of family photos to make me invisable. 😂😂😂😂😂
@PRACHIMISHRA-s7b9 күн бұрын
how to overcome with narcissist partner,what to do that she left me...because i'm handling with a guuy who is.narcassist.....what to do...??plss reply
@lovelytrejo66788 күн бұрын
I don't think you're stupid at all. I appreciate the things you say and im sorry about what you've been through. I believe in you.