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@y00578 ай бұрын
Every single thing you mentioned was what I fought for in my last relationship with the woman I loved dearly who I thought felt the same, she could barely fulfill the pointers you mention yet wanted to get married. Even bought our engagement ring but could not get my self to propose to her. She was simply very calculated in what she wanted and very controlling, we broke up last week Thursday after near 3 years. I am broken but know I was the reason this relationship lasted this long. Her needs were purely superficial and material based all I wanted was time together and love. I am so heartbroken at the minuet but hope 2024 brings better energy, it was toxic😪. Thanks for the tips! 🙏🏿❤️
@CHARLESMOYE-yw5et8 ай бұрын
Morning
@henrymcmiller25279 ай бұрын
I am twice divorced. I could not find the woman you are describing. I am retiring to the Philippines. I have traveled to the Philippines three times , and I have met a beautiful Filipina who has the qualities you are describing. My four retirements add up to $92000 annually. With the exchange rates, my Filipina will not have to work. I look forward to my new life with my Filipina.
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
Good luck. 🍀
@henrymcmiller25279 ай бұрын
@@JessicaOS Thanks. I anticipate that I will be very happy with my new life in the Philippines.
@SamcoSimiyu9 ай бұрын
We wish you all the best Sir
@ernestmalonkane86689 ай бұрын
Filipinas make some of the most respectful and family oriented women in the world. I honestly feel you're making the right move. I'm also leaning towards the Filipina space. I wish you true love ❤. Good luck Bro!👍🏻
@Brendan-059 ай бұрын
Good luck mate
@yassineelfellah66019 ай бұрын
Jessica, You are one of the few women out there who is completely fair when it comes to the situation of modern men, thank you so much for your videos and keep it up and greetings from Morocco !
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
Awww. I’m glad you think so
@socratessocratilis28469 ай бұрын
Glad for you brother, and I hope you two pull it off. Also,please don't allow her to be a casualty of your past traumas
@yassineelfellah66019 ай бұрын
@@socratessocratilis2846 Yeah I forgot the past and moved on, living the good life! thank you for your kind words
@troyehnisz99078 ай бұрын
I met a woman a few months ago and she is the first person that has provided peace and tranquility in my life
@mensahstephen70289 ай бұрын
Jessica you hit the nail right on the head. Thats why im not rushing into any form of relationship. Until you tick the boxes we keep searching hard. . Thank you Jess. Citifm listeners misses you
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
awwww stephen!! You know you can always find me here
@kolawolesamsonimoleayo11448 ай бұрын
My Relationship with women has changed ever since I started following you. Thank you for been an instrument for helping men to know and understand women. More Insight to dish more content come 2024. You are the best in this space.
@WasaHayilu9 ай бұрын
Hi,this is Wass,I am usually using ur discussions to help my students get a better listening skill and learn frequently used expressions but personally I am taking a real life lesson.thanks and keep it up.
@stevejameson93249 ай бұрын
Hi Pier, your prospective broadly speaking is correct. I would like to add to your paradigm and Jessica ‘s she mentioned in the beginning of this video what a strong woman brings to the table. True feminine nature when women are functioning from a place of wholeness , these are the character traits, loving, soft, affectionate, fun, playful, kind hearted towards their husband. These attributes is called strength without fear! When a woman is whole and has a healthy sense of self , and is not functioning from a place of collecting all hurts in life, and builds walls of pain that is projected, expressed through her internal emotional lense she views her marriage or relationship. Without those walls being dismantled, you will not see true feminine nature or character traits as I listed above. This is the harsh reality!
@therealmccoy87999 ай бұрын
You share such a interesting and factual thoughts on this topic and honestly has HELP me deal with the departure of the relationship I was just in with this woman that was lazy and I pray that a seed was planted as opposed to her being lost in the sauce.. pray 🤲🏾 she comes across your videos Jessie…peace and blessings to you and your family.. this was right on time for me bcuz had I stayed I would’ve resented her and I believe the message would’ve been lost if you will
@Cal_Bondzie9 ай бұрын
Now I am very sure that i was not expecting too much from my girlfriend. at least I have 4 points to discuss with this lady about what she can bring to the table. thanks ma'am
@alexanderegyir32229 ай бұрын
God bless you enormously Jess! You spoke with so much wisdom. I am absolutely confident that this information piece would help me make a well-thought out decision. Sending you Love!
@geofroyyekpe2008 ай бұрын
I really appreciate how you provide your wisdom and on the ground advices to people who need deep and significant relationships. It is nice to see that people are still wanting values and "traditional" conception of real love. Thanks again Jessica, Happy new year!!!!
@T.J.Kennedy-o8j8 ай бұрын
Jessica, I love your channel because there are no tricks, other channels are basically teaching men how to emotionally manipulate women and to be narcissistic monsters who don’t care about them. And causing women to be hurt in order to create emotional connection. This is manipulative and trauma bond behavior for both of them. But you talk about real legit relationships. I respect that. Causing trauma may cause a woman to be interdependent because of the bond and the abuse. People watch those guides because they aren’t looking for relationship they are looking for control and obedience. They aren’t looking for love they are looking for power and the ability to get their way. Real arguments and real situations will happen in a real relationship. You may go through things and being together you will grow a connection, but manipulative tactics are not the way to go. Your relationship will play out the way you allow it too, if you have to be someone you’re not and try to manipulate them to be with you, they’re not the one.
@dwaynejordan67508 ай бұрын
As a Man of a Certain age and after my Last failed Relationship I am Kool being Single and just Enjoying my Life at this Stage. Make self Happy first then Wait😊
@chumaobum444810 күн бұрын
Spot on, especially your insight on financial support! I've always argued that the traditional breadwinner system, where one partner, typically the man, bears the financial responsibility, is no longer sustainable due to today's harsh economic realities. It's imperative that we embrace a combined household income approach. Thanks for echoing and reinforcing this crucial point!
@MackMapeto9 ай бұрын
Yes 💯agree..that's the true meaning of Being a helper or helpmet.. physically.. financialy..and soulical..
@ChisomAkahTV9 ай бұрын
You are amazing Jess! Thanks for inspiring me a lot this year like last year. God bless you immensely
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
i appreciate you
@tysonjames28849 ай бұрын
Jess, you're one of the realest true essences of inspiration & intelligence the way you break it down and balance it out its second to none ... thanks for your wisdom and knowledge... I'm looking forward to 2024 & beyond ...
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
@@tysonjames2884 your message makes it all worth it. I appreciate you
@Prynceyomi8 ай бұрын
Financial situation in relationship is very important. I have entered it and I'm being told it's your duty... But even if its 10% it goes a long way
@eyevincast54402 ай бұрын
She’s gotta know how to decorate the table. She takes it upon herself to make it beautiful adding good things to our table.
@weluvmusick8 ай бұрын
You and the older man are my two favorite relationships content creators keep up the good work
@michaeljewell539 ай бұрын
You could tick all the boxes Jess💯 wishing you a mega Happy New Year xx
@jamesarmstrongboyd68409 ай бұрын
Jess, i like ur logical reasoning and intelligence. 👍🏼
@customkittyliners8 ай бұрын
Very Insightful - Thanks
@tinokamutingondo18719 ай бұрын
Thank you Jessica.... You're our mentor and we appreciate you for that. Happy new year 🌹 🌹
@noorgonzalez10764 күн бұрын
Ephesians 5:28,29,31 Proverbs Chapter 31 Tyvm 👸🏽
@nanagyambibi7426Ай бұрын
Excellent video.....we men know these things in spirit but never has in been articulated....take notes fellas and find your Queen.
@petermoko87249 ай бұрын
I swear am getting inspired all the time I watch Jessica's video. Merry Christmas and happy new year in advance
@tadabright44619 ай бұрын
Happy New Year, Miss Jessica OS... Your tuition was helpful to me last year and I believe 2024 and beyond you are gonna bless me personally with details that will transform me to the brim. Enjoy 2024! 😊😊
@c.m.15138 ай бұрын
This was a good video! All points are true. I need to post this in some Facebk groups so the Jamaican women get a clue of their roles in a relationship! 😂
@garfieldlewis18089 ай бұрын
Watching from Jamaica🇯🇲🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
Hey hey!
@Subdue11091D8 ай бұрын
Jessica we love you. You are a treasure that should be protected & guarded jealously 😊. THANKS FOR THIS ONE.
@ardidsonriente22238 ай бұрын
Beautiful summary, very well thought and expressed. My only discrepancy with you is in qualifying sex as a "bonus". IMO humans are sexual creatures, and couples are sexual teams. Not including sex in the realm of intimacy leaves a huge gap that some people can ignore or overcome, but certainly not most. Also not including it opens the door for one of the most common and damaging problems for couples: sexless marriage. It doesn't need to be honeymoon fascination or animal passion, it doesn't need to be extreme, very frequent or perfect in any way. But unless you have a truly unique and outlier kind of romantic relationship, SEX HAS TO BE IN THE TABLE, and has to be maintained there with the effort of both partners.
@almanmosesdaywhea48948 ай бұрын
Yes! perfect said... 2024, there should be great things on the table which will grow and flourish the relationship... Thank you so much...
@hafidrihani36218 ай бұрын
At the end man should be always ready for moving on because woman emotions like waves up down suddenly she will tell you i need space😂.
@emmanuelagbafor2027Ай бұрын
Exactly bro😂
@oluwakoredeokeowo81359 ай бұрын
Thank you Jes....I'm very very big on loyalty 👏
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
Me too!!
@LionsPrestigeProperties-oh2gy8 ай бұрын
Wow very educative.God bless you
@craigdonley46768 ай бұрын
Wow this is powerful, thanks a million
@michaelg74569 ай бұрын
loyalty and partnership! Well said!
@lazyhounddogАй бұрын
Very informative. Thank you.
@xbillsmafiax94189 ай бұрын
YOU ARE THE BEST !
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
thank you
@etukudoodungide80688 ай бұрын
Your English is one of the best I have ever listened to. Your advices really helped me a lot. Thanks you.
@apenyodestiny80449 ай бұрын
Thanks dear your words are full of deep wisdom very deep
@denzelljosh82099 ай бұрын
Kudos jess.good point. Keep it up
@molorams37989 ай бұрын
Great content, much appreciated.
@samuel22mcofw529 ай бұрын
Jessica i will forever listen to your teachings❤
@user-yk5yu1nf8jАй бұрын
It's J; Thumbs Up Jessica!
@itherapywitholosagbejr81077 ай бұрын
I love this woman so much. Always spilling facts and truths 😘
@TheKingJoseph8 ай бұрын
Pulchritude And Brains! African Queen Endowed With Supreme Emotional Intelligence! Happy New Year!!🤎
@paulosa99069 ай бұрын
All I can say right now is Thank you Thank you Thank you.
@larrywillard93168 ай бұрын
I agree with you 💯
@brianbrino43109 ай бұрын
A very very Happy New Year to You Jessica and all the people from Ghana! God bless you all!
@nanaepaphras47059 ай бұрын
Thank you Jess. An eye opening for some of us. I love you❤❤❤
@rahabmugambi76979 ай бұрын
Thank you dear.very important information.taking notes seriously ❤🇰🇪
@hybridinfodesk4099 ай бұрын
I am doing none of that, and men still appreciate me. Why? Positivity, maturity, appreciation, respect, and kindness. I'm myself, comfortable and confident. Normally, I do not ask people for help. But since being in Egypt, i do. The men here love women and are providers. I usually pay my own bills, but i can ask my Arab friends for assistance if I need to, but i don't. It's good to know i can.
@iOhJay8 ай бұрын
Not even loyalty? Must be nice 😂😂😂
@vensonleviticus9 ай бұрын
Jessica is the best mentoress ever ❤ I love your decency in your mentorship your. This is the best video ever about relationship of 2024🎉🎉🎉🎉 Happy new year to you Jessica
@camarageita81157 ай бұрын
Jessica Os is God sent. Thank you and keep up the good work.
@JessicaOS7 ай бұрын
Thank you, I will
@lakachanhassan45588 ай бұрын
Thank you for the insight Jessica. Happy New Year
@JoseCalderon-sb5ev8 ай бұрын
Hey Jess (if I may) I was told that when one person in a relationship is compromising it means that something is wrong. No one should compromise. I just don't think that's so, I'd like to hear your thoughts on this
@deborahochere92828 ай бұрын
Must listen and watch ladies ❤❤❤ Thank you Jessica. I grow up listening to you just glad you share this
@pierramunuku9 ай бұрын
Love you to bits Jess but disagree with the partnership element. A relationship has to have a leader and, no, the leader doesn't need to run decisions by you. Why? Because you trust them not to steer you to a ditch. No society in history has ever thrived with 2 leaders or 2 kings. There has to be a leader and the led. Masculinity finds its apex in leading, protecting and providing whereas femininity has its epitome in preserving what's built (the "standing by your side" as you mentioned with regard to loyalty). All in all, however, it comes down to the two of you and you can choose whatever you wish but the outcomes will also be a result of your choices.
@mfonwilson53808 ай бұрын
Amazing great video Jessy
@AJS-MESSAGES_TV8 ай бұрын
Dear Jessica I'm a man of God, but this video really blessed me personally.
@kennethyoung48929 ай бұрын
This is an excellent video
@humbleugoo83069 ай бұрын
You're really helping men. some men are lost. God bless you!
@teachersikhumbuzomoyo54198 ай бұрын
Very necessary &much needed woman for sure- this keeping your secrets yoh... can't find any
@annmarietucker17759 ай бұрын
A+ thankyou Jessica happy new year sweetheart stay bless you're an inspiration to us love & respect.
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
Happy new year
@mrb34838 ай бұрын
Often people get triggered when asked"what do you bring to the table" and those that react in a bad way are the ones that don't even bring one of you points,they think because they dress nice nice make up and on socials all day,they are the table,often carnt or won't cook or clean,that's why men like to live alone and live in peace,I could tell some story's,but don't want to light from your video,nice content.👍💯
@shenkexshenkes85928 ай бұрын
Jessi you too much..i needed this..its my birthday too..thanks for this video..God bless you! 🙌 ❤
@MuvaLaNegra8 ай бұрын
Happy birthday 🥳🎂
@shenkexshenkes85928 ай бұрын
@@MuvaLaNegra thank you !
@ogyaadow_jnr8 ай бұрын
Jessica and Patricia Obo Nai, my favorites 2❤❤. God bless you Jessy🙏🙏
@nyamlotha8 ай бұрын
Happy New Year, I have followed your episodes and honestly your tremendous work has changed my life in the faculties of my relationship
@gilbertayala10699 ай бұрын
Very well said & explain...
@godisamulti-racialhermaphr75609 ай бұрын
This is great!
@4hinson7778 ай бұрын
Happy New Year- Jessica Os You always keep it real 💯%😎
@mukisaenoch8 ай бұрын
am really so humbled for it were a great topic of discussion though offline but pure facts ,appreciations mrs jessie
@scoobydoo83309 ай бұрын
Thank u so much jess, ❤
@upgrade1015Ай бұрын
Peace… We want peace… A soft place to land. Especially the harder your man fights in the world to make a decent living the more he wants peace at home.
@re33709 ай бұрын
Blow my mind. A masterclass in life.👍💯
@Women-Support9 ай бұрын
It's quite understandable that women has her contribution to bring to the table. However, no matter how much she brings in, if there is no reciprocity. the relationship will suffer one way or another.
@Women-Support9 ай бұрын
Keep up the good work, Jessica👍
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
Thank you! Will do!
@JJ-hw8ob9 ай бұрын
Jesca.... POINT ON ! ❤
@MackMapeto9 ай бұрын
Your husband is blessed 🙏.. Jessica..sty blessed 🎉
@liammcgrath80769 ай бұрын
I haven't watched the video but I would say that i would be happy with a good assortment of condiments. Nothing too fancy
@truehearted22958 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. This is well thought out and very accurate. I WAS not sure what to look for in a woman as I grow into and become a High value man. You have clearly answered that thank you. (subscribed)
@JessicaOS8 ай бұрын
Wonderful! Thanks for the sub
@nixonmacelus44489 ай бұрын
Good vibes sister love it You should write a book about this
@YAR12193Ай бұрын
Hi can you also make a vid what a good man has to bring to the table? I want to improve myself but need to be sure i’m heading to the right direction
@gmatrki8 ай бұрын
Happy New Year 2024 🎉🎉🎉🎉
@arthurdejager17755 ай бұрын
This is a video i can rave about! I just wonder how to check myself
@SameulMartin5 ай бұрын
U nailed it sis
@maxHalie11328 ай бұрын
Thanks dear Jessica for sharing with us all that developmental and factual ideas on the daily life matters and love affairs in broader contextualisation. indeed u hve invoked us in mental and thinking capability development and as well as brainstorming our mindset .in relation with family affairs in general thanks so much.
@youowntheworld9 ай бұрын
I am a good man and I will be equally good to the woman I want that also wants me 📌
@aboudiop73599 ай бұрын
Hi Jessica. I really appreciate you from Bamako, it's in Mali, West Africa
@celumusandlangamandla17049 ай бұрын
Compliments of the New Year ✨️ 🎆 🎇 You're always spot on 👌 Jessica 🫡🫡💯
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
Happy new year!!
@dorothyholm88229 ай бұрын
I learn so much from your videos. Keep it up ❤
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
Thank you! Will do!
@AdP26148 ай бұрын
I do appreciate your videos.. Your wisdom is so refreshing.. Thnx Jessica 👍❤️
@DXLamar94019 ай бұрын
Happy Christmas and New year everyone❤❤
@topthinkug8 ай бұрын
Jessica is the boss lady I know The rest are pretending Thanks for your ideas 💡 as a young man starting to disturb ladies soon,I believe I will not mess up. Thanks for the knowledge
@TheAyanrinde9 ай бұрын
Finding this kind of a women nowadays can be a very daunting task.even to find a men as well it's a very difficult task ..
@PauloTheRealtor2548 ай бұрын
This is very relevant, thank you
@GuyDestin8 ай бұрын
Good evening Ms. Lady.
@themindsurgeon0079 ай бұрын
Happy New Year in Advance J. Os. I'm coming in better in 2023. 😍😍