5 TRUE Reasons Why Girls Play Hard To Get! (Untold Secrets To Female Behaviors)

[@ApolloniaPonti]

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[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Understanding that playing hard to get is often about testing your patience and intentions can save you from misreading her signals. Stay composed and confident.*

[@grit1679]

I'm a 35 year old man that consistently attracts much younger women (18-25 range), and I _constantly_ encounter Mind Game #2: Chase Me and Show Me You Are Worth It. I never do though, because that's _her_ frame, and I don't believe in it. I don't expect her to chase me either, I just expect reciprocation.

[@tommygunn6901]

Uh no! If any woman wants to act all immature, I'm bouncing. I care about my sanity way more than playing head games! She can kick rocks

[@pmbarro]

You literally described the girl I was seeing on every point. It's scary. I walked away.

[@TomFox1]

Cause it boosts their ego

[@loganpadayachee6048]

They have a low self esteem and are insecure

[@CarlosXPhone]

I have dated three of these "hard to get" traits. They are Gold Diggers, the inconsistent woman, and the major one is... the chaser. I DID chase her, but she makes things difficult. This is at the height of the internet dating boom. (2000's into 2015.)

[@jrod1382]

If there is anything I hate the most is mind games.Women needs to stop doing that.That is one of the many reasons that men stop going after them because of these games.

[@jaimenavarro6039]

Walk away and show her your worth. I’m dealing with this now, and it’s time to walk away.. She showed interest and once she got mine she doesn’t reply and leaves me on read. If she wants you let her come back. Easier said than done but 1 day at a time. Only made me want to work on myself

[@loganpadayachee6048]

As a single independent man a single women must be approachable if she is attracted to me if not good buy tickets for her there are many fish in the sea. They are not be all and end all period

[@tbryant024]

I don't think it's a secret how messy the dating world is right now. It will be a refreshing content if you can share your thoughts on how men can somehow overcome the insane standards that women have today. And also how social media and dating apps have tremendously damage the dating dynamics. I think it's impossible, but I would love to see you work your magic.

[@gman2015z]

I agree. The world has always been a rough place. Magazines and tv and movies influenced the dating world a lot. Now we have social media being the main influencer and ruining the perspective of reality.

[@tbryant024]

It all began with The Bachelor when it came on around 2003. My mom told me that a show like this is only trouble for the future of society. And she is right. It's only getting worse now with social media.

[@bbbubblegum1790]

This video really hits needles in my heart for how true I’ve been feeling lately trying to find a woman

[@ApolloniaPonti]

I'm sorry to hear that, but it doesn't have to be this way always! I would highly recommend you to join my membership, you can find real connections and community with other men who faced the same difficulties as you! I also do LIVES 3 times a month and answer questions in the group :) Here is a link to the 7-day free trial to my membership: membership.apolloniaponti.com/checkouts/membership-quarterly-7-day-free-trial/

[@gabbarr0079]

Women plays games after breakups too and tell you after breadcrumbs she intended to come back but you ruined it so that she can boost her ego for dumping you.

[@AlessandroGenTLe]

Sorry Apollonia, the moment she starts to speak to me about other men pursuing her, my automatic reaction is "Ok, fine, go with them..." and delete her from my like. I've had enough women in my life to see the troublemakers and those that will lose my respect in really zero time, and I'm not willing to deal, "cure" or anything with them. I'm a ISTP personality, so I don't get too attached to people and I'm easily bored by them. These behaviors don't make any good in that sense... My woman MUST be someone who I truly admire as personality and I've been attracted physically. If one of those 2 qualities lack, then it's a no-go for me and I'd better stay alone with my hobbies and friends.

[@paulcolin9071]

I move on or at least pull way back no chasing

[@loganpadayachee6048]

Exactly men also have self respect and dignity❤

[@debajyotimitra4305]

Very helpful thanks 😊

[@ApolloniaPonti]

You're always welcome!

[@PrezidentHughes]

And ppl wonder why so many men dropped out of the dating Ponzi scheme. 🙄

[@oh.boi.keepyaheadup]

Went to a gentlemen’s club & got hit in the eye w/ a stiletto trying to make it rain. she didn’t have the right size & flew off. Now it’s case of if the shoe’s fit you must acquit vs if the shoes doesn’t fit you must quit.

[@TomFox1]

I think I got like 4 out of 5 from 1 woman, this means she’s super toxic and manipulative.

[@erogarojoedareno4454]

First time subscriber lol😊

[@alushalblushi5216]

Hi Apollonia, I meet a girl a girl at work she is attractive, and I asked her to take her out the first time she said maybe the other day she said no the age is different and I said it’s ok pretend I didn’t asked you, and I moved on and I give space for about 2 weeks and her friends bugging me to hook me up with her and we exchange numbers and we start talking for three days. I’m supposed to be go out through the weekend but Friday she text me she said i don’t think so this going to work for her and I said good luck for her I’m wandering why she back to me and left is she going to come back all it’s over when I listened to your video, I found a lot of common in those steps thanks for your help here 👍

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you for sharing. Glad it was helpful!

[@gabrieljimenez5313]

my old neighbourhood/ gym crush frown at me , i return a stare and ignore her and then she give me chossing signals like preening combing her hair and pointing her body toward me and seems she wants to talk with me me when i was lefting the gym room . im confused about her.

[@nonenone6884]

so what matters more what she dose or her reason? to me what she dose is the only thing that matters. do we not judges do we not judge people by action?. if so then her reason dose"t matter.

[@tateasaurusrex911]

It's annoying, I just had happen to me. Now we are both not contacting each other. I'm not going out my way to contact her. I'm going to say her lose.

[@AlbertvsMagnvs]

you look so adorable behind that desk. idk why.

[@Gelato_21]

@10:12 Yess, I'm still watching Apollonia ❤

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Awesome!

[@azmike3572]

"We're playing those mind games...together." (John Lennon, 1973)

[@Farehaven]

This chick literally asked me for $200 to get her nails done.

[@goodbyecalifornia3567]

i've been dating a woman for 3 years and we live a good distance apart, so we only see each other on the weekends. When I bring up moving in together or her moving closer, she has excuse after excuse. I make about 3X her salary with an established business so I'm not able to move closer or in with her. The way I see it is I either have to be happy with this arrangement or I need to start shopping for someone new. Anyone ever been in this situation? I could use some advice. Thanks.

[@damanybrown5036]

She should make a solid choice or you should also make a move

[@gabrieljimenez5313]

why you want to move with her bro? all those things should be a proposal of her part. i think she is using you & have another guy... sorry, but a girl in your conditions wants to marry in 6 months of relationship . dont take it bad , but you could date another girl while still seeing her . probably if you shown her a little distance you will see her true interest in you. Love doesn't exists but you could take advantage of that. Girls wants to have fun dude! so you become a circus of experiencies.

[@thatlatinguy9039]

Yeah, she ain’t that into you. If she really cared about you, she’d break whatever barriers there are to be closer to you.

[@KrushgrooveOG]

3 years....that's long enough. And in your own words ."excuse after excuse"..so if she is not trying to take the next step..time to move on. Of course unless you are happy with the situation.

[@gilbert2303]

do you have any videos on how to get over my ex wife?

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Hi! I actually made videos about this! Search how to get over her on my channel videos.

[@bluewhale5367]

I mean these are things which makes dating harder specially playing hard types like gurll if you like any guy just go for it stop playing hard get cuz a normal person will think that you are not interested in them and hence leave you. Secondly stop comparing guys with your exes or different guys as this is disrespecting( not insecurity if you have brain ) and get angry every minute like a baby. Deal with your problem and if you can't handle it then just ask for it, don't throw your problem directly on men cuz they have also problems.

[@StylorCole]

Y'all women play too much for too long, we only live once

[@TomFox1]

Right!! hold toxic women accountable

[@ej7389]

Whats the key for number 2 ?

[@dougcoates4283]

Cancels at the last minute on plans. I feel it's to get a emotional reaction

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Then she is playing games and not very mature if she is canceling to get a reaction.

[@ericdavis681]

To your original point, not all women do these things. Focus on the high quality ones who don’t. Men should be supportive of their partners, but not therapists.

[@TomFox1]

4:06 TRIGGERED

[@KrushgrooveOG]

"The guy she likes, but doesn't have to much attraction for". That was confusing to me. Are you referring to physical attraction? If so then I wouldn't think the woman would like you.

[@michaelhicks8237]

Yeah she is doing this with 6 different guys. Let the other 5 have her

[@loganpadayachee6048]

Lol exactly 😂

[@gregmacklin9758]

This is just making excuses for a bunch of rude , damaged woman .

[@damanybrown5036]

Bringing her children on the date!

[@dallasdandy6276]

Nice to see you again. Are you pregnant!?

[@scottparker1055]

They play too many games and tests. Just stop it.

[@cognizantsapience]

I dont allow anyone to do this crap with me

[@franknoneofya9585]

Because they're immature

[@rogerward3390]

How to avoid this. Stay single

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Not all women play these games. :-)

[@TomFox1]

Yesss

[@dougcoates4283]

They all play head games

[@antoniopablotk1221]

​@@ApolloniaPontiBut you will avoid if you stay single.

[@ALFfan1]

If she says “I’m not that kind of girl” Just add “with you”

[@vaguzelian]

You are talking about Armenian girls 😂

[@damanybrown5036]

Where do they not do this as women in Venezuela? 😂

[@terrywilliams2349]

Women just loves playing games smh

[@jazziestoneprojekz1723]

Toxic

[@dmitry-tv]

are you pregnant?

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Yes. :-)