50 Xyoo Mam Pib Ua Nkauj Maiv~05/22/2024~

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Story description:

[@Joyfully321]

There’s nothing wrong with ua nkauj Maiv when you are older. Loving yourself and taking care of yourself is mentally and physically healthy. My concern about our older niam tsev ua nkauj Maiv is the way they dress and the way they act. There are many ways to dress like your age and look beautiful. I see many niam tsev dress/act like they are 16 year old. I understand you didn’t get to ua hluas nkauj but you have to understand, that part of your life has pasted. You can still have fun but have fun like an adult. Remember people judge you by your appearance. You could be the best wife, mother, nyab or friend but if you don’t dress or act appropriately; someone who doesn’t know you will not take time to get to know you, the wonderful person you are. Nco ntsoov peb cov niam tsev, ua nkauj Maiv tau kawg mas tabtsi do it gracefully.

[@lnchannel1186]

You raised your kids. You were a good nyab and wife. This is your time!! You go girl!!! I’m in my 40’s and I’m finally doing me too!! There’s nothing wrong with taking care of ourselves and looking good for us

[@PM-oe5mk]

I'm all for doing what makes you happy, but when you have children and your actions are embarrassing your children, then you are clearly going overboard with what you are doing. Adults can still have plenty of fun, but be responsible and know what is appropriate and what is not. Please, DON'T blame your children for your lack of fun and partying in your younger adult years when it was YOU who chose to marry super young and have kids at 16!

[@PajnyiagVwj0815]

Good for you, enjoy yourself, life is short so live your life to the fullest

[@nkaujkiabziag]

Yog kawg li o sister aws. Peb cov yuav txiv ntxov2 yog kiag li koj hais. As long as you and your husband are happy it doesn't matter what anyone says. Proud of you!

[@nickiengiayang]

50 is the new 30!!! Loving yourself at any age is beautiful!

[@cianavang233]

Yog kawg kuv nyiam li ko thiab os

[@MV-ct6nj]

Agreed! ❤

[@Vangrsky]

I think it’s awesome you are working on making yourself happy! Love yourself!

[@fatttydevine]

Good for you for taking care of yourself, love yourself, and enjoy every moment. I'm happy for you.

[@SuaLau-bv6yy]

Hais yog tshaj npaws li os tus me viv ncaus aw

[@maixiong5414]

Txoj no mas phim peb kawg

[@katexiong2732]

Sister do what makes you happy plus the money is yours. Happy for yourself.

[@nkaujtaujdubyang1878]

Nrog koj zoo2 siab os tus me niam tsev aw.. tub ko loj tas lawm tseem zoo2 nkauj thiaj muaj nqis os mog Kav tsij tsab raws li qhov yus nyiam nawj sij hawm tsis tshuav rau peb lawm Ua rau yus tus hlub xwb zoo kawg ❤️❤️

[@khashinglor3177]

I believe in growing old gracefully & respectfully in your golden years but more power to you for doing what you missed out on in your younger years.

[@tonglee4630]

Yg tshaj plaws li os

[@xaichang4754]

Hey sister, live to your fullest and enjoy. Looking beautiful is very important in a relationship. But it’s good u came around and love yourself. ❤

[@vubbieful]

You go girl! I understand you were robbed and deprived of your youth. You are not hurting anyone, you completed your responsibilities, and you are happy.

[@Fuii-qv3zz]

Txawm yog zoo li ko es ho tseem ua haib tshaj cov hluas lawm es cov me tub me nyiam pom ces xav mus noj tshaj tuag xwb os

[@thestoryofmylife6979]

Sister, you and I are the same age. You just motivate me to take care of myself. Thank you 🙏

[@KoVang-m9d]

Pog laib lauj 😅😅😅😅😅

[@SnjsJeje]

Yug laug yug txawj tug yug tug kheej ceg yog ib qhos zoo og eg tej hluag thiab li tsi haig tiag laug tau vuab tsuab qiag neeg no yug laug ceg yug yuav tug siab heev ua li koj nyiam xwb ceg zoo kawg mag

[@visibopath1412]

Peb cov haters los tej cov laus peb yeej pom tej cov laus 50 rau 60 xyoo los lawv ua tau xob plaub hau heev thiab. Vim thaum lawv ua lawv tsis pom tias twb tsis zoo saib thiab ho rhuav plhu zog lawm thiab ov. Li no thiaj muaj cov haters os. Laus lawm peb ua hluas, los ua nkauj maiv es yuav tau txhob ua tshaj tshaj thiab os nawb.

[@MsVang-xm5et]

Get it girl!!!

[@miabhlub63]

Gonna have to enjoy yourself.

[@MissPeachie]

Firstly, getting married at 13 and having 7 kids were your decisions, so stop blaming your kids for your loss of adolescent. Secondly, it’s ok to look younger than your age, but keep it classy. There is a difference between looking younger and looking ratchet. Have fun and enjoy life but do it age appropriately. If you are 50, don’t act like 20 year olds. It’s not cool, just cringy. 😂

[@pahouaxiong6142]

Tus leej niam, txawm koj tsis txaj muag rau koj cov ntxhais, cov nyab los thov paub txaj muag rau cov tub , cov vauv. Uas los yuav tau uas kom tej menyuam txhob laj laj ntsias koj tus kheej xwb.

[@SunnyVue-g5x]

Cas tsis paub tus siab muaj ceeb ntxwv tas lawm txawj txaj muag thiab pim los ntsws tas yus zoo ua luag tsis zoo saib lawm o

[@colleenchan9872]

Yawg kawg peb cov muaj 40 rau 50 no mam zoo nkauj txawj ua nkauj maiv li koj hais no os! Kuv los kuj yog ib tug thiab os😊

[@tswjntug2346]

Hihihi! Koj mas either yog tus pojniam ntxim ntxim qab los sis yog ib tug xu xu siab ua rau peb qaub qaub pob ntseg ntag lauv.

[@Peter123969]

I'm up for people doing what makes them happy. Health is important. Taking care of oneself is extremely important but it seems like you're over doing it. Dressing like a teenager? Lol you can still look beautiful and dress your age. By that i mean classy and professionally.😂

[@kellyyang1628]

There is nothing wrong with loving yourself at any age. Us as Hmong women were never taught to love ourselves, the only thing we were taught to do is learn how to be a “good” nyab/daughter to people. So do you boo, love yourself!

[@itsaaron392]

Tsis yog, thaum u hluas u tsis muaj nyias ua zoo nkauj tsis tau. Thaum laus 40-50 xyoo, muaj nyiaj lawm ces kawg mus ua zoo nkaug zoo nraug.

[@hlixyooj8179]

Mid-life crisis for women. When you realize you didn't let your inner poj laib out previously, you gotta do it now before you die. Lol

[@denali12023]

Very good 👍 👏 👌

[@pangyang7551]

Good for you! It’s so sad that most women take so long to take care of themselves because we always take care of everyone first.

[@moonshine-n1r]

" Ua lau" so hilarious! Thanks for sharing!

[@maixiong-mu5cm]

Yus tsuas nros yus ntshaw ntshaw txiv as. Nyob teb chaws vam meem es tseem mus yuav txiv 13, 14. Ua cas ho tsis rau siab mus kawm ntawv. Npaj nauj li ko ces kav tsij rov qab mus nyob tim Nplog xwb os. Great! U do whatever you like, but remember that u need to have respect for yourself n for your children if u want them to respect u like a mother. Parents are supposed to be positive role models for their children n the younger generations.

[@Nraugkevdeb1]

Thanks

[@xiameevang9131]

Cov niag ua maum nkais thaum ntxov ntxov ces laus los yeej ua maum nkais li qub xwb hos.

[@hmoobmama]

This was very entertaining to listen to. I enjoyed it very much! I’m glad you are living your best life now. Take care. ❤

[@kuvxwb9466]

It’s not wrong to take care of yourself but have some class. There’s a difference between being trashy and classy. Dress like your age. Mekas have so many styles out there. For me personally I love to see older women take care of themselves but some of them are over doing it.

[@hmoobtiam21yajchannel57]

muam koj tham tau zoo heev ❤❤❤❤

[@maiyang3659]

Yog ib tus niam tsev laus lawm, txawm cev yuav yiag thiab haib npaum cas los tsis txhob hnav tej teenagers tej khaub ncaws os, lub cev phim los lub meej mom tsis zoo nawb. Yus laus lawm yuav tsum nrhiav tej khaub ncaws kom phim yus lub noob nyoog. Tsis tau tias yuav tsum hnav li pog laus no naj. Hnav kom lub tebchaws txhob hais yus rau qhov txaj muag

[@nhialor9674]

Glad that your husband supported you surgery makeovers. Not many men will allowed their wife go through that. ❤

[@maivlisl0]

It's good to take care of yourself. Dressing nice can be good for your mental health as well as physical health. It's also important to take note and dress according to your age. You can still dress nice and look good over 50 years old. I guess good for you that you don't mind dressing and looking like a 13 year old.

[@myyearmouanoutoua6908]

Well done 👏

[@moa-maioutdooradventures483]

Yep life is too short. Gotta love yourself and dress up. Gotta be sexy

[@leevang4191]

Cov niag tsov xu siab 50 xyoo pom twb tsis muaj kua lawm es tseem hais tias haib2.

[@kermoua6883]

❤love your self, is the key to happiness and living a long life.

[@yengvue4849]

Me niam nkauj Maiv aw 13 xyoos xwb tseem me aiv dhau lawm. Es ua li thaum koj ho yug tau koj cov es koj cov ntxhais 13 xyoos xwb ua koj puas txwv lawv ma kuv ntseeg tias koj los yeej ua tib yam li koj niam thiab tiag cas 13 xyoos xwb pheej yuav maj mus ua txog2 siav na.

[@dustywind06]

Its ok to love yourself but dont be one of those who over do it by flaunting everything for the world to see.

[@kuvxwb11]

50 tsis tau laus heev. Kuv paub pom ib tug niam tsev nws twb muaj 58, 59 los yog 60 lawm nws tseem party hu nkauj......hu zoo li tus nyuj lawm xwb los tseem muaj muaj siab. Ib week ma party 2, 3 zaug haus dej haus cawv party tshaj cov neeg hlaus lawm thiab. Mus party ma hnav taib evening gown cuag li cov pageant girls...make-up ob peb layers hos wear cov 4, 5 inch heel. Thaj duab ma siv filter tas zog....every shot ma siv filter lol. Yog laus ze 60 xyoo lawm txhob ua nkauj maiv vim twb muaj ntxhais muaj vauv muaj tub muaj nyab lawm txhob ua thaj mus party mus club txaj txaj muag li. Laus laus lawm yuav tsum paub txaj muag vim tej me nyuam txaj txaj muag rau lawv tej phooj ywg tej neej tej tsav. Laus lawm txhob ua lub neej li cov hluas pab txaj muag dhau lawm.

[@a2dazgod539]

All in your head women. Everybody thinks you sucks as long as you think you look good.

[@xiameevang9131]

Twb mus ua plastic surgery xwb es niam hais tias zoo zoo nkauj cuag nang-ek no.😀

[@toosay200]

Txhob hu Nkauj Maiv no mas, hu ua Laus Maiv no thiaj li phim hos. Lol. Don't over do it though and always remember to not embarrass your kids!

[@loukaleenyang]

It’s funny how the tables have turned. Older people judged us back then, now we are judging you old folks though not as bad because we are different and understand you never had the chance to YOLO. Lol

[@anythingeverythingchannel8641]

Tiam no cov 40-50 xyoo tab tom tiav hluas nkauj xwb os. Tsis tau kam laus, tsis tau kam zov grandkids li nawb lol

[@xayxiong1061]

You did admit you agreed to married at a young age. That doesn’t mean you loose yourself and not keep up being beautiful.

[@sunnygirl973]

Mloog mas koj niam yog ib nyiag pojniam khau nceb heev. Siab phem.

[@kuvxwb11]

Qhia tias koj yog leej twg ma.

[@blueberrysmilie1]

But if your wearing clothes from the teenage/junior section it may not look appropriate for an older women. I dont think the older ladies see that, some outfits are cringy for a mature women to be wearing…fashion trend is not easy to understand. I feel bad for the older generation. They have no freedom and were so young to know any better. Some parents can be so abusive and unwilling to accept that they are at fault. I have seen it in my own family. The denial is ridiculous.

[@jackieyunan4899]

Cov poj niam hmoob es ua plastic surgery tag mam zoo nkauj ces yeej ib txwm ugly nawb lawv aw...

[@angie-gz4yg]

I have nothing against older women wanting to look their best, dressing young, or having plastic surgery to improve their looks. You do you. It's when they develop a huge and ugly ego to go with their looks.

[@yingvang1276]

So that saying that you just say about spending all your money cause you can't take it when you die, don't you think about what if you hit financial problems when your older and none of your kids don't care about you anymore, how are you going to financially survive till you're death?

[@Justin-q4w6d]

If you looks just like a model..how can I get some 😂

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

I don’t think that people hate you. People just want you to act your age. If you watch Korean drama all the mom in there is pretty and beautiful yet they dress modestly unlike Hmong old women. Go xib ntawv

[@5tuglis573]

Sorry, but no. You can enjoy and live your life but stay classy. Real Americans don't act like yall. Coj li nej, meka hais tias yog "trashy" not "classy". Marrying young was your choice. This is your life. Pab txaj muag rau koj menyuam thiab xeeb ntxwv. Prioritize!

[@amyjoke]

As long as you don't show your body on tiktok/fb like others who is almost naked and show their body.

[@KoVang-m9d]

Damn 13..no sympathy for you