6 Biggest Turn Offs For Women & How To Fix Them - Things Men Do That Women Hate

[@MensFashioner]

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[@demzre]

Great list. My turnoffs as a man: 1. Self Absorbed - A woman who needs to be the center of attention all the time. 2. Tardiness - Consistently late, no respect for other people's time. 3. Wasteful - Does not recognize the value of things, especially food. i.e. Taking 2 bites of a meal, then throwing it away or not boxing it for later. 4. Needy - Consistently requires your attention, not able to live for herself, find her own dreams. Not independent. 5. Snobby/Rudeness - treating others badly; looking down on others. 6. Materialistic - Always needing to keep up with the Joneses

[@slappy8941]

Albert Lee You left out overly-critical and judgmental, as well as deceitful and untruthful.

[@lambchop613]

Albert Lee 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼

[@whiteribbonman1]

+Houmous Guru How about make a great sandwich, then take it to HER with a great glass of iced tea? THEN she might think enough of your sorry ass to do your 2nd request?

[@noname-lq2kg]

Houmous Guru Make a guy a cheese sandwich on her way out the door after the BJ.

[@theflyingdutchman167]

Microphunktv Did you got rejected lately?

[@davidarbelaez4395]

My biggest turn off is seeing a woman on her cell phone at all hours of the day.

[@northcoast1403]

True dat brotha

[@mikeswoosh2564]

my biggest turn offs by a woman. fake eye lashes, fake hair, to much make up and cosmetic surgery.

[@artpipe]

Good points, I would add overworked eyebrows too, all these completely destroy a woman's natural beauty.

[@mikeswoosh2564]

Ashley Weston hehe

[@Microphunktv-jb3kj]

U just described 99% of women... :-) sad but true... millenial women still don't understand why they are single and miserable in their 40s : )))

[@sheldoncooper8199]

+Ncltaxidriver Yes i hate it when a women wears like 3 millimeters of Make Up on her face. Why ? Natural beauty is much more beautiful.

[@miketan2459]

right on!

[@IzzoWingChun]

Biggest turn off for men, women who have turn offs.

[@ps8267]

Biggest turn off.. Women that knit pick about everything a man ought to be rather than accepting him for who he is. Find someone who compliments you. Dont get a 'fixer upper' n argue about his unwillingness to change. Otherwise, remain single.

[@TheMatthewlink]

Hey Ashley, really appreciate the list. My personal turnoffs as a man are listed below: 1) Lateness - This goes to show the lack of care and importance in caring to be on time for time spent together. 2) Inability to compromise - For any person, but women especially I dislike when they are unable to find a medium or are too strong-willed about their opinion. I understand to be opinionated and self-confident but neglecting to care about the other's view is a huge turn-off. 3) Scent - If a girl has body odour, or their clothes don't smell clean or pleasant, this is a huge turn-off. Especially breath when out on a date (honestly, in a purse, it should be easy enough to carry around at least a mint, men do even without a purse) 4) Lack of style/upkeep - If myself as a guy are able to be more well kept than a girl by keeping my hair done, face clean, styled up, why can't you? This just undermines one's natural beauty and detracts from you because I'm distracted by your outfit. 5) Not making an effort - When it is always the man's choice to pick dinner or make plans, or even which movie to watch, most men are really chill and find it really attractive when girls take charge because it means they care enough. 6) Using phone while out - This is simply disrespectful and anyone who does this for any formal, one-on-one event, unless it is an emergency or work, please just stop, it makes me want to make less of an effort to make plans with you. Those are my main pet peeves, not necessarily in that order of importance. Thanks :)

[@ephesus]

Honestly, you should never take advice about being popular with women from a woman. What they think they're attracted to, and what they're actually attracted to are completely different.

[@fitnessmessiah7525]

ok heres my list for biggest turn off: make up -fake eyelash -fake eyebrows -fake nails notice how i said "fake", dont ever play yourslef

[@BeboBevo]

My greatest turnoffs: cheaters, liars, and women who betray things said in confidence. I want the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. There are gentle ways to express things that might cause me pain. There are easy ways to soften the blow.

[@OzzmanComith]

I respect a person that tells it to me real, even if its "i hate your guts". In fact i find it that i normally smile when people are honest to me, even if they are trying to do so cruelly.

[@paulmark8347]

Hi Ashley.................great vid. I am a 66 yr. old gentleman and I am extremely pleased that I do none of the turn offs. Could be because I took a life time to learn them, lol. I feel one is never to old to learn. I love your channel. Keep up the awesome work young lady. Thank you and God Bless.

[@aksshaysharma96]

hey ashley in order to dress better we need to tuck in our shirts properly. please make a video on how to ensure that the shirt is tucked in properly both formal akd casual shirt

[@davida8407]

Ashley Weston videos have been made about all the topics you cover. I've watched many videos from RMRS, alpha m, and teaching men's style that all cover the same stuff. I want to learn so I get different perspectives. The video for tucking in your shirt could cover: when to tuck, how to tuck, what shirts can I tuck? Can I wear a sport coat with an untucked shirt? The list of questions men have on this subject is quite long. I would watch that video to get your opinion, always good to have the female perspective :) Oh and don't forget the partial tuck!

[@migjordanpayawal7856]

Shirttail Garters do the job for you.

[@mattsathrohan288]

I get turned off when ppl are rude to service professionals too

[@twodimensionsjhr]

hmmm, these tips are actually pretty standard and general for most women, and to be honest, a bit of common sense, well at least to me.

[@sadaphondke4331]

Ashley Weston you should do a street wear series

[@thisistotallyfine]

True! I'd like a video on matching outfits with joggers and sneakers (adidas ultra boost/NMD/etc) A streetwear/sporty look video would be awesome

[@yobolion]

Sada Phondke I think she's a bit anti street wear fashion and generally thinks this clothing belongs in a gym a sport or dance studio.

[@locoindio]

twodimensionsjhr I don't open doors for women. also, women do things to excess and expect men to accommodate that behavior I.e. drinking too much, sleeping around a lot, being at the office all the time, etc. in fact, women employ shame and FORCE men to accept excess whenever women wish to behave in such a way. as such, if I want to behave to excess, so too should I be entitled, and women should simply accept it as they demand I accept their behavior. OR don't be a hypocrite. the rest of the list is pretty normal stuff.

[@bethmarer-garciacmp5766]

I enjoy your authenticity and enthusiasm and find your advice worthwhile.

[@MeZzZzZzZzZzZzZzZzZ]

whoever edits these does a great job lmaooo

[@karthikmurali505]

Great video... Thumbs up for the change of studio..awesome...!

[@davidg2521]

A big turnoff for me is when people drop unnecessary swear words into an otherwise normal discourse.

[@ambitiousmuslimrecordings]

you nailed it to the fucking wall my G

[@josensei-9533]

Liking the new background!! Gives the video a little bit more something else

[@fireman1780]

I only have a slight problem with one of these and thats lacking confidence sometimes. Even though I have my shit together finding a woman still seems impossible. One if the biggest turn off about a woman in my eyes are that she judges a book by its cover. They dont seem to want to get to know someone

[@nickyjam770]

Nice video Ashley, helps me a lot.

[@investigate711]

biggest turn off: breast implants and/or princess attitude. it tells any guy they're insecure and that they NEED attention. it gets really annoying.

[@randomdiy3823]

Women who wears make up is my biggest turn off. You can taste their make up when you kiss them in cheeks but that's just my experience.

[@akashchoudhary8162]

I don't think you are supposed to be using your tongue on their cheeks.

[@Doofus171]

@@akashchoudhary8162 Yes you are, otherwise you arent doing it right. Or are you totally lame in bed.

[@mAdcaTzm4a1]

First of all. That dress ashley looks Soooooo good on you. :)

[@fredcalabrese6066]

My turn-offs: Repetitive Tardiness: This is a sign of just being inconsiderate and possible self-centered. Overly Effusiveness: This seems fake. Also, the two times I experienced overly effusiveness and flattery my heart got broken. Dishonesty: This speaks for itself. Little Girl Voice: This is just creepy.

[@Jericho_S]

your videos are always amazing and inspiring! Very informative and not boring. Keep inspiring!

[@lovemoredaka3592]

Thank you for the tremendous advice

[@68Tboy]

Good points in the video Ashley! Although I am married, it is still good advice on how to present yourself to your wife and half the world's population. I did have a question for you. I asked a few months ago if you ever planned on doing a segment on hats. You replied that you don't like hats on men, but here is my dilemma. I am a bald guy living in Florida, and it is very easy to get burned. I've watched videos from Real Men Real Style and Alpha M, but it would be nice to get a woman's perspective. Even though you are critical of hats to begin with. Anyways this is your channel so you do want you want, but I know that I would really appreciate it, and I am sure that there are others.

[@gustavogutierrez2709]

68Tboy the channel TheGentlemensCove is big on hats. Skim through his videos.

[@emmanuelnocete4366]

biggest turnoff?? im not sure iff this is relevant but when a pretty girl says im so ugly or when an ugly girl disses a pretty girl

[@anthony4733]

Biggest turn offs : 1- be immature and childish. I know lots of girls that are like that, and i had my fair share of experience with them, and they are all bad memories and facts that i have accepted and forgotten about. 2- when a girl doesn't know what she wants, and keeps on switching between 2 choices. This is the biggest turn off ever, i really get mad when i experience this, and i really lose respect. Other than that, i love it when the girl knows how to dress, is mature, and smart. It makes me feel way more comfortable and as much as i am confident, she makes me even more.

[@ChaosFragrances]

Guys have to stay at the office all day to pay for you ladies.

[@dementegg]

you're videos are awesome I don't know how you are not much more mainstream and have more views and likes.

[@jerryrichards8172]

I dont dress overly well but i do walk well with quite confidents. Works for me

[@Mil-usos]

Ultimate turn off for me is not being able to communicate (without words too). I've met people that are fluent in English, Spanish, [insert language], and I have no idea what they need or want. Communicate!

[@guyslifehacks5179]

Awesome video Ashley! Do you have any recommendation for a guy with extremely fine hair and what products/styles are best for it?? It's annoying because it always seems to droop down

[@guyslifehacks5179]

Excellent, I will be on the lookout

[@lewistalmadge6703]

Great video. Things that turn me off is a woman who smells like an ashtray from smoking and an overly aggressive woman. Thanks

[@gavdechter]

Brett Burns having such a magical season he even made it into this video!!

[@gamerN77]

I actually can say for myself that - aside from the lack of confidence, which I am partially guilty of - I don't match those six categories and still can't seem to get a date.

[@CademanLillywhite]

The one thing I don't agree with is the cologne .. I think just a dab here and there makes no sense and is a waste of the fragrance .. I'm not saying you should overspray but just dabs will not be smelt at all ..

[@real_fjcalabrese]

After drying after bathing, one spray three to four inches from the upper chest will suffice. That's all. The great thing about expensive fragrance is one is less likely to be over used. Dabbing tends to weaken the top notes. Don't substitute cologne with bathing.

[@gustavoprato5963]

Great job! Can't wait to see more videos about clothing!

[@gustavoprato5963]

Hahaha! May i suggest "Get a bidet" video? XD

[@gustavoprato5963]

There's so much more that u can teach us about clothing! Please don't give up on it!

[@shadism1714]

And how would we know if our Cologne is excessive or not can I have a good answers

[@davidelacruze]

I really miss the old classical intro music and overall look. It was a welcome change of paste to the other clothing channels. It gave off a sense of these old gentlemanstore but overhauled with the fashionsense of today's standards

[@tarotaguchi6758]

No. 6 is hard to do but I agree that a man should have time available outside work. This means he's got his stuff organized.

[@andrej.anderson2185]

1. Having a bad attitude. (Disrespectful) 2. Lying 3. Taking more money out my account then she said she would if I trust her with my card. 4. Fake hair, fake nails, fake eye lashes, fake eye color/contacts, fake brest, fake buttocks, 5. Domineering attitude( "the I own you attitude") not to be confused with Domina. 6. Always asking for money, when she had more then one opportunity to invest the money I already gave her. 7. Complaining out loud every 15 minutes about something either about traffic, co-workers, bills, bad food etc. 8. Acting fake, acting like she hard/a fighter in front of her girls(cusin & using foul language) but when she with family members she humble & friendly

[@BilalMalick98]

I remember I once got told off by a date for holding the door open for her. Weird.

[@cFeor]

Hey Ashley, interesting topic. I have a question about pants fitting. I have a slim waist and long legs and it is hard to find $60-$100 pants. My ideal size would be 28x34. Any advice?

[@lanceseaman88]

by biggest turn off is a women who could care less that I'm around but when I leave her then she starts calling every hour and "romantically" throwing pebbles at my window for an hour to wake me up and "I love you" texts every half hour so then I go back thinking she really missed me just to be pretty much ignored when I'm back. SHOW AFFECTION.

[@Josh102697315]

girls that dress overly promiscuous. cover up your butt and stomach. leave us something to the imagination. but don't dress overly lame. sweats and t shirts all the time is the worst. this one girl in my sociology class wore the same blue sweats every day the entire semester.

[@liderutkowski3069]

Josh Struck be nice to your sock

[@YourUpstairsNeighbor]

I love when she slips in curse words XD

[@ojibwayinca8487]

Some of my turn-offs: 1. She does not communicate well, esp. her needs, hurts, annoyances, likes & dislikes, sexual needs, lessons learned in life 2. She is a conflict-avoider: she would rather there be a (false) sense of peace rather than actual peace and well-being 3. She doesn't have any deep female friendships 4. Does not have a stable, maturing career 5. Does not handle her money well (particularly living paycheck to paycheck, or is materialistic) 6. Does or (or doesn't seem to) put effort into her physical and mental health 7. Is superficial: Lives for now, is caught up in pop-culture 8. Is not a thoughtful person and has not given serious thought to the big issues of life: God, meaning of life, existence, purpose, etc. 9. Is overly concerned, within reason, about the guy's body or physical attractiveness (I know this is important, and it is, but what I'm referring to is a guy greying, or putting on a little weight, or not looking a lot like he did 15+ years ago) 10. Always/often waits for the guy to initiate sex 11. Is over 32-35 and doesn't have children ( I know this may be controversial, but is there a legitimate reason, or is the woman self-absorbed and cannot even consider the thought of having a child for selfish reasons). If there is a legitimate reason, fine, no problem whatsoever 12. Too absorbed in technology (particularly social media) 13. Has too difficult of a time making decisions for herself (and wants the guy to make most of them, most of the time) 14. Someone who is overly serious, especially who can't laugh or laugh at themselves

[@hope4luv175]

Ashley, can you make a video of your cologne recommendations

[@ashutoshprasad7442]

Maam I wants to know is my gf is turn off from me and I can't find the reason for it. All was going absolutely fine but in between after 1 month of exams she started ignoring me.... I am confused is she is a right girl or not

[@UnitedWarGamers]

A big turn off for me is when a women has that candy perfume smell.

[@dylanbailey8007]

Is it okay to wear skinny jeans as a teenagers? I want a answer

[@adamamri59]

hi ashley!

[@conorjackson5360]

why?

[@DwyaneWadeCounty]

0:51 _if you insist on wearing cologne, just know we really don't care for it_

[@tiagovidal1670]

What about the seventh? Being ugly. How can I be confident if I keep getting rejected? I've seen a lot of your videos and tried. The result is the same. I will never be attractive even with your advice. It just doesn't work that way

[@heminder]

All of these are also turn-offs for men in women. I've met a lot of girls that hit a lot of these points.

[@AZrakoon]

Great Advice:)....Not overwhelming and achievable for any guy....The same would apply for women....some that I personally annoying is if they are teasing way too much....also wearing revealing clothes is a big No......Humility by far is anyone's greatest asset for both women and men:)

[@erinkayeozga9947]

Thank you👍🏻🆒

[@whiteribbonman1]

One thing right out the door is if she says "shit" as much as you do. I talk with an adult's vocabulary but profanity is what makes me pay for the meal before it arrives & drive her straight back to her home.

[@is1spang478]

would you please do a video on dress vest?

[@jacobqwee8872]

great dress ! looks wonderful on you

[@carsoncombs4586]

Hey! Brett Burns is an absolute BEAUTY.

[@dewdrop8626]

Things that turn ME off in a guy. Guy's who let themselves go, or age badly. Then act like they're entitled to women with supermodel looks. Back hair, poor oral hygiene, beards turn me off. As well as excessive chest hair. I know I'm to get negative backlash for this but I don't care. If men can have opinions on what they find attractive in women. Then we can have opinions on what we find unattractive in guys! Learn to take some constructive criticism for a change guys! And no I'm not a "feminist" or a "man hater". But I'm entitled to my own opinions, remember that.

[@coffeeandgrind]

I'm sorry but I don't give a shit if women are turned on by me or not. I live my life how I want, if you don't like it, there's the door. I'm happy with me.

[@hara2009]

but then again.... what are you doing here.... ? XDD

[@coffeeandgrind]

It popped up on my newly uploaded

[@Yusuf1187]

And someone held a gun to your head and made you watch it?

[@redtoaster565]

OHP77 right 😂😂😂

[@redtoaster565]

Collins M it seems like u do since u have to adress it 🙄

[@thomasmorrison8928]

My biggest turnoff from a woman is not being open minded to a guy's flaws. Most of us are not Brad Pitt. Fixing and controlling bad habits like grooming, dressing, and being arrogant is something we need to work on, i agree. However, some men have things they cannot fix or control. Being short, being bald, or having a medical issue.

[@Onetime4justice]

My biggest turnoffs as a man are: 1.When a girl mean to other people. 2. Also bad grooming habits (rare for a girl)

[@rambotan5867]

my date didnt want to go out milk bec i ordered a glass of milk in a bar..

[@newfwheels2965]

Biggest turn off(s), women always taking selfies , on their phones, don't know what they want, aimlessly living life, no direction, think they need makeup to look good, over compensating, it is all to much slow down and love yourself.

[@joshuawharton9585]

The Dress :O These were handy tips though :)

[@mstickyes2683]

weird I get more play when I'm an asshole and less when I'm nice 😕

[@modalsoul6511]

Question? How does any of this help a man if he is physically unattractive( even to the most mediocre looking of women) and is broke as joes turkey?

[@modalsoul6511]

Ashley Weston Right On luv, and thank you for your wisdom 🙏🏼

[@slappy8941]

charles turner Just don't worry about women, take care of yourself first. Improve yourself mentally, physically, and financially, and learn to be happy with yourself first.

[@Stateofmind00]

Sometimes being rude helps balancing out the friend zone's attitude

[@andrewmason9662]

Hey Ashley great videoI wear quite a bit of cologne and always get complimented on it from woman...a lot of woman I guess I've toned it down a little bit lolI agree with you 100 percent on everything else except the other excess, If I'm working on a project or getting ready to close a deal I'm 100 percent in, it seems a bit selfish ...perhaps there is a happy medium

[@daveweiss3839]

how about women with high pitched squicky voice's. How do you fix that?

[@deepatterson1835]

1:22 never heard her swear lol

[@mikeysplayhouse1971]

I wear a light shower gel especially when I work out. I often find myself surrounded by women at the gym because they know I always smell good. Pro tip.

[@yesiownfrodo]

You forgot a big turn off - flip flops and popping gum. Those things just come across as both lazy and immature. Also, I am not impressed by any man who thinks he's doing me a favor by being around. A man sent me a message on Facebook asking if I had any more pictures of myself and saying it was OK with him if I sent him a Facebook friend request. Unbelievable. That just made me want to block him for life.

[@vickieannedirocco6030]

Thanks I posted

[@MrHelloworId]

That dress tho. So on point.

[@DaveFarr]

That outfit is BADASS! Perfect for you.

[@craigsmith8811]

Turn offs for women 1.)guys who are not bad boys 2.)guys who are not successful

[@noname-lq2kg]

Big surprise.... women's turn offs. Geez, didn't see that one coming. Here's a newsflash to all the younger men from an older bachelor. No matter what you do for a woman (most, not all), it's never enough. Women always find a deal breaker.

[@queestashaciendo8984]

My biggest turn-off; when they play hard to get. Just be direct

[@blakeharrison3972]

Clingy if I'm not digging her, but can you do more videos like this?

[@blakeharrison3972]

hahahaha you got me

[@stagnantgiant4235]

I know plenty of women that find rudeness funny and a few that think it is a turn on. It would seem you do not speak for every woman.

[@petercsigo9935]

If men and women are equal why am I have to open the door for her. Is this some kind of a joke or we living in the time of chivalry or am I your knight and shining armor.Besides nice guys finish last. I am a nice guy a good person and it got me nowhere.Yeah sure she thinks he's a nice guy he open the door for me so what.

[@khwang89466]

Aw damn. Doing things to excess? I guess my dream of completing the Ironman Triathlon is out of the question. Wait, why am I even here? I already have a gf LOL

[@andrewmason9662]

Hey Ashley...just watched the video againI noticed that some woman...not all ...especially the ones That I find myself attracted too ..the first thing they look at on me are my shoes ,Watch, and yes my smile ...it's as if a super computer is scanning me and I'm completely conscious of it lol....what exactly is it that they are scanning for? status ? stability? I almost think its woman who are the hunters and guys by dressing the wrong way take themselves off the menu

[@musicismyreligion.]

I love how all women claim they don't care about $$ and then literally throw themselves at men when they find out they have it. My friend could never get women to give him the time of day until he became the CEO of a Fortune 500 company. Now they literally stalk him when they find out what he does. 😕

[@GoldAceNews]

I have lack of confidence, that's my biggest issue in my life. it's hard for me to find a nice woman, because that is all what I'm looking for in my life. I'm feeling disappointed here in SF, because women are very picky and somehow delusional of what they're looking for in a man.

[@gunnut81]

The biggest turn off I find in women is having a bad attitude. Smile girls, we love it!

[@1magnusemil]

We all know that showing of the bank account is in fact a "turn on", rich people do get more women, no matter if you like it or not.

[@agent008chico]

Turns of for me from a women. #1 Same for men! We don't like stinky and dirty people either. #2 Men are not so critical. However, we don't like our beloved to be flaunting themselves with other man. We all like for our potential bride to display an aura of classiness and dignity. #3 Same for men! At least say thank you and be polite to our waitresses, waiters and bar tenders. If you treat those who serve you with unkindness we know what is in store for us. #4 Stop talking bad about other people and especially your girlfriends. This shows us you have no loyalty, have no concern for other peoples dignity and expect you to talk about us behind our backs. #5 Stop talking about your weight or things you don't like about yourself. Unlike women, men don't intend to improve women by fixing them. We chose you the way you are. If you don't like something about yourself than fix it. Stop making us tell you about how much we like it as a bandage to your own self hate. Huge turn off when a women doesn't like herself and she plans on not improving or not accepting. #6 Same red flags to a man. #7 Most important! Be kind! Deliver your message and disagreement with kindness and not with a tone of demand or conflict. We are not your children; not your emotional tampon and not your shelter for your self imposed inadequacy. We are grown men, and like women, we want to live a happy, fun lives; and we like our sanity and serenity. Hope you like these answer for each of your subjects in this video. Chico

[@lilybeejones]

jealousy is a big deal. I am trustworthy, and I would like to be treated as such. unrelated, but what are your opinions on bowties? is that a potential video?

[@UnknownGunslinger]

But not tic-tacs. They have now been ruined forever :(

[@sapphiro]

Ivo Sotirov how is that?

[@UnknownGunslinger]

+sapphiro It was a rather bad Trump joke. My apologies to the internet

[@professorkb9388]

And just think guys if you do everything right and attract one of these creatures she will only ruin you in five yrs.

[@ytwos1]

Maybe you could change the pictures of badly dressed men to somewhat more realistic bad choices (that most of u's likely make) that would make it a more powerfull video.

[@ultime321]

You always downplay using fragrance. You are one of the few and your advice to disuse fragrance is one of the few things that point people on thr wrong direction.