6 CRAZIEST Chinese Marriage Proposals That ACTUALLY Happened

[@dylanakent]

The most respectful way to ask someone to marry you is in private. Spectacles aren't romantic, they're manipulative. They put pressure on people to make a life long decision that should be made in the most logical, non-emotional way. Women should not be put in this position.

[@dspirit2]

Nobody says they can't change their minds the next day. 😉

[@Skyguy207]

Funeral flowers? The proposal was dead from the beginning....... Wait pun intended. Cause this was a nice one :)

[@Watcher413]

The man riding dolphins by standing on them as if he was aqua man is a legend

[@Loneytoon9]

Funeral flowers? Why would he even think of that?

[@Madchris8828]

Loneytoon9 morbid and creepy thought but maybe he was some kind of undertaker? Man that's weird!

[@couturestalker8606]

My kind of guy... Death Metal playing at the wedding... aaahhh.

[@narutoash111]

the chinese have a belief that if you werent destined to be born on the same day month and year，you pray that you both will die on the same day month and year together。 its actually romantic in its own way

[@feliciachen4396]

"Till death do us part"????????

[@dspirit2]

Probably to save money. They tend to be cheaper. 😂

[@leephakhailathavong698]

i like the hot pot bouquet - at least its useful, and after u give it to the girl, u can eat the hot pot food as congratulation/ celebration kinda food lol

[@zsofi_cs9536]

That's the typical proposal what we are looking for with my best friend lol

[@dspirit2]

And if she says no, you can always throw the bouquet into a hot pot and eat it as a consolation to yourself! You win either way! 🤣

[@amplifymysound]

hahaha that memorial flower one made me laugh so hard. poor guy. cant he read???

[@Fruitypebbles489]

I was waiting for the iPhone proposals lol

[@BekSep]

Wow. Maybe the funeral flowers represented the death of his single life?? Still, not cool if it's *that* public. The chili peppers one had me all like, "Aww!!! YISSSS!!!" Boy got SPICE. 😂👏🙌

[@user-zy5ly6sz1d]

2:41 I'm convinced that's how lan wangji proposed wei wuxian. 😂😂😂

[@hetaloviisa]

My boyfriend has mentioned that he is thinking a way to propose some day. Wonder what he'll come up with. Maybe I should link this to him :D

[@reneemills9273]

The hot pot idea is my fav. some how low key but with personal touch and effort put in to it. So, ..sweet and savory.

[@stephaniemcdonald1197]

Honestly my favorite two were the dolphin and the hot pot bouquet.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Wow, I cannot believe that people actually do this. Very creative! I would think I am dreaming if this ever happened to me one day.

[@jflare3001]

I love the meat bouquet idea :D phenomenal!

[@JuandelaCruz001]

I'm a middle-aged Filipino and this recent "custom" has also appeared here in my country as well and done by the younger set . . but am I just being old- fashioned or backwards to consider that such a practice is more of a Western influence, leading to the decline of simplicity, modesty and even religious values? Don't get me wrong. Yes, culture does change over time but I mean back then such "declaration of love" MIGHT be looked on as pretentious, ostentatious, or even an act to compel the girl to say yes to the proposal (putting her on the spot). It used to be a private promise the couple made between themselves and was only made official when the two families met to arrange the wedding. Again, not trying to be "preachy" but it does leave the older set to notice how Asian values change over time.

[@azukib2230]

JuandelaCruz001 probably because of tv dramas

[@JuandelaCruz001]

Azuki B You might be right.

[@Wingedshadowwolf]

I agree, over the top and putting someone on the spot is pretty tacky. I think the important part is truly knowing your partner. If you know they like that sort of thing, or tailoring it to their likes(in an appropriate way!) Then it seems ok to me.

[@JuandelaCruz001]

BigDogJang0 I'm making two assumptions here; I take it then that you are OLD enough to have seen CHANGES in the VALUES of people in your country firsthand? (Both for the good as well as the bad?) I'm also assuming that you have experienced more than one culture growing-up?

[@RedHornSSS]

If it is of any "foreign influence", it would be the influence of korean pop drama.

[@brokenbridge6316]

Fun vid The Chen Dynasty. I applaud the guys who succeeded and I give out my sympathies to the guys who failed. Better luck next time.

[@johnnychang4233]

Anyone in the comments who are watching a Japanese dorama called Hello Harinezumi, in the episode 7 one guy proposed to a girl with a bouquet of green onions flowers. According to their interpretation it mean a smile and a heart who isn't discouraged.

[@ngatiramona]

Crayfish has yes all over it. Great vid, Mike!

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

I like the hot pot one as it is very creative.

[@Nepatan]

I hope nobody will propose to me with a hot pot... I like the idea a lot, but I will burst in to laughter and it would take me some time to say yes :D So, the idea is cool, but for me - please don't.

[@nessfirth4039]

Something more private and personal......if she's the one she wont care how big the gesture is

[@princessmelodym]

i'm early for once omg hi

[@mimiisboss3474]

Hiiiiiii lol

[@azrael407]

ima vegetarian but even i prefer the hot pot

[@dspirit2]

Another vote for the Hot Pot! Yes!

[@daniroxasgomez9477]

I love the last one it was hilarious

[@MM-jn2om]

Hot Pot BABY! That way I can cover up my chocking by saying the food went down the wrong pipe....

[@jacksewe123]

0:50 mike said I don't really like dolphins?

[@azukib2230]

jackson jiang He said he likes dolphin, and that's why he didn't like the proposal because it mistreats dolphin. I personally don't think simply riding on a dolphin (and the training process) does any harm to it physically nor mentally

[@bowang706]

Why I never thought of that, omg, hot pot proposal are the best, if she says NO, you can at least ask her to stay and eat the hot pot together and talk it over, now if she says YES, you can still eat the hot pot together and live happily ever after, genius idea, win win situation!

[@jacksewe123]

Nice haircut mike

[@anne-marielaprell4787]

Personally, I've no interest in marriage but for myself, I'd be happiest with a good dinner that we made together and a proposal at home.

[@juliarudlof8242]

wow! these proposals are kinda crazy and fascinating (ok and creepy) at the same time. I kind of like it that they came up with unique ideas to impress their girlfriends but honestly the house-buying-thing and the memorial-funeral-stuff...thats too much o.O nothing can go wrong with some good food (Meat =

[@sofiameyer1231]

I liked the once involving food. But honestly I believe simpler proposals to be more romantic.

[@kal.amansi1825]

You forgot the guy who proposed with 840 Rubik's Cubes

[@celestial3545]

ThatMysticFoxRBLX That was in Japan.

[@laurencegoonatilaka4023]

Mikeeeeeey

[@lidianc5591]

The Chilli one because I could dry it all and keep it forever

[@indirapoitier338]

funeral flowers? my love for you is dead...... marry me?.... what was he thinking?

[@dspirit2]

Hot Pot always works! 😉

[@natashakorni1801]

Hot pot! Or anything with meat =0)))

[@Maeglin7936]

I would also take the hot pot proposal 😻

[@Arcada011]

Hey Mike, what happened to Dan ?

[@izzahhasan2030]

Where's Dan?

[@Madchris8828]

I bought you a house! It's your privelege to marry me is what that guy was probably thinking. Pretty arrogant way to propose in a way.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

I would not call it arrogant but it seemed like he is indirectly saying she is a gold digger.

[@Madchris8828]

Trinh Nguyen very true

[@jackjack20202]

why did he spell out the word love in english

[@coyote5554]

Porposal

[@armesisp3201]

At least they dont buy jew diamonds like the rest of us have been brainwashed to do...

[@7Bangtan4ever]

Hot pot meat all the way!

[@AmericanMeiling]

hot pot!! 😹😹😹😹