“Wounded children become wounded adults, and wounded adults can destroy themselves and possibly others.”
@Psych2go4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! Did you relate to this video? :)
@ayunisyafiahbtshamsudin37624 жыл бұрын
And that wounded child is me-
@neemohwairimu98454 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go You're welcome and yeah, to some extent.
@angeltabiongan43584 жыл бұрын
That's why I'm still single.
@dgaf34934 жыл бұрын
@@ayunisyafiahbtshamsudin3762 me too🙋
@anis43733 жыл бұрын
If a parallel universe exist, I just wished that the other me is physically and mentally healthy. She doesn’t deserved to feel what I feel.
@SelfImprovement11113 жыл бұрын
I would either kill every other version of me and say that I’m the best version or I’d use lots of me to do my bidding. Maybe rule the world.
@SelfImprovement11113 жыл бұрын
@Cliff edge lol, I don’t know just the way I was raised. My parents taught me power and control over everyone is the most important thing in life. Maybe I am narcissistic.
@ellerywillis90542 жыл бұрын
@@SelfImprovement1111 or you are a highlander.
@claresmith74372 жыл бұрын
There can be only one!
@joshua27642 жыл бұрын
Same here. He deserved better at just 2 years old...
@AyoSoull3 жыл бұрын
"You would rather be alone, than be abandoned" my soul cried when I heard that 🥺
@thisismyname53173 жыл бұрын
Yup-
@okimahitt74133 жыл бұрын
I’m living that now.
@MEBRAMKUMARHEMBRAM3 жыл бұрын
Aw man
@javier_77743 жыл бұрын
That's literally me
@oshanipathirathne67713 жыл бұрын
That’s me too. 🥲
@finalunusedname3 жыл бұрын
"Not everyone is going to mistreat you." That sounds like something a person who wants me to become vulnerable and then mistreat me would say!
@karmaannae98772 жыл бұрын
Omg😂
@Heenagoplaniofficial2 жыл бұрын
So true. I absolutely understand what u’r saying
@katie76732 жыл бұрын
Yes , I told my therapist that and they couldn’t even respond !
@mysteryname18982 жыл бұрын
So true I know what you mean
@ilovejesuschrist9922 жыл бұрын
Very accurate
@geneticmutation3824 жыл бұрын
The person with a plant on their head has experienced every single problem out there-
@alkagaba12474 жыл бұрын
Lol
@vipulrai3744 жыл бұрын
@@alkagaba1247 made my day
@Darcactusofficial4 жыл бұрын
Sixty-nine likes ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
@hellenakinyi47504 жыл бұрын
Silly😂
@riverevans7264 жыл бұрын
I am the person with the plant on their head
@Diremension4 жыл бұрын
I felt like crying because, even if this is only a video, I felt like someone finally understood me
@hannahg.84674 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry! Remember healing is a process 🙏
@ReginaBerg904 жыл бұрын
I had a similar experience
@srschrott4 жыл бұрын
Billie eilish new award
@isa_hooi4 жыл бұрын
Same
@maxwellsmart64874 жыл бұрын
The roughest partes, thinkingyou remembered it All, then remembering more. Those ohmygod (and not in agood est) moments of emotional lightning. Cute right through you. At least it starts to make sense, the WHY ifeel this Or that.
@augustebundzaite92094 жыл бұрын
1. 1:13 you fear abandonment 2. 1:48 you have inappropriate guilt 3. 2:20 you have trust issues 4. 2:58 you have a fear of setting boundaries 5. 3:33 you get angry easily 6. 4:07 you have trouble letting things go Edit: thank you for those likes! I never had so many!
@rynsummer17114 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@avrxse4 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate people that takes time to do this 😊
@iamkevib97184 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@augustebundzaite92094 жыл бұрын
Np guys :))
@yms43554 жыл бұрын
Sounds a Hell of a lot like my BPD.
@lonewolfsuzaku212 жыл бұрын
@1:15 Fear of abandonment @1:49 Inappropriate guilt @2:22 Trust issues @3:00 Fear of setting boundaries @3:34 Get angry easily @4:08 Trouble letting things go
@RenRakowski08062 жыл бұрын
I have a good few of those honestly, I'm not a the best place in my life but I'm working on it, and some day I will be better than I am now.
@syalamontana25082 жыл бұрын
I have 5/6
@unleashthedevil12 жыл бұрын
Once you realize it all you need to know how to deal with it...dealing is not so hard...you just input your energy, time and emotions only at places where you get to rise up not where you are knocked down...that's the trick practice it for at least 3 months you'll start holding your subconscious consciously...that is when you'll be grateful for everything that happened to you because now you have become unshakable avoid triggers learn to ignore...everyone can speak up but it takes guts to ignore and speak impactful. That is real power.
@humaira96532 жыл бұрын
i have 6 out of 6 and i cried when i watch through this video even the animation looks all cute
@unleashthedevil12 жыл бұрын
@@humaira9653 hahahaha LOL...I feel you...I had the same reaction as well...might not be so deep as yourself but yeah similar...its ok your intuitive side and many things you possess that you don't even recognize at this time are made up because of this...pain teaches its eternal truth just look for what have you learnt if you focus on what you have lost you can't smile for long and all this world needs is a smiling face a happy angel...so look into that feelings and thoughts are temporary you change your focus they change themselves learn to control your tongue and your reaction and everything will start falling into its place God gave you birth for a reason you were born for a reason trying an finding it.
@lilap79894 жыл бұрын
Who else is a part of the Wounded Inner Child Squad? Stay strong & positive fam!
@jillianproulx37014 жыл бұрын
I am
@RecklessInspirer4 жыл бұрын
😁
@wenxuanyap18164 жыл бұрын
+1
@louisemaebernadette32604 жыл бұрын
Me.
@KJAfton4 жыл бұрын
Me.
@ladyartemis92884 жыл бұрын
What was said: "Not everyone is going to mistreat you." My mind: Everyone is going to mistreat and manipulate you
@orrpisumiorrpisumi44093 жыл бұрын
Same
@EmArilus3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I just watched a video of men who secretly record women in public so my mind can never think that there are people out there that don’t mistreat you 😂
@dingusdeduck26213 жыл бұрын
I feel this way to. Even if u find someone everyone is going to hurt u eventually so that’s why I have a very small hand picked amount of people I trust
@starcatcher72973 жыл бұрын
Yeah i can relate
@anotherone89413 жыл бұрын
SAME every time i see someone treating me a little well i'm automatically like "is this manipulation?"
@breeonez4 жыл бұрын
Me: “ I had a good childhood so I don’t think I can relate. “ -Relates to most of the signs- “Wait what...?”
@scarletmoon954 жыл бұрын
Moooooood
@carleflores90653 жыл бұрын
it happens haha
@beingweirdisnormal14043 жыл бұрын
Happened to me, too lol
@empathy67173 жыл бұрын
Yes, just yes.
@EnviroArtiste863 жыл бұрын
Same
@ami-el7dg3 жыл бұрын
I hope everyone knows that abandonment issues aren't always caused by people necessarily leaving. it could be caused by someone being there physically and never emotionally which left you trying harder to please them. that was me as a child. my parents were never there for me emotionally and i tried my hardest to please them thinking that they would completely cut off the little affection they showed me which affects to this day. i hope everyone becomes more educated on mental health issues and becomes happier.
@lunamoth70443 жыл бұрын
I had that problem with my mother.
@thebrotasticbro94652 жыл бұрын
Damn bruh i needed someone else to say it to realize this is also me
@hadia59182 жыл бұрын
shit. Someone actually put it into words.
@moose86802 жыл бұрын
my parents arent here for me emotionally ever, to the point where Im quite constantly being told to man it up, stop being a wuss and so on
@thebrotasticbro94652 жыл бұрын
@@moose8680 they're just invalidating your emotions... Your emotions are valid but the better u become at not reacting with emotion to things the better it'll suit u in the future
@seaxide72843 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why people think you can only have a toxic childhood because of your parents. You could also have it because of the kinds of people you surrounded yourself with which would be your friends. Your 'friends' could have abused you emotionally or mentally maybe even physically. And you shut yourself away from the rest of the world and family because of it. You became distant, anxious, maybe even depressed because of your 'friends'. So the point I'm trying to make is that it's not only your parents that can influence and introduce a toxic childhood experience for an individual, it could very well be your own 'friends'. And I say this from experience.
@orrpisumiorrpisumi44093 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@airtemperaturemilk43213 жыл бұрын
This actually opened my mind a little more to what could actually cause this stuff. My mind always went to my parents and/or myself when it came to childhood damage, so thank you.
@cyberdemon65173 жыл бұрын
been bullied from age 5 to 16, can confirm
@muffin5633 жыл бұрын
True.....u can have an emotionally wounded inner child because all u got in life were backstabbing "friends"
@cutecloverrunevalyn25733 жыл бұрын
I can relate to, only I feel like my abandonment issues and wounded inner child shouldn't be what they are, because I had kind parents and friends...they just couldn't be there for me, whether it was due to friends in the summer with busy-ness or a parent with chronic illness, they weren't there as often. I feel bad, like it shouldn't be a problem that I was left alone a lot, after all, I became independent and learned how to emotionally take care of myself at a young age. But somehow, I'm still confused.
@isidoramaggana97334 жыл бұрын
I m such a wounded child, that I'm afraid to have children of my own in case I mess them up.. Thank you mom and dad! 🤘
@nandinigautam50403 жыл бұрын
Exactly...
@LDXReal3 жыл бұрын
Same i feel like my own problems will hurt my kids and I don't wanna bring them into the world and hurt them
@syalamontana25083 жыл бұрын
Same. I'm afraid that i can't understand my kids like my parents did to me
@aaaaahhhhhhhh84253 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way, when everytime I think myself having a family I would think myself as a terrible partner AND a mom.
@lucyal86523 жыл бұрын
Same...
@H.jinnie.4 жыл бұрын
*”The truth is, not everyone is going to mistreat you”* Yes that is true, but thats the thing with trust issue. You dont know who is good and who is bad.
@strictlyuniqueful4 жыл бұрын
very true!
@asthadiwan4 жыл бұрын
True, it feels everyone will mistreat u at the end and then you will have to go through same stuff again :/
@crappyaccount4 жыл бұрын
That and everyone hurts someone eventually
@Romantic_Wren4 жыл бұрын
*true*
@gourisreelatha52564 жыл бұрын
💯
@spicypeach37112 жыл бұрын
Whenever I see a kid now, even a stranger, I always wish for that kid to grow up happily and be able to endure whatever he/she will be facing in the future. If only a child's innocence and happiness can remain forever.
@agussswagstar2 жыл бұрын
For real i want to be a child again but with the genius i have now so i cant be more traumatized
@SalomeDeFreitas Жыл бұрын
thanks
@melgirl65594 жыл бұрын
When you already know that there's a wounded child in you, and you don't need any signs, but you still watch the video... Yeah..
@someonewhoshouldnotexist33164 жыл бұрын
Just to watch that I'm not alone going through this..
@paulanull87314 жыл бұрын
Exactly. But in addition I wanted to know if my inner wounded child was on life support or in an urn. Since I watched this I guess it's still about here someplace. ( Checks under the couch, in the closet, in a tree...there, in a tree.) Must be on life support.
@carolina.rentes4 жыл бұрын
But I seriously didn't expected the video to be so accurate about my inner experience.
@LuckyElephant34 жыл бұрын
Yup...
@DClover4114 жыл бұрын
You watch this video to help yourself! To find understanding within yourself and go find your own band-aid to not have a wounded child within you!
@bunille4 жыл бұрын
I really love the art of this one.
@larsswig9124 жыл бұрын
The characters are so adorable and it fits the theme of the video
@RB-ts2eg4 жыл бұрын
Me too despite it making me cry lol
@RonLarhz4 жыл бұрын
+1
@littlerose12604 жыл бұрын
me too ! i wasn’t able to find her online anywhere though
@user-hj6yi5tn8l4 жыл бұрын
Same! Its so cute :D
@bjornfelle4 жыл бұрын
It’s quite weird to know that everybody was once a child and thought and behaved like one, and it’s even weirder to realise that some adults still do
@Psych2go4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this! It does feel weird haha. Did you find this video helpful? :)
@Kate-lr6yv4 жыл бұрын
lol
@Enchantedfairy_4 жыл бұрын
Do u kno... the worst memory last the long! And here thats the same case. Peace.
@isaaccarter90074 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go whenever I read ur comments I imagine the narrators voice
@bjornfelle4 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go - I did, but I didn’t mention it because it would feel egocentric. But yeah, I recognised that I have at earlier stages in my life had a wounded inner child as a result of narcissistic manipulation, but I have moved on from that and no longer identify with the person who felt that way. It’s scary to realise you don’t recognise your past selves, but I suppose that’s the point of personal development. I can see traits of this wounded inner child in other people I know, and making the connection with how I have felt in the past definitely helps me to empathise more concretely with these people. So thanks for the video, it was enlightening as always 🌻
@staycuteunikitty3527 Жыл бұрын
I have all of the signs, the fear of abandonment, inappropriate guilt, trust issues, fear of setting boundaries, anger issues, and refusal to let go. I already figured that I'd apply to most of these
@hxppymexls1770 Жыл бұрын
Same 😀
@royalty-vibes Жыл бұрын
I didn’t think about it until now, but yes, I agree.
@nevel-luna50704 жыл бұрын
Is weird how everyone childhood is so different from one another.
@SINGERINDEBThaha4 жыл бұрын
R u fine?
@omni85684 жыл бұрын
Yeah my childhood was filled with love by my parents until my mom broke down due to stress. My parents love me but they don’t know that they’ve somewhat traumatized me. My friend had a great childhood. She made a best friend in 2nd grade and seemingly has no crazy trauma. It kinda makes me jealous but that’s how it is I guess
@hel27274 жыл бұрын
It is. Because everyone is different. I never thought my family was dysfunctional at all until I saw how other people live.
@tina10614 жыл бұрын
@@hel2727 I am obsessed with knowing how others live and hope that whatever I tell others are normal
@hel27274 жыл бұрын
@@tina1061 A lot of people can probably relate to that, so there's that.
@QGonline4 жыл бұрын
Anyone else feel like they’re relating to a lot of these videos but have no idea what to do about it because you don’t know what caused it in the first place?
@annaturquoise71144 жыл бұрын
This is EXACTLY what I was thinking just now
@carleflores90653 жыл бұрын
I felt like that at first but talking a lot with a friend, a professional or to myself (maybe through a notebook) about what comes randomly to my mind, my feelings or my past really helped me, it's a bit confusing and blurry at the beginning, you're probably trying to burry it as a defense mechanism that helped you survive then... it takes a lot of time, it's a slow process, but you can start slowly by expressing what's burried :) I also search for a lot of advice on healthline and psychologytoday, I just search things like: "what to do to heal childhood trauma?" and so on... you can do it! much love and luck for your path of healing!
@Zaza.883 жыл бұрын
Time to find out maybe :)
@J_L_A3 жыл бұрын
@@annaturquoise7114 do some deep spiritual work and some inner child work. 🙏
@annaturquoise71143 жыл бұрын
@@J_L_A thank u
@rolmodel12.4 жыл бұрын
"Make peace with your past-self, aka: your inner child." - Psych2Go
@nafisatabassum54394 жыл бұрын
How?
@afielsch4 жыл бұрын
It is dead.
@IbarraAlejandro4 жыл бұрын
I'm trying but l can't never thought what l did in the past would kill me now l regret doing it... I did something so embarrassing in front of my loved ones family, and can't forget it. So awkward and awful 😭😭😭😭😭💔 now the shame is killing me
@teresataylor85093 жыл бұрын
I've got a lot of trauma from my childhood. I vowed when I became a parent, that I would not be like, or treat my children the way my parents did with me. I have 3 wonderful children who I love unconditionally. I've had therapy for trauma bonds that I had, and I'm stronger and happier because of it.
@userm1802 жыл бұрын
i'm really really happy and proud of you!!
@britneyspearsstan3 жыл бұрын
"You have trouble letting things go" yeah that’s like my main personality trait
@rinapplepie21183 жыл бұрын
Same
@elizabeatrice71203 жыл бұрын
I had this one small disagreement with one of my friends in primary school, and for some reasons I think about it once a week on average. I keep thinking “if I had said this one word differently, the disagreement wouldn’t have happened. I related way to much to all of them, except I had a near perfect childhood, I have no idea why I express each symptom so strongly.
@kaitlynnrose92943 жыл бұрын
My parents would literally bully me and yell at me about this.
@amber42453 жыл бұрын
Same here
@kirbyrobobot83652 жыл бұрын
Jup, that's me as well. Still thinking about many past events. Still need to take revenge on my 'father'.
@emilytaylor10014 жыл бұрын
I looked at my black and white picture when I was 3 years old: all sad and confused. I instantly fell compassion towards myself, took the picture and was holding to my heart saying: "From today, I will never ever neglect you or abandon you. I will always love you and make sure, you will receive self-care regularly." 💗
@poppybean78074 жыл бұрын
Emily that’s beautiful 💕 xxx
@Dr_Nutrition4 жыл бұрын
This happened to me to - I saw a pic of my brother & me when we were little & I cried for them & could not understand why anyone would want to treat them like garbage.
@JillofTrades4 жыл бұрын
beautiful message
@angelinebaekhave23264 жыл бұрын
That’s so awesome Emily....and just think when u become a child of God, he writes u r name on the palm of his hand!
@whitevortex83234 жыл бұрын
@@angelinebaekhave2326 Praise God. Stop lying. Everyone is a child of God. Praise God.
@puplover89523 жыл бұрын
Anytime I showed anger towards any of my family, I was made to feel guilty about it and now whenever I feel angry, I feel guilty about it and somehow making it my fault that I'm angry. I don't know what this means
@lamarasawyer8503 жыл бұрын
Chances r ur family still wants to abuse u. I'm no professional, so take it with a grain of salt. Regardless, you have every right to be angry or have bad days just as much as anyone else. Anyone who says otherwise is a lair, blood-related or not.
@kristingoldtooth22943 жыл бұрын
*sigh* I run into this constantly when I call/visit my parents, I am so close to cutting ties with them. I want them in my life but I can't stand the negativity they make me feel.
@lydiaola3363 жыл бұрын
@@kristingoldtooth2294 You might need to go no contact in order to truly and rightly heal. Rather than taking 2 steps forward, and 5 steps back during those visits. You might end up never registering any real progress. Love and light 💡 ♥
@yashgarg61783 жыл бұрын
Same is my situation bro.. I feel the same
@lunamoth70443 жыл бұрын
Same here
@Madders232 жыл бұрын
I didn’t realise just how much of a mess I am until this past year. I retire this year and although I knew I was damaged, I didn’t realise just how much. One thing I can honestly say I am proud of is that my children have not been damaged. They tell me I was a great mum. I knew from very young that I would never hit, shout , abuse, or neglect, physically or emotionally. . My kids knew how much they were loved and still do.
@ChinghangHui-us7vz11 ай бұрын
That's good
@arandomcivilian70244 жыл бұрын
Often, when I’m not feeling okay or having an episode, I really do feel like my inner child takes over. Like I’m 6 again, crying alone. And then I feel pathetic. I feel like I haven’t grown up. I’m 26. I know I have a lot of unresolved traumatic experiences from childhood. This video makes me feel seen. Thank you.
@sarahkahle70414 жыл бұрын
crying alone doesn't make you pathetic or immature
@skyejacques3 жыл бұрын
I hope you find bodywork to heal the trauma as well as therapy. I didn't go for therapy when I was 26 and I really should have. Same for acupuncture, and dance movement therapy and other trauma release things. We all will clear the trauma that is stuck, and rewire our brains. Promise. Look up Bruce Lipton's work
@the_whale_95833 жыл бұрын
I always thought I had the best childhood anyone could ask for, and the possibility of having a wounded inner child seemed so far fetched to me. But when I realized I am a people pleaser, don't feel safe showing weakness infront of others and am not able to set boundaries without feeling guilty, I got the feeling something may be wrong with my inner child. Somehow this realization created a rush of negaitve emotions like helplessness and sadness, and I felt really small and weak for crying like a baby in my bed. I haven't been to therapy so this is not confirmed by a professional, but I think that when we feel like we're 6 years old again, small and pathetic, it's just that inner child expressing itself, and that is ok! I like to think that there is a grown up version of me that goes to work, does chores, keeps my apartment clean and all of that, and then there is the child version that likes plushies, storys of dragons and fairies, and cute animals. And my grown up version just needs to take care of my child version so both feel safe and acknowledged. Again, this is not anything I heard from a professional but maybe next time you feel like 6 year old you, you can try and let it happen and take care of yourself the way you need it in that moment. And remember you are not pathetic or weak for crying, and you are not the only one who feels like this. :)
@arandomcivilian70243 жыл бұрын
@@the_whale_9583 I like this. Reminds me of the quote, “be the adult you needed as a child.” :) I’m definitely a much better adult rather than when I was a child. We’re growing up well and taking care of the wounded children we were.
@dingusdeduck26213 жыл бұрын
Crying is never pathetic. The more u think that the more hurt u will feel. I have to learn this lesson the hard way cause I have been told so many times that crying is pathetic. Be ur self. God made crying for a reason so u can let ur emotions out.
@orlandoluisf.deleonjr.52804 жыл бұрын
"Holding on to a time when your needs weren't met." So THAT'S why I felt angry growing up. I'm beginning to understand.
@orlandoluisf.deleonjr.52804 жыл бұрын
@Chloe Archibald I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you've begun your journey to healing.
@carleflores90653 жыл бұрын
@Chloe Archibald :(
@mariabenjamin19893 жыл бұрын
OMG IK IM 7 MONTHS LATE, BUT UHM- YOU JUST HELPED ME FIGURE OUT WHY I HAVE A WOUNDED CHILD. I'm so angry all the time because when i was younger no one understood my mental health. not my anxiety, not my adhd, not my insomina they just kept saying to me "i don't get it, why are you upset?"
@echfx92014 жыл бұрын
I’m here to watch this video as a: “Am I a wounded inner child”
@sherenifernando974 жыл бұрын
Lmao same
@Psych2go4 жыл бұрын
Let us know how many signs did you relate to!
@okite3744 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go i... Relate to 3 or more signs...
@M1nd_G4m3s4 жыл бұрын
That is surprisingly accurate
@lunarkitsune25524 жыл бұрын
Psych2Go I’m all of the signs
@Theimaginativepan3 жыл бұрын
When you know that you had a bad childhood but you can't remember it
@shogunbirds65893 жыл бұрын
I know that I have a lot of trauma, but the problem is that I can't remember it so I can't move past it. I have such a hard time saying "No" to things because I feel like I have to do that thing that someone asked me if I could do it or not, even if it is a *massive* inconvenience for me.
@Theimaginativepan3 жыл бұрын
@@shogunbirds6589 I have found a sort of peace with mine even though the cause of my bad childhood is still in my life I hope that you can find some type of peace just remember that it may came sooner or later but does get better
@thebrotasticbro94652 жыл бұрын
That means trauma
@Theimaginativepan2 жыл бұрын
@@thebrotasticbro9465 yea I know And lucky for me I don't have to deal with the person who cause it anymore and he might be going to jail
@thebrotasticbro94652 жыл бұрын
@@Theimaginativepan good! Prayers for you as you heal! Proud of u
@meghanwebber49774 жыл бұрын
This hurts my heart. I've been a wounded child and that affected every aspect of my life. My inabilities to speak up and trust my judgement and make authoritive decisions make so much sense. What's difficult is knowing how emotionally stunted both parents are. Tried sharing my feelings once, it backfired horribly. They yelled a lot, and there was no reasoning or seeing that I was calm and not angry. I don't want to blame them for everything, as they were young and did the best they knew. We had love, but also outdated emotionally constipated traditions that suppressed us; anger was a sign of disrespect. It sucks, I have to go on knowing they'll never understand the damage I'm trying to unravel as an adult. And it's difficult. They love me and mean well, but they may never truly KNOW me 💔
@meghanwebber49774 жыл бұрын
@Chloe Archibald ❤️❤️
@yudu90584 жыл бұрын
same 😔. And I'm only 13, long way ahead....not only my mom is toxic, my brother too. He is the most selfish person I have ever seen. And he fights A LOT with my mom(like many times a day). He held a knife and make death treat to me. My mom tries to control me on EVERYTHING, she never respect me. And she doesn't treat me as a person, instead, her possession. She wants me to give her A LOT of money when i grew up. And She scolds me and attack me for everything I did. I'm stuck with them every day. My father lives in another country. he escape our family long ago, but leaving me here alone 😔. Sometimes I don't think I can go on.
@gaby55464 жыл бұрын
I know what you mean I feel like that too.
@ricspez4 жыл бұрын
Hugs.
@syalamontana25083 жыл бұрын
I speak up to my parents about my feelings when i was 17 and they never, not even once trying to understand me. Since that time, i never expecting anything from them. Lately i realise I changed a lot. I'm getting angry so easily, i don't want to meet my family in occasion. And now they wonder why i'm being like this. After thinking about this, i realise that i changed from that day, because of them. They hurt me so bad when i was 17 and it changed my life.
@krisp36694 жыл бұрын
I feel guilt at least once a day, For no reason, I don’t know why, but every little thing
@-seesaw-kpop43704 жыл бұрын
Yes same. Like I'm literally struggling right now with something I said earlier today. It honestly makes interacting with people difficult since I know I'll feel horrible for at least 2 days after.
@krisp36694 жыл бұрын
Chloe Archibald Relatable 😊
@SG-cr2zr4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, it's honestly so easy for us to trick ourselves into thinking that we're the bad guys but once in a while, we need to let go of that thought because we actually aren't. It's all in our brains, in my case, overthinking was the root cause of me guilt tripping myself. So I found what makes me overthink and I avoid those triggers at all costs. Try to find out the root cause and avoid its triggers. Have an awesome day!
@krisp36694 жыл бұрын
S G Thank you!! That was really meaningful and will probably help me! Have a nice day too! And I hope that your having a great life! :D
@jgraci69273 жыл бұрын
Me too the same
@DragoSmash3 жыл бұрын
”The truth is, not everyone is going to mistreat you” yeeeeeeah, no, i am sick of opening up to people only to get mistreated
@haneenasad3 жыл бұрын
I am with you... :(
@r3nnn._3 жыл бұрын
Same
@andreasanchez35573 жыл бұрын
I’m a close book now.
@usedforstuff21753 жыл бұрын
it may not be everyone, but it's a darn high ratio :,\
@norazulkifli25173 жыл бұрын
Same
@Demureli2 жыл бұрын
I will always carry the trauma of my childhood with me and it still upsets me whenever I think about all the mistreatment I endured.
@userm1802 жыл бұрын
wanna talk ab it?
@Demureli2 жыл бұрын
@@userm180 i have professionals who i talk to, thank you for asking though ❤️
@userm1802 жыл бұрын
@@Demureli alrightt :)
@K-EKG4 жыл бұрын
Damn my inner child wasn't wounded, It was murdered D: . I am working on moving forward tho.
@jillianproulx37014 жыл бұрын
Same here
@geraldshing67254 жыл бұрын
5 out of 6. Mine too.
@Gitanagurl4 жыл бұрын
Same
@vf_hs72044 жыл бұрын
Same bruh
@nanamimomozono41464 жыл бұрын
Godric Leogrant relatable
@LogicPsycho14 жыл бұрын
Everyone is born creative; everyone is given a box of crayons in kidergarten. Then when you hit puberty they take te crayons away and replace them with dry, uninspiring books on agebra, history, ect. Being suddenly hit years later with the 'creative bug' is just a wee voice telling you, 'I'd like my crayons back, please.
@Cmdr_Kraid4 жыл бұрын
Same here depression since puberty hey stay strong bro we are here. share stuff , shout out loud and let's get out of this 👍
@BattlesuitExcalibur4 жыл бұрын
Or a box of Legos. Then people start telling you that Legos don't do anything for you and won't get you anywhere, and before you know it, those same people don't have jobs, you're an engineer, and they wonder why you don't want to spend time with them anymore.
@Cmdr_Kraid4 жыл бұрын
@@BattlesuitExcalibur absolutely stole the words
@rollzolo4 жыл бұрын
I got in trouble for melting crayons on the radiator.
@Cmdr_Kraid4 жыл бұрын
@@rollzolo whhhhhhhhhhhatttttttttt???😨😱
@avengingscapegqat45983 жыл бұрын
I always got spanked for messy room, not finishing food, yelled at everyday if I wasn't 100%. Anyone else parents keep you at table till plate was finished but most times ended up barfing, I've always been a tiny person, I can't fit that much! I never threw a tantrum, I wasn't spoiled, I was over disciplined.
@dubudaebak3 жыл бұрын
you're not alone!
@bellscb_233 жыл бұрын
When I was born I didn't want to drink milk(any kind of milk.) I was the runt in our family, so I was small for my age also. I know what you are saying about having to finish everything on your plate. My mom thought it was psychological that I didn't want to eat but I couldn't eat all that food either. I would throw up too but she said it was just me not wanting to eat. It's too bad adults don't listen to children and children can't completely explain themselves fully. Basically I wanted to say I completely understand what you're saying, I just don't know how to express myself properly. Unfortunately that "not eating thing" has stayed with me because I believe it's medical and not mental.
@courtneyyoungmusic3 жыл бұрын
Omg THIS was my childhood. So many nights falling asleep at dinner table because wasn’t allowed to leave before finishing. I simply couldn’t fit it into my belly lol. And yes, had the belt like pretty much everyday and not allowed to leave room until tidied. So I used to spend days locked in there, because even if I tried it was never good enough. I never force feed or pressure my son into eating anything, to ensure he has a healthy relationship with food and his body when he grows up. I also make tidying up toys a really fun thing. If only my parents had the same basic understanding of this whilst raising us.
@vp72853 жыл бұрын
Me too. Was horrible
@friskyfloss3 жыл бұрын
Yep, I had to stay at the table until I ate my peas. Peas made me gag. There was way too much yelling in my childhood.
@inksterdoodles113 жыл бұрын
I'm still a kid, but everyone either says I'm too mature, so I sometimes act more childish and almost basically regress and cry a lot at night when no one's watching. Then my mother says I'm too childish. When I used to sleep with my mom, when I cried, the next morning she'd berate me for it. To anyone out there experiencing similar feelings, please hold on! I hope your situation gets better soon :0)
@narimafanficfan2 жыл бұрын
yes! I often cry like a child ( literally crying out loud, in my pillow. I think my inner child feels terrible pain! and I have no idea how to read it and south it) I also understand 'other' children, ( I am an adult now but I still feel children's feelings, and it hurts my heart to see parents who do not understand their children's behaviours and cries!! child psychology is everywhere and for free for heaven's sake!! just today, their was this family of five: the parents, a boy of about 9or 10 Yo, and a little girl probably half that age, and a baby todler! the little 5 year old girl was playing on here own but couldn't stop crying the mother was playing witht he older brother and father was holding the todler! the little one who was crying was obviously feeling lonely, and unheard! she feels jealousy from as the her little sister took all her parents' attention and feels lonely because her big brother doesn't play with her and demands 'loudly' the attention of his mother ! but the mother literally didn't seem to understand that! the little girl told me that her brother often hits her! I looked at the mother and she didn"t look annoyed or anything! its tough to be a kid frankly!! I had to play with her for a while untill she smiled again and then she wanted to play on her own again , then I said goodby and went away! )!
@inksterdoodles112 жыл бұрын
@@narimafanficfan People honestly need to try to pay attention to kids’ mental health.
@patashnikelroy4 жыл бұрын
Hope who ever sees this has a good day 💕
@srenuwo4 жыл бұрын
Thanks!💖💜 you too
@lemxn_ice_tee4 жыл бұрын
Thank you❤ I hope you have a good day too💕
@koifish42764 жыл бұрын
and to you
@stonksboi694 жыл бұрын
Aww thanks :)
@e.g.garcia65284 жыл бұрын
Thank you, you too 😊💕
@XXXX-xx9to3 жыл бұрын
Dear mother, Memories of childhood are beginning to fade. But I remember beautiful laughter, the wet grass , and the ladybugs we’d catch and play with together. I thought I was on top of the world, even after the abuse. I would forget the marks you left on me , at moments like those. The memories of you screaming , hands around my throat become clear on days my mind is a mess. The cries of my younger brother still haunt me . But when it pours , your cries and screams fade into the background and then I am young again. You hold me close to you, so close I can hear your heart beating. Your scent makes me feel at home. And it pours and pours , and the image of your hair on fire and shattered glass on the floor blend with the beautiful memories, until my mind becomes hazy and I am unable to think straight. It becomes so blurry that I can’t distinguish between the good and bad memories. It continues to pour . I still remember how I would imagine myself in a complete different family, with a present father, loving siblings and a mother who’d cook a delicious meal, especially on days you’d scream and shout , threaten to leave or kill yourself. Why would you expect so much from a seven year old ? It makes me ache , and I wake up in pain in the middle of the night, embracing myself. The memories won’t leave me alone . It pours and it pours It simply won’t stop pouring.
@rinapplepie21183 жыл бұрын
Omg that made me tear up
@anupreetiboro13523 жыл бұрын
I wish I could share a hug with you, my mother has been through so much and projected her emotions towards me and my siblings that I to this day am terrified of opening up. I never tried it, not as a child nor as an adult. She's sick currently and I get texts from my sister saying that I should try to talk to her. I love her so much but I am so hesitant, I cry myself to sleep every now and then. Every conversation goes south with her, I choose not to let my anger consume me, so I just keep thinking until my thoughts settle down eventually. I wish that I had a happy family... But all I get is how much of an unworthy loser I am.
@luroluroluro3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this, I hope you can find peace and happiness
@anuskabasnet46692 жыл бұрын
This hurts so badly .
@marissacarter56672 жыл бұрын
@@anupreetiboro1352 I am experiencing the same thing as well..I'd jus like to let you know that it's okay to love her from a distance. She's your Mother, yes, but she's also an adult who needs to take care of her herself and actually be an adult. Idk about you, buh my mom would abuse me and then excuse herself by blaming everyone who used to abuse her. What she did to you is not your fault and you deserve to be happy, with or without your mom. I'm sorry if that was out of line..I jus thought I should let you know. You're so much more than someone's daughter. Don't go back if you know she's gonna continue to hurt you. You can't heal if you keep going back...The burn won't heal if you keep touching the stove.
@rhaiz29324 жыл бұрын
i’ve always been weirdly attached to things from my childhood, it feels like someone took my innocence and safety away but i dont remember having any sort of traumatic experience, but having all the symptoms in this video do be making me cry
@TitaniumTronic3 жыл бұрын
Pfft, i remember every single traumatic event that I ever experienced in my childhood...I remember every god damn second..And those god damn second lead me to this Socially anxious, skin picking dosorder, untreated depression and self hate...And I still cant get over them and I still stay awake at night because of them...I sometimes randomly cry because of them...I sometimes ounch myself at night too!!
@ghostofthemoon3 жыл бұрын
It could've been so traumatic that your brain erased it from your memory to protect you.
@hithere.78423 жыл бұрын
@@ghostofthemoon our brain can do that??? can u please explain it 👉👈
@ghostofthemoon3 жыл бұрын
@@hithere.7842 www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2016/12/161209081154.htm this is one of the better explaining sources that I can find
@hithere.78423 жыл бұрын
@@ghostofthemoon thank you!
@Nareynah2 жыл бұрын
spending time comforting my inner child and speaking with her is such a wholesome thing. and the fact is, i’m still very much a child. i have so much more to learn. i don’t need to rush anything. it’s okay to live in the present moment.
@ToniWellons3 жыл бұрын
My inner child is definitely hurting still. I’m still trying to unpack my childhood trauma and realizing how bad things really were. I was hurt, lied to, mistreated, shamed, grieving and abandoned at 12. I’m still carrying the weight of it 2 decades later. Nothing was truly resolved and I never knew how to cope and move on. I really want to move on emotionally 😔
@userm1802 жыл бұрын
heyy, its been a year. how's it going?
@kapythebara50892 жыл бұрын
my parents divorced when i was around 3 or younger and not being able to legally be with my mum until 6
@jesseniabaez95642 жыл бұрын
I hope life has been a little kinder to you Toni.
@piyaliroy34172 жыл бұрын
Do Hooponopo prayer it's a healing prayer 🙏
@norbertsiewert39172 жыл бұрын
Sorry. There are wounds that can never heal. I learned that when I had a session with a psychologist. She dug up mental and emotional traumas long forgotten and buried. I was unable to sleep that night. I later told her my problems cannot be resolved. I just have to make the best of my life as well as I can. My injuries are not inner factors, but caused by external forces I cannot control.
@landhausidyll31853 жыл бұрын
I just realized how many things I supressed from my childhood up to my adulthood. What's sad is that, I have lost so many people that could've been life-long friends of mine but pushed them away...
@dvaltinio2 жыл бұрын
aww *hugs*
@brendamedill2 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!
@nishachauhan31482 жыл бұрын
Wishing you a beautiful healthy healing ✨❤️
@userm1802 жыл бұрын
i'm sorry ab that :(( it's not too late tho, you can still make good friends :)
@madhulikajha46824 жыл бұрын
Omg! The animation in it is even more cute and beautiful. As, it's a child with a leaf on his head 🥺💜
@luisterrust4 жыл бұрын
Yes! We have to accept ourselves to heal 💪🏼❤️
@Psych2go4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching! We agree the animation is so cute!
@madhulikajha46824 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go Oh, tysm for replying 🖤 lots of love to whole team.
@shinycatt2 жыл бұрын
i cried my eyes out as this video began. i’m already quite emotionally vulnerable right now due to my current circumstances but when she went through the video i realized i fit each criteria and cried even harder
@praneetharavula13493 жыл бұрын
When it said "do your parents blame you a lot as a child?" I can't hold tears back
@QuestionEverythingButWHY4 жыл бұрын
“The past is a place of reference, not a place of residence; the past is a place of learning, not a place of living.” ― Roy T. Bennett
@niffellbique37444 жыл бұрын
Yea yea yea 🙄
@janetd53174 жыл бұрын
I agree, but it's so difficult sometimes. I have flashbacks to my child hood all the time, the feeling of desolation is so strong. It is a constant battle..so tired..
@spicypancakeproductions50573 жыл бұрын
My inner child isn't dead... it's bleeding out on the floor, begging to be put out of its misery.
@yellowjun1273 жыл бұрын
*cries*
@elultimo1023 жыл бұрын
I wish I could erase most of my memories from 3 - 18.
@cristopher70193 жыл бұрын
There is nothing u get by thinking of your past life is like a book u need to take next page to see what is waiting there for u close your first page just think how would it be if u die tommorrow how would you live?
@acegrossman69762 жыл бұрын
hardcore goth
@Froggifrog2 жыл бұрын
@@cristopher7019 Respectfully, meat stack of blood and bones, you wouldn't live because you would be dead
@southerndeth Жыл бұрын
I always new my parents were "less than ideal," but the fact that they were able to make every mistake in the book is quite impressive.
@jackdawjames76963 жыл бұрын
... who else’s wounded inner child has become an independent spirit
@Diane_6663 жыл бұрын
That's right. I dont *fear* abandonment - I know that people are most likely to leave me one day and I've learned to be ok with it. I don't have innapropriate guit because my parents had been trying to guit trip me until it stopped working. I don't have trust issues, not because I trust people but because I trust *myself* in knowing that I can get through any kind of betrayal, so I'm not afraid to risk it. I had to learn to set boundaries or otherwise I'd be destroyed. I do have the last two though, but 2/6 isn't that bad, is it?
@mehwishrasheed30353 жыл бұрын
@@Diane_666 u did great by learning and polishing up your personality, this is how a wounded person should do.
@stein0023 жыл бұрын
@@Diane_666 I wish to learn what you have learnt and stay strong!!
@monicagrigore70673 жыл бұрын
I did. However, inter-dependence is more appropriate than independence. No one is fully independent, it is just an ilusion. Yes, I am a free spirit now.
@philipoliverdelar96393 жыл бұрын
Damnn👌🏻💪🏻
@cloudberry74254 жыл бұрын
Omg can we just appreciate the art for a moment.. it’s sooo cuteee!!
@Education-Edge4 жыл бұрын
Majority of us are battling with some sort of childhood trauma 😞
@Samia-20034 жыл бұрын
It sucks
@ivorymantis10264 жыл бұрын
Well something has to keep big pharma and psych majors paid.
@julieisabelconant26913 жыл бұрын
It’s so hard. 😭
@Shadoboy2 жыл бұрын
I had a childhood issue that I always saw as something rather silly and unimportant, but as I've grown up I'm slowly realizing that it actually affected me a lot more than I could have guessed.
@overworked.canadian49574 жыл бұрын
''Sometimes your mind is the biggest enemy withing yourself''
@armyshope3 жыл бұрын
Yes
@JesusChristForEternity3 жыл бұрын
Always
@vividedwards89093 жыл бұрын
1984?
@thatwierdkid.4 жыл бұрын
After every time i watch psych2go. I tell myself... "I need to see a doctor"
@pampamdnf34224 жыл бұрын
You are not the only one
@da1su_am4 жыл бұрын
Yeah same,i maybe young but i know i needed one.
@killjoyneonashes57364 жыл бұрын
*cry laughs in american with crap insurance* Man I wish I could get help.
@mmmmoon57094 жыл бұрын
Same 😔
@skytte713 жыл бұрын
My advice to you, if you decide to see a doctor. Ask the doctor/therapist whether their practise, is based on an holistic approach to mental wellbeing, such as transpersonal psychology. That can truly make a big difference, in how you feel afterwards (how you feel with yourself) after the consultation. Besides the obvious importancy of feeling comfortable, at an consultation with a therapist. I would personally always choose the therapist who work from a viewpoint of transpersonal psychology.
@maisakalboneh28614 жыл бұрын
you're voice is so calming and relaxing tbh
@delusionaldreamer83322 жыл бұрын
"you would rather be alone than be abandoned" "the truth is, not everyone is going to mistreat you" I...was not expecting that to hit so hard.
@connorthompson17894 жыл бұрын
Every time I’ve ever caught feelings for someone their “inner child” vibe is the same as friends I had when I was little but I don’t realize until later on
@squeaksp33244 жыл бұрын
Took a min for my brain to process that 😂 but I also can relate
@cupidsdeath32584 жыл бұрын
Wow 😮 that’s cool Actually when I was young I just got pushed around because I was small and smart and didn’t have boundaries 😔
@connorthompson17894 жыл бұрын
Wanna Die wanna die but don’t really wanna die I didn’t have very many friends growing up maybe that’s why I’m so damn picky 😂
@naiaaaa.4 жыл бұрын
Psych2go loves reading my mind... I was just thinking about my inner child
@frostlord12464 жыл бұрын
Same here dude. I’ve been reflecting on my past a lot too.
@quantumquackery4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, we’re all connected on a subconscious level. Lots of us think about the same major things at the same time regardless of what our life looks like or even if we know others who are thinking about the same stuff. It’s pretty cool.
@frostlord12464 жыл бұрын
Jack Smothers I feel like that would be a good topic for a future Psych2Go video.
@Psych2go4 жыл бұрын
That's good to know! How many signs did you resonate with?
@naiaaaa.4 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go woah thank you for the reply this is the first time I got a reply from any creator 💜
@sweetmochi79993 жыл бұрын
It felt like, "finally, someone understood's me" and I'm crying real hard.
@BlackWhite-lc3tz3 жыл бұрын
V's "Inner child" is so realistic masterpiece that is based on real life experience. It's like a psychological treatment. Ps : for the ones who never heard of.
@blotart56173 жыл бұрын
That's where I started - and ended up here. His personality has changed and he has matuted but some people assume that he's depressed even tho we know nothing about his mental health. And thinking about it - maybe his inner child might be hurt or "scared" because of being criticized at a young age.
@BlackWhite-lc3tz3 жыл бұрын
@@blotart5617 yeah, and he made up with his inner child. It was like he was encouraging and consoling it and also himself. He was like making up between his past and future.
@blotart56173 жыл бұрын
@@BlackWhite-lc3tz yes, exactly and it might be his way of healing.
@winterbearsgirl74993 жыл бұрын
i was really worried about him and i didnt knew what to do anymore . thats when inner child was came out and i was speechless . i was going through the same thing and i didnt knew how to react.....but i understood his situation prefectly..................
@nolongerhooman23412 жыл бұрын
What are y'all talking about?
@jxchelle4 жыл бұрын
i can relate to this a lot 🥺 i hope everyone can find peace, & this is a very cute animation style 🤍
@Psych2go4 жыл бұрын
I'm glad to hear this video has helped you. Thank you for watching!
@Lucky1Yena4 жыл бұрын
I believe the saying goes: "im in this video and i dont like it"
@thyronejayclavel12874 жыл бұрын
Why is her voice so peaceful and calming? It’s beautiful.
@Mivo-oh6ux3 жыл бұрын
To everyone doubting the facts: i am actually diagnosed with childhood trauma and i have a wounded child inside of me for sure. And all of these traits apply on me. Remember that it's okay to seek help if you need to! You are worthy of happiness 💞
@userm1802 жыл бұрын
hoping you're doing well
@Mivo-oh6ux2 жыл бұрын
@@userm180 pretty random now but i'm actually better since i moved out haha hope you are okay
@userm1802 жыл бұрын
@@Mivo-oh6ux happy for you!!
@DireNight_Drnt_2 жыл бұрын
I couldn't read that without saying "It's not" okay to help if you need to.. I know that's not what you said it just took me 3-4 tries before I could read it without the it's not
@ChinghangHui-us7vz11 ай бұрын
No I am not worthy
@floofnoodle184 жыл бұрын
My inner wounded child rn be like Why do u need to expose me like that huh
@tired6074 жыл бұрын
ARMY 💜✊🏼
@floofnoodle184 жыл бұрын
@@tired607 Army 💜
@leeknowsnose4 жыл бұрын
ARMY 💜
@aaaaahhhhhhhh84253 жыл бұрын
"does your parents blame you alot as a child?" Me: no but my classmates did
@xsweetiebloomx6053 жыл бұрын
Same
@aislinnbergsvik93603 жыл бұрын
Same af
@darajoyce55143 жыл бұрын
Same
@WhisperingPersona2 жыл бұрын
Same. And to make matters worse teachers did too.
@akeames2 жыл бұрын
My classmates and my father.
@colettelee11624 жыл бұрын
"Avenge me." 🤣😂 The art style and sense of humor in this video added so much comfort to a weighty topic--great job, everyone!
@briannamontoya39112 жыл бұрын
This is one of those videos where I can't believe how seen I feel, and yet it hurts so much to feel exposed like this. I almost want to send this to some of my friends and say "look, this is me, please be patient." Thanks Psych2Go!
@chhayatrivedi87743 жыл бұрын
Me after watching this video " I am not the only one suffering " Thankyou pysch2go for making us feel that there is someone who can understand us .
@userm1802 жыл бұрын
hoping you're ok
@droppri.36854 жыл бұрын
3:34 I start too cry if I get angry, and get angry really easily, it's really just becoming a problem,
@michelamallone46663 жыл бұрын
Same. But when I get angry I can start getting physical. And i’m honestly scared of myself, because if I keep this up i could wind up in jail. But my sister purposely makes me mad, because she thinks it’s funny. It won’t be funny once i end up breaking her arm. I bet that day is bound to come.
@priyasachdev52623 жыл бұрын
People think growing up and getting matured heals the childhood inner wounds...but they don't know we live with a wounded heart for the rest of our lives,the space is empty and remains empty forever.We as a child had been damaged forever and yes it impacts all relationships.
@lunamoth70443 жыл бұрын
I wish it could be that easy to heal emotional wounds, but it's definitely not.
@priyasachdev52623 жыл бұрын
@@lunamoth7044 true 😭
@izumiishiwaka50213 жыл бұрын
"you would rather be alone than be abandoned" my mind taking things out of context "friends dont need me i disappoint them🤡" me: "what?" my mind: "what?" **silently laughs in loneliness**
@darajoyce55143 жыл бұрын
Same zhebdhebushs
@floofygod4 жыл бұрын
I have an inner child. His name is Indy and hes super cute but when he comes out I cant drive or cook.
@sewah30124 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@t954144 жыл бұрын
Sounds like DID
@daddyfisto87834 жыл бұрын
You might be a little. Look into ddlg/mdlb
@woahitsnick49654 жыл бұрын
Mitchell Saxon that went 0-100 real quick
@ahmad_19994 жыл бұрын
U look cute👦😘👦
@ROSITT4 жыл бұрын
She’s got such a soft voice that I feel an urge to meet her
@thepizzadolphinsensei75533 жыл бұрын
Each and every one of these described me so well I started to get angry... and then angering easily was another sign. I need to think about this...
@she_prays_she_slays_demons2 жыл бұрын
Who else feels like they can't lash out because the moment they do, everyone else will be thinking things like "what's wrong with them? They're overreacting" or "this person is so weak or annoying because they can't bottle up their feeling". The moment we lash out, everything changes
@danas58462 жыл бұрын
yep :(
@lightningringeopal36012 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@jupiter26094 жыл бұрын
My inner child was destroyed since I was younger then two. 1: I *know* they'll all leave me one day. Everyone does. And yeah, being alone means no one can hurt me, it gives me a sense of security. 2: I feel guilty everyday. 3: I cried. 4:Yeah. I can't say no. I can't even tell someone I don't wanr to be their friend, even when they're toxic.. 5:... 6: I shouldn't let it go. My father is seeing us. And I know what he did. I have to forget when we meet up with him. But he abused us. He gave me PTSD. I can't let that go.
@thisismyname53173 жыл бұрын
So was mine, but you’ve probably been through.
@vitolopoii79813 жыл бұрын
You never have to forgive him. Cut him out of your life and just thrive. They absolutely hate that. You are not alone.
@vitolopoii79813 жыл бұрын
@Heliah Stuurman child abusers do not deserve forgiveness under any circumstance. To forgive an abuser is to submit to an abuser. Forgiving your abuser is not ever necessary. The thought of feeling like you have to forgive them no matter what is one of the many things that gets in the way of healing from abuse. To forgive them is to say it is okay with you what they put you through.
@vitolopoii79813 жыл бұрын
@Heliah Stuurman You just need to find a sliver of empathy for your abuser to move on. To forgive is to trap yourself beneath them, right where they want you. Empathy and the act of forgiveness are 2 different things. Please stop telling people that they have to forgive their abusers. Forgiveness is only for people who make a mistake once or twice maybe. If they attempt to make amends and change themselves and grow as a person, then yeah forgiveness is alright. Child abusers are serial offenders that will never to be able to make any sort of amends. Abusive people always preach that forgiveness is the only way. Now why do you suppose that is?
@williamj.dovejr.86133 жыл бұрын
The older I get, the more I want a personal oasis of peace and quiet that no one can disturb..how? Simple. I go visit them..they don't visit me.. that's how I want it.
@kmp89853 жыл бұрын
How do you find that inner peace when you’re stressed out
@Ari-pf9qn4 жыл бұрын
My mother can say mean things when she is mad, so I see myself as a mistake and I think I bring problems to them.
@BobbieBrownie4 жыл бұрын
You are not a mistake
@nanamimomozono41464 жыл бұрын
nobody same
@caitlin21434 жыл бұрын
same
@danilles.42474 жыл бұрын
The mean things your mother says is not a reflection of who you are, only a reflection of the pain and hurt her own inner child carries. That she projects toward you cause she does not know how to heal it.
@floatingcartoonist50844 жыл бұрын
My mom says that she will kill me one day she said that she would poison my food but Idk why I still eat the food without even worrying that she might have poison it (She is mostly angry so yeah)
@OMGitsKristinaxD2 жыл бұрын
“You would rather be alone than be abandoned.” Maybe THAT’S why I can’t keep friends.
@khanhlinhtran29204 жыл бұрын
Considering that I fit all the said signs, my inner child isn’t wounded. They’re on the brink of death.
@LDXReal3 жыл бұрын
Same
@spiritangel13674 жыл бұрын
I've been bringing out my inner child for a couple of years now. As i couldn't have a proper childhood, i had to pretty much grow up straight away. If i was going to survive , i basically had to trained my thoughts/brain process into an adult. I'm 47yrs old & i enjoy my time with my inner child now.
@userm1802 жыл бұрын
happy for you!!
@sugarpink7584 жыл бұрын
You guys should make a show with this animation style to teach psychology.
@kimsherlock89693 жыл бұрын
The Inner Child stayed with me into my 60 yrs of life. I have experienced situations where I wanted to be able to truthfully express myself as a child /adult. In the adult's world of easy transition from child to adults norms...the adult with inner child issues will be seen as an outsider .
@sincerelynoone38274 жыл бұрын
Oh geez, I can perfectly relate to all the 6 signs- (especially with the 1st and 6th ones oof) Also on a totally unrelated note, I really love the art style! It looks super cute and simple and gives off this aesthetic and I love the coloring and effort put into the entire video!
@amazingscience66324 жыл бұрын
To the person reading this. May you have beautiful life ❣️😍
@avrxse4 жыл бұрын
YOU TOO!
@Tony-hv8wz4 жыл бұрын
Same to you
@luisterrust4 жыл бұрын
You as well!
@cynthiahenderson83924 жыл бұрын
Same to you🥰
@jenniechan35874 жыл бұрын
Me: I have a wounded inner child. My mum: What do you mean wounded?!
@thunder_heads3 жыл бұрын
I am not going to ever tell my family about how severe my ptsd is
@s4yorii5863 жыл бұрын
Do it for your own good
@nurinominaka43693 жыл бұрын
Ur username i- *remembers the my time performance* Hey! You're really brave to tell ur family about ur problems. I can't even bring myself to ask my dad to buy me new headphones ;-; Edit : my new headphones arrived :D
@Matthew-fj6eu3 жыл бұрын
@@thunder_heads family would probably say : tHaTs YoUr VaULt !!!
@ladeeeedah3 жыл бұрын
This hurt more than I had anticipated. It's sad that sometimes parents, even though really good, fail to realise the impact their actions can have over a child's psyche. I was largely ignored because I was the smart kid who will find her way out of situations. And yes I die, but the hard way. I wish, my parents could see how I wish I had them to shield me like they shielded my sisters. As an adult in my 40s now, it breaks my heart to realise how badly things that happened in my childhood have left me struggling with major abandonment issues. I am so scared of being abandoned and lonely that I have now chosen to be on my own than let someone leave me. My fear of being abandoned is so severe that as much as I want love, I have now given up on it and instead settled for some peace and stability for the rest of my life. I used to be a very happy, bright and spirited child and it seems I got punished for being what I really was.
@luisterrust4 жыл бұрын
When you radically accept yourself, much greatness will come your way ❤️🌟
@cynthiahenderson83924 жыл бұрын
Wouter, how and where do I begin to except my self in a radical way?
@killuazoldyck26304 жыл бұрын
I'm still a wounded child. Inside and outside. I'm 14. The video made me tear up Now 15 and it got even worse
@MDKE1143 жыл бұрын
I hope you're getting help. Ask an adult who you feel you can trust to find professional help for you. You are important!!
@r3nnn._3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@elultimo1023 жыл бұрын
Inside I'm still the battered 3 y-o, living in fear of his worst enemy, my own father. (The brute's been dead for nearly 60 years---but the damage was done). One of several reasons I never wanted kids, lest they turn out like me. Childhood abuse is now considered a form of PTSD, having many of the same long-term effects.
@hazelhope56463 жыл бұрын
Same pal
@inft_s11443 жыл бұрын
You're not alone
@thechemicalmystery5324 жыл бұрын
Never thought, someone can describe all of my thoughts and fears that much clearly .. Instead of being hurt, abandoned, rejected or blamed by others, it's more comfortable to do it by yourself... At least in the end, it'll hurt us less and may be we'll feel a little happy as well.
@nurulizzah74233 жыл бұрын
Through my childhood, my parents seem to lived with "if you're angry then you're the bad guy". So, I always feel guilty after expressing my anger even if the person I'm mad at is obviously at fault. Now, I hate expressing my feelings because nothing will change.
@s.a.84574 жыл бұрын
Never replace this dude with plant on his head to someone else 😢💕
@mekhribanmamedova17574 жыл бұрын
Fear of abandonment: only came to terms with it around 10 years ago. Thanks to the life circumstances. 🙏🙏🙏
@m4ggiezhng3 жыл бұрын
My mom would always get mad at my younger sister and me when I was younger and she would get in her car and drive away. Leaving me to believe that she wouldn’t ever come back to me. Turns out she just drove to the next street and waited until she wasn’t mad anymore. 🤷♀️
@Blossom-ne4bk2 жыл бұрын
To all the genuine and kind, true companions out there that I had growing up. I'm deeply deeply sorry for pushing you away. Everyone looked the same to me through fear and being wounded over and over again.