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@cringeeisforrealz97486 жыл бұрын
I can DEFINITELY relate to this.I have immigrant parents.I've only slept over twice.And that was at my cousin's house.
@thegigadykid15 жыл бұрын
Lol right.
@whyarewestillhere40634 жыл бұрын
cringee is for realz Same :(
@FloMillitary3 жыл бұрын
ikr
@RVforestgreen3 жыл бұрын
Same
@mersedes1592 жыл бұрын
Same
@bestatnba2k8 жыл бұрын
Since when has aj+ turned into buzzfeedyellow
@YousufElJayyousi8 жыл бұрын
I actually thought this was buzzfeed until I read your comment lol
@HitomiNoRyu8 жыл бұрын
+nick jones Wait...this isn't buzzfeed?! I'M LOST HELP!!
@TheJazzy78 жыл бұрын
+nick jones Since left wingers couldn't come up with original content.
@unknownhuman79198 жыл бұрын
"Hamas" instead of "Abas" ...LOL
@thegigadykid15 жыл бұрын
Lol right
@mistermood41648 жыл бұрын
LOL the dating point is spot on. XD
@afiqzul-star87688 жыл бұрын
I got the problem of dating. People will always hide their true self even when dating. I had that advice from adults and friends. And my friends who chose dating didn't really turn out so good.
@mistermood41648 жыл бұрын
Afiq Zulkarnain yes, but how will you find a partner without mingling?
@afiqzul-star87688 жыл бұрын
Mister mood Either you marry a close friend that you 100% know and they have the same feelings towards you and leave to faith or have an arranged marriage with a person you (or your parents) know is faithful and a good person. Your chances of divorce is lower and you will experience more happiness than 'love' marriage with arrange marriage. Choose someone with a good heart and if you are muslim, choose someone who is religious and your intention of choosing is because of Allah. Insyallah, you can find your partner. Also, it is also an added bonus if you have a good heart then others will choose you. Just be aware that 'love' is just hormones and more often than not, it can be due to hormonal imbalance.
@mistermood41648 жыл бұрын
Afiq Zulkarnain how can you know someone 100% if sexes are segregated? just because you parents choose someone for you doesnt mean you are going to be a good match. plus muslims in the west are having a harder time as their much less of them.
@afiqzul-star87688 жыл бұрын
Mister mood I exaggerated the 100%. You cannot truly know someone. If it helps, you can hope for the best and leave it to fate. Yes, but those are base of statistics. If you have a hard time, either go for arranged marriage, use a social media or convert your partner to Islam (some of my friends are doing that).
@dawonce4864 жыл бұрын
once in middle school i went out for 5sec when we were having lunch. When i came back in a guy from my class held up my "ethnic" food in front of everyone with his dirty little fingers and talked about the "smell" and "look".
@hyacinthbucket50625 жыл бұрын
so true no dating allowed but you have to magically find a husband and then complain later that you're STILL not married
@WondaGal10008 жыл бұрын
i totally agree with the name game thing. My name is out of a Hindi dictionary and it has a beautiful meaning (It literally means Earth and I'm proud to have been named that way), but every time a Teacher's Assistant, Professor, or Teacher, or adult who doesn't know me goes through a bloody attendance sheet, they butcher my name. I can't stand it. It's so stupid. It's not that hard to pronounce correctly.
@jaxamilius52378 жыл бұрын
'halal hotdogs' lollll
@sachaatiyah36328 жыл бұрын
Hi! I am an immigrant, IVE NEVER GONE THROUGH THIS!
@lloydwang41598 жыл бұрын
+sacha atiyah You did it wrong..
@chaizan97334 жыл бұрын
@@lloydwang4159 lmao totally agreeee
@sdasfdcq5r4wrtf914 жыл бұрын
Go back to your country.
@Elif-qu5ob3 жыл бұрын
@@sdasfdcq5r4wrtf91 why
@buzztube17382 жыл бұрын
@@sdasfdcq5r4wrtf91 Go back to Europe
@guyfromcollege8 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a bunch of first world problems.
@ConfuzzledTomato8 жыл бұрын
They live in first world countries lol.
@Nathankem888 жыл бұрын
The struggles are real
@Randomstuffs2618 жыл бұрын
+Awesome McBadass "people can't pronounce my name" "I also hate it when people ask how they pronounce my name"... Fuck it, I might as well offend you as much as possible and call you Hamas
@guyfromcollege8 жыл бұрын
Randomstuffs261 Yeah I kind of chuckled when he said a teacher called him Hamas.
@munaali69988 жыл бұрын
+Awesome McBadass Light-hearted look at universal experiences by 1st and 2nd gen immigrant kids. AJ plus does tons of vids on racism and discriminations - that are not "first world problems" either.
@sabrecreative34868 жыл бұрын
I can really only identify the first one. Life as an Eóin, it's actually quite funny to see what people can cook up with that pronunciation
@LizziesKindaBeast8 жыл бұрын
My family encouraged dating white people. "Mejora la raza" means improve the race. My mom said it constantly. I was born with darker skin than the rest of my family. My mom told my brother never to marry a dark skinned girl he has to marry a light skinned girl. My mom told me that if I married someone with lighter skin than mine our kids would look better than if I married someone with dark skin. They were so pissed when I started dating a black guy. Even angrier now that I've fallen in love with him. My parents don't like black people.
@Dayfa8 жыл бұрын
+LizziesKindaBeast But aren't you black?
@xe75358 жыл бұрын
That's like all Latinos in general they would get mad when I told them I was gonna marry someone darker because I wanted my kids to have color not like myself. I swear they can be so fucked up.
@HalimaAbshir8 жыл бұрын
this video explains my life LITERALLY
@pawelekrusnak78935 жыл бұрын
When people say immigrants why do they always excludes European immigrants ... Poles, Ukrainians, Albanians, Slovak, Romanian..... There's millions of us... Chicago alone has 1 million Polish Immigrants and more if you consider Polish ancestry.... So confusing
@jeffrutt52924 жыл бұрын
@r s well half the population is not black or latino, maybe 35% is. Chicago has 5.3 million people. But 1 million Poles is a little high. Maybe a hundred thousand.
@hyacinthbucket50625 жыл бұрын
parents speaking VERY LOUD on the phone
@gabbyb59188 жыл бұрын
I have a question, my Mom's an immigrant from Canada (the french part, so I had to deal with the long-distance calls), and I'm white. Am I included in this, because almost none of these applied to me.
@wordoflife81586 жыл бұрын
'Mum can I sleep over at Nathan's House on Friday?' Mum: And what is wrong with this house? Don't you know you have chores on Friday?' 'Can I do them Thursday?' ... *Death stare* 'Saturday then?' *DEATH STARE*
@MobiusMundUr8 жыл бұрын
Name pronunciation. We ask so that you _don't_ get offended! Or would you rather that we continued to say your name wrong without ever asking the correct pronunciation?
@JaneDoe-je7nh8 жыл бұрын
Yeah I didn't get how that is supposed to be a bad thing? Especially since the guy named Abas complained about his teacher calling him by a different name right after....
@moe95968 жыл бұрын
+DancingPotatoe16 They dont get offended, its just irritating because to you your name is normal and easy to pronounce since you speak the language it comes from. Alongside that people often try so hard to fit in but their seemingly different name is a constant reminder of how they are different. You wouldn't find it irritating if your name was for instance John and everyone you meet day-in day-out would go "Jo-hn? is the J silent?" "Joh? Joneh?"
@ConfuzzledTomato8 жыл бұрын
+Moe H thats such a non issue though. id be more unsettled if they didnt even bother to clarify how its pronounced and kept calling me "Joneh". ethnic names sound different ANYWAY so better make it correct and different instead of anglicised and different.
@moe95968 жыл бұрын
Confuzzled Tomato Might be a non-issue to you dosent mean it isnt to other people. Like I had just said the fact that people are asking isnt the issue its the fact that entire scenario is a reminder of how odd their name is to most people.
@ConfuzzledTomato8 жыл бұрын
+Moe H odd isn't necessarily a bad thing. I have a ethnic name and it's a non-issue after first 2 days of meeting someone. these people have it so good they're literally finding excuses to be offended.
@kirokyo8 жыл бұрын
Oh man, calling cards... Yes!
@OkamiZone8 жыл бұрын
Why do people only take that these are non-"white"? non-"blonde", non-"blue-eyed" Swedeners? I'm white and live in Africa! USA: Super Sayins of Stereotyping.
@gritmcnasty55928 жыл бұрын
LOL my name is Brian in the US, but in Belgium, they pronounce Bree-ahn. That was very weird
@SuperMario59128 жыл бұрын
that dating part was so accurate lmao
@elizabethnyamwange17027 жыл бұрын
I relate to this on a spiritual level 😂
@erinocelotl35786 жыл бұрын
Ok I have a question... If you moved countries as a child (say 6 years old, moving from Mexico to England) and had a parent who was originally from England who you moved with, you are an immigrant right? I went to England to visit my English part of the family alot - BUT ANYWAY THAT WASN'T THE QUESTION. So I've lived in England since I was 6, and now I'm 15 so it's almost been 9 years. Am I still an immigrant? I know I'm an English citizen, but can you be a citizen and an immigrant at the same time? Just really curious...
@DianaBukaeva Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, yes. You can be an immigrant no matter of your passport or language fluency. And that doesn’t change with age…
@munaali69988 жыл бұрын
BEST VIDEO!!! LUV U GUYS!
@gracep29102 ай бұрын
1:33 LMAO I did not expect that, but so true. My mom actually told me to make a plan with my friends to outnumber and overtake a r*pist, should one burst through the window. 😂
@chroniclesofmanliness86978 жыл бұрын
I can relate to the name, dating and calling points :P
@mistermood41648 жыл бұрын
+Chronicles Of Manliness i don't need marriage, i have a VERY, VERY vivid imagination
@chroniclesofmanliness86978 жыл бұрын
Imagination does NOT give you a sweet, fat, juicy, plate of kebbe nayye :P JK....dnt kill me feminists...
@sachinbhandari35062 жыл бұрын
Especially horrible when they want u to only make friends and date someone with the same ethnicity as you. Like there weren't even one in my school so I was having a hard time having to actually hanging out with friends
@JJ-dc9sh8 жыл бұрын
I really thought this was a buzz feed video until I realized it just now.
@savanna777 жыл бұрын
Im from Bulgaria so I can really realte to a few of these. Hello from Cali👍
@emorikuhn5 жыл бұрын
it’s all fun and games until your parents are from iceland and your real last name is Þórisdóttir-Guðjónsdóttir and everytime someone tries to pronounce it, chaos ensues. Shouts out to the maybe.. one other Icelandic person reading this. And if there is anyone reading this that would like to learn icelandic or is trying to, I am so sorry and I’m with you in spirit.
@DianaBukaeva Жыл бұрын
Oh so true! I have a friend from Iceland and her name contains letters I can’t pronounce 😅 She asked me to call her Raga
@brandony.18242 жыл бұрын
LMAO The Persian was so good! (I'm biased) "I have an engineer father" So persian. LOVE IT THO!
@blainereynolds38638 жыл бұрын
I totally had calling cards
@Hectico22578 жыл бұрын
Lolz, yeah the "instant marriage" thing is so true, Even if you date first, parents just automatically think you're going to get married I guess cohabitation is not a thing at least in Latin America
@JoJoOnYouTube27 күн бұрын
In people's defense for mispronouncing my name, that's on my parents because they misspelled my name, I had no issue with bringing my mother's cooking, I wasn't allowed to go a sleepover even though I was invited, ironically it was from a fellow latino. My parents wanted me to date as young as 1st grade, it's my sister who wasn't allowed to date even though she's an adult. My family is down to camp we just never made the plans to do so. I had no issues calling talking to my family from out country.
@bostongirlsandy3 жыл бұрын
I had immigrant parents from Brazil and they never let me go on sleepovers.
@tiffanygwengo5 жыл бұрын
Yessss I try to explain this to my friends all the time but they NEVER get it
@igot7problemsbutyougotnojams6 жыл бұрын
I used to think getting them black and white calling cards from the corner store was something everyone did lmao
@TheNoviceOAO8 жыл бұрын
implicit(sometimes explicit) "no dating, no dating, no dating...WHEN ARE YOU GETTING MARRIED?" #lifestory lol
@user-xj4vo8ui5d2 жыл бұрын
im watching this for class rn THE REALIEST. THING EVER LOL
@lrpolo8 жыл бұрын
Lol that was brilliant
@daniyalk7134 жыл бұрын
Is zahra pakistani or irani ? Could be anything lol she said inshallah and khodahafiz these are used in both countries
@yaya5tim Жыл бұрын
It's horrible when I type 1.5 generation or immigrant kids on KZbin search bar, none of the videos is really talking about us in a positive, fun and interactive way except this one, and this one is 7 years ago already. Where you 1.5 gen homies at?
@mynameisSULAB7 жыл бұрын
1:48 LOL! That's so true.
@vessela74848 жыл бұрын
Only one of these I had was the name game. (also, my maiden name is Kavardjikova)
@adib63188 жыл бұрын
I'm iranian living in scotland and this is so true 😂
@deenah616 жыл бұрын
Adib I’m Iraqi living in England and this is so true 😂 we appear to be neighbours in both aspects
@mersedes1592 жыл бұрын
Same
@WielkiLewimalytygrys9 ай бұрын
Being an immigrant and being son or a daughter of immigrants is two different things
@SuperOhyeah128 жыл бұрын
Holy shit i thought this was a buzzfeed video
@isabellabamnolker49214 жыл бұрын
When your immigrant parents think that you need grow up EXACTLY HOW THEY DID and expect you to be a full fledged adult by 16. Like ummm
@jaky4112 жыл бұрын
Great point! I also find it ironic how they expect so much perfection/adult responsibility out of their teens but also especially if they have a teen daughter, to be socially restricted and even kept sheltered to a certain extent more than if they have a teen son.
@Mos25513 жыл бұрын
I remember always using 1010987 calling codes to call family back home cheaply.
@spiffybaton16628 жыл бұрын
I think instead of becoming buzzfeed narrating text videos will be fine
@chaizan97334 жыл бұрын
Halal hotdogs😂😂 omg i still remember the first day i had a halal hamburger hahhahah
@spitzrb53763 жыл бұрын
so true
@aLex622978 жыл бұрын
Free health care
@globalcitizen9528 жыл бұрын
500yrs ago... who lived here ?
@Samuel115s7 жыл бұрын
i'm so glad i'm second generation not first lol.
@MeeGrrLoves8 жыл бұрын
Preach it🙌🏼😂 my lyfe
@hailie_Selassie8 жыл бұрын
I can relate!
@anton90048 жыл бұрын
Aj+ is slowly becoming the Buzzfeed of News :(
@bhcbhc6 жыл бұрын
See this is fun and harmless. It’s fine.
@oodon32206 жыл бұрын
Im so glad to have the last name park
@mohamedwarsame44108 жыл бұрын
So true .
@narutodssunny8 жыл бұрын
They also encourage you not to have friends at school.
@pawelrusnak19367 жыл бұрын
when you're white and an immigrant.... Look at Chicago... All polish immigrants.. idk how being white makes me a Basic american Cool ;)
@thegigadykid15 жыл бұрын
Its because most immigrants tend to be minorities not white
@radiohead63958 жыл бұрын
totally
@numb_but_positive5 жыл бұрын
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@kaitlin16093 жыл бұрын
Hoe-Itude Im weak ahahhahahahahhahahahahhaha
@sgtcojonez8 жыл бұрын
Zhara is really pretty.
@ig82586 жыл бұрын
This is dumb! I'm not an immigrant kid, I'm a Hispanic kid born in America. Yet I had the same shi* happened to me. Guess what! I got over it and know I have a good life and didn't complain about my upbringing!
@JMsoo8 жыл бұрын
I never dated a black girl lol, back in the days in Italy there were not such a thing as other black people I was the only one!
@JamesBond-on9jf7 жыл бұрын
They all fail at being funny
@uton3e4 жыл бұрын
my name is greta and so many teachers and people (and I mean so many) call me greeta and spell my name greata
@hornybodhisattva2 жыл бұрын
Ur roots are not in the west so when you come to the west u gotta level up or get out
@Luhmero8 жыл бұрын
longitude latitude hoeitu--- wait wat?
@Artbug8 жыл бұрын
You could have at least gotten 6 people who had 6 similar experiences so it didn't null and void your title... Also, these are experiences that *MOST* kids go through.
@seth15098 жыл бұрын
Yeah definitely first world problems. People need to except that they're different and people will act different around you because of that. Just because someone wants to pronounce your name properly you shouldn't take that offensively, because they don't want to pronounce it improperly.
@johnf.kennedy46508 жыл бұрын
What the hell do these people expect???? Their names look a little difficult to pronounce.
@drugstorecowboy77708 жыл бұрын
welcome to my life oh god.
@klp_user32625 жыл бұрын
The jenny Rivera calling cards you’d get at the corner store, any Latin people relate?
@Yolduranduran5 жыл бұрын
Or the Tigres del Norte!
@MrTubs9118 жыл бұрын
They do not sound like immigrants. Or look like immigrants. But, they have names from there parents that where immigrants. That does not make them immigrants........
@Mareepu8 жыл бұрын
That depends on when they came to the U.S.. I did when I was 8, and if it wasn't for my face, or name, or when people ask about my childhood or how life is at home, they would say I don't sound like an immigrant.
@JaneDoe-je7nh8 жыл бұрын
I think they were immigrants when they were kids. They've adapted by now.
@MrTubs9118 жыл бұрын
Jane Doe maybe so
@OmarCastroGarcia8 жыл бұрын
I came at the age of 8. I don't have an accent in English and I'm accustomed to most American things, if not all, depending on what you define to be American. When I tell someone I wasn't born in the country, they either don't want to believe me or think I'm kidding because I don't act like the person that's fresh off the boat. And I'll get asked a lot if I'm legally here too. So yeah, even though I'm very "Americanized" I still speak Spanish fluently and I'm and immigrant.
@MrTubs9118 жыл бұрын
***** Yes they are very Americanized. That's why they do not look like immigrates to me. If you come to America at a very young age. Growing up in American schools, and speaking English. You are not a immigrate to me.
@JonMow8 жыл бұрын
agh,an asian lesbian,classic man...classic
@samybaclet86833 жыл бұрын
je préfère tk78
@no3miiiz6 жыл бұрын
Where are the Latinos?
@fadiazzam46916 жыл бұрын
*Mtv and BuzzFeed have launched a successful attack!*
@GOD2sodomyME8 жыл бұрын
lol nugugian. thats how im saying it from now on. you cant put an n by a g people. my mouth cant do that.
@ZagrosianKurd6 жыл бұрын
Im a second generation immigrant and i dont approve this shit. So prejudice
@djoleyt8 жыл бұрын
Who can pronounce my name? :D
@GeedanUK8 жыл бұрын
I..I a... I am speechless :@
@djoleyt8 жыл бұрын
PONTY PRIDD I know :D .. You have to be Yugoslavian not to be.
@djoleyt8 жыл бұрын
***** Phonetically my name is pronounced "d͡ʑôːrd͡ʑe". Surname not even close.. but good try.
@aMazInDud708 жыл бұрын
+Đorđe Grabovičanović ja mogu
@djoleyt8 жыл бұрын
aMazInDud70 A ja mislio samo ja pratim AJ od naših.. I believe you can.. :)
@hornybodhisattva3 жыл бұрын
Ur not western what did you expect
@ChrisRD5262 жыл бұрын
Embarrassed to be a son of immigrants.
@pobbrock8 жыл бұрын
Trying to pronounce someone's name properly is racist apparently.
@ve27675 жыл бұрын
pobbrock no-one said it was racist tho
@stevebrewer78928 жыл бұрын
Getting free shit is another thing immigrants experience!
@IWILLEATYOUfully8 жыл бұрын
lmao the no sleep over thing is so annoying, I hate it