6 Things Men Notice First in a Woman and Find Wildly Attractive

[@deborahkalavrezou2385]

My new date and I watched your video together on our third date and discussed reading 8 dates by John and Julie Gottman. We have only kissed on the cheek so far but holding hands and he is planning many activities for us such as kayaking. and I have met his adult daughter and properly introduced. He wants to take me sailing with a couple he is good friends with also. We will go to see live local bands also and meals out he insisted on paying, even though I offered . I hope this never ends and thank you Jonathan for this , truly happy after so many years!

[@EMuro-wu7uy]

I started going out with a great guy. We took dating vows, talk on a regular basis. We've been friends for years. He's so shy he asked me out online. He let me know of some physical problems he has. He's over 50, and I let him know how much I love about him by his character and also let him know being physical is more than just sex. The right woman can make allowances for a great guy. We work together to have a great relationship.

[@JonathonAslay]

Yay 🌟

[@lindym9450]

I had a relationship with a guy whose vibe was rather closed at first. Turns out it took him longer to open up. He was being discrimating with his choices. Remember - this can happen with a woman too.

[@chrissylayton49]

Jonathon, when any of your videos come my way, I automatically like them as I know they will be worth it even if I don't get a chance to listen to them all. They are always insightful and contain humour which can lighten the challenges we may face. This one made me laugh about how you reference what your photo smile is usually like if you don't chuckle. It's exactly the same as my photo smile and close friends joke with me on this. 😂😁 I'll have to try the chuckle method. Lastly, great video, good tips, and very true ❤

[@MargaretCampbell583]

Yes true friendship is so important

[@CatherineInColorado]

Your idea for two people in a couple to express five things that they appreciate about their partner is an absolutely awesome idea! 💡

[@JonathonAslay]

Happy to hear 👍🏼

[@RaysOfSunshine-uw2sc]

😮You are so right about for there are women who think by wearing their bikinis will attract men, by doing that, it will only attract the wrong ones. I don't dare to do that! No way! Yikes! 😮

[@aaron26c]

To be more exact, I think most men will be attracted by that (good/bad men, young/old men). Those who actually pursue you though, putting time and effort into contacting you, if it manifested from their sight of you in something seductive (even if only momentarily) are not usually in to YOU. A body is a body.

[@joanmu1053]

I' m appreciative for your content Jonathan 😉

[@LasshaLiou]

Thank you, Jonathon ♥

[@maryamhosseini6967]

Hi Jonathan, I would like to thank you for your wonderful and sincere videos. I recently discovered your channel, and since I started listening to your videos, I have learned a lot. I will start reading the Huffman Process book, one of your highly recommended books. I have a suggestion, if you don't mind. You share very useful information on paper, which is not always easy to follow. What do you think about preparing a whiteboard behind you? This way, it would be clearer for us to read and take notes as necessary. Thank you again .

[@MargaretCampbell583]

There are few people with maturity. 10%

[@CynthiaNorton-u2m]

Gosh so many men need to learn how to take pictures. Lets not take a picture up your nose. Also smile!

[@JonathonAslay]

Yes and women too...

[@MargaretCampbell583]

We are in a sea of dysfunctionality

[@JonathonAslay]

Humans are hurting is why...

[@joanslauson7352]

I'm glad you found your true love.

[@JonathonAslay]

Found me...

[@Ziggimomspal68]

Oh em gee…this is hitting me so powerfully

[@LR-dm8wp]

👍 WELL DONE, WELL SAID & WELL NEEDED INFO GOING FORWARD. 🍃Much appreciated !

[@JonathonAslay]

You're welcome 😊

[@JoySpirit888]

God's blessings and healing to all Amen 🍀🙏😇😇🍀🤗💜

[@lauratotal4139]

Men sometimes give themselves a false narrative infront of the person they cease learning about their partner Active listening being in the present a skillset working on

[@Sherryyahoo]

I love the 2 photos behind you of your 2 sons

[@JonathonAslay]

Thank you, I appreciate that... 🙏

[@Sherryyahoo]

Jonathan, I read on KZbin about Turkey. I just got back from London and Norway and there were so many beautiful women from Turkey at both destinations.

[@marinettecachin5931]

Jonathon, About the men who were in a woman’s past life you have to remember that it starts with her father, uncles or any male relatives she had in her life and what if she didn’t have a present mother figure to help her find her identity ? Choices of a man in our lives is made on past upbringing it’s like a template If the template was bad, unavailable or controlling, manipulative and selfish it’s going to be a recipe for disaster, Lots of work needs to be done, It’s possible though.

[@JonathonAslay]

Yes, indeed 👏

[@marinettecachin5931]

Love you suggestions of Eckart Tollé’s book ´The Power of Now ‘ Even my 23 year old daughter read it .. To be in the present moment is the only moment !

[@JonathonAslay]

Amen 🙏

[@rubberducky1507]

I just learned this today !!

[@JonathonAslay]

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[@marialacerda6593]

Walls up is a Soul Ties.I have the discernment to see it in both mal and female.This is serious.

[@hereweare9173]

3:16 you’re welcome

[@JonathonAslay]

🙏

[@Miko-yw5xt]

why do men talk about what they're possessions cost them. are they vetting for gold diggers or trying to impress me? either way as long as he can keep himself financially I'm happy...x

[@JonathonAslay]

To impress you

[@activedogzz100]

So true!

[@SusanH4626]

I tried to read Elkhart tolle but I just don’t get him….

[@JonathonAslay]

I get it...

[@aaron26c]

What purpose did you have in trying to read him?

[@Orientalbackyardgarden]

I agree 😊

[@krissy_29]

How do these emotional avoidants start working on repairing their trauma?

[@JonathonAslay]

They need awareness

[@dlm2133]

I notice teeth. If a man doesn't have nice teeth, it's a no for me. It's a hygiene thing. I find it extremely attractive is the healthy white teeth. Men are visible. Women have their visuals, too.

[@aaron26c]

Did your father have nice teeth?

[@JonathonAslay]

Yes they do...

[@cscherer123]

In my opinion, you give men too much credit for what they find attractive. Simultaneously, the women are blamed for being ‘unattractive’, if they can't get over previous bad experiences quickly and keep a beginner's mind when meeting a new man. I'm so tired of hearing that we women are the reason why we are not in a relationship and need to work on ourselves, while the guys just roll out of bed and are perfect just the way they are.

[@aaron26c]

If you're tired of hearing what women need to work on to attract a man, try going over to a man's youtube channel where they talk to men about what they need to do to attract a woman. It might be something you've never thought of, because have you ever tried attracting a woman by living as a man? The value of this video is intended for those that are open to it. If that is not you, then breathe a sigh of relief for being a woman who is perfect as she is. Who said men are "perfect just the way they are" as you stated? Good men and "nice" men, in society have been on the down-low if you haven't noticed (Me Too Movement, Toxic Masculinity, "I don't need a man", Would you choose to be with a bear or a man if you were lost in the woods?). Men who don't care about any of this will keep on behaving the way they want to.

[@JonathonAslay]

I said grown up men...

[@cherrylane79]

Men don't often seek therapy.

[@JonathonAslay]

Because of fear...

[@NatalieG-yi3pn]

Men don't go to therapy because of ego and shame.

[@dr.sommiyaanum1242]

👍🏻 Great

[@JonathonAslay]

👍🏼

[@susanharrie3326]

❤

[@tamarabexley7020]

Usually I find your videos insightful Johnathan but I have to say I find it a bit unbalanced to make a comment about men in their egos and more interested in the visual as if that’s wrong. For me personally having physical attraction and a healthy body image whether I fancy wearing a bikini or not is perfectly fine. Maybe I misunderstood your point but it didn’t sit well with me and made me feel wronged as personally physical attraction and sexuality is huge alongside all of the other qualities you mention

[@JonathonAslay]

Maybe I didn't clearly explain what I meant. There are men (for example) who do nothing but follow women in bikini shots on their Instagram pages. While I'm all in favor of experiencing visual attraction, some men only chase sex was my point and I'm suggesting don't create an image that attracts those men.

[@tamarabexley7020]

@@JonathonAslay Thankyou very much for going a bit deeper into this 🙏That makes perfect sense now. I appreciate that and yes for me personally I value all aspects of myself and want to share all of those including appreciation of me physically and I see how it’s up to me and how I portray myself in a balanced way.

[@marinettecachin5931]

Agree with you.. and to be blunt Jonathon, Women also are visual too

[@aaron26c]

Speaking from a man's perspective: A woman's body can be like a drug to a man. Seeing too much skin too early on, even in wearing everyday outfits, can shut off his mind in having consideration for a woman's personality and feelings, and cause him to hyper focus on his personal goal in achieving one thing. Personally, I think many relationships start off from the triggering of this drug, and the personality/values of the woman are what keep him around for the long haul if there's compatibility. On the other hand, hooking a man with this "drug" (female body) too soon and thinking that he's now into you because of you is what causes men to lose interest. I think it is always wiser for women to hook a man with their personality/values first, never using sex has a primary tool, but using it very very very sparingly at the start. And of course, which man you choose is the most important part. ANY WOMAN can hook 90%+ of men using sex as their primary weapon. ANY MAN can hook 90%+ of women using money as their primary weapon. But it doesn't mean their partner's care about them.

[@marinettecachin5931]

@@aaron26c Thank you to focus our attention on your male perspective. Good to know it. How about authenticity, is it also more attractive than frivolous clothing ? Leave mystery to trigger imagination and interest

[@robinemery]

BIG BIG HUGGS🫂