6 Things Not to Ask a Trans Person!

[@billloney2567]

“Which bathroom do they use?” The one that doesn’t belong to them, obviously

[@BodeRiis]

I think this thing with cis people asking what bathroom you use is about them trying to figure out what gender you "really" are. Even though you may have told them 'I identify this way', those are just words to them whereas using a gendered space is an action, and I think this question stems from the assumption that actions speak louder than words. But of course many trans people don't use the bathroom that reflects their identity, they use the one in which they'll get the least harassment in. I'm non-binary and I just switched to using the men's bathroom because I was gettin harassed too frequently in the women's. This doesn't have anything to do with my identity, as I in no way identify as a man, I just feel safer. So maybe if you get asked that question it would help a cis person if they are explained to that bathrooms are a minefield for trans people and the bathroom someone uses may or may not reflect their gender identity. Keep up the awesome videos y'all!

[@phaedrus4931]

I was talking to a guy at the bar for about fifteen minutes. He told me all about how his hair is still long because even though he was sent over, he is still a hippie protesting the Vietnam War. I was very supportive of that identity (Warrior Hippie) and we easily established a rapport. Out of nowhere, seeming to crack suddenly, the snow-white scraggly veteran asked me urgently, "What are you? Are you a man or a woman?" I was like, "Well, that is a pretty strict dichotomy to hold me to." He was having none of it, insisting surprisingly, "Well, it's Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve." This guy wanted to see if I was "actually" male, not just deliciously masculine, so that liking me wouldn't be gay. I finished my beer, informed him he was a tragically failed hippie, and departed. Maybe explaining how bathrooms and forceful lines of social questioning are a minefield would have worked. I think in some cases that is correct and helpful. In some cases, showing works just as well.

[@user-xy4ff5yp7b]

Ignore some of the ridiculous comments. Those of us who don't have psychological problems see you as wonderful, creative members of society who can contribute a lot with your unique perspectives. Some people just live such miserable lives that they make it their mission to pick on people who are different to them.

[@superstringcheese]

Thanks for making this.

[@andresvalenzuela3817]

we cisgenders are curious cause this is rare. if you trans to a woman from man and like men, why arent you gay? one more question, what is a man? we hear alot of people asking what is a woman and getting no answers. Can you define a man? I think your unique perspective can add important info to the answer.

[@bonkers2394]

margot is hilarious and bEAUTIFUL I LOVE HER SO MUCH

[@LionEagleOx]

Im not trying to sound offensive, but hear me out. Im on the aspie spectrum, and have noticed a lot of aspie people are incredibly intelligent and creative. I also know that a lot of the lgbt community is also on the spectrum. With more intellectuals going the lgbt route, does that increase or decrease those on the aspie spectrum as well as overall intellect in humanity's gene pool? You can do what you want, but i feel humanity is at a great lose with so many good people ending their contributions, where there is no longer any impact, after youre gone. Its awesome that we can live free, but at the same time, this life is not all about us. Its bigger than us. And if you want to be part of the bigger picture, you cant focus on the small ones. I love all of you, but i wish you wouldn't let all the dumb people be the only ones having kids.

[@CM-jc7gk]

Yeah Bobby this is kind of offensive but mostly just dumb. Being on the spectrum isn't a superpower, it's not like passing down an X-Men gene, & the further suggestion that LGBTQI+ people shouldn't be themselves just to have kids is wild. You know people can have kids through other ways besides Cis Heteronormative relationships, right? You know a lot of Cis Heteronormative people don't have kids, right?

[@LionEagleOx]

@CM-jc7gk life is offensive. What one person may see as great, may not be what they thought it was. I mean, transitioning is end line for evolution in humanity's pathway forward. Lesbian and gays can at least use their DNA for kids.

[@alicyjinx8923]

Margot is so pretty 😭💕 Im jelous of her x3 (fellow trans girl here)

[@forest487]

There is nothing to be jealous about you are jsut as gorgeous in and out!😊

[@stuartbodde717]

margot always cheers me up ,what a wonderful gal, such beautiful eyes ,lots of love and luck and laughter sweetheart, godbless you margot ,hi erik love to you too my friend ,goodluck xxxx

[@becpetrie8175]

Margot, do my eyeliner, i cant look away from it! so smooth thanks both for informing, ignore the idiots

[@breekolean2758]

Why do breeders and bleeders try to pass their clothing fetishist and sexual orientation issues off as trans

[@steveroberts9757]

Yes, it's gay. You look like a girl, but are in fact a guy, so any guy that kisses you will be behaving gay (not that there's anything wrong with that). Women often feel uncomfortable having a man (even one that presents as a woman) sharing their bathroom. Gendered bathrooms exist primarily to protect vulnerable women against predatory men; and even if you're not a predator its going to make a woman feel unsafe and vulnerable.

[@Praptolium]

:)

[@demi311]

U DONT GET WHY SOME1 ASK THAT WELL U JUST DID DUH

[@ozzycat9938]

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