7 ATTRIBUTES OF A WIFE by RC Blakes

[@RCBlakesJr.]

GREAT DAY FAMILY! I believe this conversation today will be extremely enlightening for women and men. PLEASE LIKE this message, it really helps our message to go farther and reach more people.

[@vesnab.1553]

It really is the Grace of God coming through you to me. Just try hard not to be proud of it, because it happens to me also to become the channel of God sometimes,but at the same time I'm at the bottom for such a long time. I'm really not at the path of salvation but God uses me as a channel occasionally, these two things are not connected

[@LissiTojsh]

I have enough and I am enough... Praise the Lord...🙏🙏🙏 Atheist doesn't mean you are from the Devil or the dark side. I respect all Religions but I choose to believe in God of the Universe and His Son made man, Jesus Christ...🙏🙏🙏Yrs, single ess IS the Ideal unless you are lucky enough to find a partner that Believes what you Believe; same yolk...🔥🔥🔥🫶🫶🫶🌅🌅🌅💯💓

[@sensybil524]

This message was presented thoughtfully and thoroughly. Godly wisdom was shared to give us the understanding we need. Thank you🙏🏽

[@catinanunley1111]

I’m so thankful that I found you and your beautiful wife on the “Dear Future Wifey” podcast. I too was molested by my father and an uncle. I have carried this atrocious secret for over 45 years and I desire to be free from the traumas of my past. I have done a lot of inner/shadow work, but I’m STILL healing and growing. Thank you for your wisdom and service to women like me. I look forward to attending the Queenology conference in August and meeting you both.

[@karakuration9216]

❣️🙏🏼

[@meriemali5068]

I am a muslim . And i am a big fan . Ur a great man

[@RommanysWorld]

I’m a Buddhist. And, I’m here every week to listen to Pastor RC Blakes!

[@raphael210]

I’m Muslim to too and love listening to him

[@user-xx7xx2ek4i]

Im a Muslim too and I love to listening too …💗

[@christinagurrola5335]

I’m not religious and I love listening to him

[@PetitHibou72]

Catholic here, and he teaches me so much I did not grasp as a younger woman. It’s never too late to figure things out, and I’m so grateful to learn with you all from Pastor Blakes.

[@heather7119]

"The wife in you is only activated by the husband in a man"....🤯🤯🤯

[@danilove8127]

Real shit!

[@afarongordon]

Wife conscious: 32:40 1. She’s emotional available 37:30 2. Never compromises her dignity 42:31 3. When you desire to make your husbands life better 45:28 4. Not given to drama 47:16 5. Balance and self care 51:14 6. Nurture your HUSBAND intimately/sexually 55:03 7. Grateful and appreciative

[@layparisss]

❤

[@maamemaame1611]

Thank you ❤️

[@KM-oy5yh]

AMEN AMEN 🎉

[@rykishadouglas328]

Thank you😊❤

[@suebaybee]

I did all these things in my marriage. He finally comes out and says : he was too young to have gotten married, & he couldn't give me what I deserved due to all his brokenes and that he hope to one day find himself." ...

[@LadyWright]

"He's the safest man you've ever been with." Wow!! Preach!!

[@vittoriaidara]

"A woman enforcing her dignity is the glue that binds the husband's heart to her. " ❤

[@alishadennis7769]

I think 🤔 you meant the glue to bind her husbands HEART ❤️💓 HEART.... AND NOT HER HURT 😮 to her husband 👞 ♂️ 🎉🎉🙏...😅

[@vittoriaidara]

@@alishadennis7769 thanks 😊

[@moniqueharriel757]

On point !! My husband is everything I dreamed of in a man . A true man of God loving ,selfless , honorable, trustworthy , dependable. He’s the man of my dreams . Thanks for your great teaching Pastor Blake’s 🙏🏽❤️👏🏾

[@Well_Woman_WORD_Woman]

So true! We are "raising future adults; not children." As parents, we must be mindful to raise children who will have the qualities to be healthy spouses.

[@christinerose9561]

“If all you have is God you have enough” hallelujah I agree! If all I have is God that’s MORE than enough!

[@m.s9146]

I love that, “being a wife is a ministry,” indeed it is.

[@EfindsN]

Just wanted to say, THANK YOU Bishop Blakes. You and First Lady Lisa are saving lives through your teachings!!

[@joycewatt8289]

Great message! 👏🏽 Yes AND AMEN 🙏🏽 In 16 years of marriage thus far….it has been by the GRACE OF GOD! I am convinced that a stable, healthy and sustainable marriage does not happen APART FROM GOD!

[@korynnpatterson1156]

I wasn’t taught to be a wife but I choose to be one. Thank you for this message❤

[@iamjessie.b]

I thank God I found this Channel. God knows this is what I needed. My desire to be a wife and a mother one day is so great. I’m thanking God for you and having the power to pray over us women. God brought me here.

[@diamondunicorn2421]

To each his own , everyone is on their own journey. And your words of encouragement are appreciated! Thanks to you and your videos! Watch you for few years while I was single and overcoming certain obstacles with men and within myself! I’m now married to an amazing and God send man who continues to allow me to grow and become the wife I was always meant to be!

[@sherrellholden5721]

Marriage is wonderful, and my mom was a great model!

[@afarongordon]

Intro: 9:31 Wives must be developed 13:22 A girl is raised through observation to be a wife 15:21 She’s shaped through intentional mentoring 25:47 the wife inside her is activated by the husband in the man 29:09 what does a husband look like?

[@layparisss]

❤

[@tvocetm]

Thank you for this.

[@JoyceCristobal-n6u]

19:16 A wife may be molded by the grace of God Just want to add this too 😊

[@Well_Woman_WORD_Woman]

Absolutely! We have to be humble and teachable in order to grow and become an amazing spouse.

[@Well_Woman_WORD_Woman]

Amen!!! God calls us to have dominion over animals, not each other.

[@ilissawalker7051]

Indeed 💯

[@tarabeverly3680]

Thank you RC Blakes ❤ Blessings to everyone who is still wanting Divine love!

[@SharonGreen-h2n]

Thank you on behalf of all single women!!! It was definitely needed!!! 🥰🥰🥰

[@youmnaamir4152]

“ A wife consciousness will never compromise her dignity & self respect “ 👏👏 Thank u so much father RC , that comes in the very right time. I’m a muslim girl yet i love your messages and it empowered me to end a lot of shit in my life ❤❤

[@ladyzinada5341]

Good for you

[@RondaMcgruder-ot2td]

I appreciate your sound doctrine in the area of marriage and family relationships. Keep up the good work. Ronda Miller

[@joeyjo7553]

Thank you so much for teaching on woman’s issues. Some of us didn’t have an emotionally present father/mother. The church sometimes does more damage than good when they should be talking about certain things they rather judge those that speak on these important subjects. Thank you a million ❤

[@summersoft7]

You hit the bell on the head

[@overcomerbtboj]

Yes! I totally agree that’s why the divorce rate is so high in and out of the church

[@queenconscious2989]

Listen! When I tell you that God always uses this man to deliver a timely, needed message for me! Whew!! Praise the Lord!!!!

[@v.magaly]

Merci Pasteur. Je suis française et je vous remercie pour vos vidéos. Elles m'aident à guérir doucement de mes traumatismes et à apprendre ce que veut dire d'entretenir une relation saine avec les Hommes. Je ne comprends pas tout en anglais mais avec vous c'est fluide😊 Merci :) Magaly

[@joycewatt8289]

43:58 Yesssss If you have no desire to HELP him then he doesn’t need a HELP MEET. Help him in the vision God has given him or his dream and/or goals. Help him build and support a family. Help him make a house a home. Help his health improve. Help his finances improve. Help him laugh and relax. Help meet his sexual needs. Key word “help” If you can’t or won’t Why would he want to be in covenant with you 🤔

[@heather7119]

@@joycewatt8289 and vice versa! U are 💯 correct!

[@champagnespirit7446]

I am a Whole Wife by the Grace of God, Whilst Walking in my God Given Assignment ⭐️

[@Amanda-if1wn]

It would be nice to see genuinely happy couples. You see males with dead eyes. Love starved women. A worn out man with a dominant wife :) My ex husband was a narcissist monster. He once told a story about this beautiful girl he really liked. They went to bed right away. He said after it he was furious and threw her clothes at her and made her leave. She must have been devastated. People are so broken. I’ve given up on any expectations. I would be impressed if I observed others happy. If a man does not love God. He will never love you girls. Don’t do it! Keep your kids safe. Get wise please. 🙏🏻

[@theevolvingblackwoman]

Great message Bishop Blakes You are such an inspiration to us … I am a wife and because I know it , I walk with dignity and pride as I work on myself and wait for my husband… It’s a lot of work to stay focus at times, but the daily confidence I gain from keeping my virtue intact is amazing.. Also I would love to hear your views on Women who are divorce and still believe in abstinence until they re- marry .. the reason for this is that a long time ago one guy told me I should be happy he is talking , because I told Him even though am Divorced with children, I still believe in sex only in marriage.. The date ended and I took a taxi home and blocked him Long story short.. I think some men think because you were married before, you are free for all

[@sylvieb5498]

I understand now why I could never really fully submit to a man … I have never been married. I felt used by most men I went out with. How sad. I never felt completely loved by anyone.

[@GodDogPassport]

I was emotionally available but after a recent breakup I’m currently temporarily emotionally unavailable while in my season of healing and growth.

[@missnova4157]

-trust your own judgment - dont get stuck in the trauma of your past -healthy enough to give man opportunity to prove himself

[@layparisss]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@susan5048]

My husband died 2/12 years ago . We had a good marriage. My heart was shattered . He was the second husband lost through death. I had to learn who I was all over again.

[@FoodieQueenBee]

I cant imagine the pain you go through. May The Lord’s peace be with you dear!

[@ButterCookie1984]

Sharing a lot of death with strangers.

[@tarabeverly3680]

Thank you for your vulnerability and authenticity. I pray you are healing and getting the support you need in the mighty name of Jesus ❤❤❤

[@macoshal.brewer4230]

Amen! I don't play about me! I don't compromise my dignity or respect.

[@ladyzinada5341]

Amazing Message for KINGDOM WOMEN. We trying out here to get the marriage thing in order for our husbands. 😊

[@maryhasnolambasmr]

You are like the father I never had. I believe that your advices are gold for so many women. "If the only thing you have in your life is God you have enough"❤❤

[@JessicaWhite-oo6jd]

I love rc Blake's encouraging word how to be a woman not to beg or to chase men im loves being a woman who intelligence

[@LynnDaniels-et7tx]

Amen. He that findsa wife finds a good thing not she that finds a man. Wait on the Lord hear his word. Tk u pastor Blake's great message

[@BecomingaQueen]

Never going to take this damn crown off again! 👑

[@zephaniahfrancois4548]

10:04am. This is true because God Himself has covered me with grace to become the woman wife and ambassador that I am still becoming today. It’s Hid divine intervention that continues to mold me. He brought your ministry into my life to empower me with language for the work in me He’s been doing to restore my virtue and dignity. He’s always positioned me under ministry that aligns with the work He’s doing in me and my purpose. So grateful for you and First Lady ❤. Love you!!!

[@queenofthesouth4205]

Absolutely, social media is a blessing and a curse.

[@joycewatt8289]

Absolutely! The role of a wife is a ministry in and of itself and Singleness “in righteousness” works well for those God has called to that ministry as well.

[@linnetgithuku]

When i enforce my dignity...thats the glue that binds my husband's heart to me

[@iammayoush]

I’ve successfully cultivated these qualities thanks to your help ❤

[@Ella03434]

10:25 This all day long. I love my parents unconditionally but they were no where to be found in my childhood 🙏🙏🙏

[@jean_6524]

❤God chose you for a resource for females,I'm thankful 🙏🏽 🙌🏽

[@sarahpeyton3824]

I can see that…. What an honorable statement concerning your home & Lady Lisa! Love it!!!

[@gabrielachavez2781]

This is exactly what I needed today. I have been hurt deeply and suffered trauma from the pain of being in relationships with selfish men. After giving my life to Christ and working on myself, I have recently tried out dating. It's not been the most successful so far but I can feel that I am healing thanks to our Lord and Father. I have been able to practice all of the things you've mentioned naturally. Many things have been scary to me, like opening up, but with Faith, I have been able to open up and to enjoy the experience. I have also been terrified to fail miserably as I've done in the past but now, I just don't see that being a possibility. When I walk with God, He guards my heart. He lets me know if I should leave or stay and that keeps my heart away from the suffering I have been afraid of. I can now walk away with dignity and feel relieved that I am healed and I shall not be afraid.

[@LolLol-j7g]

As a BM I can appreciate this message. As a BM single no children in college I often meet BW with children with at least 2 kids the hardest part is I get called selfish for not wanting to date or entertain SBM being a step dad is such a thankless job you know it bothers me because I see a lot of BW don’t have standards for a man until they have birthed children by other men that didn’t partake in these BW becoming SBM🙏🏾👑

[@lwinston5950]

As a single mom I totally understand both sides. I hate I didn't value myself enough and wait until marriage. I truly believe everyone is entitled to what they desire in a spouse.

[@kenniel1756]

I’m excited for my spiritual change to open myself up for a real relationship again. I def. Need to set boundaries because I’m always told,” you wear your heart on your sleeve” but I really pray about things and fail a lot of times listening to God during his protection. I’ve never understood love as I came from a 2 parent home and they were never married, but I desire to break the stigma of broken Black homes. I’m “ old considering bc” but I just know my husband is looking for me

[@gail_7192]

Great words as usual very well said.Great message.Thank you R.C Blakes!Amen🙌🙌👏👏👏👏

[@realestatewithjw]

Thank you so much for pouring into women with your biblical words of wisdom, the way you do. It truly helps me receive advice when it's referenced from the Bible! God is truly using you to minister to us women and probably even men. You've helped me so much in these last few months! Please continue all that you do by the grace of God! 🙏🏾

[@lucindagalloway3316]

Good morning Pastor this was indeed a great message. God bless you.

[@vesnab.1553]

My sorrowful heart really enjoyed this word today♥️

[@meseretwoldie2262]

Amen, God bless you brother. I'm from Ethiopia.The right lesson on the right time!!

[@Adjiee90]

One of the most helpful videos I’ve ever watched.

[@Mia15239]

I think this is one of the best ones yet.

[@deas555]

Bishop I could listen to you all day.

[@elaundra]

Mr & Mrs Blakes: Thank you so much for this video. I absolutely love how inspiring your marriage is and being raised strong in my faith, I have lost faith due to wanting a husband more than anything else. In turn taking it out on those closest to me. When there was more work for me to do internally and your video made that clear in such a sense that was poetic. Reason being; how you referred to your love for your wife Lisa. You both are wonderfully inspiring and I truly appreciate the content you create. Thanks so much!!

[@o2kute1]

Dave Hollister did his Thang, as usual 🔥🔥

[@lithabrown529]

This was wonderful and clear! Thank you for this!❤

[@qkrenspeaks2986]

I receive all your videos you & Lisa has not only exhibit not only wisdom from God, but parenthood to God children. I love you both & please keep building,posting and living. I will see yall at the top🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@The1sista]

This is the most amazing video on the subject out there. Thank you! Much love

[@GlitterBrixx]

I love you so much and all that you’re doing for my generation. You’re the father I’ve never had! So much wisdom. ❤

[@rachellerockel]

Thank you for your ministry. It’s life changing.

[@jackieheath3748]

Thank you, RC. This is very timely and Greatly appreciated that you continue to expand on your wisdom and pour into us. Your insight has been Mind Renewing and I Thank You 😊!

[@SimplyDivineFlavors237]

I keep repeating the music 🎶 in this video. Simply inspiring. Thank you RC Blakes Jr.

[@Sxarxah]

Do you know the title of the music please

[@hazelhairco88]

I have been following your advice for years and I’m proud to say that I am ready to be a wife 💕

[@kelliefletcher7290]

I just want to say thank you for all you and Lisa do Bishop Blakes🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾! This really has touched me and I will be listening over a couple times and taking notes! GOD Bless you both and I send my love from Rhode Island❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@regymach1]

Wow, what an impacting scripture based teaching. God bless you sir!

[@eriessencetv]

Thank you for your videos. May God bless you and your family ❤

[@LeAnn-g2e]

ABSOLUTELY WONDERFUL MESSAGE/WISDOM!

[@daphnehall5416]

This has been really genuine!

[@LacareeciaMclaughlin]

This absolutely blessed me and the message was clearly an answered prayer 🙏🏾 I really Thank God for using you for the people!

[@fredajohnson506]

Wow these are some very good points on being wife material I truly believe I'm wife material because of the things you pointed out I been married before but he wasn't God choice it's was my own doing but I'm going to be even better wife because God healed me from my brokenness now I'm ready for my God ordained spouse I'm.going be best wife every way since now that God mold me into woman after his own heart Thanks Pastor RC Blake's for this very incredible message it's very excellent teaching God bless you and Lisa and your family Love you guys ❤

[@KeyaCares]

What an excellent discussion! Thank you for taking the time to be clear, define terms, address common misconceptions, and set the record straight about what is acceptable and what is not acceptable. I really appreciate you describing what a husband is and how he behaves. I pray many souls are healed from this video. Thank you!

[@user-mr3le4hs4e]

Your content is incredible. Thank you so much. I oftentimes listen to the same video several times. God bless you

[@stefblanco3887]

That was here in Detroit when the young lady said she was content with being a single Christian woman. I remember her.

[@_Angela289]

This message was on time and Thank you for pinning the store information I’ve been looking for the queenology hoodie ❤❤❤

[@perrydolly]

On top and going higher. Another teaching hit out the park. TGBTG🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@stacynicole8862]

Great session! Thanks for always providing amazing guidance aligned with the Word Of God!

[@smartpageprints8617]

When a woman feels treated right she will know.

[@PatD7881]

“Thank you” “So Good”

[@Auntie_Rei]

This was a very inspirational message you’ve delivered! Thank you for sharing, it’s given me hope and recognizing that I’m headed in the right direction as I know I’m destined to be married

[@nicharr7796]

Thank you so much for your teachings.

[@Nyqueela922]

I’m excited for this

[@Marebear-bt4rp]

That's a darn good question 🤔 👀 🤣 😉 😅

[@fambam6709]

Thank you Bishop for these wise words of wisdom. I love you so much and have an amazing day Sir!❤️🙏🏽

[@nataliemoore9965]

This teaching was so powerful.

[@ikanyengmasole8504]

Truly its The Grace of God, Hallelujah. I cant remember how I bumped in to this channel and my life has been greatly impacted by you Bishop. Thank you and may The Grace of God continue to abound

[@uniquelovett4644]

That intro song is AMAZING!!!!

[@kristinaherrejon7181]

I know, it’s a beautiful into. I love it!!!

[@luevondataylor6286]

I love it and wonder who it is

[@Sxarxah]

what is the title please 😍

[@louisegriffin8032]

OMG yessss I Waited all day for this meeting 🎉🎉😂 I love this theme song!!!!

[@Empress_powei]

Please help with song title.

[@ladyzinada5341]

​@@Empress_poweiQueen by Dave Hollister I think its made for RC Blakes Ministries. Im not sure tho.

[@LashelleMonroe2]

@@Empress_powei Name of the song is SHE, by Dave Hollister

[@GraceE02]

@RCBlakesJr I am a middle aged woman, Ive never been married. I have always feared marriage, mostly because my parents had a dysfunctional marriage. My mother was a “superwoman” when it came to our home, she was more of the head of the house than my father who was extremely passive. I always felt I could not live up to the type of wife she was. I have read books listened to your and others KZbin channels but I can’t seem to shake the fear. I’ve always sabotaged my relationships. Any advice on how to get past my fear and trauma?

[@luzvargas1063]

No one ever took a slack for me! That happens to very few women . God bless those

[@godislove3840]

Pastor can you also do the 7 attributes of a husband

[@KM-oy5yh]

AMEN AMEN 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@trinawilliams3459]

Once again THANK you pastor RC BLAKES 🎉🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@margaretforbes1234]

Thank you, Pastor Blake, your teaching has been a powerful inspiration to me I have no problem moving on and keeping my values. ❤God bless you and Mrs. Blake

[@alishadennis7769]

The great teaching & wisdom women & men need to learn from our parents, pastor, teacher's, grandparents, older mature fathers & mothers in the church as kids & young 🌱 😍 adults!!!!! Its also soooo very very good 💯 😊 😅 now at any age when we didnt know this teaching until now & apply these gems , & awesome information ℹ️🙏 to our lives, 💕 🥰 & be blessed & grow more in greatest self love & proper love respect , good care for our future or current spouse in holy marriage, Amen 😘 !!!!!!! This & nit the worlds dysfunctional, phony, desperate, sinful, low down nonsense & silly opiniins from unqualified, & some unmarried broken conscious minded men, groups cults women who are lost & no expert, in love or marraige, getting engaged or dating good for good results & in GODS good will & blessed 😇 💕 🙏 🌹 👁️ 👁️ 💯😊

[@EssenceofPolish]

The fact I was scrolling through your channel and I read this titled “You Are A Wife”. I just had to click and comment that lol 😌😌☺️😊🥰