7 Clever Ways to Deal With Toxic People | JORDAN PETERSON MOTIVATIONAL SPEECH

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@Richard_Albrecht Ай бұрын

My stepmother has been abusing me my entire life, both physically and emotionally. I've watched her age over the years and grow into a thoroughly miserable person. She's now on 20 different medications, she's morbidly obese, she has diabetes and cannot breathe without the aid of an external oxygen tank. All she does is gamble online and watch TV. Meanwhile, I've grown into a fine human being. I'm healthy and happy and I emanate joy wherever I go. I've learned that if you deny these people the ability to pass their toxic energy onto you, it will consume them and lead to their own destruction. You CANNOT sympathize with the wicked.

@liznorth4028 19 күн бұрын

It's been wicked of her to even draw a breath. May i say it seems obvious you've risen above her meanness and let it make you strong and deeply understanding? ❤🎉good for you!!! Hug❤

@EightBallAnswers1 9 күн бұрын

good for you ❤🙏🙏🙌

@user-cg8if3eq7d Ай бұрын

When you stop reacting to thier emotions things get wierd, really wierd, but its worth it.

@liznorth4028 19 күн бұрын

Yes it IS! It's sad to stop trying but you have to let go!

@sallybyrd3712 12 күн бұрын

Good point - You can't change toxic people; they deal in blurred boundaries. These videos of Jordan Peterson have been very helpful for me to make the decision to totally eliminate some people from my life.

@cathyholsopple2041 Ай бұрын

Several of these comments are totally not at all what Jordon is referring to. I agree with him 100 %. I worked with a very toxic group at work. These people did exactly as Jordon states. It is a matter of distancing yourself from the negative behaviors but not doing so in a mean manner...you just need to protect yourself from the truly toxic behavior. Do not accept being treated poorly by others. Also regarding friends, listen to their problems, be there for them...they aren't toxic just because they have a problem, it is the people who do nothing but complain every single day, non stop, that you want to avoid. It is all about boundaries. It is good to have boundaries...there are way too many toxic people these days. Spend more time with those who bring good vibes...you will feel better.

@Mystic_Paths Ай бұрын

Interacting with toxic people can reveal our own vulnerabilities, helping us understand ourselves better and break patterns we may unknowingly repeat ❤

@liznorth4028 19 күн бұрын

Excellent point -thanks

@gertrudewest4535 Ай бұрын

I wish I had a smart, introspective friend. They don’t exist. They are rare, like Peterson and working class people don’t have access.

@Lorifromalberta Ай бұрын

JP is toxic as well. His posts totally upset me. I feel anger after listening to his posts. He criticizes others constantly and lives in fear of the future. If he had faith in God he would have faith in the future.

@karelglasner2673 23 күн бұрын

I'm just regular and yet had these skills innately 😂 perhaps I'm not as regular as I thought

@darrengregory4439 Ай бұрын

Leaving God and the Bible out of the equation only creates band aid solutions generally. Knowing Jesus's teachings will lead you to the actual truth and the truth will set you free. Im sick of wrestling with anything else. Praise be to God. Amen.

@cathyholsopple2041 Ай бұрын

God doesn't fix toxic people. They often are too evil inside to even think they need fixed. Some people are just awful. I guess you could pray daily for them but not sure it will ever help these people.

@mariankeller5852 26 күн бұрын

God doesn't fix toxic people?? You've got to be kidding...read your Bible ..that's not true..there are many evil people God has chanhged

@mickeysammy5169 25 күн бұрын

@cathyholsopple2041 You are correct- they are evil. God gives us all mercy and grace, but does not make anyone a puppet. It is through His mercy that He gives them every opportunity to repent and believe. Our job is to pray and love our enemies. This is far from easy to do, but it is what we're called to do. Yet, sometimes at a distance.

@Captain_AUBS 23 күн бұрын

Sad thing is your only posting to convince you. Nobody who knows, needs to see or be shown.

@karelglasner2673 23 күн бұрын

God yes 😂 the Bible maybe I had these innate skills yet had no religion in my upbringing

@running4fun863 Ай бұрын

You know all this advice is great unfortunately most people now are putting people into category ie a person who is going through a break up and can only talk about that because that is hurting them but no one wants to hear them because they are depressed and negative in their conversation . I have seen this happen so many times at work that I have taken time to listen to the person yes weighting me down but someone needs to listen . Most of us walk around having no concerns for others and people are suffering in silence because if they talk they are considered “ Toxic “ this is a sad situation.

@heathermariearmbrust 18 күн бұрын

U r soooo right! People did it to me and it just made me worse. We all need more empathy and to learn it doesn’t HAVE TO weigh u down. It can be a choice.

@ginafarley6190 Ай бұрын

You can say, “That’s terrible. What are you going to do about that?”

@Socrates-b9n Ай бұрын

where can I find all of these non-toxic, affirming people? I don't know any!!!!! Otherwise, thank you for this advice. It helps a lot.

@vickimccullouch6298 Ай бұрын

Find a good Bible teaching church ❤

@user-cg8if3eq7d Ай бұрын

Eh, church is full of broken people too.

@wandah9468 Ай бұрын

We are all hiding out from the narcissist gangs. Check them out first. Dont let them close until they have been vetted.

@esperansaloughran693 28 күн бұрын

Great question!

@karelglasner2673 23 күн бұрын

Some of the most toxic backbiting people can be found in so called houses of worship 😂 I learned that early on as a youngster and I have these inate skills Jordan speaks of 😂 you can't say that any group is immune of toxic people

@jasonvansanden7862 Ай бұрын

Brilliant

@Gotcha6666 Ай бұрын

@jasonvansanden7862 If I wouldn't read your "brilliant" message, I wouldn't even let this video to start playing 'coise I was wrongly suspecting this would be another fake ai J.P. video AND IT ISN'T! 😌👆

@karelglasner2673 23 күн бұрын

What are you going on about 😂 6666

@Naturesresonancecsheedy Ай бұрын

Really found the repetition of "the smart person" and "the toxic person", a bit much. And I thought it is meant to be better to define the behaviour not the person? I get the points your making and thank you for that, just wanted to share this perspective

@Moonswing31 Ай бұрын

There are so many of these Ai lectures out now, using the voice of JP, but stressing the wrong parts of sentences and not understanding punctuation correctly. I can’t stand listening to these and would appreciate if someone stopped churning them out!

@Naturesresonancecsheedy Ай бұрын

Ah..that makes so much sense! Was thinking the voice sounded a little odd, like he was reading it out, and also the defining the person, not the behaviour, very black and white..thank you for pointing this out..

@elmidouihasnae7591 21 күн бұрын

Is this Ai?

@patdent Ай бұрын

What if I find Jordan Peterson a little bit toxic?

@Richard_Albrecht Ай бұрын

Act like he doesn't exist. They hate that.

@imaannoor5552 Ай бұрын

I think this video could be toxic to people in abusive relationships because it uses the word ‘smart’ people don't let toxic behaviour affect them. Leaving a toxic relationship is smart.

@gertrudewest4535 Ай бұрын

That’s okay. He probably is. We all are. EVERY ONE wears the hat of hero, villain and victim at various times throughout their lives. Peterson has. So have I. This video has great insight into how to recognize and deal with it.

@Robin-qf3oh Ай бұрын

Probably self reflection.

@karelglasner2673 23 күн бұрын

Separate the man from the knowledge 😂 don't take it so personally

@MissBabalu102 Ай бұрын

What's wrong with the audio? It cuts out over and over.

@unconditionalfreedom Ай бұрын

see your own toxicity then you will see al

@kevywilliams3304 2 күн бұрын

It means … screw everyone around you ….

@kevywilliams3304 2 күн бұрын

This will create zombie land and improve the elite …… 😢

@junevandermark952 Ай бұрын

Thanks for honoring free speech. As a Protestant Conservative ... Jordan is full of toxicity whenever he mentions the word Liberal. I agree with the words in the podcast “Full of Rage” by Gabor Maté Thoughts On Jordan Peterson kzbin.info/www/bejne/fH62iIN-nsuMfac

@junevandermark952 Ай бұрын

Many of Jordan's Evangelical acolytes wanted him to run for the office of Prime Minister of Canada ... but they couldn't seem to become "organized" enough to "pull it off." Maybe they were too busy trying to learn how to clean their own rooms ... the way Jordan taught them ... when their parents couldn't manage that job.

@lawrencecooke9892 Ай бұрын

Just tell them if they cross that line and place me in danger because of there ignorance. All bets are off!!!!

@vvvvxxxx9999 14 күн бұрын

Lowlife

@junevandermark952 Ай бұрын

Free Speech advocator ... JORDAN? Example: If you go to You Tube … Advertising Atheism kzbin.info/www/bejne/amm5YaBooc6Ua7c … you will hear the following words from Jordan Peterson’s own mouth? When speaking of the Atheist Richard Dawkins, these were Jordan’s words (verbatim) … “There is no evidence that he’s being repressed, although maybe he should be.”