7 Costly Luxury Lessons I've Learnt | What I *DON'T* Buy Anymore!

[@mariac6759]

I have learned that for me, there is no such thing as a forever bag. As much as I frequently say this is my forever bag, I eventually get tired of them. Such is the natural flow of life. The excitement of newness eventually fades because we change.

[@RidaB33]

I've had to learn the hard way for everything (not just a bag) that any time I'm impatient and purchase something in place of what I actually want I end up regretting it 95% of the time and find myself still wanting what the original item. Then I wasted money and have to deal with the clutter of stuff I didn't really like that much instead of just waiting for what I really had my heart set on.

[@littleluxuries_01]

I still occasionally make this mistake!

[@lilyluvspink]

This used to happen to me all the time… still working on just going for what I really want.

[@21972012145525]

I'm not going to lie, but sometimes this happens to me with food 😅

[@DutchXFangirl]

I have learned that I don't like heavy bags, top handle-only bags and fussy to open or close bags. I have cut out rigid dividers at least 3 times after realising they prevent me from using the bags. I also hate straps or chains that are too short to wear crossbody with my preferred length (which is low) or totes with short straps so the bag is tucked right under my armpit. I want my hands and armpits to be free. Last, while I love the look of a structured bag, it doesn't work in crossbody's for me. Too rigid. It's like me and my floating bag poking out and bumping into stuff. I want a soft bag to mould around my body even though they always look a bit too boho for my taste. Basically what I love to see and what I love to wear are 2 different things, haha!

[@asz7435]

hi. u and i are alike! may i know what bags that u keep?

[@lavenderpurp6610]

Lv neverfull in my mind while reading this 😊

[@ColleenJoudrey]

I love luxury shoes and bags but lately I find myself wanting to wear them a little less in exchange for my mid-level options because I find them a little more carefree and better for the seemingly never-ending rain where I live. Within the last 19 days, It's been clear for 3 of them.

[@juliagoolia72]

I totally agree with you about interior organization. I do not like bags with three compartments. I only have one I like that is a structured evening bag, because it helps keep the shape. Otherwise I find one compartment is easier to use.

[@ChaseAmie]

Right?! I do appreciate the structural help but one big compartment if just so much more functional!

[@21972012145525]

For me I struggle with one compartment, it becomes a black hole. However I have a smaller bag RN and it really doesn't fit much so that's annoying too 😅

[@jesseeec]

Don’t impulse buy just because it is available, like Hermes or Chanel. If a bag is presented by the SA or online and it wasn’t on your radar , then give in for fear of missing out. Most of the time I regret it. However buying Hermes online is great because I get to return the impulse buying error

[@ChaseAmie]

Oh my goodness, yes! I'm convinced half of all the big new Chanel releases are made because there's such a fear of missing out 😂

[@jesseeec]

@@ChaseAmie 💯

[@missemarie1]

when I first started buying luxury handbags I watched some of your lessons videos and all these points still ring true. I always go to the preloved market to see how the corners hold up, if it collapses or shows wear easily. I find that if a bag feels annoying to use, it remains an annoying and I won't use it. I need a top handle most of the time bc my lifestyle involves getting n and out of the car a lot and I use the top handle to get the purse from the passenger seat. Also I don't generally like bags that have fixed straps, I need the swivel action /clasp where the strap attaches to the bag. Learning what works for you and abiding by it will save money and heartbreak!

[@Buttercookiesssss]

Totally agree with you on multiple compartments! I experience the same, so now i only buy bags with one open compartment.

[@ChaseAmie]

You'd have thought that bag designers would have realised this by now?!

[@Buttercookiesssss]

@@ChaseAmie ikr?? bc of this i had to give up on Celine 16, Fendi peekaboo, LV capucine, Chanel Trendy cc, Chanel coco handle etc 😅😅

[@ladypsrn5218]

I totally agree Amie,I'm fully into preloved and watching KZbin reviews of bags that I'm interested in buying. Im also more aware of what I like and don't like.

[@VyNguyen-wy3ov]

I had a cotton tote bag that I had wore since 2011 to 2020. And finally threw it away as it got mouldy with some holes. The bag had been with me since uni to my part time jobs. Those days when I was so broke🥲 ( still broke now)

[@Icepink.cream.]

Hi Amie! I returned the Felicie due to defects, but I dislike when people say wocs fit plenty. They have a purpose, idk why people make it more than what it is. 🙈💕

[@Adancer112]

Such great tips! I so agree that if it’s not functional, easy to access and use, it’s a no go. I also totally agree about not buying a filler instead of what you really want- I also will still want the original love and now I’ve wasted $ and have more stuff. Better to just get what I really want if I keep thinking about it. Thanks for the vid!

[@ChaseAmie]

100%. Same with food I always find ahaha

[@Adancer112]

@@ChaseAmie Also true!! 😂

[@21972012145525]

​@@ChaseAmieOMG I just wrote the EXACT same comment! 😅

[@littleluxuries_01]

So useful to hear your lessons and tips Amie 😍 you are and always have been my fav luxury KZbinr as you come across the most grounded ☺️ keep it up! Xx

[@HandbagFoodie]

So many great lessons learned! Totally agree with the price of the bag impacting your enjoyment!

[@Asia.8]

Thank you Amie for sharing with us your feedback ❤ I really appreciate

[@carriehsieh843]

Your last point is so true! When I was younger, instead of saving up to get what I really wanted, I tend to go for the cheaper alternatives. Always ended up still wanting (and getting) the real deal in the end. Lessons learned, don't settle :)

[@donnaleach8119]

Yay!-a Chase Amie video! You make some wonderful points! I find that quick and easy accessibility, (getting in and out at the cash register), is probably my #1! I get SO flustered! I’m loving your pretty top on you, hon! Enjoy your week, Lovely! ❤👜❤🇨🇦

[@teo9847]

I agree with you on all your points. For me I now will only buy a bag that fits all the items I carry in a bag. I have made the mistake of buying bags that don’t quite fit my phone and therefore make the bags impossible to close. So how often do I use those bags? Never. So now function is the most important thing for me.

[@crescentrose7400]

The last tip is so true. Better buying the bag that we really want. Rather than buying something else and regretting it.

[@HelenShaghaghi]

Costume jewelry!!!! It is so easy to fall in love with the brands that avertise on Instagram and through influencers but it never looks quite right on me and I'm always disappointed... Instead of spending 150-300 dollars on six valueless pieces that never look right ... Tuck the money away, go into a store and buy a fine piece that you can try on and is timeless

[@21972012145525]

OMG same! I don't even know what do do with it. Do people buy second hand costume jewelry 😅

[@LyndaDS]

I wear both of my Hermés Birkin 35 bags….and don’t spaz out about it. They’re meant to be carried.

[@nessadavey9790]

Completely agree about middle dividers, Especially zipped ones ! use up space and are Useless !! Adore your top, colour, fit and style, you look gorgeous 💗

[@staciarenee2982]

Bags that are small with dividers. I wanted a Bvlgari serpenti sholder bag, but ordered the same style in a crossbody style. It's small so now i only use it for date nights or evenings vs the sholder bag that could have been worn during the day. I bought a Bvlgari cabochon bag that is small but fits SO much more due to it being one open pocket.

[@21972012145525]

Amie! I have been watching since 2017 (at least). Im not into purchasing luxury items personally (even though i like then visually)but i have stayed all these years because i love your personality! This video is particularly good for any bag purchase, even low end!

[@ChaseAmie]

Aw thank you, you are so kind!! I've got to say - I absolutely love reading your comments. Especially your replies to other people which make me laugh so much 😂 You basically write out what I'm thinking but that I don't say because I try to restrain myself 🙈😂😂

[@21972012145525]

​@@ChaseAmie ♥️🤩 this made my day!! I have to go back and read my comments to now to figure out what I wrote was so funny?! 🤣 💁 #proprocrastination EDIT: haha, I was particularly chatty on this one. I watched while drinking a triple shot espresso latte so I blame that 😂 lmk if you're ever looking to hire an assistant! I'm funny in person too! 😅

[@ChaseAmie]

Hi! So I know you were probably joking but I'm hiring for a social media manager at the moment... just in case you were looking for some extra work! :) Email is [e-mail] if you were interested! xx

[@denisedoran8734]

Really useful tips Amie,I’ve made so many mistakes.

[@roseyscott3811]

I love your experienced comments! Love your video! 😊😂

[@carlahaiduk1878]

I love bags. But i only wear backpacks. Huge backpacks. I can't be bothered to be taking care of the bag. The bag serves me. It will get used, scratched, dirty. Life is short . I'll admire bags in videos or stores.

[@21972012145525]

I feel I'm the same. I just am not very careful with my bags so I truly wonder if I would care for something so expensive

[@Gemini302001]

Children does change the way you dress and bag design, before I had kids I was pretty much a mini/small bag type of girl. Now I prefer bags that are more functional and on the small/medium size as oppose to mini/small.

[@maiche2421]

So informative. Love this video ❤

[@merrymary6293]

Wonderful and well thought out video, Amie. As beautiful as flap bags are, they don’t work well for me. I like easy and quick access. I’ve said this before but your camellia flap card holder is my absolute favorite to see in your collection 💖😂

[@jppage3292]

Miami, Florida, USA? No worries, love your channel.

[@craftcreek4624]

After 15 years of luxury, I’m done. Purse funds are now spent on vacations and I’m purse shopping from brands that are reinventing themselves such as Kate Spade, Tory Burch, Strathbery, Anya Hindmarch, and several French brands

[@ellenarlen3741]

Very thoughtful list! One big issue for me is bags with snaps to adjust the length of the strap. My hair gets caught and is ripped out by them. It’s terrible! I had a Fendi by the way that was the worst and a Marni trunk that did it somewhat, too. Got rid of both of them just because of that issue unfortunately.

[@ChaseAmie]

Oh wow I didn't even realise that's a thing! I'm trying to think why that's never happened to me now?! I can imagine that would be so annoying though (not to mention painful!)

[@aebolton1952]

I have been thinking about a Birkin but I liked #4 because as much as I would love the Birkin I think I would be so scared of it getting stole, any accident, & etc.

[@loribdezngrl]

All excellent points!

[@radbu1075]

I really like your shirt in this video! Cute sleeves and color

[@ChaseAmie]

Thank you!!

[@valeriacuriel9395]

What bag organizers do you recommend for Chanel classic flap?

[@drcandybonsu995]

You hit it on the nail with the weather changes and the bags to carry.. took my Hermes bags on vacation and spend most of my time worried about damaging them..🤦🏽‍♀️.. not sure am ever taking them on vacation

[@ChaseAmie]

It always seems like a good idea until you're there... 🙈😂

[@embracing_bold]

Love this video, Many of your points were so relatable! TFS 💕👍🏽👍🏽

[@jannie2288]

Could you please link the top you are wearing? I couldn’t find it on your LTK, thank you ❤ and love your insights as always!

[@rousseautr]

Ditto I couldn't find it in your ltk. Thank you!

[@21972012145525]

She's linked in other comments, maybe also description box? Nordstrom

[@Raquel3521]

I seriously only carry my keys phone and a SLG in my bag. Super minimalistic. So I like small bags

[@egmilkshake5310]

Wow so much insights and so much depth! Thanks for your very honest sharing! Always love your videos! Thanks for the effort in making them!

[@lolipena8051]

god forbid chanels get stolen. but what happens if you have them insured, does it cover how much you paid or what it's worth now?

[@21972012145525]

Wondering the same. I'm also a bit scared about Amie being comfortable leaving all her beautiful bags alone while going on vacay

[@krislyncastillo17]

I always hear pre love but wheat websites are those at?

[@angelicacorona677]

My dear, I really love your content but I have one question, how I can enjoy my handbag , what is first bag or me? If I am afraid to l use something, maybe it is not for me

[@caligal]

You are absolutely right. If you are afraid to damage it, then it’s not a bag for you. If you already have it, just use it and don’t fret. An expensive bag is like a luxury car. It has only one function: to be used everyday!. So, if you cannot enjoy it then ask yourself, what you like about it and find something similar in a price tag that you are comfortable with. Don’t buy it because everyone has it. Once it is on trend, it’ll go off trend and you are left with a bag tat everyone has and no one wants. So buy what you love and enjoy it to the fullest.

[@savagecat5499]

Love this. Thank you for sharing

[@hh3046]

Where is your shirt from?

[@ChaseAmie]

Nordstrom! It's this one: bit.ly/3QjBnxF

[@joannecortese7341]

Great advice!

[@kdg6845]

I completely agree with your points, I think the pandemic made me more of a convenience and comfort first person now. What do you think of the Ferragamo hug bag? Also in your previous video you showed the A&F dress you got in yellow (you own and were wearing the same one in blue on your holiday)-do you have to iron it?xx

[@ChaseAmie]

I hadn't heard of it before but just googled it and it is gorgeous!! Like a modern Birkin 😍 For the Abercrombie dress, I had to lightly steam it but I also don't tumble dry my clothes (I just hang to dry immediately after washing which helps a lot with creasing :)) xx

[@Jersey1971]

Top handle bags are my weakness the styles are beautiful but i need bags with drop handles and cross body straps so i dont buy top handle bags anymore

[@janicemchale]

Hello, what are your thoughts on the LV Bucci bag? Do you like it in the quartz color?

[@CatLove-Life]

I do the same to know the W&T from preloved market 👍

[@kh.8655]

Such a good video.. great points. Could you share the details of the marc jacobs bag? Love the size and color!

[@kathyberal5623]

The most useful information I came across in a very long time. Thank you for sharing.

[@guoguo8918]

Hey Amie, which brand of necklace did you wear on the videos？

[@Elliegoesluxurytravelling]

Hey where do you got this beautiful rose Shirt? :)

[@21972012145525]

She's linked it in other comments. Maybe in the description box too? Nordstrom

[@cherryscherrys5241]

Hi Amie! What is that YSL bag with one big open space you showed in 4:10?

[@beejune5161]

I was thinking about the tiny Ysl do you recommend it?

[@terzim5695]

Excellent tips! 👍

[@emyohs]

I’ve been following you for a while and I wanted to ask why you aren’t interested in hermes bags? Can you share your thoughts?

[@lilleemmamor]

I so agree with you on the functional of the bag point😆I have a few luxury bags and they all serve different purposes! Actually before I bought all my bags, I would check your videos if you had done a review on it😆I recently bought the Saint Laurent le 5 7 supple bag because of your recent videos😛You also stopped me from buying the Fendi peekaboo🙈I mean if you can’t really fit your phone inside, what’s the point

[@ChaseAmie]

ahh I'm so glad you find them useful!! The SL supple bag is gorgeous! I used mine today haha. I hope you're loving yours! :) xx

[@donna248]

She had the FENDI peekaboo in the petite. The mini peekaboo will easily fit any phone. The petite is also very structured so there’s less give, making it generally less functional.

[@melocoton7]

For me it's the "hunting" and "completing" my selection. I stopped myself from buying a pretty little WOC in caramel. I loved the look of it and it was a great price (pre loved) but I had to be honest with myself and admit that I really do not have any use for a small caramel colored bag in my wardrobe. My style is simply not compatible. I like dark and masculine vibes. Maybe I could have worn it a couple of times during summer with very specific outfits, but in Summer I tend to carry more with me than in the cold months. As in, sunscreen, sunglasses, a light scarf, hand fan, paper tissues, deodorant etc etc. For that I have a beautiful caramel color woven leather tote. It wouldn't have made sense. So, yay, money saved.

[@maryle2232]

Hi Amie, I'm trying to check out on 24S and having issues. I've tried it on my computer and the app and still running into the same issues. Any suggestions? Thanks

[@ChaseAmie]

I've had the same issue but with a few websites! I've solved it by switching my internet router on and off and then clearing cache. I have no idea if this is specific to our house though!

[@adventureswithhaunani2806]

Same I found I am not a divider girl either.

[@esgee2464]

My luxury lesson when buying pre-loved is not immediately buying a bag once I see it and instead still taking a couple of hours to think then going back and finding it SOLD! 😭

[@21972012145525]

😢

[@gkbgkb5028]

To be fair once kids are in the equation, the nicer bags are for child free times unless we want our £10k bags to be stuffed with kids things 😅😅😅😅

[@ChaseAmie]

I have had many a nappy in a Chanel bag 😂😂

[@kirsikoivula]

I like your way to do videos. I live in Finland so I have little difficult to decide the material of my luxury bag. I have thought leather as in Louis Vuitton Neverfull

[@21972012145525]

Can anyone tell me.what bag is at @2:16 ?

[@ChaseAmie]

That's the LV Capucines bag - just with the flap folded over! Most people don't wear it like that (presumably because everyone wants the LV logo haha) but it's an option :)

[@21972012145525]

@@ChaseAmie oh lol 🤦 😂

[@kaylheecarroll3186]

Great tips ❤😊

[@shatoh100]

Yay first❤❤❤❤

[@shatoh100]

Yay first🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

[@fashionismypassiongirl660]

❤❤❤

[@mariamascarin4220]

I still can’t believe at the poor quality that Chanel is putting out and charging. If you look carefully at this bag, the one side is a little bit lower than the other. At least that’s how it appears on your video. Glad you enjoy it, but I will never buy a Chanel again.

[@janethan05]

Hiiiii love your top in the video will you be posting it?

[@ChaseAmie]

It's this one :) bit.ly/3QjBnxF

[@carlsenlifeafter60carlsen11]

If you saved all that money that you spent on luxury bags, you could have a house. Material things won’t make you happy in the long run. I wish these young people could see through all this luxury BS.

[@21972012145525]

She already has a house 😅

[@21972012145525]

Maybe learn about the person a bit before you comment on their lifestyle choices

[@aidahoe2946]

Hi amie what asian are you?

[@radbu1075]

What the hell

[@21972012145525]

Ahhh I can't remember she did state in a previous video though! She said her mom and her went on a trip. I think it was Korean but could be Vietnamese or Japanese.

[@21972012145525]

​@@radbu1075this question is not offense. Please stop

[@LyndaDS]

It’s funny that you think a $3k bag is “really expensive.” I own two Birkins. 😅

[@perthfanny3017]

Good for you is 3k is not really expensive for a bag but it certainly is for most people....

[@neebieslittleluxuries]

I own a birkin, I own multiple Chanel bags, my mom owns a birkin, $3K+ is still very expensive for a bag. Not sure what you’re trying to say here Lynda. Have you not seen Amie’s collection? It’s huge 😂. She’s not hurting over $3k. She’s just making it clear that $3K+ for a bag is still a lot especially when brands have done outrageous price increases in recent years. Hermes is not exempt. Despite the fact I own a birkin I can assure you it is certainly not special enough to warrant its ticket price.

[@21972012145525]

Weird flex, but ok. It seems with all your wealth you didn't realize it's relative and subjective. You also missed manners class that day too! 😅