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[@LivingALifeOfAbundance]

Dont become attached to a women who doesnt care about you. Your feelings making it difficult to see things clearly. Those feelings will trick you into overinvesting she isnt one of a kind, there are many girls like her. Let go of the scarcity thinking & embrace abundance.

[@TomFox1]

yes

[@bbkingme8831]

U dudes really be that crazy over a girl to have to say this? No wonder i used to bang girls with boyfriends thruout college. Nothn wrong with over pursuing. Jus make sure u got a stop point amd u let her know even if she dont respond that u aint wastin time. Never txt her again until she responds. If she dont. Great. Fuk how she sees u. She will see u different and think about u. And games will stop. Dont get in these games these dumb girls play. Do what u want.

[@jfelton3583]

This is it!! Committing anything to a woman before she commits entirely to you is the problem. No free attention. No time investment. No exclusivity. They don't deserve it and won't appreciate it. To not need a woman is to have other women.

[@TomFox1]

@@bbkingme8831 Boundaries, I have.

[@youngachieversyouthempower8261]

@@bbkingme8831 you s real man

[@LivingALifeOfAbundance]

Once upon a time a man asked a beautiful woman to marry him. She said, "No." And he lived happily ever after.

[@darrenclark9001]

The End 😂

[@Rewws85]

Why are you here then?

[@Aspire_KD]

LMAO

[@christophervelez3493]

@@Rewws85 to rub it in our faces. 🙎‍♂️🧐

[@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335]

Hell yea

[@submerged8163]

When a woman pulls away, it means more times than not there is another guy she already has waiting for her, you need believe that as a fact. If she really wanted to be with you, and you are not over pursuing her, and annoying her, she wouldn’t be playing games. If she was a real woman, she would have open communication with you to tell her feelings about the relationship and not just leave you hanging, or abandoning you, it only means she is totally disrespecting you, and you are just an option to her. Don’t play her games, leave her immediately, you are too valuable for unnecessary drama, and grief in you life.

[@jeremiahboykins1097]

This comment need to be highlighted

[@maxmorquecho2912]

Thanks brother

[@organiclifestyles7862]

Thanks bro

[@marklowery9365]

On point.

[@joelrodriguez2152]

100 percent. On point.

[@leexiong2128]

1. Over contacting/over pursuing. Frequency doesn't matter. Nature of communication does. Seeking validation. 2. Sharing emotions too fast/needy. Attraction grows slowly. Should be assessment process. 3. Don't be reactive to her. Be proactive to your own values and goals. Does she fit them? 4. Need to have control. Don't seek acceptance through her. Don't try to fix yourself through her perception. 5. Self worth in her/others. Having self worth and belief that resides only in yourself leads to healthy behavior. 6. Putting on an act. Hard to mask inauthenticity. Will leak out in relationships. 7. Have standards. Not having standards can lead to insecure dating choices. Can lead to dating down. Bonus -- When she asks for space: Give space. Move on. When/if she re-contacts, don't be over eager. Pace yourself. Allows for dating dynamic to re-emerge once she doesn't want you to pull away.

[@delavontaejackson401]

Do I leave a message acknowledging I’m going to give her space?

[@louiscyfer6944]

just ignore her a lot. she'll be chasing you.

[@travisandrews3909]

@@delavontaejackson401 leave her alone

[@TheCoolKidZ21]

@@delavontaejackson401 just don’t reply bro focus on you if she really had some interest In you she will come back to you and next time Realize she misses you

[@krisrocker437]

Excellent summary, Lee! Kudos for being straight to the point!

[@growing.grounds4054]

One thing I’ve learned that had helped me tremendously is REALIZING that I don’t have to contact a woman everyday and always try to keep the convo going omg has that helped me smh they always end up coming around too

[@Zukoh01]

After having fun with other dudes? If she ignores you or distances herself, cut her off, replace!

[@delima5146]

@@Zukoh01 or just leave her aside for another play! 🙃

[@danieltrottier8599]

3% man

[@neverglitch6596]

yup

[@jameswatsonatheistgamer]

After 1 month of not messaging her. She contacted me and replies straight away. I don't text back straight away. My situation isn't clearcut though. But I'm patient. I know she's into me.

[@markyoungman7267]

Great video, Apollonian. Two thoughts: 1. Know your worth. You can’t date up if you don’t know your own value. Dysfunction tends to seek out dysfunction. Look inward before you look outward. 2. If she withdraws, it might be her own dysfunction surfacing and have nothing to do with what you did wrong or did right. Sometimes a loss is a win. Thank you for so much for these videos!

[@bbpdec92]

It really sucks bc a lot of people just want love but are stuck behind the performance of human nature. I recognize when I do those human things and push against it

[@travisandrews3909]

I might do this

[@rahimi4762]

It’s Satan bro. Life shouldn’t be this hard

[@JohnnyGingy]

Be careful reconnecting with someone that rejected or ghosted you. My ex did this to me and I told her off and then she came crawling back a month later and we both rushed back into things…. Cut to me being a single father of my autistic 9 year old daughter I’ve raised her via equal custody for those whole 9 years. She cheated on me after my daughter was born, a lot of women that ghost you need to stay gone.

[@mikealberto]

I rarely ever comment on youtube videos...if ever...but i felt the need to say that your videos have helped me so much Apollonia, you are a true wealth of knowledge and are doing amazing work.

[@davidwescott6808]

This is probably the most helpful dating advice I’ve ever had. I’m a 37 year old man who despite being considered extremely handsome by my peers throughout my life so far. For some reason I can’t get a relationship to last more than a month. This is the advice that I’ve been looking for, sucks I found it just after messing things up with someone I really thought I had a connection with. However at least I know now what to do in the future.

[@winstonreid9077]

Would you be willing to share what you think the reason was for finding it difficult to get past the one month mark? Asking as I’m evaluating a similar phenomenon for myself.

[@jaialaiwarrior]

Women don't really care much about looks

[@SoldierofGod-519]

Bro, just go to a different country. Where women chase men. I'm 30, muscular and 6'4" and I have a hard time in Canada to find a good woman. But when I go to Indonesia or Thailand, the women will chase you...

[@Samaria754]

I am a woman, I was pursuing this man, we shared conversations and I knew there was a spark between us. He wasn’t necessarily a man with lots of money or very good looking. But there was this good vibe the simplicity and truthfulness in his eyes and words. I wanted us to work and I was very present in his life. But after months of sharing this connection with him. He for unknown reasons gave me this hot and cold response. As much as I wanted us to work and stay by his side for all the times. He has this pattern of having ebb and flowed connections. I felt so unwanted. I left him. Not all woman walked away because you are not making good money and having dashing looks. I just wanted consistent efforts from him.

[@lyricalprophet100]

This is exactly what happened to me. Everything was going phenomenally for a month. I sent a text, that was misconstrued and taken wrong. It hurt her, even though I tried to explain the context of it. Even though we spoke, she said that she just needed a few days to process it all…. Though we’ve had numerous phone calls, hung out and sent dozens of texts…. Apparently it triggered something her ex used to do…. SMH. Paying for someone else’s mistakes.

[@gundamepyon5330]

I feel you

[@JohnM...]

That's just an excuse she's using to pull away from you/test you/ghost you. It's happened to me.

[@johnmshaw49]

Me too

[@Mrhowdoyoudo]

Same here bro, everything went well for 6 monthes, booked us a hotel which triggred something that her shit ex used to do and broke up with me an hour before we supposed to leave.. Just a waste of my damn time

[@oliviaeldridge4631]

As a woman with some trauma issues I try not to allow what someone did to me effect a new relationship. However there are things that partner might do that triggers me and I have to realize that it’s a trigger and doesn’t necessarily mean he did it or said it to hurt me. Sometimes I just need to process instead of reacting. It’s not always an excuse.

[@John-ym7jn]

Holy crap, just went through this. Video couldn’t come at a more perfect time. Thanks so much for helping. Solid video

[@travisandrews3909]

I did the same thing

[@3Camj]

If a woman really wants you, you are not over pursuing most of the time. That woman will go out of her way to see you.

[@victorh1941]

Perfect timing with this video; needed this after experiencing this with multiple women recently. Salute!

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Men often react impulsively when a woman pulls away, thinking it’s a sign of disinterest. Instead of chasing, staying calm and giving her space is a much more effective approach.*

[@vericanmasick7243]

Thank you, this helped a lot. I was "literally" in this with a girl and all this makes sense.

[@peterrees6335]

Hell, this is the first time I've watched one of your videos and your comments on self-worth are so valuable. Something I've been overlooking for a while. You've opened my eyes.

[@bfig6482]

Your perception will create your reality. I felt that.

[@davidwescott6808]

I literally had multiple flashbacks listening to you explain, and all of it fit like a puzzle piece with all my frustrations. Like “why is she pulling away? What did I say? Why do all woman do this to me?” It’s very revealing and I want to thank you sweetheart.

[@rtalways]

Thank you for creating healthy relationships for thousands of people.

[@eskimoinohio1460]

It truly boils down to looks and money, that is it.

[@atmant05]

No it doesn't. Especially not in highschool.

[@AAaa-zq9po]

Thank god im good looking

[@rickl3386]

isnt that the truth.

[@Yammie_Moto671]

@@atmant05 Same shit. Money = Status. You a football captain you gonna get girls.

[@realtyrocks1969]

It boils down to money. Looks will go but if you're a billionaire, she ain't leaving. Get a prenuptial agreement if you are rich. Without one your marriage will fail. It's too easy to check out with 50/50. But if she knows the only way she can get anything is by staying with you, she will

[@mafp22w]

I don’t know about all other guys, but most of us have enough work. I don’t know of any women that are looking to support a man financially, but many women are looking to men for financial support. So, once a women becomes work, it’s time to say goodbye. Other than expressing your interest early on, move on. Let her chase you because she wants you. If she doesn’t’ want you, you are wasting your time.

[@LaRueDuConsommateur]

That is.

[@rickbailey189]

So true.

[@lungilefumba6242]

these advices are changing the dynamic of my view on relationships thank you for this

[@outlawstarr5209]

Good morning Apollonia great point for men not to put self-worth in a woman and having standards.

[@judoka1976]

If she pulls away then you dodged a bullet. Don't be a simp and invest I yourself.

[@atmant05]

no bruh🤣. It's normal for a female to pull away when you text her alot. It doesn't necessarily mean you dodged a bullet. Just when she pulls away don't chase.💀.

[@nunyadambiz8034]

Too late at that point

[@jamesjones7798]

​@@atmant05different situation

[@abelgodinez4044]

Listen to her. Been watching these videos for a couple weeks. Had a smoking hottt girl pull away. I let her pull away and she reached out to me even stronger than before

[@MrLlamelo671]

I made 2 of these huge mistakes and I’m so heartbroken. I cried myself to sleep after telling her and trying to think I needed space when I shouldn’t have.

[@MrLlamelo671]

I don’t know what to do anymore, everything hurts.

[@duanejackson7000]

The strongest video you've ever made..wow you hit so many points...thank you!

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@duanejackson7000]

She's married but it's so hard for me to pull away...its been 2 years now...we stopped for a while because I couldn't do it anymore...you know the adultery thing...now for some reason I'm chasing again...and now she's playing hard to get..what do I do? 🤨✍

[@rickbailey189]

A genuine woman who loves her man will make him believe "your boat has come to the right dock. You don't need to leave this dock ever. It's safe here." Do that for him and he will be yours to keep.

[@fitforfreelance]

Great video! I always like your focus on confidence and having standards

[@edm9704]

Thank you for talking. You've done much to help me get back on my own path and take care of my own path while patiently, slowly examining and nurturing a relationship with a woman I am interested in.

[@travisandrews3909]

I'm going to use this tip

[@ah2552]

I had an ex who was taking me through these changes. I ended up meeting someone else, and then she came back, and I told her to get lost.

[@AlexM-eq3ie]

Completely agree. Women get tired quickly of needy desperate men.

[@jordanbaker1991]

How do you know all my feelings and the things in the back of my head Apollonia??? Man thank Yu for this

[@xdragon01]

my gf has been distant the past 8-9 days and she told me that she would tell me some things because things in time because things were difficult for her at that time (she is taking 2 exams this week ) .I didnt and still dont know if the things she will tell me are about me us or her but i said i understood .Now im waiting for her to tell me this thursday and even though i told her i loved her couple days ago she didnt say it back ( we have been saying it here and there ).Now im just searching for videos like these and i have to say that these are really helpful ! Thanks for your effort and to anyone else that seems to be in a similar situation i have to say stay strong and give her space . I will do an update on this comment once we talk !

[@PravinKashyap1]

You are such a blessing to mankind. Thanks for guiding us in the right direction. Have a great day!

[@SteveCDive]

Good advice. It’s easy to be triggered by past experience, e.g. giving an ultimatum after a couple of dates due to a past experience of a woman not being genuine and wasting time. Rather than giving an ultimatum staying confident would have been so much better…

[@swapankantidash8671]

This is really a very great video, Apollonia. You really passionately made me understand that “self worth” is the key and “get your standard higher” and showing and really living that experience that “I have a very good life without her” is really great. I believe getting these three things work, is significantly more important than getting the girl I am inclined to get..#ApolloniaPonti @Apollonia Ponti

[@studonohoe4338]

The best 20 minutes of advice I've ever heard 👌

[@rosskim9773]

I made exactly the same all 7 mistakes. I know my way forward to be back with my soulmate! thank you! I understand now...

[@heatscouters7800]

Wow you speaking facts. Damn I’m actually going through this now. I haven’t dated in a year and feel like I found someone who’s just perfect. Different from the rest. I got to relax lol.

[@joev7014]

Is it possible to find a woman that doesn’t play these games?

[@txup92g33]

The fatties, yes.

[@Mooseknuckle713]

Yeah when we’re sleeping

[@UnderTheBridge96]

Dating apps ruined it, there’s no need to put in effort anymore, why drink a soda that’s lost any of its carbonation if there’s 100 glasses of fresh soda right next to it. Sad but true

[@SamYoungRadio]

Guys, never date down, ever! Because once she breaks up with you for dating a loser (herself) you will actually feel like a loser and wonder why someone who wasn't good enough for you didn't want you. This is the reason. She instantly titled you a loser the moment you talked to her. Go big or go home!

[@wujoe3825]

Set it and forget it! Thank you Apollonia for the education, it can get frustrating at times. These videos give me hope, as they say. knowledge is power, and Patience is a virtue.

[@user-yv1fh3fc8y]

When she pulled away, so did I. She learned not to play games. You’re welcome.

[@TomFox1]

Yup, same here. Now i’m on my purpose and she begs for my validation and attention. See how it worked. It worked out well for me.

[@derekkase7884]

Guys just leave women alone being on your purpose in order to be wanted by women is still seeking validation.. love yourself and do what you really love even if women don't like what you in to even if its not cool by mainstream standards. I like to read , sit under trees go to the park smoke weed in my room watching movies I like. that is loving yourself

[@heatscouters7800]

It’s crazy because this girl I’m talking to now has slowed down on texting me. She stops responding in the middle of conversations. I’ll wait to see if she texts and a few days will go by with no response. I’ve followed up a few times but I don’t like doing that because it makes me think she not that interested. She has done this about 3 times now. I remember she told me she rather phone calls. So I call and she doesn’t answer smh. But she claims she really likes me and I’m attractive. When we’re together it’s great. But when we’re not together she sucks at communication. Then what happens I start over thinking and say the wrong shit. So now I’m feeling like I’m pushing her away now. My last girlfriend was 2014. I haven’t dated in a year. I’m talking my for her hard and fast it’s sad.

[@user-yv1fh3fc8y]

@@heatscouters7800 she doesn’t answer the phone because you are not a priority or sh is with another guy or she’s playing games or all three.

[@ArshadAli-sn2cd]

One thing that pops up with a flash from your seven points is to maintain Emotional Control.

[@meme-zv7kw]

Masculine energy is aggressive Feminine energy is passive. The key is too make chase you a little which takes patience. She will chase if she is interested. If she won't chase she is not interested

[@sssweetnesss3483]

You have the best advice out of all the KZbinrs out here. Thanks Appolinta!

[@joshualee4282]

Woman, I’ll tell you this. When you make a guy really really like you then you withdraw.. what do you think he’s going to do? How do you think he would react?? How could he keep his cool in that situation? and for woman to judge them harshly based on his reaction is just like breaking a guys arm and then complaining about how he screams in pain.. Makes no sense.. grow up.

[@josephbailey7408]

Also wonder why we dont want to settle down anymore, why we turn in to players. The games and psychology of a woman turns us

[@ZawieHa]

"When YOU make a guy really like you?" Are you guys puppets? I apparently "made" a guy really like me just being myself (apparently my fault, he is not an adult loool). He became so clingy, I had to withdraw for my own mental health. We are not your teddy bears or toys that you like and can always do whatever you want with them, but humans with our own feelings and boundaries. It's not my fault or responsibility if someone created our whole future together after a few dates which purpose should be to get to know each other. This is a childish behaviour, sorry.

[@nickleavitt2671]

@@ZawieHa yeah sounds like you’re talking about a couple month relationship what if a girl is attached to you for 3 years then says she wants space and a break to “miss me more” I can’t seem to find an answer for my situation

[@travisandrews3909]

This is a good point

[@harlemmitch23]

Agreed !

[@JustinPaul1st]

2 years later and this is so relevant

[@Eisentours]

The one that pulled away from me began talking to her ex boyfriend and she never told me I had to find out on my own. Even when I asked she still hid the truth from me and lied to my face.

[@lamarwhite8143]

She didn’t want to “lose” you as an option or a back-up plan. Women hate being alone so if something doesn’t work out for them they can always move on to the next one or a previous one. The reason she lied to your face is cause she’s most likely painting you as the bad guy and doesn’t wanna look like a hypocrite if she’s discovered.

[@Eisentours]

@@lamarwhite8143 I asked her even though I knew and she would say "there is no other guy" until I told her enough with the BS I know of your ex you could've kept me as a friend but your lies is enough to cut you out of my life I haven't spoken to her in 20 days ever since then. Sure, truth will cost you something but lying will cost you everything lying will never get anyone far. I don't like being slopoy seconds or rebounds.

[@derek7210]

This is literally what is happening to me and sometimes I tend to do some of these mistakes...thanks for the insight

[@mmxmanagementinc6692]

I love this! I was feeling so much tension after meeting this girl. I think i sub consciously implied that I’m moving fast and we sorta repelled. I was trying to understand what happened and what should i do (get back with her?) she explicitly said she wanted to move extra slow so now I get it. I feel relieved now that I don’t even want to get back. I realized I need to focus and improve my life for now. Thank you!

[@djmanyoso2688]

She's speaking the truth at this moment..

[@ShadowCommanderOne]

Thank you so much 🙏 I honestly felt hurt when she pulled away, because I felt a small connection, I thought she felt the same. I told myself it's not ment to be, and I'll find someone else, which may still be true yet. Either way you validated my feelings and I feel 100% better👍

[@johnmorris1009]

I never had that in the beginning. And then - 9 months into the relationship and a few recent arguments later; She's started pulling away. She was always the one who chased in the past. She liked it, I liked it and responded. Now, she's pulled away. I did today too, and have told her I need some space. I'm a bit worried she'll leave me though, because it's possible the recent arguments caused her to distance herself, but who knows. What I do know is that I don't know with women.

[@OkeyNgene-v1b]

You're good with your job beautiful lady. I have experienced most of what you said on your video. Thanks a lot and much appreciated 🙏

[@dougstofelonline3710]

The problem Apollonia is that you approach this problem as if women are the prize….and when they pull away, here’s the mistake men make. Women are not the prize! Nor are men. The prize is what two people working together can create (ie relationships are a two way street). How about approach the question of when a woman pulls away, how could they have handled that differently? What are the 7 things she might have thought of before she risked losing her guy! Here’s the reality for a high value man. If a woman asks for space, they’re going to get it. And…there’s no assurance that they’ll be able to come back…if/when they change their mind. They might very well be replaced. Just flip the script. If a guy said to a woman….”I’ need to some space”, she’d have him replaced before he even finished his sentence. What’s good for the goose…is good for the gander.

[@antonioboyd2036]

I Agree

[@Daretoshi66]

Wow I almost turned out but at the end your last point was date up and don’t date down more, dating down can make you a little bit crazy and have more drama, This intern can hurt hurt your self-esteem and leave you unfulfilled.

[@redline350zHR]

*in turn instead of ‘intern’ - unless you are referring to someone ‘interning’ at your job.

[@carlitosveras6591]

This video is so on point!

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@rich1269]

Talked to a girl for 3 months, didn’t text her to much, saw here maybe 1 time every few weeks. Finally decided to ask her to be official. All the sudden turns 360 and says that she’s “not ready for a relationship” and has been thinking on it for a while. Lol what a joke, while she was acting normal and romantic with me.

[@soichirohonda267]

You think 180°

[@joshjen1129]

I’m struggling so bad but this video is helping a lot! I’m gonna rewatch this a lot!

[@redline350zHR]

Apollonia! Hiiiii.....cant believe im this early seeing this vid hahah (posted 33 min ago) Anyway I love everything that you do and Thank You for all these helpful & informative vids you make for us!!! ❣❣❣

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you so so much!

[@henrypinto568]

Nice video Coach ❤️ I wish I saw this video in August of 2020 🥺🥺 I’ll take this advice 🙏🏻

[@radfoo72]

I found the last 3 minutes of this video most helpful and applicable to my situation. I'm waiting now for her to make a move or express something which would rebalance the frame of cooperative shared control. Thanks Apollonia👌🏼

[@travisandrews3909]

Facts

[@coachaceofmen]

BEST EVER ADVICE. THANK YOU. Everything you said Men do wrong. I've been doing. My partner of 4 yrs said last weekend she just needs time to thin, space, she call me in a few weeks. Ive made all the mistakes you've just spoken about. I've been too needy, didnr project self worth & confidence I realise now something crucial sbout men/women behaviours when dating. Gonna follow you're advice 100% starting this minute Blessings Kuldip Uk

[@fj4731]

Hi did your gf contacted u ?I am in this same situation

[@josemarin9975]

Wow she just explained my whole situation.

[@robertfierro5725]

I just randomly came across this video and now I’m Subscribe

[@douwefeitsma1555]

thanks, your videos really help me understand a girl and myself much better!

[@gregterrell1504]

I'm dealing with this issue right now. Fighting ALL my instincts by staying away.

[@ruyii30]

does it help, yet?

[@antonioboyd2036]

Some of us dont need Validation sometimes its about as you said giving the same effort energy communication and respect back in other words mirroring what im giving and vice versa not only that whats the saying if you not gonna continue to do the things you did in the beginning dont start dont change on me it is not just for the guys we all need to remember a relationship is work so we need to help each other get better each and everyday and that can only happen if we continue to learn what our love one wants and needs from us only then can we evolve because we changing but we changing together so no mind reading has to be done so if im shortchanging you or not giving you something you expect from me I know to do better if I care bout you and I want you to be part of my life

[@saitama3150]

She really knows what she's talking about. This is very true. Thumbs up

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you for your support, so truly appreciated.

[@leealex24]

@@ApolloniaPonti I have acquired quite a lot of years of dating experience and I know what you are talking about. I admit though, with this current girl, I was a little more pushy but, the thing was that she also wanted it the same. So, it's kindda weird, anyway, we communicate much less now so, I started to pull away too.

[@dmgsoultogetherness6667]

"The colour of the clouds" lololol😅 love it x

[@josiahlara7216]

Hahahahaha 🤣 I love it. I'll stop blaming the color of the clouds, I knew that was my main problem... 😁 Love your videos and advice and coachings.

[@jamesmarchetti3286]

Oh my Gosh you are right on time again !! I am dealing with right now at this exact Moment !!!

[@Ribrunner100]

Hey Apollonia. I have been binge watching your videos all day. They are amazing. Can you explain to us men what a woman means when she says that she is in a "dark place" and how to help her escape from that dark place. Thank you and much love ❤

[@deborich6789]

Just move on..she probably wouldn't say that to a dude she really likes..

[@RobStone]

Fantastic Video Apollonia :D

[@tonyc.8667]

What is the end song? Has a great chill beat to it. Also, love the videos Apollonia. You helped me a lot this past week when I made a decision I had to walk away for a temporary time. My relationship is back to square 1, rather than square -10, where we can improve things with a healthy and stable mindset. No toxic arguments, no belittling, no more ignoring. Thank you.

[@kennethprice8517]

Most I met never ask for space unfortunately I believe in firmness good communication on both sides i feel life can be stressful I believe relationships should be stressful teamwork is a dream work

[@MH-cv5ye]

When a man doesn't message back all the time, she'll message back if she's interested. If she doesn't, then simply move on, no problem. When she gets back to you, usually within a few days, then you've got the green light to escalate. Invite her out for a walk, or something uncomplicated then start building real attraction, have fun, laugh and joke, and start to get physical by giving a friendly shove, that kind of thing.

[@aligncars10000]

Nice video! I sure wish these videos would have existed ten or fifteen years ago

[@lalhmingsanga8794]

I needed this, thank you,,,, looking forward for next video.✌️

[@ruddthebest]

Was dating a girl who sounded so into me. She even planned a trip together etc. After last date we planned to go out couple days later, then she cancelled on me saying she was busy all week… and then I found out I was blocked on Instagram from watching her stories.. she went out with someone else and posted an ig story that she didn’t want me to see- I wasn’t over contacting her, or wasn’t too needy. Actually I was giving her space ( small texts,not every day, mostly just to setup dates and sometime to wish her good morning, good day ).. Maybe I should have not confronted her, but I did and she ended things. Her excuse was that she thought we were different people and I was too perfect for her… and This was 4 days before our planned trip. I don’t know what I did wrong, I just felt disrespected by her blocking me on social media to post a picture with other guy ( and probably she blocked that other dude when she posted pics of us on ig stories ), immature behavior in my opinion

[@samratchakraborty1325]

Can understand Ur feelings dude what u went through.. It's clear she is not made for u. She has exposed herself & u should be thankful to her otherwise u would have been felt more bad.

[@SOneGodoneintentionS]

I swear you tell the whole the story of my life with the girl I love. I can't thank you enough for your help and kind to be happy with our relationship 💖remember you always love:)

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you for your support, so truly appreciated.

[@h8rmgnt144]

@@ApolloniaPonti when u eat it??!!! 😅😅😅

[@XYBERJAE]

Thank u for this I believe this has to be your best video yet

[@kersonduncan6055]

Appollonia have been with this girl for about 8 months everything was going great but realise recently she has been less available. And right now she has said to me she will give me my space, need your opinion

[@davidgray4690]

Awesome and informative video. Great work

[@Tagrabbi]

I gave her space and now she's says I've been distant..

[@abdel-rahmansayed6384]

Maybe you gave too much or she just wants to be the victim(as always).

[@Tagrabbi]

Yeah I don't know if it's some sort of test, playing the victim or she genuinely is starting to realise her feelings 🤔

[@atmant05]

Good. Play with her emotions

[@saeedahmed7982]

You're doing a perfect job to be honest.

[@IQof3.0]

40 years of this. And this is why I am going to remain single from now on. So tired of the games.

[@realtyrocks1969]

No. Being single isn't the answer. You can still date women but you can also not get attached. Play her like a flute and if she decides to leave whoopty doo. Let her be the one that needs you. When she needs you long enough you will need her. You either make it or you don't either way u win.

[@growing.grounds4054]

Everything you talk about I see in my dating life as a blk male in his mid 20’s. If I knew this when I was 17 whew world wouldn’t of been ready 🤤

[@matthewisawesome]

Apolonia, you are really awesome! I think you give really good advice.

[@johnsadventures5513]

A woman brings nothing to the table and expects everything from the man .The man dose all the work .All a woman has to do is smile.

[@LaRueDuConsommateur]

Move on. Invest in yourself.

[@medman6649]

This attitude is why men have problems with women

[@razor2ts]

Thank you, you are amazing in your work :-) So good I watched this twice!

[@countvespasian1659]

Brilliant video, I'm doing most of the 7!

[@dotsonfamily927]

These videos seem to talk about early dating but helpful. My last gf was saying i love you and talking about moving in and how amazing everything is months into it. Getting very serious then literally just overnight breaks up saying she needs space and dont want any contact. I dont see asking for equal reciprocation as being needy and i was patient cause she had never experienced love as it should be but to go from in love to dont talk to me overnight i just dont understand. Sure i tell myself im better off cause maybe its another guy or maybe she is just not at my level but i dont get this situation at all

[@jimmycharles7797]

Great content! Thanks for posting!

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@AnotherOverTaxedTaxPayer]

Just because you're really into a women, it does'nt obligate them to be into you. Great Video.

[@ApolloniaPonti]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@briancote7465]

I'm dating this woman and she was contacting me constantly, then she just went cold. It is long distance and I went and surprised her and she was mad at me. I was overwhelming in the beginning.