*One key sign is her body language - leaning in during conversations or mirroring your movements can indicate genuine interest. Paying attention to these details can make a big difference in understanding her feelings!*
@calsurf213 жыл бұрын
All you guys on here chasing women in your 20s and 30s, appreciate your health and your youth. Once you find out what women are really all about - you'll be in your 50s and wondering what the hell you were so distracted about. You'll wish you could go back and be fit and healthy. Women like success, the appearance of success. At a certain point after College/University - girls stop giving it up for guys who are "cool" "hot" and simply "cool on campus." They start looking for financially stable, has a house and car, holds a career. Then it's about babies. They are generally far more circumspect than we are - sooner in life. Women are looking for stability. There will come a day when you wish you weren't married with kids and stuck in the suburbs somewhere. You'll wish you were in your 20s and 30s again - and not so focused on picking up hot girls. Focus on your career and money - girls will come along as you do. Stay fit and work out, be active. Enjoy your youth and stop all this angst over females - they aren't worth it man - believe me.
@izzojoseph22 жыл бұрын
I had to check and see if I wrote this. Spot on dude.
@ademuyiwanathan71282 жыл бұрын
OK
@shore3484502 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Chicks are baggage and good for one thing only. Never let yourself get close to them, hang out with your buddies or buy a dog if you want a best friend. Never give yourself up to a woman, you can’t trust them. Never disrespect them either by the way, domestic violence is a huge never ever, but they are not your soul mate, they are there to take your time and resources.
@cyanfiifi2 жыл бұрын
Yo! I'm in my late 20s but has 0 dating experience. Thanks for the tips
@calsurf212 жыл бұрын
@@cyanfiifi Girls are with you for a reason, never forget that. A girl can change her attitude on a dime, if she sees something better come along. Test them, the way they test you. Be circumspect, try not paying something she wants you to pay and see if she pouts and has a tantrum later on. Don't always agree with them, and see how they react. There are some great women, but there are far, far more dangerous and challenging ones. As an older guy I know of plenty of men who were great looking, fit, great jobs, who discovered their wife cheating. Court, division of assets, aggressive lawyers. Significant monetary payouts to cheating ex's who stay in your house with their new boyfriend. I know one guy - worked for an oil company - wife was doing the fitness instructor at the gym. Took more than half of his possessions, went to Court without a lawyer expecting it to be amicable. Two years on she has two new kids with a new guy, and he's still paying child-support and alimony as she didn't marry the new guy. The guys in his 40s also, and lives in a small apartment, she lives in the nice big house with another guy and his kids. He pays all the bills and the mortgage, while she pounds other men. So be careful with women, dating is one thing, listen to the stories of older guys who are divorced and separated. Some of those single 40 something women are serial cheaters living on a monthly stipend from a divorced husband. You are next.
@mahdavimail2 жыл бұрын
These signs are obviously true. But the only women who show them them to you is the one that you 100% don’t want to be with 😅
@yashrajshinde78122 жыл бұрын
That's fuckin true man... I've experienced it
@chahineezzine5504 Жыл бұрын
Especially in job, damn
@eapartnersllc93213 жыл бұрын
Great video guys. This was all really good advice packed into one video. Quite valuable.
@BobbyRio3 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@keletsothipe80693 жыл бұрын
Wow your videos have been very helpful,changed my whole game 360
@jaspergabriels89333 жыл бұрын
Would really like you seeing make a vid how to get over superficial conversation and really bond with her on a emotional level without coming over to try hard or fall into interview mode
@BobbyRio3 жыл бұрын
Sure, we can definitely cover that.
@jaspergabriels89333 жыл бұрын
@@BobbyRio also how to get over your social fear and get back into daygame
@manofsteelgoodmanll79253 жыл бұрын
These guys make great points here.
@izzojoseph22 жыл бұрын
The women I’m into now, at 55, Respond. Communicate and don’t play games. I notice the younger they are, the more they play games. I DO call them on that and they tend to respond positively. If not? Another one comes along.
@coreylavars62742 ай бұрын
The older ones have been ran threw and have so much baggage and trauma. They learn to communicate finally because there ready to settle down and can’t risk dying alone 😂
@izzojoseph22 ай бұрын
@ ~ that’s actually not entirely accurate. To make your comment I’d to overlook the fact that, by my age, absolutely everyone has baggage. My girlfriend now is NOT “run through”. To be fair it took a while to find her. But let me ask you a question, what’s the difference between a man who has had many partners and a woman who has had many partners. I’m not trolling, legit debate. I have my answer but I’m interested in yours
@imagething Жыл бұрын
“We’re u stand” theres so many girls who just want attention that I only play the game after we both agree there’s attraction. It’s all good. If someone screws up you we just reset and start again
@user-vv2wd9vm4l2 жыл бұрын
If you have to dig that deep for, “signals” then she’s not that into you and move on asap!
@bingobongo67803 жыл бұрын
Hi Rob. I'm 43 my wife is 35. We have 3 kids and been together 15yrs, married 9yrs. She's given up on our marriage. Besides being a Christian and believe you don't give up on a marriage as its covenant with God, I still fancy here and love her. We just get on each other's nerves. Any ideas how I can put some spark back in our marriage. Probably not an ideal place to ask in a comments section. Maybe that's why my marriage is failing, poor judgement!
@JR-up1te3 жыл бұрын
Try and reminisce with her about some good times you’ve experienced together, but don’t lay it on too thick, just some hints of your past together in small talk, like seeing something that reminded you of your first date together etc, and after a while if that goes well get a babysitter and take her on a date or do something together that you both enjoyed doing. And down the line if you see that spark in her eyes again you can be sure she’s not given up and she just needed a bit of a reminder that you still love her. I might be wrong but it’s what I would do if I was in your situation.
@bingobongo67803 жыл бұрын
@@JR-up1te thanks much appreciated
@patrusso72783 жыл бұрын
A 35 yr old woman with 3 kids....shes gonna have a tough time in the dating pool. Most guys won t marry her...too much baggage. Maybe some time apart will get her to realize this. Not divorce...just a temporary separation.... she will appreciate you alot more!
@paulcosta82972 жыл бұрын
Dan Bacon has excellent material for your situation.
@truecatholic12 жыл бұрын
The secret to attracting women is simple - and extremely politically incorrect. It is unambiguous in your case (married). Tell her what to do, and then make her do it.
@xavierzayne57123 жыл бұрын
She never txt me first, but when I do first shes too enthusiastic, make the conversation, ask too much and even end the conversation till midnight. Why was that? I only chat her maybe 2-3 times a week. Should it be enough for her to be still interested on me?
@winwinwin2828283 жыл бұрын
I m getting quite intimate with a girl who is like 20 years younger. But she never give off any vibes that she likes me. I m not sure what's going on
@39hircvv3 жыл бұрын
Go out get some drinks try to makeout if she is responsive take her to your apt if she doesnt kiss dump her
@kabysummit58012 жыл бұрын
If you're looking for more. Look out, she may not be able to reciprocate
@Thompsdan3 жыл бұрын
Because you’re worth it.
@sifugurusensei2 жыл бұрын
I was looking for the sign. Then I came to the stop light.
@UFCMusic Жыл бұрын
WOW very interesting. putting in the effort to play the game
@darrellphy71282 жыл бұрын
Dam my girl white Knight for me all the time. I feel so feminine around her. She so strong. Rawr 🐯.
@HeyDan19832 жыл бұрын
What you guys think about this: I think one of my coworkers is attracted to me, there's a lot of signs by now, but I wanted to share this one and see if this is another one: I wanted to give her an honest opinion of the work shes doing, so we have a quick meeting where I was thinking it will not take that much. At 10 minutes of the conversation we agreed on everthing talk about my feedback, and I started those "last line" to end the meeting, but when I started with something like... Well anyway, I think thats it, she started to talk about other topics and I actually needed to happen that for a second time for me to realized that she didnt wanted to end the call. We ended up talking for like an hour. Does this sounds like a sing to you guys?
@patrickokechukwu3203 жыл бұрын
Hey Rob. How do you move on when she says she has boyfriend especially when u have to see her everyday 🤦♀️
@patrusso72783 жыл бұрын
Move to another town!
@Imposter122 жыл бұрын
@@patrusso7278 lmao
@monnombre65472 жыл бұрын
ty!!!!!!
@tkdblkbelt54832 жыл бұрын
15:38 i get that preening too many times, I'm not taking action though
@mustsilm2 жыл бұрын
They should teach this stuff at school
@tayebzied98683 жыл бұрын
thanks
@Eric-fh2ut3 жыл бұрын
Do you ever think ppl like you ruin dating... 😂😂😂
@blizzbee2 жыл бұрын
lol 🤣 nooo they don't 😂
@najibelaoufi22213 жыл бұрын
As a non native English speaker ... i can hardly understand the other guy his pace is a bit harder to be understood.... however boby is totally clear.
@kabysummit58012 жыл бұрын
Nerds talking shop.
@VIM731 Жыл бұрын
So about the teasing, guys. Is it too much to jokingly call her out on it?? E.G Her: Ohhh so now you're the expert when 5 minutes ago you were clueless? Guy: Ohhh, now you're teasing me. I think we're getting somewhere. What's next? A long walk on the beach at sunset after a romantic candle-lit dinner??
@FromThe3021 Жыл бұрын
No, try Her: Now you’re an expert. You: Don’t tease me. Her: Don’t dob on me. You: Show us your t!ts then.
@nature108792 жыл бұрын
I always know their name and usually calls her by her name. I never noticed this consciously until I got older. If i dont know your name, then I am absolutely not interested.
@Thompsdan3 жыл бұрын
What if I smell something funny and it puts all of this out of my mind?
@zachbecce62563 жыл бұрын
+2349055574944
@kabysummit58012 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣😂 By tomorrow you'll already forgotten
@rayttt1889 Жыл бұрын
So if a lady defends you she isnt interested 8:37 did i hear that right
@cingfx9751 Жыл бұрын
Yes, because she thinks you can't handle the situation. Think about it when an older sister defends her little brother because she knows he's weak.
@Alex-sv4vv3 жыл бұрын
Nice video!
@AftabAhmedLakhani3 жыл бұрын
I am interested
@lastwhtknight30023 жыл бұрын
Rob Judge is the man.
@afonsodeportugal3 жыл бұрын
He sometimes talks goofy, but he sure knows this stuff.
@anhumblemessengerofthelawo38583 жыл бұрын
_your hat is the thing_
@illum1_nate3 жыл бұрын
I'm from PH, i got this girl attracted to me, but i made mistakes for the past 4 months then the attraction declined without me noticing, then she friendzone me, i know the feeling was still there its just she was disappointed, i want her back i dont know how
@King-E-Roy3 жыл бұрын
Move on if you couldn’t get her in 4months she definitely don’t like you at all
@grep40443 жыл бұрын
Rob and bobby rock
@philcollins72953 жыл бұрын
How about all what you say happens with a ex girlfriend? Like she show me a nipple piercing she had done at a friends wedding & always in my space but happens when she has a drink.Game player i say.....likes the attention or trying to get attention
@jjames65542 жыл бұрын
F signals. Go for the ones you want, thats it. What does it matter if the women I don’t want, want me?
@afaqahmed25383 жыл бұрын
You should make small videos
@AnonymousNinja823 жыл бұрын
Who the hell drinks a margarita with a straw. That was a BS story.
@BTFives3 жыл бұрын
Here's my love hack... You'll know if she likes you or not. If you think she does ask her out. Least she can say is no. The end. No tricks. Easy stuff.
@davidwise64857 ай бұрын
Alright, my guru masters of the opposite sex. WTF does it mean when they have just gone invisible on FB and messenger. Or at least I can not see or message her thru these channels all of a sudden. I would assume normally that the girl is creeped out by me and is ghosting me. But that is not the case. She made sure I would have to make another hour drive to see her cos she has something of mine I asked her to get. She could have given it to me the last time I was with her, but she made many excuses as to why I could come back for these things. This was on a Saturday, and the following Monday was the last reply I got from her on messenger. It is now Thursday, and poof no way to contact her thru the channels we have been using. Her brother is sick and might have passed by now, but idk if that would make a person become a ghost or not. Idk if it's just me that can't message her or see her FB page or if it's everyone. What do you think? Or do you need more info on the relationship to answer that question?
@alexflips3932 жыл бұрын
3:13 does Bobby have bare feet?
@vygox2126 Жыл бұрын
yes he does
@bendaro2447 Жыл бұрын
T
@The.Billionaire.Official3 жыл бұрын
Hey Bobby great video again👌👌💯 How can I get your infields and Rob Judge's
@aaronmilk84393 жыл бұрын
Getting your ex back shouldn't be a problems i just got my lover back with the help of Mr osekhametalor
@professorpasha0072 жыл бұрын
U....must go a bit slow .....r....u...speaking for urself or for us? ....So...slow down Ur speech which can be comprehendable of course not for me but, for others!!!🌹
@yodo64142 жыл бұрын
Annoying
@ethanmerchant79523 жыл бұрын
Hey there you guys I am having trouble with my ex girlfriend/ex future wife named Jazmine Destiny Turner and I want to forgive her for doing this to herself and me and everybody else is she kind of allowed herself to be posed by the Devil from the fiery Pitts of Hell and I don't know why she allowed herself to do that to herself and me also and she tried to get me to ruin my life and go out with her to go over to our neighbors houses to do the wrong things like kill them and steal their belongings from their homes and I didn't go with her because I knew that it was wrong and evil for us all to do!
@allamericantreeservice37543 жыл бұрын
Get help for yourself and her
@ethanmerchant79523 жыл бұрын
@@allamericantreeservice3754 but whom should I go to get help from huh?!.
@ethanmerchant79523 жыл бұрын
@@mmm365 I'm very sorry for saying this to you but I just can't forget about her because she's like the love of my life and I don't think that she wants me to do that to her because she still loves me and wants me to be with her and help take care of her life and I want you to know that it's wrong of you to say this to me and I will forgive you for that because you don't need to so this to me but I want you to apologize for saying this to me and then I'll forgive you for it please and thank you?!.
@umarharuna86593 жыл бұрын
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back
@umarharuna86593 жыл бұрын
Wh'tsapp him
@jpjp91113 жыл бұрын
"Playing a game." What game?
@aric25893 жыл бұрын
You know, the cheeky banter that you would share with a girl, both knowing in the back of your heads you want each other yet playing it down to not reveal yourself to much. The game is essential in forming an connection
@jpjp91113 жыл бұрын
I'm not familiar with this. People don't normally show any interest.
@aric25893 жыл бұрын
@@jpjp9111 I'm you have, you just haven't noticed it or had anyone point it out before. It's like when your young there has always a bright light in the sky but later in your life sometimes points it out and says it called the sun and may explain how it works too.
@markussanchez13463 жыл бұрын
Why do you talk so much
@mickeymelendez16053 жыл бұрын
You are not interested in the information
@Donjuan132 жыл бұрын
Hell please make short video max 10 min is to much not good
@artsmart073 жыл бұрын
a few seconds in.. Um..no.. and um, yes... and um.. there were/are signals? .. who woulda known if not for guys like you.. but none of these guys all those year ago in or around my life.. never heard of chicks doing any of these things ..?... had to be where one was born and raised, even in these last few decades. ..and way too old now..haha well, at least I know now and can be even angrier about things missed in life. ha! life sucks then you die as its said.