7 Signs People SECRETLY Find You Attractive

Do people secretly find you attractive? Are you one of the best looking people in the room? To attractive people, their good looks aren’t always obvious. Other people may think you're attractive and you may not realize it. So how can you really tell?
Sources:
Signs That Someone May Be Interested in You
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What Makes Someone Physically Attracted to You?
www.psychologytoday.com/us/bl...
Subtle Sources of Attraction
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Flirting
www.psychologytoday.com/us/ba...
Nonverbal Cues That Someone Is Interested in You
www.psychologytoday.com/us/bl...
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[@Hifirrrr]

this is so true, we often think attractive people are constantly being praised but in fact most of them did not receive such compliments

[@angels1515]

Most of them vl be jealous of them 😆

[@JohnPierre-lz6vb]

@@angels1515 That is a fact and some try to bring you down. A lot actually.

[@tanzyv7280]

Facts

[@JohnPierre-lz6vb]

@@tanzyv7280 And sometimes when you don't get compliments you think :"What is wrong with me? What did i do wrong? Maybe i am not as good looking as I thought I was?" And then you remember that a lot of people are intimidated and scared to talk to you because of your good looks. Ugly people and extremely good looking people have a lot more in common than we think. Being ignored, feared sometimes. Yeah that's sick.

[@Bbaybird21]

So what do ugly people get then ??

[@ManriqueSolera80]

If you are really attractive this is the most common reaction you will get from others: jealousy. Most people perceive you as cocky just because of your looks and success. Being the center of attention is not as wonderful as most would think. People will judge just because you are doing your thing and living your life. Yea it does give you an advantage with opposite sex but also others copying your style, voice, discipline, manners etc. Not everything is positive.

[@Cusp_of_magic]

Yes!!! This the one right here. Jealousy should've been mentioned in the video, because depending on who you're around, this will definitely be present. Being good looking and/or magnetic is not always a positive experience! 💯💯

[@JohnPierre-lz6vb]

And when they imitate you the mostly won't tell you that they do. They either do it unconsciouly.or consiously but act like they don't want to copy you because they are ashamed to admit it.

[@bloodeagle2945]

@@JohnPierre-lz6vb unconsciously and consciously?

[@icametoparty4017]

This was perfect!!! ❤️❤️❤️ Or they will start competing with you. If you're at work and they happen to hear you sing a song and it sounds good the next time you bump into them they're singing too. Almost to say "hey look at me I can carry a note too" the competition in their head has started and you're literally confused by it lol

[@JohnPierre-lz6vb]

@@icametoparty4017 I get strangers on the streets competing with me. Sometimes they even if they don't see my face and just my back. Some human beings are weird.

[@MillionaireMindsetClub]

If you are reading this right now, I wish you the most ABUNDANT year of your life!

[@anndavis2920]

thank u! U made my day as im sitting in my apt. waiting for my nurse to come back bc wifi wasnt working for her computer. 8-25-21

[@nayoka9]

♥️

[@desireebryant9523]

And you as well

[@galaxygreenlighttarot3770]

Thank you , 10× to you 💚💚💚💚💚

[@miaporche2256]

Vice-versa.....😁💜

[@bindesh101]

1) Strange Message 2) Awkward conversation 3) Vocal compliments 4) Natural Chemistry 5) Valuable Advice 6) Selfless Intrest ... They ask you a lots of questions about you 7) Postive Assumptions ... people don't compliment you because they think you're a person who always gets complimented Attractive People find more success on average ... If you're physically attractive people will make positive assumptions about your personality ... They'll Assume You're Smart ... They'll Assume You're Successful ... So don't be suprised if people turn to you for advice , feedback or support because subconsciously they have a high opinion of you ... It's Because you're attractive than the most

[@zubieM]

Love this!!

[@Tweakkkkkk]

We watched the video dude ☹️

[@bindesh101]

@@Tweakkkkkk That'll make you more knowledgeable about these things ... You can't get that knowledge just by reading my comment dude 😂😎

[@teaganeaston5342]

@@bindesh101 that being said thanks for making the list 🙂👍

[@bindesh101]

@@teaganeaston5342 You're Always Welcome Dude 😊👍🏻🤞🏻

[@improvement-today]

If you are a man in your 20s, working on yourself, I assure you are going to be great! Just make sure to improve everyday of your life and success will come itself 🥳 Cheers from Improvement Today 💥

[@hazelthomas1146]

Don’t forget, a smile and being nice instantly makes you more attractive, even when the person who is looking at you isn’t even talking to you

[@bloodeagle2945]

My classmate said that by smile looks annoying, what does that mean? Lol

[@FvckEmWeUp]

nice isnt attractive to women

[@lea88pu]

But they also assume that everything is easy for you, and you have nothing to complain about, and even if you want to share some problems you encounter, they act like: " What are you talking about, you shouldn't feel bad about anything", but actually, attractive people often give advice, but they hardly ever receive some or to put it differently, people rarely notice they feel bad, have a bad mood or need some comfort. So they feel lonely at times.

[@mamonzote]

The akward conversations made me think people didnt like me for a long time. Till i learned i was attractive 🤣 then i had to be the one to open the convos to relax the mood and eventually every9ne would open up and chill. Im not sayin i feel like a model but i know i can make people nervous and i always try to calm them down.

[@deegodson9614]

Same here g thought people was annoyed or bugged by me

[@xantonify]

As a man, i've walked past couples many times as they were totally just having a normal convo, out of the blue just started giving eachother kisses when they see me...

[@jeffreyjimmy4361]

Everywhere I go

[@jsmum196]

It makes you feel bad but know it's because you are a perceived threat.

[@Mythical444]

It’s called mate guarding. It happens to me all the time when I’m in the mall, dudes are so insecure about themselves that they think their girl will get taken by me if she sees me. Dudes need to get on their grind so they can be attractive themselves so they won’t have to be so insecure around their girl when they see another attractive guy.

[@AnthonyBolognese710]

Mate guarding behavior.

[@Sparecandle]

Know what really makes a person attractive? The lack of conceit that most "attractive" people possess.

[@cacti_flowers4441]

Yessss I totally agree!

[@sagthenaturalsiren5997]

Do they possess it or do you just feel that way because YOU find them attractive……people assume I’m conceited without even talking to me

[@Sparecandle]

@@sagthenaturalsiren5997 if people are assuming things without truly looking at someone, that is on them. There's a difference between the "I'm better than everyone" and "I embrace me for who I am" mindsets.

[@margottfon330]

Be weary of the 'mirroring'. They may like you, but they also may try to manipulate.(btw, can be both simultaneously). Re the 'there're asking lots of questions about you', they may like you as a candidate to partner up with, but that 'like' is more of a simple calculation...

[@davonthomas8524]

Wow I needed this message and it came at the right time too.

[@nafisakwande6544]

Great video.Very enlightening.

[@audrey_lyn22]

OMGGGG YESSSSS I NEEDED THIS

[@barendkamperman1471]

These are all true to varying degrees. But some people see an attractive guy mainly as an asset to use or abuse. They don't see him as a full fledged human being with flaws and strengths. It's better to be diligent at being a helpful person with integrity and self discipline. Getting your esteem from others is a no win game.

[@sagthenaturalsiren5997]

I see extremely attractive men as ones to avoid, usually too many people have told them their attractive and now they expect people to fall at their feet

[@sammyytube5999]

How about avoiding you when you walk into a room. This is especially true if the opposite sex finds you attractive and they already have a mate. Or jealousy from the same gender.

[@jsmum196]

Or shyness and intimidation because the opposite sex finds you attractive. I do that all the time if a good looking guy comes in the room. It doesn't help since they feel like you don't like them.

[@mellovestodraw]

Nobody talks about this topic, my mates boyfriend kept looking at me but like for short period of time like a second or so even when he is right next to her and this would make me uncomfortable and confused? Like bro I know you like her and she likes u too but would u quit the staring especially when I do a sudden movement e.g look up once I finish texting on my phone ?? 🤨

[@sussybaka8669]

​@mellovestodraw true a girl in my class litterally looks at me all the time even though she has a boyfriend and she laughs at my "Joke"s that are not even funny

[@JohnPierre-lz6vb]

Things you need to know when you are a good looking/pretty or handsome guy. 1.Most Women are intimidated by you and won't approach you since they think you are out of their league. 2.Other Men are either extremely comfortable around you and want to be your Friend or straight up hate you and try to make you look insecure and down for no appearant reason but jealousy. 3.The women who will approach you are usually the ones you don't want ( averrage or ugly one's) 4. If you are attractive and shy the work is twice harder cause you have to approach Women or nothing will happen 5.Guys , girls assume you are a player and date a lot of Women. 6.Gay guy's look at you and flirt with you. 7. Random strangers start conversations with you for no reason and it's really akward cause it's always creepy strangers with no good intentions behind it 8.You can't talk about attractive people struggles only with really attractive people cause averrage or ugly people think you show off or are looking for attention. 9. If you are really attractive people will either love or hate you. The in between are fake Friends who use you , are nice to you at the beginning and then slowly try to put you down because of jealousy 10. EVERYBODY has high expectations of you. 11.Pressure of always looking perfect , being perfect. 12. When you don't get looked at sometimes on the streets you feel like something is wrong with you and you may be not as good looking as you think you were. 13.People don't compliment you that often on you physical appearance because they think that you hear it probably all the time and they don't want you to grow it into your head. 14.Sometimes strangers smile at you. If you smile they sometimes smile back 15.You can get away with creepy behaviors , creepy jokes 16. Girls laugh at your jokes and touch you while flirting with you when what you said wasn't even that funny 17. Girls are not themselves with you and try to look perfect for you 18.Some girls often play hard to get and it it f ing annoying. 19. Guys stare at you on the streets , they are way less discreet than girls, and if they have a wife or a girlfriend they put their arm around their girlfriend. Wife's and Girlfriends glance at you and sometimes flirt with you in front of their partner. 20.It is a blessing to be good looking don't ever forget that.

[@sussybaka8669]

number 16 is definitely true all i said was that i make milk and they laughed like that waa not even on purpose

[@rebeccagandi5301]

Thank You Too for showing Us this Secret of Knowing some One is Attractive.

[@rebeccagandi5301]

You are quite Right Thank You.

[@emmanuelkugbegah1522]

Should I be happy or sad that none of these things happen to me?😂

[@JF59122]

Whenever I get out of my house I spot strangers looking at me for 5 secs...but then again I have a lot of weird birthmarks...so maybe that's why...

[@johncarr1358]

The voice! I do find myself talking in a deeper voices.

[@Demancer2]

Being attractive sucks, people keep acting weird and awkward around me. I'm like dude, I can't be THAT good looking.

[@FvckEmWeUp]

ion know how getting attention sucks

[@williamhaugan4316]

Great video

[@Erominaannad]

Great tips wow 😮 amazing

[@positiveandhealthy2728]

This is needed every time you feel like giving up!

[@Cusp_of_magic]

This is interesting. I've experienced most of those. I sure do get a lot of weird and annoying attention thrown my way, and I don't even be wanting it! I just figured it's because I'm so quiet and to myself, which also draws people in..😒. But with the way women have acted up towards me when I haven't done nothing to em and don't even speak to em unless necessary, tells me a lot too. I don't know if it's 'my attractiveness' or not, but it's annoying! 🤦🏾‍♀

[@kristacarvajal9692]

Agreed

[@kristacarvajal9692]

They expect you to do what they want

[@jsmum196]

Jealous women are the worst!! They WILL try to sabotage you if you try to be their friend! This is why pretty women stick with other pretty women.

[@deechlynn]

Dang! Haven't experienced too much of this.

[@2shayyyyy]

I deliver uber eats and have had women message me compliments. It's a good feeling

[@darksoul479]

Someone thinks my fake profile picture is attractive? How kind of them.

[@wilsonstone935]

That's touching, thank you

[@Mockduck2020]

I always thought people judging people because of pictures they put online as if people don’t edit which pictures they post is stupid. Many people look nothing like what their picture portrays.

[@watusipitmalu3060]

#1 Supporter Here🥀

[@phollabangerz]

I'm attractively attracted to this video

[@Cosmicmorales]

lmao

[@pounded_pawg]

Road to 3 mil...😤💯

[@Sabrina-cs2tq]

Well, nothing of that applies to me..so I now shall have my answer to this 😂

[@christirose6813]

I ask a lot of people about their hobbies and interests, whether they are physically attractive or mostly attractive in their personality. It doesn't matter to me. I just like people of all walks of life and enjoy learning a lot in human interests and people. So this category topic discussed can go either way. Romantic or otherwise.

[@Mythical444]

I’m a dude and I’ve been approached to do modeling before so I guess I’m outwardly attractive but it’s a blessing and a curse for me. People avoid me a lot but I also get so many women looking at me, I guess that helps because I’m also a UPS driver as well lol.

[@DebLindley-xg8gz]

That's too funny 😂 I have a secret crush on my UPS man. He's so darn hot and so sweet and respectful. Sad part is, he's only 6 years older than my oldest son who's 33 LOL

[@Lilly-ud6qs]

This video hits harder then I thought,sometimes running simple errands can be difficult if you're getting hollered at by 10 different men in a 20 min time frame.

[@stu3775]

Always be attractive.

[@icametoparty4017]

Is that you in your profile? If so, Nice beard!! 🥰❤️ Can I pull it? Lol

[@stu3775]

@@icametoparty4017 I'd probably have a difficult time telling you no.

[@timoteooo94]

Being attractive is not easy. It comes with haters. Both attractive men n female could be looked at as hoes, stuck up, spoon fed n many more things. A lot of attractive people are bullied and unfortunately committed suicide because of it which breaks my heart.

[@FvckEmWeUp]

nah alotta unattractive people are bullied n delete themselves. Being attractive is easy as fucc

[@sigmasiren777]

​@steppin_harderrr, the OP said what he said!

[@warrenzang1675]

3:31 that position 🥺💖

[@bloodeagle2945]

Ballet dancer

[@ghostriley5632]

Every woman is awkward around me I think I am attracted to them

[@Exalted_Example]

I don't think i have ever clicked a less relevant video to my life. I was watching deep sea freediving fishing on an island 9000 miles away from me last week.

[@josephinegrech6076]

Yeah....like the footage

[@kristacarvajal9692]

it can be a curse, too many people demand the attention

[@CatherineBirch-m5r]

Especially if your'e a loner who hates people.

[@manofsteelgoodmanll7925]

I've been told man things far as how I dress and how confident I am to express myself and funny and.smart I am.So it's kinda all the same.Ways but I never try to be cocky about everything like some Others do.

[@weldinggirl]

I love all your content #Topthink

[@rupeshkumar7776]

Me to me who never experienced anything like this: You're not that guy pal you're not that guy

[@tayodeniro6669]

Scary accurate...

[@BreezeeGreenz]

The last one is so true-- not being complimented because girls think you hear it all the tint. There was a girl I met at the gym once and I started talking with her. One day at the gym she told me she wanted to pay me a compliment but that she was afraid I wouldn't be able to fit my head through the door when I left the gym. I immediately told her not to worry and to go ahead and pay the compliment, that I'd just use the double doors on my way out. After we had a laugh at the witty comeback, she gave me the compliment. She didn't realize that I don't receive compliments much.

[@scarauchiha]

I've already caught people staring at me including kids lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@bangtan._.0t7]

Ur right 🤣

[@369Rising]

"I know you hear this all the time." Translation: What I'm about to say means nothing and you'll take it for granted. RUN! It's jealousy.

[@pragyankakati3092]

I'm here at 3am I prolly just focus on myself

[@Djwhynotlove]

I love #5’s first male character. His left eye isn’t attached to the motion of his head (6:14 - 6:18)

[@bangtan._.0t7]

🤣loll yeah

[@kypie8]

Haha good “eye”!! 👁

[@asgharabbas1808]

damn nice eye bro

[@imperez669]

Is there a difference between being attractive beauiful? As i understand,, attractiveness pertains to a persons aura or vibes while being beauiful pertains to physical features. What can u say?

[@kyahlogan]

I feel like I get lots of compliments. Damn they must feel bad for me lol

[@matthewcuriel991]

I feel like people being attractive the assumption is they aren't that smart ... like I often felt people thought I was dumb even though I often had reason that suggested otherwise. Plus I have heard many people have a very fictional stereotypical sense of what a smart person is ... a needy person with glasses and pimples on their face not attractive. Like I'd wear glasses people would say "that makes you look smart" I never really understood this cuz looks to me don't really mean much

[@Untouched77]

guess im ugly

[@wilfredogonzalez1422]

And sometimes they ask a lot of questions, because they are gold diggers and they want to know what they can get from you. It happen to me a few times. I learned my lesson well that is why i will still be single. I am not going to be used again.

[@donnalaliberte1255]

The same thing happens to successful women. It has happened to me as well.

[@anndavis2920]

I agree. I feel the same. Im tired of being used & thrown away. Im staying single & celibate too bc all guys want is sex & Im not inro porn. 8-25-21

[@FvckEmWeUp]

@@anndavis2920 not all men want sex, thats why yall females cant be trusted

[@niners2083]

None of this happens to me. I hope you all find love and happiness.

[@marciamellow1211]

I get more complements,than I really want...uncomfortable some times...I like my alone time...nice though.

[@nawanafawn3982]

Or the person who is flattering you. My advice don't fall for it! From experience DON'T DO IT

[@kimberlyturner820]

I despise flattery.

[@nightlord8756]

Same ends up in backstabbing everytime COMPLIMENTS SUCK

[@1871kwame1]

Someone already said this in the comments but it’s 💯 true when ur attractive (not only in physical appearance ) but in knowledge smartness thinking on your feet leadership skills,,, what u will get is abundance of envy hate jealousy.. if u r getting this then u know why !! Talking from first hand experience

[@maiaallman4635]

I am 207 years old and I really hope nobody finds me attractive.

[@Cosmicmorales]

0_0

[@ghostriley5632]

I found u attractive

[@andrewblair162]

Yuh too BBC lie u can live suh BBC long stop the fuckry

[@whyarelibsdumb7204]

I smash it lol

[@nwsanagnwsths]

it talks about feedbacks

[@darksoul479]

Do you want people to be attracted to you? Stop caring about it.

[@josajopai]

The best

[@FvckEmWeUp]

not like it'll make you 10x more attractive unless your attractive to begin with

[@latoshastanfield5523]

Attractive 😍😁 thumbnail

[@Vy-Oh-Letter]

1) Strange Messages - 0:14 2) Awkward Conversations - 1:15 3) Vocal Compliments - 2:33 4) Natural Chemistry - 4:03 5) Valuable Advice - 6:09 6) Selfless Interest - 7:28 7) Positive Assumptions - 8:57

[@seikomyazawa]

well, it seems like I'm not atractive at all..

[@TrinaTat]

Huh, I don’t compliment someone because they don’t look attractive so there’s nothing to compliment

[@indridcold8433]

There is a single small mirror in my house. It is kept hidden form sight on the back of my laundry room door. That solitary mirror speaks volumes about how ugly I am. I would get rid of it but use it to check myself for parasite after working outside all day. That is the only purpose it serves. I go weeks without seeing myself in the mirror. I, too, have come to conclude I am ugly. I require no mirror to remind of this unfortunate fact.

[@StemteacherMsB]

I'm attractive because my mom and dad said I was.

[@mcmacshalfilya]

Attractive at the HIGHEST LEVEL

[@victorious_loozer8661]

Thats not nice

[@StemteacherMsB]

@@victorious_loozer8661 of course you'd think that, sorry confidence wasn't instilled in you during early development. Don't take that out on others.

[@sarahgumball8597]

I just saw a mouse and it screamed at me

[@anndavis2920]

LOL! I kill mice & my gfs are scared to death of them & I come kill them w/no problem. Im the mice killer for my friends. 8-25-21

[@jasperquinnzelblack3488]

I feel like the polar opposite to all this

[@dawsonSTT]

I used to get a lot of compliments from family💀

[@Shon9tilR]

2. I think because I’m weird.

[@SunnyHomeVideos]

Fun fact. On average, women get way more compliments on their looks from both men and other women than most attractive men (unless they are celebrities)

[@nchimunyamuchima905]

I can't believe am not attractive at all😭

[@kaifengbg3315]

Reminds me of a stranger long ago...

[@kbcinmedusn]

So I guess this means I'm unattractive then. What a disappointment. At least I've been spared the suspense.

[@kristacarvajal9692]

everyone loves my voice

[@jerrydbrown1401]

People avoid me.

[@xxxraquelpinexxxx9725]

I am often complimented on my looks, often from what i am wearing to my hair to everything in general. I have no idea why i am so attractive, but a lot of people often say stuff to me

[@jeon-twerking7598]

When your crush lives far away from you and doesn't KNOW you 😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐 JEON JUNGKOOOKKKKK and you don't know that whether he will be like this or not. ARMYs can relate..

[@bangtan._.0t7]

Omgg so true Even I have Crush on him since I saw him 🤣💜

[@merlebrown7664]

So I read some interesting comment below and if you are an attractive man in your 20s and you are probably struggling to date someone, I suggest you use love spells and see how it works. Cheers!

[@diamondgamebeats8826]

I'd rather die than do witchcraft

[@nightlord8756]

Basically ,You 20 years old and a guy ,which is my case and you SCREWED ,GREAT !!!😑😑

[@rubynovel]

If they ask to do a reading for you beware 😂😂😂

[@SunnyHomeVideos]

When people much older than you think you're very handsome lol

[@fstefansky]

So no?

[@WaRich202]

Women love my eyes , voice , dimple's & Lips 😜 ...now this makes sense...

[@Prodrive1]

Guys too one would imagine.

[@rocking1313]

Beauty is Life's EZ pass? :)

[@SAYANXPERIMENT]

Thank you for this knowledge sir ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@ramelhagins6698]

I have a deep voice.

[@hcrystalh]

Everyone in the comments finding ways to indirectly say they’re attractive 😆 also, people who assume they’re good-looking think everything everyone does is because they’re “good-looking.” 😂

[@bleachedout805]

This whole topic is about desirablity so people in the comments are merely confirming they expirence of being desired but I agree it's vain to assume that this expirence is unique to them when all humans can be precieved as attractive. Attraction is subjective and often more driven by convenience and and the basic drive to procreate than anything else. Like I'm sure there are men who see your features and think they are highly desirable while other will think they aren't but do you let that determine your self worth?

[@DopeAsThePope1]

Why am I so ugly??? 😥

[@m_winewood]

Yea I was like 24 when I found out I was apparently approaching hot

[@doctorghahvehiran2919]

hi

[@paulthemba9961]

Who got none ? Like me

[@sigmasiren777]

Attractiveness is a gift & a curse.

[@anthonywheaton6181]

Guess im not attractive…

[@user-br7rm3ol2s]

add yourself to the list with the rest of the 5 billion people in the world

[@chillinginarea51]

Short answer they don't 😐

[@nemojob666]

This video took me to Spain but left the S behind

[@jojofilippa]

😫😂