7 Signs Someone is Too Immature For You

[@Psych2go]

Rate your maturity level from sponge bob to pizza below.

[@thatoneguy6355]

I’d go with pineapple pizza..

[@Kilo-Kilo-]

Thank for the information!

[@okaycola2]

somewhere between Pooh & Pepe

[@siohiri]

idk

[@imanigalloway841]

Psych2go Hawaiian pizza

[@jiajingzhang3805]

Not only for dating, these kinds of emotionally immature friends are toxic too

[@SR77736]

Facts

[@mahima7638]

I'm going through this😭😭😭

[@katarinailic1095]

@@mahima7638 I've been through it so many times, it really sucks. You think you have someone to rely on but you end up hurting terribly and it is not your fault. 😛 It really sucks

[@rethomazure]

exactly why i’m here

[@interstellar0123]

agreed

[@nehameena8441]

8. When you're trying to explain yourself but they think you're arguing with them😐

[@sebastianvonnebenan5260]

I know...

[@BlaecOleander]

Truth 😩

[@heyoitslitty2689]

preach!

[@CKALLY]

Ughh... I’m getting flash backs 😖

[@aimermr1342]

🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ yes.

[@beryl.pretorius]

1. They act on their emotions. 2. They take everything personally. 3. They lack self-awareness. 4. They blame other people for their problems. 5. They always have to have their way. 6. They act passive-aggressive. 7. They are overly possessive.

[@selena9904]

Thanks

[@Tacitus_BirchSaw]

Thanks you

[@inactive.5680]

-Mmm seems like most of my old friends

[@matoscela]

thanks ❤️

[@GardenfRedRoses777]

All these sound like my toxic ex best friend.

[@AndresAlonsoPerez]

Summary of the 7 signs: 1. They act on their emotions 2. They take everything personally 3. They lack self-awareness 4. They blame other people for their problems 5. They always have to have their way 6. They act passive-aggressive 7. They are overly possessive

[@naruto2841]

Looking at all of these signs I got to know I am the one who is immature Well I am working on myself let's see how it will turn out

[@UserFin]

@@naruto2841 Good luck with the self improvement! First step is realizing you're the one who truly needs to grow.

[@naruto2841]

@@UserFin thanks 👍

[@matteo89ify]

Half of this signs are no signs at all , like that is not being immature but human , “they blame other people for their problems?” Ah yes si the fact that I’m in deep depression not even eating anymore cause of trash people that treated me like shit is my fault of course

[@NeverToMuch21]

About 5 out of 7 sounds exactly like me. And now... I must wonder in space, make mistake, get into trouble, learn the hard way, then after 5 years of doing so... I'll be mature.

[@MrJoon360]

A reminder for everyone, including myself: maturity is not measured by your age, it's measured by your experiences and your willingness to grow from them.

[@dankline9162]

Im 34. My ex is 19. I'm surprised at how mature she was, but we both need some growing. She has 6 for sure, and we both had 7. I hope she can open up to me again to talk more, bc I really want her to grow.

[@artisticbeing260]

I'm 16, and so is why ex. And he's significantly less mature than I am despite being at first subtle about it

[@loveawayfromreality6453]

Yeah true

[@seph1109]

Tysm for this

[@josesarif.matocinojr.5641]

No you'll experience any kinds of stuff even about life if you're not in proper age.

[@1Skorpia]

AGE DOESNT DEFINE MATURITY. ive seen men at 50 acting like children and 17 year olds handling heavy responcibilities with grace .

[@acharich]

🎯🎯🎯

[@harukapologist]

true.

[@whatshouldinamemyself809]

definitely.

[@swatisaini6447]

Ikr

[@Ash-ty4qp]

Omg but this is so sooo true💯

[@brittanyhernandez4778]

Signs someone is too immature for you 1. They feel attacked by this video

[@venus_2345]

Yea, I cried

[@orlandobittencourt5475]

I only feel sad

[@disease30yearsago76]

STFU

[@miketheyoutuber1713]

im sad

[@martina-iq5xc]

idk im rigid about political opinions and that leads to arguments with people in general. i dont force them to have the same opinion as me, but i also dont approve it. is that being immature? idfk

[@amelia.h4158]

I was in a past relationship where I was the immature one, and it ruined our relationship (partly), he taught me to be more mature by showing me my wrong behaviors and finally I was ready and mature enough for a relationship only after we ended our relationship. I feel so sorry for my ex for having to put up with me, but I am thankful and know that I was not the only one who had flaws. I am proud of myself that I grew and now found a healthy relationship with someone as mature as I am and its a perfect match.

[@MistaGSpecialEducation]

I used to be the immature one, and I can definitely relate.

[@seltascare4713]

the best part of all this is that being immature can be attractive if it has boundaries- boundaries which stop exactly when your partner is being harmed or doesn't know what to do- this shouldn't ever happen. So being childish and knowing where to stop is very very very attractive and even teaches ur partner to actually understand what u wanted to tell them.

[@chryzz7395]

Breaking up with someone with all this traits has got to be the smartest, most relieving decision I've ever done in my life.

[@red_dulge]

You go bro!

[@matissesaurel2545]

1 year and a half with a person that have all those traits. 1 year to realize it wasn't normal , was toxic asf . and 6 months to actually have the balls to break up with the girl i loved 😔 i wanted her to change those behaviors so bad but ppl gotta change on their own, else it's not working

[@matissesaurel2545]

Good job my bro ik it was hard

[@EM-ke1ic]

@@matissesaurel2545 i hope i can get that courage bro im so confused right now

[@todoroniapproves3068]

Same. Glad you got out love 🌹

[@QuestionEverythingButWHY]

“Maturity is when you stop complaining and making excuses, and start making changes.” ― Roy T. Bennett

[@gargimondal9864]

Yess truee

[@andreamagyar7776]

EXACTLY!☺

[@erickeker8761]

"That's a good quote" -Erick Eker

[@QuestionEverythingButWHY]

@@erickeker8761 "That's a exquisite expression of thought." -- Me.

[@acharich]

Mmm, taking responsibility.. 🔑

[@SuperBlessedKing]

I’ve dealt with an immature person in the past. I was abused physically, emotionally, mentally, and even financially. I removed myself from the presence of that immature person. Moved on to new and better people, things, and places. Now I am at peace with everything. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@SuperBlessedKing]

Confetti x The abused happened for 3 very long years, this is the year when I did get away from the abuser permanently, and I do feel so much better. Thank you. ❤️

[@alexandruaurel5753]

It's possible that you were dealing with a narcissist

[@SuperBlessedKing]

Alexandru Aurel Yes, I agree, the person is older than I am by one decade, I am younger than the age of 21 currently. I am way younger than the abusive person that was hurting me during so many days of my life. The abusive person was actually very narcissistic. I’m glad that I’ve found peace after I’ve left the unhealthy environment that existed with that toxic person.

[@alexandruaurel5753]

@@SuperBlessedKing I'm glad that you've found peace. It's such a great place to be in. Best of wishes!🤘

[@andreamagyar7776]

It is getting to me lately. True narcissism is not that common. Mostly it is immaturity. Very much looks like narcissism, feels like abuse. Sure, nothing to do with age. A true mature person wants to know you, wants to respect your boundaries, wants, needs. Able to communicate, get along, and sets you free. ☺

[@jnikz]

Just ended my 8.5 years relationship and never felt so relieved in my life. She kept saying that I was immature but in the end, it was her all along. Walking on eggshells was on point. I used to think twice before I speak because she got hurt so easily over little things. Then she gets mad for not telling the truth and say whatever is on my mind. She gives me silent treatment all the time and when I try to talk to her, she said that I should know already like I’m a mindreader. I avoided my friends just to make her felt secure. I gained 60lbs so she wont get jealous of other girls looking at me. Now I will find someone who would truly appreciate me for who I am.

[@JuanHernandez-ho6hd]

Bro yes congrats my friend you deserve the best like we all do and unfortunately I am stuck in the same situation

[@jnikz]

@@JuanHernandez-ho6hd Better get out and find someone who appreciates you. There are 4billion women in the world.

[@sunilsethi2982]

She sounds like a Dilusional Jealousy person. Probably controlled you and was insecure. Good you set yourself free and you will find someone good take your time.

[@takudo3]

I know you commented this a while ago but I’m going through a similar breakup now. Seeing it from the outside I feel a little better about the breakup and also hope to find someone better and more mature

[@only1lilboosie94]

Sheesh man I’m going through this same shi RIGHT NOW.. I would love to talk to you about this

[@sl33ptilldawn]

I loved the scene, "he tried to push me" *dramatically falls down*

[@humanbng7123]

😂😂

[@Sleepingismypassion]

That's my youngest sister sometimes

[@The_NJG]

*cries in maturity*

[@official_karmastudios5413]

I think me and my dad are the mature ones and my mom is well...not exactly mature. She acts like since she owns the house that we have to worship her. And every time me or my dad tries to prove her wrong she goes *INSANE* (literally...) And I can’t do anything about this... *joins by Also crying in maturity*

[@a.m.1675]

@@official_karmastudios5413 maybe your mom is a narcissist

[@Zackisnotdead]

a. m. Ughhh I hate when parents are narcissists because there’s literally no escape

[@Zackisnotdead]

Duckfan 1982 She might have a stress disorder. Exactly how INSANE does she get?

[@official_karmastudios5413]

XOXLyfe no disorders I know of, now I’ll admit I was exaggerating a bit but seriously she does stuff like she will get really mad at me and then a few mins later act like nothing happened. But she always acts like she’s queen of the house, and I absolutely hate her for that.

[@honeycoffee5]

maturity is so weird especially when you’re a teenager with a brat for a mother, and you’ve been taught it’s okay to hurt people when you’re angry, etc etc. like just.. whew. i’m going to be loving though, for myself and others. it’s much more sweeter being a lovely person. god bless immature people because most of the time they lack guidance, love, and discipline in their lives. they’ll get there yall. just love them from far away

[@johanna8932]

You're doing great just by educating yourself and being the best Person you can be at the moment!! Lot of Love and good luck for your journey as you grow into an amazing adult❤️

[@Menplzdonttalktome]

I relate to this so hard sadly

[@rattatoui]

you should be proud of yourself that’s amazing ! ✨

[@acharich]

😕❤

[@BluDrop5]

So.Many.Facts.

[@teacherfromthejungles6671]

There's also one critical red flag of immaturity: often change of partners after a short period of dating. It means the person is only capable of the 1st stage of romantic relationships, but isn't capable to move to the next stages where you have to take responsibility and do something beside dancing and eating in a cafe.

[@CosmicHarmony58]

That’s me! I know how to get the woman! to sleep and be with them for a few months! But I can never keep them long! 🤣…longest was 3 years. Could of been way longer or still together now if wasn’t for my immature, lack of growth ways…All I wanted to do was lay, watch tv, play games and do the dirty with her…safe to say even I got bored of it too lmao

[@djperryboy]

There are alot of people with different problems and reasons. Some might have a diagnosis like Asberger or whatever. Some might be socially afraid. Some might not now what they know or maybe the reason is that they know exactly what they want so they jump off the train as soon as they realize that they don't like it. Some might be to shy. Some might be pushed by their friends to date or not to date. Some might not be allowed by their parents and need to quit. Some might not think that they are good enough. Some might have gotten a bad message like someone closely related have died or that they have cancer. So they can have instability in their life. Or maybe it's just in their personality. You don't know why they are like that and what they have gone through. It's that persons choice so what is your right to judge them. If they are a problem for you, then maybe you should check what is the problem with yourself. Lack of wiseness and understanding? If you have a problem with them, then just don't mind them. Or if it directly affects you, you can also ask them. But to generalise is extremely immature.

[@LighthouseJaye]

True. For a long time even I didn't think I was capable of loving someone past 6 months but once I'd been in a relationship and done the work on myself, because I was so afraid of committing I didn't know when love wasn't going to just fix everything and sometimes you have to let go even if you love them. After watching this, I blame myself less for breaking up because my partner at the time had at least 5 of these 7 issues in abundance. Hard to lose but harder to stay

[@trishauntaylor9834]

When you realize that you were the immature one 😓

[@dominusbalial835]

You can grow and improve yourself. It's good to look at the past, but not dwell on it. You should look at what happened, where you went wrong, why, and how you can fix it. You should try to go for the root cause of the issue as it will resolve it permanently. You can get better, you just have to put the work in to do so. With hard work and perseverance, you can better yourself so you don't make your past mistakes again. Good luck my guy.

[@bobusan_duuuugnut-oh]

Ikr....came to the video and was looking for positivity not self realization

[@MarzannaMorana]

Hey...taking the time to admit it is a step in the right direction 👌

[@Cindy-to5mu]

Same here. I realized i projected my immaturity onto my ex. Im realizing now its like looking in a mirror. I’m learning as I go. I’m still young. I want to grow and be better! There’s always time for change 💜

[@yukisakura-nl8ro]

Anas Arman same here 😭😭😭

[@axcystan_1884]

1:09 They act on their emotions 1:32 They take everything personally 2:03 They lack self-awareness 2:36 They blame other people for their problems 3:13 They always have to have their way 3:50 They act passive-aggressive 4:25 They are overly possessive Edit: I recommend to watch the vid for more infos🙂

[@winniecantonese]

Thanks a lot!!

[@ladynoname3621]

*Oh NoEs they are a Tsundere*

[@anodos_]

LIKE MY MOM OMG

[@lumine_traveller]

Most at me..

[@bread1055]

My friend yelled at me at work about not picking up my phone when it was on not disturb and she didn’t believe me and I never lie to my friends also I always pick up my phone when I see a caller I know or hang up and text them depending on the place.

[@user-li5xz7uk1q]

i'm around someone like this 24/7, i'm praying for the day i can finally escape, yes escape, from them. i hope it's one day very soon. **Thank you to all those who left words of encouragement, I wish you lots of love and happiness. 💙💚💛😗

[@freefalling1440]

Are you married to this person ?

[@shelbylynn6596]

me to its so hard to leave

[@freneticwreck6720]

Take a break from them. See if you can actually live without them.

[@wilmatoppo6023]

You should be the one to take the step if you can’t take it anymore, it’s not good for your health to be around someone like this if I’m being honest. I’m talking from experience and the aftermath is not good since they tend to make it all about them and play victim even after it’s all done. Take care of your health first.

[@aliyahblidner]

Am I them?

[@fatimah230]

This goes for friends too. I had a friend who definitely had more than a few traits from this list. She is five years older than me so yeah, like a lot of people are saying in the comments, emotional maturity is not at all defined by age. I do still miss her because she was really nice and fun to talk to, and she was really great in a lot of other ways. But her immaturity made it so hard and I did feel like I was always walking on eggshells around her.

[@st4rgirl251]

definitely goes for friendships too!!

[@satstudios_]

Same here, I was trying to help her be less immature, she can admit when she's wrong (sometimes) but she never does anything to change it, and if she said she would, it was never clear of any efforts they made. Just recently she decided she didn't want to be friends anymore, and that's when I realized she never really had that much care towards the relationship and I was the only one trying to keep together, so I ended things with them.

[@SunandSunflowers]

I ended a 35-year friendship. realizing the more I grew the more she didn't. She admitted at the end of our friendship she had a anger problem. Why? I don't know. I was hanging on to the friendship because of history but I was so tired of walking on eggshells. Maybe she realized I was tired also. She kept saying we trauma bonded like she was doing me a favor being my friend.

[@Puszek_KittyCat]

What am I supposed to do if a friend makes jokes that make me uncomfortable, and I already said how those jokes about a certain austrian painter and his ideology and a certain group he disliked make me feel annoyed/ angry?

[@satstudios_]

@@Puszek_KittyCat You should communicate your frustrations with them, if they lash out, call you names, or try to guilttrip you even you should probably stop being friends with tjem.

[@QuestionEverythingButWHY]

“Often those that criticise others reveal what he himself lacks.” ― Shannon L. Alder

[@LandoBando33]

Heyyyy could you stop the spam?

[@meettheartist5506]

"he"?

[@alvarez85yearsand81]

Bro you are just quoting,even in your chanel bio there's even more quotes. Do you have a personnality or something?

[@smol9109]

That feeling when this applies to you...but you have been trying to change

[@SerpentHermet]

I wish you well.

[@smol9109]

@@SerpentHermet Thanks allot

[@ShaleNinja]

Some of the most terrifying but truly most rewarding effort/labour you can engage in, in your lifetime, is personal development - especially the parts that you don't like so much when you see them. The stuff that really counts is the stuff that sucks the most. Kinda like working out, haha. Best of luck!

[@samuelsams614]

That makes two of us...and it seems some others as well ✌

[@kamuiyato]

@@ShaleNinja how one can achieve personal development?

[@seirotsyracs3512]

I love their voice.. it’s so freaking calming

[@lackadaisicalll]

don't get me wrong but i find it erotic

[@fhdjskskaj]

@@lackadaisicalll 👁👄👁 oh sis

[@seirotsyracs3512]

not Pablo Neruda, lmao what? 🤣

[@lackadaisicalll]

@@seirotsyracs3512 i feel like i can't play it with family members around .. it's so soft it sounds like sex talk .. lol that's crazy i know.

[@seirotsyracs3512]

not Pablo Neruda OOOHHHH okay I see what you mean

[@IkarusSteora]

Your videos have really opened my eyes to just how unhealthy the relationship I left truly was. I thought I was going crazy, or just making things up or misremembering behaviors and events wrong... that it was all my fault. I'm finally able to put things into perspective now so I can start to heal. Thank you so, so much. ♥

[@tristansoares2452]

Watching this made me realize that I do have immature qualities but more than I thought. Ive definitely grown over the years but theres always room for improvement in everyone. Im guilty of acting on my emotions and being passive-aggressive, though I am self aware and try putting myself in other peoples shoes. I need to work on not taking things to heart

[@lethall6609]

That's pretty good. Just know, it's never too late

[@zymjimmy]

youre probably the you as apposed to the they, if youre so self aware lol

[@khalilmaliq9300]

if you were with a partner im sure they would be happy.. its good that you are trying to change , i hope my partner change one day as well

[@20ML1]

Just recognizing this is a huge step towards improvement

[@anamikaela4117]

yes same i kinda feel guilty on how i acted toward my partner, sometimes i hurt him, but im willing to improve myself, i just cant help it when i do immature things, do u have an idea on how to overcome this step by step?

[@mtwata]

Before watching: Hmm maybe my partner is like that.. After watching: Hmm maybe I'm like that..

[@ezzeFarhana]

Maybe both

[@katherinemuega1376]

💯

[@loveawayfromreality6453]

Relatable

[@debadityanath5558]

I'm like this and i need help TuT Want to grow up and not be unfair to my partner 💔

[@letsthink7862]

That thought itself is a sign of maturity... accepting ours flaws.

[@paulamanansala1812]

her voice is just so relaxing😭

[@patrickstar5159]

IKR

[@hondatrivago5419]

Tru

[@kromp1461]

ur face is more relaxing tho

[@patrickstar5159]

@@kromp1461 shut up

[@kromp1461]

nah man. seeing Patrick's face is and will always be relaxing

[@MrBern-ex3wq]

Never forget that this can apply to ALL relationships and bonds of confidence, not just romantic partners. Friends and family can exhibit this too.

[@oliviakam4198]

we’re all thinking of that someone this video is talking about 😂😂😂

[@nihilistcentraluk442]

I am thinking of the SJW this is based on.

[@trangium]

Me

[@jahnavibhargava2572]

@@trangium lol same

[@Jack1994hoo]

was thinking about myself.

[@SoupyGal]

I was thinking of myself

[@suharsh96]

Was in a relationship with such person and it was absolute hell. She took everything, literally everything like it was an attack on her and we could never have a sane argument. Glad I got out

[@mrjace3]

Yeah it's so draining.

[@soa2444]

I'm in this situation right now and I miss her so much but I think I'm over it. I dislike how she makes me feel. I haven't talked to her for like 5 days because she hung up on me. I'm not calling her. She needs to call me and apologize for what she did but to be honest I'm over it already. It's going to hurt but I need to move on. I have goals I want to accomplish and if she is not going to be next to me then so be it.

[@gerardperrynovela3035]

Same thing here

[@anythingchannel9326]

You don’t know what she’s been through that made her that way. Maybe it’s because someone actually was attacking her in the past so she thinks everything is being used against ber

[@soa2444]

@@anythingchannel9326 not an excuse

[@istp1967]

"There's nothing smaller than a person who is wrapped up in themselves" -- Proverb.

[@SLH44-44]

bs

[@JinxisHere758]

@@SLH44-44how?

[@SR77736]

@@SLH44-44 no.

[@niyazidilek8835]

thx for showing me that I'm still immature even though I try to criticize myself all the time. it seems even self-criticism can't help to see all flaws you have. thank you so much for this video again

[@chloeanne9761]

It sucks that when you love someone you’re totally blind to these attributes until you get hurt by it

[@June-so9vk]

Can't relate more...

[@niabadass7614]

Well this one is so useful at the same time underated

[@Skerrt]

time traveler

[@Asheisdead]

I'm Wh

[@cassandraaldridge1042]

They aren't underrated....

[@xellusions]

Wait what

[@vernicyy9280]

dont members get like access earlier? idk

[@mauve9266]

Me: not even in a relationship Also me: damn is my nonexistent boyfriend too immature hmm 🤔

[@rubyhannah4972]

Lmao 🤣 same

[@biblicallyaccuratecockroach]

Best to know the signs by heart before you're in a relationship, that way you'll recognize them earlier if they ever arise, and GTFO as soon as possible, preferably before you're too emotionally invested. Your safety and well being comes first ❤

[@mauve9266]

MJ Barata true. I guess it’s good to know the red flags just in case

[@whatshouldinamemyself809]

why was that me tho

[@daniellaronstrom87]

Hahaha

[@lillyplayz3429]

Words can’t describe how much better this made me feel about myself, thank you

[@BellaMusical]

"Is your partner too immature for you?" No, my dad is, and he is 32 years older than I am. Literally every thing in this video applies to him. He can be nice too, but whenever he feels threatened, he acts out in the most irrational ways possibile.

[@deepalil1085]

This is my Papa. He is narcissistic too.

[@ST-yc7uj]

Older people start acting like that. Like immature teenagers.

[@ST-yc7uj]

@@mejo6020 he was never greeted with kindness for his mistakes in his life. How about your grandparents, his parents?

[@ST-yc7uj]

@@mejo6020 how was your dad raised, how was his childhood?

[@VengefulPolititron]

my dad too. I suspected he was a NPD and that I was too. I quizzed him with questions... in casual convo.. like a sneak turns out he is NPD. and so am I.. but I rationalized it away. "oh but I'm actually smart and confident. others suck" and I continued to be this way... and ruined my entire existence.

[@hiraqasim3327]

After watching this i realized that i am the immature one in our relationship. But i will try my best from today to be mature💜 Thank u for making me realize that💖

[@Kythos]

Love how open minded you are. You can do it.

[@nikkojamesmahinay4748]

You can do it.

[@dondadaentertainment]

Energy!!!

[@bapemanyo]

same herre. and im acc prety mature but im just like this video. gotta change

[@tomyosh1620]

It takes lots of inner strength to be so open minded. You can do it!

[@SterlingAura3010]

When u realize you've been dating an immature someone for 2 years

[@eleah2256]

The struggle is real! I'm in a relationship for 1,5 years and we have so much in common and love each other so much, but our relationship is getting worse.. because my boyfriend behaves in all the ways described (and I might do in some ways too). I feel that it is better to break up but its difficult.

[@CreditR01]

@@eleah2256 If it's been going on for almost two years, you might just be better off as friends.

[@pixelarmy325]

I can't believe I'm reading this lol. I've been in a 2.5 year relationship with someone exactly as described. It was extremely tough, but I ended it for the best of both of us.

[@pixelarmy325]

@@eleah2256 I know it's hard but it's the right thing to do. You deserve to have someone more mature :)

[@downinflames15]

PixelArmy I just got out of a 2.5 year relationship too! She did all but the last two. Ultimately I had to leave for my own mental health. Been 17 days so far but I’m chugging though it. Hang in there.

[@lillyplayz3429]

Words can’t describe how much better this made me feel about myself, thank you🙏🏼❤️

[@akemus9788]

My ex literally checked all of these, but when I used to talk to my mom about it(to ask for advice) she'd dismiss all my feelings and tell me that "men are just like that", sometimes she'd chalk it up to him being "so in love" with me that he acts like a kid around me. Why would I want to be in a relationship with a man-child??? Also, spoiler alert: Just because they act like children doesn't mean they're harmless like them 🙂

[@meds6761]

I get u

[@Juuxr]

EXACTLY!!! we aren't their mothers. My ex was exactly like this. Our relationship ended with him ghosting me after a argument. Sadly I'm still hurt because I never loved someone so much, but I know it'll pass.

[@Juuxr]

My advice for everyone who's reading this is: NEVER date someone immature, unless they're open to mature.

[@Juuxr]

Update to my experience: 30th November we talked eye to eye with each other. Everything was a pretty bad misunderstood, from both sides. He apologized for the ghosting, and I apologized for not being comprehensive/being too emotional (he's studying for his final project/presentation to graduate and is super overwhelmed, and so I, who's studying to be accepted for college, so we both are really struggling and stressed). We both love each other so much that this time we were separated gave us the affirmation of how much our relationship and love are intense and truthful. We opened our heart and we decided to fight for our relationship. And it's going on pretty well, actually way better than before. So I recommend strongly to all, to be 100% honest and open minded to your partner. No space to be right or be the victim. The wholesomeness of the relationship is more worthy than this. NEVER stop talking 100% to your partner without giving a soulful explanation. ALWAYS be careful of how you express your feelings, remember to ALWAYS think how the other can understand what you will say and how can he/she feels listening to your words. Be emotional responsable. ALWAYS remember you are dealing with a imperfect human being just like you. It's about the perfect acceptance of an imperfect person. Hope my experience can hope you. (If you are ghosted, my advice is to be honest to how you feel, speak it and then go live your life. Just do it one time, this way you've made your part, being emotional mature. Try to be calm and to not overthinking. Ghosting actually says more about what the other person is or what he/she is passing through or what he/she is feeling, than about you.) (If you are ghosting, I advice you to stop it now and to explain to the person why are you doing it, even you've already made this before. To listen actively to what the other will say, and them stop talking for a determined time. This way you can have your time to reflect without being unresponsive to the others feelings. (Sorry for my bad English. )

[@Owlsworthy]

I'm sorry to hear that, that's disgusting :( Unfortunately a lot of the older women in my life say the same thing. It is as though they think it's in men's DNA to act this way when really it's because of people like them enabling that kind of behavior. My brother is the epitome of immature but no one does anything because that's just "who he is". If I were you I'd stop taking relationship advice from her... Best of luck.

[@NekoJelly]

How weird it is that we all are thinking of someone while watching it!

[@earlypenas4663]

Thinking of myself though😂

[@hydrogenmissle]

no i was thinking of my dog

[@PokerPenguini]

@@earlypenas4663 fuck same

[@raularmas317]

Actually, I don't think it's weird at all. I think it's called denial.

[@zeel4840]

@@hydrogenmissle lmao 🤣😆

[@jasper-tobyabyss4595]

I'm relieved that laughing uncontrollably at farts despite being in your late 20's isn't listed on here.

[@Psych2go]

Yes, that's call having a strong inner child!

[@CatMaster90001]

There's a distinct difference between immaturity and childishness, my friend. You're never too old to laugh at fart jokes. :)

[@acharich]

@@CatMaster90001 😅😂😅

[@1diamondworld]

Facts

[@harshitakesarkar6020]

I was like this 2yrs ago. The fact that I understood those signes and I'm still learning to improve me 🙂❤️ thanks for it I'm saving this RN!!

[@imanigalloway841]

Psych2go As a person on the Autism Spectrum, I can relate to some of these signs. Can you do a video on Autism and how someone with it can find a potential partner?

[@azarishiba2559]

Me too would like to see a video on Autism and Asperger, and how to be with a partner.

[@arcaniade]

It must be tough for you... Stay strong. And yes, a video about it would be really interesting.

[@Psych2go]

For sure! That would be a great topic!

[@azarishiba2559]

@@Psych2go ¡Wujuuu! ^O^

[@Mimirules21]

Your wish is granted, watch the next video :D

[@user-ne5ue8rd5n]

7 Signs Someone is too Immature for You: 1. They act on their emotions. 2. They take everything personally. 3. They lack self-awareness. 4. They blame other people for their problems. 5. They always have to have their way. 6. They act passive-aggressive. 7. They are overly possessive.

[@user-ne5ue8rd5n]

Looks like I’m 2 weeks late xP

[@kiwinerdy]

I’m glad I’ll never get in a relationship

[@Kinich-f2p]

I’m look dis week

[@why_oh_elle]

@@kiwinerdy you know... i dont get people who dramatise in a relationship. It most likely happens when those two people are not in their place but they still force it to happen. Honsetly if its not the one for you you should go. And that "standards" thing is stupid. Its not a game where you choose your characters its real life. Anyway as long as it makes you happy lmao

[@fiveo4330]

This sounds exactly like my best friend she would always get mad at me for her problems I don’t really know what to do about it though

[@kenny-nk5db]

summary: 1. They act on their emotions 1:07 2. They take everything personally 1:31 3. They lack self awareness 2:02 4. They blame other people for their problems 2:34 5. They always have to have their way 3:10 6. They act passive aggressive 3:49 7. They are overly possessive 4:25 Recommend watching to learn more 🖤

[@matoscela]

thanks ❤️❤️❤️ it’s really useful

[@galsgrey]

Thank you

[@acharich]

🔑🔑🔑🔑🔑🔑🔑

[@mars6153]

My friend said something very interesting once “maturity is basically just how good you are at hiding your true feelings”

[@michaelwillette5837]

It's not bad but it needs just one adjustment... "Maturity is basically just how good you are at recognizing and allowing your feelings and controlling them." How does that sound?

[@anvitham6166]

@@michaelwillette5837 much better... I agree 😊

[@michaelwillette5837]

@@anvitham6166 =)

[@avasinha9764]

Maturity is when u realized , ur are not the only one suffering in this world.

[@user-sd5ne9gf7b]

@@michaelwillette5837 "maturity is expressing your true feeling in a way others can understand" i feel is better from my experience

[@MotherBroker]

Definition of immature : My class

[@jasper-tobyabyss4595]

*CHECK YO PAAANTS!!!*

[@Psych2go]

And what else?

[@afrontwish9938]

You could always tell that the silent ones are the most mature (if they want to be)

[@MotherBroker]

@@Psych2go maybe my brother also

[@far_08]

Can so relate.

[@ChalkMuncher]

Video: 4 minutes ago The comments: **1 mOnTh AgO**

[@zozmoonbow]

I can't explain that!

[@cynicalsans7225]

It was premier a month ago

[@RosheenQuynh]

Patreon exists. I don't understand why people don't get this yet.

[@thatguywithachainsaw5703]

It was unlisted and we’ve been here since the vid was available

[@DerSingh0329]

I don't find anything like that

[@fi-lo1665]

I was in a relationship like this and I was the immature one. But I’m learning and I’m going to grow to become an even better of myself. I feel blame myself for hurting the person that I loved due to my immaturity but it’s okay as I had to go through it in order learn and grow.

[@tylerrees3073]

You’re not alone

[@mehlikaincedere9040]

I believe self awareness is the most mature thing in someone. I congratulate you for that

[@gibbyboi5703]

Same dude, I realized how bad I was, shit, imma die from cringe

[@jujutsucryin3256]

How can I let them know what they do hurts me?

[@gibbyboi5703]

@@jujutsucryin3256 just tell them

[@ataxie]

7 out of seven describes my ex wife. It was sooo hard for me to realise the situation clearly because she also had narcissistic traits by gaslighting me all the time. To anyone who is reading this, there’s hope! Just focus on your own self, figure out why you are attracted this type of person in the first place. Once you build enough self dignity and understand your worth, you will never let anyone ruin your day anymore. Stop pleasing people and make yourself happy first.. You cannot make others happy. Hard lesson.

[@alexdeleon7829]

I feel like I’ve seen these traits in a whole bunch of people including myself! I know I’m at least working on it!

[@ChicagoVeryOwn12]

It’s levels to maturity, caring , being genuine etc . Some people lack all those things

[@mimi-oy4dv]

Wow, I just lost an online friend who I thought I was close to and this describes her perfectly. She took everything so personally and constantly blamed my other friends for everything. It was tiresome but I’m glad we cut her off :)

[@jasiabu]

I just lost an internet friend and she was so good, idk what was going wrong, but she wasn't bad, gladly she wasn't toxic or inmature or idk, that's why i am a little sad rn, but idk, i just have to move on, i suppose.

[@Psych2go]

It's good that in retrospect you could see why! Hopefully, she finds this video and gains some self-awareness.

[@mimi-oy4dv]

//AuStIn\\ it really does suck when you lose a friend :( I felt that pain too often. I hope things go well for you, remember that there are plenty of others out there waiting to be your friend!

[@mimi-oy4dv]

Psych2Go yeah :) I hope so too!

[@acharich]

🔥💎🔥

[@_crimson_18]

I thought the distance might change him, not all the way around but i was hoping he'd learn to be more responsible. And he was trying (or thats what he told me) but today I saw him back in his old ways. It breaks my heart honestly. Wishing someone would just at least try to grow up for once, so you can stay together but they can't even do that. I won't lie, I'll take him back anytime if he just tried. But he isn't. So I'll let him go now.

[@BuchoJ222]

Thank you. I desperately needed this. Not for a relationship I'm in, but for myself. I've been super depressed most of high school, yet never started showing it until recently. I acted rashly, and I shouldn't have. I caused unnecessary concern and trouble. I think I need to rethink and rework how I'm living. Maybe once I figure how to be a decent human being, then maybe I can find someone to love.

[@liannelee352]

Every single one of theses points describes my ex so accurately. So glad I got out of that unhealthy and toxic relationship.

[@tintinhelicopter2677]

I’m glad to hear that

[@jhazminemorta1317]

Same here

[@benedekffykyra]

After watching this I realized I live in a toxic relationship and I am the toxic, immature one...😔

[@Finaphinees]

1st step is to be self aware, that's how you embrace growth ;)

[@mistervelux]

Same here! 🤦‍♂️

[@Owlsworthy]

Look up DBT, it takes a lot of practice but its helped me so much in my growth. Best of luck :)

[@foodygoody9574]

Same

[@natasharaghav3952]

Same here, man!🙂

[@themysticalcolby]

The thing I like about this channel is they say brutally honest truths that we need to hear, thank you psych2go for being brave!

[@sonamishra4792]

Every point is so relatable, I've lived with that certain someone for 5 years of my life! Drained the hell out of me.... Came out of other end with severe depression and anxiety. Still learning to deal with that.

[@Yourfinanceguy]

im about to leave her tell me something to copeup withthat

[@mattpunx]

fell ya

[@sonamishra4792]

@@Yourfinanceguy there's nothing that can be done, I assure they won't understand the reason and there'll hell lot of drama.

[@mattpunx]

@@sonamishra4792 is highly sad when you realize the issue and the person you love isn't able to admit it and change, but rather preffers their tatrums over than your love. And it hurts a lot more after several years of relationship and dealing with it

[@sonamishra4792]

@@mattpunx yeah it is sad. I'd suggest you some therapy. It does help.

[@estefaniagutierrez5257]

that´s a perfect description of why i break up with my ex. especially the passive aggressive behavior was impossible to handle.

[@galaxymew5138]

Mhm! I'm SO MUCH happier without him! I don't have him trying to constantly inject himself into every aspect of my life anymore, IT'S AMAZING!!

[@nykrev]

Before this I actually thought I was too immature and I was trying to improve wherever I can... and this made me realize that I’m much better than I thought (I can still improve from this video) ...so thank you 🙏

[@dujsanchez73]

Definitely going to make sure to fix myself and bring my maturity up so I can attract mature ppl as well

[@drifterduckygaming4646]

I thought I was immature and mature at the same time but in reality I thought that me being stupid sometimes isn't related to maturity and instead correlates to me being an idiot. I'm an idiot But I am *a mature idiot*

[@Freespiritedqueen]

Lol😌😌

[@zangfai226]

Waah its truly me too

[@psy-fi64]

Made me laugh

[@dyingsimo7837]

This is me

[@TheyCalledMeT]

a way too deep insight for an idiot

[@Eden68161]

I was a toxic relationship. A bit different, he never apologized. I felt like that's all I did. I gave them space. They always tried to get me to do things I wasn't comfortable with. I was angry at them, I'd tell them why, they wouldn't listen. I was angry at the lack of care. I'd say it nicely a few times and it never got through. I should've just left if behind the first time.

[@supermcfly3103]

Yep, that's what I think too. To stay in that toxic relationship made me toxic too because I got so impatient with his passive aggressiveness. Silent treatments, shouting, name calling, and also dishonesty and parts illoyalty, I am angry now all the time and toxic, I'd say.

[@aloysius987]

Love to you all who read this comment and felt the same way. Let's move on and find something we deserve.

[@Ikaros23]

@@supermcfly3103 it`s important to take 100% responsibillity for who YOU choose to have in your life ( that is you can cut them out). You can`t change others. educate yourself on narcissism and codependency issues and you are going to be fine.

[@marcusallen4177]

This sounds more like “Signs you’re dating a narcissist”

[@roxas5203]

It is

[@martimsantos8900]

Playboi carti 🧛‍♂️

[@rg.0333]

CARTIII11II

[@ignacioleivasanzmusica]

A principal aspect of immature people is their narcissism, i think.

[@ojmanman3539]

@@ignacioleivasanzmusica selfishness when selfishness goes too long untreated. It turns into narcissistic personality

[@Mousexxo]

Thanks!

[@shatterslady8769]

I'm this person but I'm growing and learning, this video helps me so much! I'm so happy I found this video, I will be becoming more mature for not only myself but my family too ❤️

[@vibratoqueen450]

Yeah, this really hits hard. I really want to pursue a relationship with someone, but I know I’m very immature. I try to be more self-aware, but I sometimes can’t help but act on emotions I know are irrational. I hope I can improve this about myself over time though. 😊

[@florri8]

Had to react to this as soon as I read it. I very much feel the same. How many times have I noted my immaturity in hindsight, yet in the moment, I always resort to old ways of dealing with critique. I keep aiming at improving this, but as soon as the heat comes up, I get cornered in my mind. It will take time, indeed😔

[@yuuchan6847]

Currently trying to end things with my partner of over 1 year who had all these traits. I addressed these issues to them that I've been bottling for a whole year and after giving them another chance to grow. I see their growth and its improving but I just dont want to be in the relationship anymore. I feel tired and indifferent towards the relationship and I dont feel happy being with her, I just feel lost, drained, and jaded from the relationship. Thank you for the video, it gave me the courage to end things with her and just move forward with my life right now

[@growingoaks]

This doesn't describe a partner, this describes my mother..

[@Psych2go]

Yes, your mother needs to watch this Oo

[@growingoaks]

Psych2Go shes so egotistical that i doubt she’d be receptive to this, sadly. She acts like she’s incredible but shes only incredibly explosive. 😭 id love to see her change but its not likely.

[@acharich]

😅😅😅

[@whatshouldinamemyself809]

growingoaks productions stay strong, it gets better, just dont take after her lol

[@nathenewendzel1825]

Everyone on earth has some form of immaturity and has things that they need to work on.

[@manonales]

"Mom, is this you?" 😲

[@toqa6735]

😂💔

[@lambgrill4158]

Uhhhh

[@mida8261]

I felt that.

[@pankhuri9870]

Same

[@godomoths2582]

Funny how he called me immature and left me while he was the one acting immature

[@mrjace3]

Jedi Mind Tricks is what I call stuff like that.

[@godomoths2582]

@@mrjace3 why?

[@Anthonybrother]

People might have fundamentally different interpretations of what is mature.

[@gunjanm8594]

That's mind trick! I was at the same position too, 2 years ago. Today he stalks me and has his own people to keep an eye on me

[@littleredhen8205]

Gaslighting

[@andrewphillips-hird3761]

People need to be very careful and honest with themselves before accusing someone of blame shifting. Sometimes this is done to victimise someone: and it's the classic "deny, attack, reverse victim and aggressor" - deny that they are a victim, victimise them, accuse them of victimising themselves. I discovered with my new therapist that that was what my previous *therapist* had been doing to me...mistreating me and accusing me of playing the victim

[@jackgrimsinn]

I was immature in my previous relationship, she helped me grow but I’m with someone else now, i will never forget her and the lessons we learned together.... Thank You Alejandra 🙏🏼❤️😞

[@jesusochoa5350]

That's some mature and humble shit right there, man.

[@yo-en]

shit that’s my real name .. scared me br

[@symphoniclies8717]

I personally dated someone like this. They blamed me for all of the problems in their life. I was on and off with this person for almost a year. I am so glad that I told them off, and now things are getting better. To someone reading this, if you're in a toxic relationship with an immature person, just do yourself a favor and cut them off. Trust me, it will all get better later on. They can bullshit you all they want, but at the end of the day, when will it stop? Take my advice and get the hell out of that relationship or friendship. You will thank yourself later on. And if that immature person left you, they did you a favor!

[@mrorlov2706]

Yeah its like sunken cost fallacy the only way to win is to get out and cut the investment. Or shortly speaking " Run! run for your life"

[@alixf3227]

Just left someone like this. It took me years to leave because he was a less severe version of immature but immature all the same. Scariest but best decision ever to leave.

[@hudumannaia]

Thx, i was immature, in the last 2 years i think i developed much, but yeah, now i realized what i have to learn for continueing the good way 😊

[@MorphinGaming]

I’m definitely trying to learn that my girlfriend won’t always be able to show me the affection I crave. I used to get so upset about it. But I continuously realize that her love doesn’t depend on the affection she gives me and that I shouldn’t expect any if I give some to her. I’m a very love giving person. & not everyone is the same. I’m still trying my best to learn that and to not hog the person to myself. I may not be the most mature but I am definitely aware of my mistakes and of the areas I can improve on. And I love my girlfriend for having the patience with me to do so 😩

[@kemalkorkmaz2049]

Man i have same exact problems.

[@noahstewart6832]

Becoming aware is the first part, acting on the awareness to create a change is where the actual change will happen. If your girlfriend is pointing that out to you then you are now aware, show her the change you set yourself up for, and live by the values you want to have. If she sees that she will hopefully reciprocate and be mature and love you even more. Don’t let go of who you are just for her, instead stand by who you are and she will support. Also communication is key.

[@Chrisratata]

@x ZFighter x the point here though is that there's a line between being uncomfortable versus just not having the same love language.

[@MorphinGaming]

@x ZFighter x what Chris said is right. It’s just about the love language. She goes and has gone through everything with me and I love her for that. She knows all my strengths and weaknesses but still loves me at all times she just shows it differently than I do. That’s it. But like I said I’m getting better at it

[@Bell_La]

there can always be a "better" person, more right for your personality type, in my opinion, u don't have to just settle for less that you want/think you deserve!🥰

[@dukenukem7043]

This describes my ex so hardcore, and the irony of it, is that she was majoring in psychology ..

[@suyashgaikwad106]

😂lol, when she will be dropping out from university her reason will be very immature too😂

[@uptownlou4568]

Wow me too smh shit was super toxic

[@xcnznsk1755]

Hahaha she pulled a Harley Quinn

[@iamready4846]

😂lol

[@jjberg83]

A lot of them tend to be psych majors.

[@TheLadyxHydrangea]

I think this not only applies to romantic relationships but also close friendships. I had a best friend who met most, if not all, of these markers. It constantly felt like I was walking on eggshells because any kind of critique would be taken as a personal attack, they would always trigger me even after repeated requests to quit doing the trigger, and would also try and do passive-aggressive vaguebooking on social media regarding issues when we were living together instead of communicating their frustrations. I have since left that friendship behind me and have started letting go, thanks to these videos. They really give me an added perspective to the closure I never got as a form of much-needed catharsis ☺

[@sallyfrost5002]

Woah! My ex boyfriend I broke up with five months ago litterally (and I mean litterally) has every single one of these symptoms! Only thing is he was also physically abusive, trying to take control of my finances, liked to make me responsible for all of his faults, and would say the most heartwrenching and cruel things. Being with him was exhausting! I'm so relieved I'm safe now and can feel rested for once.

[@dipshytbruh2890]

Yes the voice is calming, but THE ANIMATIONS THOOOO I just love this entire channel, educational and soo interesting and fun

[@PAMECA]

Wow! Quite accurate! And I would add that to believe in a "change for the better", it might be considered for kids and children... From my point of view, if I know an adult who shows all or most of these traits, I would say to myself: "Keep a distance".

[@Dreaming_Stray]

Dude I know someone who was all of these and he flat out tried guilting me to stay friends cause I was ‘his only friend’ when he straight up manipulated me into a toxic friendship, stole from me and then said I’m in the wrong cause I rightfully exploded at him that he was wrong to do that.

[@Kiki-reads]

I had a friend who guilted me too. She was severely mentally ill, and although she was seeing professional treatment she wasn’t cooperating with them much and instead was talking to me instead. I couldn’t handle it and worsened my own anxiety and depression. It was so stressful. I stayed for way too long because I felt bad for her and she doesn’t deal with abandonment well. I’ve been a lot better since cutting her off. I hear she’s doing a lot better now and I’m happy for her but won’t rekindle that relationship

[@Dreaming_Stray]

Kiki Dude the guy I was friends with straight up refused to get any kind of help whatsoever and was just “but you’re my only friend, you’re my art teacher, don’t leave me” and after I exploded at him (this was before his birthday. I talked to his girlfriend about how I was sorry that I exploded at him and I was sorry she got dragged into the situation. She was dragged into the situation cause he told her I was trying to cut him off and sent her to stop me and convince me to stay. I gave her his birthday gift for her to pass on.) and after someone asks me how I’m doing with art in a group chat, I say I have to quit because of family trouble; he explodes at me saying I’m the reason he’s depressed and I deserved to be told off. This is coming from a dude who also doesn’t take abandonment well (at all. if I tried to cut him off several times before and he guilted me to stay) and after I told him off saying “why couldn’t you just have an argument with me in Direct messages instead of the group chat” he had the nerve to still try and guilt me into being his friend

[@ishitaghosh8867]

Nowadays teenagers like us are more matured than our loved adults

[@skygamer6897]

I used to think like that but since I’m confident in saying it depends on the person and not on age

[@carolinajimenez998]

This video just called me out 😔 I miss him but he deserves someone who isnt so damn emotional

[@lifeisbeautiful5998]

Hey let's be freinds and talk

[@carolinacarreno2562]

Yeah I feel you girl don’t worry you’re not the only one feeling this way ); I was always so mean and sad all the time While I was with him only bc he wouldn’t give me the attention I craved ): and he took it the wrong way I just wish he saw things differently

[@mothmorphis]

I’m currently working on this myself..I’m pushing my gf away that really loves me and is trying to work with me but I’m just super fucking emotional. I’ve been watching these videos to reevaluate my life and do better for her because she deserves better than this.

[@JamesTyreeII]

I definitely have done several of these immature behaviors. Some of it was protest behavior from my anxious preoccupied attachment style which was made more intense being with a dismissive avoidantly attached woman. I have more maturing to do but I am starting to learn about and change my behaviors so that hopefully the next time and I will be in a relationship, I will have chosen somebody more appropriate for me and will not be so insecure

[@AverageGabriel]

... I never had relationships because I wasn't attractive enough or ever one of the cool kids but I had "friendships" like this.. where I was basically the lapdog of each friend. In reality i was just being selected by "nicer" bullies who hung around me and teased me, as payment for keeping the real nasty bullies away. Eventually I stopped having friendships or anything after graduation. Been happily isolated ever since.

[@Ikaros23]

Sounds like you need to see a therapist. learning to have clear and healthy boundarys, and learn about narcissism and codependency issues might also help. Total isolation is not healthy. Beeing introverted is normal/functional, but this is not the same as total isolation because you think " all people are bad". Reality is that there is almost 8 billion people on the planet and you have only meet a fraction of them. When you learn about " redflags" of narcissism you learn who to " choose to have in your life" and who to let go.

[@AverageGabriel]

@@Ikaros23 Thank you for the guidance. I have been considering therapy or some kind of something to face that fact, that I prefer the isolation. I really was shown a different reality and need to wipe away all the blood off the lens of how I view mine. You're right, it really isn't healthy to be used to being isolated to this point of preferring it.

[@JasonRostro]

This is such an insightful topic to showcase so that people cannot see and be aware of this so they can better themselves.

[@tjenitha]

This completely describes my dad. I had to deal with all of this growing up. At a point I was so desperate to leave home because of that, became depressed and started hurting myself. And then after leaving my home finally I was able recognise the source of problem, instead of blaming myself. I'm 22yrs old and seeking therapy for anxiety rn. My dad is 47 yrs old and still unaware of himself, hasn't changed a bit. I've tried talking to him, to seek a psychiatrist (for which 1.he refuses that he needs one 2. Has a lot of stigma like going to psych will make him crazy🤦‍♀️). And I'm still trying. Please don't decide to have kids before resolving your past traumas.

[@VengefulPolititron]

yep. too bad at 22 I drank alcohol ... to fit in with my brother, dad, and some trashy girl I liked.. and ruined my entire existence. at 27 thanks dad. we had to shower in a kids pool in the basement for 10 years... but no biggie. enjoy your two motorcycles, 2 cars, and remote control truck. I'm fucking doomed!

[@farina8121]

This makes me feel a little more conscious of my actions and how I act. Thanks for these videos. It helps a lot! :D

[@lacornuta]

These described an ex (mid 20s), a friend who I've distanced (early 40s), and a recent acquaintance (mid 50s) who displayed these traits whom I then distanced immediately. They are everywhere, not just in relationships. Some you can help, some you can't. It's important to know our own boundaries in order to identify these behaviours and to better deal with them.

[@Scaraboochie]

HELLO OMG I've learned a lot of things in this video and the reason why I came here is because I had mixed emotions with me and my friend and so yeah I realized I'm really immature and well I'm here to correct my mistakes and to take all the educating because yeah I really feel bad because I'm starting to feel that I'm controlling my friend and I don't want to happen I love her and I don't wanna ruin our friendship so TYSM for making me realize things

[@nikogaming683]

this doesn't just include partners, it also includes in normal relationships or friends. So, thank you for sharing :)

[@lauraidiomas9141]

Domt know if many can relate, but I often find myself being with people who are less mature than I am and it lowkey makes me feel lonely, I have a bunch of friends... but the fact that I havent found someone at my level makes me feel all the time like the person whos caring for the other person 98% of the time. I hope I find someone. I know all these signs are red flags and I do not participate in those behaviours, so finding someone who is like me is pretty hard

[@supermcfly3103]

I've been such a long time in a toxic relationship, it's like all my maturity has been taken away and all that is left is impatience and immature behaviours.

[@EquallyIndian]

Point 5&6 is something I need to work on. Thank God i don't have other points in me.😊