7 Things Arab Men Notice First In Women and Find Attractive | Choosing a Life Partner

[@elizabethring1452]

I am unsure how to interpret the high value placed on female modesty with the conversation immediately prior - that men only want women for sex or a long term relationship. Does this mean that the women the men have sex with are immodest and unmarriageable? Or that the men who engage in casual sex are themselves immodest and therefore not marriage material? I would suggest that if a man requires modesty from his future wife - he himself must practice modesty and refrain from casual encounters!

[@Gaziselim5725]

Men and women are different.

[@Daijinelle]

@@Gaziselim5725 no she’s right. Both men and women should control themselves. Why waste time having a casual relationship with someone who you deep down don’t want to marry? That time could be spent on looking for a partner that will match with you. This applies to both men and women.

[@chopper1lady]

​@@Daijinelle because you need someone to clear away your stress, to look for a husband with a calm mind

[@eidmarco]

Yes, agreed. You can only require same of what you are. And no, it's not different "for men and women" (as replied by someone down below) in this regard. In Islam, for example, men are utterly and explicitly forbidden of, or better put: "casual intercourse", does not exist. It's considered dirty, degrading and completely disrespectful towards the woman and weak and immoral for the man that looks to engage in it, besides other moral consequences man suffer in such case, inside the brotherhood. Men like this are considered sinners and have respect lost from the Muslim community. "Have you seen ˹O Prophet˺ the one who has taken their own desires as their god? Will you then be a keeper over them?" [Quran 25:43] "Or do you think that most of them listen or understand?1 They are only like cattle-no, more than that, they are astray from the ˹Right˺ Way!" [Quran - 25:44] Keep keen and smart sister, peace be upon you and your family. Alhamdullilah.

[@fartunyep4501]

That is where u get Double standards. This is huge in this type of culture and no1 cares or even considers a man immodest or a ho3 if he sleeps with a women. They expect it. The standards of modesty are enforced only on women. ( b4 any1 comes to comment on religion. I am not talking about religion just the culture)

[@acceleration1146]

Before asking for high value women make sure you are a high value man as her family and herself will judge you the same. Specially her family!

[@Obedient-Faith]

As an addiction counselor, I think it's okay that you tell people not to hang out with drug addicts. That's what we tell them when they get in treatment. It's a good example and very prevalent in the US

[@atiyehatiyeh8322]

Hello That was quite informative. Thank you . I'm an American female who lived in Iran for 10 yrs. I am fluent in Farsi. I love all Middle Eastern culture.

[@louisearon8520]

Iranian guys.are easier than arab guysv❤❤❤❤ best food and iran is so interesting !!

[@antoinettecassar4907]

It is not just Middle Eastetn men who want the kind of woman you mentioned but also Western men who knows how to value a woman. This applies also to women not just men. A decent woman would have high standards when choosing a men.

[@Fuadtalks]

Good)

[@daniellem.gibson4658]

And what’s wrong with being a feminist? I look at feminism as just the opportunity to have an education and to share my skills and talents in the workforce as men have had these rights for all time. But for me I definitely believe in being a good wife and mother. I will gladly pause my career to raise our children.

[@suzannecranford6819]

Thank you for the information in this video. You have answered some questions I have had, and have presented clear insight into a couple of topics I did not fully understand.

[@TraceIslam]

ASA .. I’m black American woman had a 5 year relationship with a man from Egypt 🇪🇬He worked @ a local neighborhood store in the hood. He was asking the other guys who were Arab who is this woman she acts different from the other women who come here. They say ahhh that’s nice woman . He made his acquaintance with me. And we started hanging out , we had sex, he was romantic, he was protective of me. Jealous , drove me , he seemed like a guy I could spend the rest of my life with. Until he kept me hidden, only called when he wanted me sexually, disappeared a lot, he was in Egypt family emergency allegedly. Tell me be patient before we move to next level… marriage never happened. I had to disconnect myself totally from him. Wat a waste of time and regret even giving him power over me like that. Wat an Arab experience. Heart broken 💔 but I’m ok now. Your video is on point. Thanks

[@gailsmith6428]

I really enjoyed your talk you enlightened me on several subjects I really enjoyed your conversation. Thank you for all the information that you gave me. God bless you Gail .

[@Fuadtalks]

You're very welcome! Glad you found value in the content! 🙏

[@betiboo251]

Regarding social circle and picking up bad habits from those who surround us: it only happens if you're a weak person and can be influenced easily. In my circle there's some people who smoke and drink and curse and do whatever and somehow, after decades, I still do not do any of it. That's what I think proves one's character and that's what matters. Because being a saint among saints is easy. Group of friends is selected carefully to fit us but social circle like school/work environment is what it is. Strong character is what wins.

[@Fuadtalks]

I appreciate your perspective on this. I think even if we're not directly adopting the habits of those around us, it's likely that our perception of these behaviours can be influenced to some extent. T

[@iamlakesivad4675]

Not completely true. Microbial…check it out

[@IndySirii]

I love how well you articulate simple, common sense stuff. Thank you and God bless

[@peachyswirl396]

Your so good at making points and advice

[@SharmainegayGesta]

I like how you explain everything, so clear.... Great job Sir

[@Fuadtalks]

I appreciate that!

[@c.curtis5390]

This advice is great fir any culture. This is wisdom!

[@kcw7649]

I am an old white lady so I can say this (I hope)..What a physically beautiful man.

[@ariston5433]

Your comments are like the lectures my father gave me when I was growing up. He valued me as his daughter and raised me right. By the way I am a western lady. Children learn what they live. Ladies never put yourself for sale in the bargain basement.

[@keradasilva2509]

Helpful

[@sarrehm]

I really loved your video ❤️ hope to see more from you I love the way you speak and explain everything 🌷 mashAllah It’s exactly true about friends negative energy affecting us. It was a good reminder 🌷

[@Fuadtalks]

🙏❤️

[@Yamie1101]

Tell me who your friends are, and i wil tell you who you are.😄.same as birds have the same feathers flocks together.

[@Fuadtalks]

Haha, exactly, friend! 🙏

[@Thousand-one-night]

The Faith is important and can cause difficult situations if both are not on the same page.

[@Silverstreak7878]

This is great, well communicated content. Good job 🍀

[@wassclewabbit]

I think the biggest problem I’m having is I have no degree. I have a great job that I’ve been at 12 years but I’m not school educated. I would much rather be home cooking, cleaning , baking pies and making the home comfortable for my husband

[@Fuadtalks]

Hey, not having a degree isn't a deal breaker. :) It often depends on how naturally sound a person is. Our grandparents did not have degrees either, but they knew how to raise their kids, who grew up to occupy important roles in society. From what you wrote, I am sure a lot of men would appreciate you and your preferences.

[@antoinettecassar4907]

Universities and colleges are educational but they don't create decent people. Just by having a degree does not mean you are superior to others who do not have one. At the end of the day the one without a degree could be more human and respectful ❤️

[@Micajela]

Hey, don't worry. My Partner is highly educated and he said, that i am (despite not having a degree) much more intelligent, than women with degree (and he is not the first one who told me so). I had back luck in my life with my family and background, but i read a lot and watch daily different documentaries . I travel a lot, i have visited countries with different religion/culture. And i work in a quite good position, without having a degree, so everything is possible ;) And now, not that young anymore, i am evening finishing my degree, but this was not a deal breaker for my partner. Sure, he is happy, that i decided to study and supports me a lot, but he loves me for who i am, not for a piece of paper. @Fuadtalks: What is your opinion about women, which are not close to the God, but very respectful towards different religions? 😉

[@ressastrongman8108]

Thanks for info..

[@Fuadtalks]

My pleasure!

[@WeddingPartyinCranston]

THERES TALK AND RINGS DIAMONDS RUBIES EMERALDS THEN .....ITS MORE ACTION THATS IMPORTANT THAN ANY TALK BY ARABIC MEN. LOVE ARABIC MEN BECAUSE THEY SEEM MORE BUSINESS LIKE THAN MOST MEN AND SMART IN MATH AND FINANCE.

[@GiseleAzerad-l4t]

I think Middle Eastern men are very handsome

[@suzannemichelle2619]

Some of the background music is like Pashto.😊

[@Amish900]

Why I like to watch fuad one of my sister ask me amina why you like to watch sheikh fuad vedios I tell her what fuad tell is totally right that is why I like to watch what he post thank you jazakallah

[@Fuadtalks]

I appreciate you, Amina! Thank you very much!

[@Amish900]

@@Fuadtalks you welcome brother

[@Amish900]

Thank you sheikh fuad

[@artegraficos3952]

👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼 These rules are also used in Mexico (for both men and women) when you have a certain social level. The same thing happens in other countries and cultures.

[@unknown9288]

Pakistani men looks for the same qualities.

[@MumtazBedasie]

Salam,due to Arab man,I was severely hurt,gave up on love,South Africa

[@Fuadtalks]

Don't give up dear. Just choose better next time.

[@Elizabeth-pn4ug]

❤Never give up

[@MonicaGama-k2b]

Thanks 👍

[@WeddingPartyinCranston]

KEEP IN MIND THAT AN AMERICAN WOMAN WANTS TO B ABLE TO MEET HIS PARENTS AND WHEN SHE CANT SHE THINKS ITS JUST CASUAL SEX AND THE RELATIONSHIP WONT GO ANYWHERE ONCE YOUVE DATED FOR A YEAR AND HES SPENT TONS OF MONEY ON YOU .😂😂😂😂😂😂❤🎉

[@mairakhan5037]

Bro did not only tell us the things that arab men find attractive but also told us the solutions to our problems 😂

[@Victoria-d3m3b]

😂

[@marykalous8400]

My mother used to say "Like hangs with like". I dont think is just one culture's thought process

[@Fuadtalks]

Good

[@cat32767]

LOVE❤

[@Pandy.666]

I’m chubby tho. Wwaaahhhh. lol.

[@lisamchugh1647]

Out of curiosity which Middle Eastern country are you from thanks

[@Fuadtalks]

From Yemen.

[@kasseesmythe8738]

@@Fuadtalks Glad to finally "meet" someone from Yemen! I am not Muslim, but years ago when living abroad in a non-Muslim country I had a group of wonderful Muslim friends and I decided to experience the fasting of Ramadan with them. I meant it mostly as a way to understand the difficulties of it (much greater than I thought ... but because of abstaining from water, not food) and I really got an eye opener about myself -- because of the injunction against what is translated as "backbiting." NO, I have never been the type to verbalize petty criticisms of others, but I thought them from "time to time." I just didn't realize how often those times occurred until I was watching myself during Ramadan. I hated that about myself as even once a day is too much, and the month I spent observing, and then replacing, such petty thoughts with understanding and appreciation about people's differences, means that now it is very rare for to me to have such thoughts. Anyway, I lasted the month and observed every aspect of Ramadan except the prayers of course, as I thought that as a non-believer I would be mocking a religion I respect to go through the motions of prayer. Since returning to the US I have not been able to again observe Ramadan, despite my wanting to, but I do give thanks in my own way for that one month by donating Zakat every Ramadan to causes in a Muslim country. Usually, because of what I've read about the ongoing hardships in Yemen, my Zakat is designated for your birth country. After listening to you, I feel even happier about my choice. Thanks! 🙏

[@Iamam313]

you mention you don't need much and proceed to say have a nice face a hot body and a good personality and your all set :))) how exactly is this not much?

[@Fuadtalks]

Haha, I completely understand your point! In casual hookups, appearance matters a lot, and you're absolutely right; it's not easy to keep up with the never-ending beauty and fashion trends. In the West, women's self-worth is often linked to their physical looks. What they may not realize is that they are subtly manipulated by these trends. They may think they are doing it for themselves, but in reality, it's often to gain male admiration. What's ironic is that women who choose modesty are often seen as capitulating to male desires and sometimes labeled as 'oppressed women.' In reality, all they're doing is resisting the societal expectations and the widespread objectification of women in the West. So, what I'm trying to say here is that in our cultures, we value women beyond their looks, and when we choose a wife, we are taught to not have the looks as a primary evaluating factor. My intent was not to address your comment specifically but to highlight this difference. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

[@Iamam313]

so you not only want a hot and pretty woman but also one that dresses modestly, only for you...which is fine, it's your preference, just don't call this "not wanting much" because it's not true @@Fuadtalks

[@sarrehm]

That’s the point… a face and body is not much for a middle eastern man. (good personality was a bonus). As he explains in the video the other things are more important and valuable (education, faith, modesty, etc.) That’s why face and body alone are not considered to be that much…

[@helene3173]

I am French-Canadian, and considered attractive. I have many Eastern friends and I have travelled to the Middle East and I can tell you that women there are modest, yes, but they are not less obsessed with their appearance than Western women. You’re a man and maybe you don’t realise the time and effort they take to do their makeup and adjust their hijab, over and over again, and make use of enticing perfumes. Women are the same all over the world, in this respect. I very much enjoyed your video! 🙏🏻 @@Fuadtalks

[@pamelah848]

@@Iamam313 How did you arrive at that conclusion from what he said?

[@Littledreamer444]

You are the company you keep. Guilty or innocent by association

[@gypsynurse9792]

Thank you for mentioning Allah... shared faith is most important. I don't interfaith marriages work sorry to say

[@Maria..Carina-y6x]

Public social media accounts, are so weird... why would anybody want people that they don't know, to follow them on social media. Very, very, weird

[@vzdf75]

Is there any beautifu middle eastern man like you who is christian, cause faith is the only thing that would make me let go of a beautiful man, for God is the Only Right One for us at the end of the day❤

[@Fuadtalks]

Faith is an important factor to consider when choosing a man, so you're doing well. There are Christian men from the Middle East, both practicing and non-practicing. Since faith is significant for you, I also recommend reading the Quran. Consider it a self-development book; the author to us is God, and to you, it will be unknown. Best of luck!

[@vzdf75]

@@Fuadtalks have you ever felt Gods presence like for real? Have you ever heard His voice like you hear everydays human voice? Have you ever been miraculously heald? Im asking cause I am curious is your God like my God. My God changed my heart, when I pray I feel overwhelmed with His presence in my soul and I feel love and calmness. I remember 2 years ago while in covid, I prayed to Jesus(my God) to make me holy because I want to serve just Him and I want people to know that they come only from Him, cause He healed me from real depression and answered every prayer since I was little child. Well that night after I prayed I went to sleep. I woke up with no reason at 4 in the morning and from the door I heard someone saying " Not yet,Hannah(telling me to wait for my prayer to be fulfilled). I asked mother was that her, but she was sleeping and there was none but her. And voice was neutral and soft. I know many times I find myself worrying about many things and then I open the Bible and God just answers exactly. I know the devil is real, I have been where possesed people were and the only thing that made demons tremble, scream and leave was the Name of Jesus and the cross. So many miracles God does so much supernatural things, but people seem so blind even to that. I know Jesus is Truth, othervise people wouldnt mock Him so much and kill His servants all over the globe. I feel fulfiled when I am alone with my God, I feel joy, I feel love and there I get strenght to live and love.

[@thefalcon7021]

There are plenty

[@marcairashort2261]

What if i have tattoos?

[@irenegraves7094]

Middle Eastern guys like asian women?

[@yanis_gessoum]

many arab men married pheleipina women

[@algorithm1635]

Yeah,, all the group of man from different communities like Asian woman, Eastern or western man same look toward you , they look for Asian women by good way in global, a wife material for man in global,, and feminine woman not masculine woman in Behavior ect... , polite and respectful woman ect... A feminine woman in her Behavior that's the point , as result of your culture 👍, man like this type of women in serious relationship 👍, Eastern or western man same look toward you -Asian women = feminine woman in her Behavior in global, as result of her culture

[@louisearon8520]

Religion Is a big priority ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Cantetinza17]

I was raised with the saying, "Birds of a feather flock together". So if you are hanging with Chicken heads (girls always popping their necks and going all around town) you too are a chicken head.

[@gorretnassali]

All these things for a man yet Arabia women or most middle east women dnt 😂😂😂

[@GemmaCardinali]

Very funny you mentioned being a feminist could ruin your reputation 😅

[@Fuadtalks]

Doesn't it?

[@MA-zg2pz]

@@Fuadtalksfeminist doesn’t mean “anti man”, feminism is lifting up and supporting women. Has nothing to do with men. If you want to support the women in your life in a positive way, that’s feminism.

[@Gaziselim5725]

​@@MA-zg2pznow a days a lot of feminists are anti men

[@moon66487]

​@@Gaziselim5725 it always was about hating on men, the problem is men wore asleep. If it was really about equality, then it shouldn't be called feminism, because such word speaks about female only.

[@pamelah848]

@@Fuadtalks I think it matters what is meant. Here in the west many do not have the same attitude toward education as those in the Middle East. An educated woman is a threat to a man. My Muslim husband (now deceased) LIKED that I was smart and educated. He made sure his sister attended university as she wanted and was proud of her for that. I cannot even fully begin to explain what I learned as a result of fully committing to fasting in Ramadan. I wish everyone would do this.

[@aneelakhan7417]

Background music was irritating

[@MA-zg2pz]

Disagree