7 THINGS GUYS DO TO GAIN LEVERAGE (AND HOW TO COUNTER IT)

[@dwaniamcghee5892]

This makes a lot of sense why people get anxiety when you deal with an inconsistent guy.

[@mindy-Jo]

You are like the father I never had, this is what male role models should be telling their daughters, sisters, nieces etc, it's a life lesson! You are a good man.

[@IdaBrun]

Your dating advice is "toxic" in the healthiest way it's a fucking art haha

[@Itsalllove1111]

I would recommend (if your a woman) doing all of these toxic things to men…it actually makes them chase more. But if you come across a legit good guy that’s rdy to settle down and likes you more then fall back on the games just a little ( these men are rare).

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

Gem right here!!!

[@ib961]

Facts. Only do this to men who play games with you or the ones who TRY to play games. Once you’ve done what you need to do, LEAVE! That’s how it works. Don’t play games on genuine guys!

[@ayofrtho7014]

facts. a ton of men are cheaters. until I find a humble guy, then I'll drop my guard

[@SS-in1ts]

Sounds exhausting, not rewarding

[@deearockgirl19]

This is MORE than a strategy video. Your content is really valuable. The psychology behind these advices is amazing. It's a whole another level experience. Thank you,Alex! Yeah, You always deliver and I like that you're like my conscience, reminding me these things . U get real about these situations and u're very reasonable guy. I like your way of approaching things.

[@pinkfabulous248]

I’ve noticed that some guys say that the ex was a model or a ballerina to gain leverage 😂😂

[@dg-qn5mi]

🤣 they be doing that

[@Poopie22]

LMFAOOO

[@jessicap5010]

Oh yeah I noticed that too actually now that I think about it 😂😂

[@Wonderwoman79G]

Did you ask to see a photo of them together ? LOL - so these men really want us to believe they dated a supermodel so we can be jealous !

[@nopoys]

Haha true :))

[@erinledang]

When you talk you are literally describing what I do. I’m so cold and toxic. I leave when I see inconsistency. No matter what they say. Even when I know he deeply loves me. I don’t wanna get hurt. I don’t fight with women I don’t like to compete I just walk away. I feel more in control and powerful by walking away. I’ve been single (not married) for 12 years now though. The guys I’m attracted to are not fitting my standards. I’m a single mom with three kids. Two at home are teenagers. I was married 12 years. I’ve been seeing toxic guys when they come back begging. Then leave, going cold whenever things were not going right. It’s lead to a long term loneliness. 🥺

[@Ms_mimi_101]

U go girl more power to u 💯💯😘

[@queenbaee8514]

Never toxic, you just love yourself 🤷🏽‍♀️💕

[@savagefarmert]

Personal question but why did you get divorced?

[@aqua6613]

Well you have three kids depending on their age that also need you healthy and present in their life and they don't need to witness toxic manipulative behavior. You are very wise in your actions. Just because you don't have a male partner doesn't mean you can't still enjoy life and hobbies and your freedom...there are benefits to being independent. It wouldn't hurt to possibly check over your standards and reevaluate because the older we get and the more obligations a person has may make them seem inconsistent at times if they have other things going on but if they are just flat out lying and playing well definitely ditch them.

[@lilyhada7491]

When she said “it’s lead to a long term loneliness” I felt that. Story of my life. It’s either you stay and get disrespected or end up alone.

[@janasiguenza1545]

“You have to see through the bullshit’ I love that sentence

[@mingsmakeup3854]

Hahah women gotta say my ex was rich and took me shopping, on nice vacays, and helped me with all my Bills to gain leverage ❤️😍🤭

[@Girlwithapurse03]

Omg your content is soo freaking good! It has upgraded. Ugh loveeeeee ittt. You give the type of nitty gritty info no one else is talking about! Congrats

[@patriciaanderson6300]

I love this psychology shit You deliver every time alex

[@lissua8018]

This works on dusties only

[@aqua6613]

I really hated the movie Battle field earth with John Travolta...it was so cheesy...but one thing really stuck out and that was when he was talking about leverage. Men ditch me when I percieve that they are trying to leverage and put their codependent hooks in me to make me playable. It may work with other women but an independent one will walk away and definitely one who has been under narcissistic abuse. They just wait to make you comfortable to let down your guard and then they start their abuse...then they think they have you in so deep that you can't leave or go anywhere...which is an illusion...I have started over from nothing numerous times...and you really don't start over from nothing...you start back from experience. Once you know how to heal yourself and be happy you are no longer a target or prey...you can flip the tables whenever you feel it's necessary

[@Zvizdic101]

This is so well put & intelligent. You are 100% correct.

[@Aquariusly_QNatti]

Well said 💯 I try to take learning experience from every relationship and situation I’m in

[@vhayashi7369]

Absolutely!!! I am doing the same thing! I suffered in a narcissist marriage for many years and other bad narcissist relationships. I walk away fast now as soon as I am being treated bad! Been alone 2.5 years and I am a single mom. Finally have peace!

[@vhayashi7369]

Yep you described the game perfectly! That's why I'm single!

[@womenwhodate7643]

You are so precise, informative and direct ❤️ Every woman, no matter race or background, will and can benefit from your advice. 🙏

[@snowjasmine9644]

You are really good hearted to tell us all secrets ❤️

[@csmnetwork7067]

The Tyrone snippets are so funny lmfao

[@seamr05]

You’re my best friend right now! I’m binge watching your videos these days !!

[@desireedickson8628]

me to

[@hcpunkt2412]

hey father alex 🧡 this is a gem 💎. the technics were used in workplace too. offering you uncertainty in order to work more and still been underpaid.

[@mariyambegum2117]

Father Alex looks cute with his blue hoodie ❤️

[@Anna-yd1zj]

Thanks for this video. Thank you for reinforcing the idea that if a man's behavior and words don't create a feeling of love and security for you, then leave.

[@Soouber]

key is always be willing to walk away and remember what u deserve n forget what u feel...self respect!🌸

[@jz167]

Omg everything you said was exactly my ex husband. He’s a narcissist and there were a few years that I felt like stuck with my own truth. What a relief now

[@Reshme77]

Wow that blue looks very nice on you kiddo

[@kiialove]

I'm so happy I find this channel, feel like I was so lost before !

[@cathy_clarinet]

This is fantastic. I was pleased with myself that I had part of this right already 👍.

[@saara.]

“Do you wanna kno what’s in this little mystery box..?” I diedddd at this point.. maybe bc I saw myself in this situation? Haha thank you for the content

[@xoxo.tekeva]

Your strategies are definitely working because I didn’t know I was doing them until today 😂🥰

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

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[@Luandra3939]

Lol we need to see what Melissa looks like Alex

[@dougedoug2105]

I’m now convinced that Alex wishes that he were a “Tyrone” 😂😅🤣

[@morpher728]

How do you counter the counter of a female

[@Laylathelonghairchichi]

Sometimes I wonder if the guy I’m seeing watches your channel 😂 But I also watch your channel. I’ve applied your strategies when I see fit and it works. Sometimes I get the sense like he needs to have the upper hand so he pulls the maybes from time to time. He recently told me “Maybe get together Monday for a lil cuz if not it won’t be til the weekend.” I later found out he had errands to run on Monday and he said maybe we could get together after. So I retracted the offer. I said “It sounds like Monday isn’t a for sure thing but the weekend is. I’d rather go with the weekend instead of relying on a maybe” He responded the weekend was absolutely for sure and all the maybe meant was to see how he felt after his errands and yard work. He will sometimes give me for sure days and times to get together.....then sometimes he has left it to where I follow up (chase) . The time we spend together though, everything seems fine. He’s kinda awkward and he’s been single 8 years. I just met his mom on Thanksgiving so I’d like to think it’s headed in a good direction. But oy vey I always feel like I gotta strategize to keep up. It’s exhausting 😂

[@serenityfreedom3096]

Yes, cortisol is a stress hormone.

[@stephdiaz7184]

I love how you mentioned religion. It's so true, many are blind to this. Even so, it's a decent control measure on humanity 💯

[@laurahartnett]

if he 's playing the maybe game im out, another woman? no problemo she can have you im out! inconsistent? im out! get out of the doorway your blocking the flow of traffic

[@sacredpaw]

Yes cortisol is one of the major stress hormones, released from the adrenal glands. Too much in the body too often is very bad for health physically and mentally.

[@msve3730]

So basically just walk away.

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

🙄

[@mizzcrazygal]

no. respect yourself

[@Rynaelnd]

Love the passion in this one ❤

[@lisamar6386]

Now this is good advice. I'll have my teenager listen to this.

[@eugeniah25]

You always make me laugh 😂 with Thyrone, yes I do walk away when something it doesn’t feel right for me…

[@ALI-vj3zg]

GREAT VIDEO!!! JEWEL 💎

[@PatricilComplex]

I really loved your interpretation in the uncertity box scene 🤣

[@J.martinez3]

LMFAOOOOOO!! Had me cracking up 🤣

[@vhayashi7369]

"The Spaghetti Monster!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@julika1984]

Yeah he never talked about his exes to me. He always stayed away from that. But we only had txt situationship.

[@Violetvixen789]

You are so smart! Definitely have good experience I can tell. Great advice 😊

[@katherineharris2354]

Alex you killing me with the Tyrone nonsense lol

[@mayalynn3532]

I stg I’m gonna buy like *a* single unit of your patreon just to have a funny convo one of these days. I’m so dead “Tyrone is Jewish” I lost it 😂😂

[@lisettecamejo4243]

yes the casinos are always fixed to the house not for the clients

[@grette4156]

Love the hoodie

[@melarc4560]

Wowwww..This was excellent 👌🏼💕😬

[@ashs1491]

It works jus recently cut off some dingaling now I keep sayin I’ll think about it lol he been sending good morning txts every morning now lmao

[@trainerswebmail5076]

A+ well done!

[@shantitakemoto1058]

The casino analogy!!! Never thought of it that way!

[@Roblox_God100]

you killed it and snapped! lol. true! how you know so much nene?... love da real talk tho ty.

[@ivy3839]

Super video Alex , one off the best thank you.

[@nicolelambert1913]

Lmao!! You are hilarious and crack me up 😂 watching your videos makes my day bc I always get a great laugh and I learn something new all the time! Thanks!!!

[@springfauna1465]

Same!! 😂 I love his girl voice!! 🤣🤣🤣❤️

[@xHeartHeartbreakx]

How do you make more guy friends? My husband has tons of girl friends and in super introverted wondering how to get out.

[@fairy9749]

Use bumble and the friends vertical of it

[@dg-qn5mi]

Male hobbies ie go to the gym & lift weights, look fit and healthy (smile and ask for help with weights) so they will be more willing to approach you

[@shinyqueen796]

match ppl from tinder and make group chat for them then plan gathering

[@airrari]

just go out , go to events, look your best wherever you go and try to get out of your comfort zone. Don’t be afraid to go places alone, you will meet people eventually

[@enlightenednay]

"Tyrone is Jewish" 🤣🤣😂

[@cladiavital3769]

Thanks again to share this information...bless

[@gulperisalman6966]

Thank you for this, it opened my eyes.

[@YH-os1qk]

Alex you’re a genius maniac

[@beinggerdalouw9744]

Really great video.Thanks!

[@LivLuvLol76]

Alex another great video.. ive done everything your not supposed to.. FML 🤦🏻‍♀️ lol 😂 Oh how to turn the tables 😏

[@nicole79131]

Love long video& your Melissa voice 😂😂😛❤️

[@jelenastevanovic5314]

14:48 AMEN!

[@Catswithmeimei]

Shalom Tyrone!

[@grejad2458]

I naturally do all of these things!!!

[@lena-cv3tv]

PRECIOUS advice from Father Alex: "KEEP THOSE CARDS CLOSE TO YOU", meaning Don't talk too much, Say LESS than necessary

[@eveheart2876]

Yes 🙌🏾

[@mscee]

I don’t see anything wrong with talking about an ex because that gives you a better perspective on the person or how they are in a relationship or whatever the case may be it’s just information and insight and what’s wrong with that

[@divinealchemy2470]

Not spaghetti monster 😭😭😭😭

[@grette4156]

Thank you...

[@d.m6933]

Thank you Alex, this is so true!

[@ambercollier37]

Ok, but what about co-parenting, baby mom's, etc. Do you have any advice or videos on single parents dating. Thank you

[@King-E-Roy]

You the real GOAT I love your channel mane much love❤️🙌🏻

[@mandyporras07]

This is good. Thanks

[@SS-in1ts]

Omfg…..smiling single mom here- with past family trauma 😂 no wonder my exs come on strong and leave after six months. They either think I’ll be more submissive than I am or they show their true colors. But how do I stop meeting future fakers??! I’ve decided to not commit to a guy until around 10 months, so I won’t kiss or have sex sooner than I know them beyond their fantasy/honeymoon phase/manipulation phase- but I wonder if a man will wait a year?? Is it hopeless??

[@TheKruelka]

A boy once told me "if a lady wants to be with me, she has to accept that my ex will always be in my life" I was like wtf.

[@eveheart2876]

😂 madness

[@zubieM]

Good video!

[@BooglesBuhle]

Thank you for this

[@archanabhardwaj6348]

Love the video

[@user-pe2yx9kt4e]

I like your hoodie

[@asiakym]

I like how he laughs at his own jokes.

[@eveheart2876]

😂 his sense of humour. A bit dry yet entertaining

[@lorishellman1263]

Alex my boyfriend says that he does not get jealous.Can there be men out there that do not get jealous?

[@sharonsart]

No. If he cares about you, he gets jealous. He probably thinks showing jealousy is a sign of weakness.

[@leeannajohnson1008]

No

[@Thegardenersclog]

Crackin me up dude!! 😂

[@chrissyw.7500]

Go to church Tyrone! 😂😂

[@priscillahousari3124]

Are you trying to say we're chicken heads 🤔lol

[@SS-in1ts]

I won’t date someone who’s friends with their ex, they don’t have to hate their ex though. if they’re a parent I hope they’re on good terms and civil with their kids mom, that’s the exception.

[@avelinacastro8070]

Very interesting

[@lorishellman1263]

You are adoreable alex

[@clover84htx]

Alex I loveeee youuuuu 💙

[@joanoroni4462]

Thank you father Alex your discipline will comply and stay toxic.

[@Eudaimonia88]

So we are meant to believe that YOU will teach us about social intelligence? Now that one made me giggle, my friend! 🤣😂

[@iamhealed6209]

i love you alex and your work...such an inspiration.

[@moniw1733]

Dang My ex got me ! He did all of this. Im happy i finally left 🥴

[@KV_84]

Omg your "ladies' voice" blaming you for the guy leaving. Lmaooo

[@alenamalecka4290]

I have this problems but im from czech republic will there be an online seminar about this????

[@PucciNYC]

Damn Alex, I'm going to be away Dec 4. You have to come back Bro.

[@dg-qn5mi]

So what if I applied your strategies to every guy I've met and it hasn't worked out - am I being too cold and stern 🤧

[@queenbaee8514]

No it means you know your worth 💕

[@ninaehr1842]

It means he's not interested enough to put in an effort.

[@musicbrazilian7065]

The best strategy is to allow a guy to share his time with the emotionally cold and uninteresting person, he will not get the brainy warm gal from out of his mind.

[@Alenamarieeee1474]

I haven’t watched one of these videos in over a year and yeah it’s cool in the moment to never let anyone in to hurt you but in the end all it leads to is loneliness.

[@bonitamorlang1073]

"Nah bitch" lol

[@GirlsinnahoodMusic]

you're so smart lol

[@WatchingPlanesnbirds]

Love

[@Xianne027]

5 things? I thought you were going to give us 7 things? Hmmm, Alex?

[@user-pe2yx9kt4e]

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