7 Things smart women NEVER do for a man!

[@kehindeoluwadamilare5594]

I have a question to ask: If a woman you are having a relationship with after you both spend years together, stayed together for a few years in an apartment, then later you started planning for Marriage, But that same year you are planning for your marriage, cos her mother-in-law said a wrong word to her on the phone and her sister-in-law. then she took those words as a red flag and told her man that she was no longer interested in that relationship and that because of those words, her family didn't love her, what kind of woman is that? Is that a smart woman or what, does that prove she played smart??

[@Lifebinary]

She leaving could show she’s protecting her peace and self-respect. Smart women set boundaries. If she tried to work it out but nothing changed, leaving was her way of staying true to herself. But before leaving the smart thing to do will be to communicate with the guy in question because Communication is key before making that decision. Let me know if this answers your question and thank you for watching ❤

[@kehindeoluwadamilare5594]

@@Lifebinary Both of them communicated, and the guy asked her, "Why are you leaving? Do you still love me?" Her response was that she was leaving for peace. She also told the guy, "Yes, I still love you." The guy asked her, "Is it my mother you want to marry or stay with?" If you really love me, we need to work towards this and not take your leave and say you are no longer interested.

[@kehindeoluwadamilare5594]

@@Lifebinary Even the mother-in-law called the lady's phone so many times to talk to her and plead if what she said was wrong, the same with the sister-in-law, but the lady didn't pick up their calls.

[@Lifebinary]

@@kehindeoluwadamilare5594 If they communicated and she still chose to leave for her peace, it shows she values her self-respect and boundaries above all else. Depending on the type of words that was said to her and the situation surrounding it . Sometimes, even with love, a person will walk away if they feel their well-being is at risk. It doesn’t mean she didn’t care; it means she prioritized her mental and emotional health.

[@Lifebinary]

@@kehindeoluwadamilare5594 It sounds like she might need space to think things through and decide what she really wants. If the guy truly loves her, he should respect her need for space and give her time. He can also pray for guidance. If she comes back, it means she feels ready to move forward. If she doesn’t, it’s probably because she’s trying to avoid future problems. Sometimes, people make tough choices to protect their peace, even when it hurts.

[@Lifebinary]

Which of these things do you think is hardest to put into practice? For me, not tolerating disrespect was a major breakthrough. Let’s talk about how we can all implement these boundaries in our relationships!

[@Lifebinary]

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[@FarhiaFarah-wg5qe]

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[@Lifebinary]

@@FarhiaFarah-wg5qe I’m not sure I got your message correctly please make me understand and thanks for watching 🥰