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Wisdom in Words

10 ай бұрын

7 things you should always keep private
In a peaceful village among the hills, the wise Master Koji shared profound teachings with a young disciple named Hiro. The teacher revealed seven aspects of life that should be kept private. Hiro understood the importance of preserving purity and sincerity in his actions and thoughts, and committed to following these principles in his journey of self-discovery and spiritual growth. With gratitude and determination, he bid farewell to Master Koji, carrying with him the wisdom that would illuminate his path to inner peace and authenticity.
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@Ramanarayan38
@Ramanarayan38 9 ай бұрын
Intentions, personal goals, charitable deeds, training and practice, family affairs, wealth and possessions, spiritual experiences
@lindagoddard409
@lindagoddard409 9 ай бұрын
@sanveersingh3235
@sanveersingh3235 9 ай бұрын
What are your true intentions? ME: I can't tell!!
@u.e.cultimateeatingchampio9645
@u.e.cultimateeatingchampio9645 9 ай бұрын
too late all that i shared already i cant take it back
@aroesviiaggii2792
@aroesviiaggii2792 9 ай бұрын
🙏
@harkarbankitv
@harkarbankitv 9 ай бұрын
Thanks for the summary
@misssaavy
@misssaavy 9 ай бұрын
“Silence is the true friend that never betrays.”
@mapetidye
@mapetidye 9 ай бұрын
I love this so much…
@SkyePhoenix
@SkyePhoenix 9 ай бұрын
👍
@sherryw1919
@sherryw1919 8 ай бұрын
Indeed ~
@RobertSaxy
@RobertSaxy 8 ай бұрын
It’s also the one that slowly poisons your drinks until you die or go insane if your not careful
@OhSoLoring9113
@OhSoLoring9113 8 ай бұрын
True
@KA-jm2cz
@KA-jm2cz 8 ай бұрын
"Speaking is silver Silence is gold" Finnish proverb
@KA-jm2cz
@KA-jm2cz 8 ай бұрын
Puhuminen on hopeaa Vaikeneminen kultaa
@cucumber1004
@cucumber1004 8 ай бұрын
smile is diamond
@youtubeuser-uc8ux
@youtubeuser-uc8ux 8 ай бұрын
@@cucumber1004 that's dumb
@lebogangmoagi9638
@lebogangmoagi9638 8 ай бұрын
Laughter is medicine
@buddhaexhumed9922
@buddhaexhumed9922 20 күн бұрын
Namo Buddhay. Research on Indian Buddhism is necessary.
@Betterversion09
@Betterversion09 6 ай бұрын
Everytime i have a bad day i listen to this and read the comments. It is so amazing how I see strangers trying to heal others through the comments section. You guys literally made my day. I hope everyone is having an amazing day💕 Remember guys, there is nothing that you can do to change your past, all we can do is to forgive ourselves and be better.
@Tungkinhphatphap_
@Tungkinhphatphap_ 5 ай бұрын
🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀
@METALHEAD550
@METALHEAD550 3 ай бұрын
Love and light to you my friend. ☮☮☮
@2Hearts3
@2Hearts3 9 ай бұрын
Quoting Tommy Lasorda-- "Never tell people your troubles-- 90% of them don't care. The other 10% are glad you got 'em." Words to the wise. RIP Tommy ⚾
@thecoolg
@thecoolg 8 ай бұрын
Great quote but pretty sure that wad football coach Lou Holtz, not Lassorda.
@2Hearts3
@2Hearts3 8 ай бұрын
@@thecoolg it's Lasorda, 1986.
@martok2112
@martok2112 8 ай бұрын
Also among the 90% that don't care are narcissists who will suddenly tell you their "woes", and make them sound as if your own troubles are trivial... and they will do this just to shut you up.
@theymademepickaname1248
@theymademepickaname1248 8 ай бұрын
I believe it's more like 90 percent are glad you have them and 10 percent don't care. I actually respect the people that don't care.
@killenukont4170
@killenukont4170 8 ай бұрын
No point in complaining about something when no one else cares about it 😂🎉🎉
@shugler
@shugler 8 ай бұрын
While I am all about seeking wisdom and inner peace, this video basically can be summed up by saying, "don't talk about yourself". I can certainly appreciate that sometimes (a lot of times) not saying anything goes a long way, but there is also wisdom in sharing your experiences, accomplishments and doubts with people you trust, otherwise you cannot grow as a person. You can certainly learn from other people's accomplishments and failures, otherwise how would we learn anything? Parents, teachers, coaches, all these people utilize what they have learned and experienced and teach others valuable lessons and how to grow. This video should have instead focused on the message about sharing but not bragging.
@BlinkinFirefly
@BlinkinFirefly 8 ай бұрын
I agree. I left a similar comment. Privacy can certainly become toxic if practiced too much, in my humble opinion.
@jenshark4
@jenshark4 8 ай бұрын
I agree. I have a long time best friend, she’s like a sister to me. We share our success, failures and life experiences with each other. It’s truly great to be able to express ourselves openly without judgement. I wouldn’t trade it for the world. I feel like we all need someone in our lives that we can do this with.
@PeachTristan
@PeachTristan 8 ай бұрын
Agree. Communicating your personal goals with those you are close to and trust is important for relationships and to test if your goals are realistic. Your personal goals can have negative or positive effects on people around you and so it is important to be open about them.
@CJRh0ne
@CJRh0ne 8 ай бұрын
I agree with this comment more than the video
@vgraham2988
@vgraham2988 8 ай бұрын
True....this list describes a dysfunctional person.
@user-yl8ij6kq7m
@user-yl8ij6kq7m 8 ай бұрын
I have been practicing not telling anyone anything, complaint wise, for the last two months. And guess what? I will continue this practice for the rest of my days. The three biggest benefits of this has been, 1. More peace, 2. Far less stress. 3. Within days, the things I would have complained about were forgotten.
@sung-6097
@sung-6097 8 ай бұрын
1. Intentions - seeds of your actions 2. Personal goals - others opinions hinders your progress 3. Charitable deeds - true compassion doesn't need recognition 4. Training in progress - seeking approval and acknowledgement from others will distract you from your goals. 5. Family affairs - respect your family's sanctity 6.wealth and possessions - do not invite unnecessary envy. 7.spiritual experiences - others who are not at the same path may misunderstand your intentions of sharing.
@maloyo7901
@maloyo7901 9 ай бұрын
I have a problem with keeping “family affairs” private. This can be toxic in an abusive family situation. In my experience, abusers insist on “what happens here stays here” because they know they’d be in trouble if what they were doing was known. This is true for emotional, physical, and sexual abusers. Abusers keep it going by playing the “sacred family” card. IMO, this is dangerous advice.
@shillout
@shillout 9 ай бұрын
That was my thought at once too hearing it, and it can also be good to share things outside of the family to get others' perspectives.
@peaceloveunity3794
@peaceloveunity3794 9 ай бұрын
The exception doesn't make the rule.
@Aaron-Actually-Aaron
@Aaron-Actually-Aaron 9 ай бұрын
Obviously it is not referring to abuse, how would keeping abuse secret help you?
@amberackerson5916
@amberackerson5916 9 ай бұрын
I think what one says to a counselor, therapist, spiritual teacher, healing group, and trusted friend can still be considered maintaining privacy.
@YesPlease1
@YesPlease1 8 ай бұрын
I came here to say exactly this. In the case of abuse, family members have already violated the sanctity of family, so your silence isn't protecting anything special. Personally I think the way to do this might be to share stories but without names. "A family member said this or did that." sort of thing. Remember that toxic people are acting that way because they were mistreated and not loved properly themselves. They're already suffering, you don't need to add to it by turning the public against them. If however crimes were committed then take that up with the relevant authorities. Sharing your stories can be a humbling lesson to abusers. If they didn't want stories shared about their behavior then they should treat you better behind closed doors. It can also open the eyes of other abuse victims to hear your stories and help them navigate their own experiences with toxic people.
@smc1942
@smc1942 9 ай бұрын
I wish I had learned these 40+ years ago; when I was in my teens. ALL are TRUE!!! I had to learn the hard way! Often people, even family, will use every word you say aloud against you. The older I get, the less I say to anyone about anything. The old saying, "Silence is golden." is very true! Use it as a shield to protect yourself and your interests.
@Lotus1111
@Lotus1111 9 ай бұрын
Agree. At 59, I learned the hard way, yet I understand now
@nicholasrv8834
@nicholasrv8834 9 ай бұрын
Agreed, this is something we learn as we grow and mature
@hippyable
@hippyable 9 ай бұрын
True! I've revealed too darn much
@Heavywall70
@Heavywall70 9 ай бұрын
BEHOLD! the infinite power of STFU. This was a quote I heard once.
@emmcatherine1460
@emmcatherine1460 9 ай бұрын
I so understand my friend . Yet please be your authentic self as i am at 68 years young.
@michaelkamau2957
@michaelkamau2957 4 ай бұрын
Keep charitable deeds to yourself is an awesome concept...when you give or help someone and tell nobody else there is an intrinsic reward that feels so good 😎
@Visionaryvibes444
@Visionaryvibes444 8 ай бұрын
With silence comes wisdom. With talking comes repentance.
@MsGechi77
@MsGechi77 9 ай бұрын
I learned these things too late. My life was filled with jealous, insecure and selfish family members. Pain & suffering was all I knew, when my intentions were to help them. In return, I was met with hate. Not everyone wants the best for each other. I have learned a hard lesson and live in peace now. 💜
@marthaeceiza1289
@marthaeceiza1289 9 ай бұрын
So sorry for your pain for I have been in your shoes too and I know how it feels to be surrounded by family members who are jealous, envious, lying thieves. Hope you can get away from them as I did cause now I don't have any regrets turning around and live without them in my happy life.❤
@janetpattison8474
@janetpattison8474 9 ай бұрын
Im glad you turned things around and did what was necessary to have peace in your life.
@CHANTARELLA
@CHANTARELLA 9 ай бұрын
Same here. check out personality disorders. When we come from dysfunctional families, this is usually at the root of it.
@cyrusatkinson6234
@cyrusatkinson6234 9 ай бұрын
I feel your pain. I just thought today. It’s this pain and sadness that has taught me to be kind and loving no matter what because that is who I am. Doesn’t matter it’s returned anymore. I had that problem of helping and getting hate back and getting sad from never getting love in return. It’s a lesson I needed to learn. It’s not about the return.
@Animalis_Mundana
@Animalis_Mundana 9 ай бұрын
I hear that!
@hih-meh1344
@hih-meh1344 9 ай бұрын
Abusive relationship and domestic violence should NOT be keep private.. period 👈
@meghanmurphy3623
@meghanmurphy3623 9 ай бұрын
These proliferated “zen teachings” videos are all nonsense and not rooted in actual teachings. This is all nonsense. Get a great Pema Chiodron audio book-the one narrated by Claire Foy is great-bc these vids annd the “wisdom” are all silly.
@The0nlyy
@The0nlyy 8 ай бұрын
You are showing your intentions by posting this comment, you have already failed.
@lamooswa4704
@lamooswa4704 8 ай бұрын
Exactly it only helps the abuser
@michellestella7477
@michellestella7477 8 ай бұрын
​@@The0nlyytf
@deelong2862
@deelong2862 8 ай бұрын
AMEN!!!!!! ABUSE OF ALL KINDS, VIOLENCE, ETC. SHOULD BE REPORTED TO THE RIGHT AUTHORITIES IMMEDIATELY!!!!! It could save lives and lots of pain!!!!! PLEASE!!!! ❤
@erictaylor5462
@erictaylor5462 8 ай бұрын
#3 I love helping people, especially if you can help them in a way that they don't know who helped them or why. Back when I still had money I'd go out to eat and more than once if I saw a family I'd ask the waitress to bring me their bill, but asked her not to say who paid for it. They would always look really confused, but my reasoning was, if I paid for their meals they could afford to go out one more time.
@arcadeblast4752
@arcadeblast4752 8 ай бұрын
How did you lose the money?
@sLim88CPC
@sLim88CPC 7 ай бұрын
@@arcadeblast4752 read his comment again and think... :D
@AshleyCasper-xm8ud
@AshleyCasper-xm8ud 8 ай бұрын
Sharing goals with others can be good because once we say what we want to do out loud, it makes us feel more committed to doing the thing. Also, it is great to bounce ideas off with others.
@erickd2278
@erickd2278 8 ай бұрын
Privacy is good, but let’s not pretend the judgement of others is always bad. Sometimes they can enlighten us with a perspective we haven’t considered, thus helping us move further with our goals, or reconsidering our intentions. As for spiritual experiences, it’s good to share with those of faith who could also be inspired by our stories. Still I agree with some silence especially with charitable deeds or wealth and possessions. A good practice in humility.
@thomasgustafsson7962
@thomasgustafsson7962 8 ай бұрын
I agree but I think one should be mindful of intentions for sharing and to whom. I think in regards to spiritual experiences, it can become a source of food for the ego when you have pride driving you to share that experience. I've done that and have then not cherished those moments and like he said, people have probably misunderstood anyways. If you "level up" with some experiences it can sometimes be more beneficial to point people in the right direction to have their own experiences than to share yours. Some knowledge can only be acquired through experiencing it. For example, I can try my best to describe how a mango tastes to someone who has never tasted it or try to describe a sunset to a blind person but unless they experience it for themselves they won't understand. Hehe a lot of "experience".
@ananyaprakash8218
@ananyaprakash8218 8 ай бұрын
I agree
@Simon_Jakle__almost_real_name
@Simon_Jakle__almost_real_name 7 ай бұрын
I also don't want to walk around with a big delusion supposed to have become suspicious or too sceptic, doubting too much wanting to receive proofs from out of nowhere, "because" as soon as we hardly share anymore, the worlds slowen, letting us slither into egoistic behaviour without noticeing. The human world has too many human (made) problems though, but i just have an attitude to not have to participate with clowns in shame that would have mostly been hindered. Hiding the thoughts or ideas that appear in my head would often be or resemble "(misery) business as usual" but makes us move in circles we "get used to" in a false manner. It depends on the situation, but that was already mentionned. I still wonder why bad people wake up in the morning (since they won't pay off in their dues), even the dev'l won't use them in a yoke on some strange atone(ment) farm.
@rubyt2023
@rubyt2023 7 ай бұрын
Agree, it's about balance. It's not always black OR white there's a middle area. Fortunately I have a good & long time friend who I can do this with who isn't negative. We know each other well enough & she's selfless. I can bounce my thoughts & ideas with her and end of conversation I don't feel like why did I tell her. For charity, there's always anonymous donations 😊. Wishing everyone peace & happiness 🌎🌻
@saullouis7873
@saullouis7873 9 ай бұрын
People used social media to show the world how they out there helping people, the truth is they're helping themselves for more likes and views.
@johnwayne2231
@johnwayne2231 9 ай бұрын
Maybe so... Like the guy that tips waiters 1k for a 65.00 meal? True. But I'm sure that 1k helped her probably pay that rent. Lol, internet has changed everything
@lainaverse
@lainaverse 9 ай бұрын
It depends. Social Media provides an opportunity to show people how to treat others well and how giving can positively impact others. It's all about intention. And it's important to observe if you're projecting your own negativity bias because envy is stirred within you.
@hih-meh1344
@hih-meh1344 9 ай бұрын
Bullseye.. 🎯
@SevillaILove
@SevillaILove 9 ай бұрын
I think there's benefit in seeing people do good deeds. How much horror do we see in the news, etc? They may gain likes and views. But I love were watching a good deed done rather than Jerk doing jerk stuff.❤ More power to them I say.
@trn8061
@trn8061 9 ай бұрын
You'll don't get it. Stay humble. That's it. Most counterpoint here just don't get it. It is the meek that shall inherit the erath.
@Timberland1963
@Timberland1963 8 ай бұрын
This should be mandatory listening every time someone goes on Twitter or Facebook or any social media sites.
@nathananderson8720
@nathananderson8720 8 ай бұрын
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my KZbin channel 6 months ago about self development. Now I have 359 subs and > 100 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.
@Glimmerlight90
@Glimmerlight90 8 ай бұрын
I share all of these things with high discernment. I think it's important to have trustworthy people in your inner circles who can understand your experiences when it's relevant to share them. Also I like to share these things more openly when it's far in the past, because these topics are great for storytelling.
@alexsarmiento5392
@alexsarmiento5392 8 ай бұрын
Yes. You can share to godly people who can keep secrets and not known to be gossippers or busybodies.
@DerekMoore82
@DerekMoore82 8 ай бұрын
Having "trustworthy" people in your circle indicates you value trust, which is incongruent with the first rule in this video which suggests you should keep your intentions a secret. If everyone kept their true intentions secret - there can be no trust. You'd have to assume everyone was lying about their intentions. Which is why that first rule is immoral because it teaches dishonesty for advantages sake.
@swiftkarma4436
@swiftkarma4436 8 ай бұрын
Exactly. Discernment is key.
@aimeecelis8284
@aimeecelis8284 8 ай бұрын
@@DerekMoore82 private is different to secret though
@catherinebutterworth2011
@catherinebutterworth2011 8 ай бұрын
As well as learning and growing from them.
@Ruylopez778
@Ruylopez778 9 ай бұрын
This is going to be so useful in future job interviews. Intentions? Private. Goals? Private. Successes? Private. Interests outside of work? Private. 3 minute interview and I'm out the door and back to my life.
@lindayounker134
@lindayounker134 9 ай бұрын
🤣
@CTN404
@CTN404 8 ай бұрын
Just tell them what they need to hear. You don’t need to tell them every detail of your life …. or else your dreams and hardships will be their lunch gossip.
@DinlaAnnEmmanuel
@DinlaAnnEmmanuel 16 күн бұрын
Thank you so much. God you have spoken
@Franko384
@Franko384 8 ай бұрын
Personal goals should definitely be shared with close friends. Because they can help you with achieving them.
@TuExito
@TuExito 8 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@Franko384
@Franko384 7 ай бұрын
@@AJ7thebest I'm very sorry to hear that your friends turned their back on you like that. However, I've had different experiences. I know someone that helped me achieve things, that I might not have achieved, if he didn'nt help me from time to time. That would not have happened, if I just kept my personal Goals completely to myself, like the video suggests.
@raeahthewriter8082
@raeahthewriter8082 8 ай бұрын
Keeping "family affairs" private has been used to continue cycles of abuse by veiling them on shame and secrecy. Be careful with that one
@lisanidog8178
@lisanidog8178 9 ай бұрын
I agree whole heartedly with the charity one. One doesn’t need a ticker tape parade or a gold medal helping others which should be automatic.
@PassionDrive
@PassionDrive 7 ай бұрын
"✨Not all truths need an audience🤫. Protecting your inner sanctuary means recognizing the power of silence🌙 and the strength in holding some secrets close.🔒"
@michaelchia6972
@michaelchia6972 8 ай бұрын
every advice here shared is a lonely road. No man is an island and if you want real friends, you gotta be real. U dont have to share all secrets, but show humbless and vulnerability and strength in weakness. Wisdom is knowing how to respond, not react.
@Stylomagic
@Stylomagic 9 ай бұрын
If I would kept my family affairs private, I would be dead by now. I developed PTSD, because of the constant trauma my family gave me over the years and that led to a disease, chronic, without any chance of cure. So because I talked about the trauma, I could let go and I am healthy again. Also if you never would let others know what you dream of, you also will never experience support, the most important thing in life is trust! Trust in yourself and in others! You will never find support if you keep things private! You don't need other people for doubts, they are already there. Everyone have them. Support from others help you to gain trust and believe in yourself. Also if people try to destroy your dreams, you learn how to protect yourself and to believe in yourself no matter what. You practise self awareness! Its impossible to live without pain! So its better to trust others and be betrayed, than never trust and never experience support and love!
@Jesuisfatiguee
@Jesuisfatiguee 8 ай бұрын
This advice reminds me of a quote. “Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people." - Eleanor Roosevelt. Not that they are closely related but the idea that we should challenge ourselves to have more meaningful conversations. A person’s private affairs aren’t helpful to others but discussing ideas can be. Idle chatter is like junk food. It’s gratifying for a moment but has no long term benefits.
@kirstenshindler7767
@kirstenshindler7767 8 ай бұрын
Love this! Thank you.
@codyp2808
@codyp2808 8 ай бұрын
This comment is discussing people. It’s sarcastic and petty retort to media gossip and rumors. It’s not wisdom. It’s an insult. And it doesn’t even follow its own advice
@XDWX
@XDWX 8 ай бұрын
​@@codyp2808It's not discussing people. It's discussing an idea that Elanore Roosevelt had about speaking on certain topics.
@user-vl3np9vi4f
@user-vl3np9vi4f 8 ай бұрын
This quote is attributed to Platon the great ancient greek philosopher not Eleanor Roosevelt!!!There are also other great lessons for life that you can learn by studying the ancient greeks!!
@Jesuisfatiguee
@Jesuisfatiguee 8 ай бұрын
@@user-vl3np9vi4fThank you. Platon was also known for saying “Wise men speak because they have something to say; fools because they have to say something.” I suppose that would be fitting here, as well.
@1gx619
@1gx619 7 ай бұрын
Never show others you are a happy person. Once people see you are a happy person they will do everything in their power to ruin your happiness 🙏🏻
@brianwill5929
@brianwill5929 7 ай бұрын
This is actually just a sign of being surrounded by toxic people. Happy moments are meant to be shared with the right people. A true friend is someone who celebrates good news with you, and comforts you during hard times without trying to one up your hardships. True friends are few and far between, but don't give up on searching for them.
@jovi8244
@jovi8244 8 ай бұрын
I share it all with one person I trust, my best friend, who has been with me for over 30 years. With others, I usually don't.
@katerinaa9344
@katerinaa9344 9 ай бұрын
I get the point and agree that the logic makes sense. But i do disagree in general: sharing all these helps build connections with people, inspires others and helps them to get through their stuff. You though need to be careful with things compromising yourself. Otherwise if you shared something because you trusted someone and they use it against you, it is about them and not about you anymore.
@lordsxman
@lordsxman 9 ай бұрын
I disagree with numbers 5 and 7. Some family affairs need to be shared like abuse. If someone is being abused in a family and no one else in the family can stop it, you HAVE to get someone outside the family involved to save lives and minimize trauma. With number 7, sharing spiritual experiences creates community, understanding, and sanity. As opposed to believing you're the only one that's experienced something.
@hippyable
@hippyable 9 ай бұрын
I was thinking about that too. I am a survivor of childhood sexual abuse in the home as well as outside.
@hippyable
@hippyable 9 ай бұрын
You are awesome! Great comment!
@Msfruity44
@Msfruity44 9 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing. I am a survivor of physical, sexual and emotional abuse. It’s important to share with a trusted individual when the place that should be safe is not.❤️
@girlcl410
@girlcl410 9 ай бұрын
I don't think keeping it private means do nothing. That is clearly not what he means.
@robertstallard7836
@robertstallard7836 9 ай бұрын
What No5 means is: Don't write KZbin comments showing off to everyone about the fact that you're a "survivor of childhood sexual abuse". No-one cares. No-one is impressed. What No7 means is: Don't bore everyone else with your Jesus talk. No-one is going to look up that scripture reference you've posted and no-one is going to be converted.
@desertjedi
@desertjedi 8 ай бұрын
WOW! Absolutely spot on! Many don't realize that if you discuss your intentions, personal goals and training, you give away the energy you need to realize them. Excellent video!
@JakubKnop-ml8fs
@JakubKnop-ml8fs 8 ай бұрын
If u share it all you will find friends with similar goals. Imagine most people would follow this rules would be kinda sad to do everthing alone without knowing about other people
@thevagabondsageinthewoods
@thevagabondsageinthewoods 8 ай бұрын
I don’t keep my intentions private because people innocently ask me if I want to do this thing or that thing but often as not, I have goals to reach by specific dates and it would seem rude of me to simply say no, I don’t want to do this or that just because. If I tell them I am trying to reach a particular goal, the really worthwhile people try to help me obtain those goals.
@ShamsaNashami-fb1zk
@ShamsaNashami-fb1zk 9 ай бұрын
Everyone who will watch this will be lucky as I am thank you Master 🙏🙏💞💙💙💜
@jonashassel5404
@jonashassel5404 9 ай бұрын
THE GOSPEL OF THE WORD OF ALMIGHTY GOD "the last age in which God saves man from the destruction of this old world" "Judgment in the Last Days". ... (Those who only receive judgment but can never be purified, that is, those who run away from the midst of the work of judgment, will be hated and rejected by God forever. Their sins are worse, and heavier, than there to the Pharisees, because they betrayed God and rebelled against God. Such people are not even worthy to perform service and will receive a heavier punishment, a punishment besides that is eternity. Such people will be punished by punishment of spirit, soul, and body. God will send all those who do all kinds of evil deeds during the judgment to a place infested with evil spirits, and let these evil spirits destroy their fleshly bodies as they please, and their bodies will smell of incense. God casts aside and ignores those who have never been faithful to Christ or never put forth any effort, and He will destroy them all in the change of the age. They will no longer exist on Earth, and will not be able to enter the Kingdom of God. In the end, God will bring into His Kingdom all people whose minds agree with God, the people and the children of God, and also those whom God has ordained to be priests. They will be the result of the purification from the work of God. I have told you all there is to say; you decide which path you choose.) Almighty God said DO you NOW UNDERSTAND WHAT is JUDGMENT and WHAT is TRUTH? IF you UNDERSTAND, I ADVISE you to OBEDIENTLY SUBMIT to the JUDGMENT, OTHERWISE YOU WILL NEVER have a CHANCE to EVER be PRAISED by GOD or TAKEN into His KINGDOM. Those who only receive judgment but can never be purified, that is, those who run away from the midst of the work of judgment, will be hated and rejected by God forever. Their sins were more numerous, and heavier, than those of the Pharisees, because they betrayed God and rebelled against God. Such people who are not even fit to perform service will receive a heavier punishment, a punishment besides that of eternity. GOD WILL NOT FORGIVE ANY TRAITOR who once SHOWED FAITHFULNESS in words but BETRAYED Him AFTERWARDS. Such PEOPLE will be REWARDED THROUGH PUNISHMENT of the SPIRIT, SOUL, and BODY. 😪 Is this not the very revelation of God's righteous disposition? Isn't this the PURPOSE of GOD in JUDGING MAN, and REVEALING him? GOD will SEND ALL that DO ALL KINDS of EVIL DEEDS IN the TIME of JUDGMENT to a PLACE INHABITED by EVIL SPIRITS, and ALLOW these EVIL SPIRITS to DESTROY their FLESH as they WISH, and their BODY will smell incense. That is their due reward. 😪🙏😪 GOD WRITE in their RECORDS BOOKS EVERY ONE of the SINS of those UNFAITHFUL and FALSE BELIEVERS, FALSE APOSTLES, and FALSE WORKERS; then, at the RIGHT TIME, He will THROW THEM into the MIDDLE of UNFINE SPIRITS, and ALLOW these UNFINE SPIRITS to DEFINE THEIR WHOLE BODY as they WISH, SO THAT THEY CAN NEVER GET A HUMAN BODY AGAIN and NEVER SEE AGAIN LIGHT FOREVER. ☀️😪😪 Those HYPOCRITES who once SERVED BUT DID NOT STAY FAITHFUL UNTIL the END are COUNTED by GOD among the WICKED and will be PART of their DISORDERLY GROUP; in the LAST, GOD WILL DESTROY them. God sets aside and ignores those who have NEVER been FAITHFUL to CHRIST or NEVER GAVE ANY EFFORT, and He WILL DESTROY THEM ALL at the CHANGE OF THE AGE. They will NEVER EXIST on EARTH, and even more CANNOT ENTER the KINGDOM of GOD. ☀️ Those who have never been faithful to God, but are forced by their circumstances to face Him urgently, are counted among those who serve for His people. ONLY a FEW of THOSE PEOPLE WILL SURVIVE, WHILE MOST WILL DIE along with those WHO PROVIDED the SERVICE that DID NOT MEET the STANDARD. ☀️ In the END, GOD WILL BRING into His KINGDOM ALL PEOPLE WHOSE MINDS are in ACCORDANCE with GOD, the PEOPLE and the CHILDREN of GOD, and ALSO THOSE that GOD APPOINTED to BE PRIESTS. 🙏 They will be the FRUIT of the CLEANSING FROM GOD'S WORK. 💐🙏🙏 As for those who do not belong to any category laid down by God, they will be counted among those NON-BELIEVERS-----and you can surely imagine what will be their fate. ☀️ I HAVE TOLD YOU ALL I HAVE TO SAY; you DECIDE which PATH you will CHOOSE. What YOU MUST UNDERSTAND is this: GOD'S WORK NEVER WAITS for ANYONE WHO DOESN'T JOIN Him, and GOD'S RIGHTEOUS DISPOSITION SHOWS NO MERCY to ANY MAN. 🙏 From "Christ Does the Work of Judgment Through Truth". Fulfillment of "When I looked up, someone handed me a book wrapped in a scroll. I opened it and I read on both sides the prayers, sorrows, and curses." (Ezekiel 2:9-10). ... "His garment was stained with blood. He was called the "Word of God" (Rev. 19:13). The kingdom He brought down and set up in the highest in the sky so that it can occupy His creation in the universe and engrave on it the entirety of His Holy name "THE CHURCH OF ALMIGHTY GOD" 💐 fulfillment of (Mat. 16:18) "And I say as for you, you are Peter, on top of this rock I will build my Church, that even the power of death will not be able to overcome it.". ... and "The Letter to the Church in Philadelphia" (Rev. 3:7-13). ... And fulfillment of "The New Jerusalem" 💫 (Rev. 21:10) "The Spirit enveloped me, and the angel led me to the top of a very high mountain. He showed Me Jerusalem, the Holy City, which coming down from heaven from God." (1 Peter 4:17) "For the time has come in the house of God for the beginning of judgment in the house of God." 📩 Calling and leading the sheep of God to His glorious Throne "THE CHURCH OF ALMIGHTY GOD"💐 to submit again to His authority so that He will continue to teach, guide and protect even in plague, famine and wild animals will not be moved by it and completely win this final battle with the big red dragon! "They say with a loud voice, "Salvation comes from the Lamb, and from our God who sits on the Throne!" (Rev. 7:10). ... "But you are a chosen race, a company of royal priests, a a nation dedicated to God, a people belonging to God to declare the wonderful things he has done. He is the one who calls you out of darkness into wonderful light." (1 Peter 2:9). ... and fulfillment that it will be built above the sky/KZbin in (Isaiah 2:2) "In the Last Day, the mountain on which Jehovah's temple stands will stand out above all the mountains. All nations will flock there. " 📨 💌
@zarmindrow5831
@zarmindrow5831 9 ай бұрын
You're very welcome.
@silverdove88
@silverdove88 9 ай бұрын
Hmm, I think it may be helpful for the message to be more nuanced. For our goals and intentions, while privacy is so important at times and helps us protect our dreams, sharing them with others at times is what we need to keep them alive and strong. The wisdom to know when to keep private and when to share and with who is the wisdom we gain from living.
@pixelschiebr
@pixelschiebr 9 ай бұрын
exactly what I think!
@solchau1
@solchau1 8 ай бұрын
Not sure what or how I can talk and be relatable to others if I'm supposed to keep the only things I'm legitimately interested in private. I guess we're all supposed to be a bunch of bullshit artists then and to keep our secret to ourselves so they don't try to weaponize our own insecurities against us.
@silverdove88
@silverdove88 8 ай бұрын
That’s how I felt for a long time - because I was in a place where how I connected and spoke was triggering to the vast majority of people because my vibes carried a lot of unresolved and unprocessed stuff - but after a long journey, I’ve found some ways to connect and share some things with some people that feels mutually supportive & nourishing. Sending
@BlinkinFirefly
@BlinkinFirefly 8 ай бұрын
Totally
@ayumisae6864
@ayumisae6864 8 ай бұрын
@@solchau1spot on 👏
@philvale5724
@philvale5724 8 ай бұрын
Telling your friends and family, and explaining a problem with relationship, it’s probably good for the soul and mind to try and get release, but ends up coming back and stabbing you in the back from your friends and family that betrayed you, I’m now in my 70s, I now live alone and I do not speak to anybody anymore, silence is Golden, and where I live in the French countryside I’ve got Tranquility, I can listen to the river I can listen to music and nobody can disturb me, being loyal, and faithful to somebody for so many years to find out that they have been preparing to do great harm to you,
@santiagoa.7879
@santiagoa.7879 8 ай бұрын
Everytime I've got the chance to spread this information, I've felt like betraying myself Portaying this lesson in such an explicit way is a gift from the creator. Thanks
@stromboli183
@stromboli183 9 ай бұрын
0:38 1. Intentions 0:53 2. Personal goals 1:08 3. Charitable deeds 1:23 4. Training and practice 1:39 5. Family affairs 1:54 6. Wealth and possessions 2:10 7. Spiritual experiences
@fionnmcnessa
@fionnmcnessa 6 ай бұрын
Thank you he was annoying the life out of me
@shanehumberstone5262
@shanehumberstone5262 5 ай бұрын
8.genitals
@debbie6533
@debbie6533 9 ай бұрын
We are all therapists so being a good listener is key. You would be surprised how many are either experiencing the same things you are or have good ideas how to deal or resolve it
@RaulDukeKnife
@RaulDukeKnife 8 ай бұрын
We are NOT all therapists.
@PowDJoke
@PowDJoke 8 ай бұрын
We can all have a therapeutic effect, we’re not therapist though. Maybe that’s what you meant
@russellritchings8082
@russellritchings8082 7 ай бұрын
If people really followed all this advice, the internet/ social media as we know it would never exist. What a wonderful world that would be.
@Rollwithit699
@Rollwithit699 8 ай бұрын
It's a good idea to never share your phobias with a friend or partner. By sharing these weaknesses with others, you give them power to scare you or threaten you, should their loyalties change.
@conwoo1
@conwoo1 9 ай бұрын
❤ This! People share way to much with social media, it gets you confuse on your own thoughts and inner soul! Trust God, that is all you need! Share with him!
@xib
@xib 9 ай бұрын
Keeping goals, intentions and achievements private refrains yourself from getting feedback. All of the aforesaid should be fluid and adjustable based on knowledge you gain yourself or through others.
@bidibum
@bidibum 9 ай бұрын
Underrated comment here
@misspriss2482
@misspriss2482 9 ай бұрын
Fair, but be very careful who those people are. You'd be surprised at who is and isn't your friend. Some people are only friends with you because they feel superior to you. Sadly, the people you trust the most are the best at sabotaging you. They're afraid of change so they might discourage you. Also, they know your fears, weaknesses, and vulnerabilities and know how to prey on them.
@dalehood1846
@dalehood1846 9 ай бұрын
Very true. If more people would just step back before they share personal details, and watch how the people act toward others, the could save themselves a LOT of heartache.
@CTN404
@CTN404 8 ай бұрын
I have no trouble keeping these details close to my heart. People who need to talk about these things to anybody seem to want attention, sympathy or an ego boost. In their mind they are “helping” by sharing. But they are making themselves vulnerable to enemies and jealousy giving by giving too much information.
@PositiveEnergy733
@PositiveEnergy733 8 ай бұрын
Dear everyone, I wish you peace inside your soul. We are all light and all connected, don’t be scare, all gonna be ok. Your futur gonna be fantastic because you are fantastic. Thank you so much for your reading.
@lukedaniell
@lukedaniell 9 ай бұрын
"Never tell anybody outside the family what you're thinking." -- Zen Corleone
@michelles1422
@michelles1422 9 ай бұрын
😃 yes godfather
@sharonsomers
@sharonsomers 9 ай бұрын
I don't even tell them, some family will screw you over worse than strangers ever could.
@emmyo6678
@emmyo6678 9 ай бұрын
I don't think it should be discussed within the family either.
@emmyo6678
@emmyo6678 9 ай бұрын
Lovely. Advice from a murdering mafia. 😳 LukeDaniel you needs a higher source for guidance.
@michelles1422
@michelles1422 9 ай бұрын
@@emmyo6678 Take a chill pill 💊
@yoditc7097
@yoditc7097 9 ай бұрын
I absolutely believe this! I don’t know why in the US everything is shared even to strangers.
@TheTiscali1
@TheTiscali1 9 ай бұрын
I noticed that is this an American things to tell everyone your personal business? 😊
@yoditc7097
@yoditc7097 8 ай бұрын
Too much personal information shared yes@@TheTiscali1
@jackfrey6239
@jackfrey6239 8 ай бұрын
This sounds to me like, never be vulnerable and you will never get hurt.
@christinejohnson2839
@christinejohnson2839 8 ай бұрын
This should be part of the log on screen for every form of social media. Have it where you can't continue to the log on without hearing this - no way to "skip".
@ChristiannaGoyanes-id5op
@ChristiannaGoyanes-id5op 9 ай бұрын
So don’t inspire others, don’t collaborate with others to reach your goals, do be scared of being judged, misunderstood etc.. sooo zen!!
@runequester6834
@runequester6834 9 ай бұрын
I think this video was speaking to people with friendly enemies, more than people who have a knack at establishing true friendships.
@sherryw4354
@sherryw4354 9 ай бұрын
I agree with all except: #5- “Your Family Affairs”. We hear all too often children/adults who are in abusive and toxic families and this rule makes one feel shamed in reaching out to others for help who are not within the family dynamic. This rule is antiquated and needs to not be apart this!!!
@Icemario87
@Icemario87 9 ай бұрын
Define family. Genetics does not make a family. Oaths do. The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb -Jesus
@michaelr5606
@michaelr5606 9 ай бұрын
You’re talking about an exception not the rule. There is nothing antiquated about the rule.
@macaroll
@macaroll 9 ай бұрын
​@@Icemario87Thank you! This is a great reminder. And the above post as well! ❤
@ladyfallon
@ladyfallon 8 ай бұрын
If you study more about the Seven Rules, then the rule about sharing family affairs isn't about preventing people from reaching out for help when they need help. Rather, the rule is about backbiting, a.k.a., telling strangers or even other family members what happens between you & your spouse in the bedroom, for example, or being nice to your mother-in-law but then talking negatively about her to your side of the family whenever she leaves the room (which prevents her from defending herself from your fasle statements & it also causes your side of the family to form negative biases against her). Sharing family affairs with strangers also starts gossip, and we all know how gossip quickly grows AND changes, & before we know it, the entire family has become broken.
@shiverfae1
@shiverfae1 8 ай бұрын
@@ladyfallon In theory, yes, but it is used too often as a tool to keep abused people silent. It happens far more than people realize. It creates guilt about speaking out.
@deksasRipps
@deksasRipps 8 ай бұрын
Its true these the less of private life you share the better you gonna be. There is a lot of things you can talk about instead of that, in some cases if you dont have anything to say, just chill😊. People not always need to get answers. I screwed up few times sharing to much of my life, never again! Have a good day🌅☀️👊
@SithCelia
@SithCelia 8 ай бұрын
This is pretty much common sense. In a world where nearly everyone has to share every little thing about themselves, whether it's all the good things they're doing or how well off they are, I think that remaining mysterious to others is the ultimate rejection of their cultish practices. They may find one boring for that, but it's precisely how I can separate the genuine humans I want to know from those who are just posturing for validation.
@emmyo6678
@emmyo6678 9 ай бұрын
I agree with all of these especially charitable deeds done quietly. No one knows what I do...not even husband. That's how charity should be otherwise the ego takes hold and corrupts it. 🙏🏾
@allgoodnamesarebusy
@allgoodnamesarebusy 9 ай бұрын
Ever heard of a "Volunteer computing"?
@dragonfly9209
@dragonfly9209 9 ай бұрын
I agree...I tell no one.
@sarafisher9408
@sarafisher9408 9 ай бұрын
Totally agree with you… if you shout about the good works you have done it becomes an ego-boosting exercise..
@tsb7911
@tsb7911 9 ай бұрын
@@sarafisher9408 Very impressive. I try to strive for that. Sometimes I blurt it out though. I shoveled my 80 year old neighbors snow when he was away. When he came back, I saw him smile, and "had" to tell him.
@Icemario87
@Icemario87 9 ай бұрын
"not even husband" what benefit does it bring you to live a secret life your husband has no awareness of? What if he was secretly being extra charitable with an 18 year old woman?
@sugerlipsxjamiewright4170
@sugerlipsxjamiewright4170 9 ай бұрын
It is very hard to put trust in someone However when you find that I believe your wealth is beyond measure .
@elwea7434
@elwea7434 8 ай бұрын
i friend took his own life a while ago, he got a lot of things going on in his life but he keep them private until the last moment, what a legend, a true zen master.
@michaeldeierhoi4096
@michaeldeierhoi4096 8 ай бұрын
If one can follow these simple precepts about life then one can begin to appreciate the inner peace that can come from living in the world, but choosing not to be a part of it. This is a valuable principle to remember because the world is so full of greed and corruption and is constantly enticing us with pretty things that can distract from following our own path.
@28105wsking
@28105wsking 9 ай бұрын
A great master in India told us: "Never speak about these things or you will lose them: Your relationship and devotion to God, you family relationships, your wife, your money, your intentions, and the things you love. Jealousy has ears to listen and destroy."
@marthaeceiza1289
@marthaeceiza1289 9 ай бұрын
😢 Sad but true. Even siblings knowing what you have coming and steal your inheritance and even try to steal your children but failed becaused they love ME.
@nandiphazwane135
@nandiphazwane135 9 ай бұрын
@bkreed27
@bkreed27 9 ай бұрын
What was his name?
@28105wsking
@28105wsking 9 ай бұрын
@@bkreed27 It is customary saying in Indian culture taught to us by that yogi. There are many yogis.
@TheMisterGuy
@TheMisterGuy 9 ай бұрын
"Never speak about these things or you will lose them: Your relationship and devotion to God, you family relationships, your wife, your money, your intentions, and the things you love. Jealousy has ears to listen and destroy." That's just nonsense. You can be openly religious for your whole life. You can speak about your family relationships or your wife without losing them. Just a cursory examination of these words of wisdom and a quick glance at the real world debunks them.
@foreverloved5979
@foreverloved5979 9 ай бұрын
I've learned to be silent now because everything is not for any and everybody. Thank you for this message of confirmation 💜✨
@newenglandscrambler2262
@newenglandscrambler2262 8 ай бұрын
It has taken me a lifetime to learn this and I wholeheartedly agree.
@wsukradio6071
@wsukradio6071 8 ай бұрын
I like the goals and intentions part, since it really is better not to seek approval for your dreams and plans, but I feel like there’s no real reason not to share your spiritual experiences with others, especially when you can help them open their eyes to bigger things! And if you can, you should! Especially since God is the force of Goodness in the world and communicating with Him opens doors like crazy so 🤷‍♀️
@28FlyingDutchman
@28FlyingDutchman 9 ай бұрын
Trust no one, don't burden anyone with your problems or hardships, put others first at all times, and keep your nose out of other's business.
@kiah7567
@kiah7567 9 ай бұрын
I say be confident and strong enough to share it all …. and then create boundaries with those who are negative and do not have an issue with blocking them or removing them from your life. Sharing most of these things to various degrees can be a big inspiration to others ( and living in your Truth and being Centered and Grounded does not have to mean boasting or trying to get approval from others …. it is possible to be humble and walk with Inner Peace while also expressing to the world your True and Authentic self ) …. and when you are on the right frequency the Universe has a way of putting certain people or things on our paths that are a part of our healing and purpose. Being quiet and being in Meditation is helpful as well and should be a daily practice. Ultimately though do not be afraid the Shine …. and do not allow anyone to dull your Light. 😌🙏💫🕊
@jcjcviews
@jcjcviews 8 ай бұрын
Some things are hidden that damage others without recognizing that such a thing is possible.
@sifuculreif6448
@sifuculreif6448 8 ай бұрын
These were all true a thousand years ago. Nowadays, I'd say only half of them are good secrests to keep.
@KidFresh71
@KidFresh71 9 ай бұрын
This is great advice! I've basically broken all seven of these tenants in my life, but vow to do better going forward.
@jenniferwells2291
@jenniferwells2291 9 ай бұрын
It's sad to know that people have been so awful since the beginning and that we still have to protect ourselves against those who call family and friends
@melpineapple3611
@melpineapple3611 8 ай бұрын
Unfortunately our youth learn this the hard way after displaying their lives publicly all over social. As a society we put literally everything on the internet now, and we’re not teaching our kids the value of privacy. This is prob sky why they’re all anxious and depressed. “The silent way is the best way” is something my mom says that her father said. I try to live by that.
@BlinkinFirefly
@BlinkinFirefly 8 ай бұрын
Sounds like words about being private from people who have a habit of being private. That's all well and good I suppose. I believe in a balance of everything. And I believe even privacy can become a burden. It can be good to speak of your life openly at times. Be private. Or be open. But mostly, be what feels good and right to you. That's my two cents.
@jimboy419
@jimboy419 9 ай бұрын
I think it's better to discuss your intentions and goals with other people, especially close friends or spouses because they can give you advice which you can accept or reject.
@chris__10
@chris__10 9 ай бұрын
Personally, most people I've shared these with are intent on knocking my confidence. I can handle this now, but as a child/ teenager, grownups were completely unsupportive
@jimboy419
@jimboy419 9 ай бұрын
@@chris__10 I hope you meet more supportive people in your life! Parents can be lousy but it's only 2 people.
@meghanmurphy3623
@meghanmurphy3623 9 ай бұрын
Yes! Of course. Everything ever written about changing things advises you to speak to someone. This is AI generated nonsense, not related to anything in “Zen.” A “zen master” telling you how to keep your wealth? Uh, no. That’s the dead giveaway. Here’s a real zen teaching, one that you’d be taugh to sit with day after day: “it is my nature to be sick, it is my nature to get old, it is my nature to die.” Nothing about clinging to family relations, wealth. I can’t even believe these trash videos -and there are hundreds spouting the same exact nonsense! All proliferated recently, all cartoons-are viewed by so many who are like oh yeah ok that’s so Zen.
@Pkilla80
@Pkilla80 8 ай бұрын
Why do you need the advice of others for your personal goals? Are they you? These are your personal goals. You're missing the entire point
@futuza
@futuza 8 ай бұрын
​@@Pkilla80Because sometimes we lack the vision to see flaws in our goals and our egos get in the way of letting us pursue more realistic or worthy goals. No one has to go at life alone, honest sincere friends can give us feedback about goals, as well as encourage us when living up to them is difficult. Obviously, a stranger or untrustworthy acquaintance doesn't deserve to hear such things, but close true friends that will lovingly support you can help when you share such things in a private setting.
@nc956
@nc956 9 ай бұрын
First two and the fourth are strongly contestable tbh. Facing judgement is not necessarily bad. And sharing your training experiences in a right and humble way can set others for a similar path of self-dicovery.
@solealicious
@solealicious 9 ай бұрын
You are correct!
@Mossy-Rock
@Mossy-Rock 8 ай бұрын
Agreed. I have a problem with "do this, don't do that" lists. Obviously you don't boast about your charitable deeds and certainly not your wealth and possessions, but the rest of them depends on the situation and who you're talking to.
@kcrawford521
@kcrawford521 8 ай бұрын
I was changed radically by a single moment with Jesus that is still mind blowing to this day.. and I have to agree with every word in this video. I couldn't stop talking about my experience, it was so real, I knew it was Jesus, even tho I hadn't thought about God many years.. by sharing my story, I couldn't hold on to that faith.. the harder I tried to prove how real it was, the more I would question my own sanity.. that is until many more moments through the years that would only strengthen my beliefs. Keeping it all to myself was difficult, but ultimately allowed me to treasure those intimate moments. It only gets better from there
@obscurum6
@obscurum6 8 ай бұрын
Number one makes no sense unless you are a manipulative person as to have normal human relationships you have to share your intentions sometimes. Two makes no sense as most dreams and goals involve the help and cooperation from those around you. Four makes no sense as many people enjoy learning things like yoga with others. It is silly to say it is an advantage to keep that sort of thing a secret. 🙄 Five is dangerous and is telling partners or children that they must keep quiet about abuse if it is within the family. Seven contradicts the whole list as it says not to share spiritual growth with anyone but the whole f**king list is posted online and stated by someone called a "Zen master". Geez. 🙄😆 The whole list is written from the perspective of a distrustful, paranoid father figure type with covert malignant narcissism. 🙄
@obscurum6
@obscurum6 8 ай бұрын
@@preriowy It doesn't necessarily mean they have mental illness. It is more likely they have been indoctrinated in Christianity and they are daydreaming their wish fulfilment. A lot of people have dreams about Jesus but most would dismiss it and even laugh at it, it is those who are suggestible and religious who will be more into it.
@michellestella7477
@michellestella7477 8 ай бұрын
Please seek help
@salauerman7082
@salauerman7082 8 ай бұрын
Jesus does still speak to people. It’s not imagination.
@kcrawford521
@kcrawford521 8 ай бұрын
Your comments would have really hurt me 10 years ago.. I would have said the same things you are all saying.. it changed after I was forced to give birth to my son, who was stillborn 3 days before my scheduled C-section. I could tolerate the pain I in physically, from surgery and rock hard breast full of useless milk. Worse than that, it was unbearablegoing back home where he had a nursery, crib, closet full of clothes I'd been picturing him in.. I wanted to die so badly and I was trying to speed the process.. I was taking huge amounts of Xanax every night to sleep through the night..and was hoping not to wake up the next morning.. so it was mind blowing when I was suddenly jolted out of sleep at 3 am. All I could do was sob uncontrollably into my husband's back.. it wasn't an "appearance"..more of a presence. I had no words for what happened, still don't really. It caused a huge change of heart... new way of thinking. It ignited something in me, giving me the strength to overcome.. Being insulted and humiliated took the spark away and really left me deflated. So I learned to keep it to myself so I don't risk losing my faith again, it's the only thing that helps me get by..
@Lightning-speed27
@Lightning-speed27 8 ай бұрын
SRI CHINMOY : "Silence has energy. Silence has strength. Silence is a God-fulfilment-promise".
@DistracticusPrime
@DistracticusPrime 9 ай бұрын
"I say something so wrong, just to have something to say." -Billy Joel
@aronkelley8634
@aronkelley8634 9 ай бұрын
No matter what you believe in, or what your faith is, I think there’s things in life that aren’t meant to be shared. Some parts of your life, need to remain a mystery. 👍😎👍
@maryjohnson7704
@maryjohnson7704 6 ай бұрын
I totally agree about Number 6, hiding ones wealth. I never hid my wealth with my ex and my ex in laws and they all ate me out of house and home
@Tungkinhphatphap_
@Tungkinhphatphap_ 5 ай бұрын
I don't know who needs to hear this but whatever is worrying you right now, forget about it. Take a deep breath, stay positive, and know that things will get better💖
@hamsterGoneCrazy
@hamsterGoneCrazy 9 ай бұрын
A disciple tended to his zen-master and asked: 'Master, what are good zen-stories made of?' The zen-master replied: 'A zen-master replies.' 'Thank you for this wisdom' the disciple said and went his way.
@Icemario87
@Icemario87 9 ай бұрын
@@psi.pierina A zen-master and a zen-story are zen-made up of zen-answers for your zen-self to zen-assimilate into your zen-conscience.
@msh6865
@msh6865 9 ай бұрын
More people on social media should embrace #6.
@donaldedgar1004
@donaldedgar1004 7 ай бұрын
May the lord hod bless us all and may we be for ever grateful for you being with us ❤ amen 🙏
@Wisdominword
@Wisdominword 7 ай бұрын
😍
@patrickjcarangelo587
@patrickjcarangelo587 5 ай бұрын
Absolutely Amen 🙏❤️☺️
@deesmith5304
@deesmith5304 9 ай бұрын
I unfortunately get judged and treated like an outsider for trying to do these things but I still believe the loneliness is still worth the outcome.
@renaissancemillennial8733
@renaissancemillennial8733 8 ай бұрын
Same.
@richardwallace1405
@richardwallace1405 8 ай бұрын
the beauty of getting old is not giving a damn. i dont need anyones approval anymore. neither do you- fuck 'em.
@PiromancerFreak
@PiromancerFreak 8 ай бұрын
All of these things are personal. It sounds like you're in the wrong crowd if you're surrounded by people who are expecting to delve into your personal affairs.
@katharina...
@katharina... 8 ай бұрын
You *are* an outsider if you follow this advice though. There's no way for anyone to know you, relate to you or support you unless you reveal who you are, what your goals are and what you do to improve yourself. If you want a sense of belonging, you need to share a bit of yourself with others. If you're not willing to do that, you need to accept that while the advice presented in this video will keep you relatively safe, it will never lead to a sense of community or belonging, as these require strength, resilience and willingness to take risks.
@James.Payne.
@James.Payne. 8 ай бұрын
I totally agree 💯
@lainaverse
@lainaverse 9 ай бұрын
It's okay to share these things when you're intentional about it. People learn from each other and gain new experiences by observing. You don't need to share EVERYTHING or the depths of your own experiences, but if you seek to give value to others as an educator, you must lead by example.
@chrisnaylor6814
@chrisnaylor6814 8 ай бұрын
Never tell someone you like them, it could be used to be weaponized against you in the form of manipulation or to embarrass you. It could also scare that person off before any true bonds of friendship can develop! Allow the actions of like speak loudly than saying the words with acts of kindness, and let the feelings grow naturally... And if it doesn't, the universe has better plans for you in the future with the person you are meant to be with ❤
@sally-annparker6744
@sally-annparker6744 8 ай бұрын
I feel that this video is saying ‘Never open up to others’. I get being judicious with whom you share but a trouble shared is a trouble halved and it’s by sharing in general that intimacy and connection, essential for humans, grow.
@Mookiethedog
@Mookiethedog 9 ай бұрын
Funny how others would tell you the complete opposite for some. Life does have cloudy moments for sure ❤
@Mookiethedog
@Mookiethedog 9 ай бұрын
@@jackdotblue ✌️♥️
@7Stark
@7Stark 8 ай бұрын
Balance is the key. There are things we must learn in silence, but we're also here to teach others, there are several people that are new to this planet, specially children.
@rachelmunns2862
@rachelmunns2862 9 ай бұрын
I completely agree with 3 and mostly with 6, although with exceptions like offering to share. I think intentional sharing with loved ones whom you trust can be beneficial for both or all. The key word is intentional, at the right time, for the right reasons, and with the right people. That being said, it's rarely a bad idea to be quiet and listen. Peace and love my fellow humans.
@santaolivia1339
@santaolivia1339 8 ай бұрын
I agree. I feel that keeping most of my photos and travel experiences private maintains their sacredness. This is hard for people to understand in the social media age.
@bobbybanks7554
@bobbybanks7554 8 ай бұрын
Thank you I'm already on the right path 🕊️
@classiccorporation5278
@classiccorporation5278 9 ай бұрын
I never heard of this before but I do try to live by these guidelines. Let me tell you it feels good to know I’m on the right track.
@robe2504
@robe2504 9 ай бұрын
But telling everyone this breaks at least 3 of them?
@Carcajou72
@Carcajou72 9 ай бұрын
Well, you're not. You left the right track behind some time ago.
@TheDoctorofOdoIsland
@TheDoctorofOdoIsland 9 ай бұрын
I'm a Latter Day Saint and I was immediately struck by how much this Zen counsel matched what Latter Day Saints have always been taught to value, especially keeping spiritual experiences private.
@fictitiousnightmares
@fictitiousnightmares 9 ай бұрын
Now if you would only keep the rest of your shit private we could all live a normal life. Nobody wants you knocking on their doors and preaching to them.
@michaelr5606
@michaelr5606 9 ай бұрын
Truth is universal. Most people are hooked into their thing, in your case that’s LDS but a good way to find truth is find what’s universal. It’s very obvious when you find two competing ideologies that have strong differences except 1 or 2 things they agree on. Pay attention to those 1 or 2 things because they’re probably true.
@TheDoctorofOdoIsland
@TheDoctorofOdoIsland 9 ай бұрын
@@michaelr5606 It's precisely because the Latter Day Saints deal in universal truths that I chose to be one; it's comprehensive. Every other tradition asks me to give up some of those truths.
@kimcapri9178
@kimcapri9178 9 ай бұрын
The Sadducees wanted recognition for their spiritual authorities and true philanthropy is anonymous.
@saffanna4001
@saffanna4001 6 ай бұрын
The trouble in contemporary society (particularly through social media) is we're all encouraged / rewarded for verbal incontinence and showing off.
@CourtneyAverett
@CourtneyAverett 8 ай бұрын
Spiritual experiences is one of the biggest ones. I learned the hard way why it's better to be private about this.
@maggiehaines2203
@maggiehaines2203 9 ай бұрын
Givers give and takers take Live And Learn ❤️
@Carcajou72
@Carcajou72 9 ай бұрын
Oh, that's just brilliant. Who would have thought.
@James1-9-7-8
@James1-9-7-8 9 ай бұрын
What a life when every thought requires intense scrutiny before committing to utterance!
@vipahman
@vipahman 7 ай бұрын
My wife is a wise zen master. She has kept all her affairs to herself.
@greebat
@greebat 7 ай бұрын
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