8 Ways to Handle People Who Don’t Respect You | MORDERN STOICSM

[@onestoicus]

Loved the point about staying calm when others try to provoke! Nothing throws people off more than not giving them the reaction they crave. Silence speaks louder than any comeback could.

[@eliezersosa5218]

Agreed!

[@LoidaCastro-Santos]

I am a victim of a toxic coworker, and the worst part of it was I got her to where she is now. This stoism is so powerful as a guide on how to handle my own peace

[@vickykramer4315]

This principle is true! I have been there with my husband and his rude remarks and mental and verbal abuse. Some of my husband's children, also show me disrespect. I will and follow this principle. If you don't practice this principle, you will always be there Charlie Brown.

[@StoicWisdom-3368]

The power of boundaries is everything. Silence speaks volumes when words aren't worth the energy. Thanks for the reminder!

[@stoicstoriesus]

I appreciated how you explained that protecting your peace isn't selfish, it's essential. It’s something we all need to hear, especially when we feel guilty about walking away from toxic situations. Learning to prioritize my mental well-being has already brought so much more clarity and peace into my life.

[@StoicWithYou]

"Honestly, I used to think setting boundaries was something only parents did at 8 p.m. But after this, I’m convinced it's the adult version of saying, 'Do not disturb.' Much appreciated, Stoic Secrets; you might just save

[@Princessorvillian]

I had an incident of disrespect moments b4 I found this video and I thought it was fantastic. Very thought provoking and I am going to set my boundaries because of your advice Thank you!

[@JeffTietema-v9n]

I love you

[@ViaVix3n]

I have found these lessons and this channel, greatly enriching. Thank you.

[@nekaswallow2092]

🙏✨👍 l love listening to this it's very relaxing and ease my mind and really appreciate it.thank you👍 💖✨ very much ..🙌 thank you

[@StoicPerson0312]

Absolutely! Staying calm and composed when provoked is like mastering an unshakable inner fortress. It not only throws others off but also preserves your peace and power. Silence truly is a statement in itself-one of control, strength, and wisdom. Let them wonder while you rise above! 🙌✨

[@TheElt876]

Its amazing. ive actually witnessed and experienced people trying to trigger me, and when I responded with silence, you could see the shame and defeat on their faces. Their shoulders literally slumped in defeat. And theIr behavior changed. In my case, I didn't have to walk away. Walk away not to escape, BUT TO ELEVATE.

[@ginali9034]

I am stoic. Greatly appreciate your channel full of wisdom.

[@theresavollath]

May the truth be told. Us woman we suffer the most. From our husband and children. Thank you for this lovely programme ❤❤❤

[@gasmith7486]

Love, romance, relationships, marriage and kids are overrated!

[@sebastiankureekattils6524]

There is no gender barrier for disrespect. There are plenty of people with venom in male and female human existence. This is my experience from past 60 odd years😮

[@icsmile]

I learned years ago that there are times when doing nothing is the right course to take. I also found that if someone was purposely trying to provoke you, be ready because if they were expecting a reaction and didn't get it, quite often they will try again. This time it will be more intense or grandiose than the first time and they like to have an audience. This is when you continue to do nothing and they have humiliated not you but themselves

[@JeffTietema-v9n]

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[@JeffTietema-v9n]

Kevin Lovell is a serious man who has been bothering me since day one of my best friends in her lives and the other people sure gather around me let everyone off easy times and I see ❤😅of them

[@JeffTietema-v9n]

Kevin I love you these kids a MEN

[@JeffTietema-v9n]

Kevin Lovell is my cousin Kevin Colton is my Son

[@theresavollath]

Not anymore. I walked away. Cause of disrespect. Thank you 😊

[@TheStoicGoldenRule]

Easier said than done. In real life, silence and setting boundaries don't always work. Some people just don't respect anything, no matter what you do.

[@KevinKKKKKK]

walk away

[@Respect2theFallen]

Truth.

[@Gregorylinn-b6z]

once said, that's it. let them run rabbits and howl at the moon.

[@charisma4200]

Indeed

[@mercijoy3006]

As for me, walking away means cutting them off from your life. They will try very hard to get back in your life. Blocking every entrance worked for me. They invited me, but I was not available. They asked me to do something for them, but I was not available, saying my schedule did not permit me to be available for you. I do not call if they call you do not pick up. When I call back, I am cold on the phone. I do not acknowledge birthdays or special occasions. It stops for a while. When they reach out again, I repeat the same routine. I do not hang out where I know they will be if they are someone who does not take a hit. I keep silent and disappear.

[@rosanelson1373]

I would rather walk away than to continuosly feel drained.

[@poonsrisrethaphakdi5776]

Stop associates, wasteing your time, walks away silently, no second chance to those:(

[@StoicSpirit68]

It's amazing how prioritizing your inner peace can shift your entire perspective and lead to personal growth. Stoicism is a game-changer! Thankyou!

[@sebastiankureekattils6524]

The maturity of the teachings in this video is immensely appreciated. 🎉🎉🎉

[@debrarymer]

This is useful and well-taught. Thank you.

[@NextHorizon-f2o]

Respect is a two-way street, and how we respond to disrespect often defines our character. This video serves as a reminder that stoic principles guide us to rise above negativity with calmness and clarity. By focusing on our values and detaching from the opinions of others, we protect our inner peace and maintain our dignity. Thank you for sharing such empowering strategies-this wisdom is a beacon for anyone striving to navigate challenging relationships with grace and strength!

[@yvonnebasson8652]

I re-establish my boundaries at that point, and tell a narcissist that he/she is abusing me, they don't always realise they are abusive. Controlling people too, I tell them what they're doing, it's working

[@Philosophyoflife-PHD]

"The concept of silence as a tool for peace is so underrated. I can already see how it can completely shift the dynamic in tense situations. Thanks for this insightful perspective! (25:30)

[@YasminFisher-o9o]

Words of great wisdom!

[@DavidMcWherter]

The truth is that some creatures only respect violence...the universal truth among all living beings.

[@EmpressofChrist]

The toxic relatives so true .

[@hardyharhar5559]

Thank you for explaining these principals so that they're easy to understand. I'm stoic!!!

[@ValentinaKopriva]

Love this and your advice is great and I learn new things , Everything you teach I have been learnt from my mum.thank you

[@haitiqueen0119]

Easy. Dont acknowledge them nor their existences. Focus more on yourself than them, youll do and feel better😊

[@susanmercurio1060]

I am good at setting boundaries with others but I need to set boundaries with myself.

[@gasmith7486]

Ya that’s the hardest part.

[@BibiSaljoghi]

Thank you well defined

[@WendyAdlem]

I do behavour in this way , still very good to be reminded , just feeling down at the moment thanks

[@lizzyM-i1u]

I honestly take in what is being said I then decide whether they are being heart felt or deceitful. If heart felt I evaluate my self and if I see I was in the wrong I say so. If what they are saying is deceitful and disrespectful I respond if I can and let them know what I think and feel and that is usually enough because in the past I usually allowed the disrespect but not now I respond appropriately. Most people that are used to you allowing the disrespect won't think you will ever stand up for your self and when you do they will walk away themselves.

[@TheStoicCompass1]

Amazing how ideas from two thousand years ago are still so relevant today!

[@ravisandrasekera3799]

Great. If you give up the ego while maintaining your self-respect, life gets much easier. Hard to do but it works.

[@carolinesantiago6359]

Thank you...for your wisdom ❤

[@poonsrisrethaphakdi5776]

These kind of people crossed the LINE intentionally, period!!

[@mariolindarosa2136]

This video is powerful, however it easier said then done . keep up the excellent work

[@theresavollath]

IAM free from the people who disrespect me. Thank you. 4 years gone by. I don't speak or talk to her. That's my daughter in law. Happy today. Thank you ❤❤

[@gasmith7486]

I don’t talk to my own family members including my own adult children and siblings. Happier than ever now!

[@margaretwest647]

Thanks for sharing 🙏🏼

[@SomesaAn]

Life is nothing to compromise with disrespect people no need anxiety , no stressful, just live happily harmonious prosperity wealthier than ever before with no regrets & Smiling laughter😂🤣😄

[@theresavollath]

I have decided come families or otherwise. Amen glad for the decision I made. God is my witness 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@Cheechochic]

I have the complete opposite problem, I just sit there silent when I actually want to, Need to speak up. I just don't have it in me! So I'm just a easy walking target and draw awful people to unload on me since they know I won't fight back.

[@latristefrequency1173]

I Am Stoic

[@susancampbell7335]

Silence is loud. It is what I believe of myself that matters! Their opinion doesn't define me.

[@jandyboi]

i learned a lot from you

[@Pam-y6e]

This is what I need.

[@elizabethmuradzikwa5970]

Thank you at list I am learning

[@angelatarleton8895]

I really am trying to apply this information in my life. Especially with Thanksgiving is coming.

[@FunkeAdebomi]

I am stoic 🙏🏿

[@devonferron1742]

This is so good

[@michaelcorbin2540tCorbin-v2d]

Thank you

[@renoatwell5869]

A still tongue keeps a wise head

[@StaceyWhite-wn5sw]

I am stoic god bless you

[@debrabrown7334]

Keep me in form

[@luisveloz27]

Where were you all my life this is more helpful than the new testament

[@selmacharlesross5915]

I am stoic❤

[@Missdaisy247]

I'm being bullied by my driving instructor. It's 5 days to go until my test and I've been on the brink of quitting. You're saying until we stand up for ourselves we're going to be disrespected? But we cant say it in a confrontational way? Most of us that are targets are unsuspecting, wouldn't think we'd have to assert boundaries learning to drive or doing our jobs etc. By the time we're losing sleep over being bullied it's too late

[@tommyfengshui]

Tell your driving instructor to eat it and find a new one

[@bennynuts7494]

Lmfao i wish my only problem was my driving instructor from 20 years ago Literally problem over withon 1 hr damn Dont grow up and face problems that are caused and dig into your soul for eternity lmao

[@arunaibrahim1571]

I like the video

[@seekingwisdomearthbound]

Interesting 🤔

[@euniceibeh2873]

Sometimes silence does not work in toxic environments.

[@JudeNance]

I ignore it. I'm not responsible for their problems.

[@ClaudeVail-l9j]

I am stoic🎉

[@ElizabethMartinez-d1t]

How to use this when the negative toxic person is your child?

[@paulocabrerre2548]

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[@aetienedemaaraispiers5642]

There is no such thing as re venge in Stoicism... There is only justice....

[@lensaito]

im STOIC

[@IrvingCarr-hv4ej]

Not all the time ppl don't always respect ppl that respect they self

[@FranciscaMuru]

What will I do if my subordinate do not follow instruction

[@IanKlitte]

yes

[@davemills3856]

LOL in response to the question how do you handle people who disrespect you. Let me try to paraphrase an ancient verse in contemporary slang, agree quickly with your enemy, and then get the hell out of there LOL

[@lucindabaca549]

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[@Randall-o3d]

Depends how & who 😮

[@hanac2982]

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[@LXKeemProductions]

In thumbnail, they spelled handle as Handel lol Handel is a music composer. See its not about what happens to you, but how you handel it.

[@ronniejones615]

I am stoic

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I am stoick.

[@ilovecanines]

Handle is misspelled in your thumbnail.

[@flynneart1111]

Are you the voice in video

[@KevinKKKKKK]

its AI

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Spelling - handle

[@AbubakarMuhasinuSamori-bg5wo]

I will always be stoic student 😂😂😂

[@myrissalomon8278]

My Husband is the one who disrecfectme and my children he is lyer , manipulator ,

[@珊晶添良]

Cut 2017.so he can't do anything

[@motorcyclemad999]

"HANDEL"...who made this video? A 12 year old who skips English classes?

[@bobmateljan6986]

SHITE AI BAD TITLE - BLAH!

[@clouddancer46]

This is horrible advice especially 17 minutes in.

[@laylomaazimi7560]

Silence 🤐🙊 love peace always 🎬 🧩 🙌 💯 🪜 🌎 👍 🤍 🪜 🪄 🫒 😊❤

[@StoicRealms]

"How long are you going to wait before you demand the best for yourself?" - Epictetus

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[@theresavollath]

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I am stoic

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