80% of Divorces Are Filed By The Wife?!

Research shows that 70% to 80% of divorces are filed by the wife. In this video, I explore why women are so quick to run from their marriages and the solution to our severe lack of commitment.
If you enjoy the video, don't forget to give it a thumbs up and subscribe to my channel so that you are notified when I put out new content.
👉 Apply for a course consultation or paid one-on-one session with me here:
bit.ly/3vC10mm
👉 Free Happiness 101 Course for Women: bit.ly/48DYFpT
👉 Check out Escape the Alternative Health Matrix: / @escapethehealthmatrix
📞 Submit a question for a chance to be on the call-in show: bit.ly/3Vxmo5M
Thank you so much for supporting and being a part of my channel. I welcome comments, questions, and healthy debate. Please be open-minded, respectful, and kind toward each other in the comments.
#happywife, #marriageadvice, #women, #redpill
Disclaimer: The views and perspectives on relationships that are expressed in my videos and courses are meant for women married to good men and good men who are experiencing relationship issues within a range of behaviors that are common and usual - what you might reasonably expect your neighbors or friends to be going through behind closed doors. My message is not for aggressive, violent, or compulsive behaviors in a marriage or relationship that are threatening or dangerous. If you are experiencing such behaviors and/or physical abuse, you should seek a licensed mental health professional who is trained in dealing with domestic abuse.
Karyn Seitz and The Happy Wife School are not engaged in the practice of psychotherapy, clinical counseling, or any medical practice. You should not interpret any part of my videos as traditional psychological, medical, or emotional therapy. Karyn Seitz is not a licensed health professional. You should seek help for any specific psychological, medical, or emotional problems with a mental health professional or qualified physician.

[@hennessyblues4576]

I think one the best phrases on the issue that I've heard is "Women want the wedding, they just don't want the marriage. While men want the marriage, but don't want the wedding."

[@OCTAGRAM]

Wedding is the new dating, children is the new marriage

[@daves2520]

Very good!

[@chuckgoodman3828]

The marriage should take priority over the wedding! As usual, women have their priorities screwed up!

[@AnthonyManzio]

Never ever get married. A big waste of time. I'm 55 off the market. I've given up!

[@soubermed2175]

​@AnthonyManzio, how are all of those cats you've got there replacing Chad and Tyrone the same who pumped and dumbed ya

[@edwardc.8031]

"Why are women so quick to run?"....simple..there's a financial incentive.

[@esau93631]

Bingo

[@bruteboy123]

Not only that, a lot of women have probably already started to "getting to know someone" and have a rebound boy friend ready in the batter's box.

[@philosopher1a]

yup and ZERO negative consequences or so they think

[@rexhunt4824]

Prostitutes are cheeper

[@smellybogger]

Overreach of divorce courts definitely hurts everyone.

[@Dave-my1we]

I am a male baby boomer. My mother would tell me many things growing up to educate me on life. One was “if you find a girl who is hyper-focused on ‘her’ wedding ceremony don’t ever ask her to marry you.” I followed my mom’s advice and found a girl who really didn’t care about the wedding. Rather, she cared about the MARRIAGE. 35-years later, we are still married. Mom, even though you’ve been dead a decade: “Thanks”, you helped me find the right girl.

[@rootstriker8209]

God bless her, she really looked out for you bro.

[@jayc342009]

Your mum knew what women are like

[@greenwaste9060]

My mother once told me that love isn't everything. Bills gotta get paid.

[@jefftube58]

My father once advised me,"If you can find a woman that loves you, hold onto her."

[@chalkkey433]

Thanks 👍 You and your mum just helped me too

[@SoloRenegade]

Women: end 80% of marriages and deny the father access to his children Women: "why do men abandon their children?"

[@salj.5459]

And then they claim that "most men don't fight for custody of their children"

[@ZipMapp]

​@@salj.5459literal snakes

[@benjaminemery9305]

They make it too hard for the men to see their own children and then when they get new husband/boyfriend and the kids are asking or telling you they want to go home before you can get them to your cheap rental you can barely afford on your one weekend a month you start thinking that if they would rather be home with their mom and her new boyfriend and are happier there then you should just step aside so your kids can have a stable home and be happy since they don’t want to see you. This is because the ex wife constantly bashes you around the kids complaining about how bad you were. While you yourself try to be nice about the whole thing and your ex while you are around your children whether it’s private or public. So if all they ever hear is bad things about you and good things about her then naturally they don’t want to spend any time with you on your one weekend a month. If they are happier with you not around then what else are you supposed to do. Then you find out your ex is getting remarried so you move out of the way so your kids have a better chance at having a family and naturally your the despicable father for not ever wanting and abandoning your kids when all you were doing was trying to make everyone else happy as usual. My first marriage lasted almost seven years to the day. I lost a decent paying job as the owners got in trouble with the IRS and lost their business. I ended up having to take another job at half the pay I had been earning. Soon we were filing bankruptcy and a month later she filed divorce as she told me she could never decide if she married me for love or to get out of the house. After that I told God that I wanted a woman who wanted me for me and no other reason than that. That if I could not have that then I didn’t want to marry ever again. We are only a few months away from our thirty-first year. This is my second marriage.

[@josiahbutler2254]

@@salj.5459i studied law and that is true, most men do not fight for custody in court

[@Hi-Five-Ghost]

Women in lesbian marriages gave the same excuses that straight women gave for men. Clearly women are the problem.

[@Michael-kd1ud]

I never thought I would hear a woman say this. It is so refreshing to hear truth in an age of deception. Thank you

[@timothyswauger3984]

I was married for 15 years and felt my marriage was good and strong. One day my wife dropped the bomb on me that she was separating and eventually divorcing me because she was bored with her life. No matter what I suggested doing to solve the problems, she refused to try. To me, women have made marriage in the modern world a complete joke.

[@davidgrason161]

My wife did EXACTLY the same that your wife did. ...she dropped the bomb. Then she completely went "no contact" because she had intention of even trying to reconcile.

[@tizodd6]

There're a bunch of us out here, I'm sure. Mine told me after nine years that she "loved me, but wasn't in love with me anymore". I later found out she had been cheating with a co-worker. Meanwhile, I thought we were going to be together "till death do us part". They should change the vows to "till I get bored and need new 'tingles'", lol.

[@allenblack3785]

Not just a joke, a HUGE risk and liability.

[@garybulwinkle82]

A man that marries today is a fool!!!

[@hadiitiniguez2393]

I went through the same. I’m not alone. I don’t blame myself anymore. I’m not going to fall for that again.

[@wanderer5200]

"You are not the source of your wife's unhappiness." Excellent. This needed to be said and understood by this culture decades ago.

[@martinfiedler4317]

Think, the same goes the other way around. When I was freshly married, I definitively expected my wife to make me happy. She, of course, had her own issues and couldn't do that. Believe, that now I have learned my lesson. (She is still unhappy, btw...)

[@vikingmike8139]

Chad will be [her] new source of happiness.

[@DeadlyPlatypus]

Of course, the WOMEN need to understand this. That's the issue.

[@capenjck]

I don't think this is true in all cases. In some cases you are the source of her unhappiness. You can't make the blanket statement that men are never the problem. I do agree with the premise that people need to be happy with themselves before they can be happy with you though.

[@johnbrooks595]

Why I have NO intention of getting married. I'm afraid that my wife will get bored or "unhappy." I don't like being "disposable"

[@starguy2718]

It's *never* her fault.... ever. Accountability is kryptonite, to women.

[@brandonbp122]

This isn't true. The Biden administration is chocked full of women and they take accountability very seriously.

[@Tjikkko]

Exact

[@Random-rt5ec]

The female marriage counselor & my wife both agreed it was my fault she cheated

[@Mike-yq7ce]

@@Random-rt5ec why did you even agree to marriage counselling when she cheated? No surprise that was the counselor's conclusion to her cheating.

[@garybulwinkle82]

They even blame the original sin on the man (Adam), when it was the woman (Eve) that took the apple and ate of it then latter gave it to Adam. Yet they still blame Adam when it was Eve that was the guilty party!!! Men should be warned, women are the weak link, and the Devil will use them to take your eternal life!!!!

[@austinbrown5511]

My wife and I made each others' dreams our own goals. So, I made her dreams of owning a business my mission and vice versa. After 17 years of marriage, wonderful kids, beautiful home, we'd done it. Just needed to raise the children, pull up the rocking chairs and grow old together. She told me Dec 3 that she "finally got the courage" to leave. She said she'll always love me, but that she isn't in love with me (Karyn, please have a talk just on that). Turns out, she has been having an affair with a personal trainer since fall 2023. I just don't get it and I'm shattered.

[@pdhud]

Giving her everything often means she will get bored with you. She wants Chad and Tyrone because they won't give her everything.

[@pdhud]

Women will destroy their families because they are bored and unhappy. Men will sacrifice their happiness for their families.

[@khawajamazhar9188]

​​​@@pdhuddoesn't really matter what you give or don't give. She is not yours, it's just your time , till she find another monkey branch. Just remember, boredom is a real thang for women.

[@capenjck]

In my experience, I'm twice divorced, women start planning out their life as young girls. They dream of what their house will look like, the wedding dress, the cake, the guy, how their life will go. The only thing missing is the guy and when they find a guy, they fill the blank space in their plan with his name never giving any thought to the fact that the guy is an independent person with his own thoughts, dreams and desires. The conflict starts when you deviate from her plan.

[@elibennett6168]

Women are fed fairy tales and men fed adventure tales. But there are no prince charmings, but there can truly be adventure. If only women were fed the adventure tales instead.

[@LordDaret]

⁠@@elibennett6168Feminists thought the solution was to create a weird abomination by shoving the fairy tales into men’s adventure tales (Marvel, Starwars, etc). Certainly an attempt, but their approach did not work.

[@elibennett6168]

@@LordDaret Last I checked, Princess Leia was a star of Star Wars. You don't have the right to say that story only belongs to men, nor any other story.

[@williamhermann6635]

​@@elibennett6168 "you dont have the right" Actually, they have every right to say it. Quit crying.

[@elibennett6168]

@@williamhermann6635 You quit your crying - true statement. You can't control it no matter how much you want to.

[@jeffcauhape6880]

I have overheard women in a coffee shop discussing whether or not they should leave their husbands because they were bored. Seriously.

[@JoseDiaz-rd9fh]

That is not an aberration it is very common. The biggest culprits of all are the churches they have completely dropped the ball on maintaining the Chasity of women. As men we are still expected by the church to marry the women that we live with regardless of the risks to our health and mental well being. The damage is done to our culture unless something happens that removes technology to make life hard again for people society will just get worse and worse. The key to any healthy vibrant society is the Chasity and virtue of the young women of which there are so few today. This has and will continue to contribute to the decline in men of quality in society as well as they will see little reason to achieve in a culture that does not value them but see us as walking ATMS primarily

[@matthewlynch903]

Women hanging out in a coffee shop are soooo exciting themselves 😅😅😅😅

[@theoriginalDAL357]

They’re addicted to thrills; they have no concept of the reality of life, which is many hours of routine and even boredom, punctuated by moments here and there of fun and laughter. So many of them are truly just children with breasts. They’ve been poorly trained by their elder female relatives about life.

[@michaelking4578]

That's why you have to keep your woman busy for you and the family. No rest for the wicked.

[@hephzbah1130]

Well guess what? The wall will be waiting on ALL of them “bored” married chicks.

[@Bronx_Yankee]

My wife left me, she took everything, close to $600k in property and assets. She was bankrupt in two years. She left with my 17 year old son. After she when thru legal bankruptcy she wanted to come back. I told her I wanted $250K to get back with her. You know what the answer was. It took me 10 years thru retirement to catch up and now I have all I need, house, car and entertainment. Relationships don’t benefit men

[@johnjackson9235]

I am currently in a similar situation. She will also inherit her Mother's home and she will get to live for free for the rest of her life. But the court didn't care about that and still awarded her $2200/month in spousal support (even though she can financially support herself). It is just about equalizing her income with mine.

[@djblackprincecdn]

@@johnjackson9235 thats a crime.

[@warrior_of_da-Tetragrammaton]

@@johnjackson9235sell everything and leave the Asia

[@vectoreyes]

I'm happily married and have been for 34 years but I tell my wife and others that men don't need women, women NEED men. Just look around, men literally do EVERYTHING. We design, build, and maintain the world's infrastructure. We run corporations. We lead almost all aspects of society including military and industry. We fight in the wars that keep Democracy alive. We are the majority of first responders and protectors of society. At home, we do most of the work related to maintaining our homes and our cars. Most men are the primary financial providers in their family. The list goes on and on. My wife NEEDS me, I truly don't need her in the sense of survival and maintaining a good life. I need her because I love her companionship and would be lost without her but that's emotion and love, not physical needs.

[@seanautilis15]

modern "women" are garbage. it wasn't always so.

[@Norm475]

Divorces are financially devastating to men, and financially rewarding to women, thus women have a financial incentive to divorce.

[@johnjackson9235]

You nailed it. Take away the financial incentives and you take away a large multitude of divorces due to "unhappiness"

[@wally6193]

@@johnjackson9235 I agree 100%

[@esau93631]

@@johnjackson9235 you mean "no fault" divorce where the party who does nothing wrong gets financially destroyed and alienated from their children....

[@johnjackson9235]

@@esau93631 correct. I am only referring to "no fault" divorces. I have a different mindset as to what should happen on asset distribution and spousal support when a party can prove a breach of the marital covenant (eg. infidelity or on-going physical abuse or abandonment)

[@philosopher1a]

yeah and you would think in a so called " Patriarchy" it would be like that

[@7377hobbs]

This video should have 10 million likes. 💯 Truth.

[@jasonyoung3690]

That statistic jumps to over 90% when the woman has a college degree, like my ex did, a master's in linguistics. I broke no vows. She just claimed that she was unhappy.

[@StrumVogel]

Married twice and divorced twice. Both of those times my ex wife left me for someone who ended up mistreated them for years. One of them is in her third divorce, while the other has a drug addict as a boyfriend who currently has an active warrant. I just graduated from college, and got a clearance job. It’s amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of the boat anchors!

[@gladiammgtow4092]

MGTOW is the way.

[@makalu877]

Good job, you won.

[@alltheworldsastage4785]

Good job, bro, what did you do in college by the way, if you don't mind me asking?

[@NTJedi]

Always focus on your career and avoid all women during personal and business relationships. If you want children then use the specific states and countries for hiring a surrogate mother which will allow you 100% custody of your child. *Do the world a favor and warn other men about women.*

[@rootstriker8209]

Need to sharpen that mental on picking better partners, my man

[@Joe-db5hz]

I've noticed over the years of my life whenever a divorce was mentioned there was nearly always a presumption of guilt other people placed on the man. I always heard something like "she said he was running around on her. She just couldn't take it anymore" or "well...he PROBABLY cheated on her...most men do". I realized later this was just saving face in most cases. The wife filing for divorce most often did it for selfish reasons, but needed to look justified to her peers and ALWAYS produced a sob story excuse. The excuse was always accepted and validated. Meanwhile her husband would never say a word. Men just know there is no point in explaining his side to others. They don't want to hear it or believe it.

[@tizodd6]

If he cheats, it's his fault for being a dog. If she cheats, it's his fault for not making her happy 24/7.

[@chrisnamaste3572]

Facts.

[@gladiammgtow4092]

MGTOW is the way.

[@haroldjackson2292]

Amen, this happened to me

[@taliesin1977]

Yep, I didn't even bother trying to maintain friendships with any of our "Christian" friends. 100% chance she shit talks me to them and they believe it.

[@josephzsoka874]

When I watch red pill content online, and read the men's comments; who have been burned and mauled by the vicissitudes of modern women, I feel grateful to not have married. The loneliness and regret that I feel at not having married are lifted off my shoulders. Best decision I ever made.

[@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT]

I am one of those men. I knew absolutely nothing about covert narcissists having very little experience with women in life. I was stupid and fell in love with the first beautiful women who said she loved me and love bombed me. Looking back there were so many red flags but my starvation of love in life caused me to sweep them under the rug. She was extremely neurotic and anxious and chaotic and unlucky to a weird extent. I was a white knight. I was an easy target for her. I no longer trust women or myself anymore. I will live the rest of my life starved of feminine energy most likely because of the mental damage she did to me over the years together. I can’t unsee female strategies now.

[@beeman7711]

@@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT I married a vulnerable narcissist too, I had other options but chose her because of the love-bombimg, and her physical attractiveness... what a nightmare!

[@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT]

@@beeman7711 absolute nightmare. A lot of life lessons and self realizations came out of it though. I’m not as naive anymore.

[@beeman7711]

@@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT They rob us of our innocence, it is both a good and bad thing, I feel I lost more than I gained tbh... but it is what it is. I'm happy I was the one to leave, she still sends me blaming, shaming messages to guilt me and tries to pull me back in by love-bombing... most likely she's hoping to get back together for revenge because I destroyed her grandiose false sense of self when I rejected her. The highs were amazing but it didn't make up for the chaos, lies, and betrayals.

[@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT]

@@beeman7711 completely relate. You know what will happen if you let her back into your life. You know.

[@___DJ__]

Also, when women find out that their happiness is 100% on them and not their spouse, they tend to resent the spouse as they realize they no longer need them the way they thought they did.

[@jameskrobar7814]

Married 14.5 years and together 20 years total with my ex wife. As soon as the wedding was over, she slowly started changing, becoming disrespectful, ultra controlling, and our sex life went to about 3-4 times a year. I tolerated it and scrambled for answers the entire time. I gave her everything she wanted including her dream of a house on 5 acres in the country. Finally I’d reached my breaking point, had a long overdue affair, and left her. After it all fell apart, I asked her why she treated me so bad and we had such a lousy physical relationship. She admitted to being a horrible wife. She also told me that she knew how important sex was to me and said “I knew if I kept you hungry for sex, I could get you to do anything I wanted you to”. Those were her exact words. It’s been 8 years since I left her and she’s still miserable. In spite of being stuck with lifetime alimony, my life is so much better without her in it.

[@chuckburton2974]

Lifetime alimony!! The biggest crock of . . . Relationship failures aside, our legal system needs to be completely dismantled and rebuilt. Replace the attorneys with an arbiter who tries to get the parties to agree without wasting the court's time that would be better spent on other things. If the parties can't agree, the judge orders a fire sale, and after the mutual bills are paid, the money gets split down the middle. Court costs only. No attorney fees. All these ridiculous stipulations that favor the woman's side, need to be done away with. The financial incentives alone are enough to encourage women to consider divorce, even if there is no irreconcilable difference between the married couple.

[@krimsonsun10]

THIS ☝☝☝. This is the part i have tried to explain to men I have known that are in sexless marriages. My ex GF tried to use sex as a bargaining chip and i made it clear to her, i am not the type of man to be in that kind of relationship where our love or affection for each other is going to be weaponized against each other when we have a disagreement. i do not care how mad i was at her actions i loved her and does not change that i will hold her in my arms when we go to bed. We can be upset about the situation again tomorrow after a good night's sleep and i expected the same emotional maturity from my future wife.

[@JetBazooka21]

Geez that’s torture dude hope you’re doing good where you are now fam

[@SLRTom]

What lifetime Alimony, is our government just using youf or Social Security. What state was that in? At most I could see 4 years, to help her get some education. That's a crockofsheeet.

[@krimsonsun10]

@@SLRTom Connecticut, New Jersey, North Carolina, Oregon, Vermont, and West Virginia all have lifetime alimony laws. Florida was also in that list until last year when it was repealed.

[@Tjikkko]

Married at 19, now 27. I filed for a divorce after being mistreated by my ex wife many many times. Being yelled at, being spit on, veing struck by her. Never ever heard a sorry. As an OTR trucker i used to leave the whole week, when i backed home, i had expected to give a kiss or a hug which she refused. I was the good guys, too kind, who pay and suffer in silence. Still now she think i'm the person who is wrong 🤣. Just learn the other day that i have to pay for the home and got 3 month to leave "her home" . That's crazy. The only thing i own is my car. Hopefully i can sleep on my truck but yeah a bad woman can really destroy you....

[@klunkworks2020]

Plot and plan to get ahead. That is me waving good luck to you

[@petermusto3704]

Truly sorry for what you've gone through with this woman.

[@Tjikkko]

@@petermusto3704 don't worry I'm still young, my weakness may to still give credit to true love. Will see later. I'm giving another chance and if it fall imma be a playboy.

[@chrismog286]

Get your passport and leave bro. This government is in bed with women!😡

[@Canadian_Eh_I]

Good luck man

[@marklawrence17]

Men are loyal to their word. Women are loyal to their emotions.

[@hephzbah1130]

Yes in the west this is VERY true! Eastern women(Eastern European ones too)are committed to their marriages because they are beholden to their father’s and families in their home countries.

[@elibennett6168]

More red pill programmed language.

[@katiek.8808]

You do realize that is was men who behave like pigs that started all of this no fault nonsense right? It was the men who wanted multiple partners and build a culture where women participated in casual sex? The idea that all men are true to their word is a joke. As a man I the majority of men I know are no different than any woman. Over emotional babies.

[@lottoo5693]

@@hephzbah1130not even true eastern europe and russia have higher divorce rate than america.

[@goldenparachute392]

Yeah. Getting abused doesn’t feel good 😅 so….

[@derpderpington5433]

I'm not happy. I remember those words. My bish wanted an open marriage. 11 years, 2 kids, house all burned to the ground in 3 seconds. Bish was seeing someone from high school for 6 months, hiding money for 4 months. She had cops remove me on a Friday, told the kids I ran away and died. Moved fboi in on Monday. I had an 8 week no contact order and order of protection. She was violent during divorce, alienated the kids against me. I went through years of self blame, depression, homelessness, financial ruin. Oh well. Now I am free from her bs. No drama, no ultimatums, no compromises. But this experience cost me my ability to be a nice guy. I avoid women when possible. I don't want to be me tooed. I don't want to get caught up in the Duluth Model. Never again. Your words are kind, but too late for me.

[@brendanriuz2864]

Sadly, the only way for a man to be happy and successful is to not include women in his life. When a women enters the picture, she is holding hands with the government.

[@DrJamesBWood]

If you don't have Johnny's wallet, legal team and pile of evidence, you are done for. A cheating wife can destroy a family with only accusations; she will be believed, no questions asked. You are a man, this is somehow your fault. Ug! I have this quote memorized ""Go and tell the world that I, Johnny Depp, am a victim of domestic violence and see how many people believe you." The thing is, she was right and 10s of millions of women backed her, no questions asked.

[@BirdDogey1]

Went thru a similar situation. It took me 20 years to dig out of the financial hole I was tossed in.

[@gladiammgtow4092]

MGTOW is the way.

[@patnor7354]

Own justice

[@1bbasket]

End NO FAULT DIVORCE!!!!!

[@Ekam-Sat]

I think the reason why there is no fault divorce is because otherwise your partner would make up stuff and that maybe even worse. Just an opinion, no need to agree. 🙏

[@thepatrioarchy]

The partner is already making up stuff!

[@Ekam-Sat]

@@thepatrioarchy That is also true. But if they are making up stuff in court for financial reasons that could potentially even be worse.

[@mikebowman9844]

There is an enormous amount of wisdom in this video. I've watched it three times today since first finding it and have sent it to my 23 year old son and 26 year old daughter.

[@shanenichols2283]

Last year, my wife of 19 years divorced me because I didn't support her emotionally. I tried to save the marriage, but she would not put forth any effort. I have struggled with why, and I believe this video has answered why. Thank you!

[@gc4644]

Same here, 19 years and she divorced me because she's no longer happy. Women's selfishness and level of commitment is for crap, so ive gone MGTOW and couldn't be happier! Peaceful days with no drama or bitching from anyone. Singleness is underrated!

[@petermusto3704]

​@@gc4644- I'm 67, never married, have Financial stability. But every now and then I think finding a woman to marry will help with loneliness. Then I read stuff from divorced guys, and marriage begins to terrify me. Women apparently base ALL decisions on they're feelings. I'd be so screwed financially, emotionally and maybe physically if a woman dumped me after waiting all these years.

[@w8stral]

Did you send her this video? If not you should if you ever cared for her and ESPECIALLY if you have children!!! Don't be self absorbed like her.

[@chitownbob9714]

Most women do not leave a marriage in a snap decision. They have been unhappy for a long time. They either "hint" to you or don't communicate it. So much for being great communicators! There is usually a trigger. Like a death, or retirement, a move, a friend moves,or kids graduate and move. Ir makes them wonder if they want to live this way...unhappy...forever. Many times, they are triggered by the attentions of a man and begin an affair. Or they have a single friend who convinces them that single life is great. In either case, they start exercising and lose weight. Then they lose the husband.

[@philosopher1a]

RE"but she would not put forth any effort." yes they do NOT want to actually work to fix it .. she wanted that as the revisionist history she will tell everyone

[@thecontrarycontrarian4230]

Men's rights movement is needed. Men need protection

[@gladiammgtow4092]

MGTOW is the way.

[@marcs4091]

Young men need mentoring.

[@bryanmiller8604]

Tell that to Big Red, the next time she, & her Sisterhood of Harpies pull the Ol’ fire alarm maneuver, or alert news media to report on those “dangerous, & misogynistic men gathering together to spread their nefarious hatred of The Patriarchy, & keep strong, independent, empowered women down with a boot on their throats.

[@simontmn]

MRA is demonised of course.

[@comentaristametaforico9287]

Absolutely

[@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485]

What’s ironic about all these women divorcing/sabotaging their marriages is these aren’t arranged marriages. These are men they willingly picked/chose.

[@patricblack1]

Wow Good point.

[@noapologiesX]

The other irony is they do so when their SMV is lower than the guy and then hit The Wall in dating and only later realize they made a mistake when their husband traded up and she’s now having to bottom feed.

[@lawshorizon]

Actually, with arranged marriages there is a much higher probability of the couple staying together -- although this may be more of a cultural norm then anything else?

[@JoseDiaz-rd9fh]

​@@lawshorizonabsolutely culture is the biggest factor of a healthy society. Women need the pressure of shaming and social ostracization to be kept in line and they always have. Even more today I could easily argue with the prevalence of social media and dating apps. By 2030 45% of marriage aged women will be single. I honestly don't see this getting fixed social media has ruined commited relationships permanently.

[@danstrickland8908]

@@lawshorizonI’d say in part it’s because arranged marriages are to a certain degree much more focused on the contract aspect of the marriage, as opposed to the emotional. Both parties are entering in knowing that they are there to perform their role, and what benefits the family as a whole is of greater importance than to each individual within it.

[@mikec.4343]

I needed to hear this decades ago going through my divorce. My ex wife had me jumping through hoops trying to make her happy. Now, as she's wrapping up her 3rd divorce i can honestly say it was her own unhappiness and i could do nothing to save that marriage.

[@frankstowing5548]

Best, clearest and intelligent commentary on this topic I've heard yet. This BS is way out of hand, myself and almost all my friends are suddenly single after 20 plus years of investment, building lives, homes, families, and for no logical reason. I knew this was the case, nice to hear it coming from a wise woman. I knew they weren't ALL insane.

[@sagepirotess6312]

Was engaged 25 years ago. A few days before wedding gf stated it was my job to make her happy. I told her, I dont mind being part of your happiness, but your happiness is on you. She couldn't accept that. Wedding off. A decade later married a vietnamese gal. I provide a house, and freedom for her to live however she chooses. But she knows I am her husband and treats me well every day.

[@johnpopoff7950]

How is your x fiance doing these days? I'll bet not good.

[@cwr8618]

She loves you long time. End of story

[@MapSpawn]

I love the Vietnamese!

[@sagepirotess6312]

@@johnpopoff7950 no idea but she had a baby with a man state took it away from her. Guess mega child abuse. She got a county job though or had, maybe still. So guess doing ok.

[@CobraR1993]

You have a backbone. Well done sir

[@maniac1367]

Thought I had the perfect 17 year marriage and she walked out. We never argued and no money issues. I will never consider a long term relationship now I know female nature. That divorce destroyed my investments and chance to have a family. Girls are too idealistic so I won't be doing that again.

[@-whackd]

You were married 17 years without children ?

[@elibennett6168]

@@-whackd My thoughts exactly - 17 years of chances for family and the wife was too idealistic?

[@8Maduce50]

​@@elibennett6168could be married early and the wife always putting off until she was ready. 18-35 is 17 years. The average age for having kids is only getting older. It was 29 when I was a kid so being 35 with no kids is feasible.

[@ArthurDent-q9o]

True!

[@Hodenkat]

I fought for 5 years until I realized I would never find what made my wife happy. A year after I stopped trying she left.

[@racebannon96]

I tried for nearly 10 years. I bought her a new house that she had been demanding. She had an affair with the building supervisor and left the kids and me for him. She let me have the house because she didn't think I could afford it. But I did the math on the mortgage a few hundred times based just on my income. Her leaving us was the best thing she ever did for us.

[@SKBottom]

The pain in her voice is very real. I would really be interested in the details of how she nearly ruined her own marriage.

[@brooksm3552]

". . ; as soon as it gets hard or as soon has we get unhappy or bored women run." Wow

[@cwest2702]

I always loved the fairytale "The fisherman and his wife" and I read it with our children, because it tells you something about our world, our societies, our relationships. There is nothing in this world that can make an unhappy person happy but themselves, regardless whether they live in a castle or in an old hut. It doesn't matter. I never was a feminist but I am shocked what feminism has done to women. Spoiled brats with no commitment and responsibility. Whatever happens to their lives, it's a man's fault. No wonder that men no longer want to deal with that. I wouldn't either.

[@DrJamesBWood]

I thought I was a feminist, in that I support equal rights and body autonomy. But most feminists don't really want that as "equal" includes stuff like signing up for the draft when you turn 18, being responsible for your behavior regardless of your emotions, and no special privileges in family court. If you can't reverse the genders in the situation, it isn't equality.

[@jimthompson3422]

Feminist and woke liberal ideas with loss of morals has hurt society. Women feel entitled and are extremely unrealistic living in a fantasy world. They monkey branch from man to man, don’t know what they want. Their commitments are not true commitments. The legal system rewards them for their bad and despicable behavior. You can see why men don’t want to date these Western women and choose to be passport bros that westerner women criticize without facts or knowledge. It Western women don’t want to treat the men it’s respect then why should they care if he finds someone else who does, after all they don’t want them. Feminist have killed marriage and the happiness of it. Western women don’t know how to be feminine, they are not family oriented and shellfish. They have become fat tattooed narcissistic selfish low moral sluts with unrealistic ideals about the world with a false sense of entitlement pigs that don’t deserve any love and respect from men whom they constantly bash. They deserve to be left out in the cold. Try asking them what they offer in a relationship and they aren’t able to answer. Men are tired of trying to please unappreciative women that don’t honor their commitments.

[@brent4073]

Seriously, they face no accountability/responsibility nowadays and it shows in no one being comfortable enough to have kids. Just enjoy the downfall..

[@mtbiker4life918]

I completely agree. As a man I have seen a decline in women treating us like we are the ones that need to not only impress them, but the amount of "shit testing" the put on us is too much, and it seems it never ends. Now with all the social media in her phone you are not only competing with the man down the road, the men in her workplace, but men around the world. Now I am noticing and uptick in women finding "Jesus" thinking he is the replacement for a man. With the economy the way it is, women now want us to save them and it's simply too late. I rent a woman's time now, and it saves me so much time and energy.

[@andrecosta7966]

I think the fairytale says both about men and about the women... The women may have their issues and their characteristics like you described, wich I won't repeat here, but the men can't be as weak as the man in the story... Who is the strongest, who is the person with the reason? Men have to use their strength and not blame the women for their own weakness. It's like Adam and Eve, who was the created first and who was in charge of everytinhg? Adam could have said no to Eve and the hole history of mankind would be another. Men have to regain control of their lifes and take the responsability for the things that happen when they don't use their power. P.s.: I love the women, they are special, they connect us to our emotions, but men need to assume their role.

[@bradleymosman8325]

A female friend of mine is recently widowed. I remember when she was trying very hard to find someone. She eventually did. After her husband died, she told me, "I live with regret now. Because he treated me much better than I treated him." There are introspective women out there. Nevertheless, we never really know who we are marrying until the heat is on.

[@dboc2000]

The only possible way she could have perspective is to be alone. If he were alive she'd be so busy demanding happiness from him.

[@protorhinocerator142]

@@dboc2000 I know a woman who has been widowed for about 20 years. She is well over 60, morbidly obese, a toxic feminist, and hard on the eyes. She tells me that when she gets married again, he's going to do all the cooking, cleaning, yard work, etc. Um... Who's going to marry you? Seriously though. Being alone doesn't always bring perspective. Some people are so trapped in their own bubble that no common sense could enter.

[@SchrödingersMath]

@@protorhinocerator142 😳😅😳😅my Gawd ..the Force is Strong with that one...🐷🦏🐖women can WAY PAST delusional, and they still think that SOME LUCKY guy is going to propose to them....😁😅

[@Prometheus7272]

Good timing on figuring that one out.

[@haggai3.477]

You NEVER know any Human Being until you: *HIRE THEM* *FIRE THEM* *MARRY THEM* Or, Tell them, *NO*

[@Nordic_Sky]

It feels to me that so many women these days are constantly looking for the bigger, better deal, whether they're married or not. Social media hasn't helped in that regard.

[@daledickerson-r9u]

Yep! I replied above that is the reason: social media and Hollywood. Women are looking for a "Housewives of ......." marriage.

[@shaolinotter]

"hypergomy" they literally cant help it. and thats why theyre not capable of having remorse when they cheat

[@simonjarvis2523]

If they leave: NEVER take them back. You are 100% responsible for you OWN happiness. Not hers.

[@dlae73]

I've been married 19 years. We've been together for 23 years. Its definitely not perfect but I do my best to communicate and care for my wife's needs. Its the genuine LOVE I have for her that gets me up everyday and going about my life as a loving husband and father. I couldn't imagine living in a world without her.

[@Richard-oo6pc]

I found when I got married my wife would base her happiness on what I chose for us to do. Im the type that likes to relax at home with my various hobbies. She would get bored and I can sense she was unhappy. I finally had a talk with her and showed her that women in the past did things alone that made them happy. They had hobbies. Modern women, I feel because of feminism and Hollywood, think a marriage is supposed to be nonstop excitement. I told her what you said in this video. I cannot be the source of your sense of fulfillment. Anyway, she now thanks me and acknowledges she was sold a view of marriage that was toxic. She is now getting into various interests she has and Im happy for her.

[@wally6193]

seriously, it was that easy and she woke up and is happy now, damn if only that were true is most cases.

[@Richard-oo6pc]

@wally6193 It helps when your wife knows feminism is toxic garbage. She's been detoxing for a few years now.

[@ratoneJR]

If you can talk her into sanity that easily, some modern 304 can talk her out of it just as easily. Have a contingency plan.

[@jonnnybravo4092]

I left my ex of 5 years because of that. if I wasnt constantly entertaining her? Meltdown and anger at me. When I was studying or working out. Literally cant comprehend that it takes work for me to be the man she wants to be with. While she put on weight and didnt grow at all. I left her and never looked back. I dont even bother trying to explain myself anymore to women.

[@elibennett6168]

I'm surprised she didn't already have her own interests. I find that strange. But I do know some churches that actively discourage women from interests since they are considered selfish. Bad advice should be ignored and women get plenty of bad advice.

[@DosBear]

And what is the percentage on who cheats more often??? The husband or wife? I guarantee you it is the wife. My ex-wife divorced me, after 30 years, on Valentines Day and remarried another man on our Anniversary. That's what you call Borderline Personality Disorder. There is no thought about the destruction and damage this has caused my 4 adult children. She has no concept of what it means to take a vow. The funny thing is, she isn't really divorced from me as I never legally signed the divorce papers so she is now a bigamist. The last relationship I had with a women said she wanted to stop seeing me because she wasn't happy and I told her it's not my responsiblity to make you happy, good luck with it. I wish I could say I miss either of them but I don't. High maintenance waste of time in my opinion.

[@damianwright3690]

You... could report a potential bigamist to the relevant authorities (whether that is the police the area or not, I don't know). And if she shows that the divorce is properly completed, ask to see the original document as to your recollection you never signed the divorce papers. Don't know if you want to throw that cat among the pigeons, but it sounds like it is there to do whenever you choose to.

[@paulweston285]

@@damianwright3690No its actually the legal responsibility of the celebrant to check marriage/divorce records before remarrying couples. Because a spouse refuses to sign a divorce request does not mean it cannot be granted after a certain period of time.

[@DosBear]

@@damianwright3690 Nah, let her enjoy her bigomy. I'm long over it. There is no way to show it properly completed as it never was. lol Simply because it require a legal signature of a notary and that never happened & if you know anything about the law, it's all about technicalities such as that, otherwise the need for a notary witness wouldn't exist in the first place. I just liek having the last laugh is all. Maybe I'm a Narcissist. lmao

[@Willie_Wahzoo]

Why did you marry the devil? This is men's problem. They think they're "honorable" for staying married and "keeping their vow" to a whamin who the find is evil. If she is evil, you're vow doesn't matter. Divorce her.

[@DosBear]

@@Willie_Wahzoo I made the mistake of thinking I could help her and then had 4 children with her. At this age I could care less about my marital status.

[@rosslangille3956]

I found out too late that my ex mother in law encouraged her daughters to take over household finances and steal and hide 25% of all incoming revenue for when they decided they wanted a divorce. I never understood how guys would fight for control of finances. I now know why why. On my second round and I have to fight for every inch. Never again!

[@ethosterros9430]

Women like that deserve life in prison at the absolute lightest sentence

[@protorhinocerator142]

NEVER let a woman control your finances. They will play games with the money, miss payments, ruin your credit, and lie about it when you ask. If need be, start another bank account in your name only for where your paycheck goes. Then use the joint account as her allowance money.

[@johnpopoff7950]

Do yourself a favor no more mothers in law.

[@drumsnbass]

My ex-wife could never be happy unless she was unhappy. So crazy!

[@rogerparrett3242]

I actually heard my ex-wife admit over the phone to a friend who had recently filed for divorce that she simply "wanted control over her 'share' of the money" (i.e.; 30+ years of IRAs and 401(k) accounts).

[@johnhoran9840]

My ex-wife didn't initiate the divorce, I did, but only after she said that if I didn't give her my key and leave she'd call 911 and tell them I was hitting her. I left, and called an attorney the next morning.

[@johnjackson9235]

Which means she has a full understanding of how the law and the police work in support of women (which means they all know full well).

[@johnhoran9840]

She planned it all out behind my back with her therapist and her friends.@@johnjackson9235

[@steveburke7675]

...hate to say it...but convs with your spouse like this need to be recorded. It won't change the inevitable outcome...but you might stay out of jail.

[@johnhoran9840]

That was in 2012, and I learned my lesson.@@steveburke7675

[@normbograham]

You did the right thing. If the police came, she would have cried for 20 minutes, until they jumped.

[@jackgoodings]

I think the laws need to seriously change. If the woman leaves, they must not be allowed to take the children and demand payment from the husband / father. This would be one incentive for the woman to work through the 'issues'. I do understand, however, the situations where there is domestic abuse. Saying that though, the research finally shows that the majority of domestic abuse is reciprocal, and out of that, the highest percentage of instigators are the woman .. be angry at me saying that, but it's what the research shows, and it's what men have been saying for years. I really appreciate your channel and information

[@martincoronado9232]

I actually bought both of Dr. Laura’s books as far as 10 stupid things. One was for women and one was for men. I wanted to find out what women did that was stupid and of course, being a man I bought the other one for myself. Long and short, when I saw that women were serious problems I was like wow. The problem is that at that time I thought oh that’s women outside of the church and outside of religion. Now I’m like I don’t know if that’s the case anymore.

[@jamesjonnes]

It's called fault divorce. There is no excuse for no-fault divorce in a time where everyone has a smartphone and can record abusive behavior, abuse is not an excuse anymore.

[@austntexan]

Actual DV is so rare that it have almost no effect on the 80% number. It does happen, of course, but never to the extent that is so often "reported" by the legacy media.

[@jwarrior9986]

@@martincoronado9232 I'm pretty sure religious women are statistically slightly better, but there is no denying that they are all doing the same things that secular women are doing. A lot of religious marriages suffer from a lack of sex. Usually its the wife cutting off the husband. When confronted about it, the response is something akin to "My Body, My Choice" which is a mantra of a different religion called feminism. In the Christian church, God's command is found in Corinthians 7. The wife cannot deny the husband nor can the husband deny the wife. Doing so is a sin. Christian women could care less. Feminism's command is much more to their liking. You will often hear them talk about having problems with being submissive as wives are instructed to do. They want to override God at their whim and yet claim the mantle of being a good Christian. Many times, this is simply for vanity...which of course breaks a different Command by taking his name in vain (better worded Though shall not use God's name for your own vanity).

[@badgerden7080]

The laws won't change. That is why men are going MGTOW, becoming confirmed bachelors or becoming passport bros. They will have no choice but to change the laws when the marriage rates fall into the single digits and you have a bunch of single women everywhere.

[@gsmollin2]

Accountability is women’s kryptonite.

[@elibennett6168]

Red pill NPC

[@chrisaustin6255]

What a Damn great message. One of the things I told my wife before we divorced was that I'm not responsible for making you happy. I came to that conclusion when I tried everything and nothing worked. When we had money or didn't have money she was unhappy, nonmatter the situation she was not happy, so I gave up. I pulled away with ZERO interest in making her happy. We are divorced and I have a peace that I have not felt in decades

[@jeffbriggs4268]

I think you hit on a key point: we aren't taught how to be happy. We have to figure this out for ourselves. I really appreciate your honesty and humility.

[@timothycorless7286]

They get bored easily because they were too promiscuous during their hookup stage before settling down and now subconsciously 1 dude doesn't satisfy her long term.

[@BC-vg3zf]

It’s the pair bonding from that promiscuous past. The glue that should cement relationships long term is spread thin with each new encounter, thinned by the dopamine of the moment and that breaks/cracks under the slightest stress

[@donfranklin6956]

Correct. Good men have to retire from trying to make their wife happy. I only figured this out after 28 years. Thank you.

[@Theafire]

With no fault divorce there is no need to prove fault. Therefore you can divorce your spouse because u don't like their shoes. We just don't think alike😮. RIP marriage.

[@jimdigriz3436]

A century ago, women depended on their husband for sustenance and survival. Now, hey, just get a divorce , and retire on lifetime alimony. All the security, none of the responsibility. It’s a good deal if you can get it.

[@BeADad2447]

We needed to hear this from our moms 100 times before we were teens! Nobody warns little boys!

[@NickCager]

Divorce is so hard on children. I see it in my kids all the time. It's awful. As much as you do to limit the damage, it's there.

[@ROForeverMan]

Whimin dont love their kids.

[@toddjohnson271]

Women don't care....they fight to kill children.

[@edwardc.8031]

Kids are not the priority for people who file for divorce.

[@NickCager]

@@edwardc.8031 In most cases. The exception being if the spouse being divorced is creating an abusive environment for the kids. But yeah, I agree in general.

[@chipsteve]

​@@NickCager ok, serious abuse - that's the exception. But try dating a single mom who divorced her ex husband & still co parents with him. Who was "abusive" there? The loquacious word salad she will spew around why she divorced him and broke up her family and "why it was best for my child(ren)" will make your head spin.

[@kwaichangcaine8234]

She got my paid for house my land cruiser , 10 years child support . She bad mouthed everywhere . I'm glad she's gone , my middle finger is up for 15 years now 😮

[@starguy2718]

"Sugar and spice and everything nice." 😄😄😄

[@BobB-w4q]

I am a 66 year old widower married once and never divorced. I feel grateful for the success of my marriage. I firmly believe the phrase "for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, forsaking all others..". I agree the failure to place commitment first is a primary cause for divorce. Gentlemen, always talk with a respective wife beforehand and ensure she feels a deep, abiding commitment to marriage.

[@BobB-w4q]

@@OOL-UV2 Good morning. Thanks for your thoughts. The more I see of our youngest generation entering adulthood, the more I fear you are right. I recently retired from my career with the US government and I noticed that young men holding my same position (financial and statistical analyst) almost invariably looked overseas for their wives. These are highly intelligent young professionals who wanted a family. Isn't it interesting they concluded they couldn't find a woman here who wanted a traditional role as a wife and mother?

[@protorhinocerator142]

They all SAY they're committed to marriage for life. And that's 100% true until they "get bored". Then it's "I never loved you." Or worse. She will go around town telling everyone you were a controlling abusive narcissist. Instead, get her talking about the last guy she dated. If she calls him a controlling abusive narcissist or anything remotely close, this is how she will be talking about you soon.

[@BobB-w4q]

@@protorhinocerator142 Men do need to take the time to truly know any prospective wife. I also suggest dating for a very long time. Meet her parents; meet her friends; ask her questions during lengthy conversations. If she doesn't want you to do these things, you should cut off the relationship.

[@jonathancummings6400]

​@user-lb4yp4sl4y No. Men need to realize Marriage in modern Western Countries is a defunct tradition NO MAN SHOULD PARTAKE IN!!! The current trend of young men being less romantically involved, having fewer children and marrying less shows they are becoming more wise, and distancing themselves from evil beings, that are an active threat to their well being.

[@larrydrake6838]

Very well put. You have courage to speak the truth. I am observing that women may tend to be happier if the daughters and grandchildren live nearby. Possibly the sons as well, but primarily the daughters.

[@JeremyWilliams-b7g]

Lack of commitment comes from a lack of discipline..ruled n fueled by one's own desires.

[@MartinEngelbrecht-ey3rl]

You are one tough woman, my mother was in an extremely difficult relationship but she pressed in and was blessed beyond words.

[@coreybaute7098]

And the popular sentiment is that if the divorce rate is that high, must be because of men (like everything else blame men). It perpetuates the situation but also makes it very convenient to blame someone else for your own short comings. This actually happened to me in my first marriage. Any problem she thought she had must be my fault. Her emotions were the most important thing in the world. Even more important than keeping a family together.

[@gladiammgtow4092]

MGTOW is the way.

[@THX5000]

"The oaths of a woman I inscribe on water " -Sophocles

[@NickCager]

Ouch! lol

[@Handleitnow933]

Wow 😂

[@isiahwashington2999]

I loved that line and was wondering who there author was. Thank you

[@MF_DOOMer]

Sounds about right

[@starguy2718]

Sophocles wrote that over 2,000 years ago, in the play "Antigone". Female nature has not changed.

[@dz9589]

Women do better financially to divorce. Remove that option and couples counselors will do booming business.

[@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485]

On the short term yes long term typically no. They are by in large not good with money/investing long term.

[@aliyahharmon9045]

Women actually get poorer after divorce. Usually because having families stunts career growth for women or they sacrifice their finances totally to be domestic support for the family.

[@edwardc.8031]

​@aliyahharmon9045 you are correct that women often sacrifice their financial future. You didn't mention that they make that choice.

[@aliyahharmon9045]

@@edwardc.8031 Its a given that it’s a choice. On the flip side of that, women are accused of being selfish and unfeminine for choosing to focus more on their career rather than family planning and domestic work. Some women feel guilted into that kind of position but I try to remind people that when it’s your life, it’s your decision so make the choice that best suits your goals.

[@MattCasters]

​@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 my ex-wife got almost $1M in the divorce. Kids are living with me, they didn't want to stay with her anymore after about a year (emotional abuse). 5y later all the money is gone and she's in debt.

[@mamabear71234]

I always hated the wedding ceremony. I would rather get married in the sight of God without all the material things.

[@Ekam-Sat]

Yes, it would be nice if both partners would be God conscious. Or at least know the teachings of the Bible like we were told back in the day. There’s probably a correlation between the sky high divorce rate and tgr fact that we got rid of teaching religion in school.

[@unpopularopinion9831]

It's 93 percent of college educated women...

[@latin209modesto]

More women need to watch this, this is beyond true

[@ChrisSnell-d4m]

Women are about emotion, and men are about action. Men need to learn to listen to women in the beginning, because she will say what her intention is. As in "I can always get a divorce if it don't work". THIS IS TAUGHT from day one by everyone around her.

[@PeterLawton]

I agree with all of this. In the US, there is a second factor, specifically influencing the 80:20 skew. Consider a couple on the brink (for the reasons you discussed): Woman: If I divorce, I get paid money I don't have to earn. Man: If I divorce, I have to pay out money *I* earn to someone who will do nothing to earn it. So, yeah. 80:20

[@joejoejoejoejoejoe4391]

It's the same in the UK, the woman gets the house, the kids, child support, half the mortgage paid (by her ex) and half of his pension.

[@selohcin]

@@joejoejoejoejoejoe4391 That's so evil.

[@Thunderroad8517]

Three weeks ago is when my wife dropped the bomb on me. Thanks for this video/information. I was struggling with multiple things. felt that it really change when we move to Canada to live with her parents till we got established. Needless to say they interfered with our relationship and was a toxic environment. I will own that I made mistakes too. I was willing to do anything to fix it even though I didn’t hear her soon enough. I was hanging onto those vows till we got to a better place. Unfortunately it’s too late and she’s gone. I’m heartbroken and in tears cause this hurts so much. I feel that I let them sabotage our relationship because I didn’t stand up for me which is one of my issues. I feel that I broke her heart and let her down. I still love her. May God help me get through this.😢

[@warrenwarburtonesq.6884]

Everything you are saying, I've experienced. Modern women and their modern expectations and demands have become insufferable, and they will absolutely not take the slightest responsibility for their own actions.

[@Random-rt5ec]

My wife was amazing when we were dating & she knew she had competition. I think husbands need to make sure their wife is always aware of the fact she can be easily replaced by a younger fresher more fun woman.

[@-whackd]

How do you replace the woman who gave birth to several of your kids?

[@elibennett6168]

You go stallion

[@drmachinewerke1]

@@-whackdby taking the kids and getting a younger model. At 62 I’ve come to the conclusion women are just like a car. When worn out trade it in I did not have that belief until this last year. I’m 62 and after being married 27 years and her saying I want a divorce. Saying you talk mean to me. Never a cuss word or a insult towards her or her family. She just got bored is what she told my sisters. Oh well the last 3 years have been very bad for her physically. . And the last two have been very good for me financially , mentally and physically. Maybe she was right My saying get rid of your animals so we can travel was mean talking. Humans are a commodity to be trade it appears. It just took me this long to figure it out.

[@louie_rsy9734]

Yes. 23 but already know this lol. If a women realizes you’re lonely, desperate and she’s your only option, she’ll use it to her advantage

[@backsteinfisch3894]

She also knows if she makes enough money, she can easily get a younger version as well or live happily by herself. Statistics say women are happier without marriage. Therefore, a lot of women leave after they realize its not for them, sadly destroying someone else life and even trying to make money out of it. Guys honestly believe that young women are so crazy being with an older dude that got divorced and has children? The same as most men don't want to take care of strangers kids, women also don't. It's a lot of baggage. So either you are a very good-looking or wealthy man, or you just love dreaming. Respectfully.

[@Flyzel....]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I dont think I have ever heard a woman speak so candid in my life. This video needs to go viral, like for real. This level of honesty and self accountability will make me have real hope that there are women that hold women accountable for automatically choose flight over fight whenever they get bored, or they are not "happy" in their relationship so they waeponize the children against him. How does a man serious consider to commit and get married to the average, typical women when there is a high chance she will leave him and, with the help of No fault divorces, she can ended the marriage without him not wanting to end it. That's too much power for one person, within a committed, martial relationship where it's about the both of you. Fellas, there is hope after all. All is not lost!

[@anthonytorres4725]

Very kind true words! "You are not the source of your wife's unhappiness."This lady is probably a female psychologist. I always heard my wife say that she has never been happy in this marriage. This video helps me to understand that her filing for divorce has very little if anything to do with me. I mean heck if a woman can walk away from Tom Brady, I never stood a chance.

[@johnpopoff7950]

Your not happy well get out.

[@ArthurDent-q9o]

They can do whatever they want. However they should not be rewarded for destroying your family, kids, health, assets and whatsoever.

[@anthonytorres4725]

@@johnpopoff7950i did

[@echota23]

Tom Bradys wife is an actual witch. He outed her on live TV. during his superb owl Gillette shave.

[@sarge-T.O.]

She really laid it all out there. Good, clear points. All simply stated. Fine contribution to the convo. Keeping a woman happy continues to be a mountain of a task. Good luck to us all.

[@mminniear984]

I blame SM. Our marriage started its decline after she got TikTok. She had instagram and it was a problem and FB. And Snapchat. She needed the attention from men. She wanted more than me.

[@preacherno]

You should have told my now ex-wife. I got cancer, she got bored. But since she had her lawyer make me move, I was technically the one leaving, thus it was my blame. Church supported her. Doesn’t matter though, I managed to get healed from cancer, get back into shape and finally found a new wife. Now, my ex is less than happy. That’s OK. I went to therapy to get over her before I got back on the horseback.

[@sproutfire8878]

Not very Christian-like of her. My ex is a Prot Evangelical too - mind games and spiritual BS. Everything was always my fault. Best to avoid them and ignore their delusional church leaders. But pray for them anyways. Congrats on defeating cancer! Your a stronger man now!

[@johnpopoff7950]

Yes God 🙏 bless you and don't take any crap anymore.

[@catsnchords]

@@sproutfire8878 lol I'm a single never married man and I'm also ex-evangelical. I do miss some of the social life with protestant men, but don't miss the protestant dating pool hahaha.

[@morganoox3838]

Imagine thinking you're going to go through life without being bored or unhappy 😂

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

This is the whole point of this video and it is so very true They're going to be down times in a marriage They're going to be up times in a marriage It's just sad to see that women only care about only the uptimes

[@davidcawrowl3865]

@@A_Well_Traveled_Man Its child-like thinking. Immature thinking. Remember, though, women only gained the right to even vote 100 years ago. They are still taking baby steps.

[@personaldanyoung7823]

“You are not the source of your wife’s unhappiness.” A little louder for those in the back, please!

[@JonnyGee]

We all need to take responsibility for our own happiness, especially in a marriage. No one, not even a spouse can make you entirely happy and content. Problem is, people get married expecting their spouse to make them feel good. Works both ways. But yes, especially women need to hear Karyn's message. Ladies, your capacity for emotional connection is enormous. Love it....but too many of you get easily swayed by your feelings and mistake it for the truth.

[@RyzeHendricksTV]

I'm a new subscriber, thank you, keep speaking that truth ❤

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

What's really sad is the fact that this woman only has 10,000 followers and most of them are men when this should be going out to women..😢 Women never want to hear about when they're wrong about something It's so sad about accountability

[@johnhand3856]

Yeah, I came down to the comment section to see what the ladies had to say, and I'm striking out lol.

[@zennus1]

Unfortunately mate that's the case with all these channels that talk about men's issues, relationships it's a complete echo chamber...less that 5% are woman and that's being generous...

[@quentinvanahee9932]

Thank you for saying what needs to be said.

[@nickf9392]

All very true. When women throw around terms like "starter Marriage" that says a lot of how they view marriage. How many men were destroyed by women going into a marriage, knowing it is only a starter marriage. Men know this now, and they are no longer willing to commit to someone who says "I love you". The words are empty now. The cat is out of the bag, and men know it. Sad, but true.

[@ArthurDent-q9o]

...and will never forget.

[@mrjbg2000]

My now ex-wife demanded a divorce. My attorney recommended I file first so I could control the process. Worked to my advantage and really angered her and her attorney

[@johannesswillery7855]

Good boy.

[@albertatundra]

I filed for divorce when my ex left me too. Being in control ticked her off so much.

[@beetee4295]

This is a Brave woman without fear of speaking an unpopular truth. Hopefully people won’t hate her for it.

[@joejones4296]

You are so right. I have no idea how to fix this. My wife wasn't happy and divorced me after 5 kids and 32 years. I am very sad.

[@jamesjonnes]

Be happy, I'd certainly call 32 years and 5 children a win. Guys today can't ask for so much, the average marriage lasts just 6-8 years, that's including older people so for the younger generations it's probably even less.

[@samayoa95]

Sorry to hear about your divorce. I hope you find another woman.

[@annarboriter]

@@samayoa95 Hair of the dog?

[@elibennett6168]

I'm very sorry.

[@johannes6760]

This is brutal. Im a dude. And I have totally abandoned hope that i would find a noble lady who would want to stay married till death do us part.

[@ADifferentVibe]

Same. It's a shtshow out there

[@Wise-up-already]

Remember, a wedding is just for show. The vows are not legally binding. The real question is...in whose interest is it to actually educate about the actual legal requirements of both parties? When I brought this up with a potential partner, she cried, realizing she was asking for a raw deal, because, you know, she wanted a man who made about 30% more than her. So basically she was asking her man to support her improved lifestyle, likely beyond any potential divorce, and her "obligations" to the relationship were really just romantic ideals that normally fizzle out after a while and aren't legally enforceable. No thanks.

[@johnjackson9235]

That's the legal truth

[@BC-vg3zf]

Actually it’s 58% more he needs to provide as there is the equal test or below expectation on earned salary

[@РусланНагимов-д7д]

wow. one of the best videos that i ever seen. thank you so much for this video. it really put an ease on. my soul and my mind.

[@daviddunlop2525]

I reckon this woman has nailed it. I am 58 yrs old. My life experience and experience confirms what this woman is saying. Absolute Gold.

[@joeskeptical4762]

*I suspect, from casual observations, that MANY women filing for divorce expect the financial outcome to benefit them much more than their soon-to-be former husband will be favored. Whether the divorcing wife actively analyzes the money or simply assumes money things will go her way, in almost all wife initiated break-ups, she gives this factor a heavy weight in her separation decision.*

[@ListenMySon]

Well said. I can confirm everything Karyn said here.

[@josephzsoka874]

I agree, as I sit here stirring my coffee at the molecular level, using the vortex method.

[@map3384]

I remember watching an old episode of the Mary Tyler Moore show from 1973 where Lou’s wife Edie leaves Lou. She wasn’t happy. Needed to find herself and it wasn’t about Lou. Women bashed that episode in 1973 because it showed how extremely selfish and childish Edie was. Lou never stopped loving her, stopped being a provider and loving dad. Look what has happened since 1973. Women will now happily destroy their marriages because they’re unhappy. My sister in-law divorced her husband. He was making $200k a year. She had a degree in accounting but didn’t want to work. Nor did she have children for the first 12 years of their marriage. Then one day she wasn’t happy. She divorced him in a heart beat. Lied about being abusive to her and the kids. She alienated the kids from him. Then after being divorced for a year she wonders why he didn’t sent her flowers on her birthday. She took half of everything he earned. Made the kids hate him by telling lies about him. I bet he wanted to send her a bomb. Men truly need to not marry. If she can do it without warning what makes any man safe from a narcissistic wife with emotional issues.

[@helloDobson3259]

In this modern day? The presenter is a modern day unicorn waxing the purest of poetry. This channel needs viral growth to 1 Million subscribers!

[@brittanysweitzer6671]

I was in the minority with my divorce. Ex husband filed and made out better financially. Early 20s married less than a year. He wasn’t willing to do counseling. Still doesn’t add up but I’m now happily remarried with two little girls, so I’m getting my happy ending ❤

[@Spiritual.Warrior.777]

Good for you!

[@hahamasala]

I think one thing that gets forgotten is that men are logical and problem solvers, so they might be more inclined to "fix" a marriage whereas women rely on emotions which are fleeting. Add social media and women think they're all tens and that they can always get a better guy to make them happier.

[@channel1_channel]

The "all tens" are mainly a select group of young women who get men to pay to see them online. If you meet regular women chances are they a bit more grounded.

[@starguy2718]

​@@channel1_channelI wouldn't count on that.

[@channel1_channel]

@@starguy2718 We differ in experience.

[@Willie_Wahzoo]

It's not that. It's that men are, from a young age, held accountable for their actions AND have a natural instinct towards honor and integrity. Whamin lack that instinct AND are told they are princesses from a young age. Whamin think only of themselves. The pretend to think of others to virtue-signal. They are all signal and no real virtue.

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

​@@channel1_channelI guarantee you are not really listening to this video and with this person made in this comment‼️ She is saying that most women think that they're all extremely beautiful and they always think that they can trade in their husband to get another husband that's better.... Women are never satisfied is the old saying

[@muslimbother622]

Responsibility and accountability are kryptonite to modern women.

[@elibennett6168]

NPC - how many bots are going to be in this chat with this programmed phrasing?

[@RvR_22]

​@@elibennett6168how about you clown take accountability for once in your lifetime?

[@olafspetzki]

Most traditional societies push for lifelong monogamous relationships for a reason: Don't let bad emotions ruin your family and yourself. "Tradition is a set of solutions for which we have forgotten the problems. Throw away the solution and you get the problem back. Sometimes the problem has mutated or disappeared. Often it is still there as strong as it ever was." I don't wanna say stoning people is a good way to promote healthy families, but rewarding women in court for wrecking their families - often for no good reason - is definitely not good for society. Nobody should be trapped in a toxic relationship, but everybody should be encouraged to do the work necessary (on themselves) to keep a healthy family.

[@Somerville431]

I can listen to these videos again and again and never get bored. Super content and truth.

[@practicallyheidi8505]

This was a suggested video for me. I have been very, very happily married for 22 years and we are raising 4 boys. I found the most happiness in traditional gender roles and my husband I believe would say the same. I love being a wife and mother. The unhappiest women I see are full time working moms. They are so bitter towards their husbands. I do not know a woman happier then me. We have created a beautiful life that I sometimes wonder how I was so lucky to have the insight that I have to create it. The only downside is that I don't have a lot of friends with common interests. I recently had 10 women over and it almost instantly went to husband bashing except for my sweet Filipino friend whose husband suddenly died a year ago. I was so uncomfortable with the conversation in the room and how it must have made her feel. I tried very hard to change the subject but women just want to complain about their husbands and their husbands all have wonderful qualities. I asked my husband if men do that when they are together. He said men may make a joke about their wives but they never have full blown complaint fests the way women do. They are the better sex.

[@angelowhite4701]

We usually ask for advice from each other how to make our relationships better with our wives amd childern

[@angelowhite4701]

We also encourage each other in staying married. We call each other out and let them know they have a good woman and to value her.

[@angelowhite4701]

Mens job is to take care and oversee the well-being of the family. We are always thinkng about our families. Not what we're losing or not getting because of our families.

[@angelowhite4701]

Thank you for your respectful view of your husband. I am a husband and my wife is also respectful towards me. It's nice to see other women who appreciates their husbands.