Chapters 00:00 Intro 06:06 Signs Of Enviers The 9 Signs 1. They will find reasons to justify their envy despite evidence that the person they envy is a solid person. 2. Enviers have a love-hate obsession with their object of interest. 3. Enviers think they must balance the scales of justice in the Universe. 4. Enviers will go out of their way to harm their targets (act out on their envy). 5. Enviers will hurt those who help them. 6. Enviers are takers who look for what they can gain from others. 7. Enviers hang around people they don't like. 8. They are in the business of plotting and scheming. 9. Enviers usually do not change.
@katechipata99347 ай бұрын
You have listed each and every sign that I have seen for myself, Esther. I can't add anything else to this list. They are always trying to hurt their targets and try to justify their envy. They hang around people they don't like. Always plotting and scheming. It's sad and can become dangerous.
@chocolatesugar44347 ай бұрын
Sometimes it will be those closest to you. I’ve also noticed that it’s often subconscious, as they cannot see how dark their envy is and feel justified in ‘bringing balance’.
@EstherRegalis7 ай бұрын
That's a great observation. I can definitely see how them avoiding how dark their envy is causes them to justify it.
@etaokha4164Ай бұрын
They end up so alone and miserable because of who they're. They burn bridges with everyone
@TokoP-t9l29 күн бұрын
Thank you love for your positivity. It surely helps me. Praying for you in Jesus Name
@jennifergraham56157 ай бұрын
Their analyzing you if your a good target then they test you and if you pass then the handle you and get what they want and terminate at the end and wash there hands. I think the amount I know now is a clear sign for me to get to my next chapter in life. I learned all this on KZbin.
@jennifergraham56157 ай бұрын
They compare and they can’t compete we’re they can’t compare. They get envious and want to show you who is boss. I take it because they have to be the best in the room. They admire you then it turns into envy. I’m tired again and can’t complete my the whole process. I just been through it. The person explained it a long the way. Like rage is because they can’t accept your rejection. I didn’t reject them. I just moved on in good form but they want you in there play ground and help them achieve there goals. I guess I can kind of see how control and all this works but trust me….. took me forever to understand.
@gjinkalla237 ай бұрын
They want to be your God, narcissistic demons
@jennifergraham56157 ай бұрын
I felt something like that. That’s probably why the intense focus and why it can be hard to pull away… in this one case I deal with. A narcissist telling what effects they have and telling me what there going to do next. I try to pull away but there so good at faking empathy. And engaging you in conversation. Like their looking for appreciation and it hits us in an empathetic way. It’s actually mind blowing how many manipulators they play and see which one you respond to. I’m so busy now with my confidence back. So just keep going in the right direction.
@CareBlair2226 ай бұрын
Most people don't know how to mind their own business.
@alyokin7 ай бұрын
Bravo! You are incredibly articulate. I’ve thoroughly enjoyed your videos!
@EstherRegalis7 ай бұрын
Thanks so much 😊 I appreciate you watching!
@jennifergraham56157 ай бұрын
They pretend to be empaths and do good things for good causes.
@Peter-tp6gd7 ай бұрын
Stay blessed and beautiful.
@CareBlair2226 ай бұрын
Severe and continuous envy could be a result of an attachment injury with a caregiver, especially a lack of nurturing and emotional fulfillment by their mothers. It's quite tragic, actually. Also, when i feel envious, I quickly get over it. Its a primitive/biological emotion and not always our fault.
@EstherRegalis6 ай бұрын
Yeah, I definitely agree it's not always our fault. The main thing is that we are willing to take ownership of it and not allow it to control us :)
@davidb3716 ай бұрын
I must be weird.. I never recall experiencing that emotion...
@yadiraelizabethpreciado11387 ай бұрын
New subscriber 👋 loved your content ❤
@EstherRegalis7 ай бұрын
Thanks so much :)! Welcome!
@chrissvayart11117 ай бұрын
OMG, I thought this is the narcissistic trate, I dind't knnow iit's a whole new personality disorder 😲😲😲 it's correct who did this to me.. how to deffend, i live with them for 8 years xD
@EstherRegalis7 ай бұрын
Hm... I think active envy is not a personality disorder, but a lot of people with active envy do have narcissistic personality disorder 😕 I'm glad you got out of the situation! Much love & blessings to you 🧡
@Mixtap3messiah7 ай бұрын
in most cases: overt & covert narcs (my opinion)
@chrissvayart11117 ай бұрын
@@EstherRegalis yk what? i didn't get out hahaah i just put it down every day xD they started talking to my mother and stuff and then i shamed that super hard. liek dude that is sooooo low taht you couln't go lower, look now what they think of you... shot back.. lol