1- The Sting of Rejection: They didn’t expect you to leave 2 - The Void of Missing You: They never realized how much they needed you 3 - Overwhelming Curiosity: Where are you? Who are you with? 4 - Deep Self-Reflection: They start to question everything 5 - The Urge to Pursue You: Now they’re chasing you 6 - Relief vs. Regret: The emotional tug-of-war 7 - The Game of Manipulation: They try to win you back 8 - The Crushing Weight of Silence: It’s driving them insane 9 - The Fear That Brings Them Crawling Back: Their worst nightmare 10 - Bonus Insight: The realization of emotional independence 11 - Conclusion: Reclaim your power and make them regret it
@stoicsecrets-1012 ай бұрын
I wish everyone who reads the comments after watching this meaningful video always peace, happiness and success!
@Scorned4052 ай бұрын
They don’t feel anything. It makes no difference. They just move on with or without you. People care only about themselves for the most part
@luckycali132 ай бұрын
Yes and no I did this not to long ago and she called me and wanted to hang out and see me after 2 weeks of me not calling or texting and now she's been calling and texting me all day every day for the last couple weeks she realized me being gone was to much for her..her son told me she was depressed and would cry and lay in bed and thats when I knew how she truly felt about me
@stoicharmonyus15 күн бұрын
The emotions they experience when you leave reflect their realization of what they’ve lost. It’s a powerful reminder of self-worth.
@lindat768Ай бұрын
Narcissists won’t miss you. They just move on to another victim.
@shoaibmohammadaftab10372 ай бұрын
I am done being an option. I thanks to Allah swt. and thanks to you also, this time your advices are like light in deep dark night.
@semperoccultus19692 ай бұрын
And don’t worry… they will always wonder and think about you. They will suffer daily with your absence. This only works if they “love” you. No matter how bad it got… when you actually leave, it hurts. I know. I lost them too.
@tobias-k9x17 күн бұрын
Im done being an option, i I do not chase ,i attract Thankyou for helping me in this time
@TheStoicTribe10117 күн бұрын
You're welcome
@krenrr115 күн бұрын
The truth is they dont feel like any of these things. This this just is the way you want them to feel but the reality is they dont really care if you vanish, if they had wanted you there in the first place they would not intentionally treat you badly, they are driving you off. Take the hint and go find people who want you to be around, not for money or to control you, but just for being you.
@Claude-lb9wz2 ай бұрын
I use this disappearance technique to grow and then return changed as I go through my transformation!
@amymalina5073Ай бұрын
And sometimes you disappear and you never hear peep from them again. So possibly contrary to them falling apart, you were probably right that this wasn’t much of a relationship for you to be invested in. Your instincts were right and you were smart to let go. They were not invested in you
@Tomalo-DubАй бұрын
Been going through this , having Hope. It is true, they were not invested you are better alone
@simzone2472 ай бұрын
I'm done being an option!
@TheStoicTribe1012 ай бұрын
💪🔥
@DINASSOUR2 ай бұрын
How you know you've been an option
@Liam-iu8tiАй бұрын
You and me both brother
@SupaSmoothReels19 күн бұрын
Exactly
@c-son36492 ай бұрын
I'm done being an option. Did this a year ago - best year of my life!
@TheStoicTribe1012 ай бұрын
🔥🔥
@jackgoldsmith8494Ай бұрын
Walking is easy,burden unload,but your mind will play its games,no looking back,gone,new always followed loss.
@moorstring2 ай бұрын
I’m done being an Option!
@TheStoicTribe1012 ай бұрын
💪🔥
@ShineShayanEvangelistar377716 күн бұрын
❤I thankyou blessed Jesus wisdoms
@TheStoicTribe10116 күн бұрын
🙏
@henrywade65742 ай бұрын
I'm so done being a option, thank you greatly.
@TheStoicTribe1012 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@doctormalik82832 ай бұрын
All Praise Be To ALMIGHTY ALLAH(S.W.T) ,who made us Muslims and Granted us self respect and dignity,and we will not allow anyone to destroy our dignity and devalue us your videos are just mind blowing❤️❤️❤️
@TheStoicTribe1012 ай бұрын
Thank you
@JohnKent-us7jv2 ай бұрын
To take back your self- respect as a person , THOSE who ignored your love who , did"nt care enought for you , Treat them with the same disrespect , and make them fill the rejection you felt , and never let them into your life again , if they did it once they will do it again . A LEOPARD 🐆 NEVER CHANGERS OR EVERY LOSE HIS SPOTS . NEVER , I REPEAT , NEVER GO BACK TO THAT PERSON, EVER AGAIN . THEY WILL NEVER FORGET OR FORGIVE , NEITHER SHOULD YOU , ONCE YOU KICK A PERSON INTO THE LONG GRASS , NEVER GO BACK TO RETRIEVE THE BALL. YOU SRENGTHAN YOUR VALUE AS A PERSON , BY THE AMOUNT OF PEOPLE WHO YOU WILL NEVER ALLOW IN YOUR LIFE . " BE SELECTIVE ." BE STRONG , BECOME A PERSON OF VALUE , NOT A DOORMAT THAT PEOPLE JUST WIPE THERE FEET ON .
@SupaFUZZZZZZАй бұрын
Some of these people simply don't have the capacity to feel any of this. They could care less what they do to others.
@deltabravo19692 ай бұрын
Don’t chase. Replace!
@scaniarichman.User-jc2iq6lp9l2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video
@TheStoicTribe1012 ай бұрын
You're welcome man
@rajeshkumartondepatil8184Ай бұрын
Wow ! Its help me lot Sir.
@marquisemurry7Ай бұрын
My narcissist girlfriend ghosted me and life is great now
@LuigiRibeirodapalmaАй бұрын
Am done being a Option!!
@mikemcauliffe32042 ай бұрын
I’M DONE BEING AN OPTION!!!
@TheStoicTribe1012 ай бұрын
🔥🔥
@Vasxtrie28 күн бұрын
After I watch this video, this video made my day even more better. I walked away from a woman yesterday who never treat me with no respect I disappear for a few days I’m gonna disappear for a while. I’m not gonna be nowhere. Found she blocked me on Instagram. I deactivate my page and when she come back, she gonna realize I’m not done anymore. I gone Little things gone from TikTok I’m going God gonna send the right person in my life who deserved me and I walked away because she do not deserve me. I delete her pictures. I delete her name. I am done. God is good walk away and disappear for four months when they cannot find you!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@orvillepollack61982 ай бұрын
Very powerfully details!
@TheStoicTribe1012 ай бұрын
Thank you
@KDee4042 ай бұрын
My ex was a recentful loser that tried to manipulate me emotionally by ghosting me and using these tactics. He thought i was a begging woman. I offered him more than he ever had to give. I blocked his number and went no contact 🤣🤣
@jasonlake38552 ай бұрын
I’m done being an option!! Never ever again.
@user-instaadict2 ай бұрын
I did that with the person I was in badly love with him, but he didn't considered me more than a friend not close friend infact, I disappeared after few days of his marriage for month, he fell in love with me. He started to tries to get me in his life, let me clear it was long distance relationship but still he carves for me. But I am mentally strong and can't be easily get back it made me more attractive to him
@IntelligenceONE14 күн бұрын
I am done being an option.
@marktadeo7292Ай бұрын
Im done,im not an option
@MrWhaatay2 ай бұрын
Only works if they were into you. It has been 7 months and they never came back.
@Tomalo-DubАй бұрын
Yep I can relate. It’s been years. Don’t hold hope and work on yourself
@MrWhaatayАй бұрын
@Tomalo-Dub Yep. 8.5 months of silence.
@alphageneral692122 күн бұрын
Doesn’t matter….. have you become a new person with a better body more money and a better house? If not why would they come back?
@MrWhaatay20 күн бұрын
@@alphageneral6921 Yep.
@Bishalsingh_044 күн бұрын
I m being done being an option
@MarinaDedić-w9n2 ай бұрын
he took me for granted, I kept saying what was bothering me, and he said he would fix things but he didn't. I left him, but I told him why. He said that he was broken, sad, but that he had too much pride to ask me for another chance. Pride? Can someone overcome their pride for love? we have both been silent for 2 months. How is it possible that I don't miss him?
@markflippin85632 ай бұрын
I'm done being an option . I matter!
@TheStoicTribe1012 ай бұрын
💯🔥
@floaterhill18482 ай бұрын
I’m done being an option 💯
@TheStoicTribe1012 ай бұрын
💯🔥
@stevenmcclam46272 ай бұрын
I'm done being an option.
@TheStoicTribe1012 ай бұрын
💯🔥
@saraic292 ай бұрын
Im done being an Option
@TheStoicTribe1012 ай бұрын
💪🔥
@donskevofe9692 ай бұрын
I'm done being an option
@TheStoicTribe1012 ай бұрын
💪🔥
@graigfacey79352 ай бұрын
Respect
@robbiebyrd46712 ай бұрын
What to do if they show up at your job or house?
@djcarps69212 ай бұрын
Am done being an option
@TheStoicTribe1012 ай бұрын
💪🔥
@aishhikaps2 ай бұрын
I didn’t block him but in a good no contact for 4 months now after doing all the chasing. Now I see him watching my stories etc …should I block him now ? If I do now won’t that send a reaction to him? 🤔 please help! 🙁
@SuperLefty00716 күн бұрын
BLOCK, BLOCK, BLOCK him on ever thing!!! NO CONTACT!!! never, never go back it will be devastating this will be a lesson learned.
@itsawrapkevtino2 ай бұрын
Im done being an option
@dlooper12 ай бұрын
This philosophy works great with the younger women, unfortunately now that I'm older, the older, more established women don't experience these emotions
@bpoydras15032 ай бұрын
Anxiety in women knows no age.
@KDee4042 ай бұрын
I knew this video catered to some inadequacy with bitterness and resentment towards women but goddang! 😂
@TensionalityEFex2 ай бұрын
nice
@TheStoicTribe1012 ай бұрын
Thanks
@nekaswallow20922 ай бұрын
I am so done with been option and disrespect l don't deserve this l deserve better than than this.
@TheStoicTribe1012 ай бұрын
💪🔥🔥
@Greenasthecolor19912 ай бұрын
IM DONE BEING AN option
@GoryoTV11022 ай бұрын
😅😅😅 Im done beeing an option
@TheStoicTribe1012 ай бұрын
💯🔥
@BrayWsАй бұрын
This does nothing if your still a loser at life I just want yall to understand 😂😂you actually have to better yourself financially, physically and mentally
@WilliamMonroe-cv1bb2 ай бұрын
I am not even an option
@TheStoicTribe1012 ай бұрын
💪🔥
@ΣΠΥΡΙΔΩΝΓΡΗΓΟΡΙΟΥ2 ай бұрын
Dont think like that mate. U exist, therefore u r an option. Feel or create value within by being the productive leader of your life. Love urself. I dated three women in the last 20 days. We closed the date and it reached a passionate kiss or more in the end or mid date. In within three days they vanished. Ofc u ll feel down. These though happened because of their decision. Its not ours to make it. Sometimes they cant see what u can offer as a person. But if u know and expressed in a way your frame let em act on it. Check THEIR stability. But first love yourself. You R an option but u have to find a person that needs it in his life or feels it fits in their life. Sincerly, divorced man, father of four kids from Greece. Most women r lost in poor self gratifications. So if u r great it will be difficult to feel she is fit for you
@amymalina5073Ай бұрын
I think also this is not about, I’ll show you! Getting even, hurting someone who has taken you for granted, disrespected you, hurt you or whatever. Leave because this was not a genuine friend or a two sided relationship. Leave for your own well being. How they respond is none of your business. Making it your business, obsessing about your reaction just keeps you involved with them, in absentia.
@shelamatela1079Ай бұрын
🖤🗡🖤
@trainthepaintrainthepain2 ай бұрын
She used me very well and now she is going to marry some one else. But I cannot go 100 percent disappear. Becouse she is my colleague.. what I will do
@coloradoprospecting10342 ай бұрын
Brother you need to find a way, find something that takes your mind off the Emotional attachment Or whatever it may be, keep telling yourself you need to move forward with yourself. The right one will come along
@KamyaJames-d6h2 ай бұрын
I'm dne being an option
@TheStoicTribe1012 ай бұрын
💪🔥
@rockyrowlands36522 ай бұрын
I disappeared from this video after 2 minute of boringness.
@Sophia_Knowledge1022 ай бұрын
1
@INDP11232 ай бұрын
I’m done with life fuck this place
@MichaelScott-sq9xi2 ай бұрын
I'm done with being an opinion
@TheStoicTribe1012 ай бұрын
💪🔥
@rory67592 ай бұрын
I’m done being an option, of anyone’s!!!!
@TheStoicTribe1012 ай бұрын
🔥🔥
@DittoTolonges26 күн бұрын
The true lesson here was, if you saw someone that looks like a wildbore, then do not even get close to them within 6 meters. Trust me theres a reason why they became a piggie.