90 Day Fiancé: Ariela's Parents Drop a BOMBSHELL On Her And Biniyam

[@beccagonzales8536]

She is spoiled AF and her parents are wonderful and supportive. It is a blessing to have people that love you enough to set everything up for you, she is used to it and takes it for granted. I have done everything on my own and thankfully learned to do that from a very early age. Your parents are there to help steward your life not live it for you and pay for everything forever. I'm sure they paid for her education and traveling abroad! They don't owe you anything.

[@ilovegoodsax]

Yes -- she is spoiled AF and her parents have no one to blame for it but themselves. Ari has never been weaned off her parents teat! We all reap what we sow. 💯💯💯

[@rhodabrands9558]

Yes I totally agree

[@elbamedina1910]

Well.i.think that she is right...they don't even have a job....she was thinking that they were going to stay at her parents house... what is that that he is wearing..he looks ridiculous....

[@fartemisfartmallow8647]

I know. My parents gave me this after I got married: 🖕

[@sammy-di3xr]

Yes!!! I never understood why she had a live in nanny when she doesn't even work!? And her man didn't work! Lol rich white people 🤣

[@ninozbaloney7274]

What an ungrateful daughter. She is old enough to have a child but not old enough to bear her own responsibility.

[@RandomBlackGamer]

This is episode reminded me why I didn't like Ari. She's super entitled and too dependent on her parents. I thought that would subside once she had the baby but it's really kicked in now that she's back in the states.

[@rainstorm571]

Even over in Ethiopia, the parents were paying for the house and the nanny that they had, bini stopped all of his jobs after the first season 😂😂

[@emziegirl1977]

I know, i just remembered it too, i can't stand her 🙄

[@t.j.7789]

She's why, they will support her forever!!

[@agent4you2]

Her mom doesn't let her grow-up - she's an enabler.

[@loveylady7965]

It's been there all along she only thinks of herself

[@SuperYogagirl]

Unbelievable. Her parents are so kind and supportive. It kind of breaks my heart watching this (for her parents). With her arms crossed ...ugh.

[@huldahjay8495]

She is rude

[@jesseway-campbell293]

That's the parents fault on this

[@megalou6567]

If you are grown enough to have a baby and a spouse you are grown enough to pay your own bills

[@mandy4898]

It's like they've just been playing pretend house. Now it's time for real life & she's beside herself. I guarantee that was a tiny snippet of the tantrum she probably threw @ her parents off camera...

[@venitastrong1241]

Amen

[@nickibaker7283]

Amen.

[@danifranc7011]

she should be ashamed. she traveling around the world getting married and knocked up and got her parents paying for this and the guys. its shame!

[@lynne709]

The game Ari is playing is so obvious. She asked her parents to secure an apartment for her and now she’s going to make them feel guilty for leasing such a nice place so they’ll continue to financially support her. It’s so manipulative.

[@MsLignumvitae]

Ikr? But parents are enablers plus maybe because of being on "didplay" they have an image to uphold. They shld know that they will need more than 1 month he won't b able to work for at least 3-6 months ... smh parents will b their custodians

[@t.j.7789]

It's all a fake show anyway!!

[@lilliangilford6913]

For real !! She's like "I thought when we got to the states that me and Bini would have time to just spend as a family and grow closer"... like you didn't think you would have to get a job and make money?! Super entitled. I hope her mom stands firm.

[@ElsyRodriguezJoviGirl]

She lived like a rat when she first went down to Bini and her mother saw that first hand… of course her parents will provide a nice home in a safe neighborhood for them and the baby! She’s an entitled beat and I can’t stand her.

[@loredanadincu4300]

@@MsLignumvitae he won't be able to work . Hiw about her too. She never worked in her damn life except for he'd dather practas a receptionist for a couple of years. How about it's time gor her to find a job too.

[@jasminejp5899]

Mind blown 🤯……. “It’s unrealistic for us to get a job so quickly to support our family.”

[@Logic-km7ui]

Ari is a piece of work. What an ungrateful soul.

[@user-vb7pr4oc8d]

She is not ungrateful, she is being realistic. Yes her parent went a far way getting the apartment, but not having the means to pay for it is understandable scary.

[@kellyalexander7347]

Yes absolutely disgusting

[@letsbeecozy]

Def !

[@wandahernandez5770]

@@user-vb7pr4oc8d finally the unpopular opinion that I can agree on. I feel they're setting her up for failure. You can't provide the buffet when really you know they can only afford appetizers. It's kinda mean and only enabling.

[@carlynbinder7977]

She un graceful witch

[@rondacarrington4306]

Let’s face it, if her parents had gotten them a studio or one bedroom apartment, limited cable/wifi, and payed everything for six months, in other words, something a little more affordable for them, Ariel would have complained about the size of the apartment, about not being able to stream because of the limited cable/wifi… She knew Bini was not going to be able to legally work for probably a year while waiting for his work permit/green card. This grown woman, going into her second marriage, with a child and husband to support expected her parents to continue taking care of her every need. Her problem wasn’t that her parents got more for them than they could afford, it’s that they did not agree to pay everything until whenever she and Bini got jobs. She’s a spoiled brat.

[@CAM0244]

Exactly right..she would have complained and probably cussed her parents if they would've got some low budget type of place. And hell not even got the extras..oh 💩 she would've thrown a fit for real abt it. Bcuz a low budget apt most people would've been glad to have that all by itself...it's a start!! smdh

[@lynrowan2521]

Ariel is soooo ungrateful. She's ENTITLED. Did she really expect her parents to pay their living expenses forever?? She's a spoiled brat.

[@addisababanazareth1525]

Not forever but not for one month.

[@shereesetz6690]

Her parents are the most loving caring people I've come across in years.

[@jazmin8461]

She needs to stop relying on her parents for help she's a grown woman

[@jennifermadawauises1508]

Like seriously 🙄

[@angiela3439]

💯

[@lilwoken2327]

With a kid wtf

[@missym5196]

She's a spoiled child of privilege. Get a job!

[@littlesantana402]

Damn if that girl isn’t an ingrate. The least she could have done was say thank you first and tell her parents how much she appreciated it THEN tell them they should have talked to her & Bini first & let then find a place THEY can afford. Ari seems to want to leech off her parents way too much.

[@amybharadwaj3573]

Can’t believe it that she mentions “Financial Stress” - being able to work for a living so that one can afford food, shelter, rent, electricity, and transport etc all of that is called being a responsible person and in her case it would be called Growth! I have seen teenagers taking more responsibility than this woman.

[@impendingeuphoria8802]

I think she meant she cant afford a luxurious apartment with only one income stream. Her parents are wealthy and might not understand what an appropriate budget would be for her and bini. I dont think shes ungrateful, just realistic. If she can only work they should have gotten a 1 bedroom apartment for them.

[@jaejai8088]

I agree I had to take responsibility at 15... And it was hard but I did it..

[@Summerof23503]

I could imagine the financial stress her parents are feeling having to pay for 2 grown adults and their baby, so sad and ungrateful.

[@lesliefrazier6424]

I also think a one bedroom would have worked for them right now. Until they get on their feet.

[@lisakeenan3059]

I guess she'll have to work on her relationship and work at the same time like all the rest of the world !!!!!

[@RawRLisA]

She literally has the best parents ever…..

[@michekids]

Yes, God Bless them

[@venitastrong1241]

Right

[@Not.afitnesspro]

No, they failed her.

[@KJ-ci7td]

I blame her parents too as much as I blame Ari. You can't enable your child and expect them to be independent at the same time. They should've taught her to be more self reliant a long time ago and she should also realize she's a grown adult in her 30s with a child. At some point you should realize that you have to grow up.

[@windorsolarplease4314]

KJ... Agree, the parents should also acknowledge their part in over indulging from the beginning. Once our kids moved out they knew they would be on their own. I think this was just a warning, I doubt they will cut them off right away. I wonder who signed the lease and the hookups, because that is who is responsible for the payments. This might be the last place the parents will pay for.

[@Divineunlimitedenergy]

True!

[@isaacannanjr2371]

🎯

[@shaycat13]

Yep!! I was just thinking about how my parents wanted me to work, (I wanted my own pocket money without bothering them for cash) for the summer. I ended up getting paid under the table making breakfast/ lunch for children

[@mimit-h2418]

Please don’t be quick to judge because you don’t know the story behind it other than what TLC shares. I see your prospective, but still they have a grandchild to consider.

[@pattyry]

Did she really expect her parents to pay for the apartment? Unbelievable!!!!

[@loveandhappyiness]

Yes, lol. Get married, have a baby than let mom and dad pay the bills.

[@coyotedust]

Ari just stands there listening to everything her parents payed for: down-payment, security deposit, first month's rent, cable set up w/ fast wi-fi, electricity like it's expected. They've been paying for everything, including the Nanny since they've been together. *Then when the father and mother say, they hope within 3 months or so down the road, they can start contributing, the entire mood changed with Ari complaining if she was in the USA alone, she wouldn't of chose such a luxurious apartment with two bedrooms and all the perks. Instead of being grateful and thanking them, she chastises and criticizes them for renting an apartment that is expensive and more luxurious than she would of chose, and then have the audacity to expect them to take over payments ASAP!!!! Instead of saying we will do everything to be able to take over expenses, and we appreciate all your help so far, she complains to the producers that her parents are being unrealistic about wanting them to contribute "so soon." How long have they been living together? Who's been supporting them the entire time in Ethiopia, paying for all the medical bills and nanny for Avi, and funding trips to Kenya to do a trial honeymoon? *Now she says she was hoping her parents would pay for everything long enough for her and Bini to spend time together! How much more time does she need?

[@BatteredRose]

Unless Bini has everything set up to legally work, he can't do anything. That usually takes a whole year or so. This is on Ari. And yes, she is absolutely ungrateful and it makes me feel so nauseous. To have parents willing to do all of that is a huge blessing a lot of people don't have and to start acting up because they expect her to take over her life is so ridiculous.

[@lydiapicano8806]

Agreed, and btw even if she gets a job and cannot afford all the expenses her parents would help her out. It's not an all or nothing deal, she should be grateful.

[@MsBMusic2]

Ari was expecting her parents to keep on paying for Everything!! They paid for the trips to Ethiopia, apts. Kenya nanny. They have gone above and beyond for Ari. Its time she grew up. Why is she in Ethiopia when she should be working or looking for work??!! Her parents are getting older and im sure her siblings have told her parents its time to cut the cord. This is probably why they are Back on 90 day for money.

[@loudiesalomon311]

🤣🤣🤣😭

[@kimberlygonzalez3384]

The funny thing is, she was uncomfortable with the apartment in Ethiopia, now she's uncomfortable with the expensive apartment. Like ma'am pick your poison 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@agent4you2]

He seems more appreciative than she does. She lives in a fantasy world - wants the perfect little life (without any responsibilities).

[@marianne9943]

For the past few years her parents have paid for everything for her, Bini & the baby. She hasn’t worked during any of this time (& I don’t think he’s done much “paid” work) BUT they had to have a nanny for her child which the parents also paid for 🤦🏼‍♀️ 🤯 Wonder if she was/is expecting to have a nanny back in the USA as well 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@ruthboaz3984]

TLC paid her good money this is just show to make Americans great 😌 hmm 🤔

[@coyotedust]

Of course she was. Why would Ari down-grade her upkeep after moving to America? Who will make her cute French braids before each filming episode? I can see her expecting more, even a new car! Ari thinks she is doing her parents a favor by moving close to home, as she is their only child. Seeing that she is spoiled beyond anyone's imagination, other than a Hollywood brat, she doesn't strike me as the type of grateful person to "give back to her parents," but take. She thinks she is entitled to being cared for even as an adult with a child.

[@kurlenejohn5463]

Bini actually worked a lot when he was in Ethiopia and helped took care of his son and helped maintain her lifestyle as well. This woman is a SPOILED BRAT ! She has travelled the world, for years. Walked out on her first husband without saying goodbye, ;Lived in Ethiopia and got pregnant, isolated Bini from his family ... she NEEDS to WAKE UP and get it togther!

[@MsLiberty101]

@@ruthboaz3984 TLC PAYS THEM sh*t!!! Its really bad!!

[@BatteredRose]

If you're not working there is no need for a nanny. This girl has been so blessed but she's also so ungrateful.

[@mandy4898]

Ari is LYING when she says she would have chosen a cheaper place. Remember the "cheaper place" that Bini had that she was too good for?

[@panterona]

So you forced him to leave his country where he could work and provide for you and his family to come to America where you had no plan on how you were going to work and provide for him while he obviously cannot work?? Make this make sense

[@tinadraper9143]

It's just 90 days til he can get a work permit, they will be better off in the long run.

[@lillybethford1915]

Unfortunately, Bini never worked in his country. There were sporadic dance engagements and he was in the studio a lot…studio time that she paid for…well, her parents.

[@panterona]

@@lillybethford1915 Even worse if you ask me LOL Now it all makes even less sense :(

[@justinenicole3926]

@@lillybethford1915 Didn't he also work painting builings/contracting stuff?

[@sophie2084]

Exactly!

[@smply_san6007]

She is 30 yrs old and still expects to be financially supported by her aging parents🤯

[@mercybadoe3086]

Did she really say it’s “ not realistic” to start paying your own bills and put a roof over your own head as a grown adult with a child? GIRL BYE

[@carolinechavez9203]

She means its not realistic for what her budget has been. She understands a two bedroom is more than a one bedroom apartment. On top of that fast cable connection and wifi are also luxuries. I understand her irritation especially if her parents income are probably double or triple thd amount her and Bini could make for themselves realistically. I can see where the fear is beginning to set in as far as how she will manage after her parents cut the cord. That's if they do at this point. Again, they were very supportive of Ari being with Bini, but I can sense they disapprove of their relationship.

[@rainstorm571]

@@carolinechavez9203 yea but she definitely thought that with her complaining that they would continue to pay for everything, don’t forget that the parents paid for their lifestyle in Ethiopia. So, if she was really serious about paying her bills then she would’ve told them to look for cheaper and not in the same building as them

[@loredanadincu4300]

@@rainstorm571 her parents paid before Ethiopia tok. They pay fir her shit almost all her life . She said numerous times she was traveling around the world. On what money di you belive she did that. They show her " working " fir her father as a receptionist at his medical practice. If she did work ir that was for just fir the world to see. She said something about some journalist work done independently that she fid in the past, but she didn't detailed.

[@coastalgirl7739]

She just doesn't want to work. She's been entitled and spoiled her whole life.

[@jeepgirl1743]

As an adult the roles change. She should be helping her parents! Disappointing to see a grown woman taking advantage of her parents like this.

[@sharondanya]

Not yet. The parents are fully capable at this stage in their life

[@carlynbinder7977]

She married got husband get dam job. They don't owe you nothing

[@morningdove20]

U R SO Right!!! 👍

[@simonejuneau2143]

"Thanks, BUT it's STILL not good enough." I'd be SOOOOOO FRIGGEN' ANGRY, if I were her parents. Ariella, how many times do you "start over" a 2 + yr old relationship, when there is a child involved? Get your head out of the clouds, and get into reality, BEFORE they cut you off altogether!

[@eclaufs7385]

Now I see why her sister in law threw red wine in her face. She’s spoiled and manipulative. Using her parents to fund everything.

[@Leenalast90]

No no what you saying is wrong, I dont like Ari but Bini’s sister behaviour was unacceptable and rude

[@amazingautumn12]

Throwing wine and any physical violence is despicable. His sisters are very flawed individuals, judgemental and gossip a lot. They never made Ari welcomed and accepted.

[@jacquelinelorrain2344]

​@@amazingautumn12 Totaly agree with you !!!!!

[@merimamo3963]

Thanks for understanding

[@SureYoureRight]

Same. I don’t agree with what they did but I completely understand why they did it.

[@lpetite8636]

These parents played a major role in this young woman being a dependent at this age. Don't want to hear your excuses of the cost etc. GROW UP YOU TWO....BOO HOO, Ari...really how long did you think Mom and Dad were going to support you....Please

[@KPazzz]

She could easily go get a waitress job to start bringing in money asap 🙄

[@mariallorensdepner5852]

Or a even a barista job would give Ari a swift kick…..

[@woudecacharles3157]

My question is: doesn't she have a carrier didn't she go to school to become something? Why can't she work look for job to provide for her family while Bini is waiting for his work permit. This is America you can anything to provide for your family. Be independent earn some respect for yourself and your husband

[@rainstorm571]

@@woudecacharles3157 she was her father’s secretary or assistant at his medical practice before, so really she could ask them to give her a job again

[@woudecacharles3157]

@@rainstorm571 even bini can do something under the table in order to pay for his phone bill. This is America it has all kind of jobs . She needs to grow up be responsible she should show her dad that she is willing to work.

[@stuff1784]

That’s below her (she thinks)

[@KandiBabyy]

Was Ari worried about saving up enough money for rent/bills whenever she paid for all the work she got done on her face?!?! I mean be for real…they had a damn live in Nanny while neither of them had a job. SMH. Ari is both spoiled and manipulative.

[@solaris5922]

She didn’t think about any of this before bringing him here at all which is extremely irresponsible…Although the parents had good intentions why did they get something so expensive knowing the situation?

[@rhodabrands9558]

Bc they will pay for it no matter what

[@tiinaikonen7754]

Well this is what they are comfortable of her parents paying, sure they are comfortable themselves paying it too. Or what, they didn't even think about how much it costs for the parents?

[@AmandaRogersarock1988]

I believe they are moving to New York so it's expensive everywhere they go. I saw online her parents filed for bankruptcy though so I'm wondering how they secured this at all.

[@rains5]

Why didn't she find an apartment? She wasn't working.

[@AmandaRogersarock1988]

@@rains5 It's not like her parents can afford it either tho they filed for bankruptcy earlier this year. So how did they secure it in the thick of that?

[@jacksontamica03]

This is crazy Ari knew her parents would do everything for her. The only unrealistic thing is Bini can't work for at least a year so it's on Ari to take care of the family. Ari is so spoiled

[@chrisgarcia1487]

She's a child and very ungrateful.

[@nikkibracy312]

How is this her parents problem?🤔 they give her everything, then she has a baby by a man, that can’t even work when he gets here. It makes no sense for her attitude. It’s actually embarrassing. This was so irresponsible. Don’t burden them with your bs.🤷🏽‍♀️

[@maryowens7037]

Exactly 💯 👌

[@jackiemoore3442]

It's her parent's problem because they have made her into an entitled child

[@nikkibracy312]

@@jackiemoore3442 It’s also her problem because anyone can be raised a certain way. But as a adult try to change for the better.If they were raised wrong. I wasn’t raised up the best. But as a child I watched and learned what not to be. I’m doing great in life, and I’m self sufficient. There is no excuse at all.

[@MidUser95]

🤣🤣 Ari always has an argument ready. TLC must love them because a bitchy spouse and a husband that takes an unlimited amount of abuse makes it easy for drama to happen naturally, which generates a looot of views.

[@hlife5983]

TLC gives them the script anyway. everything they show us is not real.

[@aleks4952]

“What if it doesn’t work out”- girl! This must work out! Make sure it will work out! You have family to provide for … if Bini is not able to work now… you do! And kiss your parents feet for all their help ! So ungrateful!

[@michekids]

Yes and Amen.

[@jesseway-campbell293]

They shouldn't have rented and signed a lease for an apt that they couldn't afford without talking to the people they were renting it for

[@laurenkeim5031]

Wow, I would be so grateful. What an amazing gift. The parents are so kind to be doing this and they don’t appreciate it at all.

[@faz7531]

Gotta love this. Unplanned pretty much everything. Gotta love fans of the show when the say oh how cute this couple is. Yeah if cuteness was the primary source of survival

[@heatherperry1052]

Just the fact my parents would do that would make me go hard to show my parents how grateful I am to them

[@quianacrum2414]

exactly i wish

[@michekids]

No kidding

[@kims7697]

Must be nice! Everything handed to you on a silver platter. She seems so entitled and demanding. I can’t believe she had a nanny for one kid. Lol

[@csw2578]

I can't believe there are people out there who totally rely on their parents this way. Especially after having a child!

[@TM-pf1hs]

My thoughts exactly. I began contributing to my parents' household when I got my first job at 16. No, they didn't ask me to. Yes, both had good jobs (Mom is a Nurse Practitioner and dad a Gynecologist). However, they taught me responsibility and I felt that it was the right thing to do. Ari being an adult woman should understand the same

[@TM-pf1hs]

Ari's parents are creating this weird codependent relationship with their daughter and Bini. It is a form of control. Don't take them at face value.

[@keriannmarshall-schmid3899]

I totally understand why his sister tossed a good glass of red wine in her face! She thinks she's better than everyone else but she's lived off of her parents $$ until they cut her off finally. And they're wonderful people who won't let their grandchild go without. It's just that they should've put a stop to her a long time ago!

[@Not.afitnesspro]

100% Ari pisses me off and I only see her for a couple of minutes each week for her segments, imagine this bitch around you all the time. Truly a curse

[@minkyann8132]

Ridiculous!! this lady needs to grow up. So sad when her reality is so skewed. Thank goodness for mom/dad.

[@debbiewinsatlife4799]

Entitled. Entitled. Entitled. Grow up Ari.

[@redzeppelin24]

She had extra money to get Botox tho…

[@rmcelroy73]

And fillers

[@mskeri24]

That part ‼️‼️

[@MaiMai-ys4yg]

@@rmcelroy73 heavy on the fillers!

[@fishmanhype6304]

Y’all see that hih

[@damienkirksey7026]

Her voice sounds too funny to me

[@colleen1219]

These parents are amazing. 99.9% sure they were also paying for their lifestyle abroad. At some point they had to draw a line. These two are grown adults with their own child.

[@Not.afitnesspro]

The line is drawn at 18 years old. They failed her

[@lissiiii]

Imagine depending on your parents like that when u are an adult with a child wow

[@Vb-fy4sv]

Ari looked almost traumatised when her mother was explaining about bills and rent etc ,how can she expect her parents to pay for EVERYTHING STILL ? It looks like Ari has had some “ WORK DONE “ who paid for that ? Surely TLC pay them SOMETHING?

[@9liveslisa]

The parents should have told them that they have to be out of their house in 3 months and let them figure out how they are going to do that instead of gifting them a place they probably cannot afford. But I will say they have spent a lot of money with travel etc and they need to get real about money and supporting themselves. The parents were well-meaning but they have totally been enabling them and unfortunately are part of the problem. They have totally spoiled their daughter. It's a cluster.

[@user-ui2hw5os3d]

Yeah, i think if they are trying to get them to be self sustaining, why then get a house that isn't sustainable for them long term? Set them up in a situation they have hope of taking over.

[@loredanadincu4300]

@@user-ui2hw5os3d oh please they'd pay fir gershit fir years now. They paid for her when she was alone too. The entitled brat was used to travel the world on her parents money and dhe barely work for a couple of years at her father medical practice as a receptionist.

[@user-sw8eo4bn2v]

She can afford lip injections but not the rent and utilities that her mother set up for her smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@yourfriendmimi]

Ariel is concerned with her stress. How about the stress on your parents worrying about paying for two households? Like my granny used to say “You made your bed, you sleep in it.”

[@mewtwomotherfuka]

Dont you think for the 1st month they should have moved in with the parents then figured everything out 1st

[@beautybylatrellellc3563]

If she's so stressed she needs to give custody of her son to her parents and Bini and she needs to check herself in a hospital or something. I bet she will come out of that "stress" if they threatened that. She thinks by throwing the "stress" word around she will continue to live free and get what she wants. So maybe she needs the "stress" of being a mother alleviated.

[@simplegirlslifestyle261]

When I got married, his parents didn’t give us a dime… we started from scratch with $4000 when the rent was $1130. Went to work as soon as the job was found. Worked 2 jobs and studied. This woman is beyond ungrateful

[@earthwaterfall1498]

All I can do is drop my jaw, wow!!! Unbelievable I couldn't imagine!!! Her parents should have stopped footing the bill a long time ago.

[@evamekonnen]

“ Bini and I thought when we arrive to US we could just be more relaxed and focus on having more kids while we get my parents to pay all our bills “ you just got to love her for her innocence

[@andrewstevadol1855]

Hello... I couldn't resist saying how are you doing and I hope you are keeping safe and sound ? .

[@CAM0244]

I hear ya but that's not innocence...that's nothing but Entitlement. She should be ashamed feeling and saying the 💩 she say to her wonderful parents. She will be lost cause if something happened to them.

[@Seaflower722]

Ari is 30 years old woman and I would be embarrassed if my parents paid my rent let alone set EVERYTHING for me and MY family. Her sense of entitlement is entirely mind-blowing, she had zero planning in place since her time in Ethiopia. It's just ridiculous! If you are a mom and a soon-to-be wife then act like the adult you "are" and get your own things set up. Your parents DO NOT owe you anything. They don't HAVE to do anything for you or your family. They CHOOSE to help you and support YOU and YOUR family. This is disgustingly entitlement beyond belief! Just zip your mouth and put on your big girl pants and actually be the adult you say you are. Edit: One thing I wanted to add, Avi is two years old. Which means Ari’s parents have been taking care of her for almost three years now (including her pregnancy 9 months). And all they’re asking is for her to pick up a bit of the weight of the burden and responsibilities that comes with taking care of three additional mouths. And they know it’ll probably take them a year or two additional years until Bin is able to work before their all settled. That would mean her parents have been taking care of them for 4 to 5 full years at that point. Her parents are not spring chickens and SHE should be helping them and alleviating that responsibility off them. If I was her sibling I would’ve ripped her a new one by now.

[@staykeli1635]

Me too.

[@CAM0244]

That's kind of what I was thinking abt siblings 🤔 They probably thinking she should've stayed her azz in Africa 😅 And yes I know the parents was footing the bills over there, but it's a hellava lot less than here in America.

[@Seaflower722]

@@CAM0244 Exactly my point! The financial responsibility is far less in Ethiopia vs the states. And your ungrateful self is worry of how they’re going to foot the bill. Um excuse me but they shouldn’t be footing for nothing for you and your family. Moving to Ethiopia was your decision, having a child was your decision, and moving to the states again your decision. So here’s everything for you now go and make your life. She didn’t work in Ethiopia so why did she even have a nanny to begin with? Had she been working and coming up with a game plan than that’s something else. Her parents are doing this on purpose and that’s simply because they’re tired of footing the bill. And she’s so dense minded she doesn’t even see it but instead complains and plays the victim. I can’t stand people that are so entitled and have a false sense of expectation that is not sustainable.

[@kathythompson4552]

This is what happens when s child is so blatantly spoiled,sooner or later it all comes to a crashing end I.saw it from.the start : a nanny for a stay at home mother?

[@sofiarose4533]

She is so ungrateful! I’m a single mom and I work a lot of hours and pay for myself and my child. It’s not easy, but I would rather that than having to rely on my family. Her parents need to step back and let her stand on her own two feet. It’s the only way she will ever learn to adult. Maybe, she will then learn how to be gracious and appreciate her family! She is blessed to have such lovely parents.

[@andrispaez374]

Unbelievable I would never would allow my parents pay my rent! She should be the one helping her parents.

[@katella]

Her parents don't need help. They are both medical professionals fessionals

[@felixgarnet]

Well, they will retire at some point and even with good pensions they will need caring for.

[@loredanadincu4300]

@@katella and what. That doesn't mean they need to pay fir her shit . They could gave buy a house with the money they spent on her attics.

[@cecipaz9806]

Unbelievable! How entitled and ungrateful Ari is. At that age they should be financially responsible for their family. Does she expect a lifetime of support from her parents? 🤨

[@maryamaosman8953]

Am here in usa and work pay my bill came few years as refugee. She was born and raised here she can get any job. She doesn’t want to work her parents need to stop supporting her.

[@carmen1869]

I like Ari's parents..they are trying to help them get on their feet and giving them time to get a job etc ..she's got 3 months to get a job and Binyam can watch the baby while she works and I'm sure her parents would help out with that too...what was she thinking??? That they were going to move in with the parents??? But on the other hand it would have been nice if they talked about what kind of place they could afford together instead of deciding for them ..A BIG thank you mom and dad would have been nice!

[@mandy4898]

They've had 3 years! Imagine if I had my bills & childcare taken care of for 3 years... I'd have SO much money saved up I'd probably be able to buy a house & pay it off!

[@michekids]

Yes, at the least

[@ygd8663]

She knew she married a poor man from a poor country and she's entitled and spoiled af. This relationship will not last

[@michekids]

I was thinking that after her reaction and response, wait until it really hits the fan. How do you like your crow prepared? Ethiopian style?

[@hammertime9989]

They are pretty much saying to him this is how we expect you to provide for our daughter.

[@tanyaheald9283]

She should be ashamed of herself the fact that your family has been paying for all of your stuff here and in Africa

[@notsureiL]

Dad walked out disappointed. How did I raise her?

[@rickyayy]

She seems ungrateful

[@rachelsbusy9948]

News Headline: Adults must pay bills. Shocker.

[@blasttorres]

Parents do not help, they cripple their own children when doing this

[@marionwilson8982]

Spoiled. Spoiled. Spoiled.

[@noodlesfoodles5325]

Three words I think of when it comes to Ariela: Ungrateful, Lazy and Damaged.

[@beccav4181]

She's spoiled Omg he can't work at the moment but she can in the meantime. She expects her parents to pay for everything. Something she should have thought about before starting a family.

[@TripleBMe]

I’m just appalled! As a single mom this would have been such a blessing at a time in my life.

[@user-vb7pr4oc8d]

A blessing?? Without the money to pay? Parents had good intentions but this could also turn out to be a burden and a stressor, esp if you are not working

[@jbad409]

Not if you couldn't afford it.

[@prtdiva]

@@user-vb7pr4oc8d didn’t Ari go to college? It’s not like she had to work at Burger King and can’t afford rent. Ari just doesn’t want to work. The hard part about getting a place is finding the money for a security deposit and first months rent. Her parents covered that and will probably cover a couple more months. That’s about THREE months to work and save without paying any bills. Let’s say she gets a job earning about 1,500 every two weeks. 3,000 per month for 3 months is about 9,000. Cut 2,000 for food, miscellaneous and transportation. She’s still left with 7,000 in savings to start taking on some of those bills. She’s actually in a great position than most people. If she has a college degree she can be a paralegal, substitute teach (they actually pay really well in Chicago for subs.), hell most entry level jobs start with 40K salary. Ari has options. She’s just being lazy. Not to mention most industries are in a worker shortage bc of folks quitting their jobs due to COVID. She could also become a server. They make really good money if you can get a job at a mid-high end restaurant. The point is there are options for them. I don’t feel bad for Ari. Ari needs to grow up 🙄

[@teemopanda02]

@@user-vb7pr4oc8d the parents didn’t tell her to bump and grind without protection with a stranger. They’ve been paying for everything so far

[@jesseway-campbell293]

@@teemopanda02 That doesn't have anything to do with them going out and getting an apartment for them without talking to Ari and Bini about their budget. They took it upon themselves to pay for move in cost/sign a lease without caring about the budget ... so they're probably gonna have to pay the rent for most likely more than a year

[@kara2162]

Girlfriend needs a J.O.B. Binyan can stay home with the baby until he can work.

[@andrewstevadol1855]

Hello.... I couldn't resist saying how are you doing and I hope you are keeping safe and sound .?

[@Beepscat1]

He already takes care of their baby 24/7. She NEVER takes care of the baby. EVER.

[@hayattabbah6267]

Such sweet parents

[@suziechampagne357]

I can't stand her. There's always something she's unsatisfied about. Gees girl, if your parents both died in a car accident the following day and weren't there to set you up and provide, to whom would you turn to and whine that "it's unrealistic" to fend for yourself ? This girl needs a frickin wake up call

[@saskiavr5822]

If you want to live an adult life, married with children, then you have adult responsibilities...... And she is so ungrateful. I feel sorry for her parents.

[@hawihawi9260]

Oh it's unreasonable to ask two grown people with a child to ask them to pay their own bill and give them a grace period of 3 months! What a horrible parents they are!🙄

[@texassunflower]

Did Ariella do something to her face? So she's basically saying her parents should not have chose this home for her. Why were they choosing her home anyway? Did she not know what they were doing? Why didnt she choose a home she knew she could afford with her grown husband?

[@gypsysoul86]

I think they chose it for her as a "surprise".. but they chose a really expensive place that was more their taste

[@imanidivine5456]

Right they shouldn't have picked a expensive place Monthly they cant afford that then the cable and so forth. Jeesh here parents dropped the ball well they better start looking for a cheaper place to live and Ari needs a job she can get 1 and Bini can stay home with they kid until he's able to get a job. Make it work 2 heads is better than 1

[@coyotedust]

She did lots to her face and had injections in her buttock as well. Who's paying for that?

[@rubyjewel1904]

I was thinking the same thing. To her lips her face looks different. She was just fine before

[@TJWC]

@@imanidivine5456 she and Bini should have done it all themselves.

[@teresaguante2587]

Ari's parents are so good and loving, Ari is so entitled and dependent on her parents. She's got a nanny, childcare is taking care of. She needs to grow up and act like a grownup What excuse does she have to not work until Biniyam is officially able to work?

[@kelly9714]

For shame on you Ari 😭😭 You are so so ungrateful and to still depend on your parents is appalling 😭😭 What about the money you were paid for this show??? It’s bad enough your parents are still financially keeping you but to also be expected to financially provide for your partner is disgraceful 😭😭 We understand he cannot take work at the moment but surely you never really expected your parents to keep him too?? Unbelievable!!

[@scrillscrill1099]

Surely they are making a check by now. So they should be paying.

[@jair7327]

Girlll…. Are you serious? You couldn’t just say thank you? And get a damn job?

[@Riyaanreality]

Wow! How entitled! If I went to another country and married someone who can’t work, my parents would be like “pay for your choices” and the responsibility would be on me. My parents wouldn’t pay a penny. She should be grateful her parents are helping out. Smh!

[@victorialynnstewart9668]

Feel blessed u have your parents, they have been there since day one with u guys.

[@treeoflife7854]

"The life you wanna lead" Ari "great,gimme your wallet"

[@silvialola1346]

Is she a spoiled, unappreciative brat or what?! What was that attitude😳are you kidding me? Go get a JOB! both of you, that’s what you can do to support your family! Geez… please girl, get real

[@MadiiPlays]

Ari doesn't seem to realize how good she's got it. Yes it's hard but she's a GROWN women. What is she expecting? To be cared for forever? Most people would have to pay there own first rent and lease on there own. Instead of helping me, my own mother abandoned me on a sidewalk in a city I was unfamiliar with at 18 and had to learn how to take care of myself and stand up. If I can do it from nothing so can she.

[@sammiemohammed476]

She don’t know what financial stress is!!! That’s her baby and husband figure it out get 2 jobs since you wanted him in USA so bad!!! He looked at her like what is work when her dad told them to contribute… Uggh! Her parents are saints! Wouldn’t and couldn’t be me! Grand baby or not…

[@nettybetty7185]

If you’re capable enough to solo travel, have sex, develop a relationship, have a baby, sponsor your lover in your home country, then surely to God you’re capable of paying for your life decisions. Why should your parents continuously shell out for YOUR life’s desires?! Girl. Grow up already.

[@ankina86]

Since I was like 24 I was the one that had to help my parents and not the other way around. She spoke like she was never planning to pay for herself... lol

[@MsBMusic2]

Thats because she wasnt 😂

[@aan9775]

It's funny how she speaks about her financial stress like her parents have some responsibility for her life. Get a job. So many stores are hiring. Let him get a job under the table till he gets his permit so that you all can feed the baby you brought to this world

[@edwardzamora4781]

Never hook up ungrateful, and lazy people who don't like to work, and only leach from people!

[@KandiBabyy]

Also, let’s not forget a lot of job applications are done online now… She knew a decent amount of time that they were moving to America. She could’ve been filled out some applications.

[@mewtwomotherfuka]

She looked like she was hearing that for the 1st time. Why didnt her parents bring it up before hand

[@jazzyj6640]

She’s definitely used to relying on her parents. I can tell by her reaction. She could have worked out a 6 month plan with her parents. I’m sure her parents would have been okay with that. - cancel the cable. Solved!

[@ShoutItFromTheHousetops]

They need to do what every healthy young couple needs to do…update their résumé, apply for jobs and start the interview process. Also temporary state support for low income can also help through programs like SNAP (Foods-stamps), WIC. Just a trip down to their local DSHS office would help them. Hopefully before Bini can legally work, he needs to immediately start building relationships and networking through the local Ethiopian community. He could start promoting his music through them and when he can start working, he could’ve already had some gigs lined up on the calendar.

[@shevonneherbert8015]

It's the parents fault shes like that she will never be able to help herself

[@jeanniefeaster4325]

How dare she say that to her parents. Getting a job right away is complete reality. Welcome to the real world spoiled princess.

[@ftmb1022]

Well parents you have groomed a spoiled brat!!!! God bless ya'll.

[@Ladeine]

SPOILED!!!! Like these people are grown and don’t want to deal with life? It’s actually ridiculous!!

[@andrewstevadol1855]

Hello.... I couldn't resist saying how are you doing and I hope you are keeping safe and sound .?