90 Day Fiancé: Asuelu TACKLES His Sister and Drags His Mom Out the House!

ET's Melicia Johnson breaks down the must-see moments from season 6, episode 14 of '90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After,' from Asuelu tackling his sister and kicking her and his mom out of Kalani’s parents’ home, to Yara slapping Jovi at the strip club. '90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After' airs Sundays at 8 p.m. ET/PT on TLC.
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[@theofficialnikkisnews]

People need to understand that when you enter someone’s house, you need to show them the utmost respect in their homes.

[@netnews9471]

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[@Empiremustfal]

Well, where are you living? In God's Universe. Do you pay respect? Probably not

[@nellae9101]

@@Empiremustfal must be talking about yourself....not everyone is like you lol

[@Empiremustfal]

@@nellae9101 You have no idea what you're saying

[@theteacuppie]

Yeah that’s true that’s why I avoid some houses from my siblings cause I can’t stand their spouses. And honestly I don’t wanna bring that energy to the home, I guess I do respect my siblings enough then

[@jessie9117]

Can we keep in mind his mother also straight up said she doesn’t care about the kids that he just needs to send money her and tam should’ve gotten that “tackle” ages ago

[@ButternutBanyana]

😅😅😅😆

[@dajierena]

Yes she did say that!

[@jimmymekkawi8977]

Sometimes parents and family are the most toxic

[@kayc1678]

Totally agree 💯

[@a.ros12]

She would've become dead to me after that.

[@justpeachy0802]

The way Asuelo's Mom shouted "WE DON'T LIKE YOU ANYMORE!" through the closed door had me DYING 🤣🤣🤣

[@myoweri]

That sounds like my little sister when I don’t give her something

[@hettyakanson4840]

Girrrrrlll🤣🤣

[@sittingdingo1]

Same bud, roflmfao what a PISSA!

[@hellohello.742]

Lmfao

[@yasnyne]

Like a toddler

[@kathleenchapman3890]

The mother and sister need exorcisms...good grief such horrible people.

[@biggim3265]

so funny and true 😂😂😂

[@chloepaix25]

So true!!! Th're horrible !!!

[@israela233]

💀😂

[@catherinecaladiao8638]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@stephaniecole962]

😆

[@ladymoon1773]

There has never been 1 episode with Asuelo and his mom that she doesn't ask for money. Seriously

[@vw1649]

Exactly. Pretty sad...

[@Allinmyworld]

I honestly think at this point she waits for the cameras to ask to put pressure on him.

[@jowiny123]

I'm beginning to think it's scripted. Aseulo's mom is always asking for money. It's like the key thing in their staying on TLC

[@mikuforlife1929]

@@ladywed2699 It’s a nice gesture to help out your family but it’s trashy when it’s an expectation which they make painfully obvious

[@104yearsago]

@@mikuforlife1929 It's always great for people to help out family. I have friends who work a ton and send money they make to their family back in Mexico. But she is rich and lives in a huge house so she can afford to send them money. It's trash when people like Asuelo's mom beg for money when she's been repeatedly told that they don't have money and need to be able to afford to feed their kids.

[@chisam743]

Kalani's sister the prettiest ,the most caring, the protector... She's one of the beautiful woman💕💕

[@haiaradwa5804]

I agree she’s so beautiful and so smart and confident

[@bettyannglover7045]

Hawaiian Genes are very beautiful 😻

[@sigh9610]

​@@bettyannglover7045She's not Hawaiian. She's Samoan

[@DragoMusivini]

I smell beta.

[@tylerj6182]

When Kalini said he’s my family now It warmed my icy heart

[@meadowgailer5659]

Yep that made me like her

[@starsigngirl9789]

Your icy heart aww 🤣

[@tanisha_hernandez]

Kolini right? Anyway that was actually nice of her! But technically kalani + asuelu or however u spell his name are a family and he should just tell his mom and sis to kick back regardless of how he was brought up.

[@rlim7305]

Yeah the way she stood up for him was really nice. Especially since she hasn’t always liked him for her sister. It was very mature of her.

[@michellecampbell7083]

It was a nice moment

[@Tachouz]

"I'm selfless. I got nine children." Yeah right! She had nine children so they could all give her money when they grow up. She said so herself. That's far from being selfless.

[@justinas1298]

I was dumbstruck when Asuelu said she gives away money to others including the church and lets her kids eat crappy food. something tells me she could be in a cult whose sole purpose is to get money out of sheeple. churches don't force you to donate if you don't want to

[@conniechretien1797]

She wants money to play bingo. 😆😛😜

[@SusanMinhTrangNguyen]

"I'm selfless, now GIVE ME MONEY!!!"

[@conniechretien1797]

@@SusanMinhTrangNguyen I think she meant selfish ,,,,,,😞

[@fmfdocbotl4358]

@@justinas1298 no they just kick you out the church or let everyone know you didn't give

[@pinkchair]

Yara was being fun at the dinner, which clearly demonstrates that she’s able to be a fun mom and wife. But Jovi couldn’t appreciate the moment! His only idea of fun is getting drunk and stupid. I do not condone her physical violence but I felt bad for Yara here.

[@wandahernandez5770]

Seriously. It was absolutely disrespectful and borderline abusive. Girl, RUN! 🏃‍♀️

[@BrandyTexas214]

I condone her slapping jovi 100%

[@maryreed4534]

@@BrandyTexas214 Me too.

[@murasakino101]

@@BrandyTexas214 Same. I would have slapped his ass too. Like why take her to a strip club in the first place? Then he blows a kiss at the stripper? Dude needs to stick to being single and not ready to mingle

[@jasminehernandez8745]

Honestly I’m really happy that yara did what she did because jovi throwing kisses at the stripper in front of his wife was extremely disrespectful

[@ericrobins5188]

Unfortunately, he did the right thing. You know exactly when your family is about to attack somebody I've seen my sister do it on many occasions. He stopped his sister He didn't punch her. He just literally pushed her out the door. I think he needs to be a bouncer for a club and maybe he'll make some more money.

[@leecanash9538]

lmao

[@Sandra.-.]

Good advise but still shady 🤣🤣🤣

[@AWKWARDCONFIDENCE]

😂😂😂😂

[@karykartoon7857]

💯💯💯

[@BlvckHouzWyf_Inc]

Lmao exactly he would make a great bouncer because he bounced they AZZ out of there fast 🤣!!!!

[@prettyinink1661]

I'm proud of asuelu for pulling out those memories of his mom giving money to the church & getting nothing in return, kids eating the bare minimum.

[@stevesanzari7294]

His Mom is a Lowlife !

[@wandahernandez5770]

Yes!! Expose it! Yes, he definitely has the right to question where the money is going. It needs to go to his moms well being. Not to the whole village. Not ok.

[@tanisha_hernandez]

I think it’s hard when parents force religious beliefs and show no example at home. Parents don’t damage ur children this way.

[@tanisha_hernandez]

And y’all better not get in ur feelings about it bc it’s the truth 😂🤦‍♀️

[@briantorres5630]

Some ppl swear sucking up to the people of the church will get u into heaven

[@lindahawk787]

The sister has been the biggest problem, the mom was actually starting to be nice, but the sister would never let things go, can't stand her

[@olivergarrick672]

Iam so proud of asuelu for putting his sister out. He still respects his mother but, his sister would've got her ass whooped if she was in my home with that bs!.

[@jasmineharrison7822]

The ambulance would’ve been called if she wants to try me 😁

[@ccrz77]

it was his fault, he knew what he was doing giving Kalani that present in front of his mom and sister.

[@nolan318]

Proud of him? He's a moron who created an awkward situation that led to drama, and then he tries to play the hero? If he were any slower he'd be going backwards.

[@thaliac7853]

His sister talked about beating people up and look what happened. Nothing she was all talk lol

[@alicialynnette9889]

Agreed!!!

[@JustMe-dn9fh]

If Asuleo mom has 9 children, can't the other 8 help her out financially? So much money hungry drama!

[@freedomofspeech2420]

Lol not when she keeps giving the money to the church

[@TruthHurts922]

My family is phillipino it’s similar. If we give My mother in law 1,000 the family will actually see maybe 200$ the rest to the “church” we stopped giving money and send clothes and goods they need. I had a good talk with her and explained I thought the church was taking her money, well she did some digging and they were it was so sad. It made us closer though she was happy we still help support her

[@jjuly619]

What is those 8 kids already give her 1,000 each that’s 8,000 it’s crazy !!!

[@px2387]

sooo tru👏👏👏👏😅🤔

[@carolynrussell5049]

9 kids where are the 9 dads?

[@angelahall4402]

Jovi promised to leave if she felt uncomfortable. He's a malignant narcissist.

[@graywill8983]

And who blows a kiss to the stripper while he's sitting next to his wife? He's a clueless idiot.

[@nimenidenicaieri4565]

Yup

[@Shatara_Styles]

It was a whole setup

[@theglobetrottersv]

Asuelu's mom sounds like those church scammers asking money for themselves LOL. We knew this will happens, honestly, I was waiting to listen to Asuelu's family and Kalani's dad to speak all in the Samoan language. This is becoming like the family's Chantel show.

[@stephanyblue6746]

BINGO! 😂

[@TunTheOfficial]

I honestly thought Low was gonna step in lol but I was kinda suprised that Asuelu stepped up

[@Mila-er6ms]

🤣😅😂😭😭😭

[@genesisiuli7256]

Why you got to bring church into this bro? You understand to some people church is a place of religious meeting and worship. I understand your comment towards asuelu’s family but unnecessary to bring in church

[@susannaculberson4361]

Got that right...

[@kyriljordanov6052]

I hate when folks think if someone lives in the US they automatically have beaucoup cash.

[@olivia6063]

@Kyril Jordanov Iknr! I live in Sweden, have friends in the US they work hard just to live a modest life. I've been reading books about how many Americans have to work about 12-14 hours day and still struggle. Ppl should read and talk about how life in the US is for so many millions. It's NOT like in the movies.

[@xen2125]

Not “beaucoup”😂😂

[@crispri3919]

@@xen2125 🤣😭

[@kyriljordanov6052]

@@xen2125 I'm from Mississippi. That's how we say it.

[@bleudiamondbleu]

The reason they think that is because ppl in the US make far more than the average anywhere is, however they don’t realize the cost of living is higher here. Like Dubai, or London, it’s SO EXPENSIVE those places so a lot struggle

[@tls4022]

As a Samoan 🇼🇸🇼🇸🇼🇸 I just want to say that our culture and our people do not all act like this. We aren’t all money driven and this disrespectful. Unfortunately Asuelu’s family are making us all look bad.

[@oratiletsimatsima9643]

They are using culture for their toxic motives. They are sociopaths.

[@ahtaystamcauther9376]

I know, my brother recently had a baby with a Samoan women and y’all are so nice and pleasant, ❤ there is just some bad people in the world.

[@biancajade728]

I went to school with Samoans & SOS (in San Jose) & I never seen any of this toxic mess being displayed by them. They were not greedy & no way would a grandmother put her bingo money over her grandkids being fed.

[@Mishyou33]

Kalani's dad is damn unintentionally funny 😂

[@nimenidenicaieri4565]

He came in just like a dad would... late 🤣🤣🤣🤣lol he's a nice guy

[@Afroricanz84]

😂😂😂😂 his what the hell cracked me up

[@shook198]

“Wat da hell...”

[@Afroricanz84]

@@shook198 😂😂

[@dianegraff2794]

Jovi doesn’t deserve Yara, he’s an immature sleezy guy

[@christinasavannah7992]

True that Jovi too much of a party guy

[@grabandgoadvice1694]

You are right. Hoping Yara finds her own strength and independence. His actions are not that of good Daddy material.

[@Smurfytoonz]

@@grabandgoadvice1694 the single life is coming up in 7 days,yara i would love to see her be with someone who cares for her and being on the single life i could see her on one of those seasons

[@Smurfytoonz]

@GapYear all drink. Party and no self control. Spoiled brat should act like a father

[@grabandgoadvice1694]

@@Smurfytoonz I haven't watched The Single Life yet. With Yara having a newborn she may want to wait til Myla is a little older. Yara doesn't even feel comfortable leaving her baby to have date nights with Jovi, yet alone a new man. If that show lasts, it would be nice to see Yara find the right guy :)

[@S_NRIO]

Jovi seems jealous of his own child 💀

[@sopekookie7]

I feel so bad for Yara. She really wants her family to work and is a good mother

[@melessat6635]

If I was her in that situation just to let him see how uncomfortable it is I would have ask for male strippers lol

[@ttmmaacc]

She's so boring and is just pissed he goes away for work. Being a mother doesn't have to mean a prison sentence

[@alleywatson324]

I can’t stand yara. All she cares abt is money an nice things an then tells him not to work 😂 she wants him on lockdown an home every single night an that isn’t realistic. She knew the kinda man he is an she chose it so she ain’t gonna change him 😂

[@geetee9113]

Nah I don’t feel sorry for her, you make your bed then lie in it. Also slapping your partner in public is just ghetto! Grow up

[@jenngranados825]

I understand her getting mad at Jovi when he didn’t listen to her but Why would she go to the strip club in the first place..? I’m wondering if they used to go when they were not married...

[@angp7064]

Mama says she's fine with 9 kids while asking her son for money????? Oooohhhkkayy

[@jihadhdaib]

Hi

[@lilacfairy.]

Ikrr!!

[@alb5801]

That's why she had 9 kids.....she figured it would up her odds of getting $$

[@chloee3529]

Right! Make it make sense😭

[@adeel-eh7xq]

Asuelu's sister is something else. How does she come into someone's house and behave like that?

[@dynamiteeinaa879]

Glad asuelu stood up for his wife and her family.

[@ashlynnstegall109]

For the first time lol

[@saaantacruz]

Yeah about time lol

[@alb5801]

He kinda started the argument though with that baby blanket!

[@thaliac7853]

@@alb5801 no he didn't. They didn't need to say he needs to divorce her and find a wife in his country. Smh they should've stayed out of it. It's between them but they want him to divorce her so that they can control him like before. When he lived in his country the mom said he would give her his money all the time.

[@yomama3634]

@@thaliac7853 But he did start it in this instance. His wife already told him to keep it private and not bring it in front of people, several times, including in front of a car salesman. He needs to learn to keep things to himself. Very embarrassing for his wife to explain why she doesn’t want more kids to basic strangers.

[@nicolem3502]

Jovi is selfish. He wants the "fun Yara back" but then we hear she's never been to a strip club . Jovi just wants to keep up his old lifestyle and doesn't want to have to sacrifice any of it

[@mariancounsellor]

It takes two to make a relationship work. She’s negative and miserable and he’s got issues too yet they still went ahead and got married anyway. She didn’t have to go if she didn’t want to.

[@williamkelly9628]

Jovi needs Yara to hide his deeply closeted homosexuality from his family.

[@nil-8026]

Hahhahahha I love how Tammy is always held back so easily, she actually doesn’t want to fight and it’s so obvious 😂

[@RealiTeaV]

Exactly, if “Lil Tam Tam” really wanted to fight, nobody could stop that. 😂

[@HelenasInkyHour]

I've had a shi*ty day, at least this entertained me lol My God Tammy was basically like "I KNOW YOU HAVE MONEY, GIIIIIIIVE ME!"

[@nicolemanja1430]

90 days is addictive 🤣🤣

[@brett8460]

I would have asked them to leave the minute they walked past me without speaking. And the nerve of them to ask how much they paid for the house. DISGUSTING!

[@floremullings4822]

😆

[@floremullings4822]

Lol

[@suemorales6716]

Lmao, sorry about your day, I had A very tiring one too and this was amazing to watch...

[@thesprinklebox4841]

Asuelu's family is so wild.... asuelu on his deathbed: *dying* His mom: "I'm gonna need money". His sister: "how much did your casket cost?"

[@littlecrowders7089]

Hahaha

[@police76m36]

🤣🤣🤣😂😭🧐💀💀💀

[@rayecaters2u]

Literally. These men have yet to understand, not all of their mamas actually love them.

[@victoriatracey6637]

Hahahahahah😅🤣😂🤣

[@AgnesAtoni]

*Asuelu 6ft under* Her: son, where is my money? Ffs 🤦‍♀️😂😂

[@Afroricanz84]

The poor dad came in late as always and his “what the hell,” cracked me up 😂

[@SusanMinhTrangNguyen]

Jovi is such a dirty creep! If he doesn't change his creepiness and selfish ways, it's best for Yara to leave him and have a family with someone that respects her. That scene when Asuelu picked up his sister and threw her out was absolute gold! I had to replay that several times for the chuckle..

[@ahealingplace7350]

Lol

[@librastars6398]

The baby is young enough. She csn easily adjust at this age. I like how his Mom is supportive honest and mature.

[@bhuvaneshwarij1326]

Same 🤣🤣😁

[@looo5281]

He really IS like what kind of creep throws kisses at stripper they don’t want your kisses they want your money.. lmao

[@Me-mb1ex]

Jovi still thinks he's a single 23 year old.🙄

[@EmilyElizabethxox]

I also love how Asuelu’s mom says straight up that she spends the money she earns on gambling then proceeds to ask for more money. 😂😂

[@GoogleGebruiker]

Did she say that? I didn't catch that

[@Dejnyt]

You give m0ney to me and g0d bless you... You think about that 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@stephscinapilo9856]

@@GoogleGebruiker the bingo lol

[@taramay8174]

Did she actually say that ?🤢

[@williamkelly9628]

She gives it to the church and uses it to play bingo… maybe she should spend more time weaving mats

[@evandetwiler2810]

the looks from kalanis sister are FIERCE

[@princesssela6204]

Finally, he shows he has balls. Money is the only thing that drives his family. I understand giving money for your family but not to her so she can give to a church. She wants to look good in her community at his expense. Shame on them.

[@alemtube5403]

Hi

[@gabrielleclennon6589]

It's About Time!!

[@Jo-cv5kb]

Jovi really questioning a new mom on her morals of caring for her child. Jovi she’s not here to stroke your ego

[@3rdWorldMiss]

He used his filthy mouth to tell a good mother she's using her child 🤮

[@ljlazaro4399]

This Host is Awesome and Relatable 🥰 l love Her!!! I want to see more of her in these segments

[@F1obsessedchica]

Asuelu didn’t do a damn thing wrong. He manned up, that’s what Kalani needed from him. I’m proud of him tossing those two grifters out!

[@Courtney-pe2iw]

Well he knows how his mother and sister are

[@Courtney-pe2iw]

It's also part of her culture though. You all love screaming at everyone else about respecting and following others culture though. lol

[@KayDejaVu]

He didn't have to put his hands on his sister like that. He should have told them to leave the house. He got physical.

[@purplelove3666]

Thats wrong to insult them

[@annakimN]

Huh d u m my

[@meadowgailer5659]

What mind boggles me is that Tammy lives in the US and is more acclimated to the culture than her Brother. She should know better and have more empathy for his situation. What I believe is that their parents were abusive. Tammy's defense mechanism was probably to always stay on her parent's best side and even act as the snitch and executioner of her siblings.

[@sunnynsydney4705]

I think Tammy was sending money, and she sees asuelo living better than her so wants him to send money. Think about it… if asuelo sends, Tammy doesn’t send or sends less. That’s why she pushes him

[@ali_0714]

ok i’m a bit late to this 🤣 but someone tell me why is tammy even relevant here?! does this woman not have a life of her own?! she’s so much in asuelu and kalani’s life and buisness... it kills me. 🤦🏻‍♀️ and kolini omggg she definitely got her sister’s back 💯 i love kalani and kolini ❤️ asuelu you have a great and beautiful woman and gaining an awesome sisters-in-law and more

[@jaxxenriquez9542]

I liked how kolini said that Asuelo is family and stood up for her sister

[@mj6962]

I LOVE THIS LADY HOSTING THIS SEGMENT!!! PLEASE TLC, make HER the HOST of all the TLC Reunion shows!!!

[@anngarrett8290]

I agree, she is AWESOME!

[@mj6962]

Yes she is! The current host of the reunions NEVER calls people out for anything. Or tell them the hard truth that everybody’s already thinking. Makes me so angry when she just lets those people fight and lie… LOL. This entertaining, truth speaking lady is amazing!

[@Salsaholic1978]

Isn’t it the same presenter just with a different hairdo?

[@Salsaholic1978]

@@janetw4119 oh, thanks for the info. I should have known that since I’ve been watching the show for years.

[@melxnh3ad]

this!!

[@AgnesAtoni]

*Asuelu & Kalani gives her 1 million dollars* Her: That's not enough! I need more money 🙄🤣🤣🤣

[@caitlinmcgeehan7691]

Jovi is the worst partner ever

[@daisyluvsummers8420]

He is lazy even his mother is disappointed with her own son. He thinks he's still single and no wife and no child. I feel bad for Yara. I like Yara she's the best on the show. She's a great mother and a wife. If she leaves him I won't blame her maybe Jovi will then finally realize all the mistakes he doing.

[@zoey1811954]

@@daisyluvsummers8420 Agreed

[@claraaguilar9899]

I still like him no matter what

[@mariancounsellor]

@@claraaguilar9899 I don’t think he’s as bad as everyone makes him out to be but Yara plays a role so that she can do no wrong in some people’s minds. He definitely has issues but she has the most negative personality and bad attitude that any woman on this show has had besides the woman who was married to George ( the Russian woman). All Yara does is frowns, complains, slaps people, and then turns things around to make herself seem good and Jovi seem bad.

[@laurajuarez7359]

I can’t stand Tammy as soon as she walked in the house she starts with her bs you can tell she’s just envious of the way they live she must be miserable in her own life...what Tammy needs to do is give her mom money since she’s so concerned 😆

[@Ktwice221]

@Live to ride Ride to live she probably was beating her husband up too much when he didn’t do what she wants. Her kids probably hate her too.

[@ryuustories]

Gosh i hated when some men be like " oh we lost our touch,, i feel like she only focus on the baby, we didnt get intimate after the baby was born etc..." like bruh having baby is not a one person job. Its not like moms only have to think then puff a baby is made. Like bruh can he thinks more maturely? Its his child for god sake. Its their child thats why the woman was taking care of it, bcus she is a mom. I mean if he want her to give her attention 100% to him, then dont have a baby. Its just as simple as that but damn all of the sudden its the women's fault that they have a baby? Not to mention, he was like "ok we will go home when you want to go home" but then give her " why you want to go home? Dont go home yet. This is fun!" like she is the "party pooper" 🤦‍♀️.

[@yumiko0017]

She already has two kids. She has fulfilled her duty. She’s already struggling taking care of two kids. If you want another one, YOU HAVE IT!!!!

[@PT-zv3lz]

Not to mention 2 kids she still breast feeds these 2 grown kids. To have another one right now will not work now he has to wait for the fist 2 to stop breast feeding when they start high school

[@Salsaholic1978]

In my opinion she already has three kids, two she gave birth to and one she married….

[@lilacscentedfushias1852]

@@Salsaholic1978 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@lilacscentedfushias1852]

Yumiko 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 let him try morning sickness, scans, backache….that’s just early on. What a selfish person he is. She breastfed the babies, so I doubt he got up in the night more than a handful of times. He’s always off to play basketball? While kalani is home with the children.

[@dontliveinfear.7640]

“Duty”???

[@nicoleowuor8504]

Why is Jovi’s only idea of fun drinking and strip clubs? Find experiences that both of you can enjoy and agree on new adventures to go on.

[@Me-mb1ex]

Fr, there is zero compromise there. Their relationship stresses ME out.😂

[@Somegirl3602]

He's immature...

[@stevesanzari7294]

@@Somegirl3602 THANKYOU ! But you forgot to add Selfish !

[@FLdancer00]

Maybe his wife should step up? He tried to plan a romantic dinner date & she shit on his idea, saying Russians aren't romantic. Agrees to go to the strip club & then wants to leave. She's putting in zero effort.

[@jordaine1469]

Late but I just love how Kalani's parents were so chill in this mess 😅😅

[@3120II]

I've not been a Yara fan at all but here, regardless of how annoying I've found her to be she has every right to be upset. I don't know how she managed to stay composed at all. If my husband took me to a strip club or actually even suggested it I would've left skid marks with fire on the ground from how fast I would've run. It may be a cultural thing and I know all relationships are different. This is a boundary line that needed to be addressed before marriage. Jovi has a great job but money and a nice home doesn't replace respect. He's such a loser., blowing kisses to a stranger that's only there to extract money from him meanwhile his wife sits there feeling like shit and disrespected. Wow what a loser that guy is.

[@Fulrix00]

Plus he didn’t sleep in their home probably went back and hooked up with the stripper

[@mikuforlife1929]

For real you must absolutely hate your wife to pull that kind of shit on your spouse

[@elleb-theragincajun4646]

I'm with you and am not in any way a Yara fan, but certainly feel that she had a right to be upset that night.

[@user-vw1rs1mp9r]

He deserves to be married to a stripper instead of yara👍🏻

[@fairydust950]

Cool girl syndrome....

[@jenniferjanes1589]

Who takes their wife to a strip clubbing? What a creep, she just had their baby!

[@mariancounsellor]

Who goes to a strip club with their husband if they don’t wanna be there? He didn’t force her, she went so that she could use it as an excuse to get physically violent with him.

[@artismyheart4886]

you would be surprised at how many women go to strip clubs with their boyfriends and husbands. I find it odd myself but I know some people who do and they act like I am the weird one for not wanting to.🤷🏼‍♀️

[@murasakino101]

@@mariancounsellor Girl wtf. She went because she wanted to make him happy. He literally complained that she's "boring" and "not fun anymore" so she went to prove him wrong

[@senoritamaminah9634]

@@mariancounsellor For a husband to even suggest a strip club to his wife is just so disrespectful. You have a doormat mentality.

[@EmanDeMoan]

The ET host is fantastic!

[@Bellaagri_]

I love how Kalani was like "Tammy only has 2 kids why isn't his mom on her back about having babies" 🤭😆

[@stevesanzari7294]

It’s like the DemoRat Party ! I can You Can’t !

[@michellecampbell7083]

And Kalani calling her TamTam in her gangsta voice was hilarious 😂

[@murasakino101]

@FatBoy Beaman right? The mom has actually been decent at times until Tammy starts running her mouth and egging the mom on

[@evenstar04]

@@stevesanzari7294 aw... did you get lost on your way to the Klang rally hun?

[@BkzBrownie99]

@@evenstar04 😆😆😆

[@austinuttilie5328]

Are we not gonna talk about how toxic Jovi is!?!? "Maybe fun Yara will come out tonight" wtf is that suppose to mean. Yara deserves so much better!!!

[@peacheskong2245]

I don't like either of them tbh, both are problematic

[@Bunny11344]

@@peacheskong2245 agreed .. idk why she stuck with him.. it’s partially her fault for marrying him. She needs to divorce asap

[@peacheskong2245]

@@Bunny11344 upon looking more into it I completely understand her reactions yet I don't condone her getting physical. I hope they get it together and am happy for Yara that his mother is the type of woman to call her son out when he's wrong

[@telmix77]

I don't think he's toxic, just extremely immature.

[@Mgkatie19xx]

@@peacheskong2245 I would have done the same thing. Lol

[@evenstar04]

Asuelo's mom needs to harrass her other 8 kids for money. He needs to dump that toxic sludge. Just because she gave him life doesn't mean he owes her anything. His children come first, and if he can only give 50 dollars, she should be grateful for even getting that much.

[@via8682]

Does that mean Asuelu’s mom is getting money from 9 of her children? She must be making a decent ant of money to give away. Also Jovi is a complete jerk.

[@erinjoy5625]

Well this is what I'm wondering !!! Or just enough to play her stupid bingo after her hard work 😂🙄 no seriously this better be scripted I CnT handle the truth 😂

[@anarchist_parable]

Jovi can't be with ANYBODY. "I thought we were having a good time" she clearly wasn't having a good time and expressed that. Watching him call her boring for raising their daughter over and over again while she was trying to eat dinner was so triggering.

[@anmwittz]

He's an ass and a narcissist! He needs to grow up!

[@TheTeacherMuse]

Agree 💯! A person who is selfish, self-centered, manipulative, cruel and unable to empathize CANNOT and SHOULD not be in a relationship - a bond that requires the complete opposite!

[@SimonkaShow]

Nancy Navarrete yes he has no empathy ! And is so self indulgent it's gross

[@Kiyomi.Misaki]

I think he isn't ready to be a father!

[@claudinechambers83]

I think he wasn't ready to be a father so fast and the marriage. He's young he should have had his fun before marriage, if he wanted to go to the strip club.

[@AnniApplecake]

In Europe it's kinda the same thing when you live in Germany. My parents came from Croatia to Germany, each year we went back to visit family. It was expected from us to bring bags packed with stuff from Germany, presents, clothes, sweets. And on our way home leaving some cash there... Somehow people living in Germany shit cash, or at least that's what rest of Europe is thinking. It's not like we lived in a 4 people apartment crowded with 12 other people the first 3 years of my life 😂 it's not like my parents went there to build a nice house, they fled from WAR! With nothing in their pockets AND being pregnant, not even having citizenship for a few years. Still my father always always gave that expected money IF POSSIBLE (which meant we had enough to eat and were dressed properly, all the bills paid) , because we had chances in Germany, our family lived in a destroyed bombed country... Thanks to my parents and also the fact that they chose Germany for us to live me and my own husband now got it better, building our own home and still... Alsways sending that money. Well, that's okay for us, because we have enough of everything.

[@kathyclark3714]

Jovi needs to realize that Yara is his wife, not one of his buddies. Smh

[@Mooodyyhhh]

And a mother!

[@jasg771]

Can understand him feeling neglected by Yara after the birth of Mylah. But to bring Yara to strip club and witness his interaction with the stripper is really disrespectful.

[@jasg771]

@@III-rp6zc Yara should divorce him instead.

[@fernlopez8404]

What’s ur Instagram

[@sshoegirl30004]

Exactly....parenthood is fun AFTER the last baby graduates high school and leaves home. He needs to grow the F%$& up.

[@sierra-luna]

why is another woman's decision of not wanting to have another baby any of their business... they're getting mad like they're the ones who're gonna be responsible for another life. ridiculous.

[@Me-mb1ex]

And at the same time have their hands out for money! Make it make sense!😂

[@ceceprincess4758]

Right

[@Rachelreyes08]

Asuelo's Mom: I don't care if your kids starve. Send me money. Also Asuelo's Mom: Why you don't have more kid's Kalani?? (More kids she'll demand money to be taken from. As if kids don't cost money... 🙄)

[@sierra-luna]

@@Rachelreyes08 Asuelu's mom: 🤑🤑🤑 Asuelu's sister: 🤡🤡🤡

[@muchachitachinita]

I love that asuelu gave her sister a fake lotto 😂

[@lindathegemini1541]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@MrCesar9335]

Jovi still thinks he’s single and doesn’t have a kid he needs to grow up and be a man for Yara.

[@Me-mb1ex]

I'm glad his mom finally came to her senses about the situation. Jovi needs to grow tf up already. The strip club scene was nauseating.

[@djuromilovic8251]

I like how he finally stood up for his wife, but if he didn't start that baby talk, none of it would happen.

[@Bunnyboiler5069]

Wrong place, wrong time sure but hey nice gesture to be honest...

[@wandahernandez5770]

He definitely started it. It totally wasn't cool if him. That's a VERY personal decision to make. The smart decision would be to work on your marriage and get out of your in laws place. 🤷‍♀️

[@BagznBirdz]

Well, those two witches from Samoa would have started something before night was through, that's for sure.

[@poppyseed5270]

The editing of this legit cracked me up

[@G2G2024]

As much as Asuela started that fight, Tammy and her mom were looking for something to pounce on to rage at.

[@moonglow630]

Kalani started the fight. Asuelu was just trying to express to Kalani what he wanted, which they had already talked about before & Kalani didn’t tell him she was against having anymore kids. Considering everyone in the room, Kalani should’ve thanked him for the gift, and then talked to him about it privately. She knows anything she says her mother & sister in law are gonna have an opinion about, so it would’ve been better just to diffuse the situation & talk about it in private. That’s what normal mature people do. So it kinda makes me wonder if it wasn’t a set up.

[@salome9124]

@@moonglow630 he ain't got no money. I'm sure they talked about that too.

[@nehsangbong7259]

@Khizott_MaeMae 😂😂

[@ItzNewNewBitch]

She been told him she didn't want another baby so the fact he gave her that blanket just shows he don't listen to what she wants it's all about what he wants

[@Ami-rb2hu]

I lost my shit at the ‘’we don’t like you anymore’’ 😭😭😭😭😭

[@Mila-er6ms]

🤣😅😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@tawniebelcher8720]

Kalani you stay strong girl don't let them bully you they're just big old cows is all they are you stay strong girl 💪💪💪💪💪💪

[@dropdeadhysteria]

Granted in Samoa its respectful to help your parents in their old age...but doesn't this woman have 8 other kids??

[@eyne1703]

Hello thank you for saying that.... How much money are they giving. I'm guessing it's not that much considering all she wants from Asuelu and Kalani is their money......

[@haytoo]

I guess cause Asuelu is in the US they expect riches, that’s how some of my family back home thinks

[@sahin4805]

You give money and god bless you. period 😂😂

[@girisha_laxmi11]

@@sahin4805 lol😁😁😁😁

[@taymelee3283]

OH AND DONT FORGET, Tammy says she's not obligated to the same finance responsibilities as her siblings. And doesn't give money to her own mother.... but expects her brother to pay for her lifestyle as well cause their mother pays for it.

[@A.rae1]

I love that Kalanis sister said hes now her family and supported him seeing how insane his family is. What a great family.

[@tikusblue]

Yeah they've grown on me. It seemed like they were quite rude and judgemental towards Asuelu in the beginning, but it's nice to see how theyve accepted him now.

[@DanniMonroe23]

Me too!!!

[@lolakay5282]

Yes they were rude to him and khelani seemed controlling I still don’t like them his family weird but his wife family is fake

[@daphuc1]

@@lolakay5282 I think they're nice considering they're housing a man child who throws tamper tantrums and disrespect their daughter. He even disrespected the mom. They never throw the fact that they're financially supporting him and his kids in his face or tell him to go back to Samoa like most Americans on this show have done.

[@andreavera642]

i honestly wanted to see her beat up the mom and sister

[@jacquelinethompson5956]

Melicia is so funny how she narrated the show. Love it

[@jazminestryder]

I can't stand his sister. she thinks she's better than everyone else.

[@jihadhdaib]

Hi

[@Smurfytoonz]

shes more of a fight first talk last,her way of reasoning is knocking someone out

[@dawnofdestruction7381]

She has the maturity level of a 10 year old which is twice as old as Asuelus maturity level

[@Ktwice221]

She’s a bum and wants her brother to act like her husband. It’s disgusting her and the mother.

[@EstherXHamilton]

“Leave us alone, we don’t like you anymore” this actually killed me😭😂

[@tiffanyterry6451]

😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@pkjuliet]

🤣🤣😂😂😂

[@AllAboutPurple]

😂😂💀💀

[@eric_wehner]

“Hey, what the hell?”

[@tiana2906]

Lol 😆

[@dollarmike7144]

Did they have to have the conversation in front of everyone? She could’ve accepted the gift and then spoken in private 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@nightowlsam]

I'm surprised Asuelu's mom and sister want him to have more kids; that'd be less money available for them

[@tdvaval16]

It's not about having more kids. They're just trying to drive a rift between the two of them. They're being manipulative.

[@nightowlsam]

@@tdvaval16 I agree, they're being manipulative

[@TunTheOfficial]

@@tdvaval16 correct 👏🏾

[@hlongshlongs8729]

They’re trying everything to decide them. I can even fake it with Asuelu’s sister.

[@abigaillerche7151]

Yara deserve someone who will love her for her grandma self

[@MarilynT-nw6ui]

Lmfao I’m dead

[@reneejones2627]

😆

[@ashlynnstegall109]

Fr

[@deliciadyer1370]

😂😂😂😂

[@enji_jb2806]

Lol. Nothing wrong with a lil geriatric tease😫🤣

[@notsureiL]

Her father was called a racists when he didn't want her daughter with a man from his home country. He knew the culture. Low was right in being concerned.

[@cceedubb]

Facts cos he knew

[@Stephanie-yf5pg]

Where the hell is Tammy's husband / kids father that's who she needs to ask for money

[@madisonmiklas7049]

Asuelu's mom when she said "i have 9 children & i am fine" UHMMM were you, or were you not just BEGGING for money 10 min before the gift exchange Lmfao yeah real fine huh

[@dlaceous]

Helloooo right!!!

[@KrysStyle]

Right I’m thinking the same exact thing

[@ashton8878]

FR!!! Lol.

[@proudchildofgodthatiamyall3987]

Did you all know that tammy has about 6 kids, which not the same father's and yes the FAMILY is living off of us the taxpayer, which she doesn't send money bc she said it was her brother's duty. What I think is really stupid is the mommy has been in the USA, living with tammy and also living off the taxpayer, us. Send everyone of them back to their own country and never let them back.

[@mommyoftoomanywilson6745]

Don’t forget that she’s “selfless” lmao I agree Madison!

[@bruhtomoe9531]

Holy fuck watching this boiled my blood so damn much.. I totally understand this because of my dad’s side of the family. Always wanting money and shit like even his siblings like god damn you all are 40 grow tf up and get a job. When tf did my dad become his siblings father like tf?! And his mom (my grandma) always complains about not having money when he sends thousands back every damn month. Like what do you do with all that? We literally have to save up and shit and you be over in Vietnam spending money like water…. UGH. thank you for the rant

[@2001eskimo]

Jovi was acting like he's never seen a half naked woman before

[@ivydemichael3661]

Asueu is so wonderful. He did right thing each time. His mom was so bold to just ask like that. I'm sure they would help her if she needed it. Your a good man. A good son.

[@stevesanzari7294]

@@ivydemichael3661 He should Kick her to the Curb ! His Mother is a Selfish Ignoramous ! How is she living here In Seattle if she has NO Money? And she ain’t swimming back to Samoa ?

[@juanitapina3621]

Joeys nothing but an overgrown man child he needs to grow up and stop acting like he’s all that he’s really not

[@alondraflores6485]

Asuelo’s Mom : “ WE DON’t LIKE YOU ANYMORE ! “ 😂

[@friedabuttel4791]

😂

[@KiratKaur95]

The way i am cackling LOOOOOL !!

[@jasg771]

Sounds like kids pushin each other in the playground

[@thandingombo7408]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@laffin_out_loud]

She never liked them 🤣

[@qmomof8587]

I really do love thies ET 90 day fiance reaction vids ❤️😊👍🏾 Don't they just make y'all day?

[@lexiimoreina9541]

They give Samoans a bad wrap They make them seem like money hungry foreigners His sister’s attitude is disgusting And why don’t they realize that khalani’s family is the one who helps them all the time

[@rileyc172]

I've never been but from that I've seen (outside of the show) they seem like authentic, down to earth people! They deserve to be represented accordingly. from what I've read up on, they're extremely hard working for what they have. I have so much respect for them.

[@dawnracelis8220]

Why ask for another baby when you can afford the ones you have kalani's parents are helping them.... Get on your own feet then think about another baby which should be a discussion with you and your wife alone he's got a lot of growing up to do

[@beckamax74]

Asualu needs to stop with the more babies already. He's not even paying for the ones he has now. Tammy made herself look really stupid thinking that her brother has this big house. He doesn't have anything other then the clothing on his back. Everything else is paid for by his father and mother-inlaw. 🤦🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️.

[@vellabella1]

Unfortunately, they are both bad representation but, I am team Asuelo. Who else wants to deal Kalani? She doesn't work not ambitious at all

[@TunTheOfficial]

True.. I'm 22 and never heard of samoans before.. and being this is a first impression of samoan people. It's kinda bad.. only because Asuelu family seems very money hungry in the bad way.. like break your knees for money kinda way

[@Moriri_By_TshepiB]

It's the "We dont like you anymore!" for me🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭

[@magdasanon5469]

Lol

[@moneyca9981]

Lmao 😂

[@saaantacruz]

I don’t like you but I still want your money

[@ToniBallTheRealtor835]

😭😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣

[@martinramirez6128]

That’s shit had me cracking up.

[@mystomachisflat_butheLissilent]

I know this is random But *Isn't Melicia Johnson really beautiful ❤*

[@danyielsays4621]

Why does Tammy always bud in and want to fight!? I'm on asuelo side thank God he kicked them out! Bye money digging mama🤭

[@veronicalidstrom5424]

Tammy is just so envious and a very bitter person.

[@Smurfytoonz]

@@veronicalidstrom5424 yeah she was like hey ma did u see how fancy this house is,and the baby moment wasnt good,but tammy was put in her place she wants her bro to have 9 kids but yet tammy only has 2 what gives?

[@wompwomp1099]

What’s up with Jovi and this “fun Yara” he speaks of. Why can he not understand that she barely even has time for herself because she is focused on caring for a living, breathing, tiny human???

[@steve-uq5tl]

He still has the party boy mentality

[@jenniferbroom9768]

And primarily by herself when he is at work for a month at a time and away for work at that.

[@mssweethaki5613]

Because she is still his wife..... having a baby can change a relationship but he is away from his family months on end and wants to spend time with his wife too. His mom agreed to keep their baby so they can have some one on one. Yes love your kids, make them your priority just remember when you're in a relationship you have to find balance. Most people don't think about kids growing up and moving out then whats left for you and your spouse/partner??? Bottom line these two didn't know each other well enough to start a family in the first place imo.

[@mssweethaki5613]

@ルフバクシュモナ to me its obvious he wants to spend time with his wife too in addition to their child. Yara makes everything about their daughter which is ok, but she still needs to make time for their marriage

[@mssweethaki5613]

@ルフバクシュモナ when did I say the child shouldn't be a priority???? Never, ofcourse the child she be a priority.... but also being a wife does too. I have 3 children 2 who are now grown and out of the house and a teenager been married for almost 25 years. When you're married your a team and you make time for each other or when those kids grow up you won't have a spouse. They have to a find balance.

[@adelitadecarlo1915]

Kalani I really really think you should get devorce Im sorry but you and your husband is not in the same page he want a dozen baby and you don't want another baby and his family the attitude is terrible

[@nwkanion]

I love how Kalani’s dad just walks in wanting know what’s going on like he didn’t hear them before.

[@angg4144]

He came for the show

[@1indefinitetruth]

"hey, HEEYY!!..." i laughed too hard😆😆

[@BlueMelissa]

It’s fake

[@Bellaagri_]

I think he's reaaaaaally avoiding getting involved, cus when he does it won't b good for anyone.

[@smartguy360]

@@Bellaagri_ low would f shit up

[@frostythehoeman6969]

Also Kelani and her sister are so beautiful to me

[@danyielsays4621]

They are especially kolini

[@prettyprie5114]

Yesss

[@TheDemonChildMari]

Asuelu's mom: Kalani, look at me. I am selfless. I got 9 children and I am fine. Are we forgetting why you are here, still asking for money?

[@darlena8884]

About time asuelo threw them out

[@Salsaholic1978]

At least Jovi’s mom wasn’t deaf to Yara’s side of the story. Kudo’s to her, she is one of the few moms in the cast that doesn’t automatically defend her child that behaved badly.

[@Saznaki]

Asuelu is actually really mature. Despite people saying he's low IQ when his dysfunctional family are doing the most he always stays by his wife and puts his wife and kids first. That's very mature

[@sopekookie7]

Tammy is the type of person that reality show producers love. They must love the drama she brings

[@loracash3693]

Drama yes,trashy behavior yes

[@sherrybelle4776]

She's hoping for her on spin-off!😆😅🤣😂

[@RareWarRoses]

Angela takes the cake now lol

[@yr5425]

I wonder what Jovi be doing when he goes to those businesses trips? If this is how he acts with her at a strip club, imagine when he’s alone.

[@paula19335]

Exactly.

[@baharakbarotova3986]

i feel so bad for kalani, when she cried i wanted to aswell. them two demons have put her through so much

[@manuelaracovita4166]

This guy Jovi has a real problem ...the strip clubs

[@ashlynnstegall109]

Jovi dumb as hell not going to lie

[@alb5801]

And blowing the stripper a kiss. Like really dude!

[@Aries_Fire89]

Yuck he seems like the type that probably picks up hookers when he’s “away” at work… 🤮😳

[@manuelaracovita4166]

@@Aries_Fire89 For sure

[@Centh23653]

@@alb5801 the way he was mesmerized. Lol

[@mannythehaunter4175]

The way the mother said “Leave us alone, Don’t touch us” literally killed me😂😂😂😂 the best part ever

[@LovingLife-333]

100 LMAO

[@traneanadavenport1041]

😂😂😂

[@angec590]

What made me laugh was the « we don’t like you anymore » 😂. Silly me thought parents are supposed to love their kids

[@RobbieLobbie]

🤣🤣🤣

[@RareWarRoses]

Lol lol lol

[@TyphanieBlake]

i can NOT STANNND Asuelus family! i can just picture his sister back in Samoa nt doing a damn thing and then faulting them for not providing money to the family! like get tf over your selves.. lol

[@TyphanieBlake]

haha his mom saying "we dont like you anymore" lol i just cant help but laugh

[@maiyang430]

If ya seen the episode it’s crazy and rude of Tammy and Asuela mom to only talk about getting money and being disrespectful at Aseulas house. I’m glad he finally stood up for his family and wife and kicked them out. As for Jovi he is annoying for saying Yara is boring now that she’s a mother, well geesh atleast she’s being responsible mother!

[@moon230686]

Yeah, Jovi is immature. I think he didn't want to be a dad or to grow. Why did he get married if he doesn't want to be a husband?!

[@JaneDoe-qm2gt]

Why doesn't Tammy give her mom money. They should go back home never come around asking for money for her gambling habit