‘90 Day Fiancé’: Božo Feels NO CHEMISTRY w/ Vanja

[@lb8141]

Poor Vanja. I can respect him being honest but it's hard to hear.

[@hungryalex]

At least he is being upfront. Cannot force something that is not there

[@InMoneroWeTrust]

Or maybe he didn’t liked how she was in bed…

[@my5722]

He should have said it before she bought a ticket and flew to Ukraine. He had 6 yrs.

[@Ohana9999]

They didn't even sleep together you bozo​@@InMoneroWeTrust

[@PhoenixRise294]

He isn’t honest at all about his situations dude .

[@Ljounieh]

AFTER she travelled there??

[@tatianafraserA]

At least he's being honest about it instead of leading her on. Although he should have said it before she spent money

[@bluecolour-wt6gx]

He is leading her on to say he loves her but now he doesn't love her, that she is there. Basically he is a loser, lives with mommy and doesn't work. I think she should focus on finding an American man since she already lives there.

[@renebrown-t2s]

He probably knew when she came. Before she came he probably was hoping the romance would come

[@kyttyke89]

It can't be said before ... This can only be felt in person. You have feelings when you date online towards a picture you created in your head. People might have super different vibe in real life and things just don't click unfortunately which is really not his fault. They can go and see what happens in three weeks.... And have a neutral expectations also and obviously hopefully it will turn out to be something...I really hope but if not...at least they tried if they had chemistry in person :)

[@my5722]

He had 6 years. He definitely led her on.

[@PhoenixRise294]

He isn’t honest at all about his situations dude .

[@TradesbyNao]

Run, when a man tells you, not in a romantic way, believe him.

[@stormieinapril9626]

Exactly, I know it’s hard. But he is being honest.

[@suzend46]

When men show you who they are, believe them

[@Josie3387]

And what is he? What did he do wrong?

[@Ifaeya]

All he said was he didn't feel anything romantically for her😂 what he did wrong?

[@suzend46]

@@Josie3387 He didn’t do anything wrong. He only told her, that he considered her just a “friend”. If she is looking for a “serious” relationship, she needs to cut her losses and move on. It’s obvious they are not on the same page when it comes to this relationship.

[@AE2003FU]

It’s sad, but her reaction is proving him right. They aren’t clicking. It’s actually refreshing to see somebody that is being honest and not just playing it up for the cameras. Attraction isn’t an exact science and it can’t be forced. If you are trying to talk somebody into being with you, you’re wasting your time bc you already have the answer.

[@officetechtyping]

Don't beg.

[@bets553]

Don’t let a person tell you twice they don’t want you……

[@vee1900real]

I respect Bozo for being honest and respectful in his delivery. Vanja is so beautiful, way too mature for this guy.

[@judymurray191]

Me too but she has wasted so much time focusing on him.

[@potatopuddin2720]

If he didn't like or want her as a romantic partner, he should have told her that BEFORE she flew halfway across the world to meet him💀

[@AlishaNic]

He probably didn’t start to feel this way until he actually met her in person.

[@Ljounieh]

​@@AlishaNicnaah

[@lendlalfred7870]

In his defence, it's the first time they met in person. Sometimes online chemistry doesn't translate into real life.

[@oatsuzn]

He met her in person and decided he wasn't feeling it...oh well. She can't force him. No woman can force a man to love her. Deal with it. He doesn't owe her anything. No man owes any woman their time, attention, validation and love. Deal with it. This happens to men ALL the time. Deal with it.

[@annicklagace7414]

Can't know till u meet ..

[@bbhere]

Run, girl, run 😂😂

[@juditharnold195]

All are missing an important fact she is not recognizing he is a man, child. No real job, mother who understands this and is hoping he will grow up. He won't, he is too old. What people say on internet can be very misleading as they feel you won't find out the lies. She does not even know he is unemployed.

[@beautifulplaces2703]

Maybe his ex is back in his life.

[@jacquiandp-dog7755]

Yes!

[@happysky7964]

He’s being so straightforward. But would’ve been nice if she didn’t fly all the way there.

[@michelle_m4446]

Face it, that's the risk you take when meeting someone online. It's not a guarantee that when u meet face to face it will work

[@jacquiandp-dog7755]

No - he is NOT HONEST!! DID NONE OF YOU GET WHAT HE JUST SAID?? She said - that they already both said I love you and expressed feelings toward each other over phone/online. And HE said - that is just something that you say online, but that is before we met in person. So does he just tell every woman he meets online that he loves her, because it does not count until you meet in person?? Hello - that is basically what he is saying. This guy is a CREEP!!

[@NF-hh3qq]

It is possible that he admires her and loves her for who she is, but he does not feel sexual attraction towards her, which is why he did not stay with her in the apartment. Perhaps he wants to feel that first before taking any serious step.

[@judymurray191]

I think he has a real fear of intimacy or feels inadequate sexually.

[@shaysworld6249]

He could have told her all of that before she spend her money and flew all the way out there smh

[@pitsulala6034]

I think he wants someone who is more down to earth. All that pink is overpowering. She is too eager and that is a turn off. Taking things slow and natural is always more appealing. At this point she is forcing what he is not feeling. She needs someone more close to her vibe.

[@tasneembashir4880]

Vanja is 42 and desperate. The man showed you the first time, when he ghosted you for his actual girlfriend. Now he is being honest and telling her the truth, to her face. She should get the message and stop forcing things.

[@jessicacl2689]

He's also jobless and knows how eager she is to succeed so it's kinda awkward with that info. He may need a woman to admire him as well

[@PhoenixRise294]

Ppl who wait till 42 are not desperate

[@candicem9651]

What does her age have to do with it? They are a similar age, stop perpetuating the myth that older women should be desperate for a man especially one like this. He told her he loved her and led her on. He should have been this “cautious” when they were in the talking phase. Bozo is extremely avoidant and when things got real he shut down.

[@tasneembashir4880]

@PhoenixRise294 A woman who continuously goes back to a man that clearly rejects her, is desperate. This man has told her 3 times "We are just friends". And she keeps going back.

[@tasneembashir4880]

@candicem9651 Women do get desperate, especially after the age of 30. The problem with being desperate is that you don't know your worth, and you let men play with your time. Vanja is 42, not a naive 19 year old. There is no reason for her not to catch the message the first time. A man leaving you hanging for another woman is loud enough. She went back to him cause she is desperate. She should've never answered his call or text after that. Instead, she booked a trip to his country only to be told 1000 times that she is a friend. Desperate 42 year old. She clearly doesn't have other options. No one with options takes this level of rejection.

[@jb-ze1yh]

How does he not have chemistry now? Smh. These 90 day people are weird and fake.

[@jb-ze1yh]

She is just too happy and vibrant ( and maybe too thirsty😂) for him.

[@annicklagace7414]

Because meeting the person is different. I've been in his shoes before .. I'm in canada , was talking to a man from France for about the same time as them , 8-9 months .. He traveled here to Canada to meet me .. and I felt nothing

[@jb-ze1yh]

@ why would anyone spend 8-9 months before meeting? This is the problem. False expectations and fake connection in my opinion.. people need to meet asap to know if this person is when one or there is way too much limerence and making shit up.

[@annicklagace7414]

@@jb-ze1yh because traveling is expensive .. and because u need to not only get your money in order , but also wait a few months at least in order to know the person a bit .. then the visa takes a bit .. 8-9 months is a short time .. most people wait longer I have kids, I wasn't gonna bring a stranger into my home

[@jb-ze1yh]

@@annicklagace7414 let’s be real the allure of 90 day fiancé is because of the absurdity of falling in “love” with a stranger on the internet . Still tons of false expectations and limererence.

[@veronicaguyader9997]

Its. Bc he doesn't have a job. He feels less than. He doesn't want to disappoint her when she finds out. He's being careful....but he should just be honest instead. And good gravy...he needs to give her a hug.

[@naikeemaknapper-po7op]

Sometimes rejection is the hearts protection the last time he pursued a relationship with someone else now he's telling her he's not romantically into her girl take that for face value and go don't waste anymore time on him

[@ruthiebowling7747]

I think she is beautiful. She deserves better.♥️🙏

[@Quantum_Physics123]

She needs to have some self-respect and leave. This guy ain’t worth much anyway. Just another loser, there are so many out there like him, he ain’t special. But at least he was honest and upfront, that’s always a good quality. And she is too desperate for a man. She needs to learn to be alone.

[@smprowse]

He should have been upfront before she came to see him.

[@annicklagace7414]

​@@smprowsehe couldn't know how he was gonna feel when he met her in person

[@Quantum_Physics123]

@@smprowse Agreed.

[@ParisItaly-z4s]

When man does not see u in friend way .u need to stop for sth to be evolved .it will nver happen

[@Yasmina88165]

So he lied and lead her on. The plot twist is this guy is still in love with his ex and this relationship will go nowhere. Hope she finds a guys who deserves her, she can do so much better and that she learns and grows from this experience.

[@jahawalgern8273]

If someone says something like this… at the time and rate I knew them I would be so embarrassed and annoyed I would have to leave

[@joannharrington2279]

She is over the top with her enthusiasm. It's almost too much. He is trying to love her but it's not there.

[@nadineflow]

Again...Dear lonely humans : An only Internet connection is not enough to get to know a human ! He is honest and that ist fair . And loneliness is just an illusion.

[@RndmMcRndmnss]

She better listen to that man, stop dismissing what he's saying, & face reality! A relationship takes 2!!!

[@musingwanderer2765]

Erm u are not an ugly gal.. pls don’t push this so hard. It’s very scary to watch 😅 if a man tells he’s unsure about me, 100% I’m even more unsure of him then.

[@Mango_Cutie]

We want to see Vanja find her love on the singles life! That would be fun 😊

[@kirstyackah9853]

She wants it too much. Sigh I've been there

[@Colleeniee02]

Sorry. She should of let him go after the first let down. Awhile back..i feel he wanted to be on the show! Hard lesson to learn

[@rosynomad5263]

You need a makeup artist 😂

[@judymurray191]

I agree. It’s horrible.

[@katielaughlin886]

I just wouldn’t be able to date a guy named BOZO🤷‍♀️

[@annicklagace7414]

Maybe people of other countries think your name is ridiculous .. Not dating someone over a name is plain dumb

[@laurac9857]

​@annicklagace7414 thats why she said "i " she was talking about herself. 😂

[@vickyben40]

​@@annicklagace7414you may never understand how much I love you. I assume you have a grasp of life...... I'm just trying to say that you're a wise woman with great understanding of life❤❤❤

[@annicklagace7414]

@vickyben40 aww Victoria ❤️ I love u guys too .. what a great family you have ❤️ Your whole story just tugs at my heart so much that I feel like the big sister too ( white and canadian tho 😆) I always feel the need to defend your story, as some still wanna try and find fault in chidi in this whole crazy ordeal.. He was a victim, and nothing else ,and people really have to learn to check facts before they judge.. the truth has been explained many times and is out there for them to find Rayne had a good man, but she proved too crazy to handle it .. I'm in her shoes as far as having children who's fathers have never been around .. so finding a good man is something that shouldn't be taken for granted ..❤️

[@NF-hh3qq]

@@vickyben40 Why did chidi and Rayne get banned from Tell All?

[@melissag.428]

Vanja, go home. The man said what he said.

[@GOTTA_RUN]

Vanja is just 100% Chadstrucked. He's gonna break her heart crazy

[@TheMountainbobcat]

ha his name is Bozo, need i say more?

[@marianagarcia3827]

He doesn’t like her. That’s it

[@jessieyoung3999]

Lmaooo men can have preference also if he ain’t attracted to her then he ain’t can’t force that on somebody

[@Blazian2000]

When a man says that he doesn't look at you "like that," then accept it at full face value (even if it hurts), and keep it moving..... just as if we were to say that to a man. One day he may regret "friend-zoning" you, but you're his loss... Remember that Ladies. Keep your head up.

[@winterqueenkel]

At least he's being honest about it now, right in the beginning

[@ESLEDUCATE]

Shes too desperate

[@4bratkab565]

Poor Vanja😢😢😢

[@angelatoumas8040]

She needs to walk away

[@Josie3387]

I love that he's being honest.

[@creolehoney2253]

She is a very beautiful lady but, she has too much pink around her eyes.

[@muhdeyam6281]

This is like Igor and that woman

[@beaglemama7928]

Igor and that man.

[@lauralopes6246]

Omg😮 what a slap on her face.

[@rodneyroyal9686]

This is why it's insane to claim to be in love with someone before you meet in them🙄🤡 He's being honest and meeting was the only way to know. She is very cute He shoulda stayed the night and tried it out first before deciding 😊

[@pmd1933]

Hello girl!! Its different in person. Ya it not online!! Geeeesh grow up. Stop being so desperate.

[@protectedearthempress3986]

I think she is a beautiful lady and seems really sweet. O hope hes smart enough to see that. If he fumbles this relationship with her someone is going to snatch her up nc she's great.imo

[@oco987]

I love the honesty

[@user-zl7yf8sf8p]

This is why you don't talk to somebody for months on end until you need them geesh

[@matshidisonthodi949]

@least he's honest

[@jamiew6304]

It just feels like she's trying to talk him into a relationship. I hope it works out well for both of them.

[@five_more_minutes_please]

Kudos to him for his honesty.

[@fozziebear888]

He really respects & cares for her to b so honest right upfront with her. She should appreciate the admiration and respect he has shown her and give it time to see if mutual feelings grow. Hey after 3 weeks she ,ay de ide nope not worth pursuing time to move on. That's life. ❤

[@biancajade728]

Sometimes you click real good online, but when you meet, it's just not there. And maybe that is what happened. Also, maybe he is doing this because once she finds out he has no job & no direction, she might dump him. It would have been nice to tell her that before she came, but at least he is doing it in a respectful way & not cutting her down like Ed would do.

[@beenana9533]

Glad he is honest but he should have said that before she got a plane ticket...

[@jacquelinearchibald6386]

He been honest.

[@agk9700]

she took that risk travelling to meet a man she has never met, this happens. He just doesn’t feel it and you can’t fake feelings. At least he’s being honest about it.

[@4bratkab565]

He should say it before she booked the flights! Not honest guy! Poor Vanja😢

[@kwhit1698]

Really living up to the name I see 🤣

[@markusolofzon]

Probably why their storyline was introduced so late in the season. They won’t last.

[@Sweettooth25]

He’s definitely still involved with his ex and very much so in love with her

[@joywebster2678]

Maybe he wants a 10 yr younger wife and little kids. Or a" old school" wife that lets him shine socially. That's not her fault, the man boy hasn't even worked yet.

[@user-mk3nu3hd4o]

As a Croatian and a woman, I feel for the both of them.. Vanja is doing too much, she is coming off as desperate and that is a definite turn off for most people, but for a Dalmatian man, her energy is too much.. She is too pushy too into his face and pushing herself into his life.. Croatian Dalmatian men are more casual, that is their lifestyle, so she needs a man that will be more energetic and have similar stances in his life that match hers. You can connect over a lot of things to other Croatians (since she is a Bosnian-Croatian), but the fact is that her energy is very much American and it is overwhelming. Same for him, yes you can only find out if you like someone if you meet them in person and I appreciate his honesty cause we are very straightforward people (which can come off as rude to others), but he knew he loved his ex and so with that, with him continuing talking to her when his ex didn't wanna get back with him is just a ''galeb/playboy'' maneuver..

[@blueswadeshoes4012]

Playa playa alert . He most definitely has a local girlfriend. I don’t think he was prepared for the camera crew and all of that. It blew up his spot with his actual girlfriend. He’s making sure it looks like they are just platonic friends right now.

[@thecutellama76]

He is very good looking but I could not take a man seriously that had the name Bozo 😂

[@slonecznikdoniczkowy]

Well, he wasn't answering the calls before she was jumping on the plain. I wouldn't be surprised if he hooked up with jis ex telling her that a beautiful woman is coming from the US to get his ex back. I feel sorry for Vanja, but it's better for her. Best Luck!

[@Unhingedtrucker]

Wow

[@judymurray191]

I feel for her but I really think he has some kind of hang up. He must have been attracted to her looks or it wouldn’t have gotten this far.

[@patienceacheampong9542]

Then why did he lead her on?

[@veronicaramirez2514]

All that Pink a turn off 😂 change your make up LoL 💁

[@Ljounieh]

All irrelevant

[@alicialynnette9889]

I wear pink a lot. Its not a turn off. 😂

[@veronicaramirez2514]

@@alicialynnette9889 lol I just dnt like her makeup but u can tell he not attracted to her period he just used her and wasted her time for him to say that and put her in the friend zone in front of his friends that's missed up and on top of that he been lieing to her that he has a job WTF...

[@alicialynnette9889]

@@veronicaramirez2514 the job BS got me. He made it seem like he was playing basketball successfully. SMH. I dont get why people lie. Its only going to lead to being by yourself in the end.

[@kellydouglas7232]

Just tell her the truth, you don't have a JOB, and you Live with your MOMMY at 30+ yr 😅

[@denisekinzle1672]

Its like blind dates Id have.The guys all wanted sex but not me! Its a matter of chemistry!

[@oliwiazelazo2961]

That s fucked up

[@pn4640]

You can’t fake chemistry and talking online doesn’t mean you have chemistry. I applaud 👏🏾 him for being the most honest cast on 90 days. I am a woman, and I feel terrible when a woman starts to beg a man, it will never work. I could be old fashioned but my African culture men does the chasing hehehe. I live in Canada and I am amazed by how women chase men unbelievable 😮. When he said during cooking class they are just nice friends he meant it but she embarrassed him infront of everyone

[@Ohana9999]

Are you from the middle ages? Anyone can do the pursuing. Its the forcing that isnt there thats the problem. And Africa is a continent, not all African men are dominant chasers. Calm tf down.

[@pn4640]

@ oh God key board Warrior why insult….you know what? Go get a therapist or better still a psychiatrist they will solve all your traumas from the past. Most of all be blessed 🙏

[@smprowse]

I am born in Canada and my parents taught us that the guys do the chasing. It's not just an African thing and it doesn't just happen in Canada. Plus Bozo told her he loved her so she came with a sense that they were in love.

[@giulialoprete7060]

Bruh

[@smartguy360]

I can't stop watching the mole on her head

[@katielaughlin886]

😂😂😂

[@theiswithin3649]

Didn't see it at first...... you pointing it out, now i can't unsee it.

[@smartguy360]

@@theiswithin3649 she reminds me of that actress from the movie Argo, but her's was worse

[@judymurray191]

Is that something she could have removed? It would be a turn off to a man, I would guess.

[@kwhit1698]

Really living up to the name I see 🤣