90 Day Fiancé: Brandan and Mary’s Wedding SWARMED by BEETLES!

ET's Melicia Johnson breaks down the must-see moments from season 5, episode 20 of ‘90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way,’ from Daniele kicking the ‘90 Day’ crew out of her house after Yohan tried to take her dog, to Brandan and Mary’s wedding getting swarmed by beetles. ‘90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way’ airs Mondays at 8 p.m. ET/PT on TLC.

[@ReginaDavid829]

If that wasn’t a major sign from above!! Brandon and Mary’s marriage shook the whole insect kingdom 😂

[@greenfairy4894]

😅😆

[@sarmon4027]

Hahahaha

[@jayrice5736]

Bad omens, and Brandan's tight watered down, grape kool-aid, I'm going to the prom tacky suit......just saiyan.

[@sookie4195]

Whenever a plague of insects show up at your wedding, I would say that’s a sign not to get married.

[@kehidupankanada]

Agreed

[@SpongeB00b_is_a_savage]

Facts!

[@isabellancali5388]

That’s Biblical! 🫣

[@Anna-nc5xd]

I mean they were already married by that point so a little late 😅

[@roroem4648]

It may seem that way, but bugs are a big thing there. They were attracted to the lights and food.

[@ilovegoodsax]

Yohan was transparent with Daniele from the start. She knew exactly who she was marrying. 💯💯💯

[@drbarnes9831]

He told her that he was dirt poor lol she tried to manifest money in DR. Lol

[@pinkcatflowers4141]

and lets not forget in the beginning she told him he didnt have to work

[@cecef2597]

In the beginning he was totally into her but then he wanted more than she could give. It’s that simple. He left when she started wanting something in return.

[@mycatsnameiskaren8253]

A million times this!!!!! He's been transparent from day #1!!! Danielle wanted to own him like a sex slave and she's a disgusting human. Good on Yohan. Take the dog and get tfo and dont look back!!!

[@mandlas.4305]

These older white western women think that life is all about a big black d***. It turns out you need to pay for everything in life, nothing is free.😂

[@theincredibleellie]

THANK YOU for bringing up the dog! So petty and disrespectful. Animals are not objects and are sensitive and can be traumatised, too. Preach Melicia!!

[@jacquiandp-dog7755]

I posted a comment on Mary and Brandan's channel about their animal abuse and they of course ignored it. They have a monkey and a dog chained to very short leash on their porch.

[@xenondoro8573]

​@@jacquiandp-dog7755 A monkey!? 😢

[@vermeiljardin8964]

Brandon can't work in the Phillipines until he's married . Give the guy a break - he worked every job he could to provide the entire family the best house in the village and sent money to support them. He deserves a wee rest before the grind restarts. Also, she doesn't want to get married but wants a child with him?!! She's so young with no concept of how to conduct a healthy relationship .

[@mikeyteladoo5230]

I was going to say bruh he sent 80-90% of every paycheck to her family.. they have a house because of him!!! And tbh it's true how is he gonna work when he doesn't speak language?? Which he should've learned but he could step up little by little. Like waking up and helping clean at least

[@NickMomOf2]

How sure are u that bcoz of brandan bcoz they have a house ? Comeon having a farm in the philippines and owns it meaning they are not poor . And imagine her phonr is iphone 13 compared to brandon iphone se before they even started so dont tell lies

[@dominus5534]

@@NickMomOf2 its been a fact since the start of this series that the family house was lost in a bad storm and that Brandan sent like $60,000 to build a new one.

[@mikeyteladoo5230]

@@NickMomOf2 i mean they both admitted it in the beginning.

[@greenfairy4894]

He should teach English online

[@arahxoxo]

Bugs are common in the farm areas of the Philippines, but the amount of bugs during their wedding is not normal.

[@vickysdiy146]

Didnt Danielle make Yohan quit his resort job? She chose the luxury apartment knowing she is in debt, knowing that Yohan doesn’t have a job

[@pinkcatflowers4141]

and she told him he didnt have to work in the beginning 😂 she set herself up

[@lauren4078]

$2,600/month is a lot for rent -- especially in the D.R. She is such an idiot. No wonder she's broke!!

[@ia7072]

He stole her money, was in a relationship during 2 years with another girl. And guess what ? He's asking his girlfriend to pay the divorce now 😂 How you people can defend him, he's so ridiculous

[@Missemeka]

​@@ia7072Na both of them done things. She gave him the wrong impression deliberately and u cant tell me she didn't know he all bout the money n what she can provide. I feel bad for her but at her age she shouldn't be so naive

[@Naimah_Vlogs]

When I heard them mention scarab beetles straight away my mind went bk to that scene in the mummy 😅

[@ruthdawang6044]

Scarab beetles are considered lucky in the Egyptian culture.

[@RouzMusau]

I think Yohan is just completely tired of Danielle and he was just hoping to be thrown out.

[@ia7072]

He cheated on her during 2 years and stole her money.... No one deserve that

[@nicholasgarrick8855]

Mary saying theres no divorce so Brandon doesnt have a way to leave her 🚩 🚩 .

[@Idky813]

Theres a divorce now in philippines 😅

[@DMarie-qg4jp]

Married or not he can leave .. a paper dsnt keep you there

[@greenfairy4894]

In that case, I’d never marry.

[@ajheartsong]

Right what are they gonna do, extradite him from the US because of his wife 😂

[@juanchoresultay2704]

@@Idky813not yet , just annulment

[@lans2226]

Yeah in the Philippines this is normal in the countryside since bugs/ beetles are drawn to the light, but not this much.

[@XSemperIdem5]

Maybe it was bug mating season 🤷they definitely should have enclosed the space with some kind of screens or like those picnic tents that have that material to keep mosquitoes out.

[@coleenbedrejo2324]

This is a normal actually,​@@XSemperIdem5

[@TheDivineracer]

Man enough to be a father? He built you a freaking home. Not just for you but also for your grandparents. Don’t call him lazy. Disgusting! He’s depressed because he knows he’s being used!!! Deep down he knows. She’s twisted.

[@pinkcatflowers4141]

MARY NEEDS A PSYCH EVALUATION

[@KA-eu9sy]

@@pinkcatflowers4141 Mary doesn't need an evaluation. She's

[@haisungahd6730]

He sent money from a far to have the house built he didnt build it with his hands. He shows up and plays video games all day when your expecting a child its a reasonable concern are. It comes of like I paid to have this house built so I don't have to do shit to maintain (Its not even like that in the US) I'll just sit here n play video games all day. I can see her concern, even his own mother said man up.

[@pinkcatflowers4141]

@@haisungahd6730 did you build your house with your own two hands on your own? be fr hes in his 20s nobody is prepared to be a parent until they ARE parents. yall need to stop shitting on him just bc hes young and naive. mary is just as dumb if not worse since she married him 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@aylxm]

​@@haisungahd6730she is always looking for something to criticize him for. she has many defects too, i would say one of the worst: she is extremely controlling and jealous. if she wants him to change, she should do the same. also, they are both kids lmao ofc he plays videogames, she was aware.

[@AnonymusLeConnu]

I visited an animal shelter and a poor 8 month dog was left there by a couple who bought him then they separated and left it behind. He was EXTREMLY confused and depressed

[@LadyG6093]

Between the insects and losing the ring I think it's safe to say that's a bad omen. Those two are doomed🤦🏾‍♀️

[@lavendertease]

"Ladies and gentlemen, The Beetles!"

[@Zahra-wd3md]

😂😂😅😂

[@Bunbur]

Let's not pretend that Danielle didn't lead Yohan to believe he was going to the states or having a baby; Danielle got her karma.

[@YaLittleFriend]

Facts 😂

[@ia7072]

No. He cheated on her during 2 years, stole her money. And now he want his girlfriend to pay the divorce ! How people can defend him wtf

[@feralhomunculus]

​​@@ia7072You can't _divorce_ your girlfriend. He expects her to pay for _everything_ . She _did_ lie to him in the beginning, and now she's reaping what she sowed. They're _both_ messed up.

[@ia7072]

@@feralhomunculus I'm talking about his current girlfriend, another girl, not Danielle. 😐 And yes he want his current girlfriend to pay for divorce. Danielle exposed him recently.

[@athenapowers7786]

She never wanted to stay in the US she always said she wanted to stay in the Dominican republic. Do you watch the show?

[@tru2harris998]

Danielle HAS NO RIGHT TO STEAL HIS CLOTHES. IF SHE GAVE THWM TO HIM AS A GIFT THEYRE LEGALLY HIS NOT HERS. FACT..

[@nicholasgarrick8855]

Thank you melcia for always being the voice of reason great recaps bestie ❤.

[@winterclevenger7307]

The universe stopped sending Brandon and Mary 🚩's and starting sending a plague of 🪲's! This wedding is a HUGE mistake.

[@isabellancali5388]

😂😂😂

[@luciamaununiemi6140]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Zahra-wd3md]

😂😂😅😅

[@luisamariem9452]

The owner of the venue might be aware of this but intentionally concealed to the couple. They were attracted to the light. Somehow they were "invited." 😂

[@user-sz7qy1ir7x]

Brandon’s mom is so sweet 🥹 ❤

[@potleyagits]

Sorry but it was Danielle who wanted to get a luxury apartment, which she knew Yohan wouldn’t be able to pay for.

[@alexisk4407]

she made him quit his job, she signs a lease for a luxury apartment knowing she cant afford it, she buys that tacky weave she got in her hair... i say this is all her fault.

[@Ren2285]

😂😂That weave is really bad, doesn't blend at all and is way too long.

[@vangiem]

Its not a lease. In that area most likely the house is built on the lot they own.

[@vangiem]

This is the first time ive seen such beetle infestation even if i live in the Philippines

[@alexisk4407]

im talking about the black dude and the white girl..... they do not own any land or even the apartment they are in. relax@@vangiem

[@Mvill1]

especially the weave :)

[@camillemauch8729]

So you can pay expensive shipping for other peoples children however you cannot afford your rent? Help me make that make sense.

[@siphumelelechagwe6642]

The bugs were probably just migrating and accidentally got attracted to the lights. 😂 Nature really doesn't care about our plans

[@realfruit4167]

True 😂😂😂

[@KA-eu9sy]

Who mentions fighting in their wedding vow. Nuts!

[@iamkristina]

lmfao yohan is going to take the dog and sell it for a better price 😅😂

[@mellarka]

i wouldn’t be surprised but for the sake of drama i hope he’ll sit on tell all with this dog on his hands 🤣

[@cm7393]

Right and will put on the sale sign... Come and buy a famous dog, the dog has been on TV!!! Lol poor baby 🐶

[@xenondoro8573]

When he walks outta the door you can see the dog in her lap and the hats in his.

[@Shann.nnell23]

yohan wanted a sugar mummy unfortunately danielle has no money 😂😂😂

[@sofiepan847]

That’s how it usually is in provinces here in PH. During night time, these bugs just swarm to where the lights are and they come in massive groups. They also love hanging around the top of your head. That’s why houses have screened doors and windows. And even have screen cloths over their beds

[@milhouse14]

Those were not moths though. They were beetles. I don’t think beetles are attracted to light.

[@crishahill3761]

It’s the light they had on in the dark that was attracting the bugs!!!

[@maryfrishkorn379]

They were attracted to the heat from the lights of the camera crew and wedding

[@beckamax74]

Yohan has more clothes then I do. For a economically challenged guy, he sure has alot of clothing. Ridiculous.

[@nilsonrodriguez674]

It’s so funny how in the end you can see Yohan take the hats 😂

[@angela-ji1cg]

I missed it 😂

[@xenondoro8573]

Yup, he traded the dogs for the caps lmao

[@angela-ji1cg]

I can't believe he married this control freak. 😢

[@Loveabounds.]

I went to a wedding where everything was going wrong the marriage didn’t last 6 months

[@ria8594]

😂😂😂😂 Brandon’s mom freaking out 😅

[@greenfairy4894]

I would be too

[@dearmeecha1310]

That thing with the dog pissed me off! That poor animal.

[@lutongpinoy4602]

I grew up in the Philippines and I’ve never encounter a swarm of bugs in the wedding. There’s a trick to do to minimize the bugs in your place. When you see them or when you see bugs starting to come, turn off all the lights right away until they past. Bugs or insects are attracted to lights. I feel sorry for them! The wedding reception was ruined

[@ZukileFongoqa-id7cn]

that was evil

[@ShayMarie.00]

Why are we forgetting Danielle asked him to quit his good-paying job, because she was jealous he'd meet someone else. So why the hell would she be asking him for money? I understand Yohan's irritation. She got what she wanted so she should deal with the consequences.

[@jamnoise72]

Looks like she had every reason to worry... he is a cheating POS

[@michelleallred8521]

Her dress was beautiful ❤

[@elanmackey7892]

She shouldve jumped on Yohan back as soon as he picked up the puppy and rode him all the way back to his mama house!

[@ajheartsong]

Would hate to see that escalate into a physical altercation 😮

[@ruchashinde9735]

Mary is ungrateful!!! He made her house n here she is crying

[@MissSadie1]

I would have been right behind u running 🤣🤣

[@christi2172]

yohan has a job she made him quit his work and tell him she will provide😂😂🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

[@user-gq5yn9ht1o]

SELL HIS CLOTHES THEY WILL PAY WELL IN D.R.

[@misstish]

Plague aside, Mary looked absolutely gorgeous 😭😭😭😍❤️

[@jamnoise72]

😂😂 It was the lights attracting them. I don't know why they just didn't turn the lights off!

[@bettytube7512]

I’m here because I love how Melicia give me the perfect reply I really love her ❤❤

[@aphantom6834]

What does that even mean?

[@innocentiamanokolediga8489]

I think there should be a law prohibiting older American women from marrying young foreign lads!

[@suzs3770]

Hopefully they at least got to finish the food before the bugs flew in. That’s so sad.

[@chamomile3620]

Im from the philippines and thats very normal in remote areas like that especially there are so many bright light. Im from a rural area and this can happen anytime especially at parties during the night these bugs just swarms randomly

[@ria8594]

Beautiful dress Mary and love the venue

[@loism1965]

Danielle from the start played Yohan dirty now it's called pay back. He wanted to come to the USA ...BUT ...Danielle didn't want that and lied to Yohan who didn't want to live in the Dominican Republic so now that Danielle see her relationship crumble ....well my dear yoh did it to yourself! You needed to be transparent from the get-go with your husband! You should have said YOU will NEVER go to the USA because I don't want to luve there ! I want to live here in the DR permanently! That's what you needed to say! So here we are today the consequences of your actions....a pending DIVORCE. See how being deceitful doesn't work in the long run....smh.

[@024Yadiih]

The edits are on point ❤

[@LogicalVelocity]

It's Tuesday night and this episode still isn't on Amazon Prime in Canada. Like wtf. Can't watch it anywhere!

[@dearmeecha1310]

I like Brandon’s mom too.

[@joedurt2220]

I feel like Danielle dated him as a suger mama, than baited him. Isolated him and made him dependent on her.

[@CA2SD]

You can take it all but not my dog. You will not make it out of my place with my dog. That is where you will not see me cordial anymore.

[@lillybethford1915]

Yohan has checked out. Danielle has been so disrespectful, plus lying to him about coming to America…it’s simply too late and he will continue to make her life difficult.😳

[@betrue2yourself10]

If you see an insect infestation at your wedding, you have to be very sure to allow the wedding to go ahead. This is a bad omen.

[@luisamariem9452]

Not an omen but wrong venue. It should have been in a closed structure. The owner of the venue is aware of this. If the reception took place earlier( not night time) then it should been a different story.

[@its.me.lil.t8675]

1. Why is Brandan wearing a Beetlejuice's suit? 2. Why didn't he do his hair? 3. Mary's vows sucked. They knew this was going to be on TV. I wish Brandan would join the party. He seems to be in his own world. And Grandpa? Do you think there is another reason why he is not there. This train wreck is so good, I can't stop watching.

[@isabellancali5388]

The outfit was a foreshadowing of what was to come. 😭🪲🪲🪲

[@michelle_m4446]

😂😂😂😂..beetle juice suit only to swarmed by beetles..😂😂😂

[@akaLaBrujaRoja]

@@michelle_m4446 I can’t believe I didn’t make that connection 😂🪲

[@its.me.lil.t8675]

@@isabellancali5388 aaahhh! I thought the same thing. 🪲

[@piespies10]

Beetlejuice suit yo!!!! 😂

[@tiffanyxxd]

Imagine the man Brandon could have grown to become if he had a good woman behind him. Smh. Too late now

[@princessprincess6433]

Brandon can divorce Mary anytime since he is an American citizen. Foreigners who are married to Filipinas can file a divorce. Also, thou Philippines has no divorce, there are grounds to annul the marriage.

[@piespies10]

You are right. Imo annulment is much worst than divorce

[@Missemeka]

Dang. Those braids suit u melicia. Love when u have ur lil fro too.

[@JoseHernandez-ql8vw]

did a 5 year old write mary's vows

[@cllmda]

Collecting DEBT from people???? What a disgusting job choice ,he must be a horrible person…It’s probably not done in a pseudo “nice” way over there,ie.sending thugs to people’s homes…?😖

[@rediettadesse2828]

He should get English teacher

[@user-gq5yn9ht1o]

SAME AS PEDRO LAZY BOTH FROM DOMINICAN REPUBLIC.

[@ilovegoodsax]

So was Molly's Luis! 💯💯💯

[@Bunny11344]

We’re seeing a trend in their men ppl 🤔

[@rainnmn]

Born and raised in the Philippines, grew up in one of the southern provinces. Seeing bugs gather around a light source, especially after rain, isn't really out of the ordinary. Buuut, I honestly have never seen anything of that scale lmao, could be something specific to their part of the country tho. Nonetheless, that isn't normal at all heh

[@debbieangel9376]

Angela has a way of saying things and it also sound SO right

[@M4MLiving]

i feel so bad for him..he actually married her? wow...

[@NoOneCaresAnyway1234]

That's bad juju my friend, that's what that is😂 wasn't it scarab beetles in that mummy movie😂 Danielle being a petty betty about them hangers😂😂 my dude I'll cut you over my furbabies😂😂

[@charmaineelizabeth8723]

Ill bet you he took the dog to sell back to her as a last ditch desperate attempt at "compensation " that he thinks hes entitled too,, now i loked yohan hes had me on his side forever but that just lost me when i watched this the other night (cant wait to watch the episode) but yeah i hope hes not going to try extort money from her for the dog 😔

[@natalierivera5997]

They should have had citronella torches around the venue. I have a phobia of bugs so I would have fainted. Sounds like the beetles were a good sign.

[@XSemperIdem5]

That search said in Egypt and they're not in Egypt so what does the local culture say? Not that I believe in any of that but I'd still be curious to know.

[@oswaldoculo]

I feel that he took the dog just to upset her

[@rayacalvez2091]

its means its going to rain, they have to closed the light so that they will dissapear

[@gh0st.0nline]

Unpopular opinion but Yohan thought they would be moving to America, she also promised him other things. Plus Danielle made him quit his job and has provided him a certain lifestyle. You can't be surprised that Yohan is now uninterested when she doesn't hold her end of the bargain. Also, she's making him leave all the stuff she bought so he should be able to take the dog.

[@YaLittleFriend]

Exactly!

[@TwitsGodMother]

I’m sure the beatles were attracted to the light 😂 and I do not feel bad for Danielle never will

[@katniss1968]

No one is going to make me believe that Daniele made promises to Yohan which she could not fulfill. He is not an angel by any standards but right or wrong from day one he has been honest about wanting to go to the USA and expecting a have a rich American wife.

[@operamom3303]

Mary it is a sign from God!

[@davicool4284]

No! It's the revenge of the frogs.

[@docfromthesouthbeifong3142]

Those bugs are called salimbagat. They appear when rain is coming.

[@ivydemichael3661]

Look he bought that whole house how dare she be so hard on him. She harps on him but looking at girls is horrible she needs to appreciate him more that's his house. I'm sure he could get off his game a lot more but he going to be working soon for life ...that man gave his all to grandparents and her bf he met her ! I bet it's not in his name I think he doesn't feel appreciated

[@maryreilly5092]

I hate being petty but I wish Mary wore different earrings on her wedding day. The earrings were so cute but they didn't go yet she was still a most beautiful Bride! 👰‍♀️

[@kaylastephen16]

I would have embarrased myself too lol running from the dang bugs I would not be able to keep my composure especially cause it looked like they were getting in peoples hair !!!

[@aphantom6834]

SAME, I would have appeared possessed. NOT MY HAIR!

[@user-hl2hl4kr6l]

So much bad signs of Brandon and Mary’s wedding. 1. Almost losing the ring 2. Grandpa did not come to the wedding 3. Million of bugs came to the wedding 4. Brandon was wearing beetle colors .

[@MariaTorres-tp7xq]

Mary's mom passed away and she likely came through spiritually not approving of the marriage, which seems unbelievable.

[@meandmygingers]

Not only a plague at your wedding, but you lose your ring too....WTF how many more signs u need bro?! 🤣🤣🤣

[@sleepingbeauty229]

They are attracted to the lights

[@Mvill1]

If it was my wedding, I would totally take it as a sign that the marriage will be a disaster.

[@ritzraymundo9086]

It is typical in the Philippines to have these kinds of bugs especially near the farm and on a place where it's the only light around the area. They need to turn off the light to shoo it away. It's not a bad premonition or sign or anything

[@crisevale8162]

True!!!❤

[@zaynad1034]

Common sense would tell anyone that the lights in the middle of the night is probably what’s attracting the bugs 🫠 Brandon and Mary are not that bad

[@amyahlquist3436]

That’s a new definition of wedding crushers.

[@aphantom6834]

Crushers? Lol

[@saradigota7201]

Hilarious,"i saw a fog,o no,a lot of bugs."

[@njunakicatherine1928]

Branded looks like Harry porter!😅all he has to do is swing the wand

[@njunakicatherine1928]

Melicia I love you .I'm from uganda but 😂😂😂those are not even lake flies it's a sign 😅

[@aphantom6834]

Harry Porter? Who is that?😂 And Branded? Get it together

[@vangiem]

Apparently theres another sugar mama so hes not making any effort to make it work. He has an insurance all along. But Danielle had her share of faults too

[@madelynsage8728]

Me and my boyfriend are about 3-4 years younger than Mary and Brandon and our relationship is 10x healthier than this. When you prioritize your mental health and put effort into working on any issues you may have, it does wonders when you and another person who does the same can come together and grow on that love. Our relationship is not perfect, no relationship is, but the love we have for ourselves really reflects on our relationship, and it’s amazing.

[@sorayawatkins3626]

That’s a clear sign if I ever saw one

[@csong9940]

Those weren’t scarab beetles though

[@isabellancali5388]

Yeah, they mentioned an Egyptian beetle (as if it was a plague from Biblical times) but the Philippines has several species of beetles. (My cousins are from there and my aunt and uncle moved back.)

[@Allinmyworld]

Daniele was buying Yohan clothes because he had nothing when she got with him in my mind she had unrealistic expectations from the start. From the time she left New York. Wasn't the scarab beetle from the plague?

[@Audreylin29]

Great commentary!!!

[@FergieToes]

Mary could not have been calmer, as if nothing ever ruffles her feathers 😂

[@archiegalang995]

Yes this happens occasionally, and randomly

[@haniyaqadira2743]

This is for Mary girl kung padakuon nimu imung jealousy I swear Dili jud mu muasenso. Grow up girl. Naa namuy anak. I think need ni Brandon mubalik sa U.S para Maka work.