'90 Day Fiancé’s Sheila Admits She’s Embarrassed to Ask David For Money (Exclusive)

In this exclusive clip, ’90 Day Fiancé’s Sheila admits she’s embarrassed to ask David for help as they try to figure out how to repair their house. ‘90 Day Fiancé’ airs Sundays at 8 p.m. ET/PT on TLC.

[@indiamitchell9833]

The problem is that when they are on the phone they have a fantasy relationship. When they are together in person it becomes real. Especially losing her mother while he was there, so sad.

[@veronicaguyader9997]

Its only a fantasy depending on what tge people put out. Not all long distance and global couples live in fantasy. Some are genuine and are fully real about their lives. My parents were thay way, so was I

[@ROCEMPOWERMENT]

💯💯💯👍

[@burnerbaby26]

That was extremely hard to watch and I kind of wish it wasn’t on TV. My heart was absolutely breaking.

[@bethyu2715]

I speak Tagalog and the translator is not translating correctly or completely. For example, he is asking “you seem upset” and her translation is “how are you feeling”?

[@Dirk-Diggler77]

I thought this to. Maybe she was trying to see if she was upset but I feel don’t try and second guess. Just translate what was said verbatim unless they are speaking to you to express a view.

[@Allinmyworld]

She seems geniune. She didn't misrepresent herself and catfish him. She didn't seem to ask for help for her family or her son. She needs help and David also seems hardworking. They have to work together to make it work. I will say this is one of the most real couples on 90 day Finance i've seen in a minute. I really like them!!

[@thepusherwoman]

I agree with you too. I just feel like TLC is making unnecessary drama and exploiting this wholesome couple. The sex life details? TLC could've left that out given that both have some sort of language barriers. Sheila being jealous of David's interpreter? I think it's very natural that someone gets insecure only because she wishes she could've communicated with him better. I'm giving this couple a chance.

[@julief2830]

she genuinely needs help. If she were a gold digger, she would be living better. Like Pedro's mom/sister. When they were first on the show, they didn't have a lot but had better conditions than Sheila. The more Pedro was on the show, the nicer they looked every time you saw them. They wanted the $$ and that puzzles me because his mom is a so called lawyer.

[@DesertBluebells]

The most likable so far by a country mile!

[@asabovesobelow7981]

@@DesertBluebells I concur!!

[@loredanadincu4300]

​@@julief2830Both she and David admitted he sent her money before he got there. She asked for money. How much she got or how much he was able to send her , they didn't said exactly. But she recognized in the early episodes that he sent her money.

[@DoItWithThema]

For people who think she's after his money, don't you think she would've been gotten hefty amount of money from him prior? TLC needs to pay for the house since them and their heavy equipment went up the stairs that was already feeble to begin with and the poor mother dropped straight through. Somebody need to at least help her and the family. We've seen bad conditions before but this is probably one of the worst

[@Steven-tl8fs]

Lol you saying tlc killed her monther!? Get real dude.

[@DoItWithThema]

@@Steven-tl8fs I am saying, with all their equipment and the amount of people they have following around these folks, their heavyweight contributed to the further deterioration of the already feeble wood. Comprehension is truly not this hard you know. It would not be this hard for them to contribute to an already issue. If I wanted to say TLC killed her mother, I would’ve said that

[@mid_century_me]

I had the same thoughts. The house is in really bad shape. All those people and their cameras being in there, it's not hard to imagine that it could possibly cause damage.

[@tinasepulveda1895]

Agree with you

[@neeren777]

@@Steven-tl8fsobviously TLC did not purposefully killed her mother, that would be crazy to suggest, it was just an awful condition and circumstance that no one would ever imagine. TLC might have just sped up what was going to happen sooner or later and her mom was sadly unlucky

[@csong9940]

I think this couple is genuine and that Sheila is not a gold digger. David seems like a good guy too. I hope they work out.

[@SeminarioMAE]

She literally asks for money, how is she not a gold digger?

[@azazello1784]

@@SeminarioMAE Because she only asks for necessities, not luxurious items... Compare her to what Jasmine asks from Gino.

[@jamesberry7827]

@@azazello1784 She poor with no job of course she wants his money lol but i don't blame her she has to do what she has to do

[@MelaniaRose]

@@hi-qw5py The Phillipines is not conservative and it’s very hypersexual. Look at the out of wedlock children and sex work rife in the country.

[@MelaniaRose]

She’s not a gold digger but she doesn’t work and lives in poverty. Asking for money is gold digging.

[@ImaPeach]

This is the only couple this season that I think is genuinely loving and respectful to each other. I hope they make it.

[@mikeyteladoo5230]

I feel like this is a genuine loving couple struggling and the first I've seen in a while on 90dag

[@zythr9999]

Stanika and Nouradenne(?)

[@lookyloo5875]

The least TLC can do is fix this home. You pray on these poor people and put them out there.

[@blondiee4017]

This translator is missing all the key points

[@Simonesanderss]

🤣 she really is doing a sh*t job. They probably would be better off with some random translation app!!!

[@preyn49]

Sheila needs help. It's not a matter of what her motivation is. He's in a relationship with her for the purpose of marrying her and she needs help. If he doubts then perhaps he needs to decide if she is the person for him. I say help her anyway because she needs it.

[@Simonesanderss]

I agree with you 100% She seems very genuine and sincere. And like someone said she is not asking for luxuries. When I saw Annie (from Thailand) and David I thought she was in for the wrong reasons, but she proved me wrong. And I think Sheila is the same.

[@gatestimonymiracle1302]

Yes he purposely chooses a women who will need him

[@vellabella1]

​​@@gatestimonymiracle1302Agreed, the reason why many, many men chose the Phillipines. He would not be refused and even have many options. It is because of poverty and dire financial desperation.

[@Shewas-kathybates]

@@vellabella1 I don’t know if ALL of these men are thinking that these women’s poverty will work to their advantage. I do think they’re just going where they feel wanted. These men are desperate too.

[@loredanadincu4300]

He doesn't have to do anything if they broke up. He helped her brother he got there . She even said that in the earlier episodes that he sent her money before to help her. She didn't said how much but she said he was already helping her and her family by sending money.

[@shannonwilliams773]

The translator was making me a little mad lol like girl that’s not what she said 😂

[@michhall0103]

Me too

[@gigibo4865]

Exactly. I’m filipino she’s giving a different meaning to it

[@adriasorensen2249]

Right? Translator being so catty to early and bragging about how it took her 2 months to learn asl. Interprets what Sheila says poorly by twisting the message to make shiela look bad. I'm not happy with the interpreter and feel bad that shiela has to deal with being around this interpreter on top of her mom's death.

[@cristinapalisa4449]

I hope shiela will be able to learn david's language. Little by little is ok, so long as they will be able to understand each other more even without the help or presence of the interpreter.

[@davicool4284]

I like looking at the interpreter

[@lavernelesznik6750]

So typical. Always trying to scam American men to give them money . Find an American woman

[@jacquiandp-dog7755]

They communicated through video chat for years, but now they require an interpretor? That is strange.

[@revinaque1342]

​@@jacquiandp-dog7755I think they used text chat, not video chat

[@babygurll7]

They seemed to be communicating fine the first few days and then all of a sudden she required a translator, not sure why that is

[@magdasanon5469]

Tlc messed up the stairs with those heavy equipment and all the crew fixed the place for her as humanitarian should

[@safaa9654]

It seems to me like she doesnt want to work

[@tamramkhel4806]

it may seem so but the reality is in some countries its extremely difficult to find work. She said she was working before the pandemic. Sometimes people wait years before landing a simple job

[@kevoncox]

@@tamramkhel4806 People think everywhere is like America. That's why all the Americans are shocked when they see how others live.

[@Curious_KJ]

@@tamramkhel4806 Plus a 12 year old kid and elderly father that need at the very least some care.

[@yanzulyfx9887]

She needs to date older guys. Young men don't help.

[@kerstin_eryel]

@@kevoncox Exactly. For people outside America, it's a huge culture shock when they find out that Americans with little to no credentials can get at least a job in retail. It's the opposite in the Philippines. You need at least a high school diploma or finished sophomore year in college to get a low paying job in a fastfood joint or in the mall. If all else fails, you use your connections.

[@awesomemaria69]

The translator is not translating right

[@This_handle_is_tak3n]

The interpreter is trying her best but I don’t think she is getting across the exact sentiments. Tough situation for them; hope they will make it through!

[@kishahelena5312]

you can't trust the words on screen either, direct word translation are always that good even networks with bigger budgets get them wrong. It was throwing me off, but my guess is her translation was closer than the words on screen. But I could be wrong, but people a have said, that captions aren't always good translations for this show.

[@Simonesanderss]

Whoever translated what Sheila is saying to english for TLC is a really professional. The translator in Philippines is not as competent. Yes she is translating the essential ideias of the conversation but in this situations is very critical what words are used and the way things are expressed and she is not doing a very good job....

[@Simonesanderss]

@@kishahelena5312yes it can also be the case. Based on her behavior and tone of voice I kind of feel that the translation os screen is more accurate... 🤷‍♀️

[@michhall0103]

That's Exactly what I was saying, Why isn't She Translating Word For Word??? Maybe Because She Said She learned ASL in a Month and An ASL Teacher Commented band Said that's BS. I Think She Doesn't know it as Well as She Says. They need a better One!!

[@anonymousanon9056]

​@@SimonesanderssI thought so too. Why can't she just say exactly what he is signing to her. Instead of interpreting her own perspective or understanding. The context of her understanding is not exactly genuine

[@Blobbyrob54]

I don’t think the interpreter is doing a good job of portraying Sheila’s embarrassment of asking for more money

[@Lizbeth7799]

I thought the same!.. but I feel David is perceptive enough to undesirable how she feels

[@LittleCatLisa]

yeah, it's a bit frustrating to watch, she's obviously doing her best but she's not really getting their feelings and emotions across well

[@camillechavez998]

I thought the same. She made it sounds like she is upset and that she is forcing him to help her when she is not. She interprets what she said in a completely different context.

[@TedieZumochachki]

TLC should start a fundraiser or something for Shelia’s home condition I’m sure fans of the show would love to help her out.

[@irineadisa7289]

True

[@curry1263]

People think she is after his cash, but are they serious? They just showed that her mother died because OF THE HOUSE and its poor state. It's a valid concern and if she is leaving her family behind to be with him, then they have an obligation as a couple to make sure her family is safe before that make that decision to move forward.

[@sookie4195]

If she gets a K1 visa her 12 year old son will surely follow. I seriously doubt that she will leave her elderly father alone. I don’t think she would come to the states now that her mother is dead.

[@talkback6094]

@@sookie4195 or she wil leave her son behind? when her mom died,she went to the hotel,with this gloomy looking man and left behind her son! this woman need have dignity and shame,leave this man if he has non $$ and go arrange her life

[@ceehaychh]

@@talkback6094She won’t leave her son behind. This is Sheila, not Jasmine. Sheila grew up in poverty and poor conditions and these people are always more humble and kind. You are not talking from experience but pure one sided judgement

[@jacquiandp-dog7755]

Yes i agree!

[@josierosie100]

@@sookie4195she should take father with her…these cultures always support their families (not a bad thing) however if they’re not contributing it’s quite difficult for new spouse to have to look after another family in a different country…

[@nataliem2494]

I'm impressed with the translator listening and translating simultaneously into English and ASL. Doing this and being around a couple for hours a day would be interesting, as she gets to try to help them navigate the communication barriers. Having a translator creates a different dynamic then using a translating device; it's interesting. Of course, things get lost in translation either way

[@countrygirlxo7188]

It’s different when you WANT money vs NEEDING money. She’s at a low point in her life right now and she’s hoping he will be a rock for her. She just better remember and appreciate his sacrifices he’s making for her and not leave him later on.

[@mandlas.4305]

This translator can be corrupt. She's not translating exactly what David says or asks sometimes.

[@QueenMel_]

this is a couple i definitely like! they both seem sweet & genuine ❤

[@skontheroad]

TLC should chip in if not pay for all of it! They were partially to blame for the accident with the constant up and down on the stairs with heavy camera equipment! Hopefully someone mentions this to them!

[@historyloveriii2949]

No one cares about the Philippines!

[@paulwehrlesr4825]

You’re right on point 💯

[@lisykawaii]

Yes exactly what you said and how we can point this out to TLC ?

[@miryamamar9471]

TLC probably views the Filippinos as disposable.

[@PurposelyObtuse]

No they shouldn’t. They should let her see exactly who David is. He is only a man that’s come to take from her without even making sure her basic needs are provided. She shouldn’t have to convince him she’s not after his money. He should be convincing her he just isn’t there to use her.

[@leigh7507]

Why dont they just text each other if she doesnt speak deaf people language? They can both write.

[@jazzjazzy5063]

She’s definitely using him for money she’s living in extreme poverty and does need help. But she also seems like someone who would appreciate it and actually try to build a solid relationship.

[@JeepForFun]

I really like Sheila. She’s very sweet and humble. And I hope they make it, because they work together with everything.

[@froggylegspeople]

I wish they would have another interpreter

[@Cindy-vl7xj]

TLC gotta do a fund raising for Sheila so we can help her as we can

[@afroforeskin]

​@@ladywed2699Who hurt you?

[@habibahmad6658]

You wouldn’t give a dollar stop the 🧢

[@TheMariemarie16]

Oh she does not work? I did not know this. What has been her reason for not working? Is it confirmed that Sheila does not work?

[@Curious_KJ]

@@TheMariemarie16 She said in the video she doesn't work. She lives in the Philippines where jobs are not always as easy to find as in the USA and even the jobs that are available are very low paying. Plus she has (had) two elderly parents and a 12 year old son she has been taking care of. Him giving her money won't help her find a job, and she still has her dad and son that need at least some care from her. It's not like she can afford a caretaker while she is working. Maybe if her son was a little older he could look after himself and her dad, but that isn't the case right now. I feel for her, she is in a rough situation.

[@TheMariemarie16]

@@Curious_KJ Yes I understand the nature of getting a job in the Philippines but her parents were mostly self sufficient as far as staying home by themselves during the day. They weren't infirm, just poor and older as far as I could tell. Her son is 12. Many people go to work with much younger children. I don't want to judge her not knowing the intimate specifics of her reasons and work history but I would do almost anything other than literally selling my body on the street rather than life destitute without working and if it meant my child not dying of starvation then I would even remove that final barrier in order to get money. Everyone is different so I dunno. It depends what you are willing to do but there are some jobs in the Philippines.

[@linthoi6456]

The translator is leaving some details out !! Shiela seems to be too embarrassed to meet David’s eyes when she asked for the money !!

[@Patty5825]

Sheila just assumed that David would financially assist with home repairs. At the beginning, I didn't think she saw anything, but love for David; now, I'm not so sure. She's making him feel obligated to help her. I'm not understanding why she can't get a job. Any job will do for now.

[@Kalamolng]

It's the 3rd world. Jobs are usually handed via recommendation especially meanial jobs.

[@PurposelyObtuse]

Yes, this is shocking. Who searches for a womb with extreme poverty and doesn’t provide her necessities? David needs to find someone else. He isn’t an asset even for her basic needs, shelter.

[@Patty5825]

@@PurposelyObtuse That's not his responsibility. She's no asset to him either. She has a child to provide for; why isn't she working, instead of looking for a man to take care of her? She's irresponsible! That house has been dilapidated for many years; her mother's accident isn't anyone's fault, but their own. Anyone could have fallen, including her son.

[@joan92763]

They need a male interpreter. The one they have now is twisting the words. I don’t trust her.

[@meelarno]

Hhai no🤦🏽‍♂️, the interpreter seems to be making things worse with her somewhat inaccurate translation, both ways.

[@maric6451]

Not a very good interpreter

[@meelarno]

@@maric6451 true🤞

[@ifykyehh9500]

So is she getting a job after he sends her the money to help her?? She didn’t answer that lol

[@tu41358]

Sheila really needs to work, David is not stupid at all. My god, she does not have a job, and she cannot have time to learn his language to save some money on the translator?, she is not taking care of David's money

[@px2387]

Camera crew shud help her after her mum pass n they all up in there with the cameras yooo

[@MsIsrael48]

Much cheaper to simply rent a simple apartment in Phillipines which can be as cheap as $200/month rather than try to re-build a slum apartment. Surely David can afford $200/month for simple apartment.

[@findpurpose6300]

Yeah but her father needs a place also when she leaves. That's probably the reason she wants the home fixed.

[@boosqueezy2418]

$200 a month? costs more than that to park my car

[@sookie4195]

@@findpurpose6300 I don’t think she will leave her dad and her little boy alone now that her mother is gone.

[@MsIsrael48]

@@findpurpose6300 They can get a 2 bedroom apartment

[@MsIsrael48]

@@sookie4195 They can get a 2 bedroom apartment and have dad and boy live with her.

[@katherinezp]

No jobs asking poor guy for money. Ridiculous 😅

[@evaivvy2950]

What money? He said he got no money.

[@sookie4195]

I’m not sure where she has gotten money for her and her family to survive if she wasn’t working. Hopefully she can find a job. I was wondering who was going to pay for the funeral? David is a big guy and went up the steps and so did TLC. TLC needs to step in and help. David and Sheila both get paid to be on this show. I really don’t think that house is worth fixing. Sheila has skills on the phone and a lot of customer service representatives are from that area now. I talked to one young lady, and could hear a rooster in the background.

[@michhall0103]

Yeah Unfortunately Only the American Person gets paid, But Of Course if they are a good decent person no matter what happens they Should Share it with the Foreign person

[@user-rv5xg2nf5c]

Dave was sending her money

[@tabbyc3970]

I also believe they broke that house with those heavy cameras!

[@mainelypinay3962]

I'm a Filipino so I know this. Basing on the coffin of Sheila's mother looks like it was provided by the government. In the Philippines very low income families are illegible to seek help in their local government if they can not afford funeral expenses, government may supply them with very cheap coffin, like what Sheila's mom is in. Then we have a concept of "bayanihan" this means in the neighborhood your live in people start fundraising to help out neighbors in time of needs. Like unexpected funeral service. Relatives and family also send money to help out for the rest of funeral expenses, sometimes gambling is promoted during the funeral vigil to raise fund for the family.

[@sookie4195]

@@mainelypinay3962Thank you.

[@user-ft1iy3tt7r]

He is such a good caring understanding man

[@guttenaug947]

TLC is making millions off this show, they can’t help her build a home for Pennies there? Please this is straight up exploitation and free labor.

[@UserName-iq7uu]

If he has 2 jobs, then she should get 1 🤨

[@rachelflower8826]

I agree! Does anybody know why she doesn't have a job? I'm just curious.

[@im.vanessa.santos]

In countries like Philippines, there are more job seekers than jobs available. That's why many who have jobs are underemployed. For instance, to be a cashier in a clothing store, one has to be an accountant. Those bank tellers are also either Certified Public Accountant or at least accounting graduates. Cashiers and sales ladies in malls have to be college graduates too. Most jobs have age requirement of late 20s or early 30s because they consider that people at this age range are less likely to get sick and miss work. Many companies also prefer hiring singles without kids because of lesser likelihood again to miss work when child gets sick or other stuff. It's very competitive and has fewer opportunities, unlike here in the U.S. where there are job opportunities for anyone.

[@hanzdoingthings847]

There are little nuances that the interpreter missed, and while I know it would have been way harder without her .. I do think it's important to not skip over, or add your own words, to some of the things that are being said. I wish them luck!

[@madpharmtech]

It would be nice if Sheila would try signing along with the translator to help her learn.

[@Jinx4you]

i actually like this couple and i hope they make it

[@isaidwhatisaidsis]

Don't be because he's not afraid to ask you for a**

[@danielatanner6762]

😂

[@dsolis9470]

He is already doing so much for her and her family... These people are under the misconception that Americans are rich.

[@saradostal3076]

After listening to the sign language translator, I'm lost for words. She bumbled what was really said, and also i blame TLC for what looks like it sounds like a poor attempt at an edit to give viewers the wrong impression of them.

[@Lizza777x]

omg leave that broke and dusty man haha

[@jking-]

Who?

[@AuntieFairy]

It’s literally $500 to fix all of the house issues. $500! I think they can manage

[@Lizbeth7799]

She must be really poor!

[@AuntieFairy]

@@Lizbeth7799 in the Philippines 🇵🇭 a place like hers is $60 a month for rent. Sixty dollars.

[@Trinidancr]

Translator is leaving a lot out

[@dollparts4918]

Sheila is in a rough situation. It isn’t easy in the Phillipines. I really feel for her.

[@paulaquino2759]

Shiela is not a golddigger. Her poverty and destitution is real. I believe Sheila and her family are grateful for any assistance David can provide. I hope this works out for both of them.

[@musingwanderer2765]

This is such a hard conversation with so many emotions through the screen. I really can feel Sheila is embarrassed to ask for help and has a lot of pride. David is also very hesitant to help, perhaps due to his own finance limitation or doubts about Sheila. This is just tough and I feel their rs won’t survive cos Shiela may really need someone who can help more.

[@happysweetpotato6971]

The interpreter is frustrating me. She didn't translated it all 🙄

[@dollliebush8512]

Shelia is nothing like Jasmine milking Gino

[@helenm4574]

Action speak louder than words .. you look very disappointed bcoz he cant afford ...

[@lauren4078]

Sheila needs to make efforts to contribute also. David is willing to help, so she needs to be willing to do her part as well.

[@Nono38-jj1tk]

After he and the heavy film crew walked up and down the stairs, the staircase loosened and the mother is now deceased. The least he can do is help her fix the home. She had a job before they kept large giant corporations and str1p clu bs open but wouldn't allow any one else to work. She should find a non dusty and get provided for. Her life hasn't been easy at all.

[@notsureiL]

​​@@Nono38-jj1tkDamn TLC should pay for the expenses if it is the case :/ They should know better. The film crew, all the equipment.

[@Vintagestylewins]

Asking a woman in poverty to put in more work??? That doesn’t make sense mate

[@soahsmith1995]

or find ED 😂 I'm sure he"ll pay for it @@Nono38-jj1tk

[@nancyayala2217]

I don’t believe her at all

[@Djozze1]

I hate when people tell me they got no job but are sitting in front of me sipping a beer. 🤣 jaja bro

[@kimberlylewis2185]

👏👏👏👏👏 Amen

[@shelleycollins7390]

He shouldn't have to pay for it

[@sherryjennings9542]

I think TLC should help fix her situation, they most likely will be a couple on the next season. If not it's just nice to be nice. A little help can go a long way.ijs❤

[@eebeth1]

Literally just asked for money and then says “I don’t want his money”….🤨 but she does and when he brought up the topic of her getting a job so she can contribute THEN she doesn’t wanna talk about it 😂. Seems legit 😂😂😂

[@anne19777]

I genuinely think that if the situation didn't take place as it did, she wouldn't really be asking this of him. She didn't come across as a gold digger, she just really genuinely needed help financially to make sure another similar accident doesn't take place. I'm sure if she was only doing it for the money then she would've already been asking/demanding it of him prior to meeting him. David seems like a really level headed and kind guy and I'm sure he's smart enough to see which is which.

[@MaryJaneBluntkevinalvizurez]

I feel like women looking for financial security is not gold digging, gold digging is when the girl is planning to get the money and leave, financial security means she just wants a man who can provide for a family and isn’t that the ultimate goal

[@tfpauliina]

I like the couple, not gold-digger or fame-digger couple.

[@luxuryhomes8889]

GIVE ME MONEY!!!! NOW!!!!!!!

[@WendyRichards-uq3cu]

She knew from the beginning of their friendship/relationship that when he saw the condition of her house; he would offer to fix it for them. He didn't... so now she's asking him.

[@joerudnik9290]

He had already sent her $3000 to help her with the house/expenses.

[@biljanacvjetinovic6204]

She needs to get a job,and help him to fix the house!!!

[@boosqueezy2418]

can she get a job?

[@caribbeanteacher4810]

Why then did u sleep with her if u have your doubts? Now shè needs your help sir, fix 1 room at a time.

[@cindiaervin8599]

She don't want to work

[@rafaelrotellini7141]

Why no help that women?? Is just 1000 us dollars

[@tomiko2683]

i cant stand when translators dont translate and seem to just interpret their understanding of what is being said.. if you are going to translate then translate or these shows should at least provide a translator that actually translates word for word but i guess if they did that then the issues that arise from miscommunication issues would cause them drama points 🤔

[@defense-debate4682]

Just get her a house it wuld be cheaper

[@FionaChandoll]

Man it's tough. Not only does she need to get a good grasp of the English language she also needs to learn ASL.

[@spiritedaway99]

she can't get a job? what were she doing before she met him? or while speakin to each other, how did she afford a phone and internet cnx and clothes nd that straight her even I can't afford a hairstraightener 😅!! frankly i doubt the fact he didn't send her money.. she genuine? i don't think so..

[@michhall0103]

Her Hair is Naturally Straight

[@biancajade728]

Considering tlc were likely the ones who weakened the stairs more with their weight they should be paying for it. Her mom just died , so it's not her being lazy and why she is upset . If some fat people broke your stairs killing your mom and did not offer to pay and were filming this and not paying you , sure you would be ticked off too. People are sure fast to call her a golddigger but look past this explotive crap coming from America. Should watch the Cost of Fashion.

[@debbyvibbert3177]

Needs to ask translator about locating more honest carpenter that doesn't double cost because he's an American.

[@user-hq1ph2se3i]

She may seem genuine, but they always have an agenda. She definitely needs some money from him. Its not his responsibility to fix her house. Not at all.

[@MamiTT237]

Girl! Stop! He had enough money to drag his ass over there! And I bet he ain’t embarrassed to ask for some 🐱!!! Deaf OR NOT! A man is a man! And closed mouths don’t get fed!!! Your 🐱is sacred, money comes and goes honey!

[@juliadeangelio1261]

I think Sheila and David are perfect, it's just a bad situation that she has no money, and he has not enough to help, especially when he saw the house in such a disray she went she would, she really needs a go fund me play to help her because he can't do it all. Himself I'm sure he would if he could.

[@user-fs2nl6kt5x]

The classic line "I don't want your money". However she keeps crying about how desperately needs money. That is asking and wanting money. He's going to give you money because he feels bad for you. She definitely does want him for money.

[@Peach1111hime]

Definitely. She sought out someone who could help her, nothing more. Imo.

[@user-fs2nl6kt5x]

@@Peach1111hime There's lots of handsome filipino guys where she's at but they're all broke. They don't have 2₱ to rub together.

[@소불고기]

there are no "handome filipinos"

[@mindflowmotivations6575]

He suggests : “ I am working two jobs now and paying all I can . Maybe you can get a job and help me “ She dismisses him with “ we can discuss that later “ Sits on other side of the table not close to him at all :(

[@PurposelyObtuse]

Of course because work isn’t available in every country. Maybe he can get a better paying job…

[@mindflowmotivations6575]

@@PurposelyObtuse maybe she could put some effort in herself or learn how to fix it if he bought her the tools

[@AngelViews]

what with these hats, I seen another couple with the same ones 🤔

[@LukeDaDrifter-lj2nh]

Because he can't afford to fix your shack of a house now you question if he can support you and your son?😳

[@sheiscrystalmichelle1014]

I’m rooting for them and I have only seen short clips ! So that speaks volumes

[@Steven-tl8fs]

Hey when you get a Filipino lady you get her family too.

[@Curious_KJ]

That's kinda how marriage works anywhere imo. Idk why some men think they can separate a woman from her family. In marriage, two families become one for better or worse.

[@Steven-tl8fs]

@keith2368 Not everywhere. Mostly Filipino females. An American man will marry the Filipino lady and bring her to the US but she will want her whole family to come also.

[@isabellancali5388]

@@Steven-tl8fsin a way, that’s kinda true. My uncle married a lady from Guam and built her parents a home there. Her sister couldn’t afford to take care of her three sons so he adopted them as his own; they live in USA and all serve in different branches of the military. He later returned to Guam and built himself his own home with his wife. He’s retired and living there now. They have been married for over 30+ years.

[@Banana12813]

Someone needs to do a go fund me for sheila I swear I will put money into it. She's not a scammer and her home broke my heart

[@royharper2003]

Why doesn't she use some of her payment from the show to fix up the house?

[@aliengranpa]

I've never seen this show but that woman looks like she would kill you in your sleep

[@KatharinaK117]

AMEN! The dude cnt find a decent woman in the States or in his culture range? Ridiculous! They are only after visa n money n you marry a whole bunch!

[@Simonesanderss]

She is very serious and it seems that she has living a tough life. But I feel that she is a good person.

[@kimberlylewis2185]

🤔 I really think it is so interesting that you said that.

[@bkellersanders]

Why does she need an interpreter? She’s speaking fine alone 😒

[@markusolofzon]

The interpreter translates for both of them. She doesn’t know sign language and he does not read lips.

[@jking-]

​@@markusolofzoni think David should date the interpreter and she luk way better without those Harry Potter glasses

[@SeminarioMAE]

To advance the plot.

[@Magginoodle]

It would be understandable if she has no money because she lives in poverty and is asking her boyfriend to help out. But when a woman asks for money because she says she has no job but then is not so willing to look for work and chip in the near future, then that’s a red flag. Then she’s not poor because of unfortunate circumstances, but merely a choice to be that way… definitely not so innocent at that point.

[@jacquelynn2051]

Oh puhLEASE. I can’t with these people.

[@claudiacamama3623]

I hope I’m wrong, my concern is the interpreter. She’s not really interpreting what Sheila is trying to tell David. It lacks the genuine emotion coming from Sheila that if David doesn’t have the money it’s ok and that she doesn’t want to force it. Sheila should find a male interpreter. I have a feeling that the interpreter is falling for David 😢.

[@michhall0103]

I don't think the interpreter is falling for him, I just think She doesn't know ASL as Well as She Says or Should and I Agree a Male and One that Knows ASL to a Tee would Be 💯 Percent better

[@DarkHairedCurlyOne]

Why are we fixing a house if she's leaving for the u.s to be with him. And it seems like she doaent wanna work

[@Travis-pv8vj]

Why was she on a dating site for deaf Americans? She isn't deaf, doesn't know anyone thats deaf, and doesn't know sign language??? What does she see in him?

[@sookie4195]

She is hearing impaired they said in the beginning.

[@teresesegura1128]

She also said eventually she will lose all her hearing.

[@michhall0103]

She is Hard of Hearing and has a Hearing Aide She Showed it. And You didn't see her Yelling in her Mother's Ear?? Her Mother seemed almost Deaf herself

[@joannharrington2279]

It's a tough situation.

[@dianne7184]

Does the American Red Cross have jurisdiction for families in that part of the world? Maybe she should explore agencies that may be able to help renovating her family's house.

[@jessicacoyle6502]

From what I read TLC doesn’t pay the cast much it’s super messed up

[@royharper2003]

well it's not like they are Tom Cruise. They get $1,000 to $1,500 per episode. That's a lot of money in the Phillipines.

[@jessicacoyle6502]

@@royharper2003 the foreigners don’t get paid on the show it’s only the Americans that get paid which is the messed up part in the Cassa said they only receive $5000 a month sometimes less

[@jessicacoyle6502]

Cast*

[@royharper2003]

@@jessicacoyle6502 foreigners get paid if they are in their country. They don't get paid if they are in the US without a work permit.

[@margaretbareh3166]

Sheila is a good nice girl.she umis living a hard life but only want a bit of support.i hope both will be able to cope with the hardship s

[@caradonnelly7335]

This makes me cry