The most painful feeling is when you have moved ahead in your life and your loved one is still alone thinking about you! Its painful for both. So, the best solution is to move ahead and find a true love again. Being alone will create an emptiness in your life and haunt you for the rest of your life. Believe me... with wife and kids, you will not have time to even think about your first love :) .. Life is short.. JUST LET GO and MOVE ON!!!!
@kavithak41004 жыл бұрын
If u truly loved once, u will never forget that, until the death. U can love ur better half, love ur kids and love ur life bt never forget that love happend once,If its true and divine..💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞
@manzoors55813 жыл бұрын
Sad truth sister. Abroad life is so bad life with out family
Moving on doesn't mean that you get married and have kids with another person. You need to get over that previous love before you even commit to another person, as it's unfair to them. Marriage doesn't fix everything. Lots of people are in unhappy marriages because of this - they think it's some magic formula that will fix problems - no true.
@versatileliz4 жыл бұрын
i watched this more than 10 times, but still crying at the last scene. one of my best indian movies. 99 and jannu couldn't give you the same feeling you have experienced in 96. awesome. love it, 96!
@Coloratura433 жыл бұрын
Watching to cry
@nitya255 жыл бұрын
I love when Ram says "enakku pasikkardadhu", like he is finally hungry again after all these years of feeling empty without Janu. So much expressed with just his eyes in this one phrase - outstanding.
@Guru_Deeps4 жыл бұрын
நல்ல ஆழமான பார்வை
@kadekayu44394 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the explanation🙏 what's the expression ❤️ Live his eye and smile ❤️❤️
@tamils44363 жыл бұрын
He said “Enakku pasikkuthu” not pasikarathu maami
@prerajvarker6 жыл бұрын
Loved this movie, love how they both knew their limits and didn't cross the lines especially since one of them was married.
@moganvera51695 жыл бұрын
exactly wat u said is true prerajvarker
@prakashk40765 жыл бұрын
such a manly movie! what a performance in their acting.... Kudos to Vijay and Trisha!
@tradersrehab89764 жыл бұрын
Romba mukkiyam...padathula Vera edum kannukku therilaya...???..limit pathi pesikkittu
@jestikiran65974 жыл бұрын
Very true...
@jestikiran65974 жыл бұрын
Very true...
@jeil46496 жыл бұрын
Guys the movie is like a poem. But movie is not real life. Never spoil anyones precious life by living in the past. Let it go and be +ve. Never get depressed watchig this kind of movies This emotion is well portraited in this movie with great ambience and music.that is the skill of the director. Dont fall into that, especially those who lost their love. I have heard that Love is mad and that will be cured by marriage. It is totally a different feeling after marriage, as we have to face a lot of realities in life after that. So the best thing is LOVE THE ONE WHOM YOU MARRY, SINCERELY.
@amalshah406 жыл бұрын
Yes .if u were living in past it will be the way to depression and same time don't live in future become more serious ..... Anxious disorder...simply you cannot live in past or future... Be alive ...live in present. Live today. This movie is a good but not in real life.
@Priti806 жыл бұрын
good said !!
@muhammadzafeer87636 жыл бұрын
Yeah if u want to love the person u marry..... marry the person you love
@thusivijiyaga44315 жыл бұрын
சூப்பர்.
@peaces40135 жыл бұрын
V well said👏👏
@dr.leenageorge40834 жыл бұрын
What an acting... Vijay sethupathi... In the beginning, Ram was unable to look at Jaanu's eyes. In the end he can't take off his eyes from her... Trisha also has done justice to the character.... Each glance at him is full of love..
@rasi39873 жыл бұрын
what a scenes. I do not think there will be another movie like this forever. The story brings tears in our eyes.
@pvijaya763 жыл бұрын
I love how Vijay and Trisha portrayed their roles so well. Here the love between them has turned into bhakthi. Its impossible to forget the love one has for another. But the respect that turned into Bhakthi is the purest form of love. I absolutely so adore this movie. I don' t mind buying a copy of this movie so I can watch anytime in my life to be inspired.
@medavi183 жыл бұрын
Pls dont confuse bhakti with all this reel stories
@tamils44363 жыл бұрын
@@medavi18 in real life, with this much intense emotion will change to intimacy which will lead to cross the limits at any time when they stay together.
@medavi183 жыл бұрын
@@tamils4436 exactly ..every posibility is there..hahaha...
@tamils44363 жыл бұрын
@@medavi18 true bro. This actors in movies makes this emotions stronger and gives us heart ache. But in real life it’s different.
@medavi183 жыл бұрын
@@tamils4436 Thats why people who watch love stories like this should keep it in their head its just movie and not real life. I dont think her husband would be pleased if he knows that she had spent a nite with her ex-boyfriend.
@rajinirajini55735 жыл бұрын
The movie attracted me so much. Not everyone has the opportunity to meet lost love, have to be blessed. The last part, when she closed his eyes, omggg, killing
@manimani-qq1zr2 жыл бұрын
only people who loved truly can feel that pain
@mysterywoman81586 жыл бұрын
This is a once in a lifetime movie. Feeling sooo lucky I'm living in the same timeline as this movie. Soo painful...
@pratapscorpio13 жыл бұрын
That smile of Trisha when vijay recites the poem is just amazing
@muhammadjubair2485 жыл бұрын
Extraordinary movie especially climax scene when Jaanu leaving Ram,i cried.
@jadenrosmerah98165 жыл бұрын
Love the way Trisha express her emotional scenes....beautiful
@leothannikal5 жыл бұрын
After watching the movie we realized that how lucky we are. We fell in love at our school.. we carried on and we happily married and living happily with our 2 kids..just the thought of being separated like this filled our eyes with tears
@lalitap20674 жыл бұрын
idc
@sandhyaraghuraman71714 жыл бұрын
We too... Ours is love marriage from school..it's a nice feeling to see this movie
@shivycheerzz124 жыл бұрын
God bless
@mjshelby80225 ай бұрын
You are really lucky couples 😢
@Y1kdeno4 ай бұрын
Yes, we too.. Really, my first love was successful and happily living with 2 kids. I can't imagine like this life. Still, we love each other ❤❤❤❤
@thekkeveettil235 жыл бұрын
Pure love...not even a single bit of lust....really romantic movie...maybe impossible to see such a story in celluloid or even in real life anymore
@marlyngeorge15374 жыл бұрын
Pure love between two people with no bad intentions or crossing the line. Superb movie, lovely songs & amazing actors.
@moviefantollywood7413 жыл бұрын
Vijay sethupathi can show lot of feelings in his eyes. Excellent artist
@jaisutha88286 жыл бұрын
I was crying when see the last part... he keep her clothes into his memory box 😭😭😭 the most painful moments.. all become memorable things again.. he knows she no more for him but, but he still love her forever.. LOVE is very pure. what a story and BGM.. love it Know is just a movie but, myself cannot move after the movie finish for few minutes. For the last part. Awasome acting my hero VS. 😘
@archanasatish67575 жыл бұрын
❤️........................
@prakashk40765 жыл бұрын
Yes, absolutely right
@rejirajesh16695 жыл бұрын
❤️
@bindhushibu50775 жыл бұрын
I was sitting in the theatre 15 minutes after the movie....my husband said take your time ....i will wait outside with kids..... after 15 minutes the light was on ...the clear came inside for cleaning... i want to get up and move...but I couldn't....I saw a person after 3 seats apart...he was slowly getting up and crossed infront of me....on the way he gave some tissues to wipe my tears and he said get up sis....this is film....
@ajinubabu65285 жыл бұрын
bindhu shibu ho enthoru thallu.. pulli tissue kondu nadakkuvarunno?? 🤣 however this movie is awesome and that kind of husband you have is wonderful if it would be mine .. omg he would have made me to to run the whole place if I would sit there and think about my ex😆😆 happy for you
@jayashreesankar85576 жыл бұрын
The pain of separation is unbearable I just broke into tears
@prathapji1983 жыл бұрын
True . Im going through this
@wegotthis30312 жыл бұрын
I have repeated this scene a lot of times and it hurts even more everytime. My ex is in India. We broke up 5 years ago and I tried so hard to keep the friendship somehow. Now, he even sends me pic of him and his future wife while I am still here, hoping he will one day come back😔
@joshi40872 жыл бұрын
last 25 years am waiting for a come back.
@sun2020able Жыл бұрын
but they didn't break up in this movie. they both loved but could never express it. you broke up after fighting. don't equate. that is not true love
@sridevikothandapani6285 жыл бұрын
Trisha has mastered in acting such roles.. jessy, jaanu..she knew how to act in such confusing roles in love... love pananuma venama nu she itself didn't know
@Hani111125 жыл бұрын
I really want life partner like ram he is so natural without understanding the words this scene make me cry 😭 i love u vijay after i watched vikram vedha i fall in love with u again this 96 oh my god you won my heart again and again 😭😭😭
@sadiamonsoor64255 жыл бұрын
I watched Kavan and became his fan.
@kadekayu44394 жыл бұрын
96 is the first movie From Vjs I watched and become his fan's ❤️
@kingofbreeze5 жыл бұрын
Trisha's closure of VJS eyes tells all - awesome performance by both.
@sangeethasangeee4 жыл бұрын
As some people discuss here, none of them living in the past. Sometimes, when we meet some people, we have nostalgic feelings. Amongst those feelings, ones childhood, their first love, close friends, ones native(motherland) are very special. We cannot touch the same running water twice. Life is like that. But we can think and cherish the taste it gave. Who knows what and who life will bring back to us? Whoever was, whoever is, whoever will be, learn to celebrate each and every person and moment in life.
@Fitandfab1924 жыл бұрын
You said it sooooo beautifully. Especially those words ..you can’t touch the running water twice!! There is a sweetness in the nostalgic pain.
@varunam71563 жыл бұрын
👏👍
@ahalikaisuthaharan22013 жыл бұрын
Well said
@rajyalakshmiputcha13414 жыл бұрын
Youth should watch this movie. One or more times. Learn how to love a person with great affection and respect. No one should regret their life if one can't Mary his / her lover. Just move on. There might be another loving person waiting for you. Don't take any negative steps in life towards you and your lover. Let them live their marital life. Especially boys, nowadays we are seeing somany acidattack cases and murder cases. It's really awesome movie, one should learn how to love their partners with great respect and love.
@k.thevaananth31686 жыл бұрын
Trisha had killed it ! The best movie of trisha !! No other actress in the world can win her !! God bless Trisha.....
@lathavicky10486 жыл бұрын
K.thevà Ananth yes trisha is the best actress in the world
@katikamalika91606 жыл бұрын
Trisha...is my dream grail...I can't forget my life...my girlfriend is same looking...Trisha I love trisha 🌷🌷⚘⚘❤
@raveenkumar8275Ай бұрын
Lol is this a joke? She cant even win a national award in India. Most of the actresses in Bollywood can win her
@ramalingam115 жыл бұрын
Magical. In Indian cinema only Tamil movie directors will come out with this kind of mesmerising movies more frequently.
@angelinageorge61966 жыл бұрын
What a movie...❤️Especially the last scene... Wish everyone gets to see their lost love atleast once...
@venkateshsv74346 жыл бұрын
angelina george I hope 🤞
@jaisutha88286 жыл бұрын
I'm waiting for the moments for past 10 years.. HOPE
@imsatheesh6 жыл бұрын
I wish to have . Hope to c you .
@neetyaaparan68096 жыл бұрын
Exactly the gear part was so touching,it was actually natural n really a pure love, actually i hoped for both of them to be together but this separation was the uniqueness of 96
@angelinageorge61966 жыл бұрын
I've been waiting for like 15 years...
@ashichethana22684 жыл бұрын
This scene I couldn't forget yet.this is a movie. But that pain can feel. What a amazing acting from vijay sir and Trisha. One of the best best movie I have seen.
@subashbose37075 жыл бұрын
மறுபடியும் 96ல வாழணும்... 😍😍😍 “சொல்லாமலே யார் பார்த்தது”
@Mrsshobhasri3 жыл бұрын
This movie is a slow poison,a lot of memories for me every time watch this film I feel not to cry but I can’t so much pain n feeling heavy..Soul touching movie
@rajinirajini55733 жыл бұрын
Me too
@hiruniabeysinghe34113 жыл бұрын
Why does it feel so real yar ...why am I even crying I really don't know .... the best movie I've watched ever
@aamirbhatti76 жыл бұрын
I watched this movie 2 or 3 time in theater & cry a lot each time I saw That's call true love where not even single kiss from beginning till the end One of my all time fvrt movie 96, I love it.
@jayatrrk5 жыл бұрын
Thrisha...one of the tamil actress wasted by the tamil film industry making her to act only in commercial films.. Love to see her acting in nice roles like this movie..
@raveenkumar8275Ай бұрын
How has she been wasted? She has just been a mediocre actress all along.
@mikegoals854 жыл бұрын
Still watching in 2020 decent movie great acting and the music wow.
@Akw20224 жыл бұрын
The most painful feeling is when you have moved ahead in your life and your loved one is still alone thinking about you!
@miyaanthony6213 жыл бұрын
In this movie, I dont think she has moved on as well, getting married doesnt mean that one has let gone of the past.
@veerabadgran67256 жыл бұрын
How many love stories or epics may come, but this movie will be best pics ever like DDLJ. Hats off to this director
@bluerobin75834 жыл бұрын
You had me until you said DDLJ
@vishnuchandran21263 жыл бұрын
It’s not just a film....it’s a poem❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@RajaRaja-kw5bk4 жыл бұрын
Real 96 love movie ennoda palliparuvakadhal thirumbugiradhu marakkamudiavillai great movie
@neetyaaparan68096 жыл бұрын
This is called true love and the love between ram and jannu is really pure,definitely one a love story like this but making sure both of us will be together😂😂
@kavithavimal15396 жыл бұрын
Asd
@ignatiusmary46935 жыл бұрын
a wonderful film in which love is not carnal pleasure is proved.. Deep love is beyond possessing the person. -
@meenakrishnan87786 жыл бұрын
U make me cry.....the music...omg.... amazing
@rahmanmoti Жыл бұрын
tears comes to eyes. i feel their pain. feel also my love. love from Bangladesh.
@anushapeddiraju62144 жыл бұрын
I loved the climax got tears.. true love exists..
@sindhumadhavan885 жыл бұрын
It's been 9 years I miss my ex a lot..this movie made me burst out into tears..I am living rams life
@priyankaramahagammullage28925 жыл бұрын
Sindhu Madhavan U r a good human But Pls don’t waste ur life on past
@manimani-qq1zr2 жыл бұрын
don’t waste ur life.. just move with things make u happy.. another person who loves you will see the world differently
@mufeedhmohammed89326 жыл бұрын
Lost love is more painful but it is great emotion when you look back . Oh' that innocent romance in schools is sacred...and the real..
@antonys65694 жыл бұрын
Watching this scene in london...my heart goes back to chennai my past life😞
@taravarghese4356 жыл бұрын
Trisha nailed the last scene!
@firthouskamaludeen23595 жыл бұрын
I can't control my tears during climax scenes
@azizbarbhaya4 жыл бұрын
Reality of life strikes hard and the best way is accepting it with a smile.and moving on. #realityoflife
@shebishebi11116 жыл бұрын
Mr. Govind Vasantha... What a BGM man.. Hoooo...
@cinurajan41154 жыл бұрын
I loved this movie and a had watched the movie 15 movies. Tamil version is the best ever and both Vijay and Trisha were excellent .Prem Sir direction was superb and it complimented with Vasanth Govinda(Govind Menon) music and bgm was super.
@Awaregirl4 жыл бұрын
Has anyone noticed the time? It’s 4.44 am. So perfect, angelic
@seenaps20986 жыл бұрын
Its true that we should let our past go but this movie was a kind of my life and finally I got my lover back 😍after 16 years .I am so thankful to God.
@abcd903405 жыл бұрын
seena ps good to know . God bless
@karthikg68825 жыл бұрын
Nijama va solra....🤔🤔🤔
@awesomegamer98715 жыл бұрын
seena ps 😮 wow
@muteebmujtaba7545 жыл бұрын
Amazing is the turn of life
@geminiganesh78855 жыл бұрын
11/7/19 I see many people asking for part 2 but this movie made such an impact people will criticise and wont accept 2nd part even if it is better than this. somethings are best left as it is so it lives forever .
@tamils44363 жыл бұрын
Part 2 Will be illegal affair or divorce
@ausamaamu69235 жыл бұрын
No one can see. Last scenes with out tears😓😓😓
@enjoylife22403 жыл бұрын
All ppl are not living like this..there are ppl who say ill not marry anyone except you..but now living very happily with their spouse..if both doesnt have the same intensity of love then only love wins..or it is just acting..according to me if someone can love someone and live with other happily without thinking their past then actually they didnt had true love in the first place..if you really had true love..it can be only once and even if you marry other person you cant live with them happily
@tamils44363 жыл бұрын
Exactly !!! If Jaanu loves that much and wants to touch his hands by placing hers in the gear lever, she can divorce her unhappy married life and get back to Ram and live happily. But here she just cry and make her impact again on Ram and make him fall more deeper in to the past again.
@hjglaps10114 жыл бұрын
I dnt knw hw many times I watched nvr get bored.. The fellings nvr gone my ♥️...
@chandrakala41094 жыл бұрын
Me too same Have watched this movie numerous times but didn't get bored at all
@sridevikothandapani6285 жыл бұрын
I use to sing this song everytime since my college ragging... But this song in 96 is so important for my VJS
@shamonshameer29294 жыл бұрын
Feeling Movies😢
@ssayana48926 жыл бұрын
Vijay sethupathi is THE CUTEST.
@victorarunachalam89544 жыл бұрын
எத்தனை மூறை பார்த்தாலும் சலிக்காத காதல் காவியம். முதல் காதல் ஜோடிகளின் (ஆதாம் ஏவால்்) செய்த.பாவத்தால் "அன்பு"என்ற உறவுக்கு பெறும் துயரம் உள்ளது இந்த மண்ணுலகில்.அது தலைமுறை தலைமுறையாக பின் தொடர்கிறது.
@teebahsangaran73226 жыл бұрын
Yelarukkum ippadi ore boy life partner ra kadaicha. Anthe life romba2 hpy ya irukkum. Love is gift frm god.
@devabuma99246 жыл бұрын
nice...tq
@ahamedahamed53974 жыл бұрын
Kidaikirathu rombe kastam😭😭😭😭😭
@tamils44363 жыл бұрын
After he becomes life partner things will change
@kalaivanichandran4 жыл бұрын
En vazkaiyilum inthe pondre sambavam..... Wen ever i watched tis scene automatically i was think abt dat... The pain can't explain by words...
@haleelrahman57904 жыл бұрын
Nanum ethu padam illa life
@kalasunder68184 жыл бұрын
Even after months passed since I saw this movie there is a pain a prick somewhere in my heart...
@madangowri67115 жыл бұрын
உயிர் உள்ள படம்😍😢😢
@ALBUMOF20086 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😭 haven’t cried this hard in a longgggg time
@malanithi43035 жыл бұрын
So nice movie very hard pain to leave the first love. If married we hv to loyal in out marriage life. I cry after I watch this movie so sad I keep praying they must be together end story . But end up 👍👍
@nandhakumar-tf3lw8 ай бұрын
வளந்த பின்பு வரும் தைரியம் சிறு வயதில் வருவதில்லை, அதனால்தான் வாழ்நாள் முழுவதும் நரக வேதனை 😂😭🤔🤣
@sharonousmand2599Ай бұрын
Gosh!!! Can’t stop crying no matter how many times I watch this
@ritalama90484 жыл бұрын
This is the one and only best movie of my life that I never forget.
@Wazirking17056 жыл бұрын
One of the beautiful love story in tamil cinema...
@ajiththanan28425 жыл бұрын
Sooper movie don’t worry about negativity because people accepted salangai oli in 80’s
@ignatiusmary46935 жыл бұрын
Beautiful relationship, heavenly love.
@ajoh25484 жыл бұрын
We were in love ❤️ but we both didn't bother to word it out...... One day he said he is coming to see me in the railway station ... I didn't believe it..... But he was waiting for me there with His cute smile..... 4.30 am in the morning..... I was shocked..... Felt to cry out.... Felt I wanna die that moment..... Many people know me there....... I walked into a dark place and he followed me... I wanted to hug him.... I wanted to kiss him.....wanted to hold his hands.... But Instead of doing all this I just asked him how are you going back? ..... And walked towards the gate... Looked back to see him as he was following me..... When I got into my car I saw him standing by the gate smiling at me..... That was the last time I saw him.... Still regretting about what I did.... But that was the only thing I could do as an engaged girl( with someone else). It kills me even after 12 years...
@excluzointernational57933 жыл бұрын
Shit !! That’s a mistake one should not do !! Life goes on .. enjoy it ..
@sahadubai94532 жыл бұрын
I'm waiting 96 part 2
@SN-ug4qe5 жыл бұрын
Never felt this pain before. But now I'm feeling it
@hjglaps10114 жыл бұрын
Whn ever 🥃 I feel my past ND I cme here watch this scene 😭
@vairamuthumuthu75852 жыл бұрын
Great it's first and last with two members life feel first love affection and last in airport like each two members,are last friendship love is end of life god is great, world is beauty and unbelivable and what will happen,anytime anywhere to be continued.................
@sagunraja16173 жыл бұрын
Enna movie ppppaaaaaaa watched more than 50 times……Iam lucky to marry who I loved more than anything in this world ….illainaa naanum jaanu maathirithaan
@asmashafeeq8874 жыл бұрын
One of the best movie ever I watched. Both are excellent performance. It takes me to my campus life.
@jasminenasru28245 жыл бұрын
Uff what a movie.. climax 😢😪
@goodhumaninworld58644 жыл бұрын
That one last touch from ram...epic 😢
@kumarjyothsna88396 жыл бұрын
Just killed.... remain memories... Some memories can never be replaced...
@archanasatish67575 жыл бұрын
Look at the comment section Majority of ladies have commented ❤️
@gunasekar37213 жыл бұрын
இந்த படத்த எத்தனையோ முறை பார்த்துவிட்டேன்..ஒவ்வொரு முறை பார்க்கும் பொழுதும் புதுசா இருக்கு..ஆனா (இந்த நேரத்துல உன்கிட்ட ஒன்னு சொல்லியே ஆகனும்னு திரிஷா சொல்லுவாங்க நம்ம தல கண்ணாலயே வேண்டாம்னு சொல்லுவாங்க)) அதான் என்னனு புரியல🤔
@mjshelby80225 ай бұрын
" Un koode irukkum pothu thaan naan santhosema irukken " nu Trisha solluvange
@mjshelby80225 ай бұрын
Athe thaan ram kannaaleye solle vendam nu solluvar 🥲
@ziyadkoyakutty9476 жыл бұрын
2018 national award winner vijai sethupathi
@SwizzChocolate0085 жыл бұрын
shut up
@trevorfernando24115 жыл бұрын
Fuck off Bitch
@ziyadkoyakutty9475 жыл бұрын
@@SwizzChocolate008 you shut up
@RS-gn8nv Жыл бұрын
That gear shift fucked the shit out of my brain. What a script. What an ending!
@jishadk.k.39604 жыл бұрын
21:03.... Music and love penetrating heart☺️
@manimani-qq1zr2 жыл бұрын
favourite scene.. no words
@kaveeneshkaveenkeveen19074 жыл бұрын
Expression superstar trisha 😍👍
@janabaiapvellasamy37375 жыл бұрын
I'm really regretting for not watching it on theatre...😂 after Paalum Phazhamum this is really awesome movie. I cried a lot while watching this scene..
@abcd-ek1rt4 жыл бұрын
After watching this movie, I contacted my "friend" after 10 years, but the person is already settled. :)
@_abisha_43754 жыл бұрын
Sha M realy????
@spectrumwaves66914 жыл бұрын
late
@samininithiyanandan21805 жыл бұрын
omggg 😢😢😢Cant control my tears while watching the last scene 😢😢😢
@sujathasuji38035 жыл бұрын
The care n respect fr Janu is touching miss tht in my life thank and I think after this movie all schools friends do reunion thank u so much fr this movie.
@jk14023 жыл бұрын
Watched many times... Tears comes out each times.. 😔😔😔
@unicorn46014 жыл бұрын
The ending just breaks me 💔
@Kaunain_khan7 ай бұрын
Man, I just finished the movie... I swear in the end I was expecting that she would tell, "I'm a single mother, will you marry me." Now I can't sleep... everything was going perfectly... KHALAS 💔
@ashimmpm5 жыл бұрын
wow... awesome acting..... my heartbroken ...amazing love story..feeling sad...
@suganthivikneshraja99006 жыл бұрын
The world's best truth, words cant express the true emotion only it reveals..
@varshachooranolickal5 жыл бұрын
Lost love is hard when you are far away but they say that you should think present and future not go back to the past missing my lover who I lost when I moved to the USA for further studies.